1. 爱情使有些鸟显出它们身上最美丽的颜色，使诚实的心灵表现出最高尚的成分。

1. Love makes some birds reveal the most beautiful colors on their bodies, and it brings out the most noble qualities of an honest heart.

2. 有些人吧，怀念旧人时，感觉情深无比。而对待身边人时，却能多恶劣就多恶劣。其实，两个人若是不在一起了，就像是亲人去世一样，最多就是在清明节时祭祀一下，怀念一下，可对方真的感受不到。所以说，与其怀念，不如相守。与其纪念，不如对身边人好一些吧。

2. Some people, when they miss the old ones, feel an overwhelming depth of emotion. Yet, when it comes to those around them, they can be as cruel as possible. In reality, if two people are no longer together, it's like the death of a family member, at most, they might offer a sacrifice and remember on Qingming Festival, but the other person truly does not feel it. So, rather than yearning, it's better to cherish each other. Rather than commemorating, it's better to be kind to those around us.

3. 水会流失，火会熄灭，而爱情却能和命运抗衡。

3. Water will run out, fire will be extinguished, but love can withstand fate.

4. 有的人说，男人一旦变了心，九头牛也拉不回来，难道女人变心，九头牛就拉得回来吗？男女之间只在生理上有差异，心理方面差异并不大。

4. Some say that once a man has strayed, not even nine oxen can bring him back. Does that mean that if a woman strays, she can be brought back with nine oxen? The differences between men and women are only physiological, with psychological differences being relatively small.

5. 爱慕一个女子，通常爱她现在的样子；爱慕一个少年，通常着眼于他未来的样子——卢梭

5. Admiring a woman, one usually admires her as she is now; admiring a youth, one usually focuses on his future appearance — Rousseau.

6. 爱别人，也被别人爱，这就是一切，这就是宇宙的法则、为了爱，我们才存在、有爱慰籍的人，无惧于任何事物，任何人。——彭沙尔

6. To love others and to be loved by others, this is everything, this is the law of the universe. We exist for love, and those who are comforted by love have no fear of anything, anyone. - Pancha

7. 彼此之间草率结了婚已经算是一个错误了，那就再也不要草率地离婚了。再尝试一段时间，真的不行再离不迟。

7. It was already a mistake to get married in a hurry among us, so please never rush into a divorce either. Try for a while longer, and if it's really not working out, then it's not too late to part ways.

8. 爱人至少要在心灵方面没有欠缺，如果只是身体的欠缺，那还不失其可爱。

8. The beloved must at least be lacking in spirit; if it's only a physical lack, it still retains its charm.

9. 倚势凌人，势败人凌我；穷巷追狗，巷穷狗咬人，意思是说一个人如果仗势欺人的话，自己一旦失势，别人反过来就会欺负你；这就好比在没有退路的巷子里追狗，狗如果没有了退路，就会掉转头来咬人。这句贤文教导我们，做人要有高姿态，别人如果伤害了你而理亏的时候，你得理也要让三分，而不能穷追猛打；否则别人没有了退路，势必极力反扑，你自己也就没有了余地，结果可能会两败俱伤。让与不让，会得到两种不同的结果得理让人会天宽地阔，得理不让人会使路越走越窄。

9. To rely on one's power to bully others, when the power fails, others will bully me; to chase a dog in a narrow alley, when the alley is narrow, the dog will bite people. This means that if a person relies on their power to bully others, once they lose their power, others will turn around and bully them. It's like chasing a dog in an alley with no exit – if the dog has no way out, it will turn around and bite. This wise saying teaches us that as people, we should maintain a dignified posture. When others hurt you and are in the wrong, you should give in and let them off the hook, rather than pursue them relentlessly. Otherwise, if others have no way out, they will certainly make a fierce counterattack, leaving you with no room for maneuver, and the result might be mutual harm. Whether to give in or not will lead to two different outcomes: giving in will lead to a vast sky and boundless land, while not giving in will make the path narrower and narrower.

