回首往昔，时光荏苒，那些往事如烟，仿佛就在昨日。如何述说，如何言说？让我们共同探寻，那些沉淀在岁月里的故事。

Looking back, time flies, those past events are like smoke, as if they happened yesterday. How to describe, how to express? Let us jointly explore those stories that have been沉淀ed in the years.

1. 最美好的不是下雨天，是曾与你躲过雨的屋檐。

1. The best is not the rainy day, but the eaves under which you once sought shelter with me.

2. 40回忆是一帧照片，一帧发黄退色的老照片。寂然凝望，青春不再，红颜不再，往事已苍老。有泪落下来，落下来，有语无从说，无从说。

2. 40 years of memory is a photo, a faded and yellowed old photograph. Gazing silently, youth is no more, beauty has faded, past memories have aged. Tears fall, fall, but there are no words to express, no words to express.

3. 25有失败也会有成功，有咸淡的泪水当然也少不了甜美的微笑，有失落才构成昨日缠绵的歌，有忧伤才会有昨日焕发的浪漫色彩。

3. There will be failures as well as successes, tears of both salt and sweetness, and of course, sweet smiles are indispensable. With loss, the songs of yesterday's lingering moments are formed, and it is through sadness that the romantic colors of yesterday are revealed.

4. 24缘分是什么，缘分就是给了你一次遇到的机会，幸福全靠去争取。天上不会掉下馅饼，天底下也不会有无缘无故的良缘，天赐的更在于人为。我们都应该去争取，去珍惜，不要再错过了能够“执子之手，与子偕老”的人生忠实的伴侣。

4. What is destiny? Destiny is the opportunity it gives you to meet someone. Happiness entirely depends on your pursuit. Manna from heaven does not fall from the sky, and there is no such thing as an unexplained good fortune in the world. Man's efforts are even more crucial in receiving divine favor. We all should strive for it, cherish it, and no longer miss the chance to have a faithful life companion with whom to "hold your hand and grow old together."

5. 37人生如茶，静心以对。养身不在刻意，贵在自然顺心；锻炼不在朝夕，贵在持之以恒；作息不在早晚，贵在规律养成；家庭不在贫富，贵在和睦温馨；生活不在显达，健康快乐就成；朋友不在贵贱，知音胜过黄金；距离不在远近，常来常往最亲。

5. Life is like tea, facing it with a tranquil mind. The cultivation of the body does not lie in deliberate effort, but in being natural and at ease; exercise does not depend on the morning or evening, but on consistency and perseverance; routine does not depend on the time of day, but on the development of regularity; a family does not depend on wealth or poverty, but on harmony and warmth; life does not depend on fame or fortune, health and happiness are enough; friends do not depend on status or wealth, a true friend is worth more than gold; distance does not depend on near or far, but on frequent visits and closeness.

6. 68人生的每一笔经历，都在书写你的简历。原本你以为微不足道的事情，回头看的时候，都有着无法细数的刻度。

6. Every experience in life is writing your resume. Things that you once thought were trivial, when looked back upon, have countless immeasurable marks.

7. 36你可以不相信爱情，但是不可以不相信爱。

7. 36 You may not believe in love, but you cannot not believe in love.

8. 感情常常就是这样，哪怕只是刹那的相遇相知，瞬间的心暖心动，也值得人用一生去回忆和追逐，用一世去保护和守候。

8. Emotions often turn out to be like this, even if it's just a brief encounter and mutual understanding, a moment of heartwarming and心动, it is still worth a lifetime of memories and pursuit, and a lifetime of protection and guarding.

9. 往事如烟，我们的爱恋，经得其平淡的流年，受得起无聊的流言，相爱天胜天，牵手年又年，情深意切，无悔无怨。亲爱的，我们要快乐幸福每天。

9. The past is like smoke, our love has endured the平淡 of flowing years, can bear the无聊 of rumors, and is as strong as heaven. Hand in hand year after year, our feelings are profound and sincere, without any regrets or complaints. Dear, let's be happy and happy every day.

10. 51我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。

10. 51 I don't know which of the things I am doing now are right and which are wrong. It will only be when I finally grow old and die that I will know these. So all I can do now is to do my best in every endeavor, and then wait for the day of old age and death.

11. 43她们都说失去以后才懂得珍惜，其实珍惜后的失去最痛。

11. They all say that one learns to cherish something only after losing it, but actually, the pain of losing something after cherishing it is the most severe.

