（微语精选博海拾贝）——探寻语言之美，感悟人生智慧

(Whisper Selections from the Sea of Knowledge) – Exploring the Beauty of Language, Reflecting on the Wisdom of Life

1. 做人只有六个字:懂，看透，看透。关于世情人情的事情需要了解；名利的沉浮，一定要看透；看透生老病死的人。世界不太大也不太小。如果你全看，你会往下看。我们的一生都是租来的时间。我们应该认真对待这项工作，但不要太认真。很多事情从来都不简单，只是因为太在意。

1. The essence of being a person is summarized in six characters: understand, see through, see through. Matters of the world and human emotions require understanding; the rise and fall of fame and wealth must be seen through; see through the cycle of life, old age, illness, and death. The world is neither too large nor too small. If you look at it all, you will look down upon it. Our entire life is borrowed time. We should take this work seriously, but not too seriously. Many things are not simple because we pay too much attention to them.

2. 时间只改变了我们最初的模样，却无法改变我们的心。

2. Time only changes our original appearance, but it cannot change our hearts.

3. 别人删你的时候，系统不会告诉你，因为怕你伤心，你删别人的时候，系统会问你确定吗，因为怕你后悔。

3. When others delete you, the system won't inform you because it fears you might get hurt. When you delete others, the system will ask if you are sure, because it fears you might regret it.

4. 多一分心力去注意别人，就少一分心力反省自己，你懂吗

4. The more effort you put into paying attention to others, the less effort you have for self-reflection. Do you understand that?

5. 朋友不在远近，只要在心;遇见没有早晚，只要有心。好朋友，永远陪伴左右;真情谊，永远风雨同行。

5. A friend is not about distance, but in the heart; encounters are not about timing, but with intent. Good friends are always by your side; true friendship endures through all weathers.

6. 读书破万卷，下笔如有神。——杜甫《奉赠韦左丞丈二十二韵》

6. Reading through ten thousand scrolls, one writes with divine inspiration. — Du Fu, "Farewell Gift to Wei, the Chief Secretary, in Twenty-two Quatrains"

7. 人告之以有过，则喜。——《孟子·公孙丑上》

7. When people inform him of his faults, he is happy. — From "Mencius: Chapter on Sun Zu"

8. 我可以接受我们平时小吵小闹，但你不能动不动就提分手。

8. I can accept our little squabbles from time to time, but you can't bring up breaking up at the drop of a hat.

9. 穷则思变，差则思勤!没有比人更高的山没有比脚更长的路。

9. When in poverty, one thinks of change; when behind, one thinks of diligence! There is no mountain higher than man, and no road longer than the feet.

10. 闻过则喜，知过不讳，改过不惮。——陆九渊《与傅全美》

10. Rejoice in hearing of one's faults, acknowledge one's faults without fear, and correct one's faults without hesitation. — Lu Jiuyuan, "To Fu Quanmei"

11. 君子义以为质，得义则重，失义则轻，由义为荣，背义为辱。——陆九渊《与郭邦逸》

11. A gentleman holds righteousness as his foundation; with righteousness, he is esteemed; without it, he is disregarded; acting in accordance with righteousness brings honor, while betraying it brings shame. — Lu Jiuyuan, "To Guo Bangyi"

12. 在这个世界上，每个人都是一盏灯。一盏灯不会影响另一盏灯的亮度，但是灯里的油确实会影响亮度。只有坚持不懈，努力工作，灯才会永远亮下去！同样的道理，不管你身边有多少有才华的人，只要你不断学习，不断努力，你就会发光。

12. In this world, everyone is a lamp. A lamp does not affect the brightness of another lamp, but the oil inside the lamp does affect its brightness. Only by persevering and working hard can the lamp remain lit forever! The same principle applies: no matter how many talented people are around you, as long as you keep learning and keep striving, you will shine.

13. 士志于道，而耻恶衣恶食者，未足与议也。——《论语·里仁》

13. If a person is committed to the Way and yet is ashamed of wearing poor clothes or eating plain food, he is not worthy of discussing with him. — From the Analects, Chapter on Ren (仁)

14. 真正的友谊不是形影不离，而是隔得再远，情意却不变。

14. True friendship is not about being inseparable, but about maintaining the same affection even when separated by great distances.

