1. 在你疲劳的时候向孩子撒撒娇，告诉他你今天不想当妈妈了，想当孩子，向他提出要这要那的要求。

1. When you are tired, show a bit of撒娇 to your child. Tell them that you don't want to be a mother today and would rather be a child, and make demands on them for this and that.

2. 智慧的女人可以让家更温馨，智慧的女人可以让家更温暖。一个充满阳光又不失乐趣的港湾，不会让男人在疲惫时，感到厌倦；更不会让男人在痛苦时，感到无助；女人的半边天是在家里，为男人撑起的爱的风帆。

2. A wise woman can make a home cozier, and a wise woman can make a home warmer. A haven filled with sunshine and yet not lacking in joy will not make a man feel weary when he is tired; nor will it make him feel helpless when he is in pain. The woman's half of the sky is at home, where she raises the sail of love for the man.

3. 好男人找伴侣，是在找一个妻子一样的女孩，而不是情人一样的女孩。所以，要明白自己应该向哪个方向发展。?>

3. A good man seeks a partner to find a girl like a wife, not like a mistress. So, it is important to understand which direction you should develop in.

4. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。

4. If you can express the hurt, it's not a real hurt; if you can take away the beloved, they're not truly loved.

5. 不要把心底的话全掏出来，这些是只属于你的财富。

5. Do not pour out all your innermost thoughts; these are the wealth that belongs solely to you.

6. 骗一个人，要费好大的劲，不在乎她又如何肯骗她，所以将来有人苦苦蒙骗你，千万不要拆穿他。

6. It takes a great deal of effort to deceive someone, and it doesn't matter if she is willing to be deceived or not. Therefore, if someone is desperately trying to deceive you in the future, never try to expose them.

7. 女人可以不养家，但绝对不可以没有工作，就算是赚钱不多，也可以让自己不再有依赖的心理，甚至还可以得到婆婆的尊重，让自己活得更加精彩。

7. A woman can choose not to support the family, but she absolutely cannot be without a job. Even if it doesn't earn much money, it can help her overcome the sense of dependence, and even earn her mother-in-law's respect, making her life more vibrant.

8. 都说女人不要太坚强，否则会没有人疼。可是谁又知道如果她不自立不自强不坚强，谁又能在她需要肩膀的时候给她温暖？

8. People always say that women should not be too strong, otherwise no one will take care of them. But who knows if she does not stand on her own two feet, does not strive for self-reliance and strength, then who will offer her warmth when she needs a shoulder to lean on?

9. 自信者不疑人，人亦信之。自疑者不信人，人亦疑之。

9. Those who are confident do not suspect others, and others also trust them. Those who suspect themselves do not trust others, and others also suspect them.

10. 如果爱一个人，千万不要与他同居或是结婚。维持一个辽阔的距离，偶遇，可以爱慕的目光致敬，轻俏温柔，不着边际地问："好吗？"一年一次已经足够。

10. If you love someone, never live with them or marry them. Maintain a wide distance, meet by chance, pay homage with adoring eyes, light and gentle, and casually ask, "Are you okay?" Once a year is enough.

11. 生命中，不断的有人离开或进入，看见的、看不见的，记住的、遗忘的；生命中，不断的有得失和失落，看不见的、看见的；遗忘的、记住的！每天早上醒来，看见你和阳光都在，这就是我想要的未来。做个淡淡的女子，仅此而已。

11. In life, there is a continuous departure and arrival of people, those seen and unseen, remembered and forgotten; in life, there is an endless cycle of gains and losses, seen and unseen, forgotten and remembered! Every morning when I wake up and see you and the sunlight both there, that is the future I want. To be a gentle woman, that's all I want.

12. 女人一成不变则男人肯定会变，因为男人挣钱喜欢看着女人花，太太不舍得花就一定会有其他女人替你花，因此，没有必要为男人过分省钱。

12. If a woman remains unchanged, a man will definitely change, because men like to watch women spend money on earning it. If the wife is unwilling to spend, there will definitely be other women who will spend it for you. Therefore, there is no need to save money for men excessively.

13. 寂寞时看看好友的短信，或给他们发发，收到他们的短信，你会觉得做个现代人真好，即使相隔千山万水，一秒钟就可以知道彼此的情况。

13. When feeling lonely, read the text messages from your friends, or send some to them. Receiving their messages makes you feel that it's great to be a modern person, even though we are separated by mountains and rivers, we can know each other's conditions in just one second.

