在握紧十五条原则的利剑，我将化身无人能敌的强者，余生不受束缚！

Holding the sword of the fifteen principles tightly, I will become an invincible strongman, and the rest of my life will be unbound!

1. 对比多了，欲壑就会扩张；攀比多了，心态常会失衡。有些炫耀，让你看到的是外表；有些掩饰，伴你读懂的却是心灵。

1. The more comparisons you make, the more your desires will expand; the more you engage in keeping up with others, your mindset often becomes unbalanced. Some show-offs reveal only the surface to you; while some hiding is what accompanies you to understand the essence of their soul.

2. 他为了她家的权势，委曲求全，跟她假装情真意切。当他的父亲去世后，他终于表现出本来面目！把她赶出了家里。只是他不知道，她的父亲早就料到一切，为她布置好所有的棋局。她却都放弃了，只是因为爱而已。

2. He made great compromises and pretended to be deeply in love with her for the sake of her family's power. But after his father passed away, he finally showed his true colors and kicked her out of the house. However, he was unaware that her father had anticipated everything and set up all the chess pieces for her. But she gave up everything, all because of love.

3. 如果不是被坚定选择的那一个，那宁愿不要，把精力用在谈恋爱上简直是浪费，好好努力过想过的生活，不是想要的就不要，别反复无常别委曲求全。

3. If it is not the one chosen with firmness, then it's better not to have it. Devoting energy to romance is a waste. Strive hard and live the life you have dreamed of. Don't accept what you don't want, and don't be changeable or compromise too much.

4. 矫情不能当饭吃，比你强大的人都在努力，你有什么理由不努力。

4. Sentimentality cannot fill your stomach; the people who are stronger than you are all striving hard, so what excuse do you have for not trying?

5. 好运坏运都是你自己的命运与其委曲求全不如洒脱做自己免得最后把自己也给丢了晚安好梦

5. Whether it's good luck or bad luck, it's all your own destiny. It's better to be carefree and be yourself than to compromise and lose yourself in the end. Good night, have sweet dreams.

6. 没人理解仙人掌的悲哀：防备了别人，孤单了自己。更没人理解，受多深的伤害，才会长出这满身的尖刺。永远不要在女人毫无防备的时候伤害她，不要让她变成一棵孤单的仙人掌。

6. No one understands the sorrow of the cactus: by defending against others, it becomes lonely by itself. Even fewer understand how much hurt must be endured to grow all these thorns. Never hurt a woman when she has no defenses, don't let her become a lonely cactus.

7. 2一般人听到你说话，朋友们会聆听你说话，好朋友会听你没有说出的话。

7.2 In general, when people hear you speak, friends will listen to what you say, and good friends will hear what you haven't said.

8. 27人生在世间时时刻刻像处于荆棘丛林之中一样，处处暗藏危险或者诱惑。

8. In this world, human beings are constantly like being in a thorny jungle, where dangers or temptations lurk at every turn.

9. 16要相信自己朝着更好的方向前进着，总有一天会带着骄傲的翅膀回来!

9. Believe in yourself as you move forward in a better direction, and one day you will return with proud wings!

10. 不要计较人生一路走来的苦与痛，感恩昨天的经历，追逐明天的幸福。

10. Do not dwell on the bitterness and pain of life's journey; be grateful for yesterday's experiences and chase after tomorrow's happiness.

11. 没有理由向任何人解释，更没有理由委曲求全，一切的一切只因为在乎罢了。

11. There is no reason to explain to anyone, let alone to make concessions, for all these things are only because of the care and concern.

