在这个喧嚣的世界里，我寻找着一种只属于我的生活方式。如同夜空中最亮的星，我渴望在生活的长河中，找到属于自己的那一份宁静与自由。

In this noisy world, I am seeking a lifestyle that is uniquely mine. Like the brightest star in the night sky, I long to find my own piece of tranquility and freedom in the long river of life.

1. 有时候只想一个人生活，一个人睡觉，一个人谈恋爱，默默想你。

1. Sometimes, I just want to live alone, sleep alone, date alone, and silently think of you.

2. 他爱不爱你，问你的心，别问你的耳朵；你爱不爱他，问你的泪眼，别问你的笑颜。

2. Whether he loves you or not, ask your heart, not your ears; whether you love him or not, ask your teary eyes, not your smiling face.

3. 当你想“我要比他过的更好，我要比他更快乐”是你对他最过瘾的报复时，你已经惨烈地输了。你还是没放下，还在较劲，过于在乎只会增加痛苦，这世上没有什么是永远属于你的，除了你自己。虚拟对手的较劲，可能会让你暂时出气，当气出完，那个被扔在角落里泄了气瘫软的皮球，才是你。

3. When you think "I want to live better than him, I want to be happier than him" is the most satisfying revenge on him, you have already suffered a severe defeat. You still haven't let go, you are still competing, and being overly concerned only increases your pain. There is nothing in this world that is forever yours, except yourself. Competing with a virtual opponent may temporarily vent your anger, but when the anger is gone, the exhausted and collapsed ball thrown into the corner is you.

4. 失眠，每晚失眠。大家似乎都习惯了这种一个人的生活。

4. Insomnia, unable to sleep every night. Everyone seems to have gotten used to this solitary life.

5. 如果你想要什么，不要许愿等着别人送。生命太短，等不得。

5. If you want something, don't wish for it and wait for others to give it to you. Life is too short to wait.

6. 未来一片迷茫，不知不觉开始想的事情越来越多越来越烦

6. The future is shrouded in confusion, and without realizing it, I find myself thinking about more and more things, which are increasingly烦扰 me.

7. 终究该学会自己独立一个人生活，也许该自己一个人出去走走。治治自己路痴的毛病。也许，以后的以后，大玲，你也会懂得，现实生活中哪里来那么多的爱，生活嘛，终究就是得找个合适的人一起过日子。终究就是柴米油盐。以后的以后，大玲，也许你也会开始明白，女孩子嘛，终究得找一个爱自己的人，而不是自己爱的死去活来的感觉。

7. In the end, one should learn to live independently, perhaps even go out on one's own. It's time to cure the problem of being directionally challenged. Maybe, in the future, you will also come to understand, in real life, where does all that love come from? Life is about finding the right person to live with. It's about everyday things like groceries and cooking. In the future, maybe you will also start to realize, girls, in the end, should find someone who loves them, rather than just someone they are willing to love to the point of obsession.

8. 一个人上班，一个人下班，一个人吃饭，一个人生活。学会慢慢忘记

8. One person goes to work, another person finishes work, one person eats, one person lives. Learn to slowly forget.

9. 爱竞天择，适者生存。早夭的，只是证明，他不是你的天长地久。

9. Love competition and natural selection; the fittest survive. Those who die young only prove that they are not meant to be with you for eternity.

10. 如果一个人圆满了，那还要另一个圆满干嘛？就算是两个圆，也有圆周不同的，早晚还会被甩。所以，磨平自己的棱角，学会一个人生活，不奢望永久，走一程相伴，觅一处孤老，人生就是一个人的演出，从来都是。

10. If a person has achieved perfection, what is the need for another one? Even if there are two circles, they have different circumferences, and sooner or later, one will be left behind. Therefore, smooth out your sharp edges, learn to live alone, do not expect permanence, accompany each other for a while, find a place to live out one's old age alone, life is a solo performance, always has been.