12. 记忆是一壶茶，一壶用情感之水切割而成的溶解茶:翻滚翻滚，然后冷却平静，如同跌宕起伏的人生，欢乐与疯狂都会在凡事乐观，向量随缘平淡就是美丽。

12. Memory is a pot of tea, a dissolved tea cut by the water of emotions: it boils and boils, then cools down and becomes calm, just like the fluctuating life, both joy and madness will be optimistic in everything, and the beauty lies in the plainness following one's fate.

13. 13没有经历过的，永远不能理解这些道理，但听听也是好的。

13. One who has never experienced it can never fully understand these truths, but it is still good to listen to them.

14. 29只是一天离开了你，你就狼狈得像是一个只需要我安慰的孩子。最疼的疼是原谅，最黑的黑是绝望。

14. 29 just left you for a day, and you are disheveled like a child who only needs my comfort. The most painful pain is forgiveness, and the darkest black is despair.

15. 32我现在也在迷茫中，可能是每个青春期的孩子一样，想引起父母的注意，适得其反，我发现他们不爱我。

15. Now I am also in confusion, maybe like every child in adolescence, wanting to attract my parents' attention, but achieving the opposite. I find out that they don't love me.

16. 回首往事，我们思绪万千，感慨万千；立足今天，我们自信，有底气；展望未来，我们一路欢歌笑语。

16. Looking back on the past, we are filled with thoughts and emotions; standing in the present, we are confident and full of courage; looking forward to the future, we are on a journey filled with joy and laughter.

17. 记忆是伤心桥下，春波青青，曾经是绝色照片我突然做了一个梦，记忆是毕竟千帆到处都是美丽的风景我心碎了。

17. Memory is beneath the sorrowful bridge, with the spring waves shimmering green, once the epitome of a beautiful photograph. Suddenly, I had a dream, where memory is truly everywhere amidst the myriad of beautiful landscapes, and my heart was shattered.

18. 回忆是生活的美丽。它象征着匆匆逝去的生命中的甘甜溪流，永远是那静静的安眠，心中的秘密；但同时也是天使和恶魔的时刻，海蓝黑黑的眼睛，光线消失时看得见的脸。

18. Memory is the beauty of life. It symbolizes the sweet stream of fleeting life, always the quiet rest, the secret in the heart; but it is also the moment of angels and devils, the dark blue eyes, the face visible when the light fades.

19. 47忽然很想醉，是因为早已心碎；忽然很想睡，是因为心里早已疲惫。

19. Suddenly yearning for a醉, because the heart has long been broken; Suddenly longing for sleep, because the heart is already weary.

20. 记住人的漫漫征途，是一路上的铺路石，在心中渲染一片五彩缤纷的天空，是每个人自己画的。回忆并记下历史的一页页，记下过去的辉煌，记下过去的灰暗，记下辉煌，记下灰暗，记下我们拥有的。

20. Remember that the long journey of humanity is paved with stepping stones, and the colorful sky painted in the heart is drawn by each individual themselves. Recollect and record each page of history, noting the past brilliance, the past darkness, the brilliance, the darkness, and what we possess.

21. 35日子就是这么的庸常，却有细碎的事物，如太阳碎碎的光芒，洒落其上。（丁立梅）

21. The 35th day was as ordinary as it could be, yet it held trivial things, like the scattered light of the sun, sprinkled upon it. (Ding Limei)

22. 回忆能远离平淡，能使本来平淡的日子背叛现实做一次超越的飞翔。

22. Memory can take us away from the mundane, allowing us to betray reality and soar in a transcendental flight on what would otherwise be ordinary days.

23. 41回忆是生命的美丽，他象征着匆匆而去的人生中甜蜜的溪流，总是醇醇熟睡的安静，心中的秘密；但同时也是天使魔鬼的瞬间，海蓝色与黑暗的眼睛，光消失的余残之际，可看清的面目。

23. 41 Memory is the beauty of life, symbolizing the sweet stream in the fleeting journey of existence, always in a tranquil sleep, the secrets of the heart; but it is also the moment of angels and devils, the sea-blue and dark eyes, the face that can be seen in the remnants of light when it vanishes.

24. 11生活的滋味，酸甜苦辣咸；不盲目追求幸福，生命敢于承受生命的无意义而不低落消沉，这就是生命的骄傲。活着，不为别人活着，也为别人活着；不为自己活着，也为自己活着。

24. The taste of life, sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty; not blindly pursuing happiness, life dares to bear the meaninglessness of life without descending into despondency, this is the pride of life. To live, not just for others, but also for others; not just for oneself, but also for oneself.

