1. 一等人，有本事，无脾气。 二等人，有本事，有脾气。 三等人，无本事，无脾气。 四等人，无本事，大脾气。

1. The first-class person has ability but no temperament. The second-class person has ability and temperament. The third-class person has no ability but no temperament. The fourth-class person has no ability and a big temperament.

2. 做人要吃三碗面，一是情面，二是体面，三是场面。这是三碗难吃的面，可是为了朋友，再难吃都要吃。

2. A person should eat three bowls of noodles: one is face value (consideration for others), the second is dignity, and the third is the public face. These are three bowls of unpleasant noodles, but for the sake of friends, one must eat them despite their bitterness.

3. 一起去看电影。不一定所有情节你们都记得，但是她会很久很久以后还记得你曾陪她看过电影。

3. Go see a movie together. You may not remember all the plots, but she will remember for a very long time that you accompanied her to watch a movie.

4. 爱情生活或者婚姻生活是两个人的，所以不必太自我，多为对方着想和付出。

4. Love life or marital life is a matter for two people, so one should not be too self-centered. Think more about the other person and be willing to make sacrifices.

5. 有了矛盾，立刻解决。否则怨恨会像无底洞，吞噬了你们的感情，难以重合。

5. If there are conflicts, resolve them immediately. Otherwise, resentment will be like an endless pit, consuming your feelings and making it hard to reconcile.

6. 不要认为每个女子都爱钱如命。你赚钱很辛苦，但这个世界上能养活自己的女人比比皆是。

6. Don't assume that every woman loves money more than anything. You work hard to make a living, but there are plenty of women in the world who can support themselves.

7. 帮你爱的人买礼物。你赚钱为了什么？而且，一个真正爱你的人是不会乱花你的钱的。

7. Buy gifts for the one you love. What are you earning money for? Moreover, a truly loving person would not squander your money.

8. 她有人追求，说明她很有魅力，不要因此发无名火，吃无名醋。更不能误会，而是要更加去好好爱。

8. She has suitors, which means she is very charming. Don't let this cause you to lose your temper or feel envious without reason. Even more importantly, don't misunderstand; instead, you should love her even better.

9. 牵她的手漫步。两个人走路，不是为了让别人看，是要两个人感觉幸福。因为十指相握是幸福。

9. Hold her hand and stroll together. Walking side by side is not to be seen by others, but to feel happy as two people. Because holding hands is happiness.

10. 锦上添花的事情让别人去做。我只做雪中送炭的事情。

10. Let others do the things that add flowers to the brocade. I only do things that provide warmth in the midst of snow.

11. 一群人中最安静的人往往最有实力 ——“动如火掠，不动如山”。

11. The quietest person in a group is often the most powerful — "moves like fire, stays still like a mountain."

12. 不要用女朋友的数量来显示你的魅力。你完全可以用事业和顾家好男人来展示你的优秀。

12. Don't use the number of your girlfriends to show off your charm. You can completely demonstrate your excellence through your career and being a caring, family-oriented man.

13. 女人是用来疼的，如果你没有把握让一个女人幸福，反倒一直给他难过痛苦，请记住这不是在爱她。

13. Women are meant to be cherished. If you are not sure how to make a woman happy, and instead you keep making her sad and suffer, remember that is not love.

14. 善忘是一件好事。善良的人不记得对别人好过，也不记得别人对自己坏过。

14. Forgetting is a good thing. Kind people don't remember having been good to others, nor do they remember others having been bad to them.

15. 快乐最重要，何人、何物、何事使你快乐，你就同他们在一起。何人，何事，何物让你不快乐，你就离开他。

15. Happiness is the most important thing; be with whoever, whatever, or whatever brings you joy. Leave whoever, whatever, or whatever makes you unhappy.

16. 记得她的生日，否则有可能下一个生日她跟别人过去了。

16. Remember her birthday, otherwise there's a possibility that by her next birthday, she might have moved on with someone else.

17. 偶尔给对方惊喜。爱情不一定常常在激-情的最顶端，但是你可以学会制造浪漫。不要让爱情变得空洞无味。

17. Occasionally surprise the other person. Love doesn't always have to be at the peak of passion, but you can learn to create romance. Don't let love become hollow and tasteless.

