1. 说到底，爱情就是一个人的自我价值在别人身上的反映。

1. In the end, love is the reflection of one's self-worth in another person.

2. 其实任何人的相爱，却只是一瞬间。

2. In fact, anyone's love is just a moment.

3. 比荣誉、美酒、爱情和智慧更宝贵、更使人幸福的东西是我的友谊。

3. What is more precious and more fulfilling than honor, fine wine, love, and wisdom is my friendship.

4. 真挚的持久的爱情，不是“一见倾心”，因为相互的全面的了解，思想观点的协和，不是短时间能达到的，必须经过相当的时期才能真正了解，才能实际地衡量对方的感情。爱情的花朵，并不是在春天开放，在秋天凋零；爱情的乐曲，并不是在阳光中高旋，在阴云下呜咽。

4. Genuine and enduring love is not a "love at first sight," because a comprehensive understanding of each other, harmony of thoughts and viewpoints, is not achievable in a short time. It requires a considerable period of time to truly understand and to actually measure the feelings of the other person. The flower of love does not bloom in spring and wither in autumn; the melody of love does not soar in the sunshine and weep under the dark clouds.

5. 宿命给我们的结局，只是叫我们摊开手心，里面是空洞的，没有诺言，也没有永恒。

5. The destiny that has given us our fate merely asks us to open our palms, which are hollow, without promises, and without eternity.

6. 也许每一个男子全都有过这样的两个女人，至少两个。娶了红玫瑰，久而久之，红的变了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白的还是“床前明月光”；娶了白玫瑰，白的便是衣服上沾的一粒饭粘子，红的却是心口上一颗朱砂痣。

6. Perhaps every man has had two such women in his life, at least two. If he marries a red rose, after a long time, the red one turns into a spot of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one remains as the bright moonlight in front of the bed; if he marries a white rose, the white one becomes a grain of rice paste on his clothes, while the red one is a cinnabar mark on his heart.

7. 浪漫，我曾经触摸过它，直到现在还反胃。残酷，我躲不开它，所以我把它演给你看。

7. Romance, I have touched it, and it still makes me feel sick to my stomach. Cruelty, I can't avoid it, so I'll act it out for you.

8. 初恋的大都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多，成功的少，结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。

8. Most first loves are not truly懂得 love, which is why most first loves fail and few succeed. When getting married, it's best to find an unmarried partner, because everyone likes the original packaging.

9. 因为我们面对着的，是更多的消失和告别。

9. Because what we are facing is more loss and farewells.

10. 有时候希望灵魂能够像一朵烟花，能够明亮温暖地在夜空中停留一刻再坠落。

10. Sometimes I wish the soul could be like a fireworks, bright and warm, staying in the night sky for a moment before falling.

11. 爱，原来是没有名字的，在相遇之前等待的，就是它的名字。

11. Love, it turns out, has no name; the waiting before the encounter is its name.

12. 什么叫情？男女双方基于一定的客观现实基础和共同的生活理想，在各自内心形成的最真挚的彼此倾慕，相互爱悦，并渴望对方成为自己的终身伴侣的最强烈持久，纯洁专一的感情。

12. What is affection? Affection refers to the most sincere mutual admiration, mutual love, and the strongest and most enduring, pure and exclusive sentiment that one party has for the other, based on a certain objective reality and a common ideal of life, which is formed in their own hearts. It is a desire for the other person to become their lifelong companion.

13. 不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？

13. Don't fall in love just because of loneliness; time is a demon. Over time, if you are a person prone to affection, even if you don't love the other person, you will eventually develop feelings for them. What will you do in the end?

14. 只有在爱情里面，女人才活得真正像个女人。

14. Only in love does a woman truly live like a woman.

15. 学会用理解，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自为是的关心去管对方。

15. Learn to look at others with an understanding and appreciative eye, rather than interfering with them out of one's own self-righteous concern.

16. 因为寂寞才去爱，往往会陷入更深更深无可救药的寂寞中。

16. Lovers often fall into a deeper, deeper, and irredeemable loneliness because they seek love out of loneliness.

17. 因为等到天一亮，我们的美梦就要醒过来，发现自己依然自由自在，也依然孤独。

17. Because when the first light of day comes, our beautiful dreams will awaken, and we will find ourselves still carefree, yet still lonely.

18. 在要求对方必须是**的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，不是的你凭什么？

18. When demanding that the other person must be **, think about whether you are a virgin. If you are, you can, but if you're not, what do you have the right to?

19. 人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的；固执地，坚持了不该坚持的。

19. The greatest regret in life is to easily give up what should not be given up; to stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in.

