心灵鸡汤，生活美好，随心所欲。十六句心语，决定一切，其余皆随心情而定。

Chicken soup for the soul, life is beautiful, do as you wish. Sixteen heartwarming sayings determine everything, and the rest is determined by one's mood.

1. 喝了很多水，却填不满每个夜晚对梦想的饥渴。

1. I've drunk a lot of water, yet it doesn't satisfy the thirst for dreams each night.

2. 人的一生注定会遇到两个人，一个惊艳了时光，一个温柔了岁月。

2. In a person's lifetime, it is destined to meet two individuals: one who astonishes time, and one who softens years.

3. 15梦想这个东西，放在心中越重，离现实越远。不要等着天上掉馅饼，也不要奢望上天对你的同情。唯一去努力，才有可能看见一片新的天空。我们不妨这么想，有结果的努力是锻炼，没有结果的努力是磨炼，不管怎样，每一种际遇都是你生命中不可或缺的元素。

3. The thing about dreams, the heavier they weigh on your heart, the further they are from reality. Don't wait for manna to fall from the heavens, nor do you expect sympathy from the heavens above. The only way to see a new horizon is to strive for it. Let's think about it this way: efforts that yield results are training, while efforts without results are a refining process. No matter how it turns out, every encounter is an indispensable element in your life.

4. 在这个世界上，什么事情都可以将就，只有结婚这件事情没办法将就。因为你要的不是一张证书，你要的是结婚后的一种生活。从结婚到老，你有足足几十年的人生。哪一天，都没办法面对一个将就的人。所以，人生就是，宁可孤单，也不将就。

4. In this world, almost anything can be compromised, but getting married is the one thing that cannot be compromised. Because what you're not after is just a piece of paper; what you're after is a lifestyle that comes with marriage. From marriage to old age, you have a full few decades of life. On no day can you face someone who is just making do. So, in life, it's better to be alone than to compromise.

5. 风度气质一定要优于才华展现，否则，你的才华很容易被人忽视。人们往往先敬重风度仪态，而后才敬重才华才情；先倾慕外在仪态，而后才倾慕内在智慧。

5. The elegance and temperament must always surpass the display of talent, otherwise, your talent is likely to be overlooked. People often respect elegance and demeanor first, and then respect talent and artistic flair; they admire the outer appearance first, and then the inner wisdom.

6. 11失败与挫折并不可怕，可怕的是丧失了自信，丧失了激发我们积极向上的内在动力。让我们重拾信心，始终坚信：人生航船由我们自己掌舵，只要鼓起自信的风帆，就能战胜风浪，抵达美好彼岸。

6.11 Failure and setbacks are not可怕的, what is可怕的 is losing confidence and losing the inner motivation that drives us to be positive and upward. Let us regain our confidence and always believe firmly: the ship of life is steered by ourselves. As long as we raise the sails of confidence, we can overcome the storms and reach the beautiful shore.

7. 这个世界不会绝情到让你无路可走，总有一个你坚持的理由。

7. The world will not be merciless to the point of leaving you with no way out, there is always a reason for you to persist.

8. 38一个人除非自我有信心，否则无法带给别人信心。

8.38 One cannot give confidence to others unless they have confidence in themselves.

9. 要永远坚信这一点：一切都会变的，无论受多大创伤心情多么沉重，一贫如洗也好，都要坚持住。太阳落了还会升起，不幸的日子总会有尽头，过去是这样，将来也是这样。

9. Always believe this: Everything changes, no matter how much injury you have suffered or how heavy your heart is, no matter how poor you are, you must hold on. The sun will rise again after it sets, and the days of misfortune will always have an end. This has been true in the past, and it will be true in the future as well.

10. 处在他人之上时，要把众人都当作老师；处于他人之下时，要把自己当作学徒。

10. When in a position above others, regard everyone as your teacher; when in a position below others, consider yourself as an apprentice.

11. 我之所以这么努力，是不想在年华老去之后鄙视自己。

11. The reason why I work so hard is that I don't want to look down on myself when my youth has passed.

12. 这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。

12. In this world, no one lives an easier life than anyone else; some people cry out to the heavens, while others remain silent and steadfast.

13. 40没人想的小孩，终究要自己撑起一片天空。

13. The child unwanted by 40 people will eventually have to hold up a piece of sky by themselves.

14. 他曾是我的太阳我的信仰，如今我自己也可以给自己满满信心和干劲。

14. He used to be my sun and my faith, but now I can give myself full confidence and vitality.

15. 踏踏实实找个人一起生活。你喜欢他他喜欢你。没有秘密。没有出轨。没有不开心。性格不合适可以磨合。习惯不一样可以适应。只要都有一颗想一直走下去的决心就好。

15. Settly down with someone to live together. You like him and he likes you. There are no secrets, no affairs, and no unhappiness. If personalities don't match, they can be worked out. If habits differ, they can be adapted. As long as both of you have the determination to keep going, that's all that matters.

