在瞬息万变的职场江湖中，每个人都在为自己的生存与发展奔波劳碌。在这片充满竞争与挑战的天地里，我们如何才能立足？将为你揭示那些鲜为人知的职场经典语录，助你披荆斩棘，成就辉煌人生。

In the ever-changing江湖 of the workplace, everyone is busy struggling for survival and development. In this land filled with competition and challenges, how can we stand our ground? I will reveal those little-known classic quotes from the workplace, helping you to cut through difficulties and achieve a brilliant life.

1. 只要路是对的，就不怕路长。

1. As long as the path is right, one need not fear the distance of the road.

2. 智者为自己寻找，愚者为他人寻找。

2. The wise seek for themselves, while the foolish seek for others.

3. 相逢是多么美好的开始，接下来，相识，相赏，相知，相爱，相伴，相扶，一直到老。一次相逢，便是一辈子的厮守。相濡以沫也好，相忘于江湖也罢，所有的相逢都会有结局的，而所有的结局都是相逢的一部分。不要用结局去质疑开始，成全人的，是生活;捉弄人的，也是生活。早安~

3. Meeting is such a wonderful beginning, followed by getting to know each other, appreciating each other, understanding each other, loving each other, accompanying each other, supporting each other, all the way to old age. One meeting is a lifelong commitment. Whether it's supporting each other through thick and thin or forgetting each other in the vast world, all encounters will have an end, and every end is a part of the encounter. Don't question the beginning with the end; what completes people is life; what plays tricks on people is also life. Good morning~

4. 、有走不尽的路，就有看不尽的花；有看不尽的花，就有凋不尽的叶；春风得意马蹄疾，一日看尽长安花。有多少人，能像诗人那般，一日看尽长安花；风雨走过真情在，人生踏歌潇洒处；又有多少人，能拥有这份潇洒的豁达；人啊，总是在现实的苦难中，希望找到美丽的风景，来聊以慰藉现实的苦痛。

4. There are endless roads to walk, and endless flowers to see; with endless flowers, there are leaves that never cease to wither; in the joy of spring, the horse's hooves race swiftly, and in one day, one can see all the flowers of Chang'an. How many people can, like the poet, see all the flowers of Chang'an in a day; walking through storms and rains, true feelings remain; in the place where life is sung, there is a free and easy demeanor; and how many people can possess this free and easy magnanimity; human beings, always in the midst of the hardships of reality, hope to find beautiful scenery to comfort the pain of reality.

5. 一滴蜂蜜比一加仑胆汁能抓更多的苍蝇。

5. A drop of honey can catch more flies than a gallon of gall.

6. 好主意非常便宜。真正无价的是能够实现这些想法的人。

6. Good ideas are very cheap. What's truly invaluable is the people who can bring these ideas to life.

7. 、其实人生至繁，便是人生至简。曾经如水中月，镜中花，看似美好，却永远握不在手中。不是所有伤口、都能靠时间来愈合。岁月的轮廓折叠起来，就会沉甸甸地坠在心底，似是不为人知的秘密，都暗自消解了过往。我们都在不断重复的时光里，度过青春的绚烂与苍白。

7. In fact, life is at its most complex when it is at its simplest. Once it was like the moon in the water or the flowers in the mirror, appearing beautiful but forever out of reach. Not all wounds can be healed by time. As the years fold their contours, they become heavy in the heart, like secrets known to no one, silently dissolving the past. We all spend our youth, in a continuous cycle of time, experiencing both the brilliance and the pallor of youth.

8. 人心之烦，烦在计较;人生之苦，苦在执着;人生之难，难在放下。人，只是浩瀚的宇宙中，渺小的一粒尘，一哭一笑，根本不足以点亮或者泯灭星空。能做的，只是用有限的时光，去享用生命给予的一切。烦了，累了，就停下来，在自己的心灵空地，种上阳光的种子，让自己每天面对明媚，即使沮丧，也充满希望。

8. The trouble of the human heart lies in calculation; the suffering of life lies in attachment; the difficulty of life lies in letting go. Humans are just a tiny speck of dust in the vast universe, a cry or a smile is not enough to illuminate or extinguish the stars. What we can do is to enjoy everything life gives us with the limited time we have. When tired or weary, stop and plant the seeds of sunshine in your own spiritual garden, allowing yourself to face brightness every day, even if you feel despondent, still filled with hope.

