每一天，都是新生的起点，少年气少年计：二十句箴言，助你花开花落不伤悲。

Every day is a new beginning, youthful spirit, youthful plan: twenty proverbs to help you not be sad when flowers bloom and fall.

1. 爱意深的，深的，恨不得互为血肉，更怕有人说你为爱昏了头，给了所有还问对方说够不够。

1. Full of love, so deep that they wish to be one flesh, yet they are also afraid that others might say they have lost their senses for love, and they even ask the other person if they have given enough.

2. 不要做刺猬能不与人结仇就不与人结仇谁也不跟谁一辈子有些事情没必要记在心上。

2. Don't make enemies unnecessarily. If you can avoid it, don't get into conflicts with others. No one stays with another person forever, and some things are not worth holding onto in your heart.

3. 有人试图和你无理取闹，安静的看着他，说：祝你好心情。然后离开。

3. Someone is trying to pick a fight with you. Just calmly watch them, say: "I wish you a good mood," and then leave.

4. 如果我消失在这个世界，也不会有人察觉，地球少了我照样会转。

4. Even if I disappear from this world, no one would notice, and the Earth would still rotate without me.

5. 我不懂，是我们有着各自不同的命运，还是，我们只不过都是在风中，茫然飘荡。

5. I don't understand, is it because we have different fates, or is it that we are all just drifting aimlessly in the wind?

6. 有些人，我放不下，但我无奈，故作坚强，笑着说无所谓，笑得越开心，心里越是疼。

6. There are some people I can't let go of, but I'm无奈，so I pretend to be strong, smiling and saying it doesn't matter. The happier I laugh, the more it hurts in my heart.

7. 没有你的这些时间我习惯了一个人，一条路，一片天，一瞬间。

7. I've gotten used to being alone during these times without you, a path, a sky, and a moment.

8. 当一个人摆脱了自已的恐惧，就会觉得无比的畅快和舒适。

8. When a person overcomes their own fears, they will feel an immense sense of relief and comfort.

9. 我一般生气完不一会又笑了，其实我也想酷酷的不理人，可是我憋不住。

9. I usually laugh again not long after I get angry. In fact, I also want to act cool and ignore people, but I can't help it.

10. 只有经历过无数的失败，才能懂得成功的艰辛。只有在磨难中苦苦煎熬，才会明白人生的曲折。不需要去和别人攀比，做一件事，只要尽力尽心尽意就足够了。成功与否不要看得太重要，重要的是自己努力过。活着不是为显示多少成功，或者拥有多少财富和名利。活着最主要的是健康的身体，知足的心态。早安~

10. Only after experiencing countless failures can one understand the hardship of success. Only by enduring trials and tribulations can one comprehend the twists and turns of life. There's no need to compare oneself with others. As long as one does something with all one's effort, heart, and will, it is enough. Don't place too much importance on whether one is successful or not. The important thing is to have made an effort. Living is not about showing off how much success one has achieved or how much wealth and fame one possesses. The most important thing in living is a healthy body and a contented mindset. Good morning!

11. 睡觉是很好的解脱，睡着了，不悲不气不孤单，什么都烦恼都没有。

11. Sleeping is a great relief. When asleep, one is not sad, angry, or lonely, and all worries disappear.

12. 恋爱不是要找到一个完美的人，而是要学会去爱一个不完美的人。

12. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but about learning to love an imperfect person.

13. 没有音乐，生活是一种遗憾，没有爱心，生命是一种多佘。

13. Without music, life is a regret; without love, life is a waste.

14. 人生是一种经历，经历的好与坏，看你是否把握好舍与得的尺寸；爱情则是一种经营，经营的美与满，看你是否有一种真诚相待，是否有一种以终身相许的情怀。

14. Life is an experience, whether it is good or bad depends on whether you can handle the balance between giving up and gaining; love, on the other hand, is a form of management, and the beauty and fulfillment of it depend on whether you have a sincere attitude and whether you have a commitment to love for a lifetime.

15. 人不怕卑微，就怕失去希望，期待明天，期待阳光。没有什么过不去，只是再也回不去。

15. People are not afraid of being humble, but they fear losing hope, looking forward to tomorrow, and anticipating the sunlight. Nothing is insurmountable, but once gone, it can never return.

16. 什么都别骗我，别瞒着我，不管善意恶意有意无意，我知道了都会生气会发火，情绪会不稳定。

16. Don't deceive me or keep anything from me, whether it's out of good will, bad will, intention, or negligence. I will get angry and lose my temper, and my emotions will become unstable once I find out.

