岁月流转，时光荏苒，祖辈的信仰如同一颗颗璀璨的星辰，照亮了我们的心灵。在这片古老的土地上，那些流传千古的句子，如同诗篇，诉说着世间百态，引人深思。今有幸，与诸君共赏这老祖先情商高超的语句，品味那穿越时空的韵味。

As the years roll by and time flies, the faith of our ancestors shines like brilliant stars, illuminating our souls. On this ancient land, those timeless sentences, like poems, narrate the myriad aspects of the world, provoking deep thought. Today, it is an honor to share these wise sayings of our ancestors with you all, savoring the charm that transcends time.

1. 喜欢笑不代表你现在过得很好，但你知道只有笑过才会比现在过得更好。

1. Just because you smile doesn't mean you're doing well now, but you know that only by smiling will you be better off than you are now.

2. 别人奉承你的时候，你可以默默的开心，但不能当真，因为十有八九是为了哄你；别人指责你的时候，你可以有点不高兴，但不能生气，因为十有八九是真的。

2. When others flatter you, you can secretly be happy, but don't take it seriously, because nine times out of ten, it's just to please you; when others criticize you, you can be a bit unhappy, but don't get angry, because nine times out of ten, it's the truth.

3. 在你平凡的时候，希望你能尽早暴露自己的缺点，积极改正，因为当你越来越优秀的时候，这个世界不允许你有缺点。

3. In your ordinary moments, I hope you can expose your shortcomings as soon as possible and actively correct them, because as you become more and more excellent, this world does not allow you to have shortcomings.

4. 所谓成熟，就是明明应该哭着闹着，却笑而不语。

4. Maturity is about being able to laugh without saying a word, when one should be crying and making a fuss.

5. 在时间的沙漏里，细沙流走了时间。

5. In the hourglass of time, the fine sand flows away, carrying time with it.

6. 我不是故意发脾气的。只是不知道怎么直白的表达自己的不开心。

6. I wasn't deliberately losing my temper. I just didn't know how to express my unhappiness straightforwardly.

7. 人累了就休息，累了就淡定。迷失了自己，只能慢慢捡起来。

7. When people are tired, they should rest and remain calm. If they have lost themselves, they can only pick themselves up slowly.

8. 当有人离开你的生活时，让他们走吧。这只是为更好的人进入你的生活留下了足够的空间。

8. When someone leaves your life, let them go. This just leaves enough space for better people to enter your life.

9. 找一个像太阳一样的人，帮你晒晒所有不值一提的迷茫。

9. Find someone like the sun to help you dry all the trivial confusion.

10. 我希望，即使你爱过，错过了，在以后的日子里，你依然无畏地向前走。

10. I hope, even if you have loved and missed, in the days to come, you will still courageously move forward without fear.

11. 没有多少人会在意你付出了多少努力，累不累，摔不疼。他们只会看你最后站在哪里，然后羡慕或者不屑。

11. Few people care about how much effort you have put in, how tired or sore you are. They only notice where you end up standing, and then either envy or look down upon you.

12. 真正的爱情是你教出来的，而不是你捡了个便宜货从天上白拿的。你应该教他如何爱你。

12. True love is something you teach, not something you get for free as a bargain from heaven. You should teach him how to love you.

13. 上帝没有给你想要的，不是因为你不配，而是因为你值得更好的& # 39；。

13. God didn't give you what you wanted, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve something better.

14. 人生就是一场恶战，不管是给止痛药还是掌掴，最后都要靠自己一个人去练胆量，谁都不例外。

14. Life is a fierce battle, and whether it's about taking painkillers or receiving a slap in the face, in the end, one has to cultivate their courage all by themselves, and no one is an exception.

15. 你能放下一分，你的自性就显现一分。你放下两点，他就露出两点。你放下的越多，展现的就越多。

15. The more you let go, the more of your true self will manifest. If you let go of one point, your true self will reveal itself by one point. If you let go of two points, it will reveal itself by two points. The more you let go, the more it will be revealed.