14. 以直觉和性情生存，喜欢一切美丽的事物。要有最柔软的心，即使年华老去，依旧拥有今日剔透纯净的眼睛。

14. Live by intuition and temperament, loving all things beautiful. Possess the softest heart, and even as the years pass by, still retain the clear and pure eyes of today.

15. 一定要明白，自己所做的一切都是为了追寻一种状态，一种自我的满足感和幸福感。不要害怕什么，这世上可供害怕的事太多了，你是害怕不完的。有事情，就解决，不能解决，那就拉倒。

15. Always remember that everything you do is in pursuit of a state, a sense of self-satisfaction and happiness. Do not be afraid of anything, for there are too many things in this world to be afraid of, and you can never be afraid of them all. If there is something, deal with it; if you cannot solve it, then let it be.

16. 男人虽然喜欢摆出点大男子主义的姿态，但绝大多数男人更喜欢的是那种思想上独立、人格上独立、经济上独立的女人，毕竟，妻子才是家里的核心。

16. Although men like to put on a bit of a macho facade, the vast majority of men prefer women who are independent in thought, independent in character, and independent in economics, after all, the wife is the core of the family.

17. 我要很多很多的爱。如果没有爱，那么就很多很多的钱，如果两件都没有，有健康也是好的。

17. I need a lot and a lot of love. If I don't have love, then a lot and a lot of money would do. If I don't have either of those, having good health is also good.

18. 一个女人可以不漂亮，可以不美丽，甚至也没多少气质，但是不能没有教养，教养是一种潜在的品质，也不会多么直接地吸引人的眼光，但是，对凡尘中的我们来说，生活需要女人有教养，家庭需要女人有教养。

18. A woman may not be beautiful or pretty, and she may not possess much elegance, but she cannot lack education. Education is an inherent quality that does not attract attention directly, but for us in the mundane world, life requires that women be educated, and families require that women be educated.

19. 有教养的女人，面对名利金钱的**，会三思而行，反复斟酌，不会轻易让自己陷入尴尬的处境。有教养的女人，在平静的岁月，是柔风细雨，于淡然中抒旖旎柔情。

19. An educated woman, faced with fame, wealth, and money, will think thrice before acting, weigh her decisions carefully, and would not easily place herself in an embarrassing situation. In peaceful times, an educated woman is like a gentle breeze and soft rain, expressing her graceful tenderness in her composed demeanor.

20. 做不到是你自己的事，午夜梦回，你爱怎么回味就怎么回味，但人前人后，我要你装出什么都没有发生过的样子。你可以的，我们都可以，人都是这般活下来的。

20. It's your own business if you can't do it. When you dream at midnight, you can relish it however you like. But in public and in private, I want you to act as if nothing ever happened. You can do it, we all can, that's how people survive.

21. 走路抬头挺胸，遇见不想招呼的人，点头微笑，径直走过。

21. Walk with your head up and chest out, when you meet someone you don't want to greet, just nod and smile, and walk straight past.

22. 我提着一个袋子，边走边拾。一路上拾起无数我不想要的东西。当我遇到我真正想要的东西之时，袋子已经装满了。

22. I was carrying a bag and picking things up as I walked. Along the way, I collected countless things I didn't want. By the time I encountered what I truly wanted, the bag was already full.

23. 不要在流眼泪的时候做任何决定，情绪负面的时候说话越少越好。

23. Do not make any decisions when you are crying, and it's better to say less when you are in a negative emotional state.

24. 如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。

24. If any man has said something embarrassing to you, forgive him. A man who is forgiven will eventually regret losing a girlfriend as宽容 as you.

25. 男人！当你要求一个女人像女人的时候，问问你自己有几成像男人！

25. Men! When you ask a woman to act like a woman, ask yourself how much of you is like a man!

26. 现在社会的真实现象：当你把地板擦得比你的脸还亮时，你的老公也不会多看你一眼，因为他希望你的脸比地板亮。

26. A realistic phenomenon in today's society: If you clean the floor so that it shines brighter than your face, your husband still won't give you a second glance, because he hopes your face is brighter than the floor.

27. 有事业心的女人决不做三围女人，整天围着锅台转，精力围着老公转，生命围着孩子转，以至于彻底地完全地失去了生命中独立的自我。

27. Ambitious women will never be confined to the three dimensions of a woman, constantly revolving around the kitchen stove, their energy revolving around their husband, and their life revolving around their children, to the point of completely and utterly losing the independent self within their life.

28. 永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧会勒死他的。

28. Never endlessly circle around the man you like. Even though you love him to the point of being willing to give your heart and soul, you still need to learn to give him space. Otherwise, be careful not to hold him too tightly, as it might suffocate him.

