1. 女人的美：在容貌，在气质；女人的可爱：在爱心，在智慧。这些东西中，小女孩真正有优势的只有容貌一项。

1. The beauty of a woman lies in her appearance and temperament; the loveliness of a woman lies in her kindness and wisdom. Among these, the only advantage that a little girl truly has is her appearance.

2. 闲情时候自己煮花茶喝或者做茶点吃，放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。

2. In leisure moments, brew a flower tea to drink or prepare some tea snacks to eat. Play some soft music, flip through a few pages of a good book, and then take a leisurely nap. How delightful!

3. 亲爱的自己，全世界只有一个你，就算没有人懂得欣赏，你也要好好爱自己。

3. Darling you, there is only one you in the whole world. Even if no one appreciates you, you should love yourself well.

4. 不管别人怎样否认你，你只需要做好自己份内的事情，将它做好做完，不要在乎过程，只需看结果。

4. No matter how others deny you, you just need to do your own job well, finish it thoroughly, don't care about the process, just focus on the result.

5. 女人可以貌不出众，可以平淡无奇，可以资质愚钝，甚至可以没多少气质，但是不可以没有教养。

5. A woman may not be strikingly beautiful, may be ordinary, may be intellectually slow, and even may lack much temperament, but she cannot lack breeding.

6. 不多谈理想，也藏好了野心，只做好自己本职工作，却常常带来惊喜。

6. Not talking much about ideals and hiding ambitions, just focusing on doing your own job well often brings surprises.

7. 一个女人，如果对于自己得形象懈怠了、放松了，邋遢了，那么她得魅力也就减弱了。

7. A woman, if she becomes lazy, relaxed, and untidy about her appearance, then her charm will also diminish.

8. 取悦男人不如取悦自己。只取悦自己的女人注定可以倾倒世人。

8. Pleasing men is not as good as pleasing oneself. Women who only please themselves are destined to captivate the world.

9. 对你最好的那个人，换句话说，也就是最好欺负的人。天下间的女人，总是最会欺负对她最好的那个男人。

9. The person who is best to you, in other words, the easiest to mistreat. Among all the women in the world, they are always the best at mistreating the man who is best to them.

10. 每个人都不需要跟别人一样，只要做好自己的事，做大自己就行了。

10. Everyone does not need to be the same as others; just do your own thing and grow yourself.

11. 善良的女生，才会在分手后，仍然告诉孩子那个男生是他的父亲，而不是仇人。

11. It is only a kind-hearted girl who would still tell the child that the boy is his father after breaking up, rather than an enemy.

12. 这世间人如此之多，若每个人都要在意，活着就没有了自己。现在，我只需做好自己，便够了。

12. There are so many people in this world, if one has to care about everyone, there would be no self left in living. Now, as long as I do well in myself, that is enough.

13. 这是一个两分钟的世界，第一分钟让别人注意到你，第二分钟让别人喜欢你。

13. This is a two-minute world: the first minute is to catch others' attention, and the second minute is to make them like you.

14. 再郁闷也不要去泡酒吧。一个孤独的女子手握高脚杯或者抽烟，会更添寂寞感与忧伤。

14. Don't go to a bar even if you feel depressed. A lonely woman holding a stemmed glass or smoking will only add to her sense of loneliness and sadness.

15. 万一不小心喝醉了酒，不要打电话给任何人，包括死党和他。

15. If by any chance you get drunk, do not call anyone, including your best friend and him.

16. 抓住男人的不二法门，应该就是，永远不要让他满足。

16. The ultimate key to attracting men is to never let them feel satisfied.

17. 爱自己可以让女人优化自我，从而使自己更加完美。

17. Loving oneself allows women to optimize themselves, thus making themselves more perfect.

18. 只有爱自己的女人，才有能力去爱别人，让我好好的爱自己吧！

18. Only a woman who loves herself is capable of loving others, let me love myself well!

19. 只有先认识自己，才能做好自己；只有先成就自己，才能点亮别人。

19. Only by first knowing oneself can one do oneself well; only by first achieving oneself can one illuminate others.

20. 时有：从今以后我要为自己活，好好的爱自己，因为这个世界上谁会比我更爱自己。

20. Sometimes: From now on, I will live for myself, love myself properly, because who in this world will love themselves more than I do?