17. 你已经坚持走了这么远，不要轻易放弃。要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐，一不抱怨，二不解释。忘掉所有那些不可能的借口，去坚持一个可能的理由。

17. You have already persisted so far, don't easily give up. To live beautifully requires great patience, without complaining and without explanation. Forget all those impossible excuses and go on to persist with a possible reason.

18. 早晨不起，误一天的事，幼时不学，误一生的事。

18. Not getting up in the morning can spoil a whole day, and not studying when young can spoil a whole lifetime.

19. 青春就像一只容器，装满了不安、躁动、青涩、与偶尔的疯狂。

19. Youth is like a container, filled with unease, restlessness, naivety, and occasional madness.

20. 疾苦在身，宜善摄心，不为外境所摇，中心亦不起念。

20. When suffering is upon you, it is advisable to properly manage your mind, not to be swayed by external circumstances, and not to generate any thoughts in the heart.

21. 内心的强大的人，能够稀释一切痛苦和哀愁;内心的强大，能够有效弥补你外在的不足;内心的强大，能让你无所畏惧地走在大路上，感到自己的思想，高过所有的建筑和山峰!

21. A person of inner strength can dilute all pain and sorrow; inner strength can effectively compensate for your external shortcomings; inner strength allows you to walk on the path without fear, feeling that your thoughts are higher than all buildings and mountains!

22. 对人性的弱点有清醒的认识，但我永远相信真诚的爱情，对爱情永远怀有单纯的向往。

22. I have a clear understanding of the weaknesses of human nature, but I will always believe in the sincerity of love and forever cherish a simple longing for it.

23. 奋起一念如倚天长剑，使烦恼魔军逃窜无地。亦如红炉猛火，使情识霜雪，销烁无余。

23. A surge of determination, like a long sword against the sky, drives the烦恼 (distress) demon army into retreat, with nowhere to escape. It is also like a fierce flame in a red furnace, which melts the frost and snow of the mind and perception, leaving nothing in its wake.

24. 一辈子那么长，一天没走到终点，你就一天不知道哪一个才是陪你走到最后的人。有时你遇到了一个人，以为就是他了，后来回头看，其实他也不过是这一段路给了你想要的东西。

24. Life is so long, and until the day comes to an end, you won't know who will be the one walking with you to the end. Sometimes you meet someone, thinking it's him, but looking back later, you realize that he only provided you with what you wanted during this journey.

25. 在不违背原则的情况下，对别人要宽容，能帮就帮，千万不要把人逼绝了，给人留条后路。

25. In accordance with the principles, be tolerant towards others, offer help whenever possible, and never push someone to the brink. Always leave them a way out.

26. 精彩的人生总有精彩的理由，笑到最后的才会笑得最甜。

26. A wonderful life always has wonderful reasons, and those who laugh last will laugh the sweetest.

27. 什么是暖心的感情？你难过了，他为你撑伞；你生病了，他寝食难安；你无助了，他献上双肩；你生气了，他死皮赖脸。手里有你的照片，心里有你的底片，离开你时很想念，在一起时像春天。惦记你冷暖，牵挂你悲欢，你若安好便是晴天。

27. What is a heartwarming feeling? When you're sad, he holds an umbrella over you; when you're sick, he's restless; when you're helpless, he offers his shoulders; when you're angry, he persists with a stubborn determination. He has your photo in his hand, the negative of you in his heart. He misses you when you're gone, and feels like spring when you're together. He cares about your warmth and cold, about your joys and sorrows. If you're safe and sound, it's a clear sky.

28. 谨慎的沉默就是精明的回避，以平常心应对无常的人生。

28. Prudent silence is a clever avoidance; respond to the ever-changing life with an ordinary heart.

29. 后来再遇到心动的人，我都会想：算了，朋友就很好了，真的很好了。

29. When I encounter someone who moves me later on, I always think: Well, having a friend is good enough, really good enough.

30. 粗茶淡饭，清心静欲，生活简单了，人就快乐了;灯红酒绿，利欲熏心，生活世故了，人就变老了。

30. Simple meals and a simple life, with a tranquil mind and desire, lead to happiness; while a life of luxury and indulgence, filled with desires and greed, makes one seem older.

31. 再爱的人，也有远走的一天。再美的梦，也有苏醒的一天。该放弃的决不挽留。

31. Even the most beloved person will have a day to leave. Even the most beautiful dream will have a day to wake up. Don't hesitate to let go of what should be abandoned.

