1. 出门前，记得照镜子，检查一下着装是否协调。如果时间太紧，建议睡觉前就选好第二天要穿的衣服。

1. Before you leave the house, remember to look in the mirror and check if your attire is coordinated. If you're in a hurry, it's recommended to choose the clothes you'll wear the next day before going to bed.

2. 如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。

2. If a man tells you that he likes you, believe him. If he says he no longer loves you, believe him too. At any time, remind yourself that the departure of someone who doesn't love you is a blessing.

3. 最少拥有五个以上可供不同颜色、款式衣服搭配的包，五双以上的鞋子。

3. Possess at least five bags that can be matched with different colors and styles of clothing, and more than five pairs of shoes.

4. 当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，你应该笑着对他说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。

4. When a man tells you, "Let's break up," please don't cry and shed tears. You should smile and say to him, "I've been waiting for you to say this for a long time." Then turn around and walk away.

5. 平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。

5. Treat your love and his love with equality and justice; if you step on many boats at the same time, you will eventually capsize.

6. 对你不情愿做的事情要大声说不。比如酒席上，轮到你喝酒，而你不善饮酒，可以以茶代酒，而非含恨饮醉。

6. Learn to say "no" loudly to things you are reluctant to do. For example, at a banquet, when it's your turn to drink, but you are not good at drinking, you can substitute tea for wine instead of reluctantly getting drunk.

7. 两个人的适配是一种内心感觉，而不是一种视觉，千万不要因满足视觉而忽视感觉。

7. Compatibility between two people is a matter of an inner feeling, not a visual one. Never neglect the feeling for the sake of satisfying the visual.

8. 生命像流水，这些不快的事总要过去，如果注定一辈子要这么过，再不开心也没有用。

8. Life is like flowing water, these unpleasant things will pass. If it's destined to live like this for a lifetime, then no amount of unhappiness will do any good.

9. 对于你不想交往的人送来的礼物，原封不动寄回去。这是原则问题。

9. If you receive a gift from someone you do not wish to interact with, send it back unopened. This is a matter of principle.

10. 如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。

10. If a man starts to treat you with indifference, please leave him. Don't cherish a man who doesn't cherish you, and it's not necessary to continue to give your affection and love.

11. 没有丑女人，只有懒女人。不愿意用时间来装扮自己的女人，请不要对其他的美丽女人心生嫉妒不满。

11. There are no ugly women, only lazy ones. Women who are unwilling to spend time on themselves should not feel envious or dissatisfied with other beautiful women.

12. 已去之事不可留，已逝之情不可恋，能留能恋，就没有今天。

12. What has passed cannot be retained, what has been lost cannot be cherished. If one can retain and cherish, there would be no today.

13. 不要24小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。

13. Do not miss the same person for 24 hours. Share a bit of your thoughts with family and friends.

14. 有固定的消遣场所，比如固定的咖啡馆、书店。让那个地方的服务生认识你，这样，你会在孤单时有个温暖的去处。

14. Have a fixed place for leisure, such as a regular cafe or bookstore. Get to know the staff there so that you'll have a warm place to go when you're feeling lonely.

15. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。

15. If you can express the grievances, they are not grievances; if you can take away the beloved, they are not loved ones.

16. 无论做什么，记得为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。

16. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, and there will be no complaints.

17. 如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。

17. If you decide to leave someone, act quickly, cut the Gordian knot; if you decide to fall in love with someone, take more time, make sure it's suitable for you.

18. 从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。

18. From now on, be a bit smarter. Don't ask him if he misses you or loves you. If he does miss you or love you, he will naturally tell you. But if you say it from your mouth, he will feel proud and indifferent towards you.

19. 爱那个爱你的人。如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你。趁早分开。女子不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。

19. Love the person who loves you. If it's only you who love him, or only he who loves you, it's best to separate early. A woman doesn't need someone to pretend to care for her, and you don't need to pretend to care for someone else.

