“她的无奈和心酸，如同被遗忘在角落的哀歌，孩子不听话，母亲的心却如刀割……”

"Her helplessness and heartache are like a dirge forgotten in a corner, the child misbehaves, but the mother's heart is cut like a knife..."

1. 又一个不眠夜。做父母太不易了。做一个不焦虑的父母更难。修神之路漫漫啊，做一个敢于承担的人，不再逃避，直面自己。

1. Another sleepless night. Being a parent is so difficult. It's even harder to be a parent without anxiety. The path to cultivating the spirit is long indeed. To be a person who dares to take responsibility, no longer evading, and facing oneself directly.

2. 当妈妈后发现，什么爆点缺乏耐心，什么矫情受不了什么从未整觉……只要能换宝贝安然，这些都可以变得无底线。

2. After becoming a mother, I found out that what irritates me is a lack of patience, what sentimentality I can't stand, and what I have never been able to sleep through the whole night... As long as it can bring peace to my baby, all of these can become my bottomless limit.

3. 养儿之路漫漫，生孩不是终点，育儿才是。初为人母，怀揣忐忑，育儿先育己！

3. The journey of raising a child is long and arduous; giving birth is not the end, parenting is. As a new mother, full of trepidation, one must first nurture oneself before nurturing a child!

4. 生活憧憬未来，远方的路却依旧迷茫。当千帆耗尽，岁月将柔情化作泪水淹没在滚滚红尘中，深埋在雾蒙蒙的记忆里，依然那么清晰喧闹，掩盖了岁月的沧桑，谁会被留下在昏黄的灯光里哀叹和徘徊。

4. Life longs for the future, but the path in the distance remains blurred. When all sails are exhausted, years turn gentleness into tears,淹没在滚滚红尘中，deeply buried in the hazy memories, they remain so clear and noisy, covering up the vicissitudes of time, who would be left behind to sigh and wander in the dim yellow light.

5. 记录下一个人带娃真的心酸啊，终于体会了一把，很佩服那些带娃顾家两不误的，到底是怎么做到的呢，还有那些还能抱着宝宝吃饭的，我也是很佩服的。

5. It's really heart-wrenching to record how difficult it is to take care of a child. I've finally experienced it firsthand, and I admire those who can manage both taking care of the family and the child. How on earth do they do it? And those who can still hold their baby while eating, I also admire them greatly.

6. 初为人母，更为艰辛。忍受着各种疼痛，一直在坚持。或许这就是爱的力量吧。

6. Being a new mother is even more arduous. Enduring all kinds of pain, I have been holding on. Perhaps this is the power of love.

7. 一个人带孩子的心酸无助只有自己知道，多希望孩子爸爸能和我一起分担。

7. The heartache and helplessness of taking care of a child alone is something only I know. How much I wish the child's father could share the burden with me.

8. 突然心疼自己，这就是家庭主妇的悲哀。根本从来不会有人会感同身受，不会理解一个人带两个孩子的艰辛，眼泪不自觉地流。

8. Suddenly feeling a pang of self-pity, this is the sorrow of a housewife. No one will ever empathize or understand the hardships of taking care of two children, tears streaming involuntarily.

9. 带孩子的心酸与不被理解，心情的压抑与无助，可能没人会理解吧。

9. The bitterness of raising a child and the feeling of not being understood, the oppression and helplessness of one's mood, maybe no one will understand, right?

10. 一路走来太多无奈和心酸可是怎么样还是撑过来了。

10. There have been too many helplessness and sadness along the way, yet somehow I've made it through.

11. 不是每个女人都有做家庭妇女资本的。 有的人是家庭主妇，有的人是家庭贵妇。

11. Not every woman has the capital to be a housewife. Some are housewives, while others are ladies of the household.

12. 一个人带孩子，每天累到崩溃，饭都吃不好，家里人还催要二胎，说什么趁年轻早点要，孩子生下来就算完事吗？更重要的不应该是对孩子负责吗？

12. Taking care of a child alone is so exhausting every day that it drives me to collapse, and I can't even eat properly. Yet, my family keeps urging me to have a second child, saying things like "take advantage of your youth and have one early." Is that all it takes to have a child? Isn't it more important to be responsible for the child?

