人生最好的贵人，就是努力的自己（人生最好的风景，是淡然和从容）。

The best benefactor in life is one's own hardworking self (the best scenery in life is serenity and composure).

1. 既然牵手了，就不要轻易放手。每个人的爱都是有限的，总是浪费爱，最终你会发现自己已经没有能力和勇气再去爱了！

1. Since we are holding hands, don't easily let go. Everyone's love is limited, always wasting love, and eventually you will find that you no longer have the ability or courage to love!

2. 遇到谩骂、嘲笑、冷眼的时候微笑。看淡一点，开心做自己。

2. When faced with curses, mockery, and cold glances, smile. Take things lightly, and be happy being yourself.

3. 所谓成功，是活成自己人这辈子，想要的模样:所谓幸福，是行进在实他一直仰仗他人的只会活在阴影下一味渴求他的爱们届金防入天压的染苦己的温暖自己的一年夺目耀眼，照亮自己的漫漫长途。

3. What is called success is living out the image that one wants to be in this life: what is called happiness is progressing with the assurance of relying on others, but only living in the shadows, endlessly yearning for their love, while others may enjoy a bright and dazzling life, shining on their long journey.

4. 一个真正幸福的人，是走弯路的时候也不忘欣赏风景的人。

4. A truly happy person is someone who doesn't forget to appreciate the scenery even when they take a detour.

5. 保持一颗赤子之心，保持一份淡泊，看淡一些东西会让人心旷神怡，虽然偶尔会在心底滑过一点异样的感觉，但人生一波三折，最后你还是要学会嘲笑这个浮华的世界。

5. Keep a pure heart, maintain a sense of detachment, and become indifferent to some things. This will bring a peaceful and refreshing state of mind. Although there may occasionally be a strange feeling lurking in the depths of your heart, life is full of twists and turns. In the end, you still need to learn to mock this vain world.

6. 我还在原地等你，你却忘了你来过。

6. I am still waiting for you in the same place, but you have forgotten that you ever came.

7. 人生的每一个阶段，每一天，每一条路，都要靠自己，一步步走。

7. In every stage of life, every day, and every path, one must rely on oneself and walk step by step.

8. 唯有指望自己，逢山开路，遇水架桥，才能走出岁月静好的人生。

8. Only by placing one's hope in oneself, forging paths through mountains and building bridges over rivers, can one live a peaceful and tranquil life through the years.

9. 爱其实是一种习惯。你习惯了生活中有他，他也习惯了生活中有你。拥有的时候没什么感觉，但一旦失去，就好像失去了一切。

9. Love is actually a habit. You get used to having him in your life, and he gets used to having you. When you have it, you don't feel anything special, but once it's lost, it feels like losing everything.

10. 于是在这个人来人往的大城市，我们以同样的心情固执地孤独着。

10. So in this bustling metropolis, we stubbornly isolate ourselves with the same sentiment.

11. 我经历了许多悲欢离合。此时，我淡然的心境更加喜悦。我喜欢这样安静的桃花源，我和我的红颜知己在等待。我不问世间的烦恼，也不说鸡毛蒜皮的小事。我自己倒一杯茶，来去自由。

11. I have experienced many ups and downs in life. At this moment, my calm and serene state of mind is even more joyful. I like this quiet桃花源(Peach Blossom Spring), where I wait with my close friend. I do not concern myself with the烦恼(troubles) of the world nor talk about trivial matters. I pour myself a cup of tea, coming and going freely.

12. 一路上只有影子，但影子还在嘲笑我的孤独。

12. Along the way, there were only shadows, but the shadows were still mocking my loneliness.

13. 见得多了，经历得多了，自然就学会了当硬气，当服软。

13. Having seen and experienced more, one naturally learns to be tough and to yield gracefully.

14. 我们在日出时休息。日落时写作。像黑暗的树枝沿着彼此的身体攀缘，坚强而孤独地活着。

14. We rest at sunrise. We write at sunset. Like dark branches climbing each other's bodies, we live strongly and alone.

15. 忙的时候是自然，闲的时候更多的是偶然，是必然。它是平静的，它是愉快的，它是冷漠的，它是平静的。

15. During busy times, it's natural; during idle times, it is more often accidental, yet inevitable. It is serene, it is pleasant, it is indifferent, and it is serene.

16. 太高估别人，太依靠他人，事事指望别人，你就输了。

16. Overestimating others, relying too heavily on others, and always expecting others to help, and you will lose.

17. 人人都想要“贵人”相助，但想要遇到“贵人”却要先做个能人。只有自己准备好，足够优秀，才有机会被贵人看到。换言之，最好的“贵人”就是那个努力的自己。

17. Everyone wants the help of a "auspicious person," but to meet such a person, one first needs to be an "able person." Only when one prepares oneself and is sufficiently excellent can there be a chance to be noticed by an auspicious person. In other words, the best "auspicious person" is one's own hardworking self.