29. 和比你的生活状况差的女人聊聊，感受一下她们的辛苦，豪放，自信，满足，你会觉得你也应该知足了。

29. Talk to women whose living conditions are worse than yours, feel their hard work, spontaneity, confidence, and contentment, and you will feel that you should be satisfied too.

30. 爱，也许真是这个样子，每个人都有自己的注解，但却永远走不进对方的世界。

30. Love, perhaps it really is like this, each person has their own interpretation, but they can never truly enter into the other's world.

31. 漂亮的女人是钻石，因为养眼，所以深爱。会让男人恋恋不舍，漂亮的女人也会让男人的眼神放出光彩，养眼但不可得，也只能望而止步。

31. Beautiful women are like diamonds, cherished for their eye-catching allure and deeply loved. They can make men cherish them, and their beauty can also make men's eyes shine. They are pleasing to the eye but unattainable, so one can only admire them from a distance.

32. 有人试图和你无理取闹，安静的看着他，说：祝你好心情。然后离开。

32. Someone is trying to pick a fight with you. Just calmly watch them, say: "I wish you a good mood," and then leave.

33. 生活中无论有什么闪失，统统是自己的错，与人无尤，从错处学习改过，精益求精，直至不犯同一错误，从不把过失推诿到他人肩膀上去，免得失去学乖的机会。

33. No matter what mishaps occur in life, they are all one's own fault, and no one else is to blame. Learn from one's mistakes and strive for continuous improvement, until the same error is not repeated. Never shift the blame onto others' shoulders, as to do so would prevent losing the opportunity to become wiser.

34. 两个人的适配是一种内心感觉，而不是一种视觉，千万不要因满足视觉而忽视感觉。

34. Compatibility between two people is an inner feeling, not a visual one; never neglect the feeling for the sake of satisfying the visual.

35. 你要改是因为你自己愿意改，不要为任何人，怕只怕那人会令你失望，你又得打回原形。

35. You should change because you are willing to change, not for anyone else. What you should fear is that person might disappoint you, and then you would have to revert to your original form.

36. 生活只是属于我一个人的，也只是我一个人的。当我徘徊在街角的时候，没有人给我指明方向；当突然下雨的时候，少有人来为我送伞，更不用提当我生病的时候，真的为我跑前跑后的人有几个了。

36. Life belongs only to me and to me alone. When I wander at the street corner, no one points me in the right direction; when it suddenly rains, few come to give me an umbrella, let alone when I am sick, how many really go out of their way to take care of me.

37. 恋爱中的女孩儿往往都是演技派，明明喜欢，却能够装得冷若冰霜，你以为这是在为自己争取主动，但这种表演只会令你心爱的男孩儿落荒而逃。

37. Girls in love often have great acting skills, pretending to be cold and aloof even though they like the person. You might think this is a way to take the initiative, but this kind of performance will only cause the boy you love to run away in a panic.

38. 宝马车不保养也会提前报废，更何况是我们女人这张脸。

38. BMWs will be prematurely scrapped without maintenance, let alone our women's faces.

39. 世界上没有丑女人而只有懒女人，如果女孩嫁进夫家以后让婆婆知道你不善于家务，而且还不愿意去尝试着学习，那么，这种懒女人到老也是得不到别人尊重的。

39. There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy ones. If a girl marries into her husband's family and her mother-in-law finds out that she is not good at housework and is unwilling to try to learn, then this lazy woman will not gain respect from others as she grows old.

40. 做一个淡淡的化不化妆都活得精致的女子，要随时带着微笑。简单的生活。淡淡地来，淡淡地去。

40. Be a delicate woman who can live elegantly with or without makeup, always carrying a smile. Simple living. Come and go in a faint manner.

41. 有教养的女人静若幽兰，芬芳四溢。时间可以扫去女人的红颜，但它却扫不去女人经过岁月的积淀而焕发出来的美丽。这份美丽就是女人经过岁月的洗礼而成就的修养与智慧就象秋天里弥漫的果香一样，由内而外的散发出来。

41. A well-bred woman is as serene as a hidden orchid, exuding a fragrance that permeates the air. Time can erase a woman's youthful beauty, but it cannot erase the beauty that shines from the years of accumulation. This beauty is the refinement and wisdom that a woman achieves through the trials of time, just like the aroma of fruit that fills the autumn air, emanating from within and without.

42. 叫上好友去洗个桑拿，边洗边聊也很享受，让异性按摩也未尝不可，那不是男人的专利。

42. Invite your friends to take a sauna together; it's enjoyable to chat while bathing. It's also not a bad idea to get a massage from the opposite sex; that's not exclusive to men.

