1. 只要站起来的次数比倒下去的次数多，那就是成功。

1. As long as the number of times you stand up is greater than the number of times you fall down, that is success.

2. 仁慈始于家庭，但不应当止于家庭。——福 莱

2. Compassion begins at home, but should not end there. – Fu Lei

3. 他是世界上最快乐的，因为他的家庭和睦。——（德）歌德

3. He is the happiest in the world because his family is harmonious. — (German) Goethe

4. 单凭美貌而获得的爱，那爱情是非常脆弱的。----里海尔

4. Love gained solely from beauty is very fragile. —— Ri海尔

5. 对待婚姻问题，必须严肃，不要饥不择食，不问**，只看外表，结果弄出很多纠纷，或者生活不到头。

5. In dealing with marriage issues, one must be serious and not be desperate to the point of settling for anything, without considering the essence, but only looking at appearances. This often leads to many disputes or an unsuccessful marriage.

6. 婚姻破裂的两大终极原因：相拥却并不相爱。相爱却不懂相处。婚姻里，夫妻间的相处比相爱还更重要。

6. The two ultimate reasons for the breakdown of marriage: embracing each other but not loving each other, and loving each other but not knowing how to coexist. In marriage, the way couples interact is more important than their love.

7. 没有你的天，不蓝！没有你的花，不艳！没有你的饭，不香！没有你的眠，不甜！亲爱的，你为什么还不回来？

7. Without you, the sky is not blue! Without you, the flowers are not bright! Without you, the food is not fragrant! Without you, the sleep is not sweet! Darling, why haven't you come back yet?

8. 他是世界上最快乐的，因为他的家庭和睦。（德）歌德

8. He is the happiest in the world because his family is harmonious. (German) Goethe

9. 适当地用理智控制住爱情，有利无弊，发疯似的滥施爱情，有弊无利。

9. Appropriately controlling love with reason is beneficial with no drawbacks, while wildly and excessively indulging in love is detrimental with no benefits.

10. 无论多豪华的婚礼都不代表幸福婚姻，两个人终生相处和睦与否和筵开几席、多少首饰全无关联。

10. No matter how luxurious the wedding is, it does not represent a happy marriage. Whether two people live in harmony throughout their lives has nothing to do with the number of banquets or the amount of jewelry they have.

11. 立志用功如种树然，方其根芽，犹未有干；及其有干，尚未有枝；枝而后叶，叶而后花。 ——王守仁

11. To be diligent in pursuit of one's goals is like planting a tree. At the beginning, when only the roots and buds are present, there is no trunk yet; when the trunk has formed, there are still no branches; and only after the branches appear do the leaves grow, and after the leaves, flowers bloom. — Wang Shouren

12. 爱情像一只透明水晶球，昂贵美丽，但很容易打碎。婚姻像一袋五彩玻璃球，什么颜色都有，可惜再多也不值钱。

12. Love is like a transparent crystal ball, expensive and beautiful, but easily broken. Marriage is like a bag of colorful glass balls, with every color imaginable, but unfortunately, no matter how many there are, they are not worth much.

13. 与被爱的人长期相处的秘诀是：放弃改变对象的念头。

13. The secret to a long-term relationship with the beloved is: abandon the idea of changing the object.

14. 花惯老婆钱的男人，他的责任感像大年初一赌的咒一样虚无渺茫。

14. A man accustomed to spending his wife's money has a sense of responsibility as intangible and elusive as the oaths sworn on the first day of the New Year.

15. 获得爱情你可以随便用什么办法，而保持爱情却需要智慧。

15. You can use any method to win love, but maintaining love requires wisdom.

16. 成为一个成功者最重要的条件，就是每天精力充沛的努力工作，不虚掷光阴。

16. The most important condition to become a successful person is to work diligently and energetically every day, not to waste time.

17. 遇到困难时不要抱怨，既然改变不了过去，那么就努力改变未来。

17. Do not complain when facing difficulties; since the past cannot be changed, strive to change the future instead.

18. 一只眼睛里闪烁着爱的光芒，而另一只眼睛却燃烧着自私的欲火。

18. One eye sparkles with the light of love, while the other burns with the flames of selfish desire.

19. 和睦时光总是短暂，就如人世间的欢愉总是刹那。花开则歇，月圆则亏，但凡世间美好的东西莫不如此。

19. Peaceful times are always fleeting, just as the joys in the world are always ephemeral. When flowers bloom, they fade; when the moon is full, it wanes. All the beautiful things in the world are like this.

20. 对所有的人以诚相待，同多数人和睦相处，和少数人常来常往，只跟一个亲密无间。

20. Treat everyone with sincerity, be amicable with the majority, have frequent interactions with a few, and maintain an intimate connection with only one person.

21. 幸福的家庭都是相似的；不幸的家庭各有各自的不幸。托尔斯泰L

21. Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. (Leo Tolstoy)

22. 女人对男人的期望比物价涨得还快；男人对女人的感情比股市变得还勤。

22. Women's expectations of men rise faster than the rise in prices; men's feelings for women change more frequently than the fluctuations in the stock market.