12. 校长看成败，张一曼看喜悲，周铁男看强弱，裴魁山看贫富，孙佳看对错。除了显而易见的色情笑点，影片喜剧效果的主要来源是委曲求全，有点像是某些春晚小品的路子，以剧中人的窘态来搔观众的痒痒，其中的讽刺与控诉意味却常常戳得人生疼，处处透出无可奈何。可现实是谁又能逃脱的了呢？有时候，所谓的不贪，不过是诱惑不够；有时候所谓的不欲，只不过是饵没有下对而已，特派员也不过是换了名字，依旧充斥各行各业，占领每一个角落，决定着社会运作的一切规则，权力的交迭，又究竟改变了什么？

12. The principal sees success and failure, Zhang Yiman sees joy and sorrow, Zhou Tiennan sees strengths and weaknesses, Pei Kui Shan sees poverty and wealth, Sun Jia sees right and wrong. Besides the obvious sexual humor, the film's comedic effect mainly comes from the compromise and accommodation, somewhat reminiscent of certain Spring Festival Gala skits. It tickles the audience's funny bone by showcasing the awkwardness of the characters in the story. However, the讽刺 and criticism often pierce through life's pain and reveal a sense of helplessness. But in reality, who can escape this? Sometimes, what is所谓的 "not greedy" is just that the temptation is not enough; sometimes, what is所谓的 "not wanting" is merely that the bait has not been placed correctly. Special agents are just renamed, still filling every industry and corner, determining all the rules of social operation, the intersection of power, and what has it actually changed?

13. 随着年纪的增长，越来越珍惜感情。现实里确实会出现一万个争吵的理由，但我慢慢知道这是每段爱情，每个家庭，每个人生都要经历的，是暂时的烦恼，两人的回忆，一生的财富。学会换位思考很难，但只有学会才不会觉得包容是忍让。谁都不要高高在上俯视爱情，也不要委曲求全仰视爱情，我们是平等的，深爱对方的，恋人

13. As we grow older, we cherish feelings more and more. In reality, there indeed may be ten thousand reasons for arguments, but I gradually learn that this is something every love story, every family, and every life must go through. It's a temporary trouble, the memories of the two, and a wealth for a lifetime. It's hard to learn to think from another's perspective, but only by learning can we not feel that tolerance is just giving in. No one should look down on love from a pedestal, nor should anyone look up at love with a bowing attitude. We are equal, deeply in love with each other, and we are lovers.

14. 世态炎凉，玩的起继续，玩不起出局；人心难测，知人知面难知心，掏心掏肺难握情。身不由己的若干伪装，也许是应对世事无常；言不由衷的嘴角上扬，或许是踉踉跄跄的坚强。

14. The world is unpredictable; those who can play the game continue, while those who can't are eliminated. People's hearts are hard to fathom; it's difficult to know a person's true nature, and even more so to understand their innermost feelings. There are countless masks one can't help but wear, perhaps as a way to cope with the ever-changing nature of life; a smile on the lips that is not from the heart might be a fragile show of strength.

15. 聪明人未必幸福，但智慧的人会看到幸福;愚钝者未必幸福，但豁达的人会找到幸福。幸福和智慧豁达始终相伴。

15. The intelligent are not necessarily happy, but the wise see happiness; the foolish may not be happy, but the generous find happiness. Happiness and wisdom and generosity always go hand in hand.

16. 女生还是要对自己好点，干啥子要为男人委曲求全，明年要对自己好点

16. Girls should still take care of themselves. Why should they always compromise for men? Next year, they should take better care of themselves.

17. 懂得珍惜，才不会错过；知道感恩，才会收获真情。真正的感情，缘于一颗珍惜的心；真正的得到，缘于一份感恩的心态。人的一生可以错过很多，但不要错过真正值得你去交往的朋友。

17. Knowing to cherish is the key to not missing out; knowing to be grateful leads to the harvest of true affection. True feelings arise from a heart that cherishes; true acquisition comes from a grateful mindset. One's lifetime can miss out on many things, but do not miss the true friends worth being around.

18. 落日余辉 暮光暗城

18. Afterglow of the Sunset, Twilight in the Dark City

19. 经过爱情的伤害和艰苦后，四十岁后，就再也不愿意将就和委曲求全了。

19. After experiencing the pain and hardship of love, after the age of forty, one is no longer willing to compromise and make concessions.

20. 这个世界并不会在意你的自尊，没人会因为你的自尊而委曲求全，而是要求你在自我感觉良好之前先有所成就！

21. 我不在意你的曾经，但是如果你给他的没有给我，没有要求他的来要求我。

20. This world doesn't care about your self-esteem; no one will compromise for your ego, but instead, it demands that you achieve something before feeling good about yourself! 21. I don't care about your past, but if what you gave to him is not what you gave to me, and if you haven't demanded from him what you demand from me.