25. 8人的一生是由色彩交织而成的，有善良的白，沉静的蓝，热情的红，希望的绿和温柔的紫。它们散发出的光彩，则是我们的生命。

25. A person's life is woven with colors, including the kind-hearted white, the tranquil blue, the passionate red, the hopeful green, and the tender purple. The brilliance they emit is our life.

26. 74对前途要看得乐观些，对人心要看得悲观些。

26. Be more optimistic about the future and more pessimistic about human nature.

27. 23不要沉溺于过去，不要幻想未来，集中精力，过好眼下的每一分每一秒。

27. Do not dwell on the past, do not daydream about the future, concentrate your energy, and make the most of every moment in the present.

28. 如花似玉，不会长久。当有一天，青春已经消逝，也许我们只能在回忆中慢慢重温那段岁月。

28. As beautiful as a flower, as jade-like, it will not last long. When one day, youth has passed, perhaps we can only slowly relive those years in our memories.

29. 9当时间过去，我们忘记了我们曾经义无反顾地爱过一个人，忘记了她的可爱，忘记了她为我做的一切。

29. 9 As time passes, we forget that we once loved someone with all our hearts, forgot her charm, and forgot all the things she did for me.

30. 70现在很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。

30. 70 is very painful now, but after a while, looking back, you'll find that it's not a big deal at all.

31. 12对岁月的回忆远比他们在一起生活时更加美好。——米兰·昆德拉《生命中不能承受之轻》

31. The memories of the years are far more beautiful than the time they spent living together. – Milan Kundera, "The Unbearable Lightness of Being"

32. 44以感恩的心态面对生活，生活才会充满阳光。心灵是一面镜子，里面装着什么取决于你面向哪里。世界不完美，生活难免有缺憾。幸福是一种对照，因为流过泪，所以笑得更甜美。收起抱怨的心，让心灵的镜子照向光明，让黑暗躲到角落里，眼不见心不烦。凡事都是优劣并存，多看好的一面心就不会流泪。

32. Face life with a grateful attitude, and life will be filled with sunshine. The soul is a mirror, and what it holds depends on where you turn. The world is not perfect, and life is bound to have its shortcomings. Happiness is a contrast, because after tears have flowed, the smile is sweeter. Put away the complaining heart, let the mirror of your soul reflect light, let darkness hide in the corner, out of sight and out of mind. Everything has its pros and cons; if you focus on the positive, your heart will not shed tears.

33. 我一直不愿意回忆过去。我一直固执地认为，回忆是痛苦的。悲伤的回忆会让人痛苦，因为经历过；美好的回忆会让人痛苦，因为已经失去了。

33. I have always been reluctant to recall the past. I have stubbornly believed that memories are painful. Sad memories are painful because they are experiences; pleasant memories are painful because they are lost.

34. 26勇者，脚下都是路；智者，知道走哪一条路最好。

34. 26 The brave have paths beneath their feet; the wise know which path is the best to take.

35. 34饿时，饭是幸福，够饱即可；渴时，水是幸福，够饮即可；裸时，衣是幸福，够穿即可；穷时，钱是幸福，够用即可；累时，闲是幸福，够畅即可；困时，眠是幸福，够时即可。爱时，牵挂是幸福，离时，回忆是幸福。人生，由我不由天，幸福，由心不由境。

35. When hungry, food is happiness, just enough to satisfy; when thirsty, water is happiness, just enough to quench thirst; when in need of clothing, clothes are happiness, just enough to cover; when poor, money is happiness, just enough to last; when tired, leisure is happiness, just enough to unwind; when sleepy, sleep is happiness, just enough to rest; when in love, caring is happiness; when apart, memories are happiness. Life is not determined by fate, but by myself; happiness is not determined by circumstances, but by the heart.

36. 我想起我们雪花般的书信，却有说不完的话。偶尔一首小诗，一篇散文，拉近了我们的心。我们尝了多久一天见不到三秋的滋味了？每封信我都不知道看了多少遍才放下。

36. I remember our letters, like snowflakes, and yet there are endless things to say. Occasionally a little poem, an essay, draws our hearts closer. How long have we tasted the bitterness of not seeing each other for three autumns in a day? Every letter, I don't know how many times I've read it before putting it down.

