在繁华的都市中，女性精英的身影在朋友圈中熠熠生辉。今日案例，揭秘她们背后的故事。

In the bustling metropolis, the figures of female elites shine brilliantly in social circles. Today's case reveals their behind-the-scenes stories.

1. 49不乱于心，不困于情，不畏将来，不念过往。

1. Be unruffled by 49, not entangled by emotions, not afraid of the future, and not obsessed with the past.

2. 4如果我有尾巴的话，恐怕要在你面前摇个不停

2.4 If I had a tail, I'm afraid I'd be wagging it non-stop in front of you.

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4. 9世上最遥远的距离，不是生与死的距离，不是天各一方，而是我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你。

4.9 The greatest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, nor the distance between two people far apart, but rather that I am standing right in front of you, and you do not know that I love you.

5. 17生命，是互相矛盾的，是万幸的，也是不幸的，没尊严，未必出卖人格，没势力，未必没能力，多少的高瞻远瞩，多少的人穷是非多，看透了，一切都过去了。命运是一种看不见的字眼，也是一种斑斓如月的风景，爱也是等，等也是情，多少的失去，只是一个人的懂，多少的判断，只是一个人的怀疑。猜测也好，是非也好，总有人的辜负，也有人的凄凉，唯一的懂，是生命的奇迹，唯一的错，是人生的坎坷，读懂是一种伤害，错过是一种遗憾。

5. 17 Life is contradictory, a mixture of fortune and misfortune, without dignity, it may not sell one's character, without power, it may not lack ability. There are many far-sighted people, and many who are contentious due to their poverty. When one sees through it all, it is as if everything has passed. Fate is a word that is unseen, and also a landscape as colorful as the moon. Love is waiting, and waiting is affection. Many losses are just one person's understanding, and many judgments are just one person's doubts. Whether it's speculation or judging right from wrong, there are always people who let you down, and there are always people who feel desolate. The only understanding is the miracle of life, and the only mistake is the ups and downs of life. Understanding is a kind of hurt, and missing is a kind of regret.

6. 15你之所以不幸福，是因为你爱的人不是我。

6. The reason you are not happy is because the person you love is not me.

7. 2曾经我也是靠脸吃饭的，后来差点饿死才放弃。

7.2 I used to make a living with my looks, but I nearly starved to death and then gave up.

8. 21我本来是要行走江湖的，但是遇见你我觉得我可以停一停。

8. Originally, I was going to wander the world, but meeting you makes me feel like I can take a break.

9. 44爱你爱的好累，爱的好绝望，你的心里能够撑下无数个女人，而我的心里只撑下你一个男生，为什么你不能仅有我。

9. 44 I love you so much that it's exhausting and desperate. Your heart can accommodate countless women, but mine can only hold one man like you. Why can't you only have me?

10. 7别说别人可怜，自己更可怜，自己修行又如何？自己又懂得人生多少？

10. 7 Don't say others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. What is the point of your own cultivation? How much of life do you really understand?

11. 14多想情窦初开是你，细水长流是你，柴米油盐是你，余生白首的也是你！

11. How I wish that the beginning of my affection was you, the gentle flow of time was you, the everyday necessities of life were you, and that you were also the one I would spend my remaining years with, growing old together!

12. 15当你烦恼的时候，你就要告诉你自己，这一切都是假的，你烦恼什么？

12. 15 When you are troubled, you should tell yourself that all this is false. What are you troubled about?

13. 45我在爱情中把自己贬到一个小丑的位置，只为看到你灿烂的笑容。

13.45 I have devalued myself to the position of a clown in love, just to see your radiant smile.

14. 12不要让人生充满遗憾，懂得了太多看透了世俗，徘徊犹豫，可能安逸了太久，觉得这一切都理所当然，留下的只有遗憾了。

14. Don't let life be filled with regrets. Knowing too much and seeing through the mundane world, hesitating and wavering, might have been too complacent for too long, thinking everything is taken for granted. What's left is only regret.

15. 2最近有谣言说我恋爱了，我来澄清一下这是真的

15.2 There have been rumors lately that I'm in a relationship, so I want to clarify that this is true.

16. 19我等过你的 未来都来了 你也没来

16. I've waited for your future, and it's all arrived, but you haven't come.

17. 10今天长这样，明天长什么样我再想想办法。

17. 10 Today it looks like this, and what it will look like tomorrow, I still need to think of a way.

18. 16生气，是用别人的过错来惩罚自己的蠢行。夕阳如金，皎月如银，人生的幸福和快乐尚且享受不尽，哪里还有时间去生气呢？看开些吧！

18. Being angry is a foolish act of punishing oneself with others' mistakes. The setting sun is like gold, the bright moon like silver; the happiness and joy in life are endless to enjoy, where is there time to be angry? Take it easy and look on the bright side!