9. 在记忆里，有一些瞬间，经历时没什么特别，回想时，却胜过千言万语。。红尘陌上，独自行走，绿萝拂过衣襟，青云打湿诺言。山和水可以两两相忘，日与月可以毫无瓜葛。那时候，只一个人的浮世清欢，一个人的细水长流。做一个素净的人，就把目光停留在微小而光明的事物上，去远离那些混乱和嚣张。早安~

9. In memory, there are some moments that seem ordinary when experienced, yet when remembered, they are more than a thousand words. Amidst the dust of the world and alone on the path, the green vines brush against my clothes, and the blue clouds moisten my promises. Mountains and rivers can forget each other, and days and months can have no connection. Back then, it was just the solitude of a person's joy in the world, the gentle flow of a person's life. Be a simple person, and let your gaze rest on the small yet bright things, and stay away from the chaos and arrogance. Good morning ~

10. 成功从古至今都在尝试。

10. Success has been attempted throughout the ages.

11. 人生必须透过黑暗，才能看到光明。一个人，若思想通透了，行事就会通达，内心就会通泰，有欲而不执著于欲，有求而不拘泥于求，活得就自在。活得平和的人，心底踏实安详，云过天更蓝，船行水更幽

11. Life must pass through darkness to see the light. A person, if their thoughts are clear, will act with ease, their heart will be peaceful, they will have desires but not be obsessed with them, they will have aspirations but not be confined by them, and they will live with ease. Those who live in harmony have a solid and tranquil heart, and as clouds pass, the sky becomes bluer, and as boats sail, the water becomes quieter.

12. 3世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但 非我所属。

12. 3 The world originally does not belong to you, so there is no need for you to abandon it. What you need to abandon is all attachment. All things are for my use, but not owned by me.

13. 在职场上工作，很多人当工作出现问题的时候，就习惯于把责任推卸掉，不想自己承担责任，害怕自己受到上司的处罚。但是要知道在出了问题时，上司最需要的就是有人来承担责任，来分担责任，而不是什么都要靠上司。因此勇于承担责任的人，是最值得上司信赖的人，上司也会很赏识重用这种人，那么在职场上是很有前途的。

13. In the workplace, many people are accustomed to shifting the blame when problems arise, not wanting to take responsibility themselves, and fearing punishment from their superiors. However, it should be known that when problems occur, what superiors most need is someone to take responsibility and share the burden, rather than depending on them for everything. Therefore, those who dare to take responsibility are the most trustworthy to superiors, and superiors will also highly appreciate and promote such individuals. Hence, in the workplace, they have a promising future.

14. 成功的法则极其简单，但简单不代表容易。

14. The law of success is extremely simple, but simplicity does not mean it is easy.

15. 人生长路，目的地虽然由不得我们选择，至少在每个路口，该往那走，我们还是可以自己作出判断的。执迷，还是看淡人各有志吧！人生中，我们有许多转念的机会，每个转念都有着我们生活经历的感悟和积累，以及对生命价值的自省。

15. Life is a long journey, and although we cannot choose our destination, at least at each crossroads, we can make our own judgments about which direction to take. Be steadfast or take a light-hearted attitude towards the fact that people have different aspirations! In life, we have many opportunities to change our perspectives, and each change of perspective carries with it insights and accumulations from our life experiences, as well as self-reflection on the value of life.

16. 很多时候，跟自己过不去的，是我们自己。没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情。只要把心情变一变、世界就完全不一样了。有一些人活在记忆里，永远走不开;有一些人活在身边，却很遥远。有些事，只能一个人做。有些关，只能一个人过。有些路，只能一个人走!

16. Often, it is ourselves who struggle with ourselves. There are no things that cannot be overcome, only feelings that are hard to get over. Just change your mood, and the world will be completely different. Some people live in their memories and can never leave; some people are right beside us, yet feel distant. Some things can only be done alone. Some hurdles can only be crossed alone. Some paths can only be walked alone!

