1. 即使看到了别人的缺点，也无权理直气壮地朝他扔石头。没有人是完美的，对方有罪，你又何尝无辜，与其站在道德制高点苛责别人，不如先要求自己。

1. Even if you see others' flaws, you have no right to throw stones at them confidently. No one is perfect, and if the other person is guilty, how innocent are you? It's better to demand yourself first rather than standing on a moral high ground and blaming others.

2. 天上不会掉馅饼，一般无缘无故的馅饼都与诈骗有关。

2. There's no such thing as a free lunch in the sky; usually, free cakes that come out of nowhere are related to scams.

3. 好姑娘就得拿得起放得下，视男人如衣裳，像他那种男人就是地摊货。

3. A good girl should be able to pick up and put down things, treating men like clothing; a man like him is just something found on the ground.

4. 狡猾很要紧，但狡猾要藏在心里，不能露在脸上。

4. Cleverness is important, but it should be kept in one's heart and not shown on one's face.

5. 如果能用钱来解决这件事情，那这就不是事情了。

5. If this matter could be resolved with money, then it wouldn't be a matter at all.

6. 一个人不理你呢，有可能是对方的问题，但是如果大家都不理你，就要从自身找问题了，不要只站在自己的角度去考虑问题，心情再不好，也要学会克制。

6. If someone ignores you, it might be their problem, but if everyone ignores you, you should look for issues within yourself. Don't only consider problems from your own perspective; even if you're feeling bad, you should learn to control yourself.

7. 你们离婚你必拿不出证据说我是第三者，但却在公开场合指责我是第三者，这是诽谤，我保留权利且严重怀疑你此行的目的，为了我的人身安全着想，我需要我的律师在场。

7. You cannot provide evidence to prove that I am the third party in your divorce, yet you publicly accuse me of being one. This is defamation, and I reserve my rights. I also seriously doubt the purpose of your visit. For the sake of my personal safety, I need my lawyer to be present.

8. 我每个月的工资很少，它根本没办法让我在上海这样的地方生存下去。

8. My monthly salary is very low, and it's not enough to make a living in a place like Shanghai.

9. 其实每个人都有自己的立身之本，人生的路很长，不是走得快懂得多就好，重要的，还是要找到一个适合自己的道路。

9. In fact, everyone has their own foundation for standing firm. Life is a long journey, and it's not just about walking fast and knowing more. What's important is still to find a path that suits oneself.

10. 当人生遇到任何的困难，都不要忘记往前看。

10. When life encounters any difficulties, don't forget to look forward.

11. 两个年龄相仿的女孩摆在你面前，一个是狐狸精一样的美女，家财不少，陪嫁丰厚，又是海龟，另一个外地无户籍女子，一无所有，中人之姿。换你是男人，你挑哪个？都市中人实际得很。

11. Two girls of similar ages are presented to you. One is a beautiful woman resembling a fox spirit, wealthy with substantial dowry, and a "sea turtle" (referring to someone who has studied abroad). The other is a woman from an outside place without a local household registration, owning nothing and having an average appearance. If you were a man, which one would you choose? People in the city are very practical.

12. 未知并不可怕，不要因为恐惧就拒绝我，给我一个机会，让我紧紧捉住你，陪你一起走下去，我们一起寻找答案，好吗？

12. The unknown is not可怕的, do not reject me out of fear. Give me a chance, let me tightly hold you, and walk with you together. Let's find the answers together, okay?

13. 其实每一种感情都有它存在的意义。

13. In fact, every kind of feeling has its own significance.

14. 果然这个世界是看脸的，丑女四处碰壁。

14. Indeed, this world is all about appearances, and ugly women face a lot of obstacles everywhere.

15. 天下无不散的宴席，你记住啊，除了你自己，谁都不能跟你一辈子。

15. There is no feast in the world that does not come to an end. Remember, besides yourself, no one can be with you for a lifetime.