20. 聪明的爱人珍惜的是爱人的爱，而不是爱人的礼物。

20. A wise lover values the love of the beloved, not the gifts of the beloved.

21. 没有家的人，就可以把任何一个地方都当做家。

21. For those without a home, any place can be considered as a home.

22. 不安定的感觉，有时让我们的灵魂，保持灵敏的状态。

22. An unsettling feeling sometimes keeps our souls in a state of alertness.

23. 草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行再离也不迟。

23. Marrying in haste is already a mistake; do not rush into a divorce either. Try it first, and if it really doesn't work out, it's not too late to separate then.

24. 爱不需要解释，却又可以解释一切。虽然爱情只是众多情感中的一类，但它远比其它来得深刻。

24. Love does not need explanation, yet it can explain everything. Although love is just one type of many emotions, it is far deeper than the others.

25. 我们始终都不会理解对方的感情，但却舍得彼此交付。

25. We will never fully understand each other's emotions, but we are willing to entrust ourselves to each other.

26. 当心变得坚硬的时候，温柔的手就难以触摸上去，一些纯粹的观念，就无情而疼痛地摧毁了。

26. When the heart becomes hard, a gentle hand finds it difficult to touch, and some pure ideas are mercilessly and painfully destroyed.

27. 正的爱情能够鼓舞人，唤醒他内心沉睡着的力量和潜藏着的才能。

27. True love can inspire people, awakening the sleeping power and hidden talents within them.

28. 原来，真的没有什么东西，完美得值得我们用生命去坚持。

28. It turns out that there is really nothing so perfect that it is worth us sacrificing our lives for it.

29. 一个毫无情趣的女人，就算她穿着无领无袖的低胸装，也是不会和性感搭界的吧。过度的折腾对女人来说，从容颜到心灵，只会加速衰老。

29. A woman without any taste, even if she is dressed in a low-cut top with no sleeves, would not be associated with sexiness, would she? Overindulgence is detrimental to women, from the outside appearance to the inner soul, as it only accelerates aging.

30. 成熟的人不问过去：聪明的人不问现在：豁达的人不问未来。

30. Mature people do not inquire about the past; intelligent people do not inquire about the present; magnanimous people do not inquire about the future.

31. 世间可以流逝一切，爱却可以永驻，尽管爱的那么忧伤。只有记忆，将会以一种深刻的不可触及的形式，存留在心里。

31. All things in the world may pass away, but love can remain eternal, though it may be deeply sorrowful. Only memory will remain in the heart in a profound and unattainable form.

32. 初恋都让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他（她）很漂亮或很帅，也是不因为得不到的就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心里异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方。而以后的爱情都没有这么纯洁无瑕了。纯真是世间最为可贵的东西。我们渴求的就是她。

32. First love is unforgettable and feels beautiful. Why? Not because he or she is very beautiful or handsome, nor because what we can't have is good. It's because when people first enter the realm of love, their hearts are exceptionally pure, free from any ulterior motives, and they only know how to love the other person with all their being. Love after that never has such purity and perfection. Purity is the most precious thing in the world. What we yearn for is just that.

33. 谈恋爱就像喝一杯水，刚开始是为了解渴，喝下去之后，便渗进了你的血，入了你的骨，不知不觉不可或缺。

33. Falling in love is like drinking a glass of water; at first, it's to quench your thirst, but after drinking it, it seeps into your blood and bones, becoming indispensable without you realizing it.

34. 有人说男一旦变心，九头牛也拉不回，难道女人变心，九头牛就拉得回来吗？男女之间只在生理上有差异，心理方面大同小异。

34. Some say once a man loses his heart, even nine oxen cannot pull him back. Does that mean if a woman loses her heart, nine oxen can bring her back? The differences between men and women are only in the physiological aspects, and there are only minor differences in the psychological aspects.

35. 因为爱情常常是不可预知的，所以它的消逝很多时候也往往不以我们的意志为转移，如果确曾深爱过，则爱就永远不会被我们忘记。

35. Since love is often unpredictable, its disappearance is often not under our control as well. If we have truly deeply loved, love will never be forgotten by us.

36. 把爱情比做海之蓝色，因为它宽广、清晰、透明，永远都不会褪色。

36. Love is likened to the blue of the sea, for it is vast, clear, transparent, and will never fade.

37. 生命是光束中飞舞的无数细微尘埃，随风起荡不可存留，不被探测与需索，最后只是静寂。

37. Life is an infinite number of minute dust particles dancing in a beam of light, blowing away with the wind and unable to remain, undetected and un sought after, ultimately leading to silence.

38. 我们恋爱可能不感到快乐，也可能快乐而并非恋爱。

38. Our love might not feel joyful, or we might be joyful but not actually in love.

39. 和一个生活习惯用有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。

39. It's fine to date someone with very different habits, but when it comes to marriage, one should be cautious. Think about whether you can endure each other's differences for a long time.

