在社交圈中，如何巧妙运用抖音平台提升财富运？揭秘朋友圈多巴胺效应，探索高效运营之道。

In social circles, how to skillfully use the Douyin platform to enhance wealth luck? Unveil the dopamine effect in social media circles and explore the path to efficient operation.

1. 04 写在最后

1. 04 Written at the end

2. 每一次小小的投资，都是财富增长的积累！

2. Every small investment is a积累 of wealth growth!

3. 关于两性之间的情感，其实还有很多因素会影响最终的事态走向。很多朋友，在搞清楚核心问题前，自己贸然尝试，导致情况进一步恶化。橘子情感从业八年以来，帮助近万例的男女成功收获幸福。如果您有情感问题，一定要及时采取有效措施解决，不要等到失去了才后悔莫及。

3. In terms of emotional issues between genders, there are actually many factors that can influence the final outcome. Many friends, before understanding the core problem, try to tackle it impulsively, which often leads to the situation worsening. Over the past eight years, Orange Emotion has helped nearly ten thousand men and women successfully achieve happiness. If you have emotional issues, it is essential to take effective measures to resolve them in a timely manner; do not wait until it's too late and regret it.

4. 未来的日子里，我们一起迎接更多的成功！

4. In the days to come, let's together look forward to even more successes!

5. 02 分析原因

5.02 Analyze the Reasons

6. 每个人都有属于自己的财富梦想！

6. Everyone has their own wealth dreams!

7. 因此，男性本身就比女性更喜欢找不同的伴侣，如果男性的性欲再高一些的话，出轨的可能性将极大提高。

7. Therefore, men inherently tend to seek different partners more than women, and if men have a higher level of sexual desire, the likelihood of infidelity will greatly increase.

8. 财富的秘诀在于智慧和行动力！

8. The secret to wealth lies in wisdom and action!

9. 还有各种各样的券，大家都会觉得占很大的便宜，有些甚至是不管自己是不是需要，只要不买就感觉吃了亏，这种情况就是一种典型的铆钉效应。

9. There are various types of coupons that everyone feels they are getting a great deal, some even feel like they are missing out if they don't buy them, regardless of whether they actually need them. This is a typical case of the nail-biting effect.

10. 空闲时间越多的男人越有可能出轨，闲着也是闲着嘛。而且夫妻双方社交圈，朋友，事业，旅行计划都不重叠的话，出轨的机会就更多了，出轨的概率也就更高了。

10. Men with more free time are more likely to have affairs because there's more time to do so. Moreover, if the social circles, friends, careers, and travel plans of both couples do not overlap, there are more opportunities for infidelity, leading to a higher probability of having an affair.

11. 你若再去纠缠，只会徒增TA对你的反感情绪。

11. If you persist in pestering, it will only increase TA's negative feelings towards you.

12. 若TA还没有喜欢的人，而TA拒绝的理由是你不是TA 喜欢的类型。

12. If TA doesn't have a crush on anyone yet, and the reason for TA's refusal is that you are not the type of person TA likes.

13. 通过努力和投资智慧，我们可以一步步接近目标！

13. Through hard work and the investment of wisdom, we can gradually approach our goal!

14. 这类人，一旦喜欢上你了，必定全情投入，给你全部的爱。

14. Such people, once they fall for you, will wholeheartedly invest in you and give you all their love.

15. 第二，铆钉效应。比如电商平台经常会进行打折大促

15. Secondly, the rivet effect. For example, e-commerce platforms often hold big promotions with discounts.

16. 很不辛，你恰巧不是TA喜欢的类型，这也是太正常不过的事情。

16. It's truly unfortunate that you happen to not be the type that TA likes, and this is something that is completely normal.

17. 这个吸引力包括外表，也包括谈吐，气质，性格，还有金钱，以及受欢迎程度等等。很显然，受欢迎的男人会有更多飞蛾扑上来，受到更多诱惑，也就有更大的概率出轨。

17. This attractiveness includes not only appearance but also speech, temperament, character, as well as wealth, popularity, and more. It is obvious that men who are popular will attract more moths, face more temptations, and thus have a higher probability of infidelity.

