揭秘10条人性潜规则，助你人生逆风翻盘！

Unveiling 10 Hidden Human Nature Rules to Help You Turn the Tide in Life!

1. 身处外乡，人设皆需自行塑造，坦然接纳原生家庭的贫困是好事，但相较被某些居心叵测之人知晓所引发的麻烦，还是莫要如此为难自己。贫困，就努力改变，切不可时常挂于嘴边。

1. In the outer regions, people need to design and create their own environment, which is a good thing to respect the will of the original ancestors; however, it is also relatively easy to be influenced by some local customs and practices, which may lead to frustration. The process of change must be constantly adjusted, and cannot always rely on the edge.

2. 1994年，侯海洋南下投奔姐夫，适逢海南房地产泡沫破灭，没赶上好时代，只赶上破产自杀的姐夫的葬礼。

2. In 1994, Hou Haiyang traveled south to join his brother-in-law. Coinciding with the bursting of the Hainan real estate bubble, he didn't catch a good time and only attended the funeral of his brother-in-law, who had gone bankrupt and committed suicide.

3. #x3001;莫过快与他人熟络起来。

3. #x3001; It is too easy to get on with others.

4. #x3001;任何具备谈论善良资格之人，前提是有钱、有权，否则皆为自我陶醉。

4. Do not criticize the person who has money and has the right, or else you are only throwing stones at yourself.

5. 《宦海沉浮》是一本2009年10月由江苏文艺出版社出版发行的小说，作者是舍人。该小说叙述的是一个中国改革初期的大学生，在二十年的社会改革变迁中的故事。

5. "Floating and Drowning in the Official World" is a novel published and distributed by Jiangsu Literature and Art Press in October 2009, authored by She Ren. The novel tells the story of a college student during the early stages of China's reform, covering his experiences over a span of twenty years amidst the social reform and changes.

6. #x3001;领导与你称兄道弟，你莫与领导称兄道弟。

6. The guide should be addressed as "Your Excellency," not as "Your Highness," when addressing the guide.

7. 我们骨子里皆倾向于找熟人办事，觉得如此更为稳妥，实则，熟人知晓你的性情脾气，亦清楚你的性格弱点，掌控你更为容易。并且，人皆追逐利益，若能于你身上大肆捞取，风险又低，对方定会毫不犹豫为之。

7. We tend to rely on familiar people to handle affairs, thinking that it is more reassuring. However, when familiar people know your personality traits and weaknesses, they may exploit your vulnerabilities more easily. Moreover, as human nature progresses, if they can gain advantage by taking advantage of your ignorance, the risks will be reduced, and the opponent's advantage will not be as great.

8. #x3001;凡是令你愉悦的事物，最终往往令你苦痛。

8. #x3001; All are things that bring you joy, yet in the end, they will all bring you sorrow and pain.

9. 于当下这个社会，善良乃是成本颇高之事。不仅要耗费时间、精力，甚至可能付出金钱、健康，若你为普通之人，你的善良定要用对方式与对象，否则不仅自身受伤，被你相助之人亦不会感激你。

9. For this social gathering, etiquette is a matter of paramount importance. Not only does it require time and effort, but it may even involve spending money, health, and more. If you are an ordinary person, your etiquette should be conducted in a proper manner with the right attitude towards others. Otherwise, not only will you suffer in your own dignity, but the people who benefit from your assistance may not appreciate you.

10. #x3001;男人英俊，女人美丽，本身即为一种优势。

10. Men are brave, women are beautiful, this is a kind of advantage.

11. 每个人皆有自身的底线与原则，你视作轻松的一句玩笑，极可能触及对方人生之大忌。若着实不知说何，不妨缄默，宁可气氛尴尬，也莫随意犯下此等过错。

11. Every person has their own bottom line and principles; a light-hearted joke that you might consider may possibly touch a large group of people's lives. If you don't actually know what to say, don't be too casual, be careful not to be too harsh, and avoid inadvertently offending anyone.

12. 任何人际关系，皆莫过急，缓缓而来反倒更佳，初始相识仅维持表面的友善，不过于亲近亦不疏远，渐渐地，便会洞悉对方的本质，此时再决定与对方构建何种关系，如此反倒更能长久。

12. In any personal relationship, it is advisable to be patient and wait before acting, to reflect and reverse the situation to become better. Initially, only maintain a polite demeanor on the surface, not going beyond personal proximity and not being forgetful of the distance. Gradually, one might better understand the other's character, and at that time, decide on what kind of relationship to establish with the other party, which can thus be more lasting.

13. 《二号首长》作者是黄晓阳。是2011年5月重庆出版社出版的官场小说。主要讲述了主角江南日报资深记者唐小舟在报社的事业很不顺利，就在此时，省委办公厅调他去给新任省委书记赵德良当秘书，也就是传说中的“二号首长”。从此，唐小舟的人生翻开了崭新的一页。

13. The author of "Number Two Leader" is Huang Xiaoyang. It is an officialdom novel published by Chongqing Publishing House in May 2011. The novel mainly tells the story of Tang Xiaou, a senior journalist at Jiangnan Daily, whose career at the newspaper is not going smoothly. At this moment, the Provincial Party Committee Office assigns him to be the secretary of the newly appointed Provincial Party Secretary Zhao Deliang, known as the "Number Two Leader" in legend. From then on, Tang Xiaou's life turned over a new leaf.

