掌握先事后原则，18条强者心态助你余生成就非凡！

Master the principle of "do first, then do well," and let these 18 strong attitudes help you achieve extraordinary success for the rest of your life!

1. ☆、想大声告诉你，往后余生，我的眼里，梦里，生活里全都是你。

1. ☆ I want to shout to you that from now on, in my eyes, dreams, and life, all there is is you.

2. 拥有一颗永不放弃的心，比拥有一颗钻石还要珍贵。

2. A heart that never gives up is more precious than a diamond.

3. 只要心是晴朗的，人生就没有雨天。人生的路，自己去书写 这一秒不放弃，下一秒就会有希望。。

3. As long as the heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life. The path of life is something you write yourself. As long as you don't give up in this second, there will be hope in the next second.

4. 19时间是最公平的，活一天就拥有24小时，差别只是珍惜。你若不相信努力和时光，时光一定第一个辜负你。有梦想就立刻行动，因为现在过的每一天，都是余生中最年轻的一天。

4. Time is the fairest, as it grants us 24 hours every day, the difference being in how we value it. If you don't believe in hard work and time, time will certainly be the first to let you down. If you have a dream, act on it immediately, because every day you live now is the youngest day of your remaining life.

5. 现实这么残酷，我们拿什么装无辜。你真正想要的东西总归要自己去争取的，只有自己才不会亏待自己。早安～新的一周，加油。

5. Life is so cruel, what do we use to pretend innocence? What you truly want must ultimately be fought for by yourself, because only you won't shortchange yourself. Good morning ~ A new week, keep up the good work.

6. 生活学会简单，做事大凡认真，思想纠于复杂，人才能在有限的人性光芒面前坐看命运的误差。

6. Life teaches simplicity, to be serious in matters, to indulge in complexity in thought, only then can one sit and observe the errors of fate in the limited light of human nature.

7. 就连我们普通人在职场上都普遍存在着焦虑的情绪，更何况是在竞争激烈的娱乐圈，她的压力可想而知。

7. Even ordinary people like us often experience anxiety in the workplace, let alone in the fiercely competitive entertainment industry, so her pressure can be imagined.

8. ☆、最幸福的，不过是最爱的人就在身边，两人有着光明的未来，祝福~

8. ☆ The happiest thing is having the one you love right beside you, and the two of you have a bright future. Wishes ~

9. ☆、很多时候委屈不需要用言语安慰，默默地陪伴，温暖的拥抱才最有力量

9. ☆ Often, the hurt doesn't need words of comfort; silent companionship and a warm embrace carry the most power.

10. ☆、我爱你，可爱也是有时限的，过了这段时间，我就会头也不回的走掉，虽然我爱你，可我也要做我自己

10. ☆ I love you, but love is time-bound. After this period, I will leave without looking back. Even though I love you, I also need to be myself.

11. 初恋之所以是最美好的，那是因为记忆对其进行了加工。一件往事经过 无数次的回忆，就会变成记忆的无限次乘方，而这其中也掺杂着我们对过去 的情感因素。逝去的事件往住在回忆中获得了一种当时并不具备的意义，这 就是时间的魔力。

11. The reason why the first love is the most beautiful is because the memory has processed it. An event, after being recalled countless times, becomes an infinite power of the memory, and this also involves our emotional factors towards the past. The past events often gain a meaning that was not present at the time through recollection, which is the magic of time.

12. 我试着让自己过的快乐，过得好，每每都被别人的好压得喘不过气来。

12. I try to make myself happy and live well, but every time, I am suffocated by others' goodness.

13. 我以为我具备你想要的样子，我们就会在一起很久很久，久到天荒，久到地老，直到看着你渐行渐远的背影我才知道，我只是你想要的类型，并不是想要到老的样子，我以为你没有我想要的样子，就是我真的能和你到老，原来我只是故意骗自己，只是不想留有一起能回忆起过去的痕迹。可是直到现在都在想我们这样到底累不累

13. I thought that I had the qualities you wanted, and that we would be together for a very long time, until the ends of the earth and the ends of time, until I saw you walking away in the distance and realized that I was just the type you desired, not the one you wanted to grow old with. I thought that if I didn't have the qualities you desired, it meant that I really could grow old with you. Little did I know that I was just deceiving myself, not wanting to leave behind any traces of our past together. But even now, I'm still wondering if it's tiring being together like this.