20. 能够哭就好，哭是开始痊愈的象征。

20. Being able to cry is enough, as crying is a symbol of the beginning of healing.

21. 如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，学会自己欣赏风景。

21. If possible, hold hands with the one you love as you stroll. In the meantime, learn to appreciate the scenery on your own.

22. 找专人做色彩搭配建议。不要整天灰头灰脸，让自己灿烂点，别浪费青春和娇美身材。

22. Seek professional advice for color matching. Don't spend your whole day looking gloomy; let yourself shine, don't waste your youth and youthful figure.

23. 任何场合，保持应有的涵养。学会说谢谢、辛苦您、对不起。做错了事情要懂得道歉和改过。

23. At any occasion, maintain the appropriate demeanor. Learn to say "thank you," "you're welcome," and "I'm sorry." When you make a mistake, know how to apologize and make amends.

24. 口腔不要有异味。随身携带口气清新剂和补妆的物件。不要真的以为素面朝天是一种美。香口胶吃过后要用纸包起来丢弃垃圾桶。明白随地吐痰是不文明行为，厉行禁止。

24. Keep the mouth free from bad odors. Carry mouth fresheners and makeup touch-up items with you. Don't really think that going au naturel is a form of beauty. After chewing gum, wrap it in paper and dispose of it in the trash can. Understand that spitting on the ground is an uncivilized behavior and is strictly prohibited.

25. 不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。当然，偶尔傻一下有必要，人生不必时时聪明。

25. Do not torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, not eating, crying, being self-isolated, or being depressed; these are things that only foolish people do. Of course, it's necessary to be foolish once in a while, and life doesn't have to be smart all the time.

26. 任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。

26. At any time, do not grieve for a heartless man, and women especially should understand that sadness ultimately harms one's own heart. If that man is unfeeling, you can't hurt his heart either, so gather up your sorrow and live well.

27. 之前你放弃的人或者放弃你的人，深夜打电话给你，挂掉之后关机。如果他守在窗口，记得拉紧窗帘。不是你狠心，而是任何经历伤痛之后的分手都会有裂痕，修补得再好也无法还原。不如就让它过去。

27. The person you abandoned or the one who abandoned you calls you in the dead of night. Hang up and turn off your phone. If he stands by the window, remember to pull the curtains tight. It's not that you are heartless, but any breakup after experiencing pain will have cracks, and even if it is mended, it can never be还原. It's better to let it go.

28. 有自己的人生观和价值观。出现问题可以忍让并寻求解决，但是触及原则，要保持自己原则。丧失原则会让你失去生活的目的。

28. Have your own life philosophy and values. When problems arise, you can tolerate and seek solutions, but when it comes to principles, you must uphold your own principles. Losing principles will make you lose the purpose of your life.

29. 能不和人争吵尽量避免。一个发怒的人是很**的，会因控制不了情绪变成疯子。

29. It is best to avoid arguing with others whenever possible. An angry person is very unreasonable, and they may turn into a疯子 (crazy person) if they cannot control their emotions.

30. 无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻，两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。?>

30. No matter how luxurious the wedding, it does not represent a happy marriage. Whether two people live together harmoniously throughout their lives has nothing to do with how many banquets are held or how much jewelry is worn.

31. 结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。爱情……完全是另外一回事。

31. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that after love matures, it will naturally lead to marriage, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life, which is very simple for everyone to get married. Love... is a completely different matter.

32. 万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。

32. In case you happen to get drunk, do not call anyone, including your best friend and him.

33. 任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。如果一定要你说，说好话。

33. Under no circumstances should you speak ill of others behind their backs. If you must say something, say something good.

34. 做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。

34. Be a wise woman. Learn to face life with composure. Approach life positively, and it will surely turn out as you wish, just like tomorrow morning, the sun will still rise on time.

35. 无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

35. No matter what, a person's pretext for falling into decadence is always unworthy of forgiveness. The more unloved one is, the more one should love oneself.

36. 要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。

36. Believe in yourself, treat yourself well, and make your life colorful and exciting. Don't misunderstand that it's about making someone regret, but rather about making your own life more vibrant.

