1. 姨做婆，孩不多。

1. Aunt becomes grandmother, and the children are few.

2. 只要嫁得好，不要嫁得早。

2. As long as you marry well, it's not necessary to marry early.

3. <P> 还有那一句言词奉劝你，二爷的话好歹别当耳傍风。</P>

3. <P> Moreover, that phrase is a gentle reminder to you, Second Young Master: no matter how good or bad, don't let his words blow away like the wind in your ear.</P>

4. Everything in the world can hardly be as one wishes. A lover will eventually get married.?>

4. Hardly anything in the world can be exactly as one wishes. A lover will eventually get married.

5. Female junior， hold bricks.

5. Female junior, holding bricks.

6. <P> 谁像你终朝只在女孩儿们一处里搅，</P>

6. <P> Who, like you, spends all day mingling with girls? </P>

7. bsp; 《议宴陈园》二回刘老老语</P>

7. bsp; "Chapter Two of 'The Banquet in Chen Garden': Words of Liu Laolao </P>

8. 要留意任何可利的瞬间，机会到了，莫失之交臂，遗憾终生。——佚名

8. Pay attention to any moment that can be exploited. When opportunity comes, do not let it slip through your fingers; do not regret it for the rest of your life. — Anonymous

9. 幸运每个月都会降临，但是如果你没有准备去迎接它，就可能失之交臂。——佚名

9. Luck will visit every month, but if you're not prepared to receive it, you might miss the opportunity altogether. — Unknown

10. 买猪不买圈，媳妇靠教劝。

10. It's better to buy a pig than a pen; a daughter-in-law depends on teaching and persuasion.

11. 不等待机会所送礼物的人，就是征服了命运。阿诺德

11. A person who does not wait for the gifts brought by opportunity has conquered fate. - Arnold

12. <P> 何苦呢传出去又惹的别人好说不好听。</P>

12. <P>Why bother, as it will only cause others to talk about it in a way that isn't pleasant.</P>

13. <P> 似这般拉拉扯扯成甚么样子，也不管人家的手腕子发酸骨节儿疼。</P>

13. <P>In such a tugging and pulling, what kind of appearance has been made, not to mention that the person's wrists are sore and the joints ache.</P>

14. 说你看了邪书拿我凑趣，我成了爷们玩，意儿逗笑儿的丫头。</P>

14. Saying that you've read evil books and making fun of me, I have become a girl for the gentlemen to play with, and a source of amusement. </P>

15. There is only so much opportunity, if you dont seize the opportunity, opportunity me give you a chance

15. There is only so much opportunity; if you don't seize the opportunity, opportunity will not give you a chance.

16. 人说是闻名不如来见面。 《芙蓉诔》第五回灯姑娘语(晴雯表嫂)</P>

16. They say that it's better to meet someone in person than just hear about them. Fifth Chapter of "Memorial to the Peony" - The Words of Lantern Girl (Qingwen's Sister-in-law) </P>

17. <P> 再比如《悲秋》第四回中，宝黛二人又一次有了矛盾冲突，宝玉一再安慰讨好，也不能好佳人的怒气平息下去。黛玉对他的一番话也是极为口语化的：</P>

17. <P>For example, in the fourth chapter of "Melancholy Autumn," Baoyu and Daiyu once again have a conflict. No matter how many times Baoyu tries to comfort and please her, he cannot calm the anger of the beauty. Daiyu's words to him are also extremely colloquial: </P>

18. 结婚不宜早，只要配的好。

18. It is not advisable to get married too early, as long as the match is good.

19. 人生成功的秘诀是当好机会来临时，立刻抓住它。狄斯累利

19. The secret of life's success is to seize the moment when good opportunities come. Disraeli

20. 虽说是，人生莫受老来贫，也须要阴骘积儿孙。

20. Although it is said that one should not face poverty in old age, it is also necessary to accumulate good deeds for one's descendants.

21. <P> 老祖宗方才问我田多少，能多少呢二亩薄沙零四分。</P>

21. <P> The ancestors just asked me how much land I have, and how much can I have? Two mu of thin sand and four tenths. </P>

22. 乐观主义者从每一个灾难中看到机遇，而悲观主义都从每一个机遇中看到灾难。——佚名

22. Optimists see opportunities in every disaster, while pessimists see disasters in every opportunity. - Anonymous

23. 如果你因失去了太阳而流泪，那末你也将失去群星了。泰戈尔

23. If you weep because you have lost the sun, then you will also lose the stars. - Tagore

24. 问古来将相可还存？也只是虚名儿与后人钦敬。

24. Can the generals and ministers of ancient times still exist? It's just a hollow reputation and the respect of later generations.

