在浩瀚的人生舞台上，得失犹如双刃剑，时而带来喜悦，时而引发痛苦。古往今来，无数智者对此进行了深刻的思考，为我们留下了丰富的哲学遗产。今天，就让我们一同走进“得失的人生哲理”，探寻那些启迪智慧的名言警句，感悟生命的真谛。

On the vast stage of life, gains and losses are like double-edged swords, sometimes bringing joy and sometimes causing pain. Throughout history, countless wise men have deeply pondered over this, leaving us a rich philosophical heritage. Today, let us journey together into the "philosophy of life on gains and losses," exploring those enlightening proverbs and sayings, and sensing the essence of life.

1. 仁义在身而色不伐，思虞通明而辞不专。 ——三国魏儒家学者 王肃 《孔子家语·五仪解》

1. Possessing benevolence and righteousness, one does not boast in appearance; being wise and perceptive, one does not speak with exclusivity. ——From the "Analects of Confucius: Explanation of the Five Measures" by Wang Su, a Confucian scholar of the Wei Dynasty during the Three Kingdoms period.

2. 我感激所处的那个年代，在那个年代学生获得了空前的解放，不必学习那些后来注定要忘掉的无用知识。我很同情现在的学生，他们即便认识到他们是在浪费青春也无计可施。我至今坚持认为人们之所以强迫年轻人读书并以光明的前途诱惑他们仅仅是为了不让他们到街头闹事。 —— 王朔

2. I am grateful for the era I lived in, when students were granted unprecedented liberation, freed from the burden of learning knowledge that was destined to be forgotten and useless. I feel great sympathy for today's students, who are unable to do anything even when they realize they are wasting their youth. I still firmly believe that the reason why people force young people to study and诱惑 them with bright futures is solely to prevent them from causing trouble on the streets. -- Wang Shuo

3. 我不和你争论。我是个大方的人，你也没那么重要。

3. I won't argue with you. I am generous, and you're not that important either.

4. 认真对待自己，对待别人，对待生活中的点点滴滴，做一个善良的蘑菇，不在乎别人，不争论，善待身边所有的人和事。

4. Take yourself and others seriously, treat every little thing in life with care, be a kind mushroom, not caring about others, not arguing, and treat everyone and everything around you with kindness.

5. 不与世俗争论，做好自己，不在乎别人的对错。我自己也做过，我是个冷酷的人。谢谢你看不起我。

5. Do not argue with the world, do your own thing, and do not care about others' right or wrong. I have done that myself; I am a cold person. Thank you for looking down on me.

6. 很多人相信命运只是为了自己的得失。他们只看未来，很少回头看自己的命运。他们只看着自己想要却得不到的东西，却从来没有仔细想过一路走来生活给予他们的礼物。

6. Many people believe that destiny is merely about their own gains and losses. They only look forward, rarely looking back at their own fate. They are fixated on the things they desire but cannot obtain, yet they have never thought carefully about the gifts life has given them along the way.

7. 目前之耳且可涂，身后之是非难罔。 ——张廷玉

7. The ears in the present can be painted, but it is difficult to cover the right and wrong behind. ——Zhang Tingyu

8. 良知只是个是非之心。 ——王守仁

8. Conscience is merely the heart that discerns right from wrong. ——Wang Shouren

9. 人生如下棋。你走的每一步都会有得有失。请珍惜你自己，你人生的每一步都要深思熟虑。

9. Life is like a game of chess. Every move you make will have its gains and losses. Cherish yourself, and think carefully about every step you take in life.

10. 在大悲与大喜之间，在欢笑与流泪之后，我体味到前所未有的痛苦和幸福。 生活以从未有过的幸福和美丽诱惑着我深入其中。 —— 村上春树

10. Between great sorrow and great joy, after laughter and tears, I have experienced pain and happiness like never before. Life lures me into its depths with an unprecedented happiness and beauty. —— Haruki Murakami

11. 如果同一批人同时拥有制定和执行法律的权利，这就会给人们的弱点以绝大诱惑，使他们动辄要攫取权力，借以使他们自己免予服从他们所制定的法律，并且在制定和执行法律时，使法律适合于他们自己的私人利益。 —— 洛克

11. If the same people are at the same time possessed of the power of making and executing laws, this will always give the greatest temptation to abuse the power, and will enable them to make a law for themselves, to break it for themselves, and to execute it for themselves. — Locke

12. 何时何地，都要想明白，为自己而活，不要把别人的评价看得太重，只要一切都是问心无愧，就不必太在意。

12. At all times and places, be clear in your mind that you should live for yourself, do not place too much emphasis on others' opinions, as long as you have no regrets, there is no need to be overly concerned.