43. 老公孩子是你的重要，但不是你的全部，你不是他们的保姆，适当让他们伺候伺候你也是应该的，你有自己的生活也是正常的，让老公回去给孩子做顿饭也不必感到内疚。

43. Your husband and children are important to you, but they are not your whole life. You are not their babysitter; it's also appropriate for them to take care of you sometimes. You have your own life, which is normal. It's okay to feel guilty if your husband goes home to cook a meal for the children.

44. 失去的东西，其实从来未曾真正地属于你，也不必惋惜。

44. The things that are lost never truly belonged to you in the first place, and there is no need to regret.

45. 有教养的女人处世落落大方，不亢不卑，不张扬，不显摆，似一株幽兰，芬芳四溢而不自知；有教养的女人善解人意，通达世情，不天真，不偏激，在任何突发变故面前都能处变不惊。

45. A well-bred woman handles social situations with grace and modesty, neither haughty nor servile, not boastful nor pretentious, like a quiet orchid, fragrant and spreading its scent without realizing it; a well-bred woman is empathetic, perceptive of the world, not naive nor extreme, and can remain calm in the face of any sudden change.

46. 那个人，突然不联系你了，很正常；那个人，突然又联系你了，也很正常，这什么也不说明。

46. It's normal for that person to suddenly stop contacting you; it's also normal for them to suddenly start contacting you again, and this doesn't mean anything.

47. 当你从床上下来那一刻，你在他心中就开始贬值了。如果你把一切都给了现在的男友，那么，请把老公这个称呼留给你未来的丈夫吧。

47. The moment you get out of bed, you start to lose value in his eyes. If you have given everything to your current boyfriend, then please reserve the title of "husband" for your future husband.

48. 也许有人说，现在是独立社会，女人能顶半别天，离了男人照样过，错了，人类从远古到今，男女就是一个整体，谁离了谁都不行。看过一句话叫‘我不依靠男人，但我需要男人’这句话说出了女人对男人的肯定。

48. Some might say that it is now an independent society where women can hold up half the sky and can manage without men. That is wrong. From ancient times to the present, men and women have always been an integrated whole, and neither can survive without the other. There is a saying, 'I do not rely on men, but I need men,' which expresses women's affirmation of men.

49. 对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关你的事。

49. Firmly say no or refuse the attentions and concern from a suitor you don't like. Even if he says: "This has nothing to do with you."

50. 我也想清楚了，婚姻根本就是那么一回事，再恋爱得轰动，三五年之后，也就烟消云散，下班后大家扭开电视一齐看长篇连续剧，人生是这样的。

50. I've also cleared my head about marriage; it's just like that. No matter how sensational a romance is, it will fade away in three or five years. After work, everyone turns on the TV to watch long-running series together. That's life.

51. 得按你想的去生活，否则，你迟早会按你生活的去想。

51. Live as you wish, otherwise, you will sooner or later think as you live.

52. 做一个励志的女生，只有成为特困生的时候才会躺在心爱男人的怀抱。

52. Be an inspiring girl who only leans on the arms of her beloved man when she becomes a student in extreme need of financial assistance.

53. 别和别人攀比老公孩子，全家健康就快乐。

53. Don't compare your husband and children with others, a healthy family is happy.

54. 一个人要超越他的环境及出身，进步是不够的，非要进化不可，那样大业，岂能人人做到。

54. To transcend one's environment and background, mere progress is not enough; one must undergo evolution. Such a grand undertaking is not something that everyone can accomplish.

55. 遇到不想回答的问题，直视对方的眼睛，微笑、沉默。

55. When faced with a question you don't want to answer, look directly into the other person's eyes, smile, and be silent.

56. 穿着宽松的睡衣，懒散地躺在沙发上看看韩剧，欣赏韩国女人漂亮的服饰，时髦的发型，丰富的表情，也很惬意。

56. In loose pajamas, lounging lazily on the sofa to watch Korean dramas, appreciating the beautiful attire, stylish hairstyles, and rich expressions of Korean women, is also very enjoyable.

57. 智慧的女人是宝藏，一生有一个智慧的女人相伴，那一定是幸福一生，快乐一辈子的。因为智慧，女人更有内含；因为智慧，女人更具魅力；因为智慧，女人更有光彩。

57. A wise woman is a treasure. To have a wise woman by one's side throughout life is to ensure a happy and joyful lifetime. Because of wisdom, women have more depth; because of wisdom, women possess more charm; because of wisdom, women exude more radiance.