11. 我早已经学会了并且习惯了一个人生活，一个人做饭，一个人看**，一个人赚钱，一个人过着自己喜欢的生活，舍得、忘记、放下。

11. I have already learned and become accustomed to living alone, cooking alone, watching alone, earning money alone, and living the life I like. Letting go, forgetting, and releasing.

12. 世界上最强大的人是那些能够独自生活的人。

12. The most powerful people in the world are those who can live independently.

13. 在浴室门口摔了一跤，左腿膝盖破了，流血了，脚趾头也扭到了，没出息地哭了。想给妈妈打电话，但是太晚了，又怕她担心，还是忍住了。生病受伤的时候最希望妈妈在身边，想对她撒撒娇，仿佛这样伤口就会不那么疼了。可是终究要学会一个人生活的，没有谁能陪自己一辈子。

13. I fell and skinned my left knee at the bathroom door, and it started bleeding. My toes were also twisted. I cried ungracefully. I wanted to call my mom, but it was too late, and I was afraid she would worry, so I held back. When I'm sick or injured, I wish my mom was by my side the most, wanting to throw a tantrum in front of her, as if that would make the wound less painful. But in the end, one has to learn to live alone, and no one can accompany you for a lifetime.

14. 越来越爱跳舞了，真正的变成了自己的喜好，最后一张老师拍的，感觉宝贝还是不错哦。

14. I am falling more and more in love with dancing; it has truly become my favorite hobby. The last picture taken by the teacher, it seems like the little one is doing quite well, too.

15. 不要问我想做你的谁，而是你想让我做你的谁。

15. Don't ask who I want to be to you, but rather who you want me to be to you.

16. 虽然天阴，我也还是很喜欢，越来越爱一个人自在的空间如果晚上可以没有例会那就是极好的了。

16. Even though it's overcast, I still really like it, and I'm falling more and more in love with the space of being alone. It would be even better if there were no regular meetings at night.

17. 都这么大了，还憧憬有人能分享你的喜怒哀乐，真的是想太多了。有什么事还是别说出来埋在心里吧，时间长久，就忘了。要学会长大啊，要学会一个人生活啊。

17. At this age, still dreaming of someone to share your joys and sorrows, you're really overthinking it. There are things that it's better not to say and keep them buried in your heart. With time, they'll fade away. Learn to grow up, learn to live alone.

18. 一个人死了，最多是由最亲近的人哀悼，而陌生人互相告知是新闻事件。然后，生活自然照常进行。

18. When a person dies, the most it is by the closest relatives to mourn, while strangers inform each other as a news event. Then, life naturally goes on as usual.

19. 当看到有趣的事情美丽的风景不再急着对别人分享，而是驻足欣赏片刻。

19. When you see something interesting or beautiful, instead of hurrying to share it with others, pause for a moment to appreciate it.

20. 哭的时候没人知，慢慢的学会了坚强，怕的时候没人陪，自己就学会了勇敢，烦的时候没人问，只有去学着承受。久之就变得越来越不敢轻易去完全依赖一个人，因为会害怕再次失去！

20. When crying, no one knows; gradually, I learned to be strong. When afraid, no one is there to comfort me; I learned to be brave on my own. When troubled, no one asks; I only learned to endure. Over time, I became increasingly不敢轻易 rely on someone completely, because I fear losing them again!

21. 管是坐车逛街旅行去哪里一定会带上耳机。家里的钥匙会备2、3根。选择座位的时候会尽量选择靠窗或者角落。但…其实我挺享受独处的时光。

21. No matter where I go, whether it's for a car ride, a stroll, or a trip, I always bring headphones. I keep 2 or 3 extra keys at home. When choosing a seat, I prefer to sit near the window or in a corner. But... actually, I quite enjoy my time alone.