19. 10以往念念不忘的人，之后只是一个名字；曾以为过不去的`事，日后可是只是故事。

19.10 The person who was always on your mind in the past is now just a name; the event that you thought you couldn't get over will later become just a story.

20. 19我假装无所谓，告诉我自己，我那么的坚强，我可以承受一切的。可是，当我被遗忘在角落的时候，我才发现，我输不起，我会害怕。

20. I feigned indifference, telling myself, I am so strong, I can bear everything. But when I was forgotten in the corner, I realized that I cannot afford to lose, and I will be afraid.

21. 12我相信，我会遇见倾国倾城的你，就像终会来临的雨。

21. 12 I believe that I will meet you, the person who captivates the world, just as the rain will inevitably come.

22. 11像我这种过分敏感又极度缺乏安全感的人，要是爱上了就必须得占有，如果无法占有，相处对我来说绝对是艰熬，不如不爱。

22. 11 For someone like me who is overly sensitive and severely lacks a sense of security, if I fall in love, I must possess the other. If I am unable to possess, coexisting with them is absolutely torturous for me. It's better not to love at all.

23. 38姐妹们不好意思了，我太馋了，先恋爱了。

23. 38 Sisters, I'm sorry, I was too greedy and got into a relationship first.

24. 40给你一点甜头你就喜欢他了，这就是幼稚。

24. If you like him just because he gives you a little bit of sweetness, that's幼稚 (immature).

25. 19看透人生，应是心情上的纾解：人生如梦，当知天乐，对酒当歌，人生几何，遇饮酒时须饮酒，得高歌处且高歌。

25. 19 Understanding life should be a relief of the mind: Life is like a dream, one should know the joy of nature, sing songs to the wine, how many are the years of life, when it's time to drink, one must drink, and when it's time to sing, one should sing loudly.

26. 10保持美丽的秘诀：以前是睡觉，现在是修图。

26. The secret to staying beautiful: it used to be sleeping, now it's photo editing.

27. 我不擅辞令，也不会低头，更不会撒娇，所以，遭遇坎坷也是寻常之事。

27. I am not good with words, I will not bow my head, nor will I act cute, so encountering difficulties is an ordinary matter.

28. 16离开你后，真遗憾，活成了你喜欢的样子，可惜你再也不是我的了。

28. 16 It's a real pity that after leaving you, I've become the person you like, but unfortunately, you're no longer mine.

29. 14切已成浮云只有回忆依然存在仿佛就在昨天昔日从未想相信今后就此分离心痛后悔泪水悔之晚矣。

29. What was once 14 is now like a passing cloud, only the memories remain, as if they happened just yesterday. Back then, I never thought we would part ways like this. The pain in my heart, the regret, the tears - all too late.

30. 1在这个薄情的世界，你想拿深情留住什么呢？

30. 1 In this fickle world, what do you want to hold on to with your deep affection?

31. 3最近有谣言说我结婚了，我要澄清一下，这是真的

31. 3 There have been rumors recently that I got married, so I want to clarify that this is true.

32. 27安慰别人时头头是道，却在深夜独自难过，人都这样，道理都是说给别人听的。

32. 27 One is good at comforting others, but feels sad alone at night. It's like this with everyone; the道理 are all meant to be spoken to others.

33. 18不要以你所见去评判别人。因为，你看见的，只是他们想让你看到的。表面的，往往并非真相。

33. 18 Do not judge others by what you see. For what you see is only what they want you to see. The surface often is not the truth.

34. 18看透一切，善待自己，每个人曾经都经历过很多事，将来还要去做很多事，所以要学会看透一些过去的悲伤以及现在的烦恼，好好的珍惜现在。

34. 18 See through everything, treat yourself well. Everyone has experienced many things in the past and will have to do many things in the future, so you should learn to see through some past sorrows and present troubles, and cherish the present well.

35. 9人生本来一场空，有无之间的更替便是人生，得失之后的心态决定苦乐。缘来不拒，境去不留，看透得失。

35. Life is originally empty, and the alternation between having and not having is life itself. The attitude after gains and losses determines happiness and suffering. Embrace what comes with destiny, and let go of what passes away, and see through gains and losses.

36. 14抱最大希望，尽最大努力，做最坏打算，持最好心态，记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的，改变能改变的，接受成事实的，太阳总是新的，每天都是美好的日子。

36. With the greatest hope, give your utmost effort, prepare for the worst, maintain the best attitude, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, the sun is always new, every day is a beautiful day.

