心，最怕的莫过于分崩离析（爱情，总让人生分）。

The heart fears nothing more than disintegration (love always divides one's life).

1. 当我们第一次遇见你的时候，我们谁也没有想到，以后会是彼此的致命伤。

1. When we first met you, none of us ever imagined that it would later become each other's致命伤 (lethal wound, metaphorically referring to a fatal flaw or mistake).

2. 我想以勇气为外衣，做一个超人，不怕苦，被人深爱，被人保护。

2. I want to be a superhero, dressed in the cloak of courage, not afraid of hardship, deeply loved by others, and protected by them.

3. 有时候，你要相信，有些人注定留在你心里，却留不住你的生活。

3. Sometimes, you have to believe that some people are destined to stay in your heart but not in your life.

4. 真正爱你的人不会说很多爱你的话，但是会做很多爱你的事。

4. The person who truly loves you may not say many loving words, but will do many loving things.

5. 有时会建一堵墙。其实我也不想把所有人拒之门外，但是我要等一个足够在乎的人来拆墙。

5. Sometimes, a wall is built. In fact, I don't want to keep everyone out either, but I'm waiting for someone who cares enough to tear down the wall.

6. 只要结局和你在一起，过程都会让我痛苦。

6. As long as the ending is with you, the process will make me suffer.

7. 人生一半是现实，一半是梦想；爱情一半是缘分，一半是坚持。

7. Half of life is reality, and half is dream; half of love is fate, and half is persistence.

8. 你总是有借口回避我，敷衍我。其实我什么都知道。

8. You always have excuses to avoid me and just敷衍 me. In fact, I know everything.

9. 任何人都可以抓住你的眼睛，但只有一个特别的人才能抓住你的心。

9. Anyone can capture your eyes, but only a special person can capture your heart.

10. 有时候，我就是想哭，因为心里委屈。有时候，我就是因为抑郁想疯。

10. Sometimes, I just want to cry because I feel wronged in my heart. Sometimes, I just want to go crazy because of depression.

11. 最后，你真正拥有的只是你自己的故事。

11. In the end, what you truly possess is your own story.

12. 你是我的安眠药，但偶尔的失败会让我难受痛苦。

12. You are my sleeping pill, but occasional failures make me feel uncomfortable and painful.

13. 记住，我曾经很爱你。后来，我明白了，明白了，你从来没有关心过我。

13. Remember, I once loved you very much. Later on, I realized, realized, that you never cared about me.

14. 有时候会有命中，命中不会一直强行。

14. Sometimes there will be hits, but hits won't keep on forcing.

15. 不管路有多远，路上都布满荆棘。只要走下去，勇敢地战胜荆棘，你就会到达目的地。

15. No matter how far the road is, it is full of thorns along the way. As long as you continue to walk and bravely overcome the thorns, you will reach your destination.

16. 每次想你，我都要提醒自己，如果你想我，你早就说过话了。

16. Every time I think of you, I have to remind myself that if you miss me, you would have said something long ago.

17. 大概是因为喜欢，所以什么都可以妥协。

17. Perhaps it's because of the liking that one can compromise on anything.

18. 在明媚的青春里，总有一些不为人知的伤痛。

18. In the bright days of youth, there are always some unspoken wounds.

19. 如果你问我你从我心里穿过多少次，我会说一次，因为你从来没有真正离开过。

19. If I were asked how many times you have passed through my heart, I would say once, because you have never truly left.

20. 你是我可以不眨眼说喜欢的人，而我是你可以不抬头就放手的人。

20. You are the person I can talk about without blinking, and I am the person you can let go of without even looking up.

21. 女人的口是心非我想大部分男人都应该体会过吧，很多男人都会感叹自己次猜不透女人的心思，因为大部分女人在感情里总是会嘴上说的和心里想的不一样。

21. Women's words often don't align with their hearts, and I think most men must have experienced this. Many men often sigh that they can't figure out a woman's thoughts, because most women will always say one thing but think another in matters of romance.