18. 相信自己，勇敢前行，奇迹就在眼前！

18. Believe in yourself, dare to move forward, and miracles are just around the corner!

19. 要相信，你就是你，独一无二的自己，你有你独特的魅力，这世间总会有个人，为你而来。

19. Believe in yourself, that you are unique, an individual with your own charm. In this world, there will always be someone coming for you.

20. 若TA真的有了意中人，并明确拒绝了你，说明TA是一个专情的人。

20. If TA really has a special someone and clearly rejects you, it shows that TA is a faithful person.

21. 超市促销、商场满减再或者是理发店办法，每个人可能都吃过这些亏，所以在消费前一定要考虑好这件商品对自己的需求。不要为一些不能给自己提供使用价值的商品付费，这往往就是在浪费金钱，想省钱就一定在购物前做好功课。

21. Supermarket promotions, mall discounts, or hair salon deals—nearly everyone has fallen victim to these at some point. Therefore, it is crucial to consider whether a product meets your own needs before making a purchase. Avoid paying for goods that do not provide any usable value to you, as this is often a waste of money. If you want to save money, make sure to do your homework before shopping.

22. 有一些基因会比另外一些基因更容易导致出轨。纽约州立大学的研究（Is Infidelity Genetic）证明了这一点。他们取到了被调查者们的基因样本，重点关注其中DRD4（多巴胺D4受体，负责除了性以外的其他行为的奖励机制和愉悦感）这个基因。如果DRD4包含至少一个变体7R+（7重复等位基因），那么这个人比其他人有更高的概率一夜情，也有更高的概率出轨。实际上，包含7R+的人的出轨率达到50%，而其他人只有22%。同样，（中枪预警）女人和男人都一样。

22. Some genes are more likely to lead to infidelity than others. The study by the State University of New York (Is Infidelity Genetic) proves this point. They collected genetic samples from the respondents, focusing on the DRD4 gene (dopamine D4 receptor, responsible for the reward mechanisms and pleasure associated with behaviors other than sex). If the DRD4 gene contains at least one variant 7R+ (7 repeated alleles), this person is more likely to have a one-night stand and more likely to commit infidelity. In fact, the infidelity rate among those with 7R+ is 50%, while for others it is only 22%. Similarly, (heads up warning) both men and women are affected.

23. 若此时，你心里还不能把TA 放下，就鼓起勇气再表白一次，就当给彼此一个机会。

23. If at this moment, you still can't let go of TA in your heart, gather your courage and confess your feelings again. Just give each other a chance.

24. 这里建议我们每个月预算最好不要超过年度控制的月预算目标，每月的消费最好不要超过预算金额。这样一直设置预算、合理消费，就会直接避免过度消费。

24. It is suggested here that our monthly budget should not exceed the monthly budget target of the annual control, and our monthly expenditure should not exceed the budgeted amount. By consistently setting budgets and making reasonable expenditures in this way, over-consumption can be directly avoided.

25. 这样的人，是不会无耻的脚踏几只船的， TA值得拥有TA心中美好的爱情。

25. Such a person would not be shameless enough to脚踏几只船, they deserve to have the beautiful love in their heart.

26. 每个人性欲有强有弱。很容易理解，性欲强的人会更容易被唤起性欲，也就更容易屈服于诱惑。性欲的强弱和基因也有一定关系。这次的研究（Sex Drive May Be Swayed by Genetics）和第3条的研究是不同的研究，但是研究对象和3一样，也是关于DRD4的，研究发现被调查对象里面大概有30%的人有着特殊的DRD4变体使得他们对性的渴望比其他人更强。但是同样需要更大样本的研究，而且这只是相关性并不代表因果性。

26. Everyone's libido varies in intensity. It is easy to understand that those with a strong libido are more susceptible to being aroused and more prone to yielding to temptation. The strength of libido is also somewhat related to genetics. This study (Sex Drive May Be Swayed by Genetics) is different from the study mentioned in point 3, but the research subjects are the same, focusing on DRD4. The study found that about 30% of the surveyed individuals had a special variant of DRD4 that made them more passionate about sex than others. However, a larger sample size is still needed for further research, and this only indicates correlation, not causation.

