青春之光：揭秘生命潜力的无限潜能

Youthlight: Unveiling the Infinite Potential of Life's Power

1. 2我站得太久说的太久了我自己都累了，你怎么还是听不懂？我写的太多了写得太久了我自己都累了，你怎么还是看不懂。（作者：易家扬）

1. I've been standing here too long and talking too much; even I'm tired. How can you still not understand? I've written too much and taken too long; even I'm tired. How can you still not see it? (Author: Yi Jiayang)

2. 男人真爱一个女人的表现分两层。第一层：他把你视为他的责任。你有事，他第一时间出现责无旁贷——这种男人值得爱。第二层：他把你的责任视为他的责任。你想做的事就是他想做的事，你关心的人就是他关心的人——这种男人应该嫁。

2. The manifestation of a man's true love for a woman is divided into two layers. The first layer: He regards you as his responsibility. When you have something, he appears first and takes full responsibility—such a man is worth loving. The second layer: He treats your responsibilities as his own. What you want to do is what he wants to do, and the people you care about are the people he cares about—such a man should be married to.

3. 39如果你现在是在等一个人，也希望你在等待的同时让自己学会成长，让自己变得更好，不断地充实自己，提高自己，沉淀的时光和氤氲的流年会让你更配的上那个你想等的人。

3. 39 If you are waiting for someone right now, I also hope that while waiting, you take the time to grow and become better, continuously enrich yourself and improve. The沉淀ed moments and the misty years will make you more worthy of the person you are waiting for.

4. 每个人都有每个人的脾气，每个人也有每个人的眼色。管不住自己脾气的人容易被别人的眼色所伤，藏不住自己眼色的人就容易被别人的脾气砸中。学会没脾气，不摆臭脸的过程，其实也是长本事的过程。

4. Everyone has their own temperament and everyone has their own way of looking at things. Those who cannot control their own temper are easily hurt by others' ways of looking at them, and those who cannot hide their own ways of looking at things are easily struck by others' tempers. Learning to be without a temper and not to show a bad face is actually a process of gaining skills.

5. 我想，有些事情是可以遗忘的，有些事情是可以记念的，有些事情能够心甘情愿，有些事情一直无能为力。我爱你，这是我的劫难。——安妮宝贝

5. I think some things can be forgotten, some things can be remembered, some things can be done with joy, and some things can never be done. I love you, this is my tribulation. — Anni Baobao

6. 3当你可以直面自己身体里与生俱来的笨拙与孤独，你便能够彻底谅解过去的自己。大多数人都像我们这样活着，虽不聪明，但诚恳；虽会犯错，但坦然。

6.3 When you can confront the innate awkwardness and loneliness within your own body, you will be able to fully forgive your past self. Most people live like us, not very smart, but sincere; they make mistakes, but take them calmly.

7. 18我们最重要的不是去计较真与伪，得与失，名与利，贵与贱，富与贫，而是如何好好地快乐度日，并从中发现生活的诗意。

7.18 What is most important to us is not to argue over truth and falsity, gain and loss, fame and profit, high and low, rich and poor, but how to enjoy life happily and discover the poetry of life from it.

8. 编后语：往往喜欢一个人的时候，不需要任何理由；不喜欢一个人的时候，却拥有很多借口。假如你想要一件东西，就放它走。它若能回来找你，就永远属于你；它若不回来，那根本就不是你的。

8. Afterword: Often, when one likes someone, no reason is needed; but when one dislikes someone, there are always plenty of excuses. If you want something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it will forever belong to you; if it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with.

9. 7爱一个人，在一起时会莫名的失落。喜欢一个人，永远是欢乐；爱一个人，你会常常流泪。喜欢一个人，当你想起他会微微一笑；爱一个人，当你想起他会对着天空发呆。喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点；爱一个人，是包容了他的缺点。喜欢，是一种心情；爱，是一种感情。

9.7. To love someone, when you're together, you may feel an inexplicable sadness. To like someone, it is always joyous; to love someone, you will often shed tears. To like someone, when you think of them, you smile faintly; to love someone, when you think of them, you gaze into the sky. To like someone, is to see their good qualities; to love someone, is to tolerate their flaws. To like, is a mood; to love, is an emotion.