16. 从那以后我就知道两件事，第一，人生苦短，充满变数，只要遇到自己喜欢的，就要紧紧捉住，绝不放手；第二，不管遇到什么样的困难，一定要坚持往前走，每个人的人生都有不如意的时候，你不用费力诋毁自己，更不用把我推开，我之所以站在这里，是因为我喜欢你。

16. Since then, I've come to know two things: First, life is short and full of changes, so whenever you encounter something you like, hold on to it tightly and never let go; second, no matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, you must persevere and move forward. Everyone has their moments of dissatisfaction in life, and you don't need to make an effort to denigrate yourself, nor do you need to push me away. The reason I am standing here is because I like you.

17. 天下无不散宴席，除了你自己，谁都不可能陪你过一辈子。

17. No banquet in the world lasts forever; only you can accompany yourself through an entire lifetime.

18. 有时候读书也是一种反省，其实想想虽然自己满身缺点，但是往外一看，比自己不堪的人多的是，又有什么好纠结的？

18. Sometimes, reading is also a form of self-reflection. When you think about it, although I have many flaws, when I look outward, there are plenty of people worse off than me. So, what's there to worry about?

19. 他还是潜力股？都快四十了还潜力股啊，这隐藏得也太深了，照这速度下去，估计五六十还潜着呢，谁买入谁套牢，一准能炒成股东。

19. Is he still a potential stock? He's almost forty and still a potential stock, the secret's been kept too well. At this pace, he might still be "potential" at fifty or sixty. Whomever buys him is bound to be stuck, guaranteed to become a shareholder.

20. 比起你所害怕的那些，我更不愿意失去你。

20. I would rather lose you than those things you fear.

21. 我们这些外地女孩子，工作才是唯一的依靠。

21. For us girls from outside, work is our only reliance.

22. 女人不一定要为悦己者容，也要为自己容。

22. A woman does not have to be beautiful for others to please them; she also needs to be beautiful for herself.

23. 恋爱当中付出越多伤害就越深，最悲催的就是，你付出多少其实都是要听天由命的，所有的结局都在你遇到那个你爱上的那个人那一瞬间就已经注定了，所有的东西你都没有办法去把控，你想使用手段没用，那些都是旁枝末节，无关宏旨。

23. The more you invest in a relationship, the deeper the hurt. The most tragic part is that no matter how much you give, it's all a matter of fate. The outcome of everything is predetermined the moment you meet the person you fall in love with. You have no control over anything. Trying to use tactics is futile; those are just trivial matters, irrelevant to the main issue.

24. 不能！贪玩就是贪玩，人品是人品，不能混淆。好姑娘就得拿得起放得下，视男人如衣裳，像他那种男人就是地摊货。

24. No! Playing around is playing around, character is character, they cannot be confused. A good girl should be able to pick up and put down, treating men like clothes. Men like him are nothing but street market goods.

25. 大龄少女无权谈恋爱，只能谈对象。

25. Young women of advanced age do not have the right to date; they can only discuss potential partners.

26. 不要总是观察我、试探我、考证我。

26. Do not always observe me, test me, and examine me.

27. 我以为每天叫醒我的是闹铃，是梦想，没想到却是隔壁的装修声。

27. I thought it was the alarm clock and my dreams that woke me up every day, but I never expected it to be the construction noise from the neighbor's house.

28. 我打算不让你说出忍了半天的话。有个我很喜欢的前辈告诉我，很多聪明人之所以活得痛苦，正是因为他们无视自己肉身凡胎的现实，硬是把自己往圣人堆里整。凡人坦然面对欲望不是坏事。

28. I plan not to let you express what you've been holding back. A senior who I really like told me that many intelligent people live in pain precisely because they ignore the reality of their mortal bodies and stubbornly push themselves into the ranks of sages. It's not a bad thing for ordinary people to face their desires with ease.

29. 不要把别人想得太好，也不要把别人想得太坏，都是凡人。

29. Don't overestimate others or underestimate them; they are all ordinary people.

30. 所以说女人啊，时代发展这么多年却依旧只有忍和闹两条路可以走，好像没有男人活不下去一样，真是唏嘘。

30. So, women, after so many years of development, still only have two choices: endure and fuss, as if they can't survive without men, it's truly pitiful.