18. 你要记住：人生中最好的贵人，是努力的自己。

18. Remember: The best benefactor in life is the hardworking self.

19. 唯有成为自己的贵人，人生才能一直顺风顺水。

19. Only by becoming your own benefactor can life always go smoothly and without obstacles.

20. 女人的脸不细看，男人的心不细看。有些人，近在咫尺，心却远在天边。

20. A woman's face is not to be scrutinized closely, nor a man's heart. Some people, though close at hand, have hearts that are far away.

21. 但只要你努力地踮起脚尖，稍稍伸一下手，就能触碰到糖果罐，吃到属于自己的糖果。

21. But as long as you try to toe-tap and slightly stretch out your hand, you can touch the candy jar and enjoy the candy that belongs to you.

22. 一味的靠别人去满足自己的要求，指望别人成全自己的人生，最后失去的，往往更多。

22. Relying solely on others to satisfy one's own needs and expecting others to fulfill one's own life, one often ends up losing more in the end.

23. 但其实，依赖别人得到糖果，或许很简单。但你得到的，永远只是属于别人的糖果。

23. But actually, relying on others to get candy may be very simple. But what you get will always be the candy belonging to others.

24. 成年人的世界不容易，请不要选择放弃，要努力活成自己想要的样子。即使生活很累，也要照顾好自己的身体对未来充满期待，并为之不懈努力，让自己快乐起来人生于贵人学婆见远比等待或追更靠谱。

24. The world of adults is not easy, please don't choose to give up. Strive to live the way you want to be. Even if life is tiring, take good care of your body, be optimistic about the future, and work tirelessly towards it, making yourself happy. Being taught by a wise person and learning from a far-sighted person is more reliable than waiting or chasing.

25. 浅浅的相遇，淡淡的在一起。不如选择这样一种安全的态度，静静的等待，收藏你爱的人，忘记已经离开的人，让外人自由的看着。

25. A light encounter, a faint togetherness. Why not choose such a secure attitude, calmly waiting, cherishing the ones you love, forgetting those who have already left, and allowing outsiders to watch freely.

26. 人生，说到底就是心情。活得累是因为能影响心情的事情太多了。

26. In the end, life is all about mood. The reason why life feels burdensome is because there are too many things that can affect one's mood.

27. 你的一切总有一天会被遗忘，在我们不想遗忘却被岁月遗忘的未来，但我的生命中永远有你，是我成长的一部分，永远不会消失。

27. All of your existence will one day be forgotten, in a future where we do not want to forget but time does, but you will forever be a part of my life, a part of my growth, that will never fade away.

28. 让自己变得优秀，做自己生命中的“贵人”自有花开时的灿烂花落时的暗香。

28. Make yourself excellent, be the "auspicious person" in your own life, and there will be the brilliance of flowers in bloom and the subtle fragrance of flowers falling.

29. 命运是公平的，当你身无彩凤双飞翼时，黑暗无光皆是常态;而当你日渐强大，世界便迷雾渐散、五彩斑斓。凡事向内求。与其痴痴地等着有人拉你一把，不如先丰富 自己提升自己。你变了，世界就变了。

29. Fate is fair; when you are without the colorful phoenix's wings to soar, darkness and dimness are the norm; but as you grow stronger, the world begins to clear and becomes vivid with colors. Seek within for everything. It's better to enrich and elevate yourself than to wait passively for someone to pull you up. When you change, the world changes.

30. 白色的记忆，深蓝色的蜻蜓，我仿佛又看到了，还有湖边一个人的倒影。

30. The white memory, the deep blue dragonfly, I seemed to see it again, along with the reflection of a person by the lake.

31. 很喜欢一段话:想要拥有骏马不用去追它:而是用追马的时间种草。待来年绿草如茵时，自有骏马等着你挑选。

31. I really like a saying: To own a fine horse, you don't have to chase it; instead, use the time you would have chased the horse to plant grass. When the next year comes and the grass is lush and green, there will be fine horses waiting for you to choose from.

