1. 深藏不露的人自我防卫心理特强。生怕你窥视出他内心的秘密，其实，这是一种非常自卑的表现。若是你想了解他的为人和心理，不妨和他坐在一起多喝几次酒，让他酒后吐真言。

1. People who keep their true selves hidden have a very strong sense of self-defense. They are afraid that you might uncover their inner secrets, which, in fact, is a very egotistical manifestation. If you want to understand his character and psychology, why not sit together and drink a few times, allowing him to speak the truth under the influence of alcohol.

2. 我藏不住秘密，也藏不住忧伤，正如我藏不住爱你的喜悦，藏不住分离时的彷徨。我就是这样坦然，你舍得伤，就伤。

2. I can't hide secrets, nor can I hide my sadness, just as I can't hide my joy of loving you, nor can I hide my uncertainty at the time of separation. That's how I am, so unashamed. If you want to hurt, go ahead and hurt.

3. 这是我的一个秘密，再简单不过的秘密：一个人只有用心去看，才能看到真实。事情的真相只用眼睛是看不见的。

3. This is a secret of mine, a very simple secret: one can only see the truth by using the heart. The truth of things cannot be seen with the eyes alone.

4. 对于公子哥，花天酒地、逢场作戏，要慎重；对地痞、无赖要远离，不要惧伯恐吓**。

4. For the rich and idle, be cautious with indulging in debauchery and playing tricks; for hooligans and scoundrels, keep a distance and do not be afraid of their threats.

5. 或许，一些藏于心中的秘密或暗伤，都需要时间去风干，去沉锭，很多时候我们都要为自己的选择与过错去买单，仅仅如此，无关其它。繁华开在陌上，艳遇不经意惊扰了红尘。

5. Perhaps, some secrets or hidden injuries harbored in the heart need time to dry and settle. Often, we have to pay the price for our choices and mistakes. It's just like that, with nothing else involved. The bustling scene unfolds on the roadside, and accidental encounters in love unexpectedly disturb the secular world.

6. 喜欢就该珍惜，珍惜就别放弃。如果爱，请深爱；如不爱，请离开。

6. If you like, cherish it; if you cherish it, don't give up. If you love, love deeply; if you don't love, leave.

7. 我们的眼睛决定了，不论我们如何转动，永远都只能看到而生活是360°，所以，总有些我们不知道的事情……

7. Our eyes determine that, no matter how we turn, we can only see a portion of life, which is always 360 degrees. Therefore, there are always some things we do not know...

8. 我藏不住秘密，也藏不住忧伤，正如我藏不住爱你的喜悦，藏不住分离时的彷徨。

8. I cannot hide my secrets, nor can I conceal my sorrow, just as I cannot hide my joy in loving you, nor can I hide my confusion at the time of separation.

9. 郭敬明简介：郭敬明，1983年6月6日出生于四川省自贡市，中国作家、上海最世文化发展有限公司董事长、《最小说》等杂志主编。 高中时期以“第四维”为笔名在网站榕树下发表文章。

9. Introduction to Guo Jingming: Guo Jingming was born on June 6, 1983, in Zigong City, Sichuan Province, China. He is a Chinese writer, the chairman of Shanghai World Culture Development Co., Ltd., and the editor-in-chief of magazines such as "Zui Xiao Shuo." During his high school years, he published articles on the website Rongshu under the pen name "Di Si Wei."

10. 最灿烂的笑容藏着最深的秘密，最动人的眼睛流过最多的眼泪，最善良的心感受过最深刻的痛。人生不能虚度，自己要对得起自己。

10. The brightest smile hides the deepest secrets, the most captivating eyes have shed the most tears, and the kindest heart has felt the deepest pain. Life should not be squandered, and one must live up to oneself.

11. 不管你心里藏着什么秘密，我只想告诉你，你守你的秘密，我会好好守着你。

11. No matter what secrets you are keeping in your heart, I just want to tell you, you keep your secrets, and I will take good care of you.