40. 不要随便和别人上床，否则将来遇到一个真爱但他洁身自好有原则的男人，你会后悔当年的所作所为。

40. Don't casually sleep with others; otherwise, when you meet a true love who is chaste and principled in the future, you will regret your actions from the past.

41. 爱情这东西啊，是你想要的时候偏逃走，不想要的时候又纠缠不过来，想放放不开，想抓抓不牢，忘又忘不掉，恨又恨不了的一种轮回中冥冥跟随你的灵感世界！

41. Love is such a thing, it eludes you when you most desire it, and纠缠 you when you least want it. You want to let go but can't, you want to hold on but can't grasp it tightly, you can't forget it but also can't hate it. It is a world of inspiration that follows you in a mysterious cycle!

42. 而生活，是那么轻易地就会淹没我们。

42. And life, it can so easily overwhelm us.

43. 爱情就象一面镜子，曾经有了裂痕，于是镜里的风景也扭曲了。

43. Love is like a mirror; once there's a crack, the scenery in the mirror is distorted as well.

44. 不相信永远，不拥有期待，也不需要诺言。

44. Doubt the eternity, possess no expectations, and need no promises.

45. 没有诺言的爱情，会让人浑身发冷。

45. Love without promises can make one shiver all over.

46. 不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真下决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。

46. Do not give up your intention to pursue because you think your appearance is not as good as the other person's. Appearance is just a temporary impression, and whether to decide on a union mainly depends on the characters of both parties.

47. 两个人一起是为了快乐，分手是为了减轻痛苦，你无法再令我快乐，我也唯有离开，我离开的时候，也很痛苦，只是，你肯定比我痛苦，因为我首先说再见，首先追求快乐的是我。

47. Two people are together for happiness, and parting is for the relief of pain. You can no longer make me happy, and I have no choice but to leave. It's also painful for me to leave, but, you must be more in pain than me, because I was the one who said goodbye first and the one who first pursued happiness.

48. 繁华落尽，如梦无痕。

48. All the bustle has faded away, leaving no trace like a dream.

49. 爱人至少要在心灵方面没有欠缺，如果只是身体的欠缺，那还不失其可爱。

49. The beloved should at least be lacking in no way spiritually; if there is a lack in the physical aspect, it still retains its charm.

50. 离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己，坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？

50. The high divorce rate reflects at least two different points: a good one is that people's concepts have tended to become more humanistic, no longer confined by feudal thoughts; a bad one is the levity towards marriage. Haven't thought about what kind of marriage you want?

51. 白色像没有遮掩的伤口，赤裸裸的，所以很疼。

51. White is like an uncovered wound, bare and naked, so it is very painful.

52. 爱情，一只脆弱华丽的蝴蝶。

52. Love, a fragile and splendid butterfly.

53. 那时候爱情还没有来得及淡却，而心已经苍老。

53. By then, love had not yet faded, but the heart had grown old.

54. 人对谎言的痛恨是可以理解的，但是，有谁敢说自己永远不会说谎？而绝的是，人往往有许诺不会说谎之后凡说出一个谎言，有些谎言一辈子也没揭穿，有些谎言而无法瞒到天亮。

54. It is understandable that people hate lies, but who dares to claim that they will never tell a lie? Moreover, it is a fact that people often promise not to lie, only to find that once they tell a lie, some lies may never be uncovered in their lifetime, while others are exposed before dawn.

55. 爱情是最奢侈的享乐，但结局往往悲伤。

55. Love is the most luxurious enjoyment, but the outcome is often sad.

56. 爱可以是一瞬间的事情，也可以是一辈子的事情，每个人都可以在不同的时候爱上不同的人，不是谁离开了谁就无法生活，遗忘让我们坚强。

56. Love can be an instant thing, or it can last a lifetime. Everyone can fall in love with different people at different times. It's not that one cannot live without the other. Forgetting makes us strong.

57. 有些人的灵魂会比他的物质要富足得多，因为自由。

57. The souls of some people are much richer than their material possessions, because of freedom.

58. 若你们能始终温柔地相待，那么，所有的时刻都将是一种无瑕的美丽。

58. If you always treat each other gently, then every moment will be a flawless beauty.

59. 爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙，它渴望得到一切，却几乎对一切都感到不满。

59. Love is a fickle creature, longing for everything yet almost dissatisfied with everything.

60. 若是有可能，有些事情一定要用所能有的，竭尽全力的能力来记得它。因很多事情我们慢慢地，慢慢地就会变得不记得。

60. If possible, some things must be remembered with all the effort and ability you can muster. For many things, we slowly, slowly forget them.