21. 与生俱来的漂亮不漂亮只是上苍考验女人的方式。

21. Whether one is born beautiful or not is just a way for the heavens to test women.

22. 爱自己的女人一定要有宽容的心，有人惹你了，就在心里默默的说三遍，不要用别人的错误来惩罚自己。

22. A woman who loves herself must have a forgiving heart. When someone offends you, silently say to yourself three times, don't punish yourself with others' mistakes.

23. 偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。

23. Sometimes I sing to myself, and it doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, as long as I feel cheerful.

24. 有很多人说，头发乱了，可以整理，衣服旧了可以买套新的，皮肤不好可以换吗？

24. Many people say, if your hair is messy, you can fix it; if your clothes are old, you can buy a new set; but can you change your skin if it's not good?

25. 如果可以不抽烟，别抽。如果可以不喝酒，别喝。

25. If you can avoid smoking, don't smoke. If you can avoid drinking, don't drink.

26. 分手时，不哭。当然，不是要你一点都不哭。当着面，别哭，背地里，往死里哭。

26. Don't cry when you break up. Of course, I'm not saying you shouldn't cry at all. Don't cry in front of them, but cry your heart out in secret.

27. 既然自己已经习惯了不爱自己，那就找个人来爱自己；既然没有人来爱自己，那就自己学会爱自己。

27. Since one has become accustomed to not loving oneself, find someone to love you; if no one comes to love you, then learn to love oneself.

28. 如果我们责怪爱情伤害勒我们，那请问，开始的时候是不是你点头答应爱情的来临。

28. If we blame love for hurting us, then please ask, wasn't it you who nodded and agreed to the arrival of love at the beginning?

29. 正是因为没有人爱你所以要自己爱自己。这大概就是悲哀吧，值得庆幸的是至少我还有自己。

29. It's precisely because no one loves you that you should love yourself. This is probably what sadness is all about, and幸亏at least I still have myself.

30. 爱自己不仅仅是自我欣赏，也是一种自我提高。

30. Loving oneself is not just about self-appreciation; it is also a form of self-improvement.

31. 俗女总有俗女的可爱，雅气太过，市场前景总不可观。

31. Common women always have their own charm. If they are too refined, the market prospects will always be grim.

32. 表面不是本质偶尔更不是经常我还有梦想我只做好自己总有一天我会让你仰头看我。

32. Surface is not essence, occasionally not even often; I still have dreams. I only do my best, and one day, I will make you look up to me.

33. 脸是自己给的，并不是向他人要的，只有做好自己才能给自己长脸。

33. The face is given to oneself, not demanded from others. Only by doing well oneself can one gain face for oneself.

34. 说自己的话，做自己的事，做好自己便是成功。只要每日比前日好就是幸福。

34. Speak your own words, do your own things, and do well in yourself is success. As long as you are better each day than the previous one, that is happiness.

35. 还有人说女人是水做的，需要水的滋养才能生长得更加茂盛。

35. Some people even say that women are made of water, and they need to be nourished by water to grow more lushly.

36. 有的事情，没法说明。你觉得值，就值，你觉得不值，别人说值，你也觉得不值。

36. There are some things that cannot be explained. If you think it's valuable, it is; if you think it's not, and others say it's valuable, you still think it's not.

37. 人都是思变的动物，天仙美眷也留不住完整一世的爱！

37. Humans are animals of thought and change; even the divine and beautiful partners cannot retain a complete and lasting love in this world!

38. 不要和男人动手。第一，你动不过他；第二，和你动手的男人一定是个疯子。所以，不如不动。

38. Don't resort to physical violence with men. First, you won't be able to match him; second, a man who resorts to physical violence with you must be a疯子(crazy person). So, it's better not to resort to it.

39. 我只想静静的做好自己，不需要什么掩饰，也不需要太多的做作，自己就是自己。

39. I just want to quietly do my own thing, without any need for concealment, nor do I require too much pretense. I am myself.