13. 生活所迫不容易啊！要是有点办法妈妈也不会带着孩子上班的，只有当过妈一个人带孩子才能理解背后的辛酸。

13. It's not easy being forced by life! If there were any other ways, Mom wouldn't have to bring the child to work. Only someone who has been a mother and taken care of a child alone can understand the bitter-sweetness behind it.

14. 暑假比没有暑假更累。一个人带两个孩子，心情可以分分钟崩溃，我体会到了没人带孩子的难过，也体会到了为什么自己越来越强，这是生活所迫。

14. Summer vacation is more tiring than not having a vacation. Taking care of two children on your own can be emotionally draining to the point of near-collapse at any moment. I have experienced the pain of not having anyone to help with the kids, and I also understand why I have become stronger and stronger, as it is life that forces me to do so.

15. 太多的无奈，只要自己知道，道不尽的心酸，谁经历过谁懂得。

15. Too much helplessness, as long as one knows it, there are endless heartaches that can't be expressed, only those who have experienced it know.

16. 有了孩子才知道当父母的不容易，每个母亲都是伟大的。

16. It's only when you have children that you realize how difficult it is to be a parent, every mother is great.

17. 全职妈妈再出来工作太难了，人问你着这几年空窗期没有工作经验，你有什么优势？这个社会对全职妈妈太不公平了！

17. It's so difficult for full-time mothers to re-enter the workforce. People ask you about these years of a gap in work experience, and what advantages do you have? This society is too unfair to full-time mothers!

18. 女人最狼狈的时候，就是带孩子的这几年，没有收入没有自由，所有的心酸不被理解，最扎心的是你的苦被别人概括“在家闲着”。

18. The most desperate time for a woman is these years when she is taking care of her children. Without income and freedom, all the bitterness goes unnoticed. What stings the most is that your suffering is summarized by others as "just staying at home doing nothing."

19. 把长久的思念，搅得看似平静的心湖。在凝视，它是潮湿和温暖的。我已经很久没有难过了，但是我不能开心。快乐如风逝，悲伤司空见惯。

19. The long-cherished longing stirs the seemingly calm heart lake. In contemplation, it is moist and warm. I have not felt sad for a long time, but I cannot be happy. Joy is fleeting like the wind, while sorrow is commonplace.

20. 夜班难熬，看到视频里在家哭着喊着要妈妈的宝贝更是煎熬，希望早日结束夜班生活。

20. Night shifts are difficult to bear, and it's even more torturous to see the little one crying and shouting for their mother in the video, hoping the night shift life will end soon.

21. 生孩子对一个女人来说改变很大。无论是身体上，心理上还是精神上。到底值不值？当宝宝对着自己甜甜的笑，也许是值得的。

21. Giving birth can bring about significant changes for a woman, both physically, mentally, and spiritually. Is it worth it? Perhaps it is when the baby smiles sweetly at you.

22. 有娃了才知道当妈不容易，没有整宿觉睡，喂奶喂奶，哭闹了要哄睡，哇啦哇啦叫的心不能平静下来，累啊，身累。

22. It's only when you have a child that you realize how difficult it is to be a mother. There's no sleep through the night, breastfeeding, soothing them to sleep when they cry, their loud cries keep your heart from calming down, it's tiring, physically and emotionally.

23. 有多少把气撒到孩子身上，然后又狠狠自责的，太多的无奈，只有自己知道，总之道不尽的心酸。

23. How much frustration is vented onto the child, followed by severe self-reproach. There is too much helplessness, only known to oneself. In short, it's endless heartache.

24. 女人最尴尬的时候是带孩子的那几年。没有收入和自由，所有的悲伤都不被理解。最发自内心的是你的苦难被别人总结在家闲着。

24. The most embarrassing time for a woman is during the years when she is taking care of her children. Without an income and freedom, all her sadness goes unnoticed. The most heartfelt is when others summarize your hardships as simply being at home doing nothing.

