在这个充满活力的社交时代，女性朋友们纷纷组建了自己的“高情商朋友圈”。这里，她们分享生活的点滴，交流情感，更是一群热衷于学习、追求生活品质的时尚达人。本书将带你走进这个神秘的世界，教你轻松掌握秒赞技巧，成为朋友圈中的佼佼者！

In this vibrant social era, female friends have all established their own "high EQ social circles." Here, they share the trivialities of life, exchange emotions, and are also a group of fashionable trendsetters who are passionate about learning and pursuing the quality of life. This book will take you into this mysterious world and teach you how to easily master the skill of getting likes quickly, becoming the top performer in your social circle!

1. 十年前，同学在高档小区的售楼处等你；十年后，同学在高档酒吧的卡座上等你。

1. Ten years ago, classmates were waiting for you at the sales office of a luxury residential area; ten years later, classmates were waiting for you in the booth of an upscale bar.

2. 我给你的，是蒙上眼睛的信任，我不惜为此，在你面前也戴上面具。

2. What I give you is blind trust, and I am not hesitant to wear a mask in front of you for that.

3. 有钱的人怕别人知道他有钱，没钱的人怕别人知道他没钱。

3. Wealthy people fear that others will know they are rich, while those without money are afraid that others will know they are poor.

4. 傍晚六点的夕阳，终究成不了凌晨五点的太阳。

4. The sunset at 6 p.m. will never become the sun at 5 a.m.

5. 你的压力来源于无法自律，只是假装努力，现状跟不上内心欲望，所以你焦虑又恐慌。

5. Your stress comes from the inability to self-discipline, just pretending to work hard, and the current situation not keeping up with your inner desires, so you are anxious and panicky.

6. 人生就像一场盛宴，平淡是它的本色，在我们的一生之中，心态是影响人生的重要因素。要么你去驾驭心态，要么就心态驾驭你。绝大多数人之所以不能成功，不是因为没有付出努力，而是因为在努力的过程中没友历练好自己的心态。

6. Life is like a grand feast, its essence is plainness. In our lives, mindset is a crucial factor that influences our experiences. Either you control your mindset, or your mindset controls you. The majority of people fail not because they haven't put in the effort, but because during the process of striving, they haven't honed their mindset properly.

7. 愿你天黑有灯，下雨有伞，愿你一路上有良人相伴。

7. May you have a light when it's dark, an umbrella when it rains, and a good companion by your side on your journey.

8. 没有人注视，也要努力成长，有许多眼睛，藏在你看不见的地方。

8. Strive to grow even when no one is watching, for there are many eyes, hidden in places you cannot see.

9. 人一生中也许会经历许多种爱，但千万别让爱成为一种伤害。

9. In one's lifetime, one may experience many kinds of love, but never let love become a source of harm.

10. 原来我并不快乐，只是我未曾发觉。一个敏感的人，大多都不幸福，因为太在乎。

10. It turns out that I wasn't happy, I just hadn't realized it. Most sensitive people are not happy because they care too much.

11. 少年就是少年，他们看春风不喜，看夏蝉不烦，看秋风不悲，看冬雪不叹，看满身富贵懒察觉，看不公不允敢面对，只因他们是少年。

11. A youth is a youth; they do not take joy in the spring breeze, are not bothered by the summer cicadas, do not feel sorrow at the autumn wind, do not sigh at the winter snow, and do not take notice of their own wealth and status, nor dare to confront injustice and unfairness, simply because they are young.

12. 你从不担心自己配不上优秀的人，你只会担心自己配不上喜欢的人。

12. You never worry about not being worthy of an outstanding person, you only worry about not being worthy of the one you like.

13. 适当的悲伤可以让我们的感情更加亲切，但过度伤心只会让你失去理智。

13. Appropriate sadness can make our emotions more intimate, but excessive sorrow will only make you lose your senses.

14. 因为无可奈何，所以顺其自然；因为无所期待，所以随遇而安。

14. Because there is nothing that can be done, one naturally follows the flow; because there are no expectations, one is content with whatever comes along.

15. 我很想把我的人生翻到最后一页，想看看那个陪我到白头的人是谁。

15. I really want to turn to the last page of my life to see who is the person who will accompany me to the end.

16. 这世上最累的事情，莫过于眼睁睁看着自己的心碎了，还得自己动手把它粘上。

16. The most exhausting thing in the world is watching your heart shatter before your eyes and then having to stick it back together yourself.

17. 自己喜欢的东西，就不要再征询他人意见了，人生这点责任，自己负。

17. If you like something, don't ask others for their opinions anymore. This responsibility in life is yours to bear.

18. 人生四大悲剧：能力配不上梦想，收入配不上享用，容貌配不上矫情，见识配不上年龄。

18. The four great tragedies of life: ability not matching dreams, income not matching luxury, appearance not matching sentimentality, and experience not matching age.