14. 我们可以把我们的财物、生命转借给我们的朋友，以满足他们的需要，但是，转让尊严之名，把自己的荣誉安在他人头上，这却是罕见的。

14. We can lend our possessions and life to our friends to meet their needs, but it is rare to transfer the name of dignity and place one's honor upon another's head.

15. ☆、没得到的都会念念不忘，但却忘了已经得到的，才最值得珍惜

15. ☆ The things we haven't obtained are often remembered with longing, yet we forget that the things we already have are the most worth cherishing.

16. 假如生活欺骗了你，不要悲伤，不要心急！忧郁的日子里需要镇静，相信快乐的日子将会来临，心永远向往着未来。因为：一切都是瞬息，一切都将会过去；而那过去了的，就会成为亲切的怀念。

16. If life has deceived you, do not grieve, do not be hasty! In the days of melancholy, one needs composure. Believe that happy days will come, and the heart always aspires towards the future. Because: Everything is fleeting, everything will pass; and what has passed will become a tender memory.

17. 他几乎每晚都会跟我说宝宝，晚安，我爱你，么么哒现在，我们已经分手快4个月了。以后再也没有人对我说晚安，叫我宝宝了。止于他。

17. He would almost say "baby, good night, I love you, kisses" to me every night. Now, it's been almost 4 months since we broke up. No one has said "good night" to me or called me "baby" since then. It all ended with him.

18. ☆、最开心的事情就是，我想着你的同时，你也在想我。刚打开对话框，就收到你的消息，眉眼带笑，你也是如此吧

18. ☆ The happiest thing is that while I am thinking of you, you are also thinking of me. Just as I opened the chat box, I received your message, and your eyes and eyebrows are smiling, aren't they?

19. 12在人生的征途上，越是泥泞的道路，留下的足迹越清晰；越是陡峭的山峰，看到的景致越美妙。世上没有平白无故的成功，所有的鲜花都是汗水浇灌而来。天道酬勤，一分耕耘未必有一分收获，但九分耕耘一定会有一分收获！

19. 12 On the journey of life, the clearer the prints left on the muddy paths, the more magnificent the scenery seen on the steep peaks. There is no success without cause in this world; all the flowers are nurtured by sweat. The heavens reward diligence, and it is not guaranteed that one's hard work will yield a proportional harvest, but surely, nine times the effort will bring one time the reward!

20. 15真正想要的东西，不只是踮踮脚尖那么简单，所有的收获，一定要全力以赴的努力才能争取。

20. The things that one truly desires are not as simple as just toe-dancing; all the gains must be achieved through wholehearted and relentless effort.

21. 每个人的一生中，总会有宠有辱的时候，一个有作为的年轻人就会有博大的胸怀。受辱心不惊，就能在恶劣的环境中，保持奋进的步伐，遇到挫折，受到打击也会心境开阔，沉着冷静，即使身受耻辱。只要意志坚强，就必能得最后的胜利。

21. In everyone's life, there will be times of favor and times of disgrace. A young person with ambition will have a vast heart. Unperturbed by disgrace, one can maintain a spirit of progress in adverse conditions, and even when faced with setbacks and blows, one's mind remains open and composed, even in the face of shame. As long as one's will is strong, one is bound to achieve the ultimate victory.

22. 其实不管是在工作还是生活中，不管是面对爱人、亲人，还是同事、朋友，我们都会产生各种不同的情绪。

22. In fact, whether at work or in life, whether facing our loved ones, family members, colleagues, or friends, we will experience a variety of different emotions.

