在岁月的长河中，珍惜每一刻，快乐生活每一天。让我们踏上人生之旅，探寻生命的奥秘。

In the long river of time, cherish every moment and live happily every day. Let us embark on the journey of life, exploring the mysteries of existence.

1. 女人以为男人会改变才和他结婚，男人以为女人不会改变才和她结婚，结果他们都错了。

1. Women marry men thinking they will change, and men marry women thinking they will not change, but in the end, they are both wrong.

2. 这世界只有两种人，一种是快乐的猪，一种是痛苦的人！

2. There are only two kinds of people in this world: happy pigs and suffering people!

3. 24假如你没本事更好地保护自己不受伤害，那你起码应当牢记一点：不轻信。

3. 24 If you are not capable of better protecting yourself from harm, at least remember this one thing: do not believe easily.

4. 今天按摩秃头的地方看了一天八卦掐架觉得世界上再大的事情都没有秃头更大我有点理解和尚是怎么大彻大悟了。

4. Today, I spent the whole day massaging the bald spot and watching八卦 fights. I realized that no matter how big the world's problems are, they don't seem as big as the bald spot. I sort of understand how monks can achieve great enlightenment.

5. 即使是不成熟的尝试，也胜于胎死腹中的策略。

5. Even an unripe attempt is better than a strategy that never sees the light of day.

6. 34总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响。我错过了狠多，我总是一个人难过。

6. Someday, I will silently leave you without a sound. I have missed so much, and I am always sad alone.

7. 一个人越知道时间的价值，就越感到失时的痛苦

7. The more a person knows the value of time, the more they feel the pain of missing it.

8. 25恋人的秘密不可叫对方全部探了去。——艾迪生

8. The secrets of lovers should not be completely probed by the other party. - Addison

9. 懒惰其实只是一个愚蠢的习惯：还没有累就去休息。

9. Procrastination is actually just a foolish habit: rest before you get tired.

10. 20看得淡一点，伤的就会少一点。别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。

10. Look at things a bit more lightly, and you'll suffer less. Don't wait for the wrong person, and don't hurt the wrong heart.

11. 一个人如果连一次失败都不能承受，他也不会干出什么大事来，获得成功困难，有勇气面对失败更难。

11. If a person cannot bear even a single failure, they will not accomplish anything great. It is difficult to achieve success, but it is even harder to have the courage to face failure.

12. 曾经拥有的不要忘记；不能得到的更要珍惜；属于自己的不要放弃；已经失去的留作回忆。

12. Do not forget what you once had; cherish what you cannot obtain even more; do not give up what belongs to you; and keep what you have lost as a memory.

13. 47为了未来美一点，现在必须苦一点。低头不算认输，放弃才是懦夫。

13. To make the future look a little better, we must endure a bit more now. Bowing down does not mean giving up; to surrender is to be a coward.

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15. 灵魂不是一个要注满水的瓶子，而是一个要生火的炉子。

14. If beauty is a bottle to be filled with water, then the soul is a furnace to be kindled.

16. 生活不是等待风暴过去，而是学会在雨中翩翩起舞。

16. Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the rain.

17. 02、决不要说别人的梦想是不可能的。当他们证明你错的时候，你会感觉自己像个傻瓜。

17. 02, Never say that someone's dreams are impossible. When they prove you wrong, you will feel like a fool.

18. 如果你想造一艘船，先不要雇人去收集木头，也不要给他们分配任何任务，而是去激发他们对海洋的渴望。

18. If you want to build a ship, don't hire people to gather wood, and don't assign them any tasks; instead, ignite their desire for the sea.

19. 天行健君子以自强不息；地势坤君子以厚德载物。

19. The sky is firm and majestic; the noble man cultivates himself tirelessly. The earth is expansive and nurturing; the noble man upholds virtue to bear the weight of things.

20. 简单生活，不是接纳粗陋和做作，也不意味着清苦与贫困，而是人们深思熟虑后选择的生活，一种真正大彻大悟后的升华。

20. Simple living is not about accepting粗糙和造作, nor does it imply hardship and poverty. It is a life that people choose after careful consideration, a transcendence achieved through true enlightenment.

21. 当事故变成了故事，我知道我是幸运的有多少是是非非便有多少大彻大悟。

21. When an accident becomes a story, I realize how fortunate I am; for every controversy, there is an equal amount of profound enlightenment.