22. 人就一生，我们都希望自己有个幸福的家，每天都是个快乐的人。但在生活中，不是一切都尽人意，可是有什么好看不开的？烦恼忧愁，恩恩怨怨几十年后都会随生命而烟消云散。

22. Life is but once, and we all hope to have a happy home and be a joyful person every day. But in life, not everything goes as one wishes. However, what is there to be stuck on? The worries, sorrows, and grievances will all fade away with life after several decades.

23. 你要改变自己获取爱的途径，不再是讨好、委曲求全、低声下气，而是充实自己的内心提高自身的价值，让别人爱上你的有趣和美好。

23. You need to change the way you seek love, no longer by pleasing others, making compromises, or bowing down. Instead, fill your inner self and enhance your own worth, allowing others to fall in love with the fascinating and wonderful aspects of you.

24. 有些时候不要委曲求全贬低自己去去求别人别人没有欠你你也没有欠别人

24. Sometimes, don't compromise and belittle yourself to please others. They don't owe you anything, and neither do you owe them anything.

25. 代表性及问题性的一个定点词，行事所依据的准则。毛泽东《增强党的团结继承党的传统》:"理论与实践的统一，是马克思主义的一个最基本的原则。"原则是指经过长期经验总结所得出的合理化的现象。

25. A term that embodies representativeness and problematic nature, serving as a criterion for action. From Mao Zedong's "Strengthening the Unity of the Party and Carry Forward the Party's Tradition": "The unity of theory and practice is one of the most fundamental principles of Marxism." The principle refers to a rationalized phenomenon that has been summed up through long-term experience.

26. 你是个女孩，努力是你的象征，自信是你的资本，微笑是你的标志，-----你要的不是在一个男人面前委曲求全让他看到你，而是好好努力并且等待数年后那个单膝跪地给你无名指戴上戒指的男人。------想要别人爱你，前提是先好好爱自己。

26. You are a girl, and hard work is your symbol, confidence is your capital, and a smile is your sign. What you seek is not to compromise and please a man in front of him, but to work hard and wait for that man who will one knee down and put a ring on your ring finger several years later. -- If you want others to love you, the prerequisite is to first love yourself well.

27. 机场里，俩大妈，相互说自己老妈。都说老妈在弟弟家，自己为了老妈委曲求全，看弟弟脸色。好强的：女人没地位，女儿没地位的观念。

27. At the airport, two elderly women were calling each other "mom." Both claimed that their "mom" was living with their brother's family, and they had to make sacrifices for their "mom," catering to their brother's moods. Strong-willed: the notion that women and daughters have no status.

28. 人生最珍贵的是选择，人生最难得的是放下。选择决定命运，放下得到快乐。放下一颗患得患失的心，得到的是宁静淡泊。放下莫名的烦恼，自找的忧伤，得到的是快乐，拥抱的是幸福。

28. The most precious thing in life is choice, and the most difficult thing is to let go. Choice determines destiny, and letting go brings happiness. Letting go of a heart burdened with worries and fears brings tranquility and detachment. Letting go of unnamed troubles and self-inflicted sorrows brings joy and embraces happiness.

29. 4放弃就不该后悔。失去就不该回忆。放下该放下，退出那没结局的剧。

29. 4 If you give up, don't regret. If you lose, don't remember. Let go of what you should let go, and exit the drama without an ending.

30. 我不要你觉得我好，觉得我是最爱你的就委曲求全跟我在一起，我要的是你心甘情愿甘愿臣服。

30. I don't want you to think I'm good, or to compromise and stay with me because you feel I'm the one you love the most. What I want is for you to be willing and eager to submit of your own free will.