27. 我们都有创造财富奇迹的能力！

27. We all have the ability to create wealth miracles!

28. 感恩身边的每一位支持我的朋友，一起分享这份喜悦吧！

28. Grateful for every friend around me who supports me, let's share this joy together!

29. 要知道，除了这颗树，还有整片森林等着你去挑选。

29. Remember, besides this tree, the entire forest is waiting for you to choose from.

30. 女人的直觉很可怕，女人真的能一眼看出一个男人的出轨可能性大小。西澳大学的研究直接证明了这一点（Women can judge sexual unfaithfulness from unfamiliar men's faces）。参与实验的女性会被要求给陌生男人的相片打分，先打一个可能出轨的程度的分数，再打一个长相阳刚气质的分数，最后把这个分数和参与实验的男生的实际出轨和挖墙角数据作对比，发现了显著的正相关。也就是说，长相上面的阳刚气质越重，给女性“这个人会出轨”的感觉越强，而实际上这个人也越容易出轨。可以描述出来的阳刚气质有宽下巴，高眉骨，方形脸，高颧骨，短额头等等。有趣的是，男人也对女人打了这个分，最后发现男人根本看不出来女人是不是容易出轨。

30. Women's intuition is terrifying; women can really tell at a glance the likelihood of a man's infidelity. A study directly from the University of Western Australia has proven this point (Women can judge sexual unfaithfulness from unfamiliar men's faces). The women participating in the experiment were asked to rate the photos of unfamiliar men, first scoring the degree of potential infidelity, then the masculinity of their appearance, and finally comparing these scores with the actual infidelity and cheating data of the male participants. A significant positive correlation was found. This means that the more pronounced the masculinity in appearance, the stronger the sense that this person would cheat on a woman, and in reality, this person is more likely to cheat. Descriptions of masculinity include wide jaws, high cheekbones, square faces, prominent cheekbones, short foreheads, etc. Interestingly, men also scored women in this way, and it was found that men couldn't tell whether a woman was likely to be unfaithful.

31. 01 让自己冷静下来

31. 01 Calm oneself down

32. 感恩生活中的每一份馈赠，守护好自己的财富！

32. Be grateful for every gift in life and protect your own wealth!

33. 你需要，拿出勇气，直面自己，审视自己，摆脱负面情绪，不断提升自己，以最好的姿态，迎接下一站爱情的来临。

33. You need to summon courage, face yourself, examine yourself,摆脱negative emotions, and constantly improve yourself, in the best posture, to welcome the arrival of the next stage of love.

34. 同时，当你越来越优秀，根据吸引力法则，你身边也会慢慢聚集同样优秀的人。

34. At the same time, as you become increasingly excellent, according to the Law of Attraction, people of similar excellence will gradually gather around you.

35. 在追求财富的路上，感谢有你们的陪伴和支持！

35. Thank you for your companionship and support on the path to wealth!

36. 你喜欢的，别人不一定欣赏；你不喜欢的，可能在别人眼里却是宝。

36. What you like may not be appreciated by others; what you dislike might be cherished by others in their eyes.

37. 每个人的家庭、教育、生活工作经历，造就了不同的世界观、人生观和审美观。

37. Everyone's family background, education, and life and work experiences contribute to different worldviews, life philosophies, and aesthetic perceptions.

38. 生活还在继续，温暖的阳光等待着你去尽情感受。

38. Life goes on, and the warm sunshine awaits you to fully experience.

39. 这时我们就要给自己设置一个消费预算。设置了消费预算，直观理性的控制消费的欲望，开始可能会遇到困难，但坚持一段时间，可能自己的消费欲望就会降低，用做预算的方式帮自己省下了钱。当然这也需要很强的自控力，毕竟现在提前消费的方式太多，需要时刻提醒自己。

39. At this point, we need to set ourselves a consumption budget. Setting a consumption budget allows us to have a direct and rational control over our consumption desires. It may be difficult at first, but if we persevere for a while, our consumption desires may decrease, and we can save money by budgeting. Of course, this also requires a strong ability to control ourselves, as there are too many ways to consume in advance, and we need to remind ourselves constantly.

40. 说不定，那时的你，已悄悄吸引着他人，开启真正属于你的爱情之旅。

40. Perhaps by then, you have quietly attracted others and embarked on the truly love journey that belongs to you.

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41. Orange Emotion (Learn more: juziqinggan012), your personal love guidance and rescue expert.