10. 26敏感的人易缺乏安全感和过分自卑。遇到点事常会设身处地的为他人着想，生怕自己言行举止惹得他人不愉快，后来往往不愉快的人都是自己。且从不愿主动与人打交道，却会热情的迎接并珍惜每一个对自己主动示好的人。而我们平常见到的那些看似难以接近的高傲冷漠之人，通常都是这类人。

10. 26 People who are sensitive tend to lack a sense of security and have excessive self-doubt. When faced with situations, they often think about others' feelings and are afraid that their own words and actions might make others unhappy. Later on, it is usually themselves who are unhappy. Moreover, they are not willing to主动 interact with others, but they warmly welcome and cherish every person who shows initiative to be friendly towards them. The seemingly inaccessible proud and cold individuals we often see are usually of this type.

11. 坚强，不是面对悲伤不流一滴泪，而是擦干眼泪后微笑着面对以后的生活。一切都已结束，一切都将开始。

11. Strength is not about not shedding a tear in the face of sadness, but about smiling and facing life after wiping away the tears. Everything is over, and everything will begin anew.

12. 和旧情人聊天，如同吃一尾刺多的美味鱼，时不时被卡喉，却又割舍不下迷恋。他好，你如针游脉络，他不好，你亦肌里跑针。

12. Chatting with an ex-lover is like eating a delicious fish with many bones, occasionally being stuck in the throat, yet you can't let go of your obsession. If he's good, you're like a needle navigating through the channels; if he's bad, the needle is running through your flesh.

13. 所谓安宁，就是在追求自己所想要的生活的时候，能不卑不亢地一边失去，一边寻找。

13. What is tranquility, but the ability to lose and seek, without either bowing low or lifting one's head too high, while pursuing the life one desires.

14. 11一颗心与另一颗心到底有多远的距离，是咫尺是天涯而我会默默地等待，等待你和我一个浪漫的开始。

14. 11 How far is the distance between one heart and another, is it just a stone's throw or a world apart? And I will silently wait, waiting for a romantic beginning with you.

15. 别人再好，也是别人。自己再不堪，也是自己，独一无二的自己。只要努力去做最好的自己，一生足矣。美好总是那么的短暂，我们不得去感慨。喜欢一个人，如果是失去了，就像是丢掉自己心爱的物品，虽是有遗憾，但是在心中不会有多痛。可是爱一个人，如果失去了，就会留下一个伤口，永远都会隐隐作痛。

15. No matter how good someone else is, they are still someone else. And no matter how unremarkable you may be, you are still unique to yourself. As long as you strive to be the best version of yourself, that is enough for a lifetime. Beauty is always so fleeting, and we can't help but feel nostalgic. If you lose someone you like, it's like losing a cherished item, there may be regret, but it won't hurt too much in your heart. However, if you lose someone you love, it will leave a wound that will always ache subtly.

16. 34我知道的，你也不想等。你害怕等，你怕等错，你怕等不到。等错了，就重头来，等不到的，就给自己个期限，到了就不再等。重要的是，不要在等待中不知不觉忘了等待的初衷。慢慢来，比较快。

16. 34 I know, you don't want to wait either. You're afraid of waiting, afraid of waiting wrong, afraid of never waiting. If you wait wrong, start over, and if you can't wait, give yourself a deadline; when it's time, stop waiting. What's important is not to forget the original intention of waiting in the process. Take it easy, and it will be quicker.

17. 8曾经路遥马急，一生只够爱一人，愿我们都能够在这个快节奏的生活下，依然时刻思念彼此。

17.8 Once there was a time when the road was distant and horses were swift, a lifetime was enough to love just one person. May we all continue to miss each other at every moment under this fast-paced life.

18. 心很脆弱，你得学会哄它，不管遇到多大困难，告诉你的心，“一切顺利，伙计”。

18. The heart is fragile, you must learn to soothe it. No matter how great the difficulties you encounter, tell your heart, "Everything is fine, buddy."

19. 人生有时候看似很多选择，其实又没有选择。我们都常常被逼到人生的角落，然后命运会告诉你，很多人终将错过，很多事没有结果，很多情一错再错。

19. Sometimes in life, it seems like we have many choices, but in reality, we have none. We are often pushed into the corners of life, and then fate will tell us that many people will eventually miss out, many things will not have a result, and many emotions will be wrong over and over again.

20. 21时间没有等我，是你忘了带我走，我左手过目不忘的的萤火，右手里是十年一个漫长的打坐。

20. 21 Time did not wait for me; it was you who forgot to take me along. In my left hand, I have the ever-memorable firefly, and in my right hand, there is a long meditation of ten years.