23. 了解爱情的人往往会因为爱情的升华而坚强了他们向上的意志和进取的精神。——培根

23. Those who understand love often become strengthened in their upward will and spirit of progress through the sublimation of love. — Bacon

24. 短暂的时间表里，四人围绕着这种虚伪，变得和睦起来。这种场合最需要的，是如今已明白的这样一种有形的虚伪。

24. In the brief timeline, the four of them grew harmonious around this hypocrisy. What is most needed in such an occasion is the tangible hypocrisy that is now clear to everyone.

25. 婚姻是两个人彼此包容，在给对方有个发展的空间下，渐渐合而为一。

25. Marriage is about two people包容 each other, gradually merging into one as they give each other space for growth and development.

26. Love is free, and free love is the most true

26. Love is free, and free love is the most sincere.

27. 喜欢一个人，是不会有痛苦的。爱一个人，也许有绵长的痛苦，但他给我的快乐，也是世上最大的快乐。

27. There is no pain in liking someone. In loving someone, there may be a long-lasting pain, but the joy he or she gives me is also the greatest joy in the world.

28. 因为有悔，所以披星戴月；因为有梦，所以奋不顾身。

28. Because of regret, one wears stars and the moon; because of dreams, one risks all for the sake of it.

29. 我宁愿用一小杯真善美来组织一个美满的家庭，不愿用几大船家具组织一个索然无味的家庭。海涅

29. I would rather organize a happy family with a small cup of truth, goodness, and beauty than organize a dull family with several large ships of furniture. Heinrich Heine

30. 太美丽的女人让男人失去欲望；太有钱的男人让女人缺乏安全感。

30. Women who are too beautiful make men lose desire; men who are too wealthy make women feel a lack of security.

31. 家庭成员的平等是家庭和睦幸福的基础。家是呼吁不平、治疗愤懑最好的地方。

31. The equality among family members is the foundation of harmonious and happy family life. Home is the best place to call for justice and heal resentment.

32. 身体是你终身必需携带的行李。行李超重越多，旅程越短。——AHG

32. Your body is the luggage you carry throughout your life. The heavier the luggage, the shorter the journey. — AHG

33. 幸福其实很简单，身体健康，双亲健在，夫妻和睦，孩子听话，金钱名利真的不重要。

33. Happiness is actually very simple: good health, living parents, a harmonious marriage, obedient children, and money and fame are truly not important.

34. 幻想的一爱一情比老实的一爱一情来得更活跃，但热烈的时光是短促的。司汤达

34. A fantasy romance is more lively than a sincere romance, but the passionate moments are brief. Stendhal

35. 总有那么一些事，来不及等我们去决定，就已经无法改变。

35. There are always some things that, before we have time to make a decision, cannot be changed.

36. 后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪，后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误，所以，不要后悔!

36. Regret is an emotional expenditure of spirit, regret is a loss greater than the loss, a mistake greater than the mistake, so, do not regret!

37. 最可怕的敌人，就是没有坚强的信念。 ——罗曼·罗兰 只要持续地努力，不懈地奋斗，就没有征服不了的东西。 ——塞内加

37. The most formidable enemy is the lack of strong belief. — Romain Rolland Just as long as you keep striving continuously and tirelessly, there is nothing that cannot be conquered. — Seneca

38. 幸福的家庭都是相似的；不幸的家庭各有各自的不幸。（俄）托尔斯泰

38. Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. (Russian) Tolstoy

39. 大凡一个人在急难之中，最容易流露真情。在太平无事的时候，由于拘谨，有些强烈的情感即便不能压抑下去，至少也会想法遮掩，可是处于心烦意乱的境况中，人就不会做作，无意中会将真实情感暴露出来。——司各特

39. It is often in times of adversity and distress that one's true feelings are most easily revealed. During peaceful times, due to shyness, some strong emotions may not be suppressed, but at least they are tried to be concealed. However, when one is in a state of confusion and distress, one will not act pretentiously and will inadvertently expose one's true feelings. — Scott

40. 爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙，它渴望得到一切，却几乎对一切都感到不满。

40. Love is a capricious fellow; it yearns for everything but is almost dissatisfied with everything.

41. 一份信心，一份努力，一份成功;十分信心，十分努力，十分成功。

41. One confidence, one effort, one success; ten confidence, ten efforts, ten success.

42. 父母要准备一个记事本，记录和孩子在一起发生的事情，或者发现的问题产生的困惑。经常记录的过程，其实就是一个简单的反省自己的过程。

42. Parents should prepare a notebook to record the events that happen while spending time with their child, or the confusion caused by problems they discover. The process of regularly making notes is actually a simple process of reflecting on oneself.

43. 一爱一情之中高尚的成分不亚于温柔的成分，使人向上的力量不亚于使人萎一靡一的力量，有时还能激发别的美德。伏尔泰

43. The noble elements in love and affection are no less than the tender ones, the power to uplift is no less than the power to discourage, and sometimes they can even inspire other virtues. Voltaire