31. 男女间的情感，最惊心动魄的便是，一开始，“窈窕淑女，君子好逑”，到最后，“执子之手，与子偕老”。中间呢，两个人若能举案齐眉、夫唱妇随，则最是喜人，最是美了。

31. The most breathtaking emotional experience between men and women is that, from the beginning, "The graceful and elegant maiden, the gentleman seeks a match," to the end, "Hold your hand, and grow old together." In the middle, if the two can dine together with heads held high, and the husband leads while the wife follows, it is the most delightful and beautiful.

32. 要委曲求全，要一退再退，要退无可退，要濒临绝境，要绝处逢生。

32. To compromise and give in, to retreat again and again, to reach a point of no return, to be on the brink of despair, and to find a way out in the most desperate situations.

33. 乐观更是像无奈委曲求全后的自娱自乐，然后乐极生悲。

33. Optimism is more like self-entertainment after being无奈 and compromising, and then it leads to tragedy from extreme joy.

34. 世上没有不平的事，只有不平的心。不去怨，不去恨，淡然一切，往事如烟。经历了，醉了，醒了，碎了，结束了，忘记吧!

34. There is no injustice in the world, only an unbalanced heart. Do not complain, do not hate, take it lightly, and let the past be like smoke. Experience it, get drunk, wake up, shatter, and end. Forget it!

35. 在这个冷暖自知的尘世，我们都是在荒漠里跋涉的旅人，孤独会被抚平，落寞会被洗礼，所有的慈悲都化成了对相遇的感激。余生不长，愿灵魂的道场，温柔是你，珍惜亦是你。

35. In this world where warmth and cold are known to oneself, we are all travelers trekking through deserts. Solitude will be soothed, loneliness will be purified, and all compassion will be transformed into gratitude for the encounters. Life is short, and may the sanctuary of the soul be filled with gentleness, which is also cherished.

36. 每一次胆小害怕的人是你，你在乎别人的说法，你又以为你是上帝，要帮助每一个女子，吃饭席还要感谢别人，让别的男人以为你有多女人喜欢。而我从来不在乎别人的说话，因为口水根本淹不死我。即使以前我知道我身边有好多妒忌羡慕我的小人，我一样只顾自已优美美丽。如果你委曲求全把自已变丑，没有人会喜欢你，你为什么要让大众喜欢你。你又不是钞票。

36. Each time, it's you who are the one afraid and timid, you care about what others say, and you think you are God, to help every woman, you even thank others at the dining table, making other men think you are liked by many women. But I have never cared about what others say, because saliva can't drown me. Even if I knew in the past that there were many envious and envious people around me, I still only focused on my own elegance and beauty. If you sacrifice yourself to become ugly, no one will like you. Why do you want to be liked by the public? You are not money.

37. 无论遇到多么讨厌的人，也只是在告诫你，不要成为那样的人。不知道是越来越独立，还是越来越心虚，走了这么久，发现唯一靠得住的还是自己。学会一个人生活，不论身边是否有人疼爱。

37. No matter how讨厌 a person you encounter, it's just a reminder not to become like that person. Whether it's because I'm becoming more independent or more insecure, after walking this far, I find that the only person I can rely on is myself. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there's someone loving you around.

38. 当你看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。活着，总有你看不惯的人，也有看不惯你的人。不必太在意，做好自己就好！

38. When you see through a person without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you dislike a person without confronting them, you understand the ultimate respect. Living, there will always be people you can't stand, and there will be people who can't stand you. Don't take it too seriously; just do your best!

39. 不要为一个人付出太多，不要总是去迁就，不要总委曲求全，会显得自己很廉价

39. Don't give too much to a person, don't always accommodate, don't always compromise, as it will make you seem very cheap.

40. 人生的苦与乐如同一个硬币的两面，一面是苦，一面是乐。失落时是苦，希望时是乐;经历时是苦，回味时是乐;今日以为苦之事，却为明天回味之乐。

40. The bitterness and joy of life are like the two sides of a coin, one side being bitterness and the other joy. It is bitter when we lose, and joyful when we hope; it is bitter when we experience, and joyful when we reminisce; what we consider bitter today may become the joy we recall tomorrow.