21. 13没有人能烦恼你，除非你拿别人的言行来烦恼自己；没有放不下的事情，除非你自己不愿意放下。

21. No one can trouble you unless you let others' words and actions trouble you; there is no matter that you cannot let go of, unless you yourself are unwilling to let it go.

22. 难过了悲伤一下没关系，想哭了哭一下没关系，心疼了疼一下没关系，一个人孤单一下也没关系……给时间一点时间，一切都会过去。

22. It's okay to feel sad and let out some sorrow, it's okay to cry and let out some tears, it's okay to feel pain and let it linger for a while, and it's also okay to be alone for a while... Give time some time, and everything will pass.

23. 有时候生活会给我们一些无法改变的难题，我们只能选择面对和接受这一切。

23. Sometimes life presents us with some insurmountable challenges that we can only choose to face and accept.

24. 36即使很少相聚，两颗心从不曾远离，世界这么大，能遇见不容易，和你做朋友，分享幸福的点滴，此生足矣。朋友，保重自己！

24. Even though we don't meet often, our hearts have never been far apart. In such a vast world, it's not easy to meet someone, and being friends with you, sharing bits of happiness, is enough for this lifetime. Friend, take care of yourself!

25. 后来在整个生命里，我才发现，可以那么好的朋友，一辈子只有那么几个。

25. Later in my life, I realized that there are only a few such good friends that one can have in a lifetime.

26. 23归属感是你强烈地想和他在一起，安全感是你觉得他强烈地想和你在一起，幸福感是彼此都强烈的想在一起，而最终走在了一起。

26. Belongingness is when you strongly want to be with him, security is when you feel he strongly wants to be with you, happiness is when both of you strongly want to be together, and in the end, you walk together.

27. 无论你犯了多少错，或者进步得有多慢，你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的前面。

27. No matter how many mistakes you've made, or how slow your progress is, you are still ahead of those who have never tried.

28. 40你要学会去等待。等待水壶里的水慢慢烧开，等待一颗种子慢慢地发芽，等待一个孩子慢慢地长大。人生很多的事情都急不来。虽然人生很短暂，着急并不能够改变什么。可能你正在等待一个人的答复，可能你正在等待一段感情地发生，也有可能你正在等待着你的死亡。但不管怎样，你会发现你永远都改变不了等待。

28. 40 You need to learn to wait. Wait for the water in the kettle to slowly boil, wait for a seed to slowly germinate, wait for a child to slowly grow up. Many things in life cannot be rushed. Although life is short, urgency cannot change anything. Maybe you are waiting for a person's reply, maybe you are waiting for the occurrence of a relationship, or perhaps you are waiting for your own death. But no matter what, you will find that you can never change the act of waiting.

29. 16以前习惯了右手边有你的温度，现在的自己只能双手合一默默祈祷你会很好。

29. Used to having your warmth on my right side before the 16th, now I can only join my hands together in silent prayer, hoping that you will be well.

30. 22我等过你，用了我的青春年华，我爱过你，用最初最真的心。想你，但不打扰，静静的思念就好，把最后一点尊严留给自己。

30. I have waited for you, using my youthful years. I have loved you, with the purest and most sincere heart. I miss you, but I don't disturb you; just quietly miss you is enough, leaving a bit of dignity for myself.

31. 当你回归内心的安宁，不再计较得失，不再挑剔别人，不再搬弄是非，便安住在圆满中，当下即是归处。人的幸福感是自己给的，内心满足即圆满；若内心永远不知足，欲壑难填，就很难得到真正的幸福。所谓圆满不是没苦乐，而是苦乐随喜，悲喜随缘，皆是回归的风景。

31. When you return to the tranquility within, stop caring about gains and losses, stop being critical of others, and stop spreading gossip, you will dwell in completeness, and the present moment is your destination. Human happiness is self-bestowed; inner satisfaction is completeness. If the heart is never satisfied, and desires are insatiable, it is difficult to truly find happiness. So-called completeness is not the absence of joy and sorrow, but the joy and sorrow that come with happiness, and the sorrow and joy that come with fate, all of which are landscapes of return.

32. 12人生的悲欢离合，酸甜苦辣，皆系于心，心态若安好，就没有过不去的坎。经营好心情，你就拥有了生活的全部。

32. The joys and sorrows, the sweet and sour, the bitter and spicy of human life are all rooted in the heart. As long as the mindset is peaceful, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome. By managing your good mood, you possess the entirety of life.