22. 当你被失败拥抱时，成功可能正在一边等着吻你。

22. When you are embraced by failure, success might be waiting on the other side to kiss you.

23. 前几天刚刚大彻大悟霾兄弟到底能在我身体里折腾出什么，结论是蚍蜉撼树，并非可笑。好多时候事物的作用力并非由主观因素和物理定位决定，充分证明了团结就是力量的反作用力。港真挺心痛的。

23. Just a few days ago, I finally realized what the smog brother could cause in my body, and the conclusion is that it is not laughable to try to shake a tree with a maggot. Many times, the force of things is not determined by subjective factors and physical positioning, which fully proves that unity is the reactive force of strength. To be honest, it's quite painful.

24. 青春就是这样，不听劝，瞎折腾，享过福，吃过苦，玩过票，碰过壁，使劲折腾，折腾累了，才发现自己转了一个大圈儿，却又回到了原地。可是，却从不后悔，也并不埋怨，因为不转这个圈儿，我可能永远都不知道原地在哪里。

24. Youth is like this: not heeding advice, blindly struggling, experiencing both happiness and hardship, playing around, hitting walls, tirelessly struggling, only to find oneself having made a big round trip, only to return to the starting point. Yet, there is never any regret or resentment, because without this round trip, I might never have known where the starting point was.

25. 佛说，忘忧河映射出的，便是人世间的喜怒哀乐。于是，我常常看着那些男男女女，笑着，哭着，开心着，忧伤着。我不明白，为什么他们总是笑的时候少，哭的时候多，开心的时候少，忧伤的时候多。我问佛，佛爱怜的人生在世就是一种修炼，只有看破红尘之后，才能大彻大悟。

25. Buddha said, "What is reflected in the River of Forgetfulness is the joy, sorrow, happiness, and sadness of the world." So, I often watch those men and women, laughing, crying, being joyful, and being sad. I don't understand why they seem to laugh less and cry more, have less joy and more sadness. I asked the Buddha, and the Buddha said that living in the world is a kind of cultivation that one must go through. Only after seeing through the dust of the world can one achieve great enlightenment.

26. 24感情需要薄薄的一层忧伤，需要一点点嫉妒疑虑戏剧性的游戏。——瓦西列夫

26. Love requires a thin layer of melancholy, a bit of jealousy, and a touch of dramatic games of suspicion. — Vasilyev

27. 21关关雎鸠，在河之洲;窈窕淑女，君子好逑——《诗经》

27. The ospreys are calling, on the isle of the river; The graceful and pure maiden, is the ideal match for the gentleman. — From The Book of Songs

28. 没有专注力的人生，就仿佛大睁着双眼却什么也看不见。村上春树

28. A life without focus is like having eyes wide open yet seeing nothing. Haruki Murakami

29. 32不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的支柱。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。

29. 32 Do not easily depend on someone, as it will become a habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not just a person, but the支柱 of your spirit. At all times and places, learn to walk independently, which will make your journey more composed.

30. 活得累是因为心里装了多余的东西，跟吃饱了撑的是一个道理。

30. Living tired is because your heart is burdened with unnecessary things; it's the same principle as feeling bloated after eating.

31. 人活着的时候就要多做有意义的事情，要让自己活的快乐，因为，会死很久。

31. While you are alive, you should do more meaningful things and live happily, because, after all, you will die for a long time.

32. 耐得寂寞，才能不寂寞。耐不得寂寞，偏偏寂寞。

32. Only by enduring solitude can one avoid loneliness. Those who cannot endure solitude, paradoxically, are the ones who experience loneliness.

33. 一个人沉湎于往事的人，日子一定比别人过得艰难。

33. A person who is immersed in the past will definitely have a harder time living their days than others.

34. 22生活不是用来妥协的，你退缩得越多，能让你喘息的空间就越有限。日子不是用来将就的，你表现得越卑微，一些幸福的东西就会离你越远。

34. Life is not meant for compromise; the more you retreat, the less space you have to breathe. Days are not meant to be endured; the more humble you act, the farther away some happy things will be from you.