15. 经常有朋友感叹自己好累，生活往往就是这样。一是期望过高，期望与现实脱节，条件与结果相悖；二是想法太高，总以为爬得高不需要韧劲，走得远不需要吃苦，对难度估计不足；第三是要求太多，与己无关，没用，大家都想据为己有。抢的欲望太深，攀比的心态太重。结果，我失去了理智，失去了生命。

15. Often friends sigh that they are too tired, and life often is like that. First, expectations are too high, and there is a disconnect between expectations and reality, with conditions and results contradicting each other; second, ideas are too lofty, always thinking that climbing high doesn't require tenacity, and traveling far doesn't require suffering, underestimating the difficulty; third, there are too many demands, unrelated to oneself, useless, and everyone wants to claim it as their own. The desire to seize is too strong, and the attitude of comparison is too heavy. As a result, I lost my reason and my life.

16. 苦是人生，痛是经历，累是工作，变是命运，繁是世事，简是人生，才是成熟，耐心是经验，忍是智慧，静是修养，恒是大智慧，忘是福报，放弃是收获，做是拥有，学是知识，谦虚是提升，持之以恒是成功。

16. Suffering is life, pain is experience, fatigue is work, change is destiny, complexity is the world, simplicity is life, being right is maturity, patience is experience, endurance is wisdom, tranquility is cultivation, constancy is great wisdom, forgetting is blessings, giving up is gain, doing is possession, learning is knowledge, modesty is advancement, perseverance is success.

17. 不联系，是因为你的冷漠伤到我，不主动，是因为我根本感动不了你。

17. The reason for not contacting is that your indifference has hurt me, and the reason for not initiating is that I can't move you at all.

18. 弟子入则孝，出则弟，谨而信，泛爱众，而亲仁。行有余力，则以学文。

18. A student should be filial at home, respectful outside, careful and trustworthy, show universal love, and be close to the benevolent. If there is any remaining energy, then engage in scholarly studies.

19. 等你有了新的圈子，别忘了谁陪你走过了人烟稀少得时候，等你过得好的时候，别忘了谁陪你度过了最艰难的时刻，等你继续向前走的时候，记得回头拉那个陪你一起的人。

19. When you have a new circle of friends, don't forget who walked with you through the sparsely populated times. When you are doing well, don't forget who accompanied you through the most difficult moments. As you continue to move forward, remember to turn back and pull that person who walked with you along.

20. 三千繁华，时光飞逝如水，往事如云。不要谈什么深厚的感情或浅薄的关系，让过去随风而逝。抹去浅浅的悲伤，淡淡的冷。站在红尘的风口浪尖，任岁月坎坷。你在想，如果有一天你累了，悄悄的离开了，你会记得你把自己埋在了这段时间里。

20. Amidst the hustle and bustle of a thousand years, time flows past like water, and past events fade like clouds. Do not talk about deep feelings or shallow relationships; let the past be carried away by the wind. Erase the faint sorrow and the subtle chill. Stand at the tip of the whirlwind of the world, enduring the twists and turns of time. You are thinking, if one day you grow tired, and leave quietly, you will remember that you buried yourself in this period of time.

21. 觉得有复习不完的作业是对的，说明你在为成绩努力；觉得有做不完的事是对的，说明你在为自己的未来奋斗；处处自卑是对的，说明你在努力追赶；感觉特别难走是对的，说明你在上坡。记住:奇迹还有一个名字，叫努力。

21. It's right to feel that there's never enough homework to review, as it shows you are striving for good grades; it's right to feel that there's always more to do, as it indicates you are fighting for your future; it's right to feel everywhere is inferior, as it means you are striving to catch up; it's right to feel the path is particularly difficult, as it means you are climbing an uphill slope. Remember: there is another name for miracles, and that is effort.

22. 当你下定决心要走一条路的时候，不要左顾右盼，不要再留恋再美的风景。你应该知道你的目的。你要像钢铁一样知道自己在追求什么，在哪里，并不时提醒自己。

22. When you decide to take a path, do not look back and forth, and do not linger over the most beautiful scenery. You should know your destination. You should know what you are pursuing, where you are, and keep reminding yourself, as iron and steel do.

23. 人而不仁，如礼何人而不仁，如乐何——《论语·八佾(yì)》

23. If a person lacks benevolence, what use is there for rites? If a person lacks benevolence, what use is there for music? ——From the Analects of Confucius (Chapter Ba Yi)

24. 与人相处，只要对方对你的心无害，你就应该满足，不应该有更多的奢求。有时候我们会觉得难过，觉得原本亲近的人应该对我们好一点。心冷了之后，只是觉得他们大概根本没有伤害我的心，但是人天生就是冷漠的，所以我们还是要保持和欣赏这种纯粹无害的情感。

24. In dealing with people, as long as they do not have any harm in their hearts towards you, you should be content and should not have more desires. Sometimes we feel sad, thinking that those who are originally close to us should be kinder to us. After our hearts have cooled down, we might feel that they probably never meant to hurt us, but people are naturally indifferent, so we should still maintain and appreciate this pure, harmless emotion.