33. 在这个充满挑战与机遇的时代，让我们铭记：尽管世界和人生有时显得坏透了，但青春永远是我们最宝贵的财富，它如同一股清泉，滋养着我们的心田；如同一盏明灯，照亮着我们的未来，让我们以青春之名，向这个世界宣告：无论前路多么坎坷，我们都将以无畏的姿态，勇往直前，因为青春不朽，希望永存。

33. In this era full of challenges and opportunities, let us remember: Although the world and life sometimes seem utterly rotten, youth will always be our most precious wealth. It is like a clear spring, nourishing our hearts; like a beacon, illuminating our future. In the name of youth, let us declare to this world: No matter how arduous the path ahead, we will move forward with an fearless demeanor. Because youth is eternal, and hope will always endure.

34. 30等待，是一种享受。虽然会有些漫长，虽然会有些艰苦。但在等待中，我们的身心会平静下来，没有躁动不安，只有宁静。那些往日牵绊我们的小利益，在等待中都会沉淀下去，只留下心静如水。

34. 30 minutes of waiting is a form of enjoyment. Although it may seem long and arduous, during this time, our minds and bodies become calm and serene, without restlessness or unease. The trivial interests that once entangled us will all settle down during the wait, leaving only a tranquil heart as still as water.

35. 38等一个不爱你的人，就像在夏天里等雪，在冬天里等花开。我不等你，等自己死心。

35. Waiting for someone who doesn't love you is like waiting for snow in summer or for flowers to bloom in winter. I won't wait for you; I'll wait for myself to give up.

36. 趁着年轻，当你爱上一个人的时候，尽管去爱吧，有一天，你会发现，你再也无法这样不顾一切地爱一个人了。w

36. While you are young, when you fall in love with someone, just go ahead and love without reservations. One day, you will find that you can no longer love someone so wholeheartedly.

37. 5每过一段时间，都要将过去清零，让自己重新开始。不要让过去成为现在的包袱，轻装上阵才能走得更远。人的心灵就像一个容器，时间长了里面难免会有沉渣。时时清空心灵的沉渣，该放手时就放手，该忘记的要忘记。扔掉过去的包袱，时时刷新自己，这样必能收获满意人生。

37. Every so often, you should reset the past and start anew. Don't let the past be a burden on the present; only by traveling light can you go further. The human mind is like a container, and over time, it is inevitable that sediment will accumulate within. Constantly clear out the sediment in your mind, let go when necessary, and forget what should be forgotten. Discard the burdens of the past, refresh yourself constantly, and in this way, you will surely reap a satisfying life.

38. 越在乎什么，越受制于什么；越执着什么，越容易被它打败；在乎了、执着了，你的弱点就明显了。

38. The more you care about something, the more you are controlled by it; the more you are obsessed with something, the more easily you can be defeated by it; when you care and become obsessed, your weaknesses become obvious.

39. 因不明真心，不明自利利他的生命意义，很多人活在财色名利的追逐中疲累不堪，活在得不到或已失去的懊悔中，时时刻刻都在担心拥有的会失去，却不知世间一切原本皆是无常，没有什么东西会永恒拥有，明了无常并非悲观处世，而是更达观地面对当下的生活，学会珍惜。

39. Due to the lack of understanding of true intention and the life significance of benefiting oneself and others, many people live in the relentless pursuit of wealth, fame, and power, exhausted and weary. They live in regrets over what they cannot obtain or have already lost, constantly worrying about losing what they have, yet they do not realize that all things in the world are impermanent by nature. Nothing is eternal to possess. Understanding impermanence is not a pessimistic view of life; instead, it is a more optimistic approach to facing the present, learning to cherish.

40. 16走正确的路，放无心的手，结有道之朋，断无义之友，饮清净之茶，戒色花之酒，开方便之门，闭是非之口。

40. Walk the right path, let go of the mindless hand, make friends with those of virtue, sever ties with the unworthy, drink pure tea,戒 the intoxicating wine of flower colors, open the door of convenience, close the mouth of gossip and slander.