23. 人这一辈子迷茫的时候很多，每次迷茫便是一次成长。

23. There are many times in one's life when one feels confused, and each moment of confusion is a time for growth.

24. 时间总伴随着一些故事的沉淀而突然想起，一次次将我的心冲击，我相信沉默可以弥补我一切的过去，于是都是深夜打开电脑淹没在无人的世界，或者消失在任何人的视线里，用心把笔墨洒脱在纸张里，把一些体会和感想用文字去寄托。-

24. Time always suddenly reminds me of some stories accumulated over time, each time overwhelming my heart. I believe that silence can make up for all my past, so I often turn on the computer in the dead of night, immersed in a world devoid of people, or disappear from anyone's sight, pouring my thoughts and feelings into the paper with my pen, using words to寄托 some insights and impressions.

25. 从迷茫到成功，再由成功到迷茫，这已经是我无法了解的一种循环了。

25. From confusion to success, and then from success back to confusion, this has already become a cycle that I cannot understand.

26. 希望也会带来失望，你找到了，可能他已经走在了别人的路途，彼此错过，留下失望的阴影--终生遗憾。

26. Hope can also bring disappointment. You may have found him, but he might already be on someone else's path, missing each other and leaving the shadow of disappointment--a lifelong regret.

27. 生命的广阔，不是跟合适的人相处得投机，而是与不堪的人周旋得从容。

27. The breadth of life is not about getting along well with the right people, but about dealing with the unworthy with composure.

28. 不是每一天都需要去拼命的奋斗，也不是每天都要反省昨天的过失；而是要在每一天都要清楚的明白，这一天过去了，便不再回来，那么岁月里也就永远的少了这一页。。

28. Not every day requires a relentless struggle, nor is it necessary to reflect on yesterday's mistakes every day; instead, one should clearly understand that once this day has passed, it will never return, and thus, a page will forever be missing from the pages of time.

29. 12总有一天，你会明白，你的委屈要自己消化，你的故事不用逢人就讲起，真正理解你的没有几个，大多人只会站在他们自己的立场，偷看你的笑话，你能做的就是，把委屈藏起来，然后一步一步变得越来越强大。

29. 12 One day, you will realize that you have to digest your grievances on your own, and you don't have to tell your story to everyone. There are only a few people who truly understand you; most people will only stand in their own perspective and secretly watch your comedy. What you can do is to hide your grievances and gradually become stronger step by step.

30. 10想要体面生活，又觉得打拼辛苦；想要健康身体，又无法坚持运动。人最失败的，莫过于对自己不负责任，连答应自己的事都办不到，又何必抱怨这个世界都和你作对？人生的道理很简单，你想要什么，就去付出足够的努力。

30. Wanting to live a decent life but feeling the toil of struggle; wanting a healthy body but unable to persist in exercise. The greatest failure for a person is to be irresponsible to oneself, unable to fulfill the promises one has made to oneself, so why complain that the world is against you? The truth of life is simple: if you want something, go and put in enough effort.

31. 4人生是坎坷的，人生是崎岖的。我坚信：在人生中只有曲线前进的快乐，没有直线上升的成功。只有珍惜今天，才会有美好的明天；只有把握住今天，才会有更辉煌的明天

31. Life is bumpy, life is rugged. I firmly believe that in life, there is only joy in making curves, not success in straight-line ascent. Only by cherishing today can there be a beautiful tomorrow; only by grasping today can there be an even more brilliant tomorrow.

32. ☆、遗憾的是他对我的过去一无所知，谢谢我喜欢他。我很开心他没有拒绝我，从此我们没有再打扰对方，每天进空间留个访客记录，不知道这样的日子还有多久，在生命的倒计时让我联系到他，感谢老天对我的眷恋！

32. ☆ Unfortunately, he knows nothing about my past, and I am grateful that I like him. I am happy that he did not reject me, and from then on, we have not disturbed each other anymore. Every day, I leave a visitor record on his space, not knowing how long such days will last. It was the countdown of life that allowed me to contact him, and I thank the heavens for their affection towards me!