31. 我刚才居然紧张的忘了喝水，难怪我渴的要死。

31. I was so nervous just now that I forgot to drink water, no wonder I'm so thirsty.

32. 成年人需要为自己的选择承担后果。

32. Adults need to take responsibility for the consequences of their choices.

33. 你最好调整好你的态度再来跟我说话。

33. You'd better adjust your attitude before talking to me.

34. 认识你之后我才明白，人和人之间的相识是如此的微妙，就想是磁极和磁极之间的互相吸引，就像是有一团火在心里爆发，既排山倒海又不动声色。

34. It was after I got to know you that I realized the delicacy of meeting someone is like the mutual attraction between magnetic poles, as if there's a fire bursting within, both overwhelming and unspoken.

35. 这不是所谓的真相，这是真的真相。

35. This is not the so-called truth; this is the real truth.

36. 成人的世界里，岂止是真话假话那么简单啊。

36. In the world of adults, it's not as simple as just truth and lies.

37. 都快四十了还潜力股啊，这隐藏得也太深了，照这速度下去，估计五六十还潜着呢，谁买入谁套牢，一准能炒成股东。

37. Almost forty years old and still a potential stock? This is hidden too deeply. At this pace, it's estimated that there's still potential at the age of fifty or sixty. Whoever buys it will definitely get stuck, and is sure to be able to trade it into a shareholder.

38. 人都是欲壑难填的，不考验人的欲望，是最正确的处理事情的办法。

38. All humans have unquenchable desires, and not testing a person's desires is the most correct way to handle things.

39. 生活就是这样，不管再难都要咬着牙挺过去。

39. Life is like this, no matter how difficult, one must grit one's teeth and get through it.

40. 我又不跟你谈恋爱，你干嘛要带我去吃饭。

40. I'm not dating you, why do you have to take me out to eat?

41. 恋爱就是恋爱，追求永远终究是一场赌注，追求快乐才能求仁得仁。亲人之间还得有个界限了，更何况是朋友了，如果她跟白主管真的在一起了，他们两个才是家人。

41. Love is just love; pursuing forever is ultimately a bet, and only by pursuing happiness can one achieve happiness. There must be boundaries among relatives, let alone friends. If she really gets together with the White manager, then the two of them will be family.

42. 他们这么说，是在置疑你的个人能力和经验，没有经验不代表个人能力弱，你不是挺会忽悠的吗，可以从这个角度下手。

42. They say that to question your personal abilities and experience. Lack of experience does not mean a lack of personal ability. You're quite good at persuading people, aren't you? You can approach it from that angle.

43. 都快四十了还潜力股啊，这隐藏得也太深了，照这速度下去，估计五六十还潜着呢。

43. Almost forty years old and still a potential stock? This is hidden too deeply. At this pace, I guess there's still potential at fifty or sixty.

44. 有什么事是大姐可以帮你的吗，可以跟大姐说啊。

44. Is there anything that Big Sister can help you with? You can tell Big Sister about it.

45. 保持本真的自我，不要被外界所影响。?>

45. Be true to yourself and do not be influenced by external factors.

46. 如果你真的喜欢上一个人你不能放开去爱他，那种感觉会大打折扣。

46. If you truly fall for someone, you can't let go and love them; that feeling will be greatly diminished.

47. 她瘦的跟人干似的，穿什么大牌都没有女人味。

47. She is so thin, she looks like a man. No matter what designer clothes she wears, she doesn't have any feminine charm.

48. 江湖规矩第一条，人都会有把柄，而江湖人最讨厌不懂规矩的人。

48. The first rule of the江湖 is that everyone has a weakness, and江湖 people hate those who don't understand the rules.

49. 还说什么精英，其实就是一小公务员，要求还挺多，厚着脸皮跟我说，可不可以跟我一起按揭买房啊，脑子坏掉了。

49. What's all this talk about an elite? It's just a low-level civil servant, with quite a few demands, shamelessly asking me if they can take a mortgage together with me. Their mind must be broken.