32. 你记住，可以哭，可以恨，但是不可以不坚强。心若在，梦就在，你必须非常努力，因为后面还有一群人在等着看你的笑话。即便是躺着中枪，也要姿势漂亮！我们有许多的梦想，不一定都能实现，有些梦想甚至要摒弃。不要把自己太当回事，也不要把自己太不当回事。好好地呵护自己，对自己好点，就要有好的心态，有了好的心态就会心胸宽广，就会豁达，就会有好的心境。早安~

32. Remember, you can cry, you can be angry, but you cannot be weak. As long as your heart is there, your dreams are there too. You must work very hard, because there's a group of people behind you waiting to laugh at your failures. Even if you're shot while lying down, you should still make a beautiful pose! We have many dreams, not all of which can be realized, and some dreams even need to be abandoned. Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't take yourself too lightly either. Take good care of yourself, be kind to yourself, and maintain a good attitude. With a good attitude, you will have a broad mind, be open-minded, and enjoy a good mood. Good morning~

33. 在人生的任何时候都不怕重头再来，每一个看似低的起点，都是通往更高峰的必经之路。

33. At any time in life, one should not fear starting over. Every seemingly low starting point is a necessary path to reaching higher peaks.

34. 男女之间是真的可以有纯友谊的，只要一个打死不说一个装傻到底。

34. It is truly possible for men and women to have pure friendships, as long as one party never speaks up and the other pretends to be naive.

35. 当往事与时光擦肩，我不知道，岁留给了我多少的眷恋，常常一个人，徘徊在孤单的边缘。

35. As past memories brush past the passing of time, I don't know how much attachment the years have left with me. Often, I wander alone on the edge of loneliness.

36. 曾经试着用微笑细数你给的伤，无奈最后泪却随微笑流出眼眶。

36. Once tried to count the injuries you gave with a smile, but unfortunately, in the end, tears flowed out of the eyes with the smile.

37. 浪漫是一种自我修养，是生活的格调。不管自己已婚未婚，什么年龄，总要保持有一种少女般浪漫情怀。

37. Romance is a form of self-cultivation, the tone of life. Whether married or not, regardless of age, one should always maintain a girl-like romantic sentiment.

38. 生活的模样很残酷，再苦再累，你都不能放弃，因为无路可退，进一步或许你会看到一方的壮阔苍旻;退一步或许你会万劫不复。你无法选择出生，但你可以选择奋发向上，用自己的辛劳和汗水去创造属于自己的人生，努力让自己过上自己想要过的生活。

38. Life can be残酷 (brutal), and no matter how hard or tired you are, you cannot give up, because there is no way to retreat. Taking a step further might lead you to see the vastness of the sky; taking a step back might lead you to a never-ending downfall. You cannot choose your birth, but you can choose to strive upwards, using your hard work and sweat to create a life of your own, and to work hard to live the life you want to live.

39. 世上最难受的一种感觉是，你无法爱上别人，只因你依然爱恋那个伤害你的人。

39. The most难受 feeling in the world is when you can't fall in love with anyone else, only because you still have feelings for the person who hurt you.

40. 曾经，我想和你分享我的所有秘密，但现在，你成了我心底的秘密。

40. Once, I wanted to share all my secrets with you, but now, you have become the secret deep within my heart.

41. 情断了，绑不住，试着放手，走与不走，留与不留，我不想懂。

41. The feeling is broken, it can't be tied down. Try to let go. Whether to go or stay, I don't want to understand.

42. 一个人如果一直沉浸在人群里的话，最后会连自己都找不到自己的。

42. If a person keeps immersed in the crowd, they may eventually lose themselves and not be able to find themselves anymore.

43. 既然牵手，就不要轻易放开。每个人的爱都是有限的，总是花心的去浪费爱，最终你会发现你已经没了再爱的能力与勇气!

43. Since you have held hands, do not easily let go. Everyone's love is limited; always being unfaithful and wasting love will eventually make you realize that you have lost the ability and courage to love again!

44. 在我们懵懂的时候，总会有这么个人，让我们为他犯贱很多年。

44. When we were naive, there was always this person who made us act foolishly for many years.

45. 温柔也好，凶狠也罢。想有一个陌生的自己，给自己一些惊喜。

45. Whether gentle or fierce, I want to have a strange version of myself and surprise myself.

46. 朋友，不因远而生疏，流水，不因石而阻隔，真正的朋友金不换，因为总是心相连，高山难隔友谊，距离难舍朋友，在这久久的日子里，祝愿我们的友谊：地久天长，幸福永久!

46. Friend, do not become distant because of distance; flowing water, do not let a stone obstruct its path. True friends are invaluable, for they are always connected at heart. High mountains cannot separate friendship, and distance cannot part friends. On this long journey of time, may our friendship last forever, and happiness be eternal!