18. 重情之人，难有爱情之幸福。当你说岀爱字，你就处于被动。爱情的真谛是欲擒故纵，鲜花大都插在牛粪上。骏马常驮痴汉走，巧女常伴愚夫眠。

18. Those who place great value on emotions find it difficult to experience happiness in love. When you say the word 'love,' you are in a passive position. The essence of love is to entice by means of restraint; most beautiful flowers are often planted on cow dung. Fine horses often carry foolish men, while clever women often accompany foolish husbands to sleep.

19. 记得给她家里打电话，而不是她催着你打。人家老人家将养了几十年的女儿嫁给你，那是你多么大的福分。

19. Remember to call her family's home, not because she is urging you to do so. They have raised their daughter for decades and now she is married to you, that is a great blessing for you.

20. 不管你在世界的哪个地方，当你的太太要生孩子时，一定要在她身边。?>

20. No matter where you are in the world, you must be by your wife's side when she is about to give birth.

21. 吃是实功，赌是对冲，嫖是落空。

21. Eating is real work, gambling is hedging, and whoring is in vain.

22. 不要认为情人节送花是无聊的行为。又不是每天都要你送，找那么无聊的借口干嘛？

22. Don't think that giving flowers on Valentine's Day is a boring act. It's not every day that you're supposed to send them, why look for such a boring excuse?

23. 看穿但不说穿，只要心里有数就好了，没必要说出来。

23. See through but don't say it, just keep it in mind, there's no need to say it out loud.

24. 抽固定的时间陪她。你工作都是为了生活，那么，她应该是你生活里最重要的一部分。

24. Spend fixed time with her. Since you work for a living, she should be the most important part of your life.

25. 不要真的以为得不到的才是最好的。还不如好好珍惜现在拥有的。

25. Don't really think that what you can't get is the best. It's better to cherish what you have now.

26. 陪她外出散心，顺便加深感情。女人喜欢放松时男人说的心里话。

26. Accompany her on outings to clear her mind, and take this opportunity to deepen your feelings. Women like to hear men's sincere words when they are relaxed.

27. 如果你爱一个人，请你温柔的呵护她；如果不爱，直说。女人都很傻的，从她爱上你的那一刻，便身心俱付。

27. If you love someone, please cherish her gently; if you don't, be straightforward. Women are all very naive; from the moment they fall in love with you, they give their all, both physically and emotionally.

28. 吃东西时，不要傻傻的问：你吃不吃？更不要在对方说不想吃之后就立即吃个精光。那是自私的表现。

28. When eating, don't foolishly ask: "Are you going to eat?" And definitely don't finish everything up immediately after the other person says they don't want to eat. That's an act of selfishness.

29. 对人必须诚恳， 即使有人欺瞒与一时， 我总能以诚子来感动他， 是他心悦臣服。我的处事之道， 尽在一个诚字， 你们举一反三， 方始可以交友。

29. One must be sincere towards others, even if some deceive for a moment, I can always move them with sincerity and make them willing to submit. My approach to handling affairs is summed up in one word: sincerity. You must generalize from this to make friends.

30. 对你吹拍人，最可能背叛你。伤你最深的人，一定是你最爱的人。百分之七十的凶杀案发生于熟人之间。生虎犹可近，熟人不可亲。

30. The person who flatters and pampers you the most is the one who is most likely to betray you. The person who wounds you the deepest is the one you love the most. Seventy percent of homicides occur among acquaintances. You can get close to a wild tiger, but not to a close friend.

31. 想她的时候，告诉她。爱她的话，要说出来。她听后也一样的爱你。

31. When you miss her, let her know. If you love her, speak it out. She will love you just as much after hearing it.

32. 背叛你的女孩，再侮辱你，一生命保恶有恶报。早年的班花、校花，有几个会有晚年的幸福？猛虎别在当道卧，困龙也有上天时。

32. The girl who betrays you and then insults you will face bad luck throughout her life; evil will be repaid with evil. Among the school beauties of your youth, how many will have happiness in their old age? A fierce tiger doesn't always lie on the path; even a trapped dragon has its time to rise to the heavens.

33. 你工作再忙，也要记得打个电话给你心爱的人，不会花掉你太多时间金钱。因为她在等待，少给她失望。

33. No matter how busy you are with work, remember to give a call to the one you love. It won't take up too much of your time or money. Because she's waiting, and giving her less disappointment.