12. 有本事的男人，不会怀疑自己的女人在外面有外遇，因为他相信自己的人格魅力，会吸引住自己爱的人。

12. A man with ability will not suspect his woman of having an affair outside, because he believes in the charm of his personality, which will attract the one he loves.

13. 别人拼命想掩盖的，必然是你不希望看到的。所以，追寻别人的秘密必然要承担知道秘密的后果

13. What others desperately try to conceal is inevitably something you do not want to see. Therefore, pursuing others' secrets necessarily entails the consequences of knowing those secrets.

14. 如果对我的秘密保持沉默，那么，这个秘密就是我看管的囚徒；如果失口说出了这个秘密，那我就变成了它的囚徒。

14. If silence is kept about my secret, then that secret becomes the prisoner under my guardianship; if I accidentally let out the secret, I become its prisoner.

15. 曾经拥有的不要忘记，难以得到的更要珍惜，属于自己的不要放弃，已经失去的留作回忆。

15. Never forget what you once had, cherish even more what is hard to obtain, never let go of what belongs to you, and keep what you have lost as a memory.

16. 只要不对别人说起，秘密就不算是秘密。一个人的秘密，那还叫什么秘密，只是记忆而已。

16. If one does not speak of it to others, it is not a secret. A secret of one's own is not really a secret at all; it is just a memory.

17. 没本事的男人，天天和女人抱怨，为了你，我失去了很多，我放弃了很多，如果要靠失去和放弃换来的爱情，那只不过是昙花一现。

17. A man without ability constantly complains to women, "For you, I have lost a lot, and I have given up a lot. If love can only be exchanged for what is lost and given up, then it is just a fleeting moment."

18. 生活必须被适当地搁置和隐蔽，不属于讨论范围。也许人的成熟是从拥有秘密开始。

18. Life must be appropriately set aside and concealed; it does not belong to the scope of discussion. Perhaps the maturity of a person begins with the possession of secrets.

19. 翻开本，提起笔，写下今天的心语，当秘密已不是秘密，话语已不是话语，站在原地，只剩回忆，剩下的只是仅此而已。

19. Open the book, pick up the pen, and write down today's inner thoughts. When the secret is no longer a secret, and the words are no longer words, standing in place, all that remains is memories, and only just that.

20. 如果每个人的内心，都像是锁了很多秘密的仓库。那么如果你够幸运的话，在你一生当中，你会碰到几个握有可以打开你内心仓库的钥匙。

20. If each person's inner self is like a warehouse filled with many secrets, then if you're lucky, throughout your life, you'll encounter a few people who hold the keys to unlock the warehouse of your inner self.

21. 秘密不能太大，大了不易收藏，容易暴露目标；也不能太小，太小了极易藏丢了。最好的尺寸是刚好让别人忽略，又正好够自己揣着偷笑。

21. The secret should not be too big, as it is difficult to conceal when it is large and it is prone to be exposed; nor should it be too small, as it is easily lost when too small. The best size is just enough for others to overlook, yet exactly right for oneself to carry and secretly smile.

22. 每个单身的人背后至少藏着一个让人心碎的秘密。生命中，总有些人，安然而来，静静守候，不离不弃；也有些人，浓烈如酒，疯狂似醉，却是醒来无处觅，来去都如风，梦过无痕。

22. Behind every single person, there is at least one heart-wrenching secret. In life, there are some people who come quietly, quietly wait, never leaving or forsaking; and some people, as intense as wine, as crazy as intoxication, but when they wake up, they can find nowhere, coming and going like the wind, leaving no trace in dreams.

23. 门当户对最好，要看对方的父母家庭，人性是有遗传的，父母不合的孩子，也难以处理好家庭关系。

23. A match made in heaven is ideal; it's best to consider the parents and family of the person you're considering. Human nature has a hereditary component, and children of mismatched parents often find it difficult to handle family relationships.

24. 做朋友便是做朋友那么简单，最恨别人去打听我的私隐，如果你认为值得付出友谊，让我们握手言欢，如果不，那么去找别人，但别试图探听我的秘密。我的秘密，属于黑暗。

24. Being friends is as simple as that; I hate it when people pry into my privacy. If you think it's worth the friendship, let's shake hands and be friends. If not, then find someone else, but don't try to uncover my secrets. My secrets belong to the dark.