13. 我只想说:还是做个成熟的人好。你的心机影响不了别人的生活，不关心你不代表纵容并不是时机未到！

13. I just want to say: It's still better to be a mature person. Your cunning cannot influence others' lives, not caring about you does not mean condoning, nor does it mean the time is not yet right!

14. 春秋·孔子《论语》众人厌恶他，一定要仔细审查；众人都喜欢他，（也）一定要仔细审查。就是说一个人无论是受到大多数人的厌恶还是欢迎，我们都应该仔细分析他受欢迎或被讨厌的原因。深一层的含义是，君子应当明辨是非，不从众。

14. In the Spring and Autumn period, Confucius said in the Analects: "When the multitude dislike him, one should examine him carefully; when the multitude like him, one should also examine him carefully." This means that whether a person is disliked or favored by the majority, we should carefully analyze the reasons for their liking or dislike. On a deeper level, it implies that a gentleman should discern right from wrong and not follow the crowd.

15. 只要不计较得失，人生还有什么克服不了的？

15. As long as one does not concern oneself with gains and losses, what is there in life that cannot be overcome?

16. 利名竭，是非绝，红尘不向门前惹。 ——马致远

16. Renown and fame are exhausted, right and wrong are extinguished, the dust of the world does not stir at my front door. — Ma Zhiyuan

17. 很多事情，总是经历过之后，才知道得失不是我能决定的。就像感情，痛过之后，你会懂得保护自己；如果你很笨，你就会懂得坚持，懂得适时放弃。

17. Many things, only after experiencing them, do we realize that gains and losses are not within my control. Just like in relationships, after experiencing pain, you will learn to protect yourself; if you are naive, you will learn to persevere and know when to give up.

18. 人的价值，在遭受诱惑的一瞬间被决定。 —— 李嘉诚

18. The value of a person is determined in the moment of temptation. —— Li Ka-shing

19. 两刃相割，利钝乃知;二论相订，是非乃见。 ——王充

19. When two blades are cut against each other, their sharpness or dullness becomes known; when two arguments are debated, right and wrong become apparent. — Wang Chong

20. 幸福不在于得到的多，而在于关心的少。

20. Happiness does not lie in getting more, but in caring less.

21. 幸福不是因为你得到的多，而是因为你在乎的少！

21. Happiness is not because you get a lot, but because you care a little less!

22. 没有所谓“矢志不渝”，——只因找不到更好的， 没有所谓“难舍难离”，——是外界诱惑不够大， 若真大到足够让你离去，统统拨归于“缘尽”， 没有所谓的头也不回，——不回顾,当然是马上有了填补，无心恋战。 ……万事都在“衡量”二字。 —— 李碧华

22. There is no such thing as "everlasting fidelity" — it's just that better options aren't found. There is no such thing as "difficult to part with" — it's because the external诱惑 isn't big enough. If it really is big enough to make you leave, all can be attributed to "the end of fate." There is no such thing as turning your back without looking back — without looking back, of course, there is immediate replacement, and no desire to continue the fight. ... Everything hinges on the words "measure." — Li Bihua

23. 洒脱:我不计较个人得失；第二，我只在乎曾经拥有的，不在乎永恒；第三，如果你买得起，你可以放下，不要为别人而活。

23. Disregard: I do not care about personal gains and losses; secondly, I only care about what I have had, not about eternity; thirdly, if you can afford it, you can let go, do not live for others.

24. 众恶之，必察焉；众好之，必察焉。 ——春秋时期思想家和教育家,儒家学派创始人 孔子 《论语》 明辨是非名言

24. He who is disliked by all must be investigated; he who is liked by all must be investigated. ——Confucius, a thinker and educator of the Spring and Autumn period, and the founder of the Confucian school, a famous saying from the "Analects" on distinguishing right from wrong.

