在人生的棋局中，智慧如同一盏明灯，照亮前行的道路。小事不计较，大事果断断，明智信任，避免争端，这便是把握人生智慧的秘诀。

In the game of life, wisdom is like a guiding lamp that illuminates the path ahead. Not to care about trivial matters, to act decisively in important matters, to trust wisely, and to avoid disputes, this is the secret to grasping the wisdom of life.

1. 底气、格局、气质、才华，这些看起来和钱没有任何关系的品质，其实都是用钱堆积出来的。

1. Confidence, structure, temperament, talent – these qualities that seem to have nothing to do with money are actually all built with money.

2. 我们知道，牛顿从苹果落地，发现万有引力定律，很伟大的，但是还有一个规律，恐怕比万有引力定律还重要，就是为啥树上会结苹果关于这个问题，可能很多人会疑惑，就是树上结果子，是自然现象，能有啥道理啊！那么我再问问，为啥果子未成熟之前是绿色的，和叶子一个颜色，而成熟的时候很多变成彩色的了？为啥成熟之前苦涩，而成熟之后香脆可口，果香四溢

2. We know that Newton discovered the law of universal gravitation from the falling of an apple, which is great, but there is another law that may be even more important, and that is why apples grow on trees. Regarding this question, many people might be puzzled. After all, fruit growing on trees is a natural phenomenon; what could be the logic behind it? Let me ask you another question: why are fruits green and the same color as leaves before they mature, but many of them turn colorful when they ripen? Why do fruits taste bitter and astringent before they mature, but become sweet, crisp, and delicious after they ripen, with a fragrant aroma spreading around?

3. 原谅别人，就是给自己心中留下空间，以便回旋。

3. To forgive others is to leave space in your heart, allowing room for maneuver.

4. 我必须在逆境中努力做到最好。我发现，如果我这样做的话，情况往往会迅速好转;相反，如果我试图逃避或者想把问题赶走，我会变得越来越焦虑，情况也会越来越糟。

4. I must strive to be my best in adverse circumstances. I have found that if I do so, the situation often improves rapidly; conversely, if I try to avoid it or want to drive the problem away, I will become increasingly anxious, and the situation will also worsen.

5. 做任何事，都离不开持之以恒。坚持不懈，持之以恒，才能积少成多，厚积薄发。不要急功近利，贪图一时之快，反而要耐得住寂寞，脚踏实地，终有一天会取得令人惊叹的成就。

5. In everything you do, perseverance is essential. Only by being steadfast and persistent can you accumulate the little to become much, and achieve a burst of brilliance. Do not seek quick success or immediate gratification; instead, bear the loneliness and walk steadily on the ground. One day, you will achieve astonishing achievements.

6. 人生是一种在路上的状态，平安平静只不过是人生路上小憩时的心灵驿站。人类的智慧不是先天就有的，而是在长长短短的生命之路上获取的。当我们踩着时间的落英，付出心血和汗水追求着、探索着的时候，智慧就象润物细无声的春雨，悄无声息地潜入我们的生命之中。我们在路上无怨无悔地延伸着美丽人生的时候，智慧的火花从不间断。

6. Life is a state of being on a journey, and peace and tranquility are merely a temporary spiritual stopover during the rest on the path of life. Human wisdom is not innate, but rather acquired along the long and short journey of life. As we tread upon the fallen petals of time, investing our blood and sweat in pursuit and exploration, wisdom is like the subtle spring rain that quietly infiltrates our lives. While we extend our beautiful lives without complaint and regret on the road, the sparks of wisdom never cease.

7. 做人做事，贵在坚持原则，把握分寸，不断完善自我。愿我们都能遵循上述处世之道，成就精彩人生。

7. In dealing with people and matters, it is crucial to adhere to principles, maintain a sense of proportion, and continuously improve oneself. May we all follow the aforementioned ways of dealing with the world and achieve a wonderful life.

8. 有时候，放弃并不代表懦弱，而是一种智慧，对于冷酷的现实，我们总是要毅然决然，然后，心如刀绞。

8. Sometimes, giving up does not mean weakness, but a kind of wisdom. In the face of cold reality, we always have to be resolute, and then, feel like a knife in the heart.

9. 洒脱是一种智慧、一种境界、一种博大和炼达，一种建立在良好气度、风度和分寸上的处世态度和风格。报摘

9. Grace is a kind of wisdom, a realm, a vastness and maturity, a world view and style of life built on good temperament, demeanor, and measure. Digest

10. 一定要做个不轻易外露情绪的人，不要到处诉苦，也不要轻易相信刚认识的人，更不要对谁都充满 期待。

10. Always be someone who doesn't easily show their emotions, don't complain everywhere, and don't easily trust people you just met, let alone have high expectations of everyone.