47. 坏事总是不断发生，可还是有很多办法来解决困难。永远不要忘记学进修学问，拓阔胸襟。人生所有烦恼的会不多不少永远追随，只不过学识涵养可以使一个人更加理智冷静地分析处理这些难题而已。

47. Misfortunes always keep happening, but there are many ways to solve difficulties. Never forget to learn and broaden your horizons. All the troubles in life will follow you, no more or no less, forever. It is only through knowledge and cultivation that one can become more rational and composed in analyzing and dealing with these difficult problems.

48. 爱情，开心时让我们忘记自我，伤心时麻醉自己，爱情到底是什么？

48. Love makes us forget ourselves when we are happy, numbs us when we are sad. What is love really?

49. 看穿但不说穿。很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了，没必要说出来。

49. See through but do not speak it out. Many things, as long as you have it in mind, are enough. There's no need to say it out loud.

50. 不要老在别人面前倾诉你的困境袒露你的脆弱。

50. Don't always pour out your troubles and expose your vulnerabilities in front of others.

51. 宝贝，没有我你一定要好好照顾自己，不要生病了，找一个比我更爱你的女人好好爱下去。再见，我曾爱过的人。

51. Darling, you must take good care of yourself without me, don't get sick, find a woman who loves you more than I do and love her well. Goodbye, the person I once loved.

52. 虽然结局很难过，但过程还是很难忘。谢谢你，给了我那么多美丽的回忆，谢谢你带给我的那些快乐。

52. Although the ending was very sad, the process was still unforgettable. Thank you for giving me so many beautiful memories and for all the happiness you brought me.

53. 你给我一滴眼泪，我就看到了你心中全部的海洋。

53. You give me a drop of your tears, and I see the entire ocean in your heart.

54. 暗恋，是道凄美的角落风景，视线未曾离开，而心却刻满伤痕和疲惫。

54. Secret love is a melancholic corner of scenery, with eyes never leaving, but the heart is filled with scars and exhaustion.

55. 莫名其妙的生来，无可奈何地活着，不知所以然的死掉。

55. Born in a mysterious way, living helplessly, and dying without knowing the reason.

56. 有时候，不小心知道了一些事，才发现自己所在乎的事是那么可笑。

56. Sometimes, when I inadvertently learn something, I realize that what I care about is so laughable.

57. 有谁像我一样，不停的更换着签名，其实只是想让某一个人有所感触。

57. Who else changes their signature as frequently as I do? In reality, it's just to make someone feel touched.

58. 永远，都不要因为什么而看不起任何人!他现在混的不好，不代表将来就不好，你混的好，不一定你永远都这么好，世界一直在变，人生的起落沉浮谁都无法预料。没有所谓的无路可走，即使孤独跋涉，寂寞坚守，只要你愿意走，踩过的都是路。你以为走不过去的，跨过去后回头看看，也不过如此。早安!

58. Never look down on anyone for any reason! Just because he's doing poorly now doesn't mean he'll be poor in the future. And just because you're doing well now doesn't guarantee you'll always be this way. The world is always changing, and no one can predict the ups and downs of life. There's no such thing as having no way out. Even if you travel alone and endure loneliness, as long as you're willing to walk, every step you take is a path. What you thought was impossible to pass, once you've crossed it and looked back, it's just like that. Good morning!

59. 我宁愿去北极，那样只要你给我一点点温暖，我就可以感觉到了。

59. I would rather go to the North Pole, for then, even if you give me just a little warmth, I can feel it.

60. 分手了挺好的，想和谁搞暧昧就和谁搞暧昧，什么也不用担心。

60. Breaking up is good, do暧昧 with whoever you want without any worries.

61. 智者总是有成功的密码，能译出密码的人，心是成功的智者。

61. The wise always have a successful code, and those who can decipher the code have a heart of a successful wise person.

62. 爱情就像乘法，其中一项为零，其结果永远为零。

62. Love is like multiplication, if one of the factors is zero, the result will always be zero.

63. 请记得，好朋友的定义是：你混的好，她打心眼里为你开心;你混的不好，她由衷的为你着急。

63. Remember, the definition of a good friend is: when you are doing well, she is genuinely happy for you from the bottom of her heart; when you are not doing well, she is sincerely worried about you.

64. 其实男生和女生之间是可以有纯洁的友情的，但如果你一开始就用暧昧的方法对待他的话，那你就没那个命拥有一个蓝颜知己。

64. In fact, there can be pure friendship between boys and girls, but if you start treating him with ambiguous methods, then you don't have the destiny to have a close male friend.