41. 一棵树有自己的繁茂挺拔，一棵草也有自己的坚韧顽强，是花，就绽放一朵美好，是叶，就奉献一片希望。每个人，都是独特的风景。你站在桥上看风景时，看风景的人在楼上看你。

41. A tree has its own lush and towering presence, a grass has its own tenacity and resilience. If it's a flower, it blooms with beauty; if it's a leaf, it offers a piece of hope. Everyone is a unique landscape. When you stand on the bridge to admire the scenery, the people watching the scenery are up in the building watching you.

42. 忙碌是一种幸福，让我们没有时间体会痛苦；奔波是一种快乐，让我们真实地感受生活；疲惫是一种享受，让我们无暇空虚；坎坷是一种经历，让我们真切地理解人生。其实幸福是一种心态！

42. Being busy is a form of happiness, as it leaves us no time to feel pain; bustling is a kind of joy, allowing us to truly experience life; exhaustion is a form of enjoyment, leaving us no room for emptiness; hardships are a kind of experience, enabling us to deeply understand life. In fact, happiness is a state of mind!

43. 我的心从来都是完好无裂缝的，那六年完完本本地属于你，而你没有护住它。现在它跑了，完完本本属于吴所畏，无论他伤我多深，我的心都不会委曲求全。汪硕的眼泪都流不出来了。你别说了。池骋狠狠在小醋包嘴上亲了一口。孩子还给你，你把它带走吧。说完，手在汪硕的脑袋上拍了一下，转身朝外走去。

43. My heart has always been whole and uncracked, those six years were completely yours, and you didn't protect it. Now it has run away, and it completely belongs to Wu Suwei. No matter how deeply he wounds me, my heart will not compromise. Wang Shuo couldn't even shed tears. Don't say anymore. Chi Chen gave a fierce kiss on the little sour face. The child is yours, take him away. After saying that, he gave a pat on Wang Shuo's head and turned to walk out.

44. 我们不能创造机会，但是要记住抓住机会。我们不能左右命运，但是要掌握命运。我们不能无过，但是要懂得不要轻易犯错。我们不能谱写乐章，但是我们可以借别人的乐章舒展我们的心情。

44. We cannot create opportunities, but we must remember to seize them. We cannot control fate, but we must master it. We cannot be without faults, but we must understand not to make mistakes easily. We cannot compose symphonies, but we can express our feelings by borrowing someone else's music.

45. 人和人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系，靠的是共性和吸引。而不是压迫，捆绑，奉承，和一味的付出以及道德式的自我感动。没有任何一种感情需要你委曲求全卑微到尘土里，有些东西，得之我幸，失之我命。因为，你永远无法叫醒一个装睡的人，你也永远挽留不住一个本不属于你的人。

45. To maintain a long-lasting comfortable relationship between people, it relies on commonality and attraction, rather than oppression, bondage, flattery, and blind sacrifice or self-righteous self-satisfaction. No emotion requires you to bend over backwards and become卑微 to the dust. Some things, if you gain them, it's a blessing; if you lose them, it's your fate. Because, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to sleep, and you can never hold onto someone who never belonged to you.

46. 淡定看人生，宁静做自我。生命中的许多时候，不幸会突然降临，让我们措手不及。在不能改变现实的时候，如果我们愿意改变自己，那么，我们将获得重新再起的契机，甚至能更上一层楼。

46. Keep a composed view of life and find tranquility in being yourself. Many times in life, misfortune will suddenly strike, catching us off guard. When we cannot change the reality, if we are willing to change ourselves, then we will have the opportunity to rise again, and even climb to a higher level.

47. 圈子不同不必强融。各自过好自己的生活不需要委曲求全。再有必然稳定的条件下，总会有合适的机会出人头地的。

47. Different circles do not require forced integration. Each person should live their own life without having to compromise. Moreover, under the condition of stability, there will always be suitable opportunities to stand out.

48. 信任，是人生一笔弥足珍贵的储蓄。这储蓄，是流言袭来时投向你的善意的目光，是前进道路上给你的坚定的陪伴，是遇到困难时的全力以赴的支持，是遭受诬蔑时驱赶痛苦一盏心灯。

48. Trust is a most valuable savings in life. This savings is the benevolent gaze that is cast upon you when rumors come, the steadfast companionship you receive on your path of progress, the full support you receive when facing difficulties, and the heart lamp that drives away pain when you are subjected to defamation.