25. 有本事的男人，可以家庭事业双照顾，而不会把爱情当作自己的负荷，不会说，为了爱情失去了很多，因为他知道，一切都是为了家好。

25. A man with ability can take care of both family and career, and he will not treat love as a burden on himself. He will not say that he has lost much for love, because he knows that everything is for the good of the family.

26. 秘密就是将它放在心底，不说，任是谁都不说，那才叫秘密。能说的，不是秘密。

26. The secret is to keep it in your heart, not to say it, not to say it to anyone, that's what a secret is. What can be said is not a secret.

27. 那时侯他觉得世界是一个秘密，他怀着喜悦和**千方百计要解开这个秘密，现在他觉得现实中的一切既简单有明了，一切都是由他所处的现实环境所决定。

27. At that time, he felt that the world was a mystery, and he was full of joy and all kinds of strategies to uncover it. Now, he finds that everything in reality is simple and clear, and everything is determined by the environment in which he lives.

28. 被泄露出的秘密才是秘密，如果秘密的存在不被知晓，那他还算什么秘密呢？

28. It is the secrets that are leaked that are secrets; if the existence of the secret is not known, then what is it even called a secret?

29. 所谓交心，不是让你好不保留内心的秘密去面对一个人，而是懂得别人对你好，你也对别人好，学会感恩和回窥。

29. So-called heart-to-heart communication does not mean revealing all your inner secrets to someone without reservation, but rather understanding that when others are good to you, you should also be good to them, and learn to be grateful and reciprocate.

30. 人的成长秘密，就是去不断淘汰自己，找到完美的路。生活中总是有太多的无奈，复杂，伤感，小说有太多遗憾，电视剧有太多的现实，电影有太多的悲凉，歌曲有太多的伤感，这些都是生活的折射。

30. The secret to human growth is to continuously eliminate oneself and find the perfect path. Life is always filled with too many helplessness, complexities, and sadness. Novels have too many regrets, TV dramas have too much reality, movies have too much melancholy, and songs have too much sorrow. All these are reflections of life.

31. 不知道从什么时候开始，心里已经藏了一堆的秘密。我的、他的、她的、他们的。这些秘密不能被赤裸裸地晒在阳光低下，只能永远地在这里被埋葬、腐烂、万劫不复。最后永垂不朽。

31. Since when, I don't know, but my heart has been harboring a heap of secrets. Mine, his, hers, theirs. These secrets cannot be exposed to the bare sunlight; they can only be buried and rot here forever, irretrievably lost. In the end, they become eternal.

32. 有时候你也会莫名其妙地不相信一个和你朝夕相处的人，哪怕你们曾经一起分享并且守护了无数个秘密，但是在那样的时候，你看着他的脸，你不相信他。

32. Sometimes, you might inexplicably doubt a person you live with day and night, even though you have shared and guarded countless secrets together. But at such times, when you look into his face, you don't believe him.

33. 我们彼此交换了秘密，你却用我的秘密来交换别人的秘密。

33. We exchanged secrets with each other, yet you used my secret to exchange for someone else's.

34. 为了生存在这个世上，所要遵守的原则是保守秘密，保守秘密就要说谎，由一个谎言不断引出其他谎言，秘密就是生命。

34. The principle to adhere to in order to survive in this world is to keep secrets. To keep secrets, one must lie, and from one lie, other lies are continually drawn out. The secret is life.

35. 人的一生，都有一些说不出的秘密，挽不回的遗憾，触不到的梦想，忘不了的爱。

35. In one's lifetime, there are always some unspoken secrets, irretrievable regrets, unattainable dreams, and unforgettable loves.

36. 如果你有一个秘密，就到深山里在树上挖个洞，然后对着这个洞说出你心中的秘密，这样秘密就不会被人知道。

36. If you have a secret, dig a hole in a tree in the deep mountains and then speak your heart's secret into this hole, so that no one will know the secret.