42. 有些人，因种种原因缺乏安全感，即使对你有好感，也不会轻易说喜欢，因为TA不够了解你。

42. Some people lack a sense of security for various reasons and, even if they have a good feeling towards you, they wouldn't easily express their liking because they don't know you well enough.

43. 第五，从众心理，之前很多网友都会晒什么，秋天的第一杯奶茶，这个话题热度越高就会越吸引人去买奶茶。但其实很多人并不是为了喝奶茶，他就是为了晒个朋友圈

43. Fifthly, the bandwagon effect. Many netizens used to share things like "the first cup of bubble tea in autumn." The higher the popularity of this topic, the more it attracts people to buy bubble tea. However, in reality, many people are not buying bubble tea for the sake of drinking it; they just want to show off on their social media circle of friends.

44. 时间会慢慢淡化人的情感，有一天，你会发现，只是偶尔会想起TA，TA在你心中也不再那么重要。

44. Time will gradually fade away people's emotions. One day, you will find that you only occasionally think of them, and they are no longer as important in your heart.

45. 冷静下来后，分析失败的原因，总结经验教训，提升自己的不足。

45. After calming down, analyze the reasons for the failure, summarize the lessons learned, and improve upon your shortcomings.

46. 试着去接触他人，会发现，这个世界，离了谁，太阳照样升起。

46. Try to connect with others, and you will find that in this world, the sun rises just as brightly without anyone.

47. 这个世界，“一见钟情”到“一生钟情”毕竟是少数。

47. In this world, from "love at first sight" to "love for a lifetime" is still a rarity.

48. 简单点说，无论男女，权力越大，越有可能出轨。

48. In simple terms, regardless of gender, the greater the power, the more likely someone is to cheat.

49. 但，如果再被拒绝，请一定就此放下，你确实不是TA 的菜。

49. However, if it is rejected again, please be sure to let it go. You are indeed not someone's type.

50. 接触得越多，了解的自然就越多，安全感也会与日俱增。

50. The more contact you have, the more you naturally understand, and your sense of security will also increase day by day.

51. 第四，叫鸟笼效应，这个更狠，比如你买了一件睡衣，但是你会感觉，我这个睡衣跟家具好像格格不入，然后就会相应的换地毯，换沙发，换餐桌，就把房间布局全换掉了，这个更花钱。

51. Fourthly, the "Birdcage Effect," which is even more severe. For example, if you buy a pajama, you might feel that this pajama doesn't match the furniture, so you would then correspondingly change the carpet, the sofa, the dining table, and ultimately change the entire room layout, which costs more money.

52. 不能不承认，被拒绝也是一种失败，是情感上的挫败。

52. It cannot be denied that being refused is also a kind of failure, a failure on an emotional level.

53. 自己掏心掏肺的喜欢着TA,TA却无情的拒绝，任谁都会伤心愤怒，有些人甚至从此意志消沉。

53. Devoting oneself wholeheartedly to someone, only to be cruelly rejected by them, would cause anyone to feel heartbroken and angry. Some people even become despondent from that moment on.

54. 每一天都在进步，每一刻都在成长！

54. Every day is a step forward, every moment is a growth!

55. 不断学习，勇于尝试，财富自然随之而来！

55. Keep learning, dare to try, and wealth will naturally come along!

56. 生活中处处都是财富的机遇，只要用心发现！

56. Every aspect of life is filled with opportunities for wealth, as long as you take the time to discover them!

57. 第三，叫麦克苏尔定律，网购什么面霜，这种东西的时候会显示库存仅剩多少件，往往容易激发消费者抢购或者秒杀的这种冲动，所以现在很多的平台都讲秒杀。

57. Thirdly, known as the McSurl Law, when shopping online for items like facial cream, the display of limited stock often tends to激发 consumers'冲动 to rush in for purchases or engage in flash sales, which is why many platforms now emphasize the concept of flash sales.