22. 男人爱一个人就是大胆说出来，但是女人爱一个人可能会藏在心里，甚至表现出对你没感觉的样子。其实很多时候并不是敢表白的爱情就是真爱，爱从来都是体现在真心的对待和相处中的。

22. When a man loves someone, he dares to express it, but a woman might keep her love hidden in her heart, even acting as if she's not interested in you. In reality, it's not always the love that dares to declare itself that is true love; love always manifests in sincere treatment and interaction.

23. 女人表达爱的方式和男人有很大的不同，女人这样“冷淡”你，不是不爱你，而是心里太在乎你，你都懂吗？

23. Women express love in a very different way from men. When a woman treats you coldly like this, it's not that she doesn't love you, but rather that she cares about you too much. Do you understand that?

24. 女人在你追求她的时候没有很快答应，反而有点冷淡你。

24. When you are pursuing her, the woman does not quickly agree, but instead becomes somewhat indifferent to you.

25. 现在人的爱情，最不好的一点就是太快了，很多男女刚认识几天可能就在一起了，不光男人随意表达自己的所谓的喜欢，女人也从来学不会拒绝，随随便便就跟一个男人在一起。这种爱情真的是好的吗？毋庸置疑这样的爱情是随意且无法长久的。

25. The worst thing about people's love today is that it's too fast. Many men and women may start dating just a few days after meeting. Not only do men freely express what they claim to be their affection, but women also never learn to reject, and casually get involved with a man. Is this kind of love really good? There is no doubt that such love is casual and cannot last long.

26. 女人若是这的用心对一段感情，在自己心仪的男人追求自己的时候，女人反而不会很快就答应。这其实更是一种对感情负责任的态度，因为女人会想用更多的时间和你去相处，了解你真正的人品和性格，去试探你对她是不是真心的。女人这时候冷淡你，不是因为她不喜欢你，而是在试探和犹豫。

26. If a woman is serious about a relationship, when the man she admires is pursuing her, she won't readily agree. This is actually a more responsible attitude towards a relationship, because she wants to spend more time with you to understand your true character and personality, and to test whether you are sincere to her. Her coldness towards you at this time is not because she doesn't like you, but because she is testing and hesitating.

27. 女人若是真的不喜欢你早就拒绝了，所以男人要做的就是展现自己的真心，用真诚让女人知道你是真的喜欢她。

27. If a woman really doesn't like you, she would have rejected you long ago, so what men need to do is to show their sincerity and use honesty to let the woman know that you really like her.

28. 女人在和你发生矛盾的时候没有与你争辩，而是冷淡你。

28. When a woman has a conflict with you, she doesn't argue with you but instead treats you coldly.

29. 情侣之间发生一些小矛盾是必然的，相处在一起肯定会有一些分歧，但是每当这个时候，女人一般都不会和男人去争去吵，当男人真的不理解自己的时候，大部分女人会选择沉默，冷淡自己的男友。

29. It's inevitable for couples to have some minor disputes; there will certainly be some disagreements when living together. However, at such times, women generally do not argue with men. When men truly do not understand them, most women choose to be silent and treat their boyfriends coldly.

30. 很多男人总是会有一些大男子主义，发生问题的时候没有站在女人的角度思考问题，从而忽视了女人的感受。这个时候女人又开始冷淡自己，男人就会认为女人是不爱自己了，但其实事实根本就不是这样的。

30. Many men tend to be somewhat macho, and when problems arise, they fail to consider issues from a woman's perspective, thus overlooking her feelings. At this time, the woman may start to become cold to herself, and the man might think that the woman no longer loves him. However, the actual situation is nothing like that.