11. 男人求婚时像四月天，婚后像十二月天;女人少女时像五月天，为人妻后就变天。

11. Men propose like April, and marry like December; women are like May in their youth, and change like the weather after marriage.

12. 禅师、胃与脚谁力气大弟子、脚，脚能搬动肚子。禅师、若胃不提供营养，脚搬得动吗事物各有所长，没绝对一说。

12. The master asks, "Who has more strength: the master, the stomach, or the feet? The feet can move the abdomen." The master then asks, "If the stomach does not provide nourishment, can the feet still move? Each thing has its own strengths; there is no absolute statement."

13. 有的东西不过很久，是不可能理解的。有的东西等到理解了，又为时已晚。大多时候，我们不得不在尚未清楚认识自己的心的情况下选择行动，因而感到迷惘和困惑。——村上春树

13. There are things that cannot be understood unless they last a long time. There are things that, once understood, it is too late. Most of the time, we have to make choices without fully understanding our own hearts, and thus feel confused and bewildered. — Haruki Murakami

14. 从小到大，我父亲教育我们“吃亏是福”，所以我们吃小亏吃大亏的时候总安慰自己吃亏是福。

14. From a young age, my father taught us that "enduring a loss is a blessing," so whenever we suffered small or big losses, we always comforted ourselves by believing that enduring a loss is a blessing.

15. 真正的吃亏是福，绝不是简单的忍让和委曲求全。

15. True suffering is a blessing, it is never just simple tolerance and compromising to the fullest.

16. 纵使她倾国倾城，蕙质兰心的智慧，比他高明无数倍又能怎样？只要她爱上了，乞求那个她爱的人，费劲心机，而他不需要任何手段，不费吹灰之力就可以将她击溃。

16. Even if she is as beautiful as the country itself, with the wisdom of orchid and osmanthus, ten times more brilliant than him, what does that matter? As long as she falls in love, she will go to any lengths to beg the one she loves. But he needs no means, and can effortlessly bring her down.

17. 多聊别人感兴趣的话题，你会学到很多东西 。你没成就时，你再有理别人也觉得你是强词夺理。你有了成就以后，就算真没理，人家也会帮你找出理来。

17. By talking about topics that others are interested in, you will learn a lot. When you haven't achieved anything, even if you have a valid point, others will still think you are just making excuses. But once you have achieved something, even if you truly don't have a valid point, people will help you find one.

18. 所谓的“放下”即是把什么事都化为没有的力量。

18. So-called "letting go" is to turn everything into a powerlessness.

19. 每个人的命运，就在于你选择了一个如何和别人相处的方式，不敌对，不刻薄，不势力，不郁结，烦恼任何时候都是命运的一部分，不被烦恼所伤，那么就需要我们选择一种生活的智慧，可能存在一些不舒心，但的确有余地。

19. Each person's destiny lies in the way you choose to interact with others: not hostile, not sarcastic, not snobbish, not resentful. Troubles are always a part of destiny. If you are not hurt by them, then we need to choose a kind of wisdom in life, which may have some discomfort, but indeed has room for maneuver.

20. 一切出色的东西都是朴素的，它们之令人倾倒，正是由于自己的富有智慧的朴素。高尔基

20. All outstanding things are simple, and it is precisely their wise simplicity that makes them charming. Gorky

21. 一个人的智能不是一个器具，等待老师去填满；而是一块可以燃烧的煤，有待于老师去点燃。考留达克

21. A person's intelligence is not a vessel waiting to be filled by the teacher; rather, it is a piece of burning coal that awaits the teacher's ignition. Kao Liudaku

22. 懂得如何吃亏才是福!没头没脑的吃亏那是祸。

22. Knowing how to endure losses is a blessing! Blindly enduring losses is a misfortune.

23. 你错以为事物有恒，所以痛苦。一朵花凋谢，你不会太难过，因为你知道花开易谢，原本无常。但你却不能接受亲爱的人去世，所以悲痛万分。无常是好事情，每一扇门都为变化敞开，我们不抱怨，如果你看透事物无常的本质，就会尽最大努力使自己每一天过得快乐，你会懂得珍惜，会变得积极、慈悲和富有智慧。

23. You mistakenly believe that things are permanent, which causes you pain. If a flower wilts, you won't be overly sad because you know that flowers bloom and fade easily, and that things are inherently impermanent. However, you cannot accept the death of your beloved ones, so you are extremely grief-stricken. Impermanence is a good thing; every door is open to change, and we should not complain. If you understand the essence of things being impermanent, you will try your best to live each day happily, you will learn to cherish, become positive, compassionate, and wise.

24. 做人的根本在于诚信。言行一致，表里如一，方能赢得尊重和信任。注重修身养性，提升道德品质，才能在纷繁复杂的社会中坚守本心，不被利益和诱惑所迷惑。

24. The essence of being a person lies in integrity. Consistency between words and actions, and being true to oneself, is the way to earn respect and trust. By focusing on self-cultivation and improving one's moral character, one can stay true to one's heart amidst the complexities of society and not be deceived or lured by profits and temptations.