58. 有权力的人更容易出轨。荷兰的Tilburg University作的研究（Power Increases Infidelity Among Men and Women）主要研究的是被调查对象在公司中的相对权力大小以及他们的出轨情况。结论是，权力会提升人的自信，伴随着自信一起提升的是出轨可能性，包括了实际出轨频率（过去）以及出轨意图强度（未来）。而且这种效果男女通用。

58. Those in power are more prone to infidelity. A study conducted by Tilburg University in the Netherlands, titled "Power Increases Infidelity Among Men and Women," primarily investigates the relative power of the subjects within their companies and their infidelity patterns. The conclusion is that power boosts one's self-confidence, and with increased confidence comes the likelihood of infidelity, including both the actual frequency of infidelity (in the past) and the intensity of infidelity intentions (in the future). Moreover, this effect is applicable to both men and women.

59. 一时的消沉并不可怕，可怕的是你一直陷入消沉。

59. It is not可怕 to be temporarily downcast, but what is可怕的 is that you keep falling into a state of depression.

60. 此时，TA需要时间，来慢慢了解你。对你熟悉了，足够了解了，感觉安全了，才会对你放松警惕。

60. At this moment, TA needs time to slowly get to know you. Only when they become familiar with you, have enough knowledge, and feel secure, will they relax their vigilance towards you.

61. 最近感觉财运亨通，好运连连！

61. Lately, there has been a lucky streak in my finances, with good fortune following one after another!

62. 坚持不懈，终将迎来丰收的季节！

62. Persevere, and you will eventually welcome the season of harvest!

63. 当专注于经营自己，你自然会淡忘“被拒绝”的痛苦。

63. When you focus on running your own business, you will naturally forget the pain of being rejected.

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64. Hello everyone, we are Orange Emotions. Focused on emotions, born for love. Orange Emotions (juziqinggan012), committed to providing help in winning back love, saving marriages, and reconciliation.

65. 一代琼瑶女郎林心如和老干部霍建华，也是兜兜转转，在友情的路上走过了十年，最后还是选择了牵手，走进了婚姻的殿堂，后添可爱女儿“小天使”，如今是幸福美满，感情和睦。他俩就是从朋友开始到恋人的完美典范。

65. A generation of Qiong Yao's female stars, Lin Huxiao, and the veteran official Ho Hua Hua, have also gone through ups and downs, walking the path of friendship for ten years. In the end, they chose to hold hands and enter the sanctuary of marriage, adding a lovely daughter named "Little Angel" later. Now they are living a happy and fulfilling life with harmonious relationships. They are a perfect example of how a friendship can blossom into a loving couple.

66. 坚持就是胜利，财富源于不懈的努力！

66. Persistence is victory, and wealth originates from tireless efforts!

67. 适时放手，成全了TA ，其实也是放过了自己。

67. Letting go at the right time to help the other person is actually also releasing yourself.

68. ️ 用心经营，让财富稳健增长！

68. Carefully manage and let your wealth grow steadily!

69. 不知不觉中，你们成为了挚友，相互欣赏，你们一起分享开心，一起分担烦恼。

69. Unconsciously, you have become close friends, appreciating each other. You share joy together and bear your troubles together.

70. 如何做预算呢？根据我们一段时间消费情况，生活中各方面开支情况做一个仔细的分析，这里也提倡大家能够有记账的好习惯。

70. How to make a budget? Based on our consumption situation over a period of time and a detailed analysis of expenses in various aspects of life, it is also advocated here that everyone should develop the good habit of keeping a record of their expenses.

71. 财富自由不再是遥不可及的梦想！

71. Financial freedom is no longer an unattainable dream!

72. 第一，就是损失厌恶，意思就是比起能得到什么，人们对于损失更为敏感，这种套路最典型的就是：包邮，多少人认为包邮东西比不包邮的要划算，真相那都在价格里面，

72. Firstly, it's the concept of loss aversion, which means people are more sensitive to losses than to gains. The most typical example of this is: free shipping. Many people believe that items with free shipping are more cost-effective than those without, but the truth is all reflected in the price.

73. 大可不必，为此纠结，责怪自己，甚至因此对自己丧失自信。

73. There is no need to worry about it, blame yourself, or even lose confidence in yourself because of it.

74. 总的来说，拥有这种特殊基因的人，更喜欢寻求刺激，从事有危险性的活动，类似赌博，喝酒，而性也是其中一种。

74. Generally speaking, people who possess this special gene tend to prefer seeking excitement and engaging in risky activities, such as gambling, drinking, and sex being one of them.

