1. 了解自己的责任：

1. Understand one's own responsibilities:

2. 作为一个未婚男孩，你需要明白自己未来在家庭中的角色和责任，包括经济、精神和情感支持。

2. As an unwed son, you need to be clear about your roles and responsibilities in your family's affairs, including economic, spiritual, and emotional support.

3. 学会沟通：

3. University of Sufangtong:

4. 无论是与伴侣还是家庭成员，有效的沟通是解决问题和维持关系的关键。

4. Whether it is with partners or with clients, effective communication is the key to resolving issues and maintaining relationships.

5. 培养独立性：

5. Breed uniqueness:

6. 独立不仅仅是指经济上的独立，还包括情感上和生活上的自理能力。

6. Independence not only refers to the economic independence, but also includes the ability to be independent in emotions and in life.

7. 尊重对方：

7. Counterparty:

8. 在任何关系中，尊重都是基础。尊重你的伴侣，她的意愿、职业、兴趣和观点。

8. In any relationship, respect is the foundation. Respect you for your character, their intentions, profession, hobbies, and tastes.

9. 家庭背景的匹配：

9. Matching of the background of the family:

10. 虽然爱情不应该只看门当户对，但是相似的家庭背景和价值观可以减少很多不必要的冲突。

10. Although loving emotions should not be merely focused on the doorkeeper, but the similar background and value perspective of the family can greatly reduce a lot of unnecessary conflict.

11. 婚前协议：

11. Article 11: Agreement in advance:

12. 在一些情况下，考虑签订婚前协议可能是明智的，特别是当涉及到财产和债务时。

12. In certain situations, the consideration of pre-contractual agreements may be intelligent, especially when it involves the access to products and services.

13. 个人成长：

13. Personal Growth:

14. 不断地投资于自己的成长和发展，无论是职业上还是个人兴趣上，这样你可以成为一个更全面的人。

14. Continuously investing in your own growth and development, whether it's in your career or in personal interests, will allow you to become a more well-rounded individual.

15. 了解伴侣的生育观念：

15. To understand the breeding aesthetics of the intermediary:

16. 如果计划未来要孩子，了解伴侣的生育观念和计划是非常重要的，这涉及到你们的未来规划。

16. If the plan is to have children in the future and understanding the partner's parenting attitudes and beliefs is very important, this affects your future plans.

17. 处理好与前任的关系：

17. The relationship between good management and previous responsibilities:

18. 确保你已经完全结束了与前任的关系，不要让过去的情感影响你的现在和未来。

18. Ensure that you have completely ended the relationship with your former duty, and do not let past feelings affect your present and future.

19. 健康的生活习惯：

19. The lifestyle of a healthy person:

20. 保持健康的生活习惯，无论是饮食、运动还是社交，这些习惯都会影响到你的婚姻生活。

20. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is crucial, whether it's through diet, exercise, or social interaction; these habits all have an impact on your quality of life.

21. 学会妥协：

21. University Sadness Agreement:

22. 在关系中，妥协是必不可少的。学会在关键时刻放下自我，为关系的长远考虑。

22. In the relationship, harmony is indispensable. The academia will put down their own needs at critical times to consider the long-term development of the relationship.

23. 准备承担后果：

23. In case of emergency:

24. 任何选择都有后果，确保你准备好承担选择结婚或与某人共度一生的后果。

24. Any choice has consequences, so make sure you are prepared for the results of your decision or sharing a life with someone.

25. 不要急于结婚：

25. Do not be eager to marry:

26. 社会可能会对未婚男孩施加压力，但不要因为外界的期望而急于结婚。确保你做出的决定是基于正确的理由。

26. The society may exert pressure on未婚 male children, but it should not rush into marriage due to external expectations. Make sure the decisions you make are based on the correct reasoning.

27. 个人财务管理：

27. Personnel Asset Management:

28. 学会管理个人财务，确保你有能力承担未来的家庭开销和可能的经济挑战。

28. The school management will manage the personal assets, ensuring that you have the ability to support and open the future needs of your family and possible economic struggles.

29. 心理准备：

29. Mental preparation:

30. 婚姻是一段长期的承诺，确保你在心理上准备好接受这份责任。

30. The oath is a long-term commitment, ensuring that you are mentally prepared to accept this responsibility.