25. 喜欢一个人没有错，错的是喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人。

25. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, the mistake is liking someone who does not like you back.

26. 我受不了流年，却逃不过这里的少年。

26. I can't stand the passing years, yet I can't escape the boys here.

27. 买菜烧饭洗衣服打扫卫生还要遛娃，在你干活的时候，时刻在你耳边叫，要出去玩，感觉全职妈妈太难了。

27. Buying vegetables, cooking, washing clothes, cleaning, and taking the child for a walk. When you're busy working, they keep calling out next to you, wanting to go out. It feels like being a full-time mother is really difficult.

28. 有些成为全职妈妈的女人并不是她们想成为家庭主妇，而是没办法，有时候必须得抽出一个人来照看孩子，照看家。

28. Some women who have become full-time mothers are not those who want to be housewives, but rather a necessity, sometimes they have to take someone out to take care of the children and the household.

29. 当妈不容易啊，各种担心，之前一个，现在两个，给我万个心都给这两个小家伙砸碎了。

29. It's not easy being a mother. There are so many worries. Before, there was one, and now there are two. Even if I had a thousand hearts, they would be shattered for these two little ones.

30. 一个人和孩子在一起最怕的就是半夜发烧，各种难过只有自己知道。

30. The greatest fear for a person with a child is having a fever in the middle of the night; all the sadness and distress are known only to oneself.

31. 今晚很累，洗衣做饭，打扫房间，但失眠了。想过去，想现在，想未来！哎！一个家庭主妇的思想挣扎！

31. I'm exhausted tonight, doing laundry, cooking, and cleaning the room, but I can't sleep. I'm thinking about the past, the present, and the future! Alas! The mental struggle of a housewife!

32. 内心好烦躁，家里的熊孩子不断制造状况，家务永远都做不完，那些家庭主妇也不知道是怎么挨过这一天的。

32. I'm so restless inside. The mischievous kids at home keep causing trouble, and there's always a never-ending list of housework to do. I wonder how those housewives manage to get through the day.

33. 宝妈一个！带宝宝去爬山！累得要命！但是宝宝很开心！再累也值得。

33. A proud mom here! Took the baby hiking! It was exhausting! But the baby was so happy! It was all worth it no matter how tired I was.

34. 一声叹息，几家愁。

34. A sigh echoes, bringing sorrow to many homes.

35. 无比慌乱的一年，大半年都是累到崩溃的状态，养孩子带孩子，不经历永远没办法体会，当妈真是太不容易了。

35. A year of extreme confusion, most of the time was in a state of exhaustion leading to collapse, taking care of a child and raising a child. You can never truly understand it unless you've experienced it. Being a mother is just too difficult.

36. 我永远忘不了我生孩子那天的丑相。看到你的笑脸，我觉得一切都值得。

36. I can never forget the ugly look I had on the day I gave birth. Seeing your smiling face, I feel that everything is worth it.

37. 心动则泪千行。

37. The heart is moved, a thousand tears flow.

38. 失去意识后的爱情比死亡更冷。记忆，经过岁月的摩梭，寂寞多于冰冷。

38. Love after losing consciousness is colder than death. Memory, worn by the passage of time, is filled with loneliness more than with coldness.

39. 预产期还有一周，感觉每天好无聊啊，要疯了，好像提前进入月子状态，这怎么熬啊，当妈妈真不容易。

39. The expected delivery date is still one week away, and I feel so bored every day, it's driving me crazy. It feels like I'm already in the postpartum period prematurely, how am I supposed to endure this? Being a mother really isn't easy.

40. 一手抱娃，一手拖婴儿车，带着爱自由的小肥仔出门溜达，当妈妈后，每个女孩都会变成女超人，啥都会，啥都做，啥都扛得起。

40. Holding a baby in one arm and pushing a stroller with the other, taking the little chubby boy who loves freedom for a stroll outside. After becoming a mother, every girl becomes a superhero, capable of doing everything, bearing everything, and taking on anything.