31. 女人越是爱你就越是不知道怎么表达自己内心的想法，有的时候自己的脾气上来了，男人又不来安慰，女人只能自己默默生气不理你。男人这个时候千万不能把女人搁在一边，只要你哄哄她，其实她就原谅你了。

31. The more a woman loves you, the less she knows how to express her inner thoughts. Sometimes when her temper rises, and the man doesn't come to comfort her, the woman can only silently be angry and ignore you. At this time, the man must never leave the woman aside. As long as you comfort her, she will actually forgive you.

32. 女人在你和她说分手的时候，没有挽留而是很冷淡。

32. When you tell her you want to break up, she doesn't try to persuade you to stay but is very indifferent.

33. 当两个人的爱情真的走到终点，男人主动和女人提出分手的时候，女人不会哭闹，也不会挽留，而是很冷淡地说了一个字：“好”。女人这样回答是因为她真的不爱你了吗？她真的一点都不难过吗？其实结果恰恰相反。女人这样冷淡，其实是她自己给自己留下的最后的尊严，她想让自己看起来酷一点体面一点，其实她的内心是非常伤心痛苦的。

33. When the love between two people truly reaches its end, and a man initiates a breakup with a woman, she won't cry or beg, but rather coldly say a single word: "Okay." Does this response mean she really doesn't love you anymore? Is she not at all sad? In fact, the opposite is true. The woman's coldness is actually the last尊严 she leaves for herself. She wants to appear cool and dignified, but in reality, her heart is deeply hurt and painful.

34. 所以说啊，女人的心思有时候虽然很难猜，但是她们爱一个人的真心其实很简单，生气的时候希望你先低头认个错，不理你的时候希望你主动去哄哄她。

34. So, you see, although women's thoughts can sometimes be hard to decipher, their true feelings for someone they love are actually quite simple. When they're angry, they wish for you to apologize first, and when they ignore you, they hope you'll take the initiative to comfort them.

35. 她虽然有时候古怪一些，无理取闹一些，但是她爱你的心却是真的。

35. She may be a bit strange and unreasonable sometimes, but her love for you is real.

36. 1莫名的感伤莫名中升起，那是无法排遣的孤独。

36. 1 An undefined melancholy rises from nowhere, that is an unshakeable loneliness.

37. 2我不喜欢回忆，可你偏偏只留下了一大堆回忆给我。

37. 2 I don't like to reminisce, but you just left me with a bunch of memories instead.

38. 3尽管我努力追逐着你的步伐可最终还是成为了你的回忆。

38.3. Despite my efforts to keep up with your steps, I ultimately became your memory.

39. 5那些别扭又违心的嫌弃，都是说不出口的喜欢。

39. 5 Those awkward and unnatural complaints are all unspoken likes.

40. 7已经记不起那是什么滋味，只知道流下的泪水比海水咸，海水比泪水冰。

40.7 I can't remember what that taste was, only knowing that the tears I shed are saltier than the sea, and the sea is colder than the tears.

41. 9时间反复逼得我不得不承认，你是我不该爱的人。

41. The repeated pressing of the 9 times has forced me to admit that you are not the person I should have loved.

42. 12藏了好久的话。终于说了出来。充满了我的心酸和无奈。可是你好像什么都不懂。

42. Words I've kept hidden for so long. I've finally said them out loud. They're filled with my heartache and helplessness. But it seems like you don't understand anything.

43. 13有没有一个地方，让我可以不惧悲伤的躲藏。

43. Is there a place where I can hide from sorrow without fear?

44. 14任何一件事情，只要心甘情愿，总是能够变得简单。

44. 14 Anything, as long as one is willing, can always become simple.

45. 15直至与你来不及道别，就奔向各自的轨道，我才相信，人各有命，这个最浅显的道理。

45. It was only until I couldn't say goodbye in time and we both rushed onto our separate tracks that I truly believed in the most obvious truth: everyone has their own destiny.

46. 脸上的快乐，别人看得到。心里的痛又有谁能感觉到。

46. The joy on one's face is visible to others. But who can feel the pain in one's heart?

47. 分手后不可以做朋友，因为彼此伤害过。不可以做敌人。因为彼此深爱过，所以我们变成了最熟悉的陌生人。

47. One cannot be friends after a breakup, because we have hurt each other. One cannot be enemies either. Because we have deeply loved each other, we have become the most familiar strangers.