40. 女人，不要记性太好。回忆越多的女人幸福越少。

40. Women, don't have a good memory. The more memories you have, the less happiness you will have.

41. 不要学人搓麻将。折磨身心的事情不要做。

41. Do not imitate others in playing Mahjong. Avoid doing things that torment both the body and the mind.

42. 如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。

42. If you send a short message to the person you like and they don't reply, don't send any more.

43. 人永远是寂寞而自我的生物。无论多么真诚的说出自己的爱，也总会有无法被理解的心情。

43. Humans are always lonely and self-centered beings. No matter how sincerely one expresses one's love, there will always be feelings that cannot be understood.

44. 要穿高跟鞋，但是不要高的太过分。

44. Wear high heels, but not too high.

45. 都说女人是一朵娇艳的花，需要男人的宠爱和呵护才能生长得更加妩媚动人。

45. It is said that women are a blossoming flower, needing the pampering and care of men to grow more charming and enchanting.

46. 男人没有你想象的那样好，可以真爱，但不要深爱，在爱情里为自己留个退路，否则受伤时会措手不及。

46. Men aren't as good as you imagine; they can have true love, but don't love deeply. Keep a way out for yourself in love, otherwise you'll be caught off guard when you get hurt.

47. 现代社会不仅男人喜欢看美女，连美女都喜欢看美女，你喜欢看美女吗？

47. In modern society, not only do men like to look at beautiful women, but beautiful women themselves also like to look at beautiful women. Do you like to look at beautiful women?

48. 其实女人不是不懂事。只是。她需要碰上一个懂事的男人。其实。情侣之间。是可以互相的。

48. In fact, women are not naive. It's just that they need to meet a mature man. In fact, between couples, there can be mutual understanding.

49. 不要在意别人的看法，用心做好自己该做的事情就好，只有改变自己的心境，才能改变人生的高度。

49. Don't worry about what others think; just focus on doing what you should. Only by changing your mindset can you change the height of your life.

50. 只有不成熟的男人，永远没有不成熟的女人。

50. Only immature men, never immature women.

51. 不拼爹，不拼命，不攀比，不强求，不轻信，不模仿，只做好自己。

51. Don't rely on one's father, don't risk one's life, don't compare, don't push too hard, don't believe blindly, don't imitate, just do your best.

52. 每天打扮的优雅从容出门，给自己带上不同的笑容。

52. Go out every day dressed elegantly and composed, bringing with you different smiles.

53. 只要你能把自己的事做好，并让自己快乐着，你就领先于大多数人了。

53. As long as you can do your own things well and be happy with yourself, you are ahead of most people.

54. 爱自己的女人要懂得取悦自己。一朵鲜花，一件时装，一本好看的书，都可让自己的心雀跃一下。

54. A woman who loves herself should know how to please herself. A flower, a piece of fashionable clothing, or a good book can all make one's heart leap with joy.

55. 男人没有事业时担心女人会背叛自己，有了事业后怕女人爱上的不是自己。

55. When a man has no career, he worries that women will betray him; when he has a career, he fears that the woman in love with him is not himself.

56. 如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。

56. If a man starts to take you for granted, please leave him. Don't hold on to a man who doesn't cherish you, and there's no need to continue giving your affection and love.

57. 爱自己的女人要学会为自己解脱。就算想一个人要哭，还是要对自己说有个人让你思念真好。

57. A woman who loves herself should learn to free herself. Even if you want to cry for someone, you still need to tell yourself that it's really nice to have someone to miss.

58. 出门前，记得照镜子，检查一下着装是否协调。如果时间太紧，建议睡觉前就选好第二天要穿的衣服。

58. Before leaving the house, remember to check yourself in the mirror and ensure that your attire is coordinated. If you're in a hurry, it's recommended to choose the clothes you'll wear the next day before going to bed.

59. 女人的世界是丰富多彩的世界，没有女人的世界是缺乏活力的世界。

59. The world of women is a colorful and rich world; a world without women is a lackluster one.

60. 聪明的女人一定要学会为自己保密，不让自己有机会成为别人的话柄，这是超级爱自己的表现。

60. A smart woman must learn to keep secrets for herself, not giving others an opportunity to use her as a topic of conversation. This is an expression of super self-love.

61. 爱自己的女人一定要有三五个知己，可以是红颜，也可以是蓝颜。

61. A woman who loves herself must have three or five close friends, who can be either a beauty or a blue friend.

62. 有人说女人如水，有水的坚韧，有水的清灵，有水的温柔，有水的宁静。

62. Some say that women are like water, with the tenacity of water, the clarity of water, the gentleness of water, and the tranquility of water.