49. 也许有的人会爱上一个骄傲自大的人，但绝不会有人肯爱一个卑微犯贱的人。所以你对他的每一次委曲求全，都是在为他离开你的道路上铺着厚实的路。

49. Perhaps some people might fall in love with a proud and arrogant individual, but no one would ever agree to love someone who is humble and servile. Therefore, every time you make compromises for him, you are laying a solid foundation on the path for him to leave you.

50. 不经一事，不长一智。大多数人的人生智慧，都是这样得来的。所以，不管是有大智慧，还是懵懂度过一生，都应该是上苍赐予我们的恩慧，并没有好坏之分，只有各自不同的人生经历。

50. Not experiencing a thing, one cannot gain wisdom. The life wisdom of most people comes from this way. Therefore, whether one possesses great wisdom or lives a naive life, both should be the divine grace bestowed upon us, without good or bad distinctions, only different life experiences.

51. 有油水的地方常常最滑，即使爬起来却不易站稳。

51. Places with oil and grease are often the most slippery, and even if you manage to get back up, it's not easy to stand firmly.

52. 人生是一种选择，亦是一种放弃。能自由选择的人是幸福的，能适度放弃的心是洒脱的。

52. Life is a choice, and also a form of renunciation. Those who can make free choices are happy, and those who can give up moderately are carefree.

53. 不要轻易把伤口揭开给不相干的人看，因为别人看是热闹，而痛的却是你自己。

53. Don't easily show your wounds to people who are not concerned, because others may just watch the spectacle, but the pain is all yours.

54. 放下压力，累与不累，取决于心态;放下烦恼，快乐其实很简单;放下自卑，把自卑从你的字典里删去;放下懒惰，奋斗改变命运。

54. Let go of the pressure; whether you are tired or not depends on your mindset; let go of worries, happiness is actually very simple; let go of self-doubt, delete the word "inferiority" from your dictionary; let go of laziness, struggle to change your destiny.

55. 把握当下，勇于去追寻自己的梦想，努力去尝试那些人生的第一次。

55. Seize the moment, dare to pursue your dreams, and strive to try those first-time experiences in life.

56. 女人想要活得快乐，活得自在，活得幸福，就要用一颗平常心看待名利和荣耀，既不清心寡欲，也不声色犬马；既不自命清高，也不妄自菲薄；既不吹毛求疵，也不委曲求全。如果一个女人能保持淡定，就拥有了一种豁达，一种超然。

56. For a woman to live a happy, carefree, and fulfilling life, she needs to approach fame, fortune, and glory with a calm mind. She should neither be overly desirous nor indulgent, nor self-righteous nor self-deprecating; neither overly critical nor overly accommodating. If a woman can maintain composure, she possesses a kind of generosity and a sense of transcendence.

57. 真正想攀贵族的人是你。你说什么你富而不贵，你幸好不贵，可以贵又贵不出姿态和行为。你把自心整的伟大和委曲求全。这二样刚好是人们不需要的。

57. It's you who truly wants to climb the social ladder of nobility. What do you say? You are rich but not noble. Thank goodness you are not noble, because you could be noble but cannot afford the attitude and behavior that comes with it. You have made yourself great and accommodated, but these two traits are exactly what people do not need.

58. 原则是对自己的要求，突破原则，我不能原谅自己，我不再是我自己，我不再符合自己对自己的要求，我失去了自我。

58. The principle is a requirement of oneself. To break the principle, I cannot forgive myself. I am no longer myself, I no longer meet my own requirements of myself, and I have lost my self.

59. 九任何成功，都是厚积薄发，多年苦修换来的，不怕走得慢，只怕不开始。

59. Any success is the result of years of diligent accumulation and hard work. It doesn't matter if you move slowly, just don't be afraid to start.

60. 你的爸妈把你当公主一样宠了十几年，为的是不让你在任何一个男人面前委曲求全

60. Your parents have pampered you like a princess for over a decade, so that you don't have to compromise and endure hardship in front of any man.