16. 有事情是要说出来的，不要等着对方去领悟，因为对方不是你，不知道你想要什么，等到最后只能是伤心和失望，尤其是感情。

16. There are things that need to be said, don't wait for the other person to understand, because they are not you and don't know what you want. In the end, it can only lead to heartache and disappointment, especially in matters of the heart.

17. 年龄从来不是界限，除非你自己拿来为难自己。愿你活出自己想要的人生，无论何时，年华都盛开。

17. Age is never a barrier, unless you use it to trouble yourself. May you live the life you want, with each passing year blossoming in beauty.

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19. 成功的道路上，肯定会有失败；对于失败，我们要正确地看待和对待，不怕失败者，则必成功；怕失败者，则一无是处，会更失败。

19. On the road to success, there will undoubtedly be failures; we must view and treat failure correctly. Those who are not afraid of failure will surely succeed; whereas, those who are afraid of failure are of no use and will only fail even more.

20. 按自己希望的方式生活不叫自私，要求别人按照自己希望的方式生活才叫自私。

20. Living according to one's own desires is not selfishness; it is only selfishness when one demands that others live according to one's own desires.

21. 34人生最大的光荣，不在于永不失败，而在于能屡仆屡起。

21. The greatest glory in life is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

22. 认识一个人靠缘分，了解一个人靠耐心，征服一个人靠智慧，和睦相处靠包容。

22. Recognizing a person relies on fate, understanding a person requires patience, conquering a person depends on wisdom, and harmonious coexistence relies on tolerance.

23. 24如果你想得到，你就会得到，你所需要付出的只是行动。

23. 24 If you want it, you will get it; the only thing you need to do is take action.

24. 现在困难点，没关系，要知道，容易走的都是下坡路。

24. It's challenging now, but that's fine. Remember, the easy paths are all downhill.

25. 不期待突如其来的好运，只希望所有的努力终有回报。

25. Do not expect sudden good fortune, but only hope that all the efforts will eventually be rewarded.

26. 我讨厌某种人很长一段时间都忽略我，然后又突然开始和我说话，好像什么事情也没有发生过一样。

26. I hate it when someone ignores me for a long time and then suddenly starts talking to me as if nothing ever happened.

27. 别人看到的是你的过去，你应该看到的是自己的潜力。有梦想就别怕质疑。

27. What others see is your past, what you should see is your own potential. If you have dreams, don't be afraid of doubts.

28. 看淡一点再努力一点，你吃的苦会铺成你要的路。

28. Take it lightly and work harder; the hardships you endure will pave the path you want to take.

29. 那一缕缕充满希望的阳光,是我们前进的动力,是我们坚强不屈的毅力青春,是一块块大小不一的石头,

29. Those beams of hopeful sunshine are the driving force behind our progress, the strength and indomitable will of our youthful vigor, and they are like stones of varying sizes.

30. 一个人的时候多一点努力，才能让自己的爱情少一点条件，多一点纯粹。

30. One should put in more effort when alone, so that their love has fewer conditions and more purity.

31. 你若有颗不屈的灵魂，定能感动上帝的温存;你若有个坚定的信仰，定能唤得众生的仰望。

31. If you possess an indomitable spirit, you will surely move God's tender care; if you have a steadfast faith, you will surely elicit the admiration of all beings.

32. 不要占朋友的便宜，关系再怎么亲密，一旦没有界限，就没有底线了。

32. Don't take advantage of your friends. No matter how close the relationship is, without boundaries, there are no limits.

33. Has not been difficult, then does not have attains 没有艰辛，便无所获。

33. It has not been difficult, then it does not attain anything.

34. 有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的健忘。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。

34. Some things are meant to be kept in the heart, some pains are best forgotten silently. When you've experienced it, you grow; it's enough to know it yourself.

35. 梦想不仅仅是为了拿来实现的，而是有一件事情，在远远的地方提醒我们：我们可以去努力，可以变成更好的人。

35. Dreams are not only for realization, but also there is something in the distant place reminding us: we can strive and can become better individuals.

36. 36坚强是成功者的通行证，懦弱是失败者的墓志铭。

36. Fortitude is the passport of the successful, while cowardice is the epitaph of the defeated.

37. 我生来一贫如洗，但决不能死时仍旧贫困潦倒。

37. I was born in poverty, but I will never die in destitution.

38. 爱情里最棒的心态就是：我的一切付出都是心甘情愿，我对此绝口不提。你若投桃报李，我会十分感激。你若无动于衷，我也不灰心丧气。直到有一天我不愿再这般爱你，那就让我们一别两宽，各生欢喜。

38. The best attitude in love is: All my efforts are made with a willing heart, and I never mention them. If you return my kindness, I will be very grateful. If you remain indifferent, I will not be discouraged. Until one day, I no longer wish to love you in this way, then let us part ways amicably, each finding joy in our own lives.