37. 永远不要听信任何己婚男人述说的爱情悲剧，孩子都生出来了，还谈没有爱情，可笑。婚姻家庭在没有孩子时是爱情，有了孩子，就是责任。不负责任的人，不配谈爱情。

37. Never believe any married man's tale of a love tragedy. Their children are already born, and they still talk about not having love, which is absurd. Marriage and family are love before children, and responsibility after children. Those who do not take responsibility are not worthy of talking about love.

38. 永远要记住，经济基础是第一位。中医讲，心主火、肺主金。以男子论，心爱谁，钱给谁。不给钱，没真心。空口说，瞎骗人。玩浪漫，哄傻人。

38. Always remember that the economic foundation is of the utmost importance. In traditional Chinese medicine, the heart rules over fire, and the lungs rule over metal. Speaking of men, the heart loves whom the money is given to. Without money, there is no sincerity. To speak without action is to deceive. To play romance is to fool the foolish.

39. 永远成功的秘密，就是每天淘汰自己：你不与别人竞争，并不意味着别人不会与你竞争；你不淘汰别人，就会被别人淘汰。别人进步的同时你没有进步，就等于退步。

39. The secret to eternal success is to eliminate yourself daily: not competing with others does not mean others will not compete with you; if you do not eliminate others, you will be eliminated by others. If others are making progress while you are not, it is equivalent to regression.

40. 没人能保守秘密，即使双唇紧闭，指尖也会说话，每个毛孔都泄露着秘密

40. No one can keep a secret, even when the lips are sealed, the fingertips speak, and every pore leaks secrets.

41. 人生就是一场旅行，不在乎目的地，在乎的应该是沿途的风景以及看风景的心情。

41. Life is a journey, not about the destination, but about the scenery along the way and the mood while appreciating the scenery.

42. 永远不要当第三者，当男人能背叛妻子和你在一起时，他一定也会因为别的女人而背叛你，而你的处境会比他的妻子更惨。

42. Never be a third party. If a man can betray his wife and be with you, he will definitely betray you for other women as well, and your situation will be worse than his wife's.

43. 我们之间有彼此才能开的玩笑，我们之间有彼此才能说得秘密，好久没有联络，并不是距离远了。好久没有消息，并不是关心没了。

43. There are jokes that only we can laugh at, and there are secrets that only we can share. It's not that the distance has grown since we last communicated, nor that our concern has diminished.

44. 每个人都有属于自己的秘密，不想让人知道的事情，有时候你越好奇去问，后来发现的，跟我们自己想像的有落差，反而会更难过。人与人之间，有些距离，可能会比较美好。

44. Everyone has their own secrets, things they don't want others to know. Sometimes, the more curious you are and the more you ask, the more you discover, and it often turns out to be different from what we imagine, which can lead to even greater sadness. There may be some distance between people that can be more beautiful.

45. 我藏不住秘密，也是藏不住忧伤，正如我藏不住的爱你的喜悦，藏不住的分离时的彷徨。人生中，我们可能会遇见几次爱情，有些爱情走了，记忆会日渐模糊。

45. I cannot hide secrets, nor can I conceal my sorrow, just as I cannot hide my joy in loving you, nor can I hide my uncertainty at the time of separation. In life, we may encounter love a few times, and some love may leave, with memories becoming increasingly blurred.

46. 这一生，总有一些说不出的秘密，留不住的时间，挽不回的遗憾，触不到的梦想，忘不了的爱。蓦然回首，才发现人活着是一种心情，穷也好富也好得也好，失也好，一切都是过眼云烟。

46. In this life, there are always some unspeakable secrets, time that can't be kept, regrets that can't be retrieved, dreams that can't be touched, and love that can't be forgotten. Suddenly looking back, I realize that being alive is a state of mind, whether poor or rich, good or bad, lost or not, everything is just a passing cloud.

47. 绿叶是树的秘密，花朵是草儿的秘密，微风是春天的秘密，你是我的秘密，但我，却不是你的秘密。

47. Green leaves are the tree's secret, flowers are the grass's secret, the gentle breeze is the spring's secret, you are my secret, but I am not your secret.