35. 42一旦你确实需要爱，你就会发现它正在等待着你。——王尔德

35. 42 Once you truly need love, you will find that it is waiting for you. — Oscar Wilde

36. 社交之所以累，是因为每个人都试图表现出自己其实并不具备的品质。

36. The reason socializing can be tiring is because everyone tries to display qualities they actually do not possess.

37. 当经历了一番大彻大悟之后，人生似乎变得一切都有所谓，一切似乎又是那么的无所谓了！

37. After a great enlightenment, life seems to mean everything, and at the same time, everything seems to be so trivial!

38. 20正因爱过，因此慈悲;正因懂得，因此宽容。——张爱玲

38. Because of having loved, hence compassion; because of understanding, hence tolerance. — Zhang Zaiying

39. 总是生活在过往的回忆中是件很危险的事，因为当你回头看后面的时候，很可能会撞上别人而扭伤你的脖子。

39. Living constantly in the past is a very dangerous thing, because when you look back, you might bump into someone else and twist your neck.

40. 12人生没有假设，当下即是全部。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路；总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。与其埋怨，不如思变。

40. Life has no assumptions, the present is all there is. Always seeing people who are better than you means you are on the upward slope; always seeing people who are not as good as you means you are on the downward slope. It's better to think of change than to complain.

41. 我的产业多么美，多么广，多么宽，时间是我的财产，我的田地是时间

41. How beautiful, vast, and wide my estate is, time being my property, and my fields are time.

42. 知辱而后勇，有痛的感觉就没有失去生命力。锥子扎不出血的麻木，实际上是一种心灵的死亡。

42. Only after knowing shame can one be brave; when there is a sense of pain, there is no loss of vitality. Numbness that cannot be pierced by a needle, in fact, is a form of spiritual death.

43. 弱者等待时机，强者争取时机，智者创造时机。

43. The weak wait for opportunities, the strong seize opportunities, and the wise create opportunities.

44. 7每个人都可能会碰到特别难熬的阶段，或长或短，让你感到绝望，看不到光。可是，沉溺于抱怨、苦恼是没有用的，难过痛苦更加无济于事，倒不如收拾收拾心情，抖擞抖擞精神，昂首挺胸去面对，也许一切就会柳暗花明。

44. 7 Everyone may encounter particularly difficult phases, long or short, that make you feel desperate and unable to see any light. However, indulging in complaints and distress is futile, and feeling sad and pain is even more unhelpful. It's better to整顿心情，振作精神，抬头挺胸去面对, maybe everything will turn bright.

45. 有些进入中年的人，表面上看起来大彻大悟，勘破红尘，但这到底是在逃避，或者根本就是颓丧？如果一个中年人一向只要年轻人颐指气使，那么可以基本推测，这个中年人自己也没有从青春中获得过多少有意义的东西，包括对自由的追求。

45. Some individuals who have entered middle age, on the surface, seem to have gained great enlightenment and seen through the secular world, but is this really an escape, or is it simply melancholic? If a middle-aged person has always demanded obedience from the young, then it can be inferred with a degree of certainty that this middle-aged person has not gained much meaningfulness from youth, including the pursuit of freedom.

46. 生活总会给你各种各样的磨难，这样你才能不断的成长。

46. Life will always bring you various hardships, so that you can continuously grow.

47. 尘埃虽微，却构成土地；水珠虽小，却能折射太阳的光芒。

47. Though dust is minute, it constitutes the land; though water droplets are small, they can refract the sunlight.

48. 37只有感情没有婚姻会像泡沫一样容易破灭;只有婚姻没有感情也会像白开水一样容易让人厌倦。

一样，只有爱情而没有婚姻就像泡沫一样容易破灭；只有婚姻而没有爱情也会像白开水一样容易让人厌倦。 Translation: 48. Just love without marriage will be as fragile as a bubble, easily shattered; just marriage without love will be as monotonous as plain water, easily tiresome.

49. 当一个人总是凝视自己的成果时，他就很难取得更大的成功。

49. When a person always fixates on their own achievements, they find it hard to achieve greater success.

50. 除非改变你日常所做的事情，否则你不会改变你的生活，因为你的生活就是今天，昨天已经结束，明天还没有到来。昨天在坟墓里，明天还在子宫里，你所在的唯一地方就是今天，你并不拥有真正的未来。因为当未来来临时，它就改名叫今天。如果你没有发现完美生活的成份，你就不可能有一个快乐的生活。因为生活是由每一天组成的，如果你不懂得如何做好一个蛋糕，做一千个蛋糕又有什么用呢？你生命中的失败，可以追述到你日常所做的某一件事情上。无论在你的思想上，在你的房子里，或在你的生活中。你婚姻的秘密隐藏在你的日常所做的事情中，你经济的秘密隐藏在你日常所做的事情中。除非你改变日常所做的事情，否则你的生活不可能被改变。你日常所做的事情，决定你将永远成为什么样的人。这是一个不可避免的结局定律。如果你一直做错误的事情，悲剧就会发生，如果你一直做正确的事情，就会得到不可思议的好结果。