33. 你真的介意真的在乎真的想要真的渴望的话，你一定能够做到的。什么事情都没有想象的那么难。但，每一天每一小时每一分钟都清醒的做到，这很难很难。决定命运的并不是天上掉下来的一个大大的机会，而是每一分钟里你做的一个微小的选择。所有的差别就只在那一分钟里。

33. If you really mind, care, want, and desire, you are definitely capable of it. Nothing is as difficult as it seems. However, it is incredibly difficult to remain清醒 every day, every hour, and every minute. What determines one's destiny is not a big opportunity that falls from the sky, but the tiny choices you make every minute. All the differences lie in that one minute.

34. 俗话说："吃一堑，长一智"，世界上"吃堑"的多了，有的长智了，有的却没长智。这是为什么呢？是因为没有让当事者为自己的错误承担责任。）

34. As the saying goes, "A fall teaches a person wisdom." In the world, there are many who have "fallen," and some have gained wisdom, while others have not. Why is that? It's because they have not made the parties involved take responsibility for their own mistakes.

35. 行走红尘，别被欲望左右迷失了方向，别被物质打败做了生活的奴隶，给心灵腾出一方空间，让那些够得着的幸福安全抵达，攥在自己手里，才是实实在在的幸福。

35. Amidst the hustle and bustle of life, do not let desires sway you and lose your direction. Do not let materialism conquer you and make you a slave to life. Make room in your heart, and let those attainable happinesses safely reach you, grasp them in your hands; that is the real and tangible happiness.

36. 教养决定一切啊，有修养的人多快乐！甚至别人觉得是牺牲和痛苦的事，他也会感到满意、快乐；他心随时都在欢跃，他有说不尽的欢乐。

36. Education determines everything; people with修养 are so happy! Even what others may think of as sacrifices and suffering, they feel content and joyful; their hearts are always full of joy, and they have endless happiness.

37. 十个月了，今天忍不住的进入你的空间，看到了你和他在一起的照片，那是由内到外的笑，那是幸福的模样

37. After ten months, I couldn't help but enter your space today, and I saw the photo of you and him together. It was a smile from the inside out, the look of happiness.

38. 6你无需告诉每个人，那一个个艰难的日子是如何熬过来的，大多数人都看你飞得高不高，很少人在意你飞得累不累。所以，做该做的事，走该走的路，不退缩，不动摇，无论多难，也要告诉自己再坚持一下，别让你配不上自己的野心，也辜负了曾经经历的一切。

38. 6 You don't need to tell everyone how you got through those tough days. Most people are concerned about how high you fly, while few care about how tired you are. So, do what you should do, take the path you should walk, don't retreat, don't waver, and no matter how difficult it is, tell yourself to hold on a little longer. Don't let your ambition fail you, nor let all that you have experienced be in vain.

39. 可无论是事业还是生活，面对那些挫折，她始终能够做到不惊不扰，不骄不躁，总是充满着别人少有的淡定和从容。

39. Whether it's in her career or in her personal life, she is always able to face setbacks without being startled or flustered, without showing off or getting restless. She is always filled with the rare composure and calmness that others lack.

40. 生是偶然，活是必然，生活不是易然。人在一生的向往面前，有时只是一叶草的语言。

40. Birth is accidental, life is inevitable, and living is not natural. In the face of one's aspirations throughout life, sometimes one is just the language of a blade of grass.

41. 这个世界上处处都存在着选择，但有选择，只是因为你还没有想好。如果你真的爱一个人，爱一件事情，就不会有选择，只会去做。因为你喜欢，哪怕是错了，你也会认。

41. Choices exist everywhere in this world, but when you have choices, it's just because you haven't made up your mind yet. If you truly love someone, or something, there will be no choices, you will just go ahead and do it. Because you like it, even if it's wrong, you will admit it.

42. 很多时候我们并不能体会别人的感受，即使体会到了，也无能为力，心情这个东西只有自己可以解决，每个人的灵魂都在自己的世界里，孤独地过冬。

42. Many times, we cannot understand others' feelings, and even if we do, we are helpless. Emotions are something that only one can resolve on their own. Each soul is in its own world, lonely through the winter.