48. 没本事的男人，只会站在女人面前，指着鼻子说：不要用你强盛的语气和我说话。

48. A man without ability only stands in front of a woman, pointing his finger and saying: Don't speak to me with your haughty tone.

49. 对于没有将来的感情，在最美丽的时候停止是最美丽的，但很少人知道这个秘密，结果只会摧毁了那份最美丽的回忆。

49. To stop at the most beautiful moment when there is no future for feelings is the most beautiful, but few people know this secret, and the result will only destroy that most beautiful memory.

50. 善意的谎言，必要的隐瞒，永远成为秘密的两类插刀。

50. Well-intentioned lies, necessary concealments, and the two types of hidden daggers that forever remain secrets.

51. 一个成功的人，善于说服人群，他拥有的是他们想要的，或者他拥有他们想要的。

51. A successful person, adept at persuading the crowd, is one who has what they want, or is one who possesses what they desire.

52. 女生之间的好朋友，就是把耳朵借给你，听你说出所有的秘密，并最后把它公之于众的人。

52. A good friend among girls is someone who lends you an ear to listen to all your secrets and then reveals them to the public in the end.

53. 有些心事只能自言自语，有些秘密只能讲给朋友。有些痛苦只能默默承受，自己还是要靠自己拯救。真正的痛苦，没有人能与你分担，你只能把它从一个肩头，换到你的另一个肩头。

53. Some worries can only be vented to oneself, and some secrets can only be shared with friends. Some pain can only be endured silently, and ultimately, one must rely on oneself for salvation. True pain, no one can share with you; you can only shift it from one shoulder to the other.

54. 没本事的男人，一天到晚只会担心自己女人在外面乱来，因为他的内心充满了猜疑，嫉妒和不自信。

54. A man without ability spends his days worrying about his woman being unfaithful outside, as his heart is filled with suspicion, jealousy, and lack of self-confidence.

55. 其实，能诉诸于人的，都不能被称之为秘密。所谓秘密就是无论如何，都要死守到底的事，没有这份决心，就不要拥有秘密。

55. In fact, anything that can be appealed to humans cannot be called a secret. A secret is something that must be guarded to the end no matter what, and if you don't have this determination, you shouldn't possess a secret.

56. 要人知道自己有个秘密，而不让人知道是个什么秘密，等他们问，要他们猜，这是人性的虚荣。

56. Making oneself known to have a secret, but not revealing what the secret is, waiting for others to ask and guess—it is the vanity of human nature.

57. 如果有一个房子，可以让人喝醉，埋起头来哭泣，放下所有的羞耻和秘密。它就是自己的家。

57. If there is a house where one can get drunk, lower one's head and cry, and put aside all shame and secrets, it is one's own home.

58. 我们每个人都有或多或少、不愿为人所知的情感秘密。有的美丽，有的丑陋。有的秘密也许最终会暴露，有的秘密却会被自己带进坟墓。

58. Each of us has emotional secrets, known to us but not to others, to varying degrees. Some are beautiful, while others are ugly. Some secrets may eventually be revealed, but others may be carried into the grave with us.

59. 分享彼此的秘密，然后再用别人的这些发誓不说出去的秘密去交换另一个人的秘密，得到脆弱的友情。

59. Share each other's secrets, and then use these secrets that others have sworn not to disclose to exchange for someone else's secret, thus gaining fragile friendship.

60. 曾经，我想和你分享我所有的秘密，但现在，你成了我心底的秘密。你要明白，你爱的不是那段时光，不是那个念念不忘的人，不是那段经历，你爱的只是当年那个羽翼未丰但依然执迷不悔的自己。

60. Once, I wanted to share all my secrets with you, but now, you have become the secret deep in my heart. You must understand that what you love is not that period of time, not the person you can't forget, not that experience, but the young and naive self who was still determined and unrepentant back then.

61. 如果我保持沉默，不说出秘密，秘密就是我的囚犯；如果从我口中说出秘密，我就成为秘密的囚犯。惟沉默之树才有平静的果实。

61. If I keep silent and do not reveal the secret, the secret becomes my prisoner; if the secret is spoken from my mouth, I become the prisoner of the secret. Only the tree of silence bears the fruit of peace.