10. 爱是不会老的，它留着的是永恒的火焰与不灭的光辉，世界的存在，就以它为养料。——左拉

10. Love will never grow old, leaving behind an eternal flame and unquenchable brilliance. The existence of the world is nourished by it. — Zola

11. 家庭关系建立在婚姻之上，婚姻则植根于两性间天然的相辅相成或互相联系之上。——康德

11. Family relationships are based on marriage, and marriage is rooted in the natural complementarity or interconnection between the two sexes. — Kant

12. 做一个温暖的女孩子，做一个爱笑的女孩子。快乐并懂得如何快乐，快乐并感染身边的人快乐。偶尔任性，却不犀利。偶尔敏感，却不神经质。乐意和大家分享所有开心和不开心事情。高兴，就笑，让大家都知道。悲伤，就哭，然后当做什么也没发生。偶尔，只需要一个鼓励的微笑，就可以说服自己继续坚强下去。

12. Be a warm girl, a girl who loves to laugh. Be happy and know how to be happy, be happy and spread happiness to those around you. Occasionally be a bit任性, but not sharp. Occasionally be sensitive, but not neurotic. Be willing to share all the happy and unhappy things with everyone. Be happy, then laugh, so everyone knows. Be sad, then cry, and then act as if nothing happened. Occasionally, just a smile of encouragement is enough to convince yourself to keep being strong.

13. 爱情之中高尚的成分不亚于温柔的成分，使人向上的力量不亚于使人萎靡的力量，有时还能激发别的美德。——伏尔泰

13. The noble elements in love are not inferior to the tender ones, the power to uplift is not less than the power to depress, and sometimes it can even inspire other virtues. — Voltaire

14. 恋爱有四种类型：热情之恋、趣味之恋、之恋、虚荣之恋。——司汤达

14. There are four types of love: passionate love, playful love, love of the spirit, and love of vanity. - Stendhal

15. 单纯喜欢你的人，他看到的是你的现在;真正爱你的人，要和你走的是未来;真正的爱情，不是某一个时刻的承诺和表白，而是之后一起走过的岁月;真正的缘分，也并非是冥冥注定的安排，而是两个人彼此认定的决心;真正的爱人，不是每天夸赞你的那个人，而是看你的眼神里那些浓得化不开的深情。

15. A person who simply likes you sees your present; a person who truly loves you wants to walk into the future with you; true love is not a promise or confession at a specific moment, but the years spent together afterward; true destiny is not a predestined arrangement, but a mutual determination from both individuals; a true lover is not the one who赞美 you every day, but the one whose eyes are filled with an indissoluble depth of affection.

16. 做人，不能缺德，人前不耍心机，人后不玩阴谋，谁都是人，谁都不傻，你耍别人，等于在耍自己，耍别人一时，耍自己一生。

16. As a person, one cannot lack virtue. One should not play cunning in front of others, nor engage in conspiracies behind their backs. Everyone is a person, and no one is foolish. To play others is to play yourself. You may play others for a moment, but you play yourself for a lifetime.

17. 自觉践行三严三实，持之以恒转变作风，以低调务实不张扬、埋头苦干的精神和勇于负责、敢于担当的劲头，稳扎稳打推进各项工作，努力创造经得起实践、人民、历史检验的实绩。

17. Actively practice the "Three Stricts and Three Honesties," consistently transform work styles, and with a modest, practical, and unpretentious spirit, as well as a willingness to take responsibility and courage to assume duties, steadily advance all work, striving to create achievements that can stand up to the test of practice, the people, and history.

18. 感情上，不要因为长相不如对方就放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多太多了。

18. In terms of emotions, do not give up on the intention to pursue someone just because they do not meet your physical expectations. Physical appearance is just a temporary impression, and whether or not the two of you can get together mainly depends on your personalities. I have seen too many cases of handsome men paired with ugly women, and ugly women with handsome men.

19. 爱情使所有的人变成雄辩家这话说得绝对正确。 ——罗格林

19. Love makes all people eloquent; this saying is absolutely correct. ——Rogers

20. 爱情不是花荫下的甜言，不是桃花源中的密语，不是轻绵的眼泪，更不是死硬的强迫，爱情是建立在共同的基础上的。

20. Love is not sweet words under the shade of flowers, not whispered secrets in the Peach Blossom Spring, not delicate tears, nor is it the harsh coercion. Love is built on a common foundation.

21. 春天没有花，人生没有爱，那还成个什么世界。——郭沫若

21. Without flowers in spring, without love in life, what kind of world would that be? - Guo Moruo

22. 党员领导干部要自觉地在改革和建设中进行党性锻炼，加强思想政治修养，锻炼意志品质，提高精神境界，保持高尚的道德情操，追求积极向上的生活情趣，真正养成***人的高风亮节。

22. Leading Party members should consciously undergo Party spirit training through reform and construction, strengthen their ideological and political cultivation, temper their will and character, elevate their spiritual realm, maintain noble moral sentiments, pursue positive and upward life interests, and truly cultivate the virtuous and upright character of a fine person.