25. 真正的友谊，不是花言巧语，而是关键时候拉你的那只手。

25. True friendship is not sweet words, but the hand that pulls you through the tough times.

26. 源洁则流清，行端则影直。——王勃《上刘右相书》

26. When the source is pure, the water runs clear; when the conduct is upright, the shadow is straight. — Wang Bo, "Letter to Liu Youxiang"

27. 胜人者有力，自胜者强。——《老子》第三十三章

27. He who conquers others is strong, but he who conquers himself is mighty. — Laozi, Chapter 33

28. 失败是破坏对别人有价值的东西；成功就是把有价值的东西包装起来给人看。成功的秘诀是不怕失败，不忘记失败。成功的人从失败的炼狱中走出来。成功与失败循环往复，形成了精彩的人生。成败的判断不在起点，而在终点。

28. Failure is the destruction of something valuable to others; success is packaging something valuable for others to see. The secret of success is not fearing failure and not forgetting failure. Successful people emerge from the inferno of failure. Success and failure go through cycles, forming a fascinating life. The judgment of success or failure is not at the starting point, but at the end.

29. 不仁者，不可以久处约，不可以长处乐。仁者安仁，知者利仁。

29. The un仁 person cannot endure hardship for a long time, nor can they enjoy happiness for a long time. The仁 person finds peace in being仁, and the wise person benefits from being仁.

30. 乐民之乐者，民亦乐其乐;忧民之忧者，民亦忧其忧。——《孟子·梁惠王下》

30. Those who take joy in the joy of the people will also find joy in their joy; those who share in the worries of the people will also share in their worries. — From the Book of Mencius, Chapter on King Hui of Liang.

31. 非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。——诸葛亮《诫子书》

31. Without a desire for the simple and unadorned, one cannot clarify one's ambitions; without tranquility, one cannot achieve far-reaching goals. — Zhuge Liang, "Admonitions to His Son"

32. 我宁愿当个逗比糊涂的过着也不想看透这世界。

32. I would rather be a goofy, confused fool living than to see through this world.

33. 疾风知劲草，板荡识诚臣。——李世民《赐萧瑀》

33. "Only in the face of strong winds do we know the strength of grass, and only in times of chaos do we recognize the loyalty of a true minister." — From Li Shimin's "Grant to Xiao Yu"

34. 学会生活，学会爱，就是承担这一生所有的艰辛，然后从中发现美和友谊的存在，从一条羊肠小道找到通往整个世界的路。

34. To learn to live, to learn to love, is to bear all the hardships of this life, and then to discover the existence of beauty and friendship from them, and to find the path to the entire world from a narrow mountain trail.

35. 少要求别人，多要求自己；少一点逼问人生，多一点真心奉献；少一些追逐，多一些平和；少一些抱怨，多一些感恩和知足。阳光无处不在，幸福之花正在绽放。

35. Ask less of others, and more of yourself; ask fewer questions about life, and give more genuine dedication; seek less, and find more peace; complain less, and be more grateful and content. The sunshine is everywhere, and the flowers of happiness are blooming.

36. 孝在于质实，不在于饰貌。——桓宽《盐铁论·孝养》

36. Filial piety lies in substance, not in appearance. — Huankuan, "On Salt and Iron: Filial Piety"

37. 贪如火，不遏则燎原，欲如水，不遏则滔天。——程军

37. Greed is like fire, left unchecked, it will spread and burn everything; desire is like water, left unchecked, it will overflow and engulf the heavens. — Cheng Jun

38. 心给出去的时候，就该知道，不可能毫发无损的拿回来。

38. When the heart is given out, one should know that it is impossible to take it back unscathed.

39. 人只有将寂寞坐断，才可以重拾喧闹;把悲伤过尽，才可以重见欢颜;把苦涩尝遍，就会自然回甘。

39. Only after sitting through loneliness can one rediscover the hustle and bustle; only after enduring sorrow can one see joy again; and after tasting bitterness to its fullest, it will naturally become sweet.

40. 生亦我所欲也，义亦我所欲也;二者不可得兼，舍生而取义者也。——《孟子·告子上》

40. To live is what I desire, and righteousness is also what I desire; but when these two cannot be achieved together, I would rather forsake life and choose righteousness. ——Mencius, "Gao Xiang Shang"

41. 弘扬美德的 说说

41. Promote virtues and talk about it.

42. 真正懂得微笑的人，总是比别人容易得到更多的机会，总是容易成功，总是得到越来越多。微笑，得到友谊；愿意微笑，拥抱幸福；愿意微笑，你得到幸福。多少年过去了，多少年过去了，人生几何？但是，练习微笑，心里爱自己，心里就开满了花！

42. Those who truly understand the meaning of a smile always find themselves with more opportunities than others, always tend to succeed, and always accumulate more. A smile brings friendship; a willingness to smile embraces happiness; a readiness to smile brings happiness. Years have passed, years have passed, what is the measure of a person's life? But, practice smiling, love yourself in your heart, and your heart will be filled with flowers!

