1. 侈而惰者贫，而力而俭者富。 —— 韩非

1. The extravagant and lazy are poor, while the industrious and thrifty are wealthy. —— Han Fei

2. 不念居安思危，戒奢以俭；斯以伐根而求木茂，塞源而欲流长也。 —— 魏徵

2. Not to ponder dangers when living in peace and to戒 luxurious spending with frugality; this is akin to uprooting a tree and seeking its growth, or stopping the source and desiring the stream to be long. —— Wei Zheng

3. 不会宽容人的人，是不配受到别人的宽容的--贝尔奈47 海纳百川有容乃大，山高万仞无欲则刚。——林则徐48 度尽劫波兄弟在，相逢一笑泯恩仇。

3. A person who cannot tolerate others is not worthy of others' tolerance -- Bairen 47. To embrace the sea, vastness is necessary; to stand tall among mountains, there must be no desire -- Lin Zexu 48. After enduring all hardships, brothers meet again, and a smile can wipe away all past grievances.

4. 有两种和平的暴力，那就是法律和礼貌。--德歌德

4. There are two forms of peaceful violence, namely law and politeness. -- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

5. 拥有一颗豁达开朗文明之心，能使平凡黯然的生活变得有滋有味。

5. Possessing a broad, open, and civilized heart can make a mundane and dull life become more flavorful and enjoyable.

6. 一个人如果对陌生人亲切而有礼貌，那他一定是一位真诚而富有同情心的好人，他的心常和别人的心联系在一起，而不是孤立的。 ---培根 有一种内在的礼貌，它是同爱联系在一起的，它会在行为的外表上产生出最令人愉快的礼貌 --[德]歌德 有礼貌不一定是智慧的标志，可是不礼貌总使人怀疑其愚蠢。

6. If a person is kind and polite to strangers, he must be an honest and compassionate good man, whose heart is often connected with others', rather than isolated. --- Bacon There is an inherent politeness, which is connected with love, and it will produce the most pleasant politeness on the surface of behavior. --- [German] Goethe Politeness is not necessarily a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always makes people suspect foolishness.

7. 不患位之不尊，而患德之不崇；不耻禄之不伙，而耻智之不博。 —— 张衡

7. Do not worry about the position not being respected, but worry about the virtue not being honored; do not feel ashamed of the salary not being generous, but be ashamed of the wisdom not being broad. —— Zhang Heng

8. —— 约翰·洛克 礼貌使有礼貌的人喜悦，也使那些受人以礼貌相待的人们喜悦。 —— 孟德斯鸠。

8. —— John Locke: Politeness makes the polite person happy, and also makes those who are treated with politeness happy. —— Montesquieu.

9. 打人伤了手，骂人脏了口。

9. Hitting someone injures your hand, cursing someone soils your mouth.

10. 礼貌周全不花钱，却比什么都值钱。--西班牙塞万提斯

10. Politeness costs nothing but is more valuable than anything else. -- Miguel de Cervantes, Spain

11. —— 冈察尔 ▲ 脾蜜蜂从花中啜蜜，离开时营营的道谢。浮夸的蝴蝶却相信花是应该向他道谢的。

11. —— Gangchal▲ The脾bees sip nectar from the flowers and hum with gratitude as they leave. The pompous butterfly, however, believes that the flowers should be thanking him.

12. 无力助人语：抱歉；实在对不起；请原谅。 此外，要待人有礼，就要说话文雅，不用粗野庸俗甚到下流的词语。

12. Apologies for being unable to help: Sorry; I'm really sorry; Please forgive me. Moreover, to treat others with respect, one should speak elegantly and avoid using coarse, vulgar, or even obscene language.

13. 对不起，我们这里没有这位同志，您是不是打错（电话）了？

13. Sorry, we don't have this comrade here. Are you perhaps mistaken (about the phone number)?

14. ——《晏子春秋》 ▲ 在宴席上最让人开胃的就是主人的礼节。——莎士比亚 转自《中华励志网》 。

14. —— "The most appetizing thing at a banquet is the host's etiquette." — Shakespeare, as quoted from "Zhonghua Lizi Wang" (Chinese Inspirational Website).▲

15. —— 卢梭 ▲ 礼貌使人类共处的金钥匙。 —— 松苏内吉 ▲ 讲话气势汹汹，未必就是言之有理。

15. —— Rousseau▲ Politeness is the golden key to the coexistence of humans. —— Sosunegi▲ A forceful tone in speech does not necessarily mean that the words are reasonable.