62. 女孩子要注意喜欢发誓的男人，绝无好人，只言不行，轻于言誓而必心存背叛。

62. Girls should be cautious of men who love to make promises. They are never good people, as their words are empty and their actions are scarce. They are lighter on promises and more prone to betrayal.

63. 天气冷的很快，腐烂在心底的秘密，随着旧的一年安静的埋进心底。我总说不愿意去怀念旧的东西，但安静下来的时候，还是会去翻翻旧时候写的日记簿。

63. The weather turns cold quickly, and the secrets rotting in the heart are quietly buried deep within as the old year comes to an end. I always say I don't want to dwell on the past, but when I'm at peace, I still can't help but flip through the diary I wrote in the old days.

64. 有本事的男人，不会和老婆凶甚至指责，因为在他心里，老婆是娇弱的，是娶回来疼爱的。

64. A man with ability would not be harsh or even accusatory to his wife, because in his heart, his wife is delicate and he has taken her to be cherished.

65. 如果妳回顾自己的生命，並把焦点放在过去的困境，只会为现在的自己带来更多的困境。一切都让它去，不管它是什么。为自己这么做吧。如果你一直抱怨或责怪过去的某人某事，你只是在伤害自己。

65. If you look back on your life and focus on the past difficulties, it will only bring more troubles to yourself now. Let everything go, no matter what it is. Do this for yourself. If you keep complaining or blaming someone or something from the past, you are only hurting yourself.

66. 有些秘密，毕业后你才知道毕业后才知道原来学生花钱最大手大脚；毕业后才知道原来学习是如此那般的重要；毕业后才知道原来大学生活一点烦恼也没有；毕业后才知道上学是如此的美妙。

66. Some secrets are only realized after graduation: that students can be quite lavish with their spending; that studying is so incredibly important; that college life is free of any worries; and that going to school is such a wonderful experience.

67. 爱情解释它即使被说出口还是一个秘密，因为只有真正的爱人才知道他是被爱着的。

67. Love explains that even when spoken, it remains a secret, because only the truly loved ones know that they are loved.

68. 人大了，渐渐学会把秘密和想说的话藏在心底，守住自己的心事，不肯说与人听，就像一头动物，把一堆有用没用的东西统统衔回去自己的洞穴里藏起来，然后很机警又孤独地在那个洞穴外面踱着步、守着、徘徊着，不让任何人接近，终有一天，累趴了。

68. As people grow older, they gradually learn to keep secrets and things they want to say deep in their hearts, guarding their own inner thoughts and refusing to share them with others. It's like an animal that gathers a pile of useful and useless things and takes them all back to its cave to hide them away. Then, it becomes very alert and lonely, pacing, guarding, and lingering outside the cave, not allowing anyone to get close. Eventually, it becomes exhausted and collapses.

69. 我有一个秘密的小盒子，秘密的守护者。其实就在守护记忆的同时，我真正守护的，不过就是那个未曾实现过愿望的自己。

69. I have a secret little box, the guardian of secrets. In fact, while guarding the memories, what I truly protect is just that self with the unfulfilled desires.

70. 睡着你的秘密，醒着你的自由。它的篱笆结实而疏朗，有清风徐徐穿过。

70. Sleep with your secrets, awake with your freedom. Its fence is sturdy yet airy, with a gentle breeze blowing through.

71. 如果你不清楚自己想要什么，或者不能始终专注在你想要的事物上，再努力工作也不能给你带来幸福的生活。

71. If you are not clear about what you want, or if you cannot always focus on the things you desire, no amount of hard work can bring you a happy life.

72. 朋友有什么义务替他保守秘密？他不想人知，就不要说，你不让他说，他才会心痒而死，所以做朋友的借出耳朵已经仁至义尽，其他的，管他呢！

72. What are a friend's obligations to keep a secret for him? If he doesn't want it known, then don't say it. If you don't let him say it, he will be itchy and die of heartache. So, as a friend, lending an ear is already doing your part of the kindness, and for the rest, let it be!