50. 好朋友如温泉，浑身僵硬地躺进去，每一根神经都会慢慢地在幸福中苏醒。

50. Good friends are like hot springs; lying stiffly in them, every nerve will slowly awaken in happiness.

51. 其实大多数人，他们都没有独立分析的能力，总是觉得要加一些外在的附加的符号才能做出他们所谓的判断。

51. In fact, most people do not have the ability to analyze independently; they always feel that they need to add some external symbols to make what they call judgments.

52. 这个世界上，没有人的**是干干净净的，多多少少都会有些把柄，没人纯洁，所以江湖人最讨厌的，就是不懂规矩的人。江湖规矩第二条，**不干净的人呢，最讨厌身边的人嘴巴把不住门。

52. In this world, no one is clean and spotless; everyone has their flaws and something they can be held accountable for. No one is pure, which is why the people in the underworld dislike the most are those who do not understand the rules. The second rule of underworld etiquette is that those who are not clean are most disliked when their own lips cannot keep a secret.

53. 解决问题，需要理智，而非态度。

53. Resolving problems requires reason, not attitude.

54. 这燕子生蛋之前还知道给自己垒个燕子窝呢，何况是你了。

54. Even before this swallow lays its eggs, it knows to build itself a swallow's nest. How much more so for you.

55. 所有的结局，都在你遇到那个你爱上的人一个人的那一瞬间就已经注定了，所有的东西你都没办法去把握，你想使用手段没用，那些都是旁枝末节，无关宏旨。

55. All the endings are predetermined in that single moment when you meet the person you fall in love with. You can't control anything; trying to use means is futile. All those are trivial matters, irrelevant to the main issue.

56. 爱情即便是体现在精神上的，那也总有一点是体现在玫瑰上吧。

56. Love, even if it manifests itself spiritually, must always have a touch that is embodied in roses, right?

57. 贪玩是贪玩，人品是人品，不能混淆。

57. Playing is playing, and character is character; they cannot be confused.

58. 职场如同江湖，江湖有江湖的规矩，职场有职场的原则，如果不懂规矩，只会被淘汰，有时候年轻并不是一种优势。

58. The workplace is like a martial arts world; the martial arts world has its rules, and the workplace has its principles. If you don't understand the rules, you will only be eliminated. Sometimes, being young is not an advantage.

59. 谁的人生都会有难题都会有熬不下去的时候，但我更眷恋那些温柔和美好让我觉得能活在这个世上是太幸运的事情。

59. Every life has its difficulties and moments when it seems unbearable, but I am even more attached to those gentle and beautiful moments that make me feel incredibly lucky to be alive on this earth.

60. 同住一栋楼层，人家开的是豪车，我们挤得是地铁。

60. Living on the same floor, they drive luxury cars, while we are crammed into the subway.

61. 我都三十岁的人了，一分存款都没有。

61. I'm already 30 years old, and I have no savings at all.

62. 职场如同江湖，江湖有江湖的规矩，不懂规矩的人无法在江湖立足，初涉江湖的人不懂规矩只能被out出局，有的时候，年轻并不是一种优势。

62. The workplace is like the江湖, and the江湖 has its own rules. Those who do not understand the rules cannot stand in the江湖. For those who are new to the江湖, not knowing the rules means they can only be eliminated. Sometimes, being young is not an advantage.

63. 人生苦短，充满变数，遇到自己喜欢的，要立刻抓住，绝不放手。

63. Life is short and full of changes. When you meet something you like, seize it immediately and never let go.

64. 天下无不散的筵席，你记住啊，除了你自己，谁都不可能跟你一辈子。

64. No feast in the world lasts forever, remember this, no one except yourself can be with you for a lifetime.

65. 我们心里可以有不同的见解，但是没有权利对别人扔石头。

65. We may have different opinions in our hearts, but we do not have the right to throw stones at others.