1. 人真正的完美不在于他拥有什么，而在于他是什么。

1. True perfection of a person does not lie in what they possess, but in what they are.

2. 你不在的时候，我过得很好，不及你好，可我很好。

2. While you were away, I did well, not as good as you, but I was fine.

3. 如果把每件事都看作是一个学习的机会，那就没有所谓的失败了。

3. If every thing is seen as an opportunity for learning, then there is no such thing as failure.

4. 彼此恋爱，却不要**的系链。

4. Love each other, but do not bind each other with chains.

5. 紧抱的回忆是坏掉的玩具，它让我放了手却舍不得忘记。

5. The cherished memories are broken toys, which make me let go yet can't bear to forget.

6. 在语言上，女人像个漏斗，男人像个容器；在生活上，男人却像个漏斗，女人像个容器。

6. In terms of language, women are like funnels, and men are like containers; in life, however, men are like funnels, and women are like containers.

7. 或许只有在离得最远的时候，才能把曾经走过的那段日子，看的最真确最清楚。

7. Perhaps only when we are at our farthest distance can we see the days we have passed through the most truly and clearly.

8. 惧怕爱情就是惧怕生活，而惧怕生活的人就等于半俱僵尸（伯罗素）离别之于爱情好比风之于火，它能将小火熄灭，使大火熊熊燃烧。(geyan123)（法国作家比西拉比旦R）

8. To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are as good as half-dead zombies (Bertrand Russell). Separation from love is like wind to fire; it can extinguish a small flame or fan the flames of a great fire. (geyan123) (French writer Bicira Bidan R)

9. 初恋就是一点点笨拙外加许许多多好奇。（英国剧作家肖伯纳G）

9. First love is a bit of awkwardness plus a lot of curiosity. (George Bernard Shaw, British playwright)

10. 男人恋爱时对对方无所企求；女人恋爱时对对方无所不求。

10. When men fall in love, they have no demands on the other person; when women fall in love, they have no desires they do not seek from the other person.

11. 女人姣好的长相，使男人迅速坠入情网；男人的甜言蜜语，使女人乐于被拉下爱河。

11. A woman's lovely appearance quickly draws men into the depths of love; a man's sweet words entice women to happily fall into the sea of love.

12. 如果痛苦换来的是结识真理、坚持真理，就应自觉的欣然承受，那时，也只有那时，痛苦才将化为幸福。

12. If suffering brings the acquaintance and the steadfastness of truth, it should be willingly endured with a sense of joy. It is only then, and only then, that suffering will transform into happiness.

13. 男人的个性是多余的；女人的头脑是多余的。

13. Men's personalities are redundant; women's intellects are redundant.

14. 女人温柔时充满幻想；男人温柔时充满渴望。

14. When a woman is gentle, she is filled with fantasy; when a man is gentle, he is filled with longing.

15. 要是爱情不允许彼此之间有所差异，那么为什么世界上到处都有差异呢？

15. If love does not allow for differences between each other, then why are there differences everywhere in the world?

16. 女人用耐心化妆来掩饰自己的面容；男人用故作深沉来掩饰自己的内容。

16. Women use patience in makeup to conceal their facial features; men use a pretense of depth to mask their contents.

17. 一个有理智的人恋爱时，可能像一个狂人，但他决不会像一个傻子。

17. A reasonable person in love may act like a madman, but they would never behave like an idiot.

18. 爱一个人就是在她迟归时想上一千种坏的可能，在想像中经历万般劫难，发誓等她回来要好好罚她，一旦见面却什麽都忘了。

18. Loving someone is about imagining a thousand bad possibilities when she comes back late, enduring all sorts of ordeals in imagination, and发誓 to punish her well once she returns. But once she meets, everything is forgotten.

19. 男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易；女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难。

19. It's difficult for a man to have sex with a woman for the first time, but it gets easier after that; for a woman, it's easy to have sex with a man for the first time, but it gets harder after that.

20. 爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙，它渴望得到一切，却几乎对一切都感到不满。

20. Love is a fickle creature, yearning for everything yet almost dissatisfied with everything.

21. 男人希望女友经历越少越好；女人却希望男友经历越多越好。

21. Men hope that their girlfriend has had as little experience as possible; women, on the other hand, hope that their boyfriend has had as much experience as possible.

22. 谁的爱情宫殿是用美德奠基，用财富筑墙，用美丽发光，用荣耀铺顶，谁就是最幸福的人。

22. Whose love palace is founded on virtue, walled with wealth, radiating with beauty, and topped with glory, such a person is the happiest.