17. 不要为失败找借口，只为成功找借口。

17. Do not make excuses for failure, only for success.

18. 多微笑，做一个开朗热忱的女人;多打扮，做一个美丽优雅的女人;多倾听，做一个温柔善意的女人，多看书，做一个淡定内涵的女人;多思考， 做一个聪慧冷静的女人。记住每天多爱自己一点。

18. Smile often, be a cheerful and warm woman; dress up more, be a beautiful and elegant woman; listen more, be a gentle and kind-hearted woman; read more, be a calm and thoughtful woman; think more, be a wise and composed woman. Remember to love yourself a little more every day.

19. 任何公司都是追求高效工作的，那么在职场上如何管理好自己的时间是最为关键的，对自己的职场生涯将会是很大的帮助。在职场工作中，合理安排好自己的时间，把重要的事情放在最前面做，把复杂的事情合理分解开来做，集中精力想问题，高效率完成上司交代的任务。这种擅长管理时间的人，在职场上肯定是最有前途的，上司很喜欢这种人。

19. Any company strives for efficient work. Therefore, how to manage one's time well in the workplace is the most crucial, which will be of great help to one's career. In workplace work, it is essential to arrange your time reasonably, prioritize important tasks, break down complex tasks into manageable parts, focus on problem-solving, and complete tasks assigned by superiors with high efficiency. Such individuals who are skilled at time management are definitely the most promising in the workplace, and they are favored by their superiors.

20. 让我们把担忧变成事前的思考和规划吧！

20. Let's turn our concerns into proactive thinking and planning!

21. 职场如战场，竞争是很激烈的，稍不小心的话那么就很可以被淘汰掉。而在职场上，学习能力很强的人，他们虽然本身的基础是平平的，但是善于学习，善于举一反三，并且在学习的过程中可以很快的将知识吸收过来，成为自己的知识库。那么这种人在职场上，潜力将是无限的，前途将是光明的。

21. The workplace is like a battlefield, with intense competition. If one is not careful, they can easily be eliminated. In the workplace, those with strong learning abilities, although they may have a modest foundation themselves, are good at learning and can generalize from one thing to another. They can also quickly absorb knowledge during the learning process, forming their own repository of knowledge. For such individuals in the workplace, their potential is limitless, and their future is bright.

22. 职场前途无量的人有哪些，职场的竞争是很激烈的，所以想要在职场上做得好是需要不断学习和努力的，有些人的行为为自己的前途打下基础，下面分享职场前途无量的人有哪些？

22. Who are the people with unlimited career prospects? The competition in the workplace is very fierce, so in order to do well in the workplace, it is necessary to keep learning and working hard. Some people lay the foundation for their future prospects through their behavior. Below, let's share who these people with unlimited career prospects are?

23. 快乐，不是拥有的多，而是计较的少。人生不必求全责备。草绿了，我们就享受那份绿;蝉鸣了，我们就聆听那声音;叶子黄了，我们就品味秋意;冬季里，我们就欣赏雪景。

23. Happiness is not about having more, but about caring less. In life, one does not need to seek perfection. When the grass turns green, we enjoy that greenery; when cicadas sing, we listen to their sound; when leaves turn yellow, we savor the essence of autumn; and in winter, we appreciate the scenery of snow.

24. 、我们辛辛苦苦来到这个世界上，人生有两条路：一条叫做心历，一条叫做经历。生活不是一场赛跑，生活是一场旅行，要懂得好好欣赏每一段的风景。我什么也没忘，但是有些事只适合收藏。不能说，也不能想，却又不能忘。

24. We toil and labor to come to this world, and life has two paths: one called Heart Journey, and one called Life Experience. Life is not a race; it's a journey, and one must learn to appreciate the scenery of every stage. I haven't forgotten anything, but some things are only meant to be cherished. They can't be spoken of, they can't be thought about, yet they can't be forgotten.

25. 在社会上无论是工作还是生活，都需要头脑灵活，只有聪明的人才会慢慢摸索出一条适合自己的生存之道。

25. In society, whether it's work or life, flexibility of mind is required. Only the intelligent can gradually figure out a survival path that suits themselves.

26. 浪费时间就等于浪费财富！对于经商的人来说，“时间就是金钱”。赚钱靠的是珍惜时间、利用时间，天天早睡晚起做懒汉，财富是不会进你口袋的。

26. Wasting time is equivalent to wasting wealth! For entrepreneurs, "time is money." Earning money depends on valuing and making use of time. If you choose to be a lazy person by going to bed late and waking up late every day, wealth will never find its way into your pocket.