50. Unless you change the things you do daily, you will not change your life, because your life is today; yesterday has ended, and tomorrow has not yet arrived. Yesterday is in the grave, and tomorrow is in the womb; the only place you are is today, and you do not truly own the future. Because when the future arrives, it is renamed today. If you have not found the ingredients of a perfect life, you cannot have a happy life. Because life is composed of each day, and if you do not know how to make a cake well, what good is making a thousand cakes? Your failures in life can be traced back to one of the things you do daily. Whether in your thoughts, in your house, or in your life. The secret of your marriage is hidden in the things you do daily, and the secret of your economy is hidden in the things you do daily. Unless you change the things you do daily, your life cannot be changed. The things you do daily determine what kind of person you will forever become. This is an inevitable law of the end. If you keep doing the wrong things, tragedy will occur; if you keep doing the right things, you will get unimaginably good results.

51. 也许是一个错误的人生哲理，也许是一个吹毛求疵的朋友，也许是一个每天收入十元钱的工作。也许是一个诱惑。在你的生命中有些是你必须下决心放弃的，它也许是很舒服的东西。

51. Perhaps a misjudged philosophy of life, perhaps a nit-picking friend, perhaps a job that earns ten yuan a day. Perhaps a temptation. In your life, there are some things you must decide to give up, and they may be things that are quite comfortable.

52. 你深爱的人，正好也深爱你，这是世界上最美好的事情，没有之一。

52. The person you deeply love also loves you deeply, and this is the most beautiful thing in the world, without a doubt.

53. 1人生难免要受些委屈和伤害，与其难以释怀郁郁寡欢，还不如胸怀坦荡泰然处之。只有承受住狂风暴雨的洗礼，才可以练就波澜不惊的淡定。

53. 1 In life, one is bound to endure some injustices and injuries. It's better to embrace openness and compose oneself calmly than to be weighed down by unresolvable resentment and unhappiness. Only by enduring the baptism of the storm and rain can one cultivate a composed demeanor that remains undisturbed by waves and ripples.

54. 不泄气、不抛弃、不放弃、不自弃；没有登不上的山，没有跨不过的坎儿，没有克服不了的困难。

54. Don't lose heart, don't abandon, don't give up, and don't despair; there are no mountains that cannot be climbed, no obstacles that cannot be overcome, and no difficulties that cannot be conquered.

55. 你获得了大彻大悟，对常人淡漠是情有可原的。毕竟你的王国与他们的世界互不相干。但只要你我仍然能够理解他们的疾苦，那就不可能超脱。

55. You have achieved a profound enlightenment, and it is understandable that you are indifferent to ordinary people. After all, your kingdom has nothing to do with their world. But as long as you and I can still understand their sufferings, it is impossible to transcend.

56. 这个世界上注定要有人比你更强、更高、更好，这是不争的事实，但我们不能因此放弃奔跑。

56. It is an undeniable fact that there will always be someone in this world who is stronger, taller, and better than you, but we cannot give up running because of that.

57. 时间象奔腾澎湃的急湍，它一去无返，毫不流连

57. Time is like a surging and turbulent river, once it flows away, it never returns, without the least hesitation.

58. 机遇是一步永不停息饿电车，它永远掌握在手握开关的人手中。

58. Opportunity is an ever-moving tram without a stop, forever held in the hands of the person holding the switch.

59. 对活者的人来说，是没有明天的；死了的人则没有今天

59. For the living, there is no tomorrow; for the dead, there is no today.

60. 3没有人陪你走一辈子，所以你要适应孤独，没有人会帮你一辈子，所以你要奋斗一生。

60. 3 No one accompanies you through life forever, so you must adapt to solitude. No one will help you through life forever, so you must strive your entire life.

61. 合抱之木，生于毫末；九层之台，起于垒土；千里之行，始于足下。

61. A tree that can embrace two persons grows from a tiny sprout; a nine-story tower is built from a heap of earth; a journey of a thousand miles begins under one's feet.