48. 既然爱，为什么不说出口，有些东西失去了，就在也回不来了!

48. Since you love, why not say it out loud? Some things, once lost, can never be retrieved!

49. 第一次哭是因为你不在，第一次笑是因为遇到你，第一次笑着流泪是因为不能拥有你!

49. The first cry was because you were not there, the first smile was because I met you, and the first tears while smiling were because I couldn't have you!

50. 没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。

50. A life without love is incomplete, and love without pain is shallow. Love enriches life, and pain elevates love.

51. 我放下了尊严，放下了个性，放下了固执，都只是因为放不下你。

51. I let go of my dignity, my personality, and my stubbornness, all just because I couldn't let you go.

52. 一个做女人的痛苦：当她和她所爱的男人有了肉体关系以后，她就很自然地把这种关系视为一种永远，但男人却可以不同，他们可能只会觉得那是生存方式的又一种演绎。正如书上说的：男女之间，在没有婚姻的承诺前，还是保持简单的关系为好，否则，真的没有岁月可以回头。

52. A woman's pain of being a woman: After she has a physical relationship with the man she loves, she naturally considers this relationship as eternal, but men may not feel the same way; they might only see it as another form of life style. As the book says: Between men and women, it is better to maintain a simple relationship before making any marital commitment; otherwise, there really are no years to turn back.

53. 相爱是种感觉，当这种感觉已经不在时，我却还在勉强自己，这叫责任!分手是种勇气!当这种勇气已经不在时，我却还在鼓励自己，这叫悲壮!

53. Love is a feeling, and when this feeling is no longer there, yet I still force myself to endure, that's called responsibility! Breaking up is a kind of courage! When this courage is no longer present, yet I still encourage myself, that's called tragic heroism!

54. 不要轻易说爱，许下的承诺就是欠下的债!伤人最深的不是爱情，是回忆!岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。

54. Don't easily say "I love you," for the promises you make are debts you owe! The deepest hurt is not love, but memories! Time flows like a river, the left bank filled with unforgettable memories, the right bank with the precious youth to grasp, and in the middle, swiftly flowing, is the subtle sadness of youth.

55. 我以为小鸟飞不过沧海，是以为小鸟没有飞过沧海的勇气，十年以后我才发现，不是小鸟飞不过去，而是沧海的那一头，早已没有了等待……

55. I thought that the little bird couldn't fly over the sea because I believed that the little bird lacked the courage to do so. Ten years later, I realized that it wasn't that the little bird couldn't fly over, but that on the other side of the sea, there had already been no one waiting...

56. 你走的那天，我决定不掉泪，迎着风撑着眼帘用力不眨眼……

56. On the day you left, I decided not to shed tears, and I faced the wind, holding my eyelids tightly, not blinking...

57. 木头对火说：“抱我”!火拥抱了木头\木头微笑着化为灰烬!火哭了!泪水熄灭了自己……当木头爱上烈火注定会被烧伤……

57. The wood said to the fire, "Hug me!" The fire embraced the wood. The wood smiled and turned to ashes! The fire cried. Its tears extinguished itself... When the wood falls in love with the fierce fire, it is doomed to be burned...

58. 当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。

58. It is only when the tears flow down that one realizes that separation is also a form of understanding.

59. 我真的爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己……

59. I really love you, closing my eyes, I thought I could forget, but the tears that fell did not deceive myself...

60. 回家的路上我哭了，眼泪再一次崩溃孓。无能为力这样走着，再也不敢骄傲奢求了。我还能够说些什么，我还能够做些什么我好希望你会听见，因为爱你我让你走了……

60. On the way home, I cried, and my tears broke down again. Unable to bear walking like this, I no longer dare to be proud and make excessive demands. What else can I say, what else can I do? I so hope you would hear me, because loving you, I let you go...