19. 人与人之间或近或远，无共鸣之处，沉默便是最佳的表达。

19. Among people or near or far, there is no place where harmony and ease are not the most excellent expression.

20. 偶尔对自身好些，放松一下，发点小疯，花点小钱，并非天理不容。

20. Pharaoh, being good to himself, relaxed a bit, pointing a small paw, smiling a small smile, and was quite unreasonable.

21. 一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。

21. The more a person cares about something, the more it becomes the source of their self-doubt.

22. 最快的脚步不是跨越，而是继续；最慢的步伐不是小步，而是徘徊。

22. The swiftest pace is not the leap but the continuation; the slowest gait is not the tiny step but the hesitating walk.

23. 人的一生，都有一些说不出的秘密，挽不回的遗憾，触不到的梦想，忘不了的爱。

23. In one's lifetime, there are always some unspeakable secrets, irretrievable regrets, unattainable dreams, and unforgettable loves.

24. 当你在等着什么事情发生，什么事情孵出来时，生活总是一段充实稳定的时光。

24. When you are waiting for something to happen, or for something to hatch, life is always a time of fulfillment and stability.

25. 人生的黑夜也没什么不好，愈是黑暗的晚上，月亮与星星就愈是美丽了。

25. There's nothing bad about the dark nights of life; the more dark the night, the more beautiful the moon and stars become.

26. 我们感觉不开心，是由于我们追求的不是“幸福”，而是“比别人幸福”。

26. We feel unhappy because what we pursue is not "happiness," but "being happier than others."

27. 语言对人的伤害、羞辱、折损，就像钉到墙里的钉子，即使时过境迁，即使拔钉而出，但痕迹永远都在。

27. Language can cause harm, humiliation, and damage to people, just like a nail driven into a wall. Even after time passes and the nail is removed, the mark will always remain.

28. 人们相互蔑视，又相互奉承，人们各自希望自己高于别人，又各自匍匐在别人面前。

28. People are both disdainful of and flattering to each other, each aspiring to be superior to others while simultaneously crawling before them.

29. 如果你自己都不认真对待生活，那么就别怪生活对你狠。

29. If you don't take life seriously yourself, then don't blame life for being harsh to you.

30. 没了往昔的骄傲，也丢了最初的模样，有趣的独自相处胜过虚假的社交。

30. Without the previous day's rest, one also loses the most initial pattern, and the interesting unique aspects must pass through the illusion of social interaction.

31. 凡是能够说的，就能够说清楚；凡是不能谈的，就应该保持沉默。

31. Anything that can be said can be made clear; anything that cannot be discussed should be kept silent.

32. 焦虑便是浪费时间，它不会改变任何事，只能搅乱你的脑袋，偷走你的快乐。

32. Anxiety is a waste of time; it doesn't change anything, it can only confuse your mind and steal your happiness.

33. 以珍视之心不纵容自身，以信赖之心不约束他人。

33. Not to be overly self-righteous, nor to be overly lenient with others.

34. 有时候，我们做出的最艰难的决定，最终会成为我们做过的最漂亮的事。

34. Sometimes, the most difficult decisions we make end up being the most beautiful things we've ever done.

35. 潮起潮伏，人来人往，你我怎能例外。

35. "Float and sway, people come and go, how can I be an exception."

36. 愿我们低标准生活，做最优的自己，爱最宜的人，高水准心灵，一生挚爱，清风与自由偏爱和温暖。

36. May we live below our standards, do our best, love the most favorable person, maintain a high water standard, cherish a lifelong love, and embrace the love of freedom and warmth.

37. 成熟意味着看到差异，但又意识到差异并不重要。

37. Maturity means seeing the differences, but also realizing that the differences are not important.

38. 让自己化作了糖，世界便甜了，闭口浅笑，简约又高雅！

38. Having made himself into a toad, the world became sweet, the mouth closed, the smile vanished, and simplicity again became profound!

39. 现实就是，用一辈子的时间，不停地增加被别人利用的价值。

39. The reality is that one spends a lifetime continuously increasing the value that can be exploited by others.

40. 长大后才明白，笑就是生活，谁不是受了一肚子委屈后，强颜欢笑地继续努力下去。

40. It was only after I grew up that I realized that laughter is life. Who isn't forced to smile through gritted teeth and keep striving after enduring a bellyful of grievances?

41. 你若不疑，人间不寒。你若不离，世界不远。你若不忘，生活不愁。你若不恨，时光不缓。

41. If you have no doubts, the world will not be cold. If you do not leave, the world is not far. If you do not forget, life will not be troubled. If you do not hate, time will not slow down.