25. 人生最好的境界是丰富安静：安静是因为摆脱了外界浮名浮利的诱惑，丰富是因为拥有了内在精神世界的宝藏。 —— 周国平

25. The best state of life is a rich tranquility: tranquility because it has shed the allure of external fame and wealth, and rich because it possesses the treasures of the inner spiritual world. —— Zhou Guoping

26. 一个真正的旅行家必是一个流浪者，经历着流浪者的快乐、诱惑，和探险意念。旅行必须流浪式，否则便不成其为旅行。旅行的要点在于无责任、无定时、无来往信札、无嚅嚅好问的邻人、无来客和无目的地。一个好的旅行家决不知道他往那里去，更好的甚至不知道从何处而来。他甚至忘却了自己的姓名。 —— 林语堂

26. A true traveler must be a wanderer, experiencing the joys, temptations, and adventurous spirit of a wanderer. Travel must be in the form of wandering, otherwise it cannot be called travel. The essence of travel lies in the absence of responsibility, fixed schedules, correspondence, nosy neighbors, visitors, and a lack of purpose. A good traveler never knows where he is going, and an even better one doesn't even know where he came from. He even forgets his own name. —— Lin Yutang

27. 人生，有多少牵挂，有多少烦恼；有多少宽容就有多少欢乐。心若贪，则不断思；心若淡然，则清新自由。

27. Life has so many attachments, so many troubles; as much as there is tolerance, there is as much joy. If the heart is greedy, it is constantly thinking; if the heart is indifferent, it is fresh and free.

28. 宁肯孑然而自豪地独守信念，也莫不辨是非地随波逐流。 —— 查·丘吉尔

28. "Better to stand alone and be proud in one's beliefs than to drift with the current, uncritically." — Winston Churchill

29. 得失之间的比例和心态，只有你自己最清楚，别人不会懂。你自己心里很清楚，你也知道自己想要什么，所以不要违背自己的内心，放任自己，才能活得开心。

29. The ratio and attitude between gains and losses, only you yourself are the most aware of, others will not understand. You are very clear in your heart, and you also know what you want, so do not betray your own heart, indulge yourself, and you can live a happy life.

30. 人生就是一场戏，输赢取决于他。没事不要闲着。当你生病时，没有人能代替你。保持一个好的身体，健康和财富。心情愉快加祝福，快乐最无敌！

30. Life is a stage play, the winner or loser depends on him. Don't be idle when there's nothing to do. No one can replace you when you are sick. Maintain a good body, health, and wealth. Joy and blessings add up, happiness is invincible!

31. 利害之心生，而是非之心昏矣。 ——杨万里

31. The heart is clouded by the sense of gain and loss, and the discernment of right and wrong is obscured. — Yang Wanli

32. 春秋·孔子《孔子家语·五仪解》一个人若有仁义之心，就不会自我夸耀；考虑问题若能明辨是非，通达事理，说起话来就不会自以为是。

32. Spring and Autumn, Confucius, "The Analects of Confucius: Explanation of the Five Measures" - If a person has a heart of benevolence and righteousness, they will not boast about themselves; if they can discern right from wrong and understand the principles of things, their words will not be self-righteous.

33. 既然选择了，就不要退缩。既然付出了，就不要在意结果。既然平淡，就别指望轰轰烈烈。既然是这样，那就让他这样吧。享受生活，做自己！

33. Since you have chosen, don't back down. Since you have invested, don't worry about the outcome. Since it's mundane, don't expect a grand spectacle. Since it is this way, let it be that way. Enjoy life, be yourself!

34. 智者会谦虚，善者会宽容；只有小聪明才咄咄逼人，小善才斤斤计较。

34. The wise are humble, the good are宽容; only those with limited intelligence are pushy, and only those with limited goodness are overly concerned with minor matters.

35. 好男人:不计较个人得失的人，能占他便宜的人，好欺负的人。

35. Good man: A person who does not care about personal gains or losses, someone who can take advantage of, and someone who is easy to bully.

36. 做好自己的工作！做你现在该做的！不要和别人比！不管结果如何！享受这个过程！

36. Do your own work! Do what you should do now! Don't compare yourself with others! No matter the outcome! Enjoy the process!