14. 《侯卫东官场笔记》是一部2010年由凤凰出版社出版的图书，作者是小桥老树。这是一部逐层讲透村、镇、县、市、省官场现状的自传体小说。

14. "侯卫东官场笔记" is a memoir novel published by Phoenix Publishing House in 2010, written by Xiao Qiao Lao Shu. It is a novel that progressively reveals the current situation of the officialdom at the village, town, county, city, and provincial levels.

15. #x3001;莫认为熟人好办事，熟人更易坑你。

15. #x3001; Be cautious of being too friendly with strangers, as people are more likely to take advantage of you.

16. #x3001;倘若你富有，务必低调。

16. If you have a lot, be sure to adjust the dosage.

17. #x3001;越明事理之人，承受的伤害亦越多。

17. The more people who understand the logic of things, the greater the harm they are likely to suffer.

18. 侯海洋意识到，宏大的社会变革，不只是电视新闻里传来的精神或掌声，当它抵达基层的时候，就会立刻主宰自己的命运；他开始在“新闻联播”里，寻找自己下一步的方向。

18. Hou Haiyang realized that the grand social changes are not just the spirit or applause transmitted through television news. When they reach the grassroots level, they immediately take control of their own destiny. He began to look for his next step in the "News Broadcast."

19. 《红色权力》是创世中文网连载的网络小说，作者是录事参军。小说描写了红色子弟重生后，从南疆战场进入官场，心负凌云之志，胸怀天下百姓。起起落落又何妨，只要这华夏得以改变！

19. "Red Power" is a novel serialized on Chuangshi China Network, written by Luoshi Canjun. The novel describes the story of a red descendant who is reborn and enters the officialdom after serving in the southern battlefield, carrying the ambition of soaring clouds and a heart full of care for the people of the world. What's the matter with ups and downs? As long as this China can be changed!

20. #x3001;一句不当的戏言，他人会铭记终生。

20. A single inappropriate remark, and others will remember it for the rest of their lives.

21. 英俊的男人、美丽的女人，在职场与生活中就是能够获得特殊关照，莫要不信，此乃现实。故而对普通之人而言，务必要在衣着妆扮和气质风度上多下功夫，即便没有出众的容颜，也能整洁干净，令人刮目相看。

21. The handsome man, the beautiful woman, in the workplace and in life can easily obtain special attention; one must not be suspicious, as this is a fact. On the other hand, for the general public, it is necessary to excel in appearance, mannerisms, and aesthetic taste, even if one does not have outstanding qualities, one can still make a complete impression, making people look at them with admiration.

22. 你不哭闹，亦不争取，凡事皆看他人脸色，不愿给他人添麻烦，认为此乃懂事。实则，这是懦弱之体现，长此以往，他人便知你此人难起波澜，亦不会给他们惹麻烦，自然选择伤害你而非他人。

22. You are not quarrelsome, not contentious, and do not judge others by their appearance, unwilling to give them offense or cause them distress, thinking this to be polite. In fact, this is a sign of weakness in your character. From now on, others will know that you are difficult to deal with, and will not want to cause you offense or distress, naturally choosing to harm you rather than others.

23. 你身旁之人会来榨干你的财富，可他们定然不会感激你，反倒觉得此乃你应为之事，有人甚至会于背后诋毁你。此乃人性，故而，若你富有，务必低调，莫要傻乎乎使自己陷入麻烦之中。

23. The enemies will come to ravage your possessions, but they will certainly not be moved by you, rather, they will feel that you should be subject to this for the matter, and some may even whisper curses behind your back. As for this human nature, however, if you have much, it is necessary to be modest, and avoid being excessively proud so as to completely fall into the pit of arrogance.

24. 抽烟饮酒、刷视频玩游戏，诚然痛快，但愉悦过后，便空无一物。穷人常常自我宽慰，人需放松和娱乐，然而那些真正促你成长之事，过程通常充满艰辛，你可以不在意，但结局不会陪你佯装。

24. Smoking and drinking, watching TV series and playing games, may be harmful and painful, but after the joy is over, there is nothing left. The person who is always self-disciplined, people need to relax and enjoy themselves, otherwise those who are always busy will make you feel exhausted, and you may not intend to, but at the end, you will not be excluded.

25. 1995年，身心疲惫的侯海洋回到茂东市巴山县柳河镇，感到时代变革的狂飙，抵达这里的时候已经减弱，但仍如微风一样，吹动着一草一木，起伏不已。

25. In 1995, exhausted both physically and mentally, Hou Haoyang returned to Liuzhen Town, Ba County, Maodong City, and felt the whirlwind of the era's transformation. By the time he arrived, the storm had subsided, but it was still as gentle as a breeze, stirring every blade of grass and tree, causing them to sway continuously.

26. #x3001;家境尽量往优处讲，莫让人知晓你家贫。

26. Do not excessively praise your family, as it may make people aware of your family's wealth.

27. 领导与你称兄道弟，乃因领导欲塑造亲民形象，且你深得领导喜爱；可你若信以为真，主动与老板称兄道弟，便是越界。人，务必要明晰自身定位，级别未达，切勿胡来。

27. Guide you and your so-called "companion of music," because the guide is fond of carving and creating national figures, and you deeply love the guide; but if you believe that it is true, then to actively accompany the old man and the so-called "companion of music" is even more extreme. People, it is necessary to determine their own position clearly and independently, and do not be deceived by others.