37. 32等不起的人就不要等了，你的痴情感动不了一个不爱你的人。伤害你的，不是对方的绝情，而是你心存幻想的坚持。

37. Don't wait for those who won't wait, your foolish affection cannot move someone who doesn't love you. What harms you is not the other person's coldness, but your persistence in holding on to daydreams.

38. 44你低估了我想陪你走下去的决心，我也高估了我在你心里的位置，我无话可说，就是觉得那股义无反顾的竟好多余

38. 44 You underestimated my determination to walk with you, and I overestimated my position in your heart. There's nothing I can say, I just feel that the unwavering resolve is more than a bit excessive.

39. 13人生该来的总会来，该走的留不住，看明白了，看透了，看淡了，就好了！你无法改变外在的一切，只有通过外在的一切来改变内在的自己，万事万物总有它发展的规律，和因果关系，每个人成功的背后总有一部血泪史，你生命出现的每个人，都是该出现的，帮你，渡你，励练你，这就是你的命，常怀感恩之心，微笑着淡然面对，做最美最好的自己。

39. Life will bring what it should bring, and what should leave will not be retained. Once you understand, see through, and become indifferent, everything will be alright! You cannot change everything external, but only change the inner self through everything external. Everything in the world has its own development规律 and cause and effect relationships. Behind every person's success, there is always a history of blood and tears. Every person who appears in your life is meant to be there, to help you, guide you, and train you. This is your destiny. Always carry a grateful heart, face it calmly with a smile, and be the best version of yourself.

40. 14多少爱情都是开始你给我幸福，最后我给你祝福。

40. How much love starts with you giving me happiness, and ends with me giving you blessings.

41. 我把你拉到了黑名单，可是却没办法把你从我心里揪出来

41. I added you to the blacklist, but I can't pull you out of my heart.

42. 26春天会下雪，夏天有大雨，秋天会起风，冬天有艳阳，一年四季会有很多意外，但最迷人的，还是遇见了你。

42. In spring, it may snow; in summer, there may be heavy rain; in autumn, the wind may rise; in winter, there may be bright sunshine. There will be many surprises throughout the year, but the most charming of all is meeting you.

43. 11面对别人的夸赞，淡然一笑，面对他人的贬低，静若止水。心中是一种“看庭前花开花落，宠辱不惊；望天空云卷云舒，去留无意”的淡淡情怀。当看透了一切，心胸宽广了，性格豁达了。不再对一些事情耿耿于怀，不再对一点小事斤斤计较；不会沉浸在虚无缥缈的梦幻里做梦，不会在不必要的人或事情上浪费时间。远离虚伪，拥抱真诚，做真实而喜爱的自己。

43. In the face of praise from others, a calm smile; in the face of criticism, serene as still water. In the heart, there is a gentle sentiment of "watching the flowers bloom and wither in the courtyard, remain unperturbed by favor or disfavor; gazing at the sky as clouds gather and disperse, without intention of staying or leaving." When one sees through everything, one's breadth of mind expands and one's character becomes open. No longer fixated on certain things, no longer overly concerned about trivial matters; not immersed in the illusions of dreams, not wasting time on unnecessary people or things. Distance oneself from falsity, embrace sincerity, and be the genuine and beloved self.

44. 12是平凡生活中的英雄梦想，是一种不老不死的欲望柴米油盐，生儿育女，一眼百年

44. 12 is a hero's dream in ordinary life, a desire for immortality and eternal youth; it's about the mundane aspects of life like buying groceries, raising children, and looking ahead to a century in an instant.

45. 22我是神赐的礼物，上天给你的公主，我要你对我毫无理由的偏心，大千世界，处处繁花似锦，能够遇见你是我三生有幸。

45. 22 I am a gift bestowed by God, a princess given to you by the heavens. I want you to show me an unconditional favor. In the vast world, everywhere is full of blooming flowers. It is my three lives' fortune to meet you.

46. 38我什么也没有，所以你别指望我给你什么。

46. 38 I have nothing, so don't expect me to give you anything.

47. 30自己的世界没必要让别人去懂，没几个人是真心的，别傻了，只在乎在乎自己的就好。

47. There's no need for others to understand your own world. Not many people are sincere. Don't be foolish; just care about what matters to you.

48. 28我知道你也在向我靠近，星河万顷都是我的见面礼。

48. 28 I know you are coming closer to me as well; the vast expanse of the Milky Way is my gift for meeting you.

49. 9温馨提示：你已经半天没有理你的小可爱了。

49. 9 Gentle Reminder: You've ignored your little darling for half a day now.

50. 5总有些惊奇的际遇 比方说当我遇见你。

50. 5 There are always surprising encounters, like when I met you.