16. 人生总有很多巧合，两条平行线也可能有相遇的一天。人生总有很多意外，手里的风筝会突然断了。

16. Life is full of coincidences; even two parallel lines might meet one day. Life is also full of surprises; the kite in your hand might suddenly break.

17. 不要抱怨，抱怨是无能；不依靠，没有自由的肩膀；不要退缩，有很多人在低落的时候跌倒；不要低头，地上没有金子，只有垃圾。

17. Do not complain, for complaining is a sign of weakness; do not depend on others, for there are no free shoulders; do not retreat, for many people fall when they are at their lowest; do not bow your head, for there is no gold on the ground, only garbage.

18. 让你哭的人是你最爱的人。懂你眼泪的人，才是最爱你的人。擦干你眼泪的人是最后一个和你在一起的人。

18. The one who makes you cry is the one you love the most. The one who understands your tears is the one who loves you the most. The one who dries your tears is the last person to be with you.

19. 我不会再喊累了，哪怕我已经筋疲力尽了，我也不会再喊痛了，我怕我会痛死，我不会再抱怨了，我怕我会被坑死，因为这个世界无论我怎么喊都没有人在乎。

19. I will no longer call out for fatigue, even though I am exhausted. I will no longer call out for pain, for fear that I might die in pain. I will no longer complain, for fear that I might be deceived to death, because no one cares in this world no matter how much I call out.

20. 每个人都有自己的难处，别人看不透，也无法感同身受，把悲伤留给自己，不要过去爱，不要未来遇见，不要辜负现在，这样就好。

20. Everyone has their own difficulties that others cannot see through or empathize with. Keep the sadness to yourself, don't overthink the past, don't anticipate the future, and don't let down the present. That's all there is to it.

21. 不要假装留着也无所谓，放着也不要试图挽回。放下一个人最好的方式，就是再怎么想念，也不会去打扰。

21. Don't pretend it doesn't matter if you keep them, and don't try to make it up either. The best way to let go of someone is to miss them deeply, yet never to disturb them.

22. 无论何时何地，你都要明白，你是为自己而活，不要把别人的评价看得太重，只要一切都是问心无愧，就不必太在意。

22. At all times and in all places, you must understand that you are living for yourself. Do not place too much importance on others' opinions. As long as you have no regrets, there is no need to be overly concerned.

23. 无论是谈恋爱还是交朋友，两个人在一起说说话太重要了。人越长大越能理解。爱情是其次，相处才是最重要的。

23. Whether it's dating or making friends, it's so important for two people to talk together. The older we get, the more we understand this. Love comes second; getting along is the most important.

24. 人生没那么不公平，名利都做了；优秀的人都是被逼出来的；所有简单的生活都是由。

24. Life isn't as unfair as it seems; fame and fortune have all been achieved; all outstanding individuals are forced to be so; all simple lives are due to...

25. 机会不是等来的，而是赢来的，就像吃饭一样，如果你只是等着吃别人送你的饭，你可能吃不到你想要的饭。

25. Opportunities are not waiting for you, but are won, just like eating food. If you only wait for others to give you food, you might not get the food you want.

26. 请珍惜身边默默爱你的人。也许，有一天他真的走了。你会发现，离不开对方的是你，不是他。

26. Cherish the people around you who love you silently. Perhaps, one day, he really leaves. You will find that it's you who can't live without him, not him.

27. 世界上最可怕的是，用眼睛找不到美，用耳朵欣赏不到音乐，用心体会不到什么是真实。

27. The most terrifying thing in the world is that beauty cannot be found with the eyes, music cannot be appreciated with the ears, and the truth cannot be felt with the heart.