37. 很多心事都搬不走。我怎么敢一个人去西楼？恨宫已久，人生地不熟，祈求上天能顺人意。

37. Many worries cannot be carried away. How dare I go to the West Tower alone? I have long disliked the palace, and I am not familiar with the place. I pray to heaven to grant my wishes.

38. 42回忆，是值得感触的，却也仅仅是拿来自己与自己寒暄的时间，给所有诺言一个期限。而这个期限则是短暂的瞬间，你甘愿，便是永远，若不是，你也可以说，这仅仅是一个谎言。

38. 42 memories are worth touching, but they are merely a time for oneself to chat with oneself, to set a deadline for all promises. And this deadline is a fleeting moment; if you are willing, it is forever, and if not, you can also say that it is just a lie.

39. 22借口少一点，胸怀大一点，嘴巴甜一点，火气小一点，行动快一点，效率高一点，烦恼少一点，微笑多一点，勤奋多一点，成功近一点。

39. Less excuses, a bigger heart, sweeter words, less anger, quicker action, higher efficiency, fewer troubles, more smiles, more diligence, and closer to success.

40. 58走自己的路，让能说得人说去吧，你只要做就行了。

40. 58 Go your own way, let those who can talk talk, you just need to do it.

41. 44人生若不是终点，请微笑一直向前！其实生活就是这样，没有一味的公平，生活也不可能是平等的。生活其实最简单，你觉得幸福才是最好的。于这个世界，你来过，但，只是只是来过。

41. If life is not the end point, please smile and keep moving forward! In fact, life is like that; there is no absolute fairness, and life cannot be equal. Life is actually very simple; what you feel is happy is the best. In this world, you have come, but, just that, just a passing visit.

42. 48做生活的爱好者，用心准备营造你的家庭，公公婆婆的家如果你也能善待，你将拥有一生的幸福。

42. Be an enthusiast for life, and with careful preparation, cultivate your home. If you can also treat your in-laws kindly, you will have happiness for a lifetime.

43. 49人生有输有赢，得势顺境时不要得意忘形，放纵自己；失势逆境时不可消极颓唐，放弃自己。成功的人生，要自己定义；快乐的人生，要自己创造！

43. In life, there are wins and losses. When in a prosperous and favorable situation, do not become overconfident and indulge in self-gratification; when in a challenging or adverse situation, do not become despondent or abandon yourself. A successful life is one to be defined by oneself; a happy life is one to be created by oneself!

44. 32温柔要有，但不是妥协。很多很多事情，总在眼前一晃而过，年轻的时候，总是不经意的荒废了很多青春与时间，成长后才明白人活着就要懂得感恩。怀着一颗善良的心去感恩曾经生养我们的父母。是他们含辛如苦，才有我们的今天。

44. Kindness should be present, but not at the cost of compromise. Many things always flash before our eyes, and in our youth, we often inadvertently waste a lot of our youth and time. It is only after we grow up that we realize that to live is to know how to be grateful. Carry a kind heart to be grateful for the parents who have nurtured us. It is their hard work and suffering that have brought us to where we are today.

45. 22一个人的一生，总是无法摆脱太多的回忆。一个没有回忆的人，甚至可以说是遗憾的，是不完满的，从某种意义上说是失败的。而忘记过去的人，注定要重蹈覆辙。

45. 22 In one's life, it is impossible to shake off too many memories. A person without memories can even be said to be regrettable, imperfect, and in a sense, a failure. And a person who forgets the past is doomed to repeat the same mistakes.

46. 当时间的流逝和时间的轮回没有了痕迹，当你蓦然回首，你会发现那场长剧背后隐藏的东西。这个存折的宗旨是:童年。

46. When the passage of time and the cycle of time no longer leave any traces, and when you suddenly look back, you will find what lies hidden behind that long play. The purpose of this savings book is: childhood.

47. 50有一点累，有一点灰，有一点点执着；全世界不懂都无所谓，对错也无所谓！

47. 50 a bit tired, a bit gray, a bit obsessed; it doesn't matter if the whole world doesn't understand, nor does it matter if it's right or wrong!

48. 我们只能在这个小驿站里稍作休息。休息够了之后，我们会抛下一切，继续赶路。

48. We can only take a brief rest at this small way station. After we've rested enough, we will leave everything behind and continue on our journey.