65. 大梦初醒已千年，心无归处为情牵，前尘往世君莫问，几度轮回断残缘。

65. Just awakened from a great dream after a millennium, my heart is tied to love without a place to return. Do not ask about past lives and worlds, how many cycles have broken the remnants of fate.

66. 很多时候，心里明明不是那样想的，却控制不了自己而说出相反的话。

66. Many times, what we truly think is the opposite, but we cannot control ourselves and end up saying the opposite.

67. 不要停止学习。不管学习什么，语言，厨艺，各种技能。

67. Do not stop learning. No matter what you learn, whether it's a language, cooking skills, or various other skills.

68. 遇到不想回答的问题，直视对方的眼睛，微笑、沉默。

68. When faced with a question you don't want to answer, look directly into the other person's eyes, smile, and be silent.

69. 当我们容许别人掌握住我们情绪时，我们便觉得自已是受害者，对现况无能为力，抱怨与愤努成为我们唯一的选择。

69. When we allow others to take hold of our emotions, we feel like victims, feeling powerless in the present situation, and complaining and resentment become our only choices.

70. 人这一辈子，真爱只有一回，而后即便再有如何缱绻的爱情，终究不会再伤筋动骨。

70. In a person's lifetime, true love comes only once, and after that, no matter how passionate the love may be, it will never again cause deep wounds or move one's bones.

71. 既然活着，咱就好好的活，不再为某个人痴情，不再为某段情难过，在乎你的，会在乎你的一切，讨厌你的，会讨厌你的一切，那么，又何必跑到别人世界里去做插曲，做自己生活里的主角吧，那些能让自己快乐的，就努力去争取，那些不屑一顾的，又何必去执着。

71. Since we are alive, let's live well and not be infatuated with someone, not be sad for a love story, those who care about you will care about everything about you, and those who dislike you will dislike everything about you. So, why go to someone else's world to be a mere interlude? Be the protagonist of your own life. Strive for what brings you joy, and why hold on to what you don't care about?

72. 脆弱的人，只懂得怜悯自已，而不知道反省自已。

72. The vulnerable know only to pity themselves and do not know how to reflect upon themselves.

73. 不是风幡不是心，迢迢一路绝追寻。白云本自无遗迹，飞落断崖深更深。

73. Not wind flags, not heart, a distant path to seek in vain. White clouds naturally leave no traces, as they flutter to the depths of the cliff.

74. 假如我向人伸出空手而得不到东西，那当然是苦恼；但是假如我伸出一只满握的手，而发现无人接受，那才是绝望呢。

74. If I extend an empty hand to others and receive nothing in return, that is indeed distressing; but if I extend a hand full of offerings and find no one to accept them, that is truly despair.

75. 虚心过头就成为虚伪，自信过头就成为傲慢，原则过头就成为僵化，开放过头就成为放纵，威严过头就成为摆架，谦逊过头就成为懦弱，随和过头就成为盲从，胆大过头就成为张狂，精明过头就成为自私，直率过头就成为草率人生有度，误在失度，惜在过度，佳在适度。早安。

75. Overly humble becomes insincere, overconfidence becomes arrogance, over-principled becomes rigid, over-openness becomes licentious, over-authority becomes showiness, over-modesty becomes timidity, over-compliance becomes blind obedience, over-boldness becomes recklessness, over-cleverness becomes selfishness, and over-directness becomes impetuousness. Life has its measure; the mistake lies in going beyond, the regret in overdoing, and the beauty in moderation. Good morning.

76. 人生短短数十载，最要紧是满足自己，不是讨好他人。何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，乃是为你自己。

76. Life is short, only a few decades, and the most important thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others. Why should you prove anything to those who don't deserve it, and live a better life for yourself?

77. 时间告诉我们：时间一去不返，曾经拥有的，不要忘记;已经得到的，更要珍惜;属于自己的，不要放弃;已经失去的，留着回忆;想要得到的，必须努力;但最重要的，是好好爱惜自己。珍惜今天，期待明天。早安!

77. Time teaches us: Time once gone, never returns; do not forget what you once had; cherish what you have already obtained; do not give up what belongs to you; keep the lost for memories; work hard for what you want to obtain; but the most important is to take good care of yourself. Cherish today, look forward to tomorrow. Good morning!

78. 地球之所以是圆的，是因为上帝想让那些走失或迷路的人重新相遇。

78. The Earth is round because God wants those who are lost or迷路 to meet each other again.