39. 你既认准这条路，又何必在意要走多久，看过人生繁华，还是平淡最真。每个人都有难以释怀，和无法忘记的事情。如果真的很在意，也应该放下。没有必要为无法改变的事实去苦恼，历史不会重演，时光也不可能倒流的。

39. Since you have chosen this path, why worry about how long it will take? After all, having seen the prosperity and tranquility of life, the latter is the most genuine. Everyone has things that they find hard to let go of and cannot forget. If you truly care, you should let it go. There is no need to worry about facts that cannot be changed, as history will not repeat itself, and time cannot flow backward.

40. 放眼前方，只要我们继续，收获的季节就在前方！

40. Look ahead, as long as we continue, the harvest season is just ahead!

41. 有些事，再美好，皆成往事，但无法回转。就算命运再不堪，我们都要前行，颓废在曾经中，除了作茧自缚，什么也得不到。唯有大胆解放自己，前面才会海阔天空。

41. Some things, no matter how beautiful, become the past and cannot be reversed. Even if fate is dire, we must move forward. Wallowing in the past only leads to self-imprisonment and brings nothing but frustration. It is only by boldly liberating ourselves that we can open up a vast expanse of possibilities ahead.

42. 愿你成为自己喜欢的样子，不抱怨，不将就，有野心，有光芒！

42. May you become the person you like, without complaining, without settling, with ambition, and with radiance!

43. 我挺喜欢自己经历的那些人生的，从没顺风顺水过。日子就像一个又一个预期违背的段子，命运兜兜转转，幸福躲躲藏藏。在那些不断发生的挫折里，我其实只做好了一件事，就是照顾好自己。我学会了周旋与忍让，同时也获得了勇气和决心。如今再没有什么事可以击败我了。再也没有了。

43. I quite like the lives I've experienced; I've never had it easy. Days are like one joke after another that defies expectations, fate twists and turns, and happiness hides and seeks. Amidst the continuous setbacks, I've actually only done one thing well, and that is to take care of myself. I've learned to maneuver and to compromise, and I've also gained courage and determination. Now, there's nothing that can defeat me anymore. There's nothing left.

44. 已经不记得说过多少次再也不理他了再也不因为他委屈自己了真的发誓再也不喜欢他了，可是只要他稍稍一勾手，我还是跟着走。

44. I can't remember how many times I've said I would never talk to him again, never subject myself to his whims any more. I've even sworn I would never like him anymore, but as soon as he extends his hand a little, I still follow.

45. 17美好的一天，上帝不会就这样给你，需要自己去创造。

45. 17 A good day doesn't just come to you from God; you need to create it yourself.

46. 一定要振作起来啊，因为，明天还有更糟糕的等着我呢。⌒

46. You must pull yourself together, because there's even worse waiting for me tomorrow. ⌒

47. 别人的经历终究只是传闻，自己的日子才是真实的生活。与其细数他人的美妙时刻，不如勾勒自己独一无二的景致。

47. Other people's experiences are ultimately just hearsay, while one's own days are the true life. It's better to depict one's own unique scenery than to enumerate others' wonderful moments.

48. 后来回忆起的，不是获得的荣誉，赢取的掌声，而是忙到快崩溃还咬牙坚持的日子。

48. What is remembered later is not the honors obtained or the applause earned, but the days of being busy to the brink of collapse and still biting the bullet to persevere.

49. 我以前不觉得我是一个能很好面对孤独的人，直到回头看才发现自己不知不觉走了很长一段路。人有时很脆弱，但只要咬牙继续向前走，回头看时都会惊讶于自己的忍耐力。你会从害怕一个人吃饭，害怕一个人坐车到习惯一个人面对生活的波折而从容不迫。希望我们每个人都能在孤独这门必修课上及格。

49. I didn't used to think of myself as someone who could handle solitude well, until looking back, I realized that I had unconsciously traveled a long way. People can be very fragile sometimes, but as long as you bite the bullet and keep moving forward, you will be surprised by your own resilience when you look back. You'll go from being afraid to eat alone, afraid to travel alone, to getting used to facing the vicissitudes of life alone with composure. I hope that each of us can pass this mandatory course in solitude.

50. Keep your feet on the ground, but let your heart soar as high as a kite! 脚踏实地，但是，心要像风筝一样飞得高!

50. Keep your feet on the ground, but let your heart soar as high as a kite! - Stay grounded, but let your spirit soar as high as a kite!