63. 实践证明，女生即使愿意和你上床，也会找一万个理由假意推脱，或者找两万个理由轻易说服自我。

63. Practice has proven that even if a girl is willing to sleep with you, she will find ten thousand reasons to pretend to refuse, or twenty thousand reasons to easily convince herself.

64. 男人总在知道女人爱自己之后毫不犹豫的放手，所以女人要学会自己独立，自己坚强，自己舔伤口。

64. Men always let go without hesitation after they know that women love them, so women need to learn to be independent, strong, and to heal their own wounds.

65. 每天打扮的优雅从容出门，给自己带上不同的笑容。女子25岁后，要学会保养自己的皮肤。

65. Go out every day dressed elegantly and composed, and wear a different smile for yourself. After the age of 25, women should learn to take care of their skin.

66. 对善意欣赏你的男子回报浅浅的微笑。

66. Return a faint smile to the man who appreciates you with good will.

67. 孤单的时候找好朋友聊天逛街吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。

67. When you're feeling lonely, chat with good friends, go shopping, and have meals. Don't let solitude engulf yourself.

68. 恋爱中的女孩子常犯的一个错误：把分手当成是索要爱的手段！

68. A common mistake made by girls in love: treating a breakup as a means to demand love!

69. 不要贪慕虚荣。虚荣是一剂毒药，而且会上瘾。

69. Do not be envious of others' glory. Vanity is a poison that can be addictive.

70. 心里能装着一些时间带不走的淡淡悲伤，也是一种幸福。

70. It is also a form of happiness to carry some faint sadness that time cannot wash away in one's heart.

71. 当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。

71. When a man tells you, "Let's break up," please don't cry or shed tears. Instead, smile and say, "I've been waiting for you to say this for a long time." Then turn around and walk away.

72. 自己？如何定义！一个躯壳一个有机体还是碳基生物为何要做好自己！只要别人认可不就足够了吗。

72. Ourselves? How to define! Is it a shell, an organism, or a carbon-based life form? Why should one strive to be 'themselves'! Isn't it enough if others recognize you?

73. 偶尔做美女私房菜给他或者老友吃。但不要天天做，你生来不是为了某个人天天下厨房。

73. Occasionally prepare some exclusive dishes for him or your old friends to enjoy. But don't do it every day; you were not born to spend every day in the kitchen for just one person.

74. 晚上早点回家，自己没有车，超过十点要打的士，或者让人来接。

74. Go home early at night. Since I don't have a car, I need to take a taxi after 10 PM, or have someone pick me up.

75. 已经错失的好男人不要去后悔，他们不属于你，于是你要睁大眼睛再找一个。

75. Don't regret missing out on good men; they don't belong to you, so you should keep your eyes open to find another one.

76. 在爱情面前，女人的架子不要摆得太低，死缠着一个拒绝过你的男人，只会增加他心底对你的轻视。

76. In the face of love, women should not bow too low; stubbornly pursuing a man who has rejected you will only increase his underlying disdain for you.

77. 女子岁后，要学会保养自己的皮肤。

77. After the age of 30, women should learn to take care of their skin.

78. 爱自已还能提升品位和气质，让自己在众人面前表现出更加强大的自己。

78. Loving oneself can also enhance one's taste and temperament, allowing one to present a stronger version of oneself in the presence of others.

79. 女人有百千回妩媚，亿万次风情。而女人无论是哪一种美丽都源于女人对自己的爱。

79. A woman has a thousand and one times of charm, and ten billion times of allure. And no matter which kind of beauty a woman possesses, it all originates from her love for herself.

80. 即使你不做美容也要到美容院坐坐，那里是女人俱乐部，女人们在此交流着种种生活经验，保养秘诀。

80. Even if you don't get a beauty treatment, you should still visit the beauty salon, as it is a women's club where women exchange various life experiences and beauty secrets.

81. 当爱情一点点侵占你的生命，请你，千万别忘记，留一点爱，给自己。

81. As love slowly takes over your life, please remember, don't forget to leave a little love for yourself.