16. 生命因你而美丽，世界因我而精彩，村庄因文明而美好！

16. Life is beautiful because of you, the world is wonderful because of me, and the village is lovely because of civilization!

17. 礼貌像只气垫，里面什么也没有，却能奇妙地减少颠簸。--约翰逊

17. Politeness is like a shock absorber, containing nothing inside yet wonderfully reducing jarring. -- Johnson

18. 礼貌是儿童与青年所应该特别小心地养成习惯的第一件大事。

18. Politeness is the first major habit that children and young people should particularly be careful to cultivate.

19. 君子多欲则念慕富贵，枉道速祸。 —— 司马光15 善气迎人，亲如弟兄；恶气迎人，害于戈兵。

19. If a gentleman has many desires, he will be envious of wealth and status, and will be heading for disaster by taking wrong paths. — Sima Guang 15. Greet people with good will and they will be as close as brothers; greet them with ill will and it will be as harmful as wielding weapons.

20. 生活里最重要的是有礼貌，它比最高的智慧，比一切学识都重要。--俄赫尔岑

20. The most important thing in life is politeness; it is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. -- Alexander Herzen

21. 天下有大勇者，猝然临之而不惊，不故加之而不怒。 —— 苏轼

21. There are brave people in the world who, when faced with an unexpected situation, do not get startled, and when they are insulted without cause, they do not become angry. — Su Shi

22. “程门立雪”说的是宋代学者杨时和游酢向程颢、程颐拜师求教的事。杨时、游酢二人，原先以程颢为师，程颢去世后，他们都已四十岁，而且已考上了进士，然而他们还要去找程颐继续求学。故事就发生在他们初次到嵩阳书院，登门拜见程颐的那天。

22. "Standing in the Snow in Cheng's Gate" refers to the story of the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Zhang seeking to become students of Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi. Yang Shi and You Zhang were originally students of Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were already in their forties and had already passed the imperial examination to become jinshi, yet they still sought to study under Cheng Yi. The story occurred on the day of their first visit to Songyang Academy, when they came to拜 see Cheng Yi.

23. 侈则多欲。君子多欲则念慕富贵，枉道速祸。 —— 司马光

23. Excess leads to many desires. A gentleman with many desires will yearn for wealth and status, and will take a wrong path, leading to rapid misfortune. —— Sima Guang

24. 礼貌是一种回收有礼貌的尊重的愿望。

24. Politeness is a desire to recycle polite respect.

25. 礼义生于富足，盗窃起于贫穷。

25. Good manners arise from abundance, and theft originates from poverty.

26. —— 松苏内吉 讲话气势汹汹，未必就是言之有理。 —— 萨迪 礼貌是儿童与青年所应该特别小心地养成习惯的第一件大事。

26. —— Song Suonei's speech was fierce and forceful, but it might not necessarily be reasonable. —— Saadi Politeness is the first major habit that children and youth should particularly be careful to cultivate.

27. 彬彬有礼的风度，主要是自我克制的表现。--美爱迪生

27. The gentlemanly demeanor is primarily an expression of self-restraint. -- Thomas Edison

28. 让我们在心中亮起一盏文明的灯，在心中种起一朵文明的花，多一点耐心的等待，多一点亲切的关爱，就会使文明之花开得更加艳丽！

28. Let us light a lamp of civilization in our hearts, plant a flower of civilization in our hearts, show more patience in waiting, and more affectionate care, and the flower of civilization will bloom even more beautifully!