62. 一个今天抵得上两个明天，撕一张日历很简单，把握住一天却不容易。

62. One today is worth two tomorrows. It's easy to tear a page from a calendar, but it's not easy to grasp a day.

63. 没有伤心，你就不会享受开心；没有别离，你就不会珍惜相聚；没有失败，你就不会发现成功。

63. Without sadness, you cannot enjoy happiness; without separation, you cannot cherish reunion; without failure, you cannot discover success.

64. 10当你幸福的时候，切勿丧失使你成为幸福的德行——莫罗阿

64. 10 When you are happy, do not lose the virtues that make you happy – Moroá

65. 39一个女孩因为她没有鞋子而哭泣，直到她看见了一个没有脚的人。

65. A girl was crying because she had no shoes, until she saw a man with no feet.

66. 时间是一笔贷款，即使在守信用的借贷者也还不起

66. Time is a loan that even the most trustworthy borrower cannot repay.

67. 42善于学习可以认识命运，勤于工作可以抓住命运，勇于创造可以改变命运。

67. 42 Being good at learning can understand fate, being diligent in work can grasp fate, and being brave in creation can change fate.

68. 握紧的手里面可能什么都没有，把手张开，你将拥有一切！

68. The hands that are clenched may hold nothing, but when you open them, you will possess everything!

69. 44不必过于在意人与人之间表面的情绪。挚交之人不需要，泛交之人用不着。情绪这东西，你不在乎，它就伤不到你。

69. 44 Don't be too concerned about the surface emotions between people. True friends don't need to be, and casual acquaintances have no need to be. When it comes to emotions, if you don't care about them, they won't be able to hurt you.

70. 幸福就是很冷静很从容地生活，在能量很低的时候也可以生活得很好。

70. Happiness is living very calmly and composedly, and being able to live well even when the energy level is low.

71. 人若是把一生的光阴虚度，便是抛下黄金未买一物

71. If a person squanders their entire life in vain, it is as if they have thrown away gold without purchasing a single thing.

72. 如果你不学会嘲笑困难，那么等你年老时就就不会有可嘲笑的东西了。

72. If you don't learn to laugh at difficulties, then when you are old, there will be nothing left to laugh at.

73. 8给生命一个微笑，用微笑面对人生。就如苍鹰自信地去搏击长空，就如河流欢快着去融入大海。为了未来美一点，现在必须苦一点。低头不算认输，放弃才是懦夫。我拼搏，就一个理由，我要得到我想要的东西。

73. Give life a smile, face life with a smile. Just like the confident eagle soaring through the vast sky, just like the joyful river merging into the ocean. In order for the future to be a bit better, we must endure a bit more now. Bowing your head is not admitting defeat; giving up is the act of a coward. I strive because I have one reason: I want to get what I want.

74. 爱情之酒，两个人喝是甘露，三个人喝是酸醋，随便喝便会中毒。

74. The wine of love is nectar when shared by two, vinegar when shared by three, and poison when drunk at will.

75. 32能让男生简单的女人是好女人，能让女人满足的男生是好男生。

75. A woman who makes it easy for a man is a good woman, and a man who satisfies a woman is a good man.

76. 08、粗者与人斗力，愚者与人斗气，慧者与人斗智，贤者与人斗志。

76. 08, The coarse fight with strength, the foolish fight with temper, the wise fight with intelligence, and the virtuous fight with determination.

77. 为了自己的目标为止奋斗一生，不泄努力，就算最后失败了，也没有什么好遗憾的，因为你尽力了。

77. Strive for your goals throughout your life without giving up effort, for even if you fail in the end, there's nothing to regret, as you have given it your best.

78. 人生有一道难题，那就是如何使一寸光阴等于一寸生命

78. There is a difficult question in life, which is how to make an inch of time equal to an inch of life.

79. 09、人生的坎坷，一半是生活挖的坑，一半是自己的棱角刺的洞。

79.09, Half of the hardships in life are holes dug by life itself, and the other half are punctures made by one's own sharp edges.

80. 做人要像竹子一样，每攀登一步，就做一次小结。

80. Be like a bamboo, making a summary after every step you climb.

81. 33我爱我的祖国，爱我的人民，离开了他们，我就无法生存，更无法写作。——巴金

81. I love my motherland and my people. Without them, I cannot survive, let alone write. — Ba Jin