25. 从容不迫地谈理论是一件事，把思想付诸实行——尤其在需要当机立断的时候，——又是一件事。——罗曼·罗兰

25. It is one thing to discuss theories calmly, and another to put one's thoughts into practice—especially when decisive action is required. —Romain Rolland

26. 例如《双玉埋红》中写宝黛在沁芳亭畔葬花，共读《西厢记》的温馨与和谐。</P>

26. For example, in the novel "Double Jade Buried in Red," it describes the warm and harmonious scene where Bao and Dai bury flowers by the Qin Fang Pavilion and read "The Western Chamber" together. </P>

27. <P> 黛玉说你当你能过目成诵，还有个一目十行在后头。</P>

27. <P> Jia Yueting said that if you think you can recite after a single glance, there's still another level where you can read ten lines at a glance. </P>

28. A man without a wife does not make a family， but a woman without a husband.

28. A man without a wife does not make a family, but a woman without a husband does.

29. 陋室空堂，当年笏满床；衰草枯杨，曾为歌舞场。

29. Dilapidated rooms and empty halls, once filled with jade tablets; withering grass and withered willows, once sites of songs and dances.

30. 、我与你多情**同鸳帐，怎舍得叠被铺床待吾眠。& 《葬花》第四回宝玉语</P>

30. How can I bear to fold the sheets and prepare the bed for you to sleep, when I am as passionate about you as a couple in a love nest? & Fourth Chapter of "Burial of Flowers," Jia Baoyu's words </P>

31. 良机只有一次，一但坐失，就再也得不到了。勃朗宁

31. "The good opportunity only comes once; once missed, it can never be regained." - Browning

32. 那么28篇《红楼梦》子弟书中，运用了哪些俗语呢笔者归纳如下：</P>

32. So, in the 28 volumes of the "Dream of the Red Chamber" in the style of "Juvenile Stories," which proverbs are used? The author summarizes them as follows: </P>

33. 古人云韶光易过红颜易老&《葬花》第二回黛玉语</P>

33. The ancients say that time flies and beauty fades, as黛玉 said in the second chapter of "The Burial of Flowers" </P>

34. 夫妻不和，奸人来乘。

34. Disagreements between husband and wife, and unscrupulous people take advantage of the situation.

35. 仅仅天赋的某些巨大优势并不能造就英雄，还要有运气相伴。拉罗什夫科

35. Merely having certain enormous natural advantages is not enough to make a hero; luck also needs to be present. La Rochefoucauld

36. 这世界上真正有成就的往往不是第一流的聪明人，而是第二流聪明加第二流愚笨的那种人。太聪明，就把什么都看开了，不肯做傻事，花笨功夫了，也就没希望了。——佚名

36. The truly successful people in this world are often not the top intelligent ones, but those who possess second-rate intelligence combined with second-rate foolishness. If one is too intelligent, they tend to see everything too clearly, refusing to do foolish things or put in diligent effort, which ultimately leads to no hope. — Anonymous

37. 男人无妻不成家，女人无夫浪淘沙。

37. A man without a wife cannot make a family, and a woman without a husband is like being washed away by the sands.

38. <P> 先看看老祖宗是怎么问的：</P>

38. <P> Let's first see how the ancestors asked: </P>

39. 世间唯一最可证明的因果；你付出多少努力，就必有多少收获。——佚名

39. The only most provable cause and effect in the world; the more effort you put in, the more you will reap. — Anonymous

40. 劝人生，济困扶穷，休似俺那爱银钱忘骨肉的狠舅奸兄！

40. Advise people to help the poor, do not be like my greedy and cunning uncle and brother who forget their flesh and blood for money!

41. 古人云菽水承欢膝下舞，又有那堂上斑衣乐老亲。 《二入荣国府》第八回叙述者语</P>

41. The ancients say that soybeans and water bring joy to dance under one's knees, and there is also the old, happy father in his colorful robe on the hall. <P>Narrator's words in Chapter 8 of "The Second Visit to the荣Guo Mansion" </P>

42. Pick left and right， pick up a leaky lamp.

42. Pick left and right, pick up a leaky lamp.

43. <P> 你若是不嫌俭慢就请下榻，何妨呢旷几天儿在此处存。</P>

43. <P> If you don't mind the modesty, why not stay here? There's no harm in staying a few days, is there? </P>

44. <P> “贵庚”、“花甲”、“七旬”、“下榻”，这样正式的文言话语，粗村的刘老老能听懂也就真是奇怪了。也难怪她会理解错误，答非所问了；</P>

44. <P>"How old are you?," "Sixty years old," "Seventy years old," "To stay," such formal classical Chinese phrases would be strange if the rustic Liu Laolao could understand them. It's no wonder she misunderstood and answered the wrong question; </P>

45. 9很多事情我们无法自己控制它的发展轨迹，我们唯一能控制的就是我们自己而已

45. 9 Many things we cannot control the course of their development, the only thing we can control is ourselves.