43. 女人就应该自己独立 自己不独立谁管你啊 自己不心疼自己谁心疼你啊

43. A woman should be independent. If you're not independent, who will take care of you? If you don't cherish yourself, who will cherish you?

44. 一个女人，除了工作，还得照顾好家庭，但我从不吝啬自己，喜欢就买，这才是女人该有的生活状态。

44. A woman, besides work, also needs to take good care of the family, but I never hold back from myself; if I like something, I buy it. This is the kind of life that a woman should have.

45. ☆、孤独的时候想一个人没什么，热闹的时候想一个人，那就不同了

45. ☆, It's nothing to think of someone when you're alone, but it's different when you think of someone during lively times.

46. 深以为然。无论何时，都不让自己陷入慌乱之中，不让自己被情绪所操控，跟着自己的节奏走，才能逆袭翻盘，成为最后的强者。

46. I deeply agree with this. At any time, one must not allow themselves to be thrown into confusion, not let emotions control them, and walk according to their own rhythm. Only then can one turn the tide and become the ultimate winner.

47. 20人最大的对手，往往不是别人，而是自己的懒惰。别指望撞大运，运气不可能永远在你身上，任何时候都要靠本事吃饭。你必须拼尽全力，才有资格说自己的运气不好。

47. The biggest opponent for 20 people is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't expect to get lucky, luck will not always be with you. At any time, you must rely on your abilities to earn a living. You must give it your all before you can qualify to say that your luck is bad.

48. 正如小雅所说：哪有谁是天生的好心态，不过是懂得调整调整再调整。

48. As Xiao Ya said: Who is naturally good-hearted? It's just a matter of adjusting, adjusting, and adjusting again.

49. 一个人的精力有限，时间有限，在有生之年，把握住自己真正的志趣与才能所在，专一地做下去，才可能有所成就。不但要有魄力，而且要有判断力，摆脱其他外务的诱惑，不为一切名利权位等等虚荣而中途改道。这样，才能促成一个人事业的辉煌。

49. A person's energy and time are limited. In their lifetime, one must grasp their true passions and talents, and concentrate on pursuing them in order to achieve something significant. Not only must one have courage, but also discernment, to resist the allure of other distractions and not be swayed by the vanity of fame, wealth, power, and other titles in the middle of their journey. Only in this way can one foster a brilliant career.

50. 每一个普通的改变，都将改变普通。因为从决心变得更好那一刻开始，我们就已经与一个全新的自己不期而遇。

50. Every ordinary change will alter the ordinary. Because from the moment we decide to become better, we have unexpectedly encountered a brand new version of ourselves.

51. ☆、爱情里开心的事很多，却也无非是一些微不足道的小事，对相爱的人来说，真的很容易就能满足

51. ☆ In love, there are many joyful things, but they are all just trivial matters. For lovers, it's really easy to be satisfied.

52. 不可否认，伴随经济全球化，知识经济的发展，女性的人生舞台得到扩展，其修养意识、交际意识、家庭意识、成功意识迅速强化，她们渴望社会认可，发挥潜质；渴望魅力四射，展示自我；渴望独立进取，事业成功；渴望婚姻美满，人生幸福……

52. Undeniably, with the economic globalization and the development of the knowledge economy, women's life stage has been expanded. Their awareness of修养, communication, family, and success has been rapidly strengthened. They yearn for social recognition, to unleash their potential; to radiate charm, to showcase themselves; to strive independently and achieve career success; to have a happy marriage, and a fulfilling life...

53. 有些爱情 让彼此就像得了一场病痛 恰恰时间就像治愈这场病痛的良药 但是却还有后遗症 而你我就是彼此的后遗症 不知道哪天会复发 也不知道复发了会不会要了彼此的命 呵呵

53. Some love makes us feel as if we've both fallen ill, and just the right amount of time is like a medicine that cures this illness. However, there are still side effects, and you and I are the side effects. We don't know when these side effects might relapse, and neither do we know if the relapse might take our lives. Haha.