25. 迷时师度，悟时自度，只合自性自度。听法顿中渐，悟法渐中顿，修行顿中渐，证果渐中顿。

25. When lost, the teacher guides; when enlightened, self-guide. It is only fitting to self-guide with one's own nature. Listening to the Dharma can be both sudden and gradual; understanding the Dharma can be gradual and sudden; practicing the Dharma can be sudden and gradual; and attaining enlightenment can be gradual and sudden.

26. 衷心希望你成为不怕吃亏，时时有福，不断进步的人！

26. Sincerely hope you become a person who is not afraid to lose, always blessed, and continuously improves!

27. 第二，只有不害怕损失，我们才能获得克服困难、勇往直前的动力。如果你在思想上不怕损失，你就不会害怕困难。不要害怕困难，“总有比困难更多的方法”，你会不断提高克服困难的能力，进一步增强信心，成长自然会加速。

27. Secondly, only by not fearing loss can we gain the motivation to overcome difficulties and move forward courageously. If you are not afraid of loss in your thoughts, you will not be afraid of difficulties. Do not fear difficulties, for "there are always more ways than there are difficulties." You will continuously improve your ability to overcome difficulties, further strengthen your confidence, and natural growth will accelerate.

28. 比如，你刚刚工作，什么都不懂，同事把工作都丢给你，你可以去多做，多学点，等你学会了就要开始拒绝同事的要求，因为你的时间也很宝贵。

28. For example, when you just start working and know nothing, your colleagues may dump all the work on you. You can do more and learn more. But once you've learned, you should start to refuse your colleagues' requests, because your time is also very valuable.

29. 科学是一种强大的智慧的力量，它致力于破除禁锢着我的神秘的桎梏高尔基

29. Science is a powerful force of wisdom, dedicated to breaking the mysterious shackles that bind me, as Gorky said.

30. 女孩当然渴望有人爱，但你不要把力气使在讨男人欢心上，而在让自己可爱上。可爱是有内涵的，包括教养、气质、才华。你要做到即使没有人爱，仍能活得精彩和快乐，而越是这样就越会有人爱你。你不要把你的青春看作是对一个男人的等待，而要看作是你自己的成长，只要成长得好，天下有的是男人。——周国平

30. Of course, girls naturally long for someone to love, but don't put all your effort into pleasing men; instead, focus on becoming lovable. Lovability has depth, including breeding, temperament, and talent. You should strive to live a精彩 and happy life even if no one loves you, and the more you do so, the more people will fall in love with you. Don't view your youth as waiting for a man, but as your own growth. As long as you grow well, there are plenty of men in the world. — Zhou Guoping

31. 人生何其短暂，如流星之于夜空；人要拿得起，也要放得下。拿得起是生存，放得下是生活；拿得起是能力，放得下是智慧。有的人拿不起，也就无所谓放下；有的人拿得起，却放不下。拿不起，就会一事无成；放不下，就会疲惫不堪。

31. Life is so fleeting, like a shooting star in the night sky; one must be able to hold on and let go. Holding on is survival, letting go is living; holding on is ability, letting go is wisdom. Some people cannot hold on, so there is no need to talk about letting go; some people can hold on, but cannot let go. If one cannot hold on, they will accomplish nothing; if one cannot let go, they will be exhausted.

32. 拥有吃亏是福的智慧的人，懂得吃亏是主动的选择，从来不是无奈的接受。“无畏付出，但不无谓付出”是他的姿态。“如果有人“狗咬吕洞宾，不识好人心”，把他的愿意吃亏，当成好欺负，他一定会“揭竿而起”，绝不容许你越雷池半步，侵犯他的原则和底线。或许偶尔，他会像饭中的砂砾，硌得你生疼。如果可能，他会尽力让你消失在他的生活里。在他的字典里，没有人应该为了成全别人委曲求全。

32. A person who possesses the wisdom of "enduring loss for the greater good" understands that enduring loss is a conscious choice, never a forced acceptance. "Fearless in giving, but not in vain" is his attitude. "If someone treats him like Lü Dongbin being bitten by a dog, not recognizing his good intentions," and considers his willingness to endure loss as an opportunity to be bullied, he will certainly "rise up in rebellion," never allowing you to cross the line even a little, and never allowing you to infringe upon his principles and bottom line. Perhaps occasionally, he might be like an grain of sand in your meal, causing you great discomfort. If possible, he will do his best to make you disappear from his life. In his dictionary, no one should compromise and suffer for the sake of others.

33. 身强力壮的，固然是幸福；然而聪明智慧的，还要幸福数倍！克雷洛夫

33. To be strong and healthy is indeed happiness; however, to be wise and intelligent is even happier a hundredfold! - Krylov