37. 生命从来不是公平的，得到多少，便要靠那个多少做到最好，努力的生活下去。

37. Life has never been fair; whatever one receives, one must strive to do the best with that much and live an earnest life.

38. 最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。

38. The best revenge is not hatred, but a coldness that comes from the heart. Why waste energy hating someone who has nothing to do with you.

39. 认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力的工作。

39. Take your work seriously. Work may not stir your heart as much as love does, but at least it guarantees you have food to eat and a place to live. Uncertain love cannot provide these things, so work hard and diligently.

40. 凡事想别人感激，那是必然要失望的。

40. To always expect others to be grateful is bound to lead to disappointment.

41. 真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多亦舒的生活照少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。

41. A truly elegant woman never brags about everything she owns. She doesn't tell people about the books she's read, the places she's been, how many stylish outfits she has, or the jewelry she's bought, because she has no sense of inferiority.

42. 我也想清楚了，婚姻根本就是那么一回事，再恋爱得轰动，三五年之后，也就烟消云散，下班后大家扭开电视一齐看长篇连续剧，人生是这样的。

42. I've also come to understand that marriage is just that, no big deal. No matter how glamorous a love affair may be, after three or five years, it all fades away. After work, everyone tunes in to watch long-running TV series together, and that's what life is like.

43. 穷是一种心态，你若一辈子坚持自己是穷人，拥有大量金钱也救不了你。

43. Poverty is a mindset; if you persist in seeing yourself as poor for a lifetime, having a large amount of money won't save you.

44. 人为感情烦恼永远是不值得原谅的，感情是奢侈品，有些人一辈子也没有恋爱过。恋爱与瓶花一样，不能保持永久生命。

44. Being troubled by artificial emotions is never worthy of forgiveness; emotions are luxuries, and some people never fall in love in their lifetime. Love, like bottled flowers, cannot maintain eternal life.

45. 不管是和谁约会见面，约定的时间之前一定要到达。

45. No matter who you are going on a date with, you must arrive on time before the agreed upon time.

46. 宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞就随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。

46. Better to be without than to have too much. Don't just grab a man out of loneliness; it's unfair to both of you and shows a lack of responsibility.

47. 若要生活愉快非得把自己先踩成一块地毯不可，否则总有人来替天行道，挫你的锐气，与其待别人动手，不如自己先打嘴巴，总之将本身毁谤得一钱不值，别人的气也就平了，也不妒忌了。

47. To live happily, one must first trample oneself into a carpet; otherwise, there will always be someone who steps in to do justice,挫磨掉你的锐气. It's better to slap oneself first than wait for others to do it. In the end, by destroying oneself with slander, one's value is diminished to nothing, and others' anger is also appeased, and they no longer feel envious.

48. 公共场所，给人行方便，特别是老人家。你也会老去，所以尊重老人就是尊重你以后的岁月。

48. In public places, be considerate to others, especially the elderly. You will also grow old, so respecting the elderly is respecting your future years.

49. 如此情深，却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人，内心酸涩，反而会说不出话来，甜言蜜语，多数说给不相干的人听。

49. So deeply in love, yet it's hard to put into words. It turns out that if you truly love someone, the bitterness in your heart makes it difficult to speak, and sweet nothings are often said to those who are not involved.

50. 如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔（后悔的是对方，呵呵）。

50. If you like someone, tell them if it's allowed. You might not get an answer, but at least you've made an effort, and you won't regret it in the future (the regret will be on the other person, hahaha).

51. 如果没有人陪，学着一个人听音乐看书写文字。这是个好习惯。

51. If there's no one to accompany you, learn to listen to music, read books, and write. It's a good habit.

52. 做一个女人要做得像一副画，不要做一件衣裳，被男人试完了又试，却没人买，试残了旧了，五折抛售还有困难。

52. To be a woman is to be like a painting, not like a garment that is tried and tried by men, yet no one wants to buy, worn out and old, and it's even difficult to sell at half price.