23. 相互包容，相互理解，抱着一颗真心去对对方。

23. Mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, and approach with a sincere heart towards each other.

24. 如果我的生命中没有智慧，它仅仅会黯然失色；如果我的生命中没有爱情，它就会毁灭。——亨利·德·蒙泰朗

24. If there is no wisdom in my life, it will only lose its luster; if there is no love in my life, it will be destroyed. - Henri de Montalembert

25. 不要去试探你的爱人，因为那是拿一个谎言去试探另一个谎言。也不要欺瞒你的爱人，所谓善意的谎话往往带来恶意的结果。两个人在一起，最要紧的是诚实和诚恳，如果一段感情需要靠谎言维持，那还不如趁早分手。爱情生于真实，死于虚伪。

25. Do not test your loved one, for it is to test one lie with another. Also, do not deceive your loved one, for so-called kind lies often bring malicious consequences. When two people are together, the most important thing is honesty and sincerity. If a relationship needs to be maintained by lies, it is better to end it early. Love is born from truth and dies from hypocrisy.

26. 爱情是男人生命中的一部分，却是女人生命的全部。——拜伦

26. Love is a part of a man's life, but the whole of a woman's life. - Lord Byron

27. 不害相思，幸福就没你的份。把爱情赶出了生活，你就赶出欢乐。一帆风顺的爱情，其实寡味。——莫里哀

27. Do not harm the longing for love, or happiness will not be yours. Drive love out of life, and you will drive joy out as well. Love that goes smoothly is actually tasteless. — Molière

28. 爱情会自寻出路。 ——英国

28. Love will find a way. ——United Kingdom

29. 得成比目何辞死，愿作鸳鸯不羡仙。——卢照邻

29. To become like a flounder, what is there to fear of death? I would rather be a mandarin duck with my mate, not envying the immortals. — Lu Zhaolin

30. 既然真理和坚贞均告徒劳，既然爱情痛苦和理智的力量都不能将其说服，那么就让榜样作为儆戒吧！

30. Since truth and fidelity have proved fruitless, and neither the pain of love nor the power of reason can persuade it, let the example serve as a warning!

31. 爱神能征服一切，我们还是向爱神屈服吧。——维吉尔

31. Love can conquer all; let us then submit to the god of love. — Virgil

32. 征求意见要侧身下位，把脉问诊；查摆问题要动真碰硬，揭疮挤脓；整改落实要清垢图新，猛药去疴。

32. When soliciting opinions, be humble and approach from a lower position, diagnose the situation; when identifying problems, be straightforward and confront them head-on, expose and squeeze out the pus; when rectifying and implementing, clean away the dirt and aim for newness, and use strong medicine to cure the disease.

33. 爱情原如树叶一样，在人忽视里绿了，在忍耐里露出蓓蕾。 ——何其芳

33. Love, like leaves, turns green when ignored by people, and reveals its buds in endurance. — Qi Fang He

34. 有时候，上天没有给你想要的，不是因为你不配，而是你值得拥有更好的。

34. Sometimes, the heavens don't give you what you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you are worthy of something better.

35. 腿要勤，深入实际摸真情；脑要勤，不断思考获真知；口要勤，广泛交流炼真功。

35. Keep your legs busy, delve deep into reality to touch the truth; keep your mind busy, continuously think to gain true knowledge; keep your mouth busy, widely communicate to refine true skills.

36. 女人既不是善良的天使，也不凶恶的魔鬼，而仅仅是个凡人，而且从爱情和情感的力量来看，她们是比男子更软弱的受造之物。

36. Women are neither kind angels nor fierce devils; they are merely ordinary human beings. Moreover, from the perspective of the power of love and emotion, they are weaker creatures than men.

37. 爱情是一种感觉，用任何的东西来修饰它，用任何的语言来装饰它都不恰当因为它是两个相爱的人之间的一种感应。

37. Love is a feeling; it is inappropriate to decorate it with anything or to adorn it with any language, because it is an intuition between two people in love.