61. 20xx是逢九年，按理说总会有些不顺，总结了一下最不顺的在人际，简直可以说是一团糟糕，没来由的莫名其妙，不过也不是喜欢委曲求全的人，不合适就都散了呗，而在身边的有些也不想再迁就再容忍，只是在等一个合适的时机爆发，一个人，两个人，一群人最终都还是一个人，所以有什么关系呢，顺不顺都一样。

61. The year 20xx is a leap year, and as the saying goes, there will always be some misfortunes. Summing up, the most uncomfortable aspect has been in interpersonal relationships, which can be said to be a complete mess, inexplicable and out of the blue. However, I'm not someone who likes to make compromises. If it's not suitable, why not just part ways? Some of those around me also don't want to continue to accommodate and tolerate, they are just waiting for a suitable moment to erupt. Whether it's one person, two people, or a group of people, in the end, it all comes down to one person. So, what difference does it make? Whether it's smooth or not, it's all the same.

62. 人心就像一个容器，当你装的快乐多了，那么郁闷就自然的少了。有些苦，可以挂在脸上让人知晓；有些痛，只能埋在心底独自承受。风好，吹乱了我的秀发，吹落了你的假发。

62. The human heart is like a container; the more joy you fill it with, the less depression it naturally holds. Some sorrows can be displayed on one's face for others to see; some pains must be buried deep within and endured alone. With the wind being good, it blows my hair into disarray, and it blows your wig off.

63. 这个世界，总有你不喜欢的人，也总有人不喜欢你。这都很正常。而且，无论你有多好，也无论对方有多好，都苛求彼此不得。因为，好不好是一回事，喜欢不喜欢是另一回事。

63. In this world, there will always be people you don't like, and there will always be people who don't like you. This is all very normal. Moreover, no matter how good you are or how good the other person is, you should not demand that they like you. Because, whether something is good or not is one thing, whether you like it or not is another.

64. 最讨厌为了防止别的女人妒忌你，然后让你委曲求全，让你变丑穿丑。实在是太懂女人心了。

64. The most disliked is when you do things to prevent other women from being jealous of you, which forces you to compromise and change for the worse, making you ugly and dressing in an ugly manner. It's truly understanding the hearts of women.

65. 人生箴言：不懂装懂是聪明，懂装不懂是智慧;示弱而不逞强，示拙而不逞能;忍人之所不能忍，方能为人之所不能为;智者不锐，慧者不傲，谋者不露，强者不暴。

65. Life Maxim: Pretending to know when you don't is clever, pretending to not know when you do is wisdom; showing weakness without boasting, showing your lack of ability without bragging; enduring what others cannot bear, you can do what others cannot do; the wise are not sharp, the wise are not proud, the planners do not show off, the strong are not violent.

66. 人活一世重要的是经历。苦也好，乐也好，过去的不再重提，追忆过去，只能徒增伤悲，当你掩面叹息的时候，时光已逝，幸福也从你的指缝悄悄的溜走。

66. The most important thing in a person's life is to experience. Whether it's hardship or joy, we should not dwell on the past. Remembering the past can only bring sorrow. When you cover your face and sigh, time has passed, and happiness has slipped through your fingers quietly.

67. 有时候觉得婚后生活真的很糟心。为啥要跟一个前二十多年没有任何交集的人纠结在一起生活后面的人生，还天真地以为这个人可以懂你所想，护你周全。最近过得很是心累。曾经顽固地觉得自己结的婚哪怕跪着也要走完这一生。最近有点想开了。人生苦短，若处处委曲求全，活着又是图的什么？

67. Sometimes I feel that married life is really dreadful. Why should I tie myself to someone with no connection for the past twenty years, living through the rest of my life, and naively thinking that this person can understand what I'm thinking and protect me. Lately, I've been feeling quite exhausted. I used to stubbornly believe that no matter how hard it gets, I would see my marriage through to the end. Lately, I've been opening up a bit. Life is short, if I have to compromise at every turn, what am I living for?