49. 27人越长大，越会接近一个真相：不是毎个人都喜欢自己。被喜欢是多么重要的自我肯定，但如果对方不回应，或者忽视你，甚至不公正地对待你，不是因为你做错了什么。也不是因为你不够好。

49. As the 27 people grow older, they will increasingly come to a truth: not everyone likes themselves. Being liked is a significant form of self-affirmation, but if someone does not respond to you, or ignores you, or even treats you unfairly, it is not because you have done something wrong. Nor is it because you are not good enough.

50. 亲爱的你好吗？在我这一生中，我感觉最重要的是，我要和你生活在一起，而最浪漫的，便是和你一起慢慢变老。

50. Dear, how are you? In my life, I feel that the most important thing is to live with you, and the most romantic thing is to grow old together with you.

51. 21当我最想说些什么的时候，往往也是我最沉默的时候。

51. 21 When I most want to say something, I am often the most silent.

52. 我等你，因为我不想逃离我的心；我等你，因为我不忍心让你走；我等你，因为那里有我们的回忆；我等你，因为我相信你没有骗我；我会等你，直到她在你身边。

52. I wait for you because I don't want to run away from my heart; I wait for you because I can't bear to let you go; I wait for you because there are our memories there; I wait for you because I believe you haven't deceived me; I will wait for you until she is by your side.

53. 远去的人们，我又怎能留得住，一如我远去的青春年少般，过往的岁月不再，留下的也只有当初温柔的回忆而已。

53. How can I retain the people who have drifted away, just as I cannot hold back my youthful years that have slipped away? The past years are no more, and all that remains are the gentle memories of the beginning.

54. 回忆是“泪眼问花花不语，乱红飞过秋千去”的怅然泪落；回忆是“今宵酒醒何处，杨柳岸晓风残月”的凄然醉歌。

54. Memory is the sorrowful tears falling with the line, "The flowers remain silent as the eyes brim with tears, the scattered red petals fly past the swing"; memory is the melancholic drunk song with the line, "Where am I when I wake up from this night's drink, with the willow trees on the riverbank, the morning breeze, and the waning moon."

55. 2回忆本来是非常美好的，只要你能让过去的都过去。《爱在落日余晖时》

55. 2 Reminiscing used to be very pleasant, as long as you can let the past go by. "Love in the Afterglow of the Sunset"

56. 61你不知道我在想你，是因为你不爱我，我明明知道你不想我，却还爱你，是因为我太傻。也许有时候，逃避不是因为害怕去面对什么，而是在等待什么。

56. 61 You don't know that I'm thinking of you because you don't love me, and I clearly know that you don't care about me, yet I still love you, because I am too foolish. Perhaps sometimes, running away is not because of fear of facing something, but because of waiting for something.

57. 57只有使自己自卑的心灵自信起来，弯曲的身躯才能挺直；只有使自己懦弱的体魄健壮起来，束缚的脚步才能迈开；只有使自己狭隘的心胸开阔起来，短视的眼光才能放远；只有使自己愚昧的头脑聪明起来，愚昧的幻想才能抛弃！

57. Only by making the inferiority complex of the heart confident can the bent body stand straight; only by making the weak physique strong can the bound feet step forward; only by making the narrow-mindedness of the mind broaden can the short-sightedness of the eyes see further; only by making the foolish mind intelligent can the foolish illusions be discarded!

58. 我希望你是我手中的风筝。剪断线，你就自由了。我希望是你手里的线。风筝飞了，但我仍在你手中。

58. I wish to be the kite in your hands. Cut the string, and you are free. I hope to be the string in your hands. The kite flies away, but I am still in your hands.

59. 3我们一生都需要蜕变，否则每天都在机械地循环往复。蜕变伴随着痛苦，需要我们积蓄、坚持、隐忍，在泣血中挣脱往昔的束缚，在砸碎过去的锁链中寻觅新的生机。人非生而不同，一样的起点，迥异的终点，关键取决于途中奔跑的速度。到头来才发现，你驻足的某个停靠点，亦是你人生搁浅的地方。

59.3 We need to transform ourselves throughout our lives, otherwise, every day will be a mechanical cycle. Transformation is accompanied by pain, and requires us to accumulate, persevere, and endure. It means breaking free from the past constraints in our blood-crying struggle, and seeking new vitality by smashing the chains of the past. People are not born to be different; we all start from the same point, but have vastly different destinations, which depends on the speed of our running in the journey. In the end, we find that the stopping point we pause at is also the place where our lives have been stranded.