54. 漫漫长路，你愿一人独撑，忍受着孤独与寂寞，承受着体力与精神的压迫，只任汗水溶于泪水，可脚步却从不停歇。纵然得不了桂冠，可坚持的你，定会赢得最后的掌声。

54. On the long journey, would you choose to bear it alone, enduring loneliness and solitude, and suffering physical and mental oppression, allowing sweat to merge with tears, yet never ceasing your steps. Even if you do not win the laurel wreath, the persistent you will definitely earn the final applause.

55. ☆、暂时没有人疼也不需要及，要相信岁月让你等，是为了把更好的留给你

55. ☆, For the time being, no one is caring for you, nor is there a need for it. Believe that the years you are waiting for are meant to leave something better for you.

56. 18你选择了开始，就不要轻言放弃，用你足够的毅力和耐心去坚持。总有一天你会回眸一笑：原来我也这么优秀！

56. 18 Once you have chosen to start, do not lightly give up. Use your sufficient perseverance and patience to persist. Someday you will look back and smile: I never knew I was so excellent!

57. 少年时代，要有礼赞生命的感恩；青年时代，要有自觉信念的价值；壮年时代，要有活水源头的精进；老年时代，要有愉悦生活的平静。

57. In the youth, one should cultivate gratitude for life; in the prime of life, one should embrace the value of conscious beliefs; in middle age, one should strive with the vigor of a spring of living water; and in old age, one should enjoy the tranquility of a peaceful life.

58. 没想到她老公马上起身说：好嘞~老婆你过来坐着，这种粗活让我来！

58. Unexpectedly, her husband quickly got up and said: Alright~ Honey, come and sit down, let me do this rough work!

59. 当你每次告诉别人你做的到的时候，其实你心里是清楚的知道，你完成不了！别气垒！从现在开始，你要更努力努力再努力！

59. When you tell others that you can do it, deep down you know that you can't! Don't get discouraged! From now on, you need to work even harder, and harder, and harder!

60. 为了让听友们能够真正学会调节自我情绪，遇见更好的自己，拥有幸福美好的生活！

60. In order to enable listeners to truly learn to regulate their own emotions, meet a better version of themselves, and enjoy a happy and beautiful life!

61. 3许多事坚持坚持，就过来了。不要羡慕别人，不是每个人都那么完美，只是你没看到罢了。再苦再累，只要坚持往前走，属于你的风景终会出现。

61. 3 Keep pushing through, and many things will pass. Don't envy others, not everyone is that perfect, it's just that you haven't seen it. No matter how tough or exhausted you are, as long as you keep moving forward, the scenery that belongs to you will eventually appear.

62. 我的世界你曾来过，我很幸福，足已!时光，悄无声息地流逝，我带着美丽的心情行走……心，暖暖的。感谢你，在我的生命里与我相遇。而你我的相遇，是如此地美丽!我会珍藏着，这样的缘分!珍惜着，这样的幸福!

62. You have visited my world, and I am so happy, more than enough! Time, silently slipping away, I walk with a beautiful mood... My heart, warmly so. Thank you for meeting me in my life. And our meeting is so beautiful! I will cherish such a缘分! Treasure such happiness!

63. 幸福，是经营出来的。别人摘给你的果子，只能甜你一次，自己有本事摘到果子，才能甜一辈子。找上门的幸福不长久，可能它认错了门。得意时要看淡，失意时要看开。得意时，不忘形，宜淡然；失意时，不变形，宜泰然。成功时，不轻狂，宜超越；失败时，不灰心，宜立志。

63. Happiness is something that is cultivated. Fruits picked for you by others can only sweeten you once, but only by picking the fruits yourself can you enjoy sweetness for a lifetime. Happiness that comes to you on its own is not lasting; it might have come to the wrong door. In times of success, one should remain unpretentious; in times of failure, one should remain composed. When successful, do not become arrogant; instead, aim for transcendence. When defeated, do not lose heart; instead, set your resolve.

64. 最好的的爱情，我想就是，每天起床能看到你，不期待以后，只珍惜现在的你。

64. The best love, I think, is waking up every day to see you, without anticipating the future, just cherishing the present you.