73. 没有人陪你走一辈子，所以你要适应孤独，没有人会帮你一辈子，所以你要奋斗一生。

73. No one will accompany you through your entire life, so you must get used to solitude. No one will help you forever, so you must strive throughout your life.

74. 我藏起来的秘密，在每一天清晨里，暖成咖啡，安静的拿给你。

74. The secrets I've hidden, in every morning, I warm them into coffee and quietly offer them to you.

75. 我们都有秘密：我们保守的秘密和别人不让我们知道的秘密。

75. We all have secrets: the secrets we keep and the secrets others do not let us know about.

76. 在从前，当一个人心里有个不可告人的秘密，他会跑到深山里，找一棵树，在树上挖个洞，将秘密告诉那个洞，再用泥土封起来，这个秘密就永远没人知道。

76. In the past, when a person had a secret that they dared not reveal, they would go to the deep mountains, find a tree, dig a hole in it, tell the secret to that hole, and then seal it up with earth, ensuring that the secret would never be known by anyone else.

77. 每个人都有自己的秘密，有秘密的女人是可爱的，那些秘而不宣的各种滋味只有自己清楚。如果你想知道，就用心去找，用爱去感受，因为分享秘密就是分担彼此的命运，那种感觉，甘之如饴！?>

77. Everyone has their own secrets, and women with secrets are adorable. The various flavors that are kept secret are only known to oneself. If you want to know, seek with all your heart and feel with all your love, because sharing secrets is to share each other's fate. That feeling is as sweet as honey!

78. 女孩子不要相信这个世界上有老实本分的男人，只有暂时没有机会做坏的男人。

78. Girls should not believe that there are honest and decent men in this world; there are only men who haven't had the opportunity to be bad yet.

79. 拥有太多秘密的人是孤独的。拥有太多过去，没法放下的人也是孤独的。没有爱的人是孤独的。我们都有不同程度的孤独。喜欢喝酒的人也有两种：喜欢喝的和孤独的。

79. People who have too many secrets are lonely. People who have too much past and cannot let go are also lonely. People without love are lonely. We all have different degrees of loneliness. There are also two types of people who like to drink: those who like to drink and those who are lonely.

80. 我的演员生涯很短暂，这或许是一件好事。一个喜欢表演的好朋友劝我去演一部校园剧中的一个小角色。我非常不愿意，但是为了进步，我决定去尝试。我演得角色是一个小角色而且只有一句台词。然而，我一直保守这一个秘密。从我年轻时起，我有一个不同寻常的习惯，那就是一紧张就会打喷嚏。这次也一样。如你所猜测的，当到我出场时，虽然我试图让自己冷静下来，但是我了三次喷嚏。我感觉非常尴尬。然而当我透露出这个秘密后，大家都笑了。结果，我的朋友承诺再也不要求我去演戏了。

80. My acting career was short-lived, which might have been a good thing. A good friend who loved performing convinced me to take on a small role in a campus drama. I was very reluctant, but in order to improve, I decided to give it a try. The role I played was a minor one, with only one line of dialogue. However, I have always kept this secret. Ever since I was young, I have had an unusual habit of sneezing when I get nervous. This time was no different. As you might have guessed, when it was my turn to appear on stage, although I tried to calm myself down, I sneezed three times. I felt extremely embarrassed. However, when I revealed this secret, everyone laughed. As a result, my friend promised never to ask me to act again.

81. 世界上有一个人，知道你一些不为人知的小秘密，犯错的时候，帮着你找理由；暗恋一个人的时候，帮你传话；和恋人争吵候，你一定会去找他。

81. There is a person in the world who knows some unknown little secrets about you, helps you find excuses when you make mistakes; when you have a secret crush on someone, they help you pass messages; and when you argue with your lover, you are definitely going to look for them.

82. 每个人都有一个死角，自己走不出来，别人也闯不进去，我把最深沉的秘密放在那里，你不懂我，我不怪你。

82. Everyone has a blind spot, where neither they nor others can get through. I keep my deepest secrets there, if you don't understand me, I don't blame you.