28. 时间，会沉淀最真实的情感；风雨会考验最温暖的陪伴。走远的只是过眼云烟；留下的是值得珍惜的爱情。晚安！

28. Time will settle the most sincere emotions; storms will test the warmest companionship. What will fade away are the fleeting clouds before our eyes; what will remain is the love worth cherishing. Good night!

29. 考虑一千次，不如做一次。犹豫一万次不如实践一次。一次华丽的坠落胜过毫无意义的争吵。迈出第一步，收获不会停止。

29. Thinking a thousand times is not as good as taking one action. Hesitating ten thousand times is not as good as practicing once. A magnificent fall is better than meaningless arguing. Taking the first step will not stop the harvest.

30. 当你累了的时候，坐下来休息一下。人生还很长，还有很多烦恼等着我们。不要怕，不要急，可以说累，不要说不。

30. When you are tired, take a seat and rest. Life is still long, and there are many troubles waiting for us. Don't be afraid, don't be anxious, you can say you are tired, but don't say no.

31. 如果你下定决心要做一件事，不要问自己和别人是否值得。只有你愿意，你才能想当然，只有你愿意，你才能想当然。早上好。

31. If you are determined to do something, don't ask yourself or others whether it is worth it. Only if you are willing, can you take it for granted; only if you are willing, can you take it for granted. Good morning.

32. 人有了物质才能生存，有了梦想才能谈人生。你想知道生存和生活的区别吗？动物活着，而人活着。

32. People need material things to survive and dreams to talk about life. Do you want to know the difference between survival and living? Animals are alive, but humans live.

33. 每个人都有两扇门:一个是家，成长的地方；一个是心门，成功的地方。如果你能赶走门里的小人，你就唤醒了心中的巨人。

33. Everyone has two doors: one is the home, the place of growth; the other is the heart door, the place of success. If you can drive away the little man inside the door, you will awaken the giant within your heart.

34. 口能吐玫瑰，也能吐蒺藜；一个人说出的话，就能看出自己的情商和修养。

34. The mouth can spit out roses as well as thorns; the words a person speaks can reveal their emotional intelligence and修养.

35. 修养高的人，说出的话是平和的，包容的，带着自己的高度和深度；情商高的人，说出的话是令人舒服的，能够照顾别人的感受，有同理心，能够拉近和别人的关系。

35. A person of high cultivation speaks in a peaceful and inclusive manner, conveying their own depth and height; a person with high emotional intelligence speaks in a comfortable way, taking care of others' feelings, showing empathy, and able to build closer relationships with others.

36. 我们老祖宗的告诫：病从口入，祸从口出；口是我们祸福的门户，有些话不能说，说出来是要承受因果的；有时候，学会闭嘴，才能够不招惹是非。

36. Our ancestors' warning: illness enters through the mouth, and祸 (misfortune) comes from the mouth; the mouth is the gateway to our blessings and misfortunes, and some words should not be spoken; if spoken, one must bear the consequences. Sometimes, learning to keep silent is the only way to avoid getting into trouble.

37. 不会说话的人，容易引起别人的讨厌和反感，也是情商低的表现；而高情商的人，说出的话会令人心生喜欢，也会为自己带来好的命运和福气；情商高的人，和别人相处时不会说这四种话。

37. People who cannot speak properly are prone to provoke others' dislike and aversion, which is also a sign of low emotional intelligence; on the other hand, individuals with high emotional intelligence can say things that are likable and can bring good fortune and blessings to themselves; those with high emotional intelligence do not say these four things when interacting with others.

38. 一个人再有本事，再有钱，做出再多的成绩，如果不知道低调，不懂得谦虚，甚至自吹自擂，目中无人，受到打击报复是早晚的事情。

38. No matter how talented or wealthy a person is, and no matter how much achievement they have made, if they don't know how to be modest, don't understand humility, or even brag about themselves and show no respect for others, they are bound to face retribution and revenge sooner or later.