27. 最怕的，不是在错误的年龄，遇到正确的人，而是在错误的年龄，我们竟花光了毕生所有的勇气。生命是一次阅读，带着感情去品，会收获共鸣与感动；带着理解去读，会收获真情与真诚；带着执着去欣赏，会发现岁月如此美好！这本醇厚而凝重的书，记录下人生的生活百味，留下走过的唯美剪影。

27. The greatest fear is not meeting the right person at the wrong age, but rather that at the wrong age, we have exhausted all our lifetime of courage. Life is a reading experience, savoring with emotion will yield resonance and touch; reading with understanding will yield sincerity and truth; appreciating with perseverance will reveal the beauty of time! This rich and solemn book records the myriad flavors of life, leaving behind the beautiful silhouettes of the path we have walked.

28. 穷不一定是想着变，而是想着富，想着变。

28. Being poor doesn't necessarily mean thinking about change; it means thinking about becoming rich and thinking about change.

29. 一旦爬到山顶偷看，就会看到，一览众山小。

29. Once you climb to the top of the mountain and take a peek, you will see that all the other mountains seem small in comparison.

30. 、岁月总喜欢把时光渲染出一副美好的样子。明明已经过去了足够的远，却还是想着，那些，大概就是这世上最美好的一切。那时我们一起笑过，那时我们一起闹过。那时的我们疯疯癫癫，那时的我们爱笑爱闹。

30. Time always likes to paint a beautiful picture of itself. Even though enough time has passed, we still think, those moments, must be the most beautiful things in the world. We laughed together then, we made trouble together then. We were crazy and playful back then, we loved to laugh and make trouble then.

31. 人们能做到是因为他们相信它。

31. People can do it because they believe in it.

32. 许多人一直追求完美，其实，残缺也是一种完美！而完美的本身就是不完美！维纳斯的美，因为断臂给人广阔想像的空间；流星与昙花的美，因为短暂的灿烂更加惹人注目。绝大多数人，绝大多数时候，人都只能靠自己。没什么家庭背景，没遇到什么贵人，也没读什么好学校，这些都没有关系。

32. Many people have been pursuing perfection, but in fact, imperfection is also a kind of perfection! And the very concept of perfection is itself imperfect! Venus's beauty lies in the vast space of imagination created by her missing arm; the beauty of the shooting star and the ephemeral flower lies in their brief brilliance, which attracts more attention. For the majority of people, for the majority of times, one can only rely on oneself. There's no need to worry about having no family background, not having met any benefactors, or not having attended a prestigious school. None of these matters.

33. 没有到手的东西，总是比到手的稀奇，但不一定比我们已拥有的更好。有些事知道了就好，不必去多说。有些人认识了也就好，不必去深交。你若是找不到坚持下去的理由，那么你就找一个重新开始的理由，生活本来就这么简单。命运不会去偏爱谁，就要看你能够追逐多久，坚持多久。

33. Things that have not been obtained always seem more mysterious than those already in hand, but they are not necessarily better than what we already possess. Some things are better left unsaid after knowing them. Some people are better left unproficiently acquainted with. If you cannot find a reason to persist, then find a reason to start anew. Life is actually this simple. Fate does not favor anyone in particular; it depends on how long and how steadfastly you can pursue and persist.

34. 为别人喝彩的人，也是在为自己的人生喝彩。

34. Those who cheer for others are also cheering for their own life.

35. 昨晚多准备几分钟，今天就省了几个小时的麻烦。

35. A few extra minutes of preparation last night saved several hours of trouble today.

36. 生活就像一个铁砧。越挨打越能擦出火花。

36. Life is like an anvil. The more it is struck, the more sparks it produces.

37. 真诚地对他人感兴趣是推销员最重要的品质。

37. Taking a sincere interest in others is the most important quality for a salesman.

38. 我们都是光阴的过客，聚散离合，不过是镜花水月一场;繁华喧嚣，不过是过眼烟云，一切喜怒哀乐都是根植于路边的风景，铺垫人生的繁杂，懂得删繁就简，便会轻松前行。生活就是在阅历中成长，在历练中坚强，与其感激命运的给予，不如感谢平凡的自己，在岁月的河流中，不平凡的演绎。

38. We are all passersby in the fleeting moments of time, the gatherings and separations, are but a fleeting mirage; the hustle and bustle of繁华, are merely smoke and shadows that pass. All joys, sorrows, and delights are rooted in the scenery by the roadside, paving the complexity of life. Understanding how to simplify complexities, one can easily move forward. Life grows through experiences, and becomes strong through trials. It's better to be grateful for the ordinary self than to thank fate for its gifts. In the river of time, we perform extraordinary roles in an ordinary manner.