32. 只要你想要，只要我有。尽我所能，尽我所能。

32. As long as you want, as long as I have. To the best of my ability, to the best of my ability.

33. 有人说:“想要得到某样东西最好的方法就是让自己配得上它。

33. Someone said: "The best way to get something is to make yourself worthy of it."

34. 有时候我觉得自己像个神经病。自己纠结，又打扰别人。

34. Sometimes I feel like I'm a nutcase. I'm entangled in my own thoughts, and it also disturbs others.

35. 小然刚毕业时，从事的是一份销望她售工作。但她的心中一直希做培训讲师。销售工作之余，努力锻炼自己的表达与口才有她去参加读书会，并踊跃地音、稳健的台风，赢得阵阵喝，也引起了台下一位公司人事故事的结局是:小主管的注意然如愿成了一名培训讲师并在10年后创办了自己的口才培训机构。一面之缘，从此改变了她的人生轨迹。

35. Xiao Ran, when she just graduated, was engaged in a sales job. However, she always aspired to be a training lecturer in her heart. Besides her sales work, she diligently honed her expressive skills and oratory talent by attending reading clubs, and her enthusiastic and steady demeanor won her applause and also drew the attention of a company personnel manager. The story ended with: Xiao Ran's wish came true, and she became a training lecturer and founded her own oratory training institution 10 years later. A brief encounter changed the trajectory of her life from then on.

36. 经过风雨的洗礼，希望你永远健康快乐。我把思念化作祝福，陪你度过365天。

36. Having undergone the test of storms and rains, I hope you will always be healthy and happy. I turn my longing into blessings, accompanying you through every single day of the year.

37. 在无数个不眠之夜，相信会有很多人习惯性的闭上眼睛，静静的想念一个人，想念一张脸。在他们心里，有这样一个人想念，也许就够了。

37. On countless sleepless nights, many people may habitually close their eyes and silently think of someone, of a face. In their hearts, perhaps just the thought of such a person is enough.

38. 而你也会明白：自己努力获得的糖果，真的比别人施舍的甜。

38. And you will understand: the candy you work hard for is truly sweeter than the one given by others.

39. 愿往后的生活中，我们不再埋怨谁、期待谁，更不仰望谁，在阳光下尽情灿烂，在风雨中自由奔跑，在未知的世界里，遇见更好的自己。

39. May our future life be free from blaming others, waiting for someone, or looking up to anyone. May we shine brightly under the sun and run freely in the rain and wind, and in the unknown world, meet a better version of ourselves.

40. 如果生命是一棵树，它在风雨中生长，在阳光下绽放，所有的花都落下，硕果累累。花季的美好，雨季的忧伤，随着年轮渐渐淡忘，一半是对美好的追求，一半是对残缺的接受。

40. If life is a tree, it grows in the storms and blossoms in the sunshine, with all the flowers falling, bearing abundant fruit. The beauty of the flowering season, the sorrow of the rainy season, fade gradually with the rings of the years, half in pursuit of the beautiful, half in acceptance of the imperfect.

41. 幸福不是别人送的礼物，而是内心的冷漠。只有你愿意平淡，不争，执着，淡然，你才能感受到更多的幸福。

41. Happiness is not a gift given by others, but a coldness within the heart. Only when you are willing to lead a simple, uncontentious, persistent, and indifferent life can you experience more happiness.

42. 世界上最痛苦的距离不是你不理解我的悲伤和孤独，而是我心痛却哭不出来！

42. The most painful distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sadness and loneliness, but that my heart aches and I can't cry!

43. 心中有美，荷花处处开。水不洗水，尘不染尘。

43. Beauty in the heart, lotuses bloom everywhere. Water doesn't wash water, dust doesn't stain dust.

44. 细数陪伴你的长流水，诠释我们的永恒。

44. Count the long-running river that accompanies you, interpreting our eternity.

45. 人生如梦。梦若浮动，那些灵魂深处的纠结，是痛苦还是幸福。只有你自己的心最清楚。

45. Life is like a dream. If the dream is floating, the entanglements deep within the soul, are they pain or happiness? Only your own heart knows for sure.

46. 等到黄昏的蝉鸣，古城开始变得失语。有时候，离别比相聚更美好。

46. As the evening cicadas begin to hum, the ancient city starts to fall silent. Sometimes, parting can be more beautiful than being together.

47. 人生是在狭隘中突破，也是在负重中前行，全力以赴，淡然处之，不强求命运，做好自己的人生助命运，让人生因心而变。

47. Life is about breaking through limitations and moving forward with burdens, giving it one's all, taking it lightly, not forcing fate, and making one's own life assist fate, allowing life to change because of the heart.

48. 我期待着第二天傍晚，收拾好行囊，踏入昏暗的夜色，听云想要衣服，长风微微凉。

48. I look forward to the evening of the next day, packing my bags, stepping into the dim night, listening to the clouds asking for clothes, the long wind blowing slightly cool.

49. 人的一生，道阻且长，别人可以帮你一时，但帮不了你一生。

49. In one's lifetime, the path is long and arduous, others can help you for a moment, but they cannot help you for a lifetime.

50. 已经是深秋了，可是我怎么感觉冬天已经到了？

50. It's already late autumn, but why do I feel like winter has already arrived?