39. 木秀于林风必摧之，一个人真有本事，高高在上，本就是容易引来羡慕嫉妒恨，如果不懂得谦虚，自认为了不起，傲慢无礼，口吐狂言，谁也不放在眼里，其实就是为自己树立了敌人，为灾祸埋下了种子。

39. If a tree stands out in the forest, the wind will surely uproot it. If a person truly has talent, being high and mighty naturally attracts envy, jealousy, and恨. If one does not know how to be humble, believes oneself to be outstanding, behaves傲慢无礼, talks big, and disregards everyone, it is actually setting enemies against oneself and sowing the seeds of disaster.

40. 有一种炫耀，其实是在自吹自擂，言过其实，这样的人往往虚荣心太重，其实自己没有真本事，不过是夸夸其谈，牛皮吹多了，就没有人再相信，这样炫耀自己的人，往往会落人话柄，惹人讨厌和嫌弃。

40. There is a kind of showing off that is actually self-conceit and exaggeration. Such people often have too much of a sense of pride, but in reality, they lack real ability, and are merely full of empty talk. When they keep blowing hot air, no one will believe them anymore. People who show off like this often become the subject of gossip, disliked, and disliked by others.

41. 骄兵必败，越是炫耀什么，越会失去什么，一旦没有好的未来和结果，曾经炫耀自己的话，就是狠狠打了自己的脸；所以，越是高光时刻，越是谦虚的话，才是为自己留了余地和退路。

41. Pride in soldiers leads to defeat. The more one boasts, the more one loses. Once there is no good future or outcome, the boasts one once made will be a resounding slap in one's own face; therefore, it is in times of glory that one should be all the more humble, as this leaves room for oneself and a way out.

42. 人都是有自尊的，要想得到别人尊重，先要学会尊重别人；贬低别人，瞧不起别人，不但会得罪别人，还会让别人忌恨你，也许在不经意的某一天，就会遭到别人的反讽和报复，所以情商高的人从不说贬低别人的话。

42. All human beings have self-respect. In order to gain the respect of others, one must first learn to respect others. To belittle and look down upon others not only offends them but also may provoke resentment towards you. Perhaps one day, without realizing it, you may suffer from others' sarcasm and revenge. Therefore, people with high emotional intelligence never say things that belittle others.

43. 一个人再差，混得再不好，也不希望别人瞧不起，当面给自己难堪，让自己没有面子脸上无光；人往往对别人对自己的好容易很快就会忘记，但别人对自己的伤害，总是会耿耿于怀，甚至会想一辈子仇。

43. No matter how bad a person is or how poorly they are doing, they do not want others to look down upon them, to humiliate them in front of others, making them lose face and feel ashamed; people often easily forget the kindness others show to them, but the injuries others inflict upon them are always remembered deeply, and sometimes even become a lifelong grudge.

44. 人的劣根性是骨子里总认为自己了不起，瞧不起别人，拿自己的标准衡量别人，在贬低别人的同时，却没有看看自己比别人强多少，在伤害别人的同时，也让自己受到了报复，引发了和别人的矛盾。

44. Human inferiority is inherent in always thinking one is great, looking down on others, measuring others by one's own standards, and while belittling others, failing to see how much better one is than them. In the process of hurting others, one also brings about revenge upon oneself and triggers conflicts with others.

45. 贬低别人的话，伤的是人心，引发的是矛盾，学会尊重每一个人，才是修养。

45. Disparaging others wounds people's hearts and ignites conflicts. Learning to respect everyone is the essence of修养 (self-cultivation or moral cultivation).

46. 来说是非者即是是非人，这世上的是非对错没有一定的标准，不同的立场，不同的感受，就有不同的想法，所以对别人的是非对错，高情商的人会选择闭嘴。

46. Those who speak of others' affairs are themselves the ones involved in disputes. In this world, there is no fixed standard for right and wrong. Different perspectives and feelings lead to different opinions. Therefore, a person with high emotional intelligence would choose to keep silent about others' right and wrong.