39. 人生没有假设，当下即是全部。不去追逐你所渴求，你将永远不会拥有。与其讨好别人，不如武装自己;与其逃避现实，不如笑对人生;与其听风听雨，不如昂首出击

39. There are no assumptions in life, the present is all there is. If you do not chase what you desire, you will never possess it. It's better to arm yourself than to please others; it's better to face life with a smile than to avoid reality; it's better to face the wind and rain head-on than to listen to them.

40. 人生如天气，可预料，但往往出乎意料。调整心态，保持好心情是很重要的。不管什么样的困难，不管什么样的挫折，总会有雨过天晴的时候，忧伤和埋怨解决不了任何问题，唯有积极面对。

40. Life is like the weather, predictable yet often surprising. Adjusting one's mindset and maintaining a good mood is very important. No matter what kind of difficulties or setbacks you face, there will always be a time when the clouds clear and the sun comes out. Sadness and complaining can't solve any problems; only a positive attitude can.

41. 幻想会想出很多绝妙的点子，但是什么也做不出来。

41. Fantasy can come up with many excellent ideas, but it can't accomplish anything.

42. 我们辛辛苦苦来到这个世界上，人生有两条路：一条叫做心历，一条叫做经历。生活不是一场赛跑，生活是一场旅行，要懂得好好欣赏每一段的风景。我什么也没忘，但是有些事只适合收藏。不能说，也不能想，却又不能忘。

42. We toil and strive to come to this world, and life has two paths: one called Heart Journey, and the other called Experience. Life is not a race, but a journey; one must learn to appreciate the scenery of each segment. I haven't forgotten anything, but some things are only meant to be cherished. They can't be spoken of, can't be thought about, yet can't be forgotten.

43. 总有一个人，是我们无法斑驳的时光，回眸便觉温暖，时光越久越能看清：那份存在，对自己，有着怎样别样的意义！行在路上，邂逅的不仅仅是尘世风景，更是触动人心的辛酸人事；漫步人生，经历的不仅仅是悲欢离合，更是命运的森罗万象。生是见识，不是活着。

43. There is always someone who is an indelible part of our past, looking back at whom brings warmth. The longer the time goes by, the clearer we can see: the significance of that existence, to ourselves, is how uniquely profound it is! On the journey of life, we encounter not only the scenery of the world, but also the poignant and touching human stories that touch the heart; as we漫步 through life, we experience not only joy and sorrow, but also the myriad aspects of fate. Life is about seeing, not merely existing.

44. 职场上情商高人缘好的人，都是很吃得开的，他们懂人性，能够和办公室里的人相处融洽，甚至是在和别人相处的时候，让同事感到很舒适。这种人别人是很愿意和他相处的，也愿意帮他的忙。情商高的人，他们不抱怨工作，对待工作很热情激情。这种人不管是同事还是上司，都是很喜欢的。因此这种人在职场上是很容易立足的，很有前途的。

44. People with high emotional intelligence and good interpersonal skills in the workplace are very popular. They understand human nature and can get along well with others in the office, even making colleagues feel comfortable when interacting with others. Such people are very willing to be around and help them. People with high emotional intelligence do not complain about their work and are passionate and enthusiastic about it. Whether they are colleagues or superiors, they are all liked. Therefore, this kind of person is easy to establish themselves in the workplace and has a promising future.

45. 15根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？

45. 15 There is no need to look back and see who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, would you also lie down and bite it back?

46. 、人生就是这样，得失无常，平和淡然地面对一切，活出自我，活出自信，该想的就想，该做的就做，爱你自己，更要爱他人。不论何时何地，要特别珍惜缘分，不论是你生命的过客，还是长久的知己，都是一生精彩的回忆。

46. Life is just like this, with constant gains and losses. Face everything with calmness and indifference, live out your true self, and be confident. Think about what you should think, and do what you should do. Love yourself, and even more so, love others. At any time and place, cherish the缘分, whether it's a passerby in your life or a long-term friend, they are all wonderful memories in your life.