38. 爱情需要薄薄的一层忧伤，需要一点点嫉妒、疑虑、戏剧性的游戏。 ——瓦西列夫

38. Love requires a thin layer of melancholy, a bit of jealousy, doubt, and dramatic games. ——Vasilev

39. 众人拾柴火焰高，只有团结协作、齐心协力才能最终成功。一个人的能力是很单薄的，但是有大家的帮忙就能办得更好。所以我们要团结一致。在今天的行业竞争中，同行、同企业之间的互相竞争是同行关系的主旋律。很多人都是天生的红眼病，忌妒心强，见不得别人好，为了排挤对方，不惜一切代价，也不惜一切手段，搞无谓的圈内争斗，以致两虎相争，相互内耗，两败俱伤。其实，换一种思维，双赢合作才是达到目的的最好选择。同行，竞争可以，不能做冤家。历史上就有许多这样的深刻教训。

39. Many hands make light work, and only through unity and cooperation can we ultimately succeed. The abilities of an individual are fragile, but with the help of everyone, we can achieve more. Therefore, we must unite as one. In today's industry competition, the mutual competition among peers and the same companies is the main theme of interprofessional relationships. Many people are naturally envious and have a strong sense of jealousy, unable to bear others' success. In order to oust each other, they are willing to go to any length and employ any means, engaging in senseless in-fighting within the circle, leading to a confrontation between two powerful entities, mutual internal consumption, and mutual injury. In fact, with a different mindset, win-win cooperation is the best choice to achieve the goal. Peers, competition is fine, but we should not become enemies. History has provided many profound lessons of this kind.

40. 天下兴亡，匹夫有责，顾炎武作为一个江南文人竟然留寓北方达20年，游历北方大地，无非是为了乘机而起推翻清朝统治，其民族气节一直激励着很多志士仁人。他的学问更是开了清朝朴学的先河，强调实用主义，反对理学的明心见性，都是旗帜鲜明的。对明朝后期的所谓心学，做了深刻的批判，提出君子为学，以明道也，以救世也。徒以诗文而已，所谓雕虫篆刻，亦何益哉？对于后世朴学，他是一位继往开来的人物。他的政治思想，特别是他的民族性，对于后来的晚清的资产阶级革命有引导性作用。资产阶级革命家章炳麟在反对清朝政府的时候，自署名章绛，同顾炎武初名，可见顾炎武思想的影响力之深远。

40. The rise and fall of the world, the responsibility lies with every ordinary person. Gu Yanwu, as a literati from the south of the Yangtze River, even resided in the north for 20 years, traveling through the vast land of the north, all for the opportunity to rise up and overthrow the Qing Dynasty's rule. His national integrity has always inspired many righteous and patriotic individuals. His scholarship has laid the foundation for the Pragmatic Studies of the Qing Dynasty, emphasizing practicalism and opposing the Neo-Confucianism's pursuit of the true nature. These positions were clearly stated. He made a profound critique of the so-called "heart learning" of the late Ming Dynasty, proposing that the gentleman's pursuit of learning should be to enlighten the path and to save the world. Is it of any benefit to merely engage in poetry and literature, or to indulge in ornate calligraphy and engraving? As a successor to the past and a pioneer of the future in Pragmatic Studies, his political thoughts, especially his nationalism, had a guiding influence on the late Qing Dynasty's capitalist revolution. The capitalist revolutionary figure Zhang Binglin, when opposing the Qing government, signed himself as Zhang Jiang, which is the same as Gu Yanwu's original name, reflecting the profound influence of Gu Yanwu's thoughts.

41. 但无法失去**和沉沦的快乐。

41. But the joy of losing and descending cannot be lost.

42. 有些人祈祷能嫁给一个自己所爱的男子，我的祈祷却有不同；我虔诚地祈祷上苍，但愿我爱我所嫁的男人。——斯托克斯

42. Some people pray to marry a man they love, but my prayer is different; I devoutly pray to the heavens that I may love the man I marry. — Stokes

43. 不太热烈的爱情才会维持久远 ——莎士比亚

43. It is not the热烈 love that lasts the longest — Shakespeare

44. 水会流失，火会熄灭，而爱情却能和命运抗衡。 ——纳撒尼尔李

44. Water will run out, fire will burn out, but love can defy fate. ——Nathaniel Lee

45. 爱情，你的话是我的食粮，你的气息是我的醇酒。——歌德

45. Love, your words are my sustenance, your breath my nectar. – Goethe

46. 做人，不能缺德，人前留一线，日后好相见。说话，别说绝，做事，别做绝，给别人留个面子，给自己留个台阶。

46. In life, one cannot lack virtue. Leave a thread of kindness in front of others, so that it will be easier to meet again in the future. When speaking, do not say something that is absolute; when acting, do not act to the extreme. Give others a face and leave yourself a way out.