23. 男人选择女人，目光瞄准脸蛋；女人选择男人，心思放在钱包。

23. Men choose women with a focus on their faces; women choose men with an eye on their wallets.

24. 多给别人一些体谅，多为别人考虑一点，那一切将截然不同。

24. Give more understanding to others, consider others more, and everything will be completely different.

25. 友谊就像陶器，破了可以修补；爱情好比镜子，一旦打破就难重圆。（美国幽默作家比林斯。J）

25. Friendship is like pottery; it can be mended if broken. Love is like a mirror; once it is shattered, it is hard to be restored. (American humorist Billy Sunday.)

26. 选择好男人需要方法，在尚未抓到诀窍前只要学会说不！

26. Choosing a good man requires methods, and before you catch the knack, just learn to say no!

27. 爱情就像财富，有赖于命运之轮，它始终处于剧烈的上下颠簸之中。

27. Love, like wealth, depends on the wheel of fate, and it is always in a剧烈的上下颠簸之中. (Translation: Love, like wealth, depends on the wheel of fate, and it is always in a剧烈的上下颠簸之中, which means "always in a violent up and down swing".) Note: The phrase "剧烈的上下颠簸之中" can be translated as "violent up and down swing" or "intense up and down fluctuations," depending on the desired emphasis. The original text uses a Chinese idiom that describes a tumultuous or unstable situation.

28. 男人恋爱会变得坚强；女人恋爱会变得更娇弱。

28. Men in love become stronger; women in love become more delicate.

29. 人类是唯一会脸红的动物，或是唯一该脸红的动物。

29. Humans are the only animal that blushes, or the only animal that should blush.

30. 男人主动吻女人是突发事件；女人主动吻男人是预谋事件。

30. A man initiating a kiss with a woman is an unexpected event; a woman initiating a kiss with a man is a premeditated event.

31. 男人恋爱希望把复杂的过程弄简单；女人恋爱喜欢将简单的事情弄复杂。

31. Men in love hope to simplify a complex process; women in love prefer to complicate simple matters.

32. 再也没有一个人，让你看到她笑，会轻扬嘴角；看到她皱眉，欲以身代。

32. There is no one left who, when you see her smile, would subtly lift the corners of your own mouth; when you see her frown, you would want to take on the burden for her.

33. 婚姻是难度最高的爱情，因为必须边啃面包边谈它！

33. Marriage is the most difficult kind of love, because you have to talk about it while chipping away at the bread!

34. 习惯就是习惯，谁也不能将其扔出窗外，只能一步一步地引下楼。

34. Habits are habits; no one can throw them out the window. They can only be gradually coaxed down, step by step.

35. 快乐没有本来就是坏的，但是有些快乐的产生者却带来了比快乐大许多倍的烦扰。

35. Happiness is not inherently bad, but some sources of happiness bring about far more trouble than happiness itself.

36. 每个人身上都有一口泉眼，不断喷涌出生命、活力、爱情。如果不为它挖沟疏导，它就会把周围的土地变成沼泽。

36. Everyone has a spring within them, constantly gushing with life, vitality, and love. If it is not dug and channeled, it will turn the surrounding land into a swamp.

37. 男人像陈酿老酒，随时间推移越发珍贵；女人像鲜嫩的牛奶，保值期很短。

37. Men are like aged wine, becoming more precious over time; women are like fresh milk, with a very short shelf life.

38. 放弃一个很爱你的人，并不痛苦。放弃一个你很爱的人，那才痛苦。爱上一个不爱你的人，那是更痛苦。

38. It's not painful to let go of someone who deeply loves you. It's painful to let go of someone you deeply love. Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you back is even more painful.

39. 真正可贵的东西，不可能刻意得到，那需要同样可贵的缘分。

39. The truly valuable things cannot be deliberately obtained; they require a similarly valuable karmic connection.

40. 要塑造彼此的亲密关系，就要适度均衡两性地位。

40. To shape a close relationship with each other, it is necessary to moderately balance the status of both genders.

41. 人们所努力追求的庸俗的目标，财产虚荣奢侈的生活，我总觉得都是可鄙的。

41. The vulgar goals that people strive for, the life of property vanity and luxury, I always find despicable.

42. 我们把心给了别人，就收不回了，别人又给了别人，爱便流通于世。

42. Once we give our hearts to others, they cannot be收回, and when others pass them on, love circulates through the world.