41. 27那些散落在异乡的风尘，不敢回瞬，对于未来的走向，多少有些牵绊。不经意走失的岁月，依然在心底兜留，年华的斑斓，总负多情。你我只是在一场，又一场的相遇里，等待一缕暖阳，来温暖那苍凉已久的心，仅此而已。

41. 27 The dust and soot scattered in the alien land dare not turn back a moment, and there is some attachment to the future direction. The years that were lost without intention still linger in the heart, and the colorful years always owe a lot to the sentimentality. We are just waiting for a ray of warmth in one encounter after another, to warm the long-time desolate heart, nothing more.

42. 不拥有美丽的人呢，并非也不拥有自信。美丽是一种天赋，自信却像树苗一样，可以播种可以培植可以蔚然成林，可以知道地老天荒。——毕淑敏

42. People who do not possess beauty do not necessarily lack self-confidence. Beauty is a gift, but confidence is like a sapling, which can be planted and nurtured into a lush forest, and can last through all changes and times. — Bi Shumin

43. 在这个纷繁复杂的世界里，我们时常被生活的重压逼得喘不过气，仿佛每一刻都在与绝望共舞，世界以其独有的方式，展露着它的残酷与不公，人生之路更是布满了荆棘与坎坷，在这无尽的黑暗中，有一束光，它不畏风雨，不惧寒霜，始终温暖而明亮——那便是青春，青春，是生命中最绚烂的烟火，即便世界和人生看似坏透了，它依然以不屈的姿态，宣告着希望与可能。

43. In this complex and chaotic world, we are often overwhelmed by the weight of life, as if dancing with despair at every moment. The world, in its unique way, reveals its cruelty and injustice. The path of life is filled with thorns and difficulties. In this endless darkness, there is a light that dares not fear the storms or the frost, always warm and bright—it is youth. Youth is the most splendid fireworks in life. Even when the world and life seem utterly rotten, it still proclaims hope and possibility with an indomitable posture.

44. 21有些人明明刻薄嘴欠却说自己是幽默，有些人明明口无遮拦却说自己是坦率，有些人没有教养却以为自己是随性，也有些人轻重不分以为自己是耿直。

44. 21 Some people are obviously sarcastic and mouthy but claim to be humorous, while others are openly blunt but call themselves candid. Some lack manners but think they are casual, and some do not distinguish between right and wrong but believe they are straightforward.

45. 人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻。

45. The greatest mistake people make in daily life is to be overly polite to strangers and overly harsh to those close to them.

46. 6单身也好恋爱也好，只是人生中的某个阶段。没必要羡慕旁人，也别对现状不满。无论身边是否有人陪伴，前方是否有承诺一起努力的目标，生活的喜怒哀乐都是需要自己去经历并沉淀。正确地活着，每个阶段都会带给你更好的自己。成长不是单纯地为了脱单，而是让自己有力量去体验任何可能。

46. Whether single or in a relationship, it's just a stage in life. There's no need to envy others or be dissatisfied with the current situation. Whether you have someone by your side or have a commitment to strive together towards a goal, the joys and sorrows of life are experiences and emotions that need to be faced and internalized by yourself. Living correctly, each stage will bring out the better version of yourself. Growth is not merely for the sake of finding a partner, but to empower yourself to experience anything that is possible.

47. 这世上最好的东西，该是你能够得到、可以好好珍惜的。那些飘摇不定、让你痛苦的事物，就放它走吧！如果它够好，也许可以是远远的美丽的彩虹；若它不够好，能走多远就走多远吧！生命那么短暂，请用来爱惜带给你幸福和快乐的事物。

47. The best things in this world should be those that you can attain and cherish well. Let go of those things that are unstable and cause you pain! If it's good enough, perhaps it can be a faraway beautiful rainbow; if not, go as far as you can! Life is so fleeting, please use it to cherish the things that bring you happiness and joy.

48. 18勇敢是，当你还未开始就已知道自己会输，可你依然要去做，而且无论如何都要把它坚持到底。

48. 18 Bravery is knowing that you will lose before you even start, yet you still choose to do it, and you will persevere to the end no matter what.

49. “青春不是年华，而是心境；青春不是桃面、丹唇、柔膝，而是深沉的意志、恢宏的想象、炽热的感情；青春是生命的深泉在涌流。”塞缪尔·厄尔曼的这段文字，如同一记重锤，直击心灵，青春，是一场没有硝烟的战争，我们每个人都是这场战役中的战士，我们或许会被现实的残酷击倒，但青春赋予我们的，是站起来继续前行的勇气，在青春的战场上，我们学会了坚持与放弃的艺术，明白了努力与奋斗的价值，更懂得了珍惜与感恩的意义。

49. "Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind; youth is not a complexion, a red mouth, a supple knee, but a deep will, a broad imagination, a warm emotion; youth is the flowing fountain of life." Samuel Ullman's words, like a heavy hammer, strike straight to the heart. Youth is a war without smoke, and each of us is a soldier in this battle. We may be knocked down by the cruelty of reality, but what youth gives us is the courage to stand up and continue to move forward. On the battlefield of youth, we learn the art of persistence and giving up, understand the value of effort and struggle, and more importantly, we comprehend the meaning of cherishing and being grateful.