61. 是我的终究是我的`我终归是你的一个过客`你始终不爱我`注定我和你就是什么都不会发生`注定`注定只是注定`不管我怎么跨越不管我怎么想靠近你`你还是会离开我的`我好想你`好想好想你`好想好想见你。

61. What is meant for me will always be mine. 'I will always be just a passerby in your life.' You never loved me, and it was destined that nothing would happen between us and you. Destiny is destiny, no matter how I try to bridge the gap or how much I want to get closer to you, you will still leave me. I miss you so much, I miss you so, so much, I so, so want to see you.

62. 有的人与人之间的相遇就像是流星，瞬间迸发出令人羡慕的火花，却注定只是匆匆而过。

62. Some encounters between people are like meteors, briefly bursting into a dazzling spark that is enviable, yet destined to pass by in haste.

63. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

63. Time will slowly settle, and some people will gradually fade in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs to be fulfilled by yourself.

64. 我能感觉到你的心痛，你有你说不出的无奈。但是你做出一副无所谓的样子，你越是这样我就越难受。

64. I can feel the pain in your heart, and you have an unexpressed helplessness. But the more you act like it doesn't matter, the more it makes me feel bad.

65. 有些的时候，正是为了爱才悄悄躲开。躲开的是身影，躲不开的却是那份默默的情怀。

65. Sometimes, it is precisely out of love that one悄悄 withdraws. The figure can be withdrawn, but the silent affection cannot be.

66. 爱到分才显珍贵，很多人都不懂珍惜拥有。只到失去才看到，其实那最熟悉的才是最珍贵的。

66. Love only becomes precious when it is divided, and many people do not understand the value of what they possess. It is only when it is lost that one realizes that what is most familiar is actually the most precious.

67. 有时，爱也是种伤害。残忍的人，选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己。

67. Sometimes, love can also be a form of hurt. The cruel ones choose to hurt others, while the kind-hearted ones choose to hurt themselves.

68. 淋过雨的空气，疲倦了的伤心，我记忆里的童话已经慢慢的融化。

68. The air after the rain, the weary sadness, the fairy tales in my memory have slowly melted away.

69. 人生不止，寂寞不已。寂寞人生爱无休，寂寞是爱永远的主题。我和我的影子独处。它说它有悄悄话想跟我说。它说它很想念你^原来`我和我的影子`都在想你`

69. Life goes on, but loneliness never ceases. In a life of solitude, love never ends; loneliness is the eternal theme of love. I am alone with my shadow. It whispers that it has something to say to me. It says it misses you. It turns out that both 'me and my shadow' are missing you.

70. 在完美的彼岸刚刚上演了一场悲剧，所有的血与泪在枯萎的荆棘蕴育出一个花蕾，它将经历轮回的七场雷雨，然后绽放在潮湿的空气中……

70. A tragedy has just unfolded on the shore of perfection, where all the blood and tears have nurtured a bud among withering thorns, which will undergo seven cycles of thunderstorms in the轮回, then blossom in the damp air...

71. 鱼上钩了，那是因为鱼爱上了渔夫，它愿用生命来博渔夫一笑……

71. The fish is on the hook because it has fallen in love with the fisherman, willing to use its life to win a smile from the fisherman...

72. 喜欢在你身上留下属於我的印记，却不曾记起你从未属於过我……

72. I like to leave my mark on you, but I never remember that you never belonged to me...

73. 如果有一天，不再喜欢你了，我的生活会不会又像从前那样堕落，颓废…我不想再要那样的生活，所以，在我还没有放弃你之前，请你，至少要喜欢上我……

73. If one day I stop liking you, will my life descend back into the same decadence and decline as before... I don't want to live that kind of life anymore, so, before I give up on you, please, at least like me...

74. 其实我一直在你身边守候，等你靠在我肩上诉说，会不会有那么一天，你的温柔都属于我，我不会再让你难过，让你的泪再流!

