1. 八十五、长大后才发现，有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实，所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。

1. At the age of 85, I realized that sometimes when you tell the truth, you still have to apologize to others because you have pierced through the facts. So, in order to live smoothly, always carry your brain with you.

2. 二十、懂得感恩，感谢帮助你的每一个人。

2. Twenty, be grateful and thank everyone who has helped you.

3. 三十五、你亦只有一个一生，不能慷慨赠予你不爱的人

3. Thirty-five, you also only have one life, and you cannot generously give it to someone you do not love.

4. 二、尚未成熟但已在途中

4. Second, not yet mature but already on its way

5. 五十九、当你能一个人默默消化掉，负面情绪的时候，你就真的长大了。

5. 59. When you can silently absorb negative emotions on your own, you have truly grown up.

6. 七十、长大成人最**的地方之一在于，你或许会变成自己曾经最看不起的那种人。

6. One of the most telling aspects of growing up and becoming an adult is that you might turn out to be the kind of person you once looked down upon the most.

7. 六十四、成长不就是踩着玻璃渣一点一点的走吗？应该磨掉棱角学会礼貌微笑了。

7. Sixty-fourth, isn't growth about walking one step at a time, stepping on glass shards? It's time to smooth off the sharp edges and learn to smile politely.

8. 五十三、我们必须成熟 没有那么多以后 没那么多将来给我们去赌

8. Fifty-three, we must mature. There isn't much time left for the future, and not much time for the future to bet on.

9. 五十六、我忽然间明白 即使身边有再多的朋友 路终究要自己走下去

9. Fifty-six, all of a sudden I realized that even if I have more friends around, the road in the end still has to be walked by myself.

10. 十九、你喜欢的最后不一定是你的 长大吧

10. Nineteen, the last one you like may not be the one for you; grow up, okay?

11. 十七、时间教会了我万事藏于心不表于情

11. XVII. Time has taught me to keep all things within my heart and not reveal them in my emotions.

12. 六十三、慢慢的长大了，慢慢的成熟了，慢慢的懂了有的人一辈子只能遇见一次

12. Sixty-three, as I grew older, I matured slowly, and slowly I understood that some people can only meet once in a lifetime.

13. 二十六、一个人成熟的标志，是学会原谅和宽容。

13. Twenty-six, a sign of a person's maturity is learning to forgive and tolerate.

14. 十二、所谓成熟就是学会放弃的过程。

14. Twelfth, what is called maturity is the process of learning to let go.

15. 二十三、我不像以前的我，我想要真实。自由。

15. 23. I am not the same as I used to be, I want to be real. Free.

16. 六十一、太多娇情找不到地方撒了，所以才会慢慢地看起来很成熟的样子。

16. Sixty-one, too much sentimentality has nowhere to be released, which is why it seems to mature slowly.

17. 四十三、路是自己选的，不论前方如何，只有自己去走完它。

17. Number 43: The road is chosen by oneself, no matter how the future may be, it is only oneself who can walk it to the end.

18. 八十、经历越多就越不想说话，环境的不同，想说的话别人未必能懂，也就慢慢学会了自己默默承受。

18. The more experiences one has, the less they want to talk. With different environments, the words one wants to say may not be understood by others, and one gradually learns to bear silently.

19. 七十九、有些事，没有人会指名道姓的告诉，是你的责任，但你已懂得承担，这大概是一种成熟的表现。

19. seventy-nine, Some things, no one will name specifically and tell you, but it is your responsibility. You have learned to take it on, and this is probably a sign of maturity.

20. 七十五、我学会了留长发学会笑不露齿学会认真的看着你的眼睛静静聆听也学会了从心底慢慢放下

20. 75. I've learned to grow long hair, to smile without showing my teeth, to look at your eyes seriously, to listen quietly, and also to slowly let go from the bottom of my heart.

21. 三十九、※ 经 历 一 些 事 ，看 透 某 些 人

21. Thirty-nine,※ Experience some things, see through some people

22. 十五、成熟不是心变老 而是装逼次数少?>

22. Fifteen, maturity is not that the heart grows old, but that the times of showing off decrease?

23. 二十四、拥有一颗无私的爱心，便拥有了一切。

23. Twenty-fourth, to possess a selfless loving heart is to possess everything.

24. 四十九、所有的人，一开始都一样，只是后来，慢慢变了模样。

24. Chapter 49: Initially, all people are the same, but later, they gradually change their appearance.

25. 二十二、在这个陌生的城市里，我学会了独立。

25. Twenty-second, in this unfamiliar city, I learned to be independent.

26. 四十六、不能贪心，贪心的话，连感知幸福的能力，都会失去。

26. Forty-six, do not be greedy. If you are greedy, you may even lose the ability to perceive happiness.

27. 三十二、每一发奋努力的背后，必有加倍的赏赐。

27. Thirty-second, behind every effort and endeavor, there will be a doubled reward.

28. 七十七、遥想起当年怎样怎样，我才发现原来我们已然长大，也有了所谓的曾经，也有了故事可讲。

28. seventy-seven, looking back on how things were back then, I realized that we have already grown up, and we have what is所谓的 "past," and we have stories to tell.

29. 三十六、友善地对待你讨厌的人，正是你成熟的表现。

29. Thirty-sixth, treating those you dislike with kindness is a sign of your maturity.

30. 二十九、叛逆，因为不成熟。成熟，因为有经历。

30. Twenty-nine, rebellion, because of immaturity. Maturity, because of experience.

31. 二十一、成熟就是，我现在想骂你，但我忍了

31. Twenty-one, maturity is that, right now I want to curse you, but I held back.

32. 四十一、总要笑到眼泪要掉下来，还越笑越大声、才懂成熟

32. Forty-one, you have to laugh until tears come out, and the louder you laugh, the more mature you become.

33. 五十、坚强的女人往往是情场败将，成熟的男人谁还没受过伤。

33. 50. Strong women often find themselves as losers in the love arena, and no mature man hasn't experienced hurt.

34. 十六、我还是和以前一样 只是换了方向

34. Sixteen, I am still the same as before, just changed the direction.

35. 四十、ぉ大槩是長大了，想用喜歡妳的力氣去讀書了。ゞ

35. Forty, it seems like I've grown up, and I want to use the strength I have for you to read books. ~

36. 六十八、自觉心是进步之母，自贱心是堕落之源，故自觉心不可无，自贱心不可有。

36. The sense of self-awareness is the mother of progress, while the sense of self-abasement is the source of decline. Therefore, the sense of self-awareness must not be absent, and the sense of self-abasement must not exist.

37. 三、渐渐成熟渐渐傲气全无

37. Three, gradually maturing and gradually losing all arrogance.

38. 八十一、随着年龄的增长，人总会变得越来越宽容，所以很多事情到最后并不是真的解决了，而是算了吧。

38. Eighty-one, as people grow older, they tend to become more tolerant. Therefore, many things are not really resolved in the end, but rather, it's best to let them go.

39. 五十八、借我一个暮年，借我碎片，借我瞻前与顾后，借我执拗如少年。

39. Fifty-eight, lend me my twilight years, lend me my fragments, lend me to look ahead and behind, lend me to be as stubborn as a young person.

40. 五十二、收起任性吧，你早就该看到他们佝偻的背和苍老的泪了。

40. Fifty-two, put away your任性 (stubbornness) already, you should have seen their hunched backs and their old tears long ago.

41. 四十五、随着年龄的增长，我们都会开始在意爱情以外的东西

41. 45. As we grow older, we all begin to care about things beyond love.