37. 上班不迟到，努力工作，一日三餐，家人关爱，健康很重要，抽烟喝酒远离，忠诚善良，不在乎别人，人生一定是辉煌美好的！

37. Not being late for work, working hard, having three meals a day, family care, health is very important, staying away from smoking and drinking, being loyal and kind, not caring about others, life will definitely be brilliant and beautiful!

38. 也许这就是耀眼的馨尹，诱惑无处不在，笑靥如花，艳丽无匹。 —— 符馨尹

38. Perhaps this is the dazzling Xin Yin, with alluring presence everywhere, her smile like a flower, and her beauty unparalleled. —— Fu Xin Yin

39. 幸福就是自己容易满足，不在乎别人；而是你有你的家人，虽然不常联系，看着他们平安~幸福其实很简单，没有理由，就是很幸福！

39. Happiness is about being easily satisfied with oneself, not caring about others; it's about having your own family, even though you don't contact them often, and being at peace with them. Happiness is actually very simple, with no reason, it's just very happy!

40. 只要不计较得失，人生就没有克服不了的事！

40. As long as one does not care about gains and losses, there is nothing in life that cannot be overcome!

41. 是是非非谓之知，非是是非谓之愚。 ——〈荀子·修身篇〉

41. To recognize right and wrong is called wisdom; to fail to recognize right and wrong is called foolishness. ——From "Xunzi: Chapter on Cultivating the Self"

42. 对人没有包容，别人说的都是心里话，太累了。聪明的人知道不要去关心与自己无关的人。

42. Lack of tolerance for others, everything they say is heartfelt, it's too exhausting. Smart people know not to care about people who have nothing to do with them.

43. 诚实，像我们所有的节操一样，应当分成消极的与积极的两类。消极的诚实便是西卜女人那一种，在没有发财的机会时，她是诚实的。积极的诚实是每天受着诱惑而毫不动心的，例如收帐员的诚实。—— 巴尔扎克

43. Honesty, like all our virtues, should be divided into two categories: negative and positive. Negative honesty is the kind that women like Sébette possess; it is honest when there is no opportunity to get rich. Positive honesty is the kind that remains unmoved by daily temptation, such as the honesty of a collector. – Balzac

44. 礼所以决嫌疑、定犹豫、别同异、明是非者也。 —— 吴兢

44. Rites are used to resolve doubts, settle hesitations, distinguish between the same and the different, and clarify right and wrong. —— Wu Jing

45. 人生最大的悲哀不是失去太多，而是在乎太多，这也是一个人不快乐的重要原因。

45. The greatest sorrow in life is not losing too much, but caring too much, which is also an important reason for a person's unhappiness.

46. 人生在世，荣华富贵；看淡得失，不在乎；放下行李，轻装上阵；想开惆怅，无限快乐；振作起来，快乐起来；愿你快乐，享受生活！

46. In life, there is glory and wealth; let go of gains and losses, don't care about them; put down your luggage, go lightly; open up your melancholy, enjoy endless happiness; pick yourself up, be happy; may you be happy and enjoy life!

47. 成长与成熟:你懂得不关心别人，宽容大度，站在别人的角度理解问题，遇到一点小问题就容易生气吗？

47. Growth and Maturity: Do you know how to not care about others, be tolerant and magnanimous, understand problems from others' perspectives, and easily get angry over small issues?

48. 德行告诉人们：反抗诱惑吧，那样你才有更多的机会做出高尚的行为来。 —— 车尔厄雪夫斯基

48. Virtue teaches people: Resist temptation, and only then will you have more opportunities to act nobly. — Chernyshevsky

49. 只要用力呼吸，就能看到奇迹。一个人的幸福不是因为他拥有的多，而是因为他在乎的少。

49. Just by breathing with force, you can witness miracles. A person's happiness does not lie in what they possess, but in what they care little about.

50. 现在遇到很多诱惑，生活也不可能像在学校里面那么单纯。这些诱惑主要就是各种片约，比如有些告诉你就只要演几天，给你多少多少钱。 —— 邓超

50. Now I encounter many temptations, and life can't be as simple as it was in school. These temptations are mainly various film contracts, such as some that tell you it's just for a few days of acting, offering you so much money. —— Deng Chao