47. 婚姻不是给对方承诺，也不是约束别人，而是约束自己。——伊能静

47. Marriage is not about making promises to the other person or binding someone else, but it is about binding oneself. —伊能静

48. 人要做好事，一百件也不算多；若做坏事，一件就是够了。

48. A person should do good deeds; even a hundred is not too many. But if they do bad things, one is enough.

49. 友谊进而为恋爱易，由恋爱退而为友谊难。杰克逊

49. It is easier to turn friendship into love than to go back from love to friendship. - Jackson

50. 爱情包括的灵和肉两个方面应该是同等重要，要不爱情就有完备，因为我们不是神，也不是野兽。

50. The spiritual and physical aspects included in love should be equally important; otherwise, love is incomplete, as we are neither gods nor beasts.

51. 你当我是个风筝，要不把我放了，要不然收好带回家，别用一条看不见的情思拴着我，让我心伤。

51. Treat me as a kite, either let me go or take me home safely, don't tie me down with an invisible thread of affection, causing me heartache.

52. 一旦爱情得到了满足，他人魅力也就荡然无存了。

52. Once love is satisfied, the charm of others is no more.

53. 曾经相遇，曾经相爱，曾经在彼此的生命光照，就记取那份美好，那份甜蜜。虽然无缘，也是无憾。——杏林子

53. Once met, once loved, once shining in each other's lives, remember that beauty, that sweetness. Although without a destined fate, it is also without regret. - Xing Linzi

54. 爱情原来本就是海里的沙，只有你用心去呵护它，用泪和心血去滋润它，让它沉醉于心才能成为一颗水晶。

54. Love is originally like the sand in the sea; only by nurturing it with your heart, watering it with tears and blood, can it be absorbed in the heart and become a crystal.

55. 很小的一件事就会吓坏爱情，很小的件事情也会使爱情欢愉起来。对爱情来说，任何事情都有意义，任何事情都可以构成吉光或者凶光。

55. Even the smallest thing can scare love, and even the tiniest thing can bring joy to love. To love, anything has meaning, and anything can be a sign of good fortune or misfortune.

56. 于是才建立百官，分辨他们的曲直。用这个来判断是非曲直，用这个来惩处犯罪的人。

56. It was then that the officials were established, and their righteousness and wrongdoings were distinguished. This was used to judge between right and wrong, and to punish those who committed crimes.

57. 爱情里最重要的事，不是如何去爱别人，而是努力成全最好的自己。

57. The most important thing in love is not how to love others, but to strive to be the best version of yourself.

58. 三个才能平庸的人，若能同心协力、集思广益，也能提出比诸葛亮还周到的计策。

58. Three people of average talent, if they work together with unity of purpose and pool their wisdom, can come up with plans that are even more meticulous than those of Zhuge Liang.

59. 世上最奢侈的人，是肯花时间陪你的人。时间如白驹过隙，把时间分给了你，就等于把自己的世界分给了你。

59. The most luxurious person in the world is one who is willing to spend time with you. Time flies like a white horse through the gap, and giving you time is equivalent to giving you a piece of your own world.

60. 精神恋爱是一种极不真实和复杂的感情，实际上是不健康的。如果在纯洁这个概念中也把精神的意思加进去，那么纯洁的爱情就是种自我矛盾。

60. Spiritual love is an extremely unrealistic and complex emotion, which is actually unhealthy. If the meaning of "spiritual" is also added to the concept of purity, then pure love becomes self-contradictory.

61. 只有在爱情里面，女人才活得真正像个女人。

61. Only in love does a woman truly live as a woman.

62. 生活是很可怕很丑陋的。当两个人果然在一起后，爱情就会由蜜糖化为口香糖，愈嚼愈淡，淡到后来竟是涩涩苦苦的，不由得你不吐掉。

62. Life is terrifying and ugly. After two people are indeed together, love will turn from honey to gum, getting less sweet with each chew, eventually becoming bitter and sour to the point where you can't help but spit it out.