43. 别等到错过后才去后悔，别等到失去后才想挽回。

43. Don't wait until after the mistake to regret, don't wait until after the loss to want to make it up.

44. 男人和女人之间的问题，最常拿出来讨论的，就是爱情的自由度有多少？

44. The most commonly discussed issue between men and women is how much freedom love has.

45. 如果我的生命中没有智慧，它仅仅会黯然失色；如果我的生命中没有爱情，他就会毁灭。（亨利得蒙泰朗）

45. If wisdom is not in my life, it will only dim; if love is not in my life, it will be destroyed. (Henri de Montherlant)

46. 男人有外遇是因为冲动；女人有外遇是因为无聊。

46. Men have affairs because of impulse; women have affairs because of boredom.

47. 严肃的人的幸福，并不在于风流、娱乐与欢笑这种种轻佻的伴侣，而在于坚忍与刚毅。

47. The happiness of serious people does not lie in the various frivolous companions such as flirtation, entertainment, and laughter, but in endurance and fortitude.

48. 为女人发誓的男人是可笑的；为女人发财的男人是可爱的。

48. A man who swears by a woman is laughable; a man who gets rich for a woman is adorable.

49. 一个知己就好像一面镜子，反映出我们天性中最优美的部分。

49. A close friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful parts of our nature.

50. 女人最恨的男人是陈世美；男人最喜欢的女人是潘金莲。

50. The man that women hate the most is Chen Shimei; the woman that men like the most is Pan Jinsong.

51. 你想成为幸福的人吗？但愿你首先学会吃得起苦。

51. Do you want to become a happy person? May you first learn to endure hardship.

52. 最穷的男人买菜也不讲价；最有钱的女人买菜也要讨价还价。

52. The poorest man does not haggle when buying vegetables; even the wealthiest woman will negotiate the price when buying vegetables.

53. 爱情一旦成为了习惯，就会一辈子也摆脱不了的。

53. Once love becomes a habit, it can be unshakable for a lifetime.

54. 爱情对于男人不过是身外之物，对于女人却是整个生命。

54. Love is just an external thing for men, but it is the whole life for women.

55. 爱一个人原来就是在冰箱里为她留一个苹果，并且等她归来。

55. To love someone is to leave an apple for her in the refrigerator and wait for her return.

56. 人生并非游戏，因此，我们并没有权利只凭自己的意愿放弃它。

56. Life is not a game, therefore, we do not have the right to abandon it solely at our own will.

57. 女人的青春标志一种价值；而男人的青春表示一种肤浅。

57. A woman's youth symbolizes a value; whereas a man's youth represents a shallowness.

58. 男人流泪人们会认为软弱；女人流泪人们会产生怜悯。

58. Men who cry are often seen as weak; women who cry evoke sympathy.

59. 严肃的人的幸福，并不在于风流娱乐与欢笑这种种轻佻的伴侣，而在于坚忍与刚毅。

59. The happiness of a serious person does not lie in the flirtatious entertainments and laughter of various trivial companions, but in perseverance and fortitude.

60. 很多人都想和你在一起，但没人和我一样，想永远和你在一起。

60. Many people want to be with you, but no one wants to be with you forever like me.

61. 通常，女孩子最常出现过于紧迫盯人的问题，晚上时间一到，就开始打手机追踪；不但疑神疑鬼，还追问行程，老实说，除了让人觉得你很烦之外，也给人缺乏自信的感觉。

61. Usually, girls are most prone to the problem of being overly vigilant. As soon as it's night time, they start calling to track their whereabouts. Not only are they suspicious and inquisitive about their schedule, but to be honest, besides making people feel bothered, it also gives off an impression of a lack of confidence.

62. 把爱情比做海之蓝色，因为它宽广、清晰、透明，永远都不会褪色。

62. Love is likened to the blue of the sea, for it is vast, clear, transparent, and will never fade.

63. 爱情不过是一种疯。

63. Love is nothing but a madness.

64. 女人对男人的期望比物价涨得还快；男人对女人的感情比股市变得还勤。

64. Women's expectations of men rise faster than the price of goods; men's feelings for women change more frequently than the stock market.

65. 我把对你的思念写在漂流瓶里，寄给那个充满温暖的冬天。

65. I inscribed my thoughts of you on a message in a bottle and sent it to that warm winter.

66. 女人喜欢的听男人说另一个女人很难看；男人喜欢听女人说另一个男人很失败。

66. Women like to hear men say that another woman is ugly; men like to hear women say that another man is a failure.

67. 跟自己说声对不起，因为曾经为了别人难为了自己。

67. Say sorry to yourself, because you once made yourself suffer for others.

68. 女人安慰女人时往往说自己很惨；男人安慰男人时往往说另一个男人很惨。

68. When women comfort women, they often say that they themselves are in a terrible situation; when men comfort men, they often say that the other man is in a terrible situation.

69. 想要控制对方，又希望自己能享受绝大的自由，这是爱情的霸道，也是爱情的盲点。

69. Wanting to control the other person while also desiring to enjoy absolute freedom is the domineering nature of love, as well as its blind spot.