41. 离开我就不要安慰我。要知道每一次缝补也会遇到穿刺的痛苦。

41. Don't comfort me when you leave. You should know that every patch-up also comes with the pain of piercing.

42. 周末，带宝宝去儿童医院检查，一耗就是一天，宝宝哇哇哭，大人也累够呛。

42. On the weekend, I took the baby to the children's hospital for a check-up, and it took up the whole day. The baby cried and cried, and the adults were exhausted as well.

43. 喧嚣的一天，随着小崽子的呼声也归于平静。带孩子不累，不被理解才心酸。

43. After a noisy day, the cries of the little brat also settle down. Taking care of children isn't tiring, but the lack of understanding is what makes it bitter.

44. 娃是我生的，夜是我熬的，奶是我喂的，尿片是我换的，衣服是我洗的，娃是我抱的，哭是我哄的，爱是无尽的，操碎我心是你，萌化心坎的也是你。

44. The child is born by me, the nights are kept awake by me, the milk is fed by me, the diapers are changed by me, the clothes are washed by me, the child is held by me, the cries are soothed by me, love is endless, the one who breaks my heart is you, and the one who warms my heart is also you.

45. 当妈妈真的不容易，宝宝哭了着急，母乳觉得吃不饱着急，哎，只希望宝宝健健康康快快乐乐成长。

45. It's really not easy to be a mother. When the baby cries, you worry; when they seem unsatisfied with breast milk, you worry too. Alas, all I hope for is that the baby grows up healthy, happy, and joyful.

46. 当妈妈后特别矛盾，怕你不乖又怕你太乖，怕你太冷又怕你太热，怕你不睡又怕你老是睡，怕你人不舒服怕你饿了撑了抓伤脸了，怕你突然就长大了。

46. As a mother, I'm particularly conflicted. I'm afraid you won't behave well, but I'm also afraid you're too compliant. I'm worried you'll be too cold or too hot, afraid you won't sleep or that you'll always be sleeping. I'm concerned about your comfort, whether you're hungry or stuffed, or if you've scratched your face. I'm afraid you'll suddenly grow up.

47. 除了想你和过去的点点滴滴，我真的不知道该怎么办。我苦苦哀求你，希望你能回到我身边，可是你一次次推开我，一次次反抗。

47. Apart from thinking of you and the little things from the past, I really don't know what to do. I beg you with all my heart, hoping that you can come back to me, but you push me away each time, and resist each time.

48. 一个人带宝宝来医院，自己不敢开车，就一大半时间都在等车，心累啊。

48. A person brought the baby to the hospital and was too scared to drive, so they spent most of the time waiting for a car, which was really tiring.

49. 只有一个人知道一个人带着孩子的艰辛和悲伤。女方是弱者，母亲只是一个带着孩子的人。苦乐只有一个人知道。女人是弱者，母亲是正义的。

49. Only one person knows the hardships and sadness of raising a child. The woman is the weaker sex, and a mother is simply someone who is raising a child. Only one person knows the joys and sorrows. Women are the weaker sex, but mothers are just.

50. 我熬了一夜，受伤了。我在文字的陪伴下走过了孤独的岁月。希望能和你携手走到我们的夏至，感受美丽华丽的痛苦，勾勒出最不完整的爱情。

50. I endured a sleepless night, injured. I walked through the years of solitude with the company of words. I hope to walk with you hand in hand to our summer solstice, experiencing the beautiful and magnificent pain, and sketching out the most incomplete love.

51. 昨天带宝宝上班一天，表现棒棒的！但是为娘累得够呛！感觉严重缺觉。

51. I brought the baby to work for the whole day yesterday, and he/she performed wonderfully! But, oh my, I'm exhausted! I feel like I'm seriously sleep-deprived.

52. 人到中年，谁不是充满了心酸与无奈呢，调整心情，积极乐观面对才是正道。

52. Who isn't filled with bitterness and helplessness when reaching middle age? Adjusting one's mood and facing life with positivity and optimism is the right path.