75. 被拒绝，肯定会难过，特别被自己喜欢的人拒绝，心里尤其难受。

75. Being rejected is definitely painful, especially when it's someone you like who rejects you, which is particularly hard on the heart.

76. 同时雄性哺乳动物身上会有一种“柯立芝效应”（The Science ofSex: Glenn Wilson on the Coolidge Effect），雄性动物会对同一个雌性动物厌倦，而对新的雌性动物充满性致。

76. At the same time, male mammals will exhibit a "Coolidge Effect" (The Science of Sex: Glenn Wilson on the Coolidge Effect), where male animals become bored with the same female and are highly interested in new females.

77. 为了控制花销，想把钱花费在刀刃上，消费就需要合理化。而想合理化消费，自然是先做好家庭预算，要不然消费透支收入，那么才能控制消费。

77. In order to control expenses and ensure that money is spent wisely, consumption needs to be rationalized. To rationalize consumption, it naturally follows that one should first make a family budget; otherwise, if consumption exceeds income, it will be possible to control spending.

78. 既然无法改变现状，不如让自己冷静下来，调整自己的心态，让自己摆脱失意痛苦的泥潭。

78. Since it is impossible to change the current situation, it is better to calm oneself down, adjust one's mindset, and free oneself from the quagmire of disappointment and pain.

79. 把爱情当成游戏的人更有可能会出轨，他们会为了证明自己的控制力而去寻求挑战。同时，有一些浪子，内心还不想安定下来，也是出得一手好轨。而且往往有过出轨史的人基本上还会再出轨，因为很可能如上面所说是基因控制的。但是把爱情当成信仰的同样也不靠谱，因为这种人的信仰往往过于脆弱，玻璃心一碰就碎，然后就开始报复社会。

79. People who treat love as a game are more likely to cheat on their partners, seeking challenges to prove their control. At the same time, there are some carefree individuals who are still not ready to settle down in their hearts, and they are also quite adept at cheating. Moreover, those who have a history of infidelity are likely to cheat again, as it may be genetically controlled, as mentioned above. However, those who regard love as a belief are also not reliable, as their beliefs are often too fragile and can shatter at the slightest touch, leading them to start retaliating against society.

80. 很多时候，所谓“一见钟情”，不过是一时的视觉上的强烈冲击，难以持续，最后，多是以“一拍两散”结局。

80. Many times, what is所谓的 "love at first sight" is merely a strong visual impact that is fleeting and difficult to sustain. In the end, it often ends in a "split-second" breakup.

81. 你要知道，无论你如何伤心、愤怒、消沉，也无法挽回“被拒绝”的局面。

81. You must know that no matter how sad, angry, or despondent you are, you cannot undo the situation of "being rejected."

82. 可以试着从朋友做起，靠近TA，更深入的了解TA。同时，不断提升自己，让自己绽放光芒。

82. Try to start from being friends, get closer to them, and understand them more deeply. At the same time, constantly improve yourself and let your light shine.

83. 被人喜欢着是一种幸福，但当被你喜欢的人拒绝了，该怎么办呢？

83. It is a happiness to be liked, but what should you do when the person you like rejects you?

84. 人生就是一场旅行，有开心，也会有失落和彷徨，当感情遭遇拒绝失败时，也请不要放弃自己，让自己陷入自怨自艾的泥潭。

84. Life is a journey, filled with joy as well as失落 and confusion. When love encounters rejection and failure, please do not give up on yourself and let yourself sink into the quagmire of self-reproach and self-pity.

85. 很显然感情好的夫妻就不那么容易出轨。双方有了充分的沟通和理解，有着共同的目标和兴趣，有着充足的陪伴和信任，再加上和谐性生活，基本就完全不用担心出轨的问题。但是两个人如此合拍的前提是两个人都要是成熟的人格，尤其是恋爱上的成熟。

85. It is obviously that couples with good feelings are less likely to commit infidelity. With sufficient communication and understanding, shared goals and interests, ample companionship and trust, and a harmonious sex life, there is basically no need to worry about infidelity. However, the premise for such a harmonious partnership is that both individuals must be mature personalities, especially mature in terms of love.

86. 03 怎么办？

86.03 What should we do?

87. 那么如何才能避免入坑儿呢？给大家支几条招儿啊。

87. So how can we avoid falling into a trap? Here are a few tips for you.