在岁月的长河中，每一句“淡淡的”都承载着无数故事。让我们一起，轻轻地走进那些淡淡的篇章。

In the long river of time, every phrase of "gently" carries countless stories. Let us, together, gently step into those gentle chapters.

1. 人生总是要经历很多事情。多少往事如烟火浪，飘过夜空，消失在远方，无论快乐还是痛苦。

1. Life always entails experiencing many things. Countless past events, like fireworks and waves, drift across the night sky, fading into the distance, whether it's happiness or pain.

2. 九、心中若有美，荷花处处开。水不洗水，尘不染尘。

2.九章：If there is beauty in the heart, lotus flowers bloom everywhere. Water doesn't wash itself, and dust doesn't stain itself.

3. 十六、二十岁的爱情是幻想，三十岁的爱情是轻浮的，直到四十岁，人们才认识到真正的爱情是柏拉图式的爱情。爱藏在心里，却容易从眼里漏出。仅仅因为感情冲动而产生的爱情，就像一座建在沙上的塔，必然会倒塌。男人爱女人是因为她是谁，而女人爱男人是因为他的未来。

3. Love at 16 and 20 is fantasy, love at 30 is trivial, and it is not until 40 that people realize that true love is Platonic love. Love hides in the heart but is easily leaked out from the eyes. Love that arises solely from emotional impulse is like a tower built on sand, bound to collapse. Men love women because of who they are, while women love men because of their future.

4. 第一，谁不难，谁不苦，唯一能扛的就是他的肩膀；谁没有错命运，谁没有遗憾，最后只能看自己的眼睛。在生活中，做不做并不重要。第二，我们会在风中哭泣，在雨中奔跑。最好的感觉就是找一个能说上话的伴侣。

4. Firstly, who does not find things difficult or not endure hardships, the only thing that can bear the weight is his shoulders; who does not have a destiny without mistakes or regrets, in the end, it can only be seen through one's own eyes. In life, whether to do something or not is not important. Secondly, we will cry in the wind and run in the rain. The best feeling is to find a companion with whom one can talk.

5. 十五、在事实面前，你的想象力越发达，后果越不堪设想！

5. The more vivid your imagination is in the face of the facts, the more unimaginable the consequences become!

6. 所有的好东西都是一样的:夏天的冰淇淋，冬天的大衣，晚上的星星。而你在这个世界上。

6. All good things are the same: ice cream in summer, a coat in winter, stars at night. And you in this world.

7. 第三，好的关系是两颗心的温暖，是彼此的陪伴。就当是不自觉的微笑；听起来像是温暖的味道。

7. Thirdly, a good relationship is the warmth of two hearts, the companionship of each other. It's as if it's an unconscious smile; it sounds like the taste of warmth.

8. 二十、总有一天，会有人走进你的生活，让你知道为什么你和别人没有结果。

8. Twenty, one day, someone will come into your life and let you know why you didn't have a result with others.

9. 二十一、人生，说到底就是心情。活得累是因为能影响心情的事情太多了。

9. Twenty-first, life, at its core, is about mood. The reason why life feels tiring is because there are too many things that can affect one's mood.

10. 二十二、两个人经常在一起，难免会有不小心，一起吃饭，一起逛街，一起上课，却常常忽略了心灵上的交流。对于一段真爱来说，沟通是最重要的。可以保持爱情的新鲜感，让对方知道自己现在爱的是一个什么样的人。只有彼此了解，爱情才不会有误会，才不会有错过的爱情。

10. 22. When two people are often together, it is inevitable that there will be some accidents. They eat together, go shopping together, attend classes together, but often ignore the spiritual communication. For a true love, communication is the most important. It can maintain the freshness of love and let the other person know what kind of person they are in love with now. Only through mutual understanding, can love avoid misunderstandings and missed opportunities.

11. 前方的路还很远，你可能会哭，但你必须走下去，永不停止。

11. The road ahead is still long, you may cry, but you must keep going, never stop.

12. 无论世界如何对待你，请你一如既往的努力，勇敢，充满希望。

12. No matter how the world treats you, please continue to work hard, be brave, and be filled with hope.

13. 第四，回忆真的可以让一个人变成神经病。一秒钟前，他的嘴角还微微上扬。这一秒，他的眼睛湿润了。

13. Fourthly, memories can really turn a person into a neurotic. A second ago, the corner of his mouth was slightly raised. In this second, his eyes have become moist.

14. 十四、不要把别人对你的抛弃变成自己的抛弃；不要总跟自己过不去，至少活得像自己。

14. Fourteen, don't turn others' abandonment of you into your own abandonment; don't always be hard on yourself, at least live as yourself.

15. 十二、成功人生的七大境界:持之以恒、聚气赚钱、宽容接纳、灵活变通、兼济天下、功成身退。

15. Twelve, the Seven Levels of a Successful Life: Perseverance, Accumulating Wealth, Tolerance and Acceptance, Flexibility and Adaptability, Benefiting the World, and Retiring with Success.

16. 有些事情自己知道就好，没必要问问题，因为答案不一定能被接受；有的人只是自己认了，不值得难过，因为感情是不能强求的。

16. Some things are best left unsaid, as there is no need to ask questions, because the answers may not be accepted; some people just have to admit it themselves, and there is no need to be sad, because emotions cannot be强迫.

17. 人类如果不知道自己从哪里来，就不能随意去自己想去的地方。

17. If humans do not know where they come from, they cannot freely go to wherever they want to.

18. 十、人生行万里路，莫问成败在重。他很平静，很冷漠。与其在别人的光辉中仰望，不如点亮自己的心灯，扬帆远航，把握最真实的自己，更深刻地诠释自己。

18. Ten, to travel a thousand miles in life, do not inquire about success or failure. He was very calm and indifferent. It is better to light up one's own heart lamp than to gaze at others' brilliance, to set sail far away, to grasp the most authentic self, and to interpret oneself more profoundly.

19. 女人的脸不细看，男人的心不细看。有些人，近在咫尺，心却远在天边。

19. A woman's face is not to be scrutinized closely, nor a man's heart. Some people, though they are close at hand, have hearts that are far away.

20. 冷漠是生命的一种成长。

20. Indifference is a kind of growth in life.

21. 所有的相遇和回顾都是缘分。当你爱上某个身材，垂涎某个眼神，说明你有了恋情。

21. All encounters and recollections are fate. When you fall in love with a certain figure, or are envious of a certain gaze, it means you have a romance.

22. 八、小时候，我们拼命想长大。长大后，我们发现童年是最完美无瑕的。

22. Eight, when we were young, we desperately wanted to grow up. As we grow older, we realize that childhood is the most perfect and flawless time.