29. 夜深人静的时候，大多数人都进入了梦乡，可楼下的车库里，却还亮着灯光。“五筒！”“一万！”叫板的声音和骂人的声音传进了人们的耳朵里。“谁呀？”我不耐烦地拉开了窗帘，才发现是楼下的人在打麻将。“哎，别吵了！”我大声喊着。可他们却像没听见似的，继续自顾自地大声喧哗，有一个人甚至还故意往地上吐了一口痰，好像是故意做给我看的一样。这些不讲文明的人啊，他们可曾想到，自己的一举一动都代表了中国人；他们可曾想到，中国是一个礼仪之邦；他们可曾想到，自己，不正在侵蚀着文明的花朵吗？

29. At night when it's quiet and most people have fallen asleep, the garage below was still illuminated with lights. The sounds of betting, "Five!" "Ten thousand!" and cursing reached people's ears. "Who's that?" I impatiently pulled back the curtains and realized it was people below playing Mahjong. "Oh, stop making so much noise!" I shouted loudly. But they seemed to have not heard, continuing to make a great ruckus as if they were not aware. One person even spit on the ground deliberately, as if he was trying to show it to me on purpose. These uncivilized people, have they ever thought that every move they make represents the Chinese people? Have they ever thought that China is a country of propriety and ceremony? Have they ever thought that they themselves are eroding the blossoms of civilization?

30. 礼貌对于人性，犹如热力之对于蜡。 ——Arthur Schopenhauer

30. Politeness to humanity is like heat to wax. —Arthur Schopenhauer

31. 记得有人说过：“人，一撇一捺，写起来容易做起来难。我们要经常性地思考，我在做什么，我做得怎样，我要成为怎样的人。”做怎样的人，一百个人会有一百种答案，但在每一个答案的背后都有一个基点，那就是做人首先要做一个文明的人。

31. Someone once said, "A person, composed of a single horizontal stroke and a single vertical stroke, is easy to write but difficult to be. We should constantly reflect on what we are doing, how we are doing it, and what kind of person we want to become." There will be a hundred different answers to the question of what kind of person to become, but behind each answer lies a fundamental point, which is that to be a person, one must first be a civilized person.

32. 文明礼貌十字用语：请、您好、谢谢、对不起、再见。文明礼貌十字用语是人际关系和谐的润滑剂，是中华民族精神文明的具体体现。

32. Civilized and Polite Ten Words: Please, How do you do, Thank you, Excuse me, Goodbye. The Civilized and Polite Ten Words act as the lubricant for harmonious interpersonal relationships and are a specific embodiment of the spiritual civilization of the Chinese nation.

33. 礼貌是有教养的人的第二个太阳。--赫拉克利特

33. Politeness is the second sun of the educated person. -- Heraclitus

34. 国尚礼则国昌，家尚礼则家大，身有礼则身修，心有礼则心泰。--清颜元

34. If a nation values propriety, it will thrive; if a family values propriety, it will be great; if an individual possesses propriety, they will be refined; if the heart is governed by propriety, it will be at peace. -- Qing Yan Yuan

35. 礼貌经常可以替代最高贵的感情。 —— 梅里美21 礼貌是最容易做到的事，也是最珍贵的东西。

35. Politeness often can substitute for the most noble of feelings. — Mérimée21 Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious thing.

36. 孔融让梨、礼让三先、谦和好礼、与人为善、虚席以待、礼尚往来、彬彬有礼、平易近人、彬彬有礼、谦虚谨慎、谦恭下士、敬贤礼士、不矜不伐、竭诚相待、敬贤礼士、克恭克顺、门不停宾、情礼兼到、屈高就下、屈己待人、屈尊敬贤、扫径以待、扫榻以迎、泰而不骄、婉婉有仪、温恭直谅、 温恭自虚、温柔敦厚、温文尔雅、文质彬彬、洗耳恭听。

36. Kong Rong giving the pear, showing respect and yielding to three precedences, being modest and courteous, doing good to others, leaving seats vacant for others, mutual respect, being polite, approachable, polite, modest and cautious, humble and respectful to the lower, respecting the virtuous and treating scholars with ceremony, not boasting or showing off, sincerely treating others, respecting the virtuous and treating scholars with ceremony, being respectful and compliant, not letting guests stay at the gate, combining feelings and etiquette, lowering one's own status, being considerate to others, showing respect to the virtuous, sweeping the path to welcome, sweeping the bed to greet, dignified but not proud, gentle and courteous, warm and sincere, gentle and kind, courteous and refined, cultivated and polite, listening with attention and respect.

37. 信则人任焉。

37. If one believes in it, people will entrust their responsibilities to it.

38. 学文化，从字母开始；讲文明，从小事做起。

38. Learn culture from the alphabet; cultivate civilization by starting from small things.