74. In fact, I have been waiting by your side all along, for the day when you can lean on my shoulder and pour out your tales. Will there come a day when all your tenderness belongs to me, and I will no longer let you be sad, or let your tears flow again!

75. 你当我是个风筝，要不把我放了，要不然收好带回家，别用一条看不见的情思拴着我，让我心伤。

75. Treat me as a kite, either let me go or keep me safely and take me home. Don't tie me down with invisible strings that wound my heart.

76. 窗外下着雪，泡一杯咖啡，握到它凉了，才知道又想起了你。我的期待你如何才能明白!

76. Snow is falling outside the window, I brewed a cup of coffee, held it until it cooled, and then I realized I had thought of you again. How can you understand my expectations!

77. 岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。世间有许多美好的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

77. Time is like a river, with the left bank being the unforgettable memories, the right bank the precious youth to be cherished, and in between, swiftly flowing, is the subtle sadness of youth. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many truly belong to us. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in the courtyard, untroubled by honor or disgrace, observing the clouds rise and disperse in the sky, with no intention of staying or leaving. In this entangled secular world, being able to learn to treat everything around with a calm heart is also a kind of realm.

78. 我们的生活有太多无奈，我们无法改变，也无力去改变，更糟的是，我们失去了改变的想法……

78. Our lives are filled with too many helplessnesses that we cannot change, nor do we have the strength to change them. Worst of all, we have lost the will to change...

79. 看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。

79. Watch the flowers bloom and wither in front of the courtyard, unmovable by fame and disgrace; observe the clouds roll up and disperse in the sky, indifferent to their coming and going.

80. 在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

80. In this entangled secular world, to be able to learn to treat everything around with a calm heart is also a level of accomplishment.

81. 人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地，坚持了不该坚持的……

81. The greatest regret in life is probably to easily give up what should not be given up, and to stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in...

82. 简单安静的生活其实不幸福\所以我只拥抱刹那\绵延持久的感觉根本不快乐\所以我只信仰瞬间。

82. A simple and quiet life is actually not happy, so I only embrace the moment. The feeling of enduring and lasting is not joyful at all, so I only believe in the instant.

83. 有些失去是注定的，有些缘分是永远不会有结果的。爱一个人不一定会拥有，拥有一个人就一定要好好去爱她……

83. Some losses are predetermined, and some relationships will never have a result. To love someone doesn't necessarily mean you will possess them, but if you do, you must love them well...

84. 心已死，泪也干，不堪回首魂亦牵。梦惊醒，不了情，往事如烟挥不去。亦虚亦实，亦爱亦恨，叶落无声花自残。只道是，寻寻觅觅，冷冷清清，凄凄惨惨戚戚;却无奈，天长地久有时尽，此恨绵绵无绝期。

84. The heart is dead, tears have dried, and it's unbearable to look back, as the soul is also entangled. The dream wakes up, and the unrequited love remains, past memories like smoke that cannot be dispersed. It's both虚and实, both love and hate, as leaves fall silently and flowers self-destruct. It is said that one searches and searches, cold and desolate, desolate and pitiful; yet helplessly, there is an end to the long and eternal, this grudge stretches endlessly without end.

85. 世界上没有任何东西可以永恒。如果它流动，它就流走;如果它存着，它就干涸;如果它生长，它就慢慢凋零。

85. There is nothing in the world that is eternal. If it flows, it runs away; if it remains, it dries up; if it grows, it slowly withers away.

86. 如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧;如果，舍不得、放不下，那就痛苦吧。

86. If you are not happy, if you are not joyful, then let go; if you cannot bear to let go, then endure the pain.

87. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二，一是欲望没有被满足，二是它得到了满足。

87. Life is but a short span of a few decades, so don't leave any regrets behind. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. Love when you should, and don't suppress yourself unnecessarily. There are two sources of melancholy in life: one is unfulfilled desires, and the other is the satisfaction of those desires.