50. 没有不可治愈的伤痛，没有不能结束的沉沦，所有失去的，会以另一种方式归来。

50. There are no wounds that cannot be healed, no declines that cannot end, and all that is lost will return in another form.

51. 本文目录导读：

51. Table of Contents Guide:

52. 14最珍重的事应该最沉默。不肯说给人听，不肯拿给人看，放在心底，生怕语言扭曲它，空气氧化它。日久月深成了一个人的心血，我们才成为了人群中彼此不同的人。

52. The most cherished things should be the most silent. They should not be spoken about or shown to others, kept deep within the heart, fearing that words might distort them or air might oxidize them. Over time and through the depths of months, they become the essence of a person's effort, and it is then that we become distinct individuals among the crowd.

53. 15最遥远的距离，不是天涯海角，而是我明知你不爱我了，我却还拼了命的爱你。

53. The farthest distance is not from the ends of the earth, but when I know that you no longer love me, yet I still love you with all my might.

54. 4你为什么不问我答案，也许我愿意陪你熬，愿意隔着万水千山和你相爱，也许我愿意等你有未来，愿意接受你的什么也不是。

54. Why don't you ask me for the answer? Maybe I'm willing to endure it with you, to love you across thousands of rivers and mountains, maybe I'm willing to wait for you to have a future, and to accept what you are not.

55. 人的一生会遇见很多很多人，有些人是朋友，有些人是过客，而你将会成为我生命中最重要的那个人，我相信命运不单单只是想要我们遇见。

55. In one's lifetime, one encounters many, many people; some are friends, some are strangers, and you will become the most important person in my life. I believe that destiny doesn't merely want us to meet.

56. 22别着急，最合适的那个人总会在不经意的时候出现，等一等再等一等。

56. 22 Don't hurry, the most suitable person will appear at an unexpected moment, wait a little longer, and wait a little longer.

57. 很多人问是该选爱自己的人还是自己爱的人其实很简单你强大你就选自己爱的人你不够强大那就选爱自己的人了。

57. Many people ask whether they should choose the person who loves them or the person they love. The answer is actually very simple: if you are strong, choose the person you love; if you are not strong enough, choose the person who loves you.

58. 25我梦想中的生活就是这样：有花，有天空，有可以眺望期许的远方。

58. 25 The life I dream of is like this: with flowers, with the sky, and with the distant view of what I aspire to.

59. 分分合合太多次的感情，终究还是会分的。你以为好事多磨，其实是大伤元气。每一次纵然和好，也总有一股子怨气堵在心里、伺机报复。分分合合多了，有些事，就再也回不到当初了。——“分手”两个字，只说一次。想作想折腾的时候忍一忍，或许一不小心就地久天长了。

59. A relationship that has split and reunited too many times will eventually end. You may think that good things come with difficulty, but in reality, it's a great loss of vitality. Even if you reconcile each time, there is always a lingering resentment in your heart, waiting for an opportunity to get revenge. With too many splits and reunions, there are some things that can never return to their original state. — The word "breakup" should only be said once. When you feel like causing trouble or stirring things up, hold back a bit. Perhaps you might accidentally extend the relationship for a long time.

60. 一个人会突然想通一件事，如醍醐灌顶，如振聋发聩，从此境界大不相同。这或许跟时间有关系，也或许跟阅历有关系，但不到那个节点，无论别人如何苦口婆心，都无法消除困顿。所以给别人提意见，不必着急上火，他需要的或许不是建议，他需要的其实是时间。

60. A person may suddenly understand something, as if receiving a revelation, as if awakening the deaf, and from then on, their state is vastly different. This might be related to time, or it might be related to experience, but until that point, no matter how earnestly others may urge them, they cannot shake off their perplexity. Therefore, when giving others advice, there is no need to become anxious or flustered. What they may need is not necessarily advice; what they truly need is time.