63. 提拔正直的人，压制不正直的人，老百姓就会服气；提拔不正直的人，压制正直的人，老百姓就不会服气。

63. Promote upright individuals and suppress those who are not, and the people will submit; promote those who are not upright and suppress the upright, and the people will not submit.

64. 我看见没有哪种婚姻比只为容貌，只贪肉欲的结合破裂得更早，更糟糕。

64. I have seen that no marriage breaks up earlier or worse than one that is solely based on appearance or is driven by sensual desires.

65. 春蚕到死丝方尽，蜡炬成灰泪始干。——李商隐

65. The silkworm weaves its silk until death, the candle melts to ash before the tears dry up. — Li Shangyin

66. 不要随便和别人上床，否则将来遇到一个真爱但他洁身自好有原则的男人，你会后悔当年的所作所为。

66. Don't casually sleep with others; otherwise, in the future when you meet a true love who is chaste and principled, you will regret your actions from the past.

67. 若是有可能，有些事情一定要用所能有的，竭尽全力的能力来记得它。因很多事情我们慢慢地，慢慢地就会变得不记得。

67. If possible, some things must be remembered with all the strength at one's disposal, to the fullest extent. For many things, we gradually, gradually tend to forget them.

68. 在我们的党员领导干部队伍里，有的人之所以会受到大家的尊重，同样也在于他们能够尊敬别人。反之，一个自以为自己比别人高明、唯我独尊的人；一个事事要别人迁就自己、服从自己的人；一个处处嘲笑别人、讽刺别人，甚至取笑别人生理缺陷的人，是没有可能得到别人尊重的。不懂得尊重别人，也就不懂得尊重自己；只有尊重别人，才能得到别人对自己的尊重。作为党员领导干部，为政做人要学会谦和大气，遇事胸襟博大，诚恳待人，厚德容人，用谦和凝聚人心、整合力量、营造氛围、推动发展。

68. Some of our Party members and leading officials are respected by everyone not only because they are capable of respecting others, but also because they do so. Conversely, a person who believes himself to be superior to others, who insists on being catered to and服从 by others at all times; a person who constantly mocks and satirizes others, even making fun of others' physical defects, is unlikely to receive respect from others. Not knowing how to respect others also means not knowing how to respect oneself; only by respecting others can one earn others' respect. As Party members and leading officials, one should learn to be modest and generous in both governance and personal conduct, have a broad-mindedness when facing issues, treat others sincerely, be kind-hearted and forgiving, and use modesty to unite people, integrate forces, create an atmosphere, and promote development.

69. 爱情的欢乐虽然是甜美无比，但只有在光荣与美德存在的地方才能生存。——古尔内尔

69. The joy of love is incredibly sweet, but it can only survive where honor and virtue exist. — Gurner

70. 选这样的女人做你的妻子：如果她是一个男的，你会选她作朋友。诺贝尔

70. Choose such a woman to be your wife: if she were a man, you would choose her as a friend. - Nobel

71. 爱情是兴致勃勃的外来客，是外来的自我。 ——爱献生

71. Love is an eager visitor from the outside, an alien self. ——Ai Xiansheng

72. 爱情是不受制是不受制约的；一旦制度想施*威，爱神就会振翅远走高飞；爱神和其他诸神一样，也是自由自在的。——乔叟

72. Love is unshackled and unbound; once the institution tries to impose its will, the god of love will spread its wings and fly far away; like other gods, the god of love is also free and unrestrained. — Chaucer

73. 爱情是什么？爱情是人与人之间的强烈的依恋、亲近、向往，以及无私专一并且无所不尽其心的情感。爱就是网住对方的心，具有亲密、**和承诺的属性，并且对这种关系的长久性持有信心，也能够与对方分享私生活。

73. What is love? Love is a strong attachment, intimacy, and longing between people, as well as a selfless and devoted emotion that dedicates all its efforts. Love is about capturing the heart of the other person, and it possesses the attributes of intimacy, **and commitment**, and has confidence in the longevity of this relationship. It is also able to share private life with the other person.

74. 爱情在开始的时候，总是甜蜜的，以后就有了厌倦，习惯，背弃，寂寞，绝望和冷落。

74. Love is always sweet at the beginning, but then it turns into boredom, habit, betrayal, loneliness, despair, and neglect.