53. 相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。

53. Believe in love at first sight, believe that there will always be someone waiting for you quietly at the corner of time. Just be sure to keep your eyes sharp and look carefully.

54. 如果爱一个人，千万不要与他同居或是结婚。维持一个辽阔的距离，偶遇，可以爱慕的目光致敬，轻俏温柔，不着边际地问："好吗？"一年一次已经足够。

54. If you love someone, never live with them or marry them. Maintain a vast distance, meet by chance, pay homage with adoring eyes, be light and gentle, and casually ask, "Are you all right?" Once a year is more than enough.

55. 我的归宿就是健康与才干，一个人终究可以信赖的，不过是他自己，能够为他扬眉吐气的也是他自己，我要什么归宿？我已找回我自己，我就是我的归宿。

55. My destination is health and talent; in the end, the only person one can truly rely on is oneself, and the only one who can make oneself proud is also oneself. What kind of destination do I seek? I have found myself again, and I am my own destination.

56. 晚上早点回家，自己没有车，超过十点要打的士，或者让人来接。

56. Go home early at night. Since I don't have a car, I need to take a taxi after 10 PM or have someone pick me up.

57. 不管和谁有了矛盾和别扭，解决的时间不要超过24小时。否则麻烦会更多。在可以接受的范围内，先道歉。让自己做做坏人不是件真的坏事。

57. No matter who you have conflicts or disagreements with, the time to resolve them should not exceed 24 hours. Otherwise, more troubles will arise. Within the acceptable range, apologize first. Letting yourself be the bad guy is not really a bad thing.

58. 购买物件可以讨价还价，但如果对方不小心多找了你钱，要退回去。不要因贪小失去了做人的意义。

58. Items for purchase can be negotiated, but if the other party mistakenly gives you too much change, you should return it. Do not lose the meaning of being a person for the sake of small gains.

59. 要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐，一不抱怨，二不解释，绝对是个人才。

59. To live beautifully, one needs to show great patience - neither complaining nor explaining, which is truly a talent.

60. 永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧会勒死他的。

60. Never endlessly circle around the man you like. Even if you like him to the point where you're about to pour out your heart and soul, you still need to learn to give him some space. Otherwise, be careful not to wrap yourself too tightly around him, as it might strangle him.

61. 对于不想交往的人，不要应邀去吃饭喝咖啡，哪怕只是一块钱。没有后续发展和希望的交往，会浪费人家的钱和感情，这叫贪图享乐。贪慕虚荣的女子会让人瞧不起。如果实在碍于朋友介绍的情面挪不开，记得AA制。

61. For those who do not wish to interact, do not accept invitations to dine or drink coffee, even if it's just for a dollar. Interactions without further development or hope can waste others' money and feelings, which is called seeking pleasure at the expense of others. Women who are overly vain will be looked down upon. If you are unable to refuse due to the face-saving nature of a friend's introduction, remember to split the bill equally.

62. 一个人去看电影。买爆米花和可乐，笑翻天。或者，泪流满面。如果你喜欢体育，去看足球，哭死也没人管你，但是很轻松和畅快。

62. A person goes to see a movie. Buys popcorn and cola, laughs till they can't stop. Or, cries their eyes out. If you like sports, go watch football; no one will care if you cry, but it's very relaxing and enjoyable.

63. 你大概误会大学文凭是世界之匙，开启顺风顺水之门，这并不正确。读书目的是进修学问，拓阔胸襟。人生所有烦恼会不多不少永远追随，只不过学识涵养可以使一个人更加理智冷静地分析处理这些难题而已。

63. You may have misunderstood that a university degree is the key to the world, opening the door to smooth sailing, which is not correct. The purpose of studying is to further one's knowledge and broaden one's horizons. All the troubles in life will follow you without exception, but knowledge and cultivation can make a person more rational and calm in analyzing and dealing with these difficulties.

64. 对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关你的事。

64. Be firm in saying no or refusing to the attentions and concern of a suitor you do not like. Even if he says: "It's none of your business."