51. 世上最愚不可及的事，莫过于胸怀大志，却又虚掷光阴。

51. The most foolish thing in the world is to have great ambitions yet waste time.

52. 请无论顺逆都扬起你的笑脸啊，把影子留在身后。

52. Please raise your smiling face regardless of ups and downs, leaving your shadow behind.

53. 最让人钦佩的莫过于命运给了你一杯苦茶，你却一生都不曾懦弱。

53. Most admirable is that when destiny gives you a cup of bitter tea, you have never been cowardly throughout your life.

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55. 去学习知识，去阅读书籍，去充实自我，去见识外面的世界。与优秀的人交往，你的素养也会跟着提高。

55. Go and learn knowledge, read books, enrich yourself, and see the world outside. Associate with outstanding individuals, and your character will also improve accordingly.

56. 一想到大家都承受着生活的苦难努力向上地活着，就觉得每个平凡的人都很厉害。

56. Just thinking about how everyone is struggling with the hardships of life and striving to live upwards, I feel that every ordinary person is incredibly strong.

57. 有人伤了你的心，一定会有另一个人在等着为你修补。

57. Someone has hurt your heart, but there will definitely be someone else waiting to patch it up for you.

58. 有一些人的出现，就是来给我们开眼的。所以，你一定要禁得起假话，受得住敷衍，忍得住欺骗，忘得了承诺，放得下一切。

58. Some people come into our lives just to open our eyes. Therefore, you must be able to endure lies, bear with insincerity, tolerate deception, forget promises, and let go of everything.

59. 你现在需要做的就是：悄悄，悄悄地去努力，然后猛地蹦哒一下，让曾经小看且鄙夷过你的人吓他妈一跳。

59. What you need to do now is: quietly, quietly work hard, and then suddenly jump up, giving those who once looked down on and despised you a shock the hell out of them.

60. 9我想，在我们都还没成为他人之妇时，一定要一起去拍一次婚纱照，只属于我们的婚纱照。

60.9 I think that before any of us become someone else's wife, we should definitely go and take a wedding photo shoot together, a wedding photo just for us.

61. 成长就是从前我难过的时候，油盐不进茶饭不思，现在能一边流泪一边去厨房给自己下碗面，还不忘加俩荷包蛋。

61. Growth is about how, when I used to be sad, I couldn't take in food or drink, now I can cook myself a bowl of noodles while crying, and even remember to add two eggs.

62. 根本没有正确的选择，我们只不过是要努力奋斗把当初的选择变得正确。

62. There is no correct choice in the first place; we are merely striving to make the initial choice right through hard work.

63. 42不明白时，别乱说；懂得时，别多说。心乱时，慢慢说；没话时，就别说。

63. When you don't understand, don't speak carelessly; when you understand, don't speak excessively. When your mind is confused, speak slowly; when you have nothing to say, don't say anything.

64. 18同在一个环境中生活，强者与弱者的分界就在于谁能改变它。

64. 18 Living in the same environment, the distinction between the strong and the weak lies in who can change it.

65. 是你的，就是你的，越是紧握，越容易失去，我们努力了，珍惜了，问心无愧，其他的，交给命运。

65. It's yours if it's yours; the more tightly you grasp it, the easier it is to lose. We have tried our best, cherished it, and have no regrets in our hearts. The rest, we leave to fate.

66. 看清了很多人，却不能随意拆穿；讨厌着很多人，却又不能轻易翻脸。有时候，生活就是要逼自己变得逆来顺受，宠辱不惊。

66. I have seen many people clearly, but I cannot expose them at will; I dislike many people, yet I cannot easily turn against them. Sometimes, life is about forcing oneself to endure what comes, neither being perturbed by praise nor by blame.

67. 任何事情要想取得成功，必须肯下苦功，并有坚持到底的毅力。

67. In order to achieve success in anything, one must be willing to put in hard work and have the perseverance to see it through to the end.

68. 只有把握现在,才能在明天驰骋风云,只有把握现在,才能充实虚幻的明天,只有把握现在,才能造就明天的辉煌！

68. Only by grasping the present can we ride the whirlwind of tomorrow, only by grasping the present can we enrich the illusion of the future, and only by grasping the present can we create the brilliance of tomorrow!

69. 14现在的生活有的时候很疯狂，人们追求这些不能得到的，却舍弃这些人们最需要的'。

69. The current life is sometimes very crazy, where people chase after things that cannot be obtained, yet they forsake the things that are most needed by people.

70. 19都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，可你要是不结婚，就会让你的爱情死无葬身之地。

70. It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but if you don't get married, you will leave your love without a place to be buried.

71. 41不要因为外人反对而放弃，幸福是靠自己内心来感受的。

71. 41 Don't give up because of outsiders' opposition; happiness is felt from within one's own heart.