47. 人生总是会碰到很多的困难，人生就是一个选择的过程，每一种选择，同时也意味着放弃。人生的每一步，都是一个十字路口，其实每一条路都没有尽头，因为我们永无回头路可走。早安~

47. Life will always encounter many difficulties. Life is a process of choices, and every choice also means giving up something. Every step in life is a crossroads, and in fact, every path has no end, because there is no turning back. Good morning!

48. 努力没有希望，但努力有奔头。

48. Effort without hope, but effort with a direction.

49. 、如果有人伤害了你，可以怨恨，但不要太久。如果有人辜负了你，可以愤怒，但不要记挂。每个人都有自己的命运，你怨恨仇人，他却不会因这怨恨而改变命运，反倒可能过的更愉快。可是对你呢？仇恨是对一个人深深的记忆，不要让自己的心坐牢。有时候，彻底忘记才是最好的报复。

49. If someone has wronged you, you can harbor resentment, but don't let it linger too long. If someone has betrayed you, you can feel angry, but don't hold onto it. Everyone has their own destiny. If you harbor resentment against an enemy, he will not change his destiny because of your resentment, and he may even live a happier life. But what about you? Hatred is a deep memory of a person; don't let your heart be imprisoned. Sometimes, the best revenge is to completely forget.

50. 想别人未想的事，走在别人前面，让别人在后面追，而后在一片反对声中坚持自己的见解，这样的人怎能不成功？经验告诉我们：真理往往掌握在少数人的手里。

50. To think of things others have not thought of, to walk ahead of others, letting them chase you, and then to persist in your own views amidst a sea of opposition - how could such a person not succeed? Experience teaches us that truth is often in the hands of a few.

51. 如果有人伤害了你，可以怨恨，但不要太久。如果有人辜负了你，可以愤怒，但不要记挂。每个人都有自己的命运，你怨恨仇人，他却不会因这怨恨而改变命运，反倒可能过的更愉快。可是对你呢？仇恨是对一个人深深的记忆，不要让自己的心坐牢。有时候，彻底忘记才是最好的报复。

51. If someone has wronged you, you can harbor resentment, but not for too long. If someone has betrayed you, you can be angry, but do not hold onto it. Everyone has their own destiny. If you harbor resentment against an enemy, it will not change their destiny; instead, they may even live a happier life. But what about you? Hatred is a deep memory of a person, do not let your heart be imprisoned. Sometimes, the best revenge is to completely forget.

52. 人生是一场又一场离开，熟悉的陌生的，曾走近又走远的。过去只是经历，现在是尝试，人生如行路，一路艰辛，一路风景。你的目光所及，就是你的人生境界。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路；总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。与其埋怨，不如思变。

52. Life is a series of departures, from the familiar to the unfamiliar, from proximity to distance. The past is just experience, the present is an attempt, and life is like walking a path, fraught with hardships but also with beautiful scenery. The realm of your vision is your level of life. If you always see people who are better than yourself, it means you are on the rise; if you always see people who are not as good as yourself, it means you are on the decline. It's better to think of change than to complain.

53. * *只对攀登它而不是仰望它的人有真正的意义。

53. * *It truly matters only to those who climb it rather than gaze at it from afar.

54. 、某些记忆总会因遗失而不完整，而此刻人生因拥有而美好。人生不能靠心情活着，而要靠心态去生活。很多事，你越是想去弄个明白，反而越是困惑，心中一旦有了执念。就像线团，只会越扯越乱。子欲避之，反促遇之。凡事顺其自然就好。既来之，则安之，这才是生存之道。

54. Some memories are always incomplete because of their loss, but life is beautiful at this moment because of its possession. Life cannot rely on one's mood to live, but on one's attitude towards life. Many things, the more you try to figure out, the more confused you become, and once you have an obsession in your heart. It's like a tangled ball of yarn, it only gets messier the more you pull. When you want to avoid it, it seems to draw you in even more. Just let things take their course naturally. If you can't change it, accept it, and that is the way to survive.