58. 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

58. Regardless of the situation, a person's deliberate descent into decadence is always unworthy of forgiveness. The more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself.

59. 大二下学期，开始规划自己的未来五年的生涯。这个生涯里，先不要把男人规划进去。因为你要做一个独立的女人，不要依赖他。

59. In the second semester of my sophomore year, I started planning my career for the next five years. In this career, don't initially include a man. Because you want to be an independent woman and not depend on him.

60. 生命从来不是公平的，得到多少，便要靠那个多少做到最好，努力的生活下去。

60. Life has never been fair; the amount you have, you must strive to make the best of that amount and live hard.

61. 有人说，我觉得拥有内在美就可以了！外在不美的女人，连展示内在美的机会都没有。

61. Some say, I think that it's enough to have inner beauty! Women who are not outwardly beautiful don't even have the chance to showcase their inner beauty.

62. 随时预防遇到色狼。必要时向他胯下踢，用力程度自己把握。

62. Always be on guard against encountering a wolf. If necessary, kick him under the crotch, and use the force to your own discretion.

63. 全心全意去爱，别的就交给命运，这是聪明人都会遵循的简单规则。

63. Devote yourself wholeheartedly to love, and leave the rest to fate; this is a simple rule that wise people would all follow.

64. 买适合自己的衣服饰物。适合你的就是最好的，所以不必羡慕别人的行头。

64. Buy clothes and accessories that suit yourself. What suits you is the best, so there is no need to envy others' outfits.

65. 人的一辈子，碰不上几个自己真正喜欢的人。这次退却了，也许这一生就再没有机会了。世上的幸福最终都是属于主动出击的人的！

65. In a person's lifetime, it's rare to encounter a few people you truly like. This time you've backed down, and maybe you'll never have the opportunity again. Ultimately, happiness in the world belongs to those who take the initiative to act!

66. 人生短短数十载，最要紧是满足自己，不是讨好他人。

66. Life is but a short span of several decades, what matters most is to satisfy oneself, not to please others.

67. 要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐，一不抱怨，二不解释，绝对是个人才。

67. To live beautifully requires great patience; neither complain nor explain—absolutely a person of talent.

68. 很多时候，她不是真的要坚强，她是被迫在坚强。谁不知道，再坚强的女生心里总有一块伤？不痛不代表没有被伤过。如果你懂，请不要看到她的笑，你要看到她心底的泪。

68. Often, she is not really strong; she is forced to be strong. Who doesn't know that even the strongest girl has a piece of heart that's been hurt? Not painful doesn't mean it hasn't been hurt. If you understand, please don't just see her smile; you need to see the tears in her heart.

69. 也许一个人在真正无可奈何的时候，除了微笑，也只好微笑了。

69. Perhaps, when one is truly at the end of one's rope, one can only smile, and have to smile.

70. 一个男人爱你的时候，你往往会感动于细节，同样，一个男人不爱你了，你也可以从细节中来发现。

70. When a man loves you, you often feel touched by the details; similarly, when a man no longer loves you, you can also discover this from the details.

71. 善良不是软弱更不是退让，而是从不主动伤害别人，不会纠缠不休，懂得适可而止。为人处世以诚相待，不欺骗，不撒谎。以诚恳善良的心去面对所有的人。

71. Kindness is not weakness nor retreat, but never to actively harm others, not to be persistent and nagging, and to know when to stop. In dealing with others, be sincere and honest, without deception or lying. Approach all people with a heart of sincerity and kindness.

72. 在闲暇时哼着小曲整理一下衣柜，可以把不再穿的衣服送给适合穿的人。看着孩子的小衣服还会使你想起孩子小时候的可爱，也是一种精神享受。

72. In your leisure time, hum a tune while tidying up your wardrobe, and you can donate the clothes you no longer wear to those who would fit them. Looking at your child's little clothes can also remind you of the adorable moments of your child's early years, which is also a spiritual enjoyment.

73. 那些自称被伤害了的女孩注意了：他拒绝了你，不是因为他太优秀，而是因为他不够优秀不属于自己的永远不是最好的！

73. Girls who claim to have been hurt, take note: He rejected you not because he is too excellent, but because he is not excellent enough and what does not belong to you is never the best!

74. 未悟之前，鱼儿想飞，鸟儿想潜水。开悟之后，云在青天，水在瓶中。

74. Before enlightenment, fish want to fly, birds want to dive underwater. After enlightenment, clouds are in the blue sky, water is in the bottle.