61. 女人用友情来拒绝爱情。男人用友情来换取爱情。

61. Women use friendship to reject love, while men use friendship to gain love.

62. 和聪明的人恋爱会很快乐，因为他们幽默，会说话，但也时时存在着危机，因为这样的人很容易变心，和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常乏味。

62. Falling in love with a smart person can be very enjoyable because they are humorous and articulate, but there is always a crisis because such people are easily distracted. Falling in love with an honest person can be very reassuring, but life can also be quite boring.

63. 并不像你想象中那样快慰，因为死亡的压力沉重得让人恐惧。

63. It's not as comforting as you imagine, because the weight of death is so heavy that it is terrifying.

64. 这的确是一个全新的充满欲望和**的时代，同样，也更为空洞和阴郁。

64. This is indeed an era that is brand new and brimming with desire, just as it is also more hollow and gloomy.

65. 一些杜绝语言的厌倦，一些失去期待的绝望，没有人可以爱，也不想爱上任何人，不相信爱情的人，只是因为曾经沧海的心情，已经不是常人能够体会。

65. Some exhaustion from the avoidance of language, some despair from the loss of expectations, no one to love, nor the desire to fall in love with anyone, and disbelief in love — all these stem simply from a heart that has seen the sea of changes, which is no longer something that ordinary people can comprehend.

66. 明明一开始就不应该爱上的人，却爱上了，即使一直告诉自己没问题，到目前为止一切还好，最后的结果，终于还是粉身碎骨。

66. The person who should never have fallen in love with at the beginning, however, fell in love. Even though I kept telling myself that it was fine, and up until now everything was all right, in the end, the result was still shattering into pieces.

67. 即使在深切的热爱里面，我们也是孤独。

67. Even in profound love, we are alone.

68. 即使不能善待，但那依旧是恩慈，只是幻觉稀薄，即使再剧烈，仍只是烟花，留下的不过一地冰冷的尘埃。

68. Even if it cannot be treated kindly, it is still mercy, just that the illusion is thin, even if it is intense, it is still just fireworks, leaving behind only a cold dust on the ground.

69. 爱情是理性的放纵，是伟大心灵的享受，阳性的，严肃的享受；肉欲是街头巷尾出卖的，庸俗猥琐的享受：两者是同一事实的两面。

69. Love is the放纵 of reason, the enjoyment of the great soul, a positive, serious enjoyment; lust is the vulgar, sordid enjoyment sold on the streets and alleys: They are two sides of the same fact.

70. 毕竟有时候美丽是非常孤独的东西，只有看得到并且懂得欣赏的人才会发现。

70. After all, beauty can sometimes be a very solitary thing; only those who can see and appreciate it will discover it.

71. 在这个纷绕的世俗世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界。

71. In this confusing secular world, being able to learn to treat everything around with a calm heart is also a level of accomplishment.

72. 那些刻在椅子背后的爱情，会不会像水泥上的花朵，开出没有风的，寂寞的森林。

72. Will the love etched on the back of the chair bloom like flowers on concrete, into a desolate forest without the wind?

73. 一有人反对，爱情会变得象禁果一样更有价值。

73. Love becomes even more valuable like forbidden fruit when there is any opposition.

74. 所谓外遇，就是有了爱情和面包之后，还想吃蛋糕的心情！

74. So-called infidelity is the feeling of wanting to eat cake after having both love and bread!

75. 如果曾经爱过一个人，会记住他的气息，甚至有些人我们会淡忘他的容颜，但仍然记得他的气息，这是无法被时间代替的。

75. If you have ever loved someone, you will remember their scent, and even some people whose faces we may forget, their scent still lingers in our memory, which cannot be replaced by time.

76. 人有时候也许就是这样，明明是自己最不愿意伤害的人，却偏偏会伤得越深

76. Sometimes, people are like that; they end up hurting the very person they least want to hurt, but the wound is deeper than ever.

77. 浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。

77. What is romance? Is it sending flowers, strolling in the rain, standing in front of the building without moving? If two people are deeply in love with each other, even if nothing is done, just sitting quietly together can feel romantic. Otherwise, even if the two sit together on the moon, they won't feel romantic.

78. 破碎带来快乐，可以不再绝望。

78. Destruction brings happiness, and despair can no longer exist.

79. 曾经的深爱和无言的憎恨，刻骨铭心的爱恨纠缠，在生命的尽头，是一片平静。

79. Once profound love and silent hate, an unforgettable entanglement of love and hate, at the end of life, there is only tranquility.

80. 不是不想为一个爱的人，陪他同甘共苦，如果有一个男人值得深爱，为他抵上命也是幸福的，只是没有那个人，没有任何一个男人值得。

80. It's not that I don't want to share the joys and sorrows of a loved one, but if there's a man who deserves to be deeply loved, it would be a happiness to give up my life for him. It's just that there isn't that person, and no man is worth it.