43. 人必先自爱也，然后人爱诸;人必先自敬也，然后人敬诸。——扬雄《法言·君子》

43. A person must first love oneself before others can love them; a person must first show respect to oneself before others can show respect to them. — From Yang Xiong's "Fa Yan: The Noble"

44. 清廉如同健康，失去之后才觉可贵。——赵晓惠

44. Integrity is like health; it is only valued after it is lost. — Zhao Xiaohui

45. 慢慢才知道很多东西是可遇而不可求的，很多东西只能拥有一次;慢慢才知道人的性格可以差异到如此之大;慢慢才知道两个天天在一起的人不一定是朋友;慢慢才知道手机是别人有事找你时用的，并不是为交流感情的;慢慢才知道快乐常常来自回忆，而痛苦常常来自于回忆与现实的差距。

45. It takes time to realize that many things are things to encounter but not to seek; many things can only be owned once. Slowly, one comes to know that human personalities can differ to such an extent. Slowly, one realizes that two people who are together every day may not necessarily be friends. Slowly, one comes to understand that a phone is used when others need to find you, not for emotional exchanges. Slowly, one learns that happiness often comes from memories, while pain often stems from the gap between memories and reality.

46. 没什么如果当初，不管重来多少次，人生都肯定有遗憾。

46. There's no "if only" in the past. No matter how many times we could have started over, life would definitely have its regrets.

47. 认准事情，不要优柔寡断；选择一个正确的方向，就上路，不要回头。该放手的时候就放手，这样你才能腾出双手，抓住原本属于你的快乐和幸福；有些事不能等。片刻的犹豫会给你留下永远的遗憾。如果幸福不在路的拐角处，它一定在路的尽头。

47. Be resolute in your decisions, do not waver; choose a correct direction and set off, do not turn back. When it is time to let go, do so, so that you can free up your hands to grasp the happiness and joy that originally belong to you; some things cannot wait. A moment's hesitation will leave you with an eternal regret. If happiness is not at the corner of the road, it must be at the end of the road.

48. 人的一生就像在跷跷板上行走。总是要从低端开始，往高端走。每走一步，下一步就变得更加困难。越往上走，越难找到平衡。当你以为自己在变高的时候，其实是在走下坡路。原来，当你找到了人生的平衡点，你就站在了人生的最高点；学会掌握生活的平衡，就是把幸福的钥匙牢牢握在手中。

48. A person's life is like walking on a seesaw. You always start from the low end and move towards the high end. With every step taken, the next step becomes more challenging. The higher you go, the harder it is to find balance. When you think you are getting higher, in fact, you are on the downhill slope. It turns out that when you find the balance point in life, you are standing at the peak of life; learning to master the balance of life is to firmly hold the key to happiness.

49. 没有什么是过不去的，人生总是要经历一些令人难过的时候

49. Nothing is insurmountable; life always has to go through some difficult times.

50. 我又不是圣人，怎么会希望你过的很好很幸福，我巴不得你过的贫穷孤独，每到深夜时，都是想着我的好。

50. I'm not a saint, so why would I wish for you to have a good and happy life? I would much rather you live in poverty and loneliness. Every deep into the night, I am only thinking of your good.

51. 愿你有好运气，如果没有，愿你在不幸中学会慈悲;愿你被很多人爱，如果没有，愿你在寂寞中学会宽容。

51. May you have good luck, and if not, may you learn compassion in adversity; may you be loved by many, and if not, may you learn tolerance in solitude.

52. 简单的事，想深了，就复杂了，复杂的事，看淡了，就简单了。

52. Simple things become complex when pondered deeply, and complex things become simple when taken lightly.

53. 找一个我爱的也爱我的人，然后一起慢慢变老，直到生命的终结。

53. Find someone who loves me as much as I love them, and then grow old together, until the end of life.

54. 包容，包容，你就会温柔。做一个低调的人，别人不用言语就能看到你的美。低调、冷静、优雅、聪明是耐心和韧性的结合，是一种品格上的美德。低调是生活智慧和气质的超脱。

54. Compassion, compassion, and you will be gentle. Be a modest person, and others can see your beauty without words. Modesty, calmness, elegance, and intelligence are the combination of patience and resilience, which is a virtue of character. Modesty is the transcendence of life wisdom and temperament.