22. 你能想象有一天你一个人住，没人说话，没人聊天吗？

22. Can you imagine one day living alone, with no one to talk to, no one to chat with?

23. 两个女子在异国他乡走南闯北，胡志明市-美奈-大叻-芽庄-会安-河内，纵览越南7个城市。这趟旅程于半个多月前结束，现在再次回想一路上的人和事，然后把这段记忆化作图文，我觉得自己越来越爱这个世界，越来越享受自己的生活。

23. Two women traveled around a foreign land, exploring from Ho Chi Minh City to My Khe, Da Lat, Nha Trang, Hoi An, and Hanoi, taking in the sights of 7 cities in Vietnam. This journey ended more than half a month ago, and now, as I reminisce about the people and things along the way and turn this memory into text and images, I find myself growing increasingly fond of this world and enjoying my life more and more.

24. 越来越害怕人多越来越不想开口说话很烦谁管我做的事越来越小气一个人走的时候害怕遇到熟人一直在努力克服这种障碍但是自卑的感觉日益加深。

24. I am increasingly afraid of crowded places and don't want to talk much, which is really烦人. Who cares about what I do? I get more and more stingy. When I walk alone, I am afraid of running into acquaintances. I have been trying hard to overcome this obstacle, but the feeling of inferiority is deepening day by day.

25. 一生当中，真正属于自己的时光就那么几次。大多数时光里，我们不是在重复自己的生活，就是在重复别人的生活。有时候干脆把自己的生存目标确定为：追求别人那样的生活。其实，真正的幸福，不是活成别人那样，而是能够按照自己的意愿去生活。

25. Throughout one's life, there are only a few moments that truly belong to oneself. Most of the time, we are either repeating our own lives or imitating others. Sometimes, we even set our survival goals to pursue a life like others. In fact, true happiness is not about living like someone else, but about being able to live according to one's own wishes.

26. 有种单身，是为了等一个人，因为还放不下他，因为还没死心，因为你相信他会回来找你。

26. There is a kind of singlehood that is for waiting for one person, because you still can't let him go, because you haven't given up hope, because you believe he will come back to find you.

27. 你永远也不知道你最终走向何处，或者最终结局如何，所以你要做的，就是把你所知道的现在做到你能够的最好。不要为某些事情，要求自己必须压抑或者忘记以及强迫什么的，顺其自然吧，很多时候需要放开才能真正达到你的意愿。

27. You never know where you will ultimately end up, or how the final outcome will be, so what you should do is to do your best with what you know now. Don't force yourself to suppress or forget certain things, or to force things, just go with the flow. Often, you need to let go to truly achieve what you desire.

28. 越来越懒。懒得重新认识一个人再问姓名再问年龄再聊天再了解对方再磨合一想就烦，因为这样真的很累很累宁愿把这个世界的所有躁点，在一个人身上磨平，哪怕最后输的像条狗

28. Getting lazier and lazier. Too lazy to get to know someone new, ask for their name, ask for their age, chat, understand them, and blend in - it's all too烦. Because it's really, really tiring. I'd rather smooth out all the rough edges in this world on one person, even if in the end, I lose as badly as a dog.

29. 面对挫折不屈不挠，勇往直前是美;对困境中的人伸出援助之手是美;尊老爱幼是美;保护环境是美……生活中每时每刻都产生美，我们不仅要用双眼去发现美，还要用双手去创造美!让生活中的美无处不在。

29. It is beautiful to be unyielding in the face of setbacks and to forge ahead bravely; it is beautiful to lend a helping hand to those in困境; it is beautiful to respect the elderly and love the young; it is beautiful to protect the environment... Beauty is produced at every moment in life. We not only need to use our eyes to discover beauty, but also use our hands to create it! Let beauty be everywhere in life.

30. 我越来越爱一个人的时候我就变得非常奇怪我只会伤害他令对方失望同时也让我自我厌恶感几何翻倍增加这就是我越来越讨厌自己越来越暴躁的原因。

30. As I fall more and more in love with someone, I become very strange. I only end up hurting them and causing disappointment, which also leads to a geometric increase in my self-loathing. This is the reason why I start to dislike myself more and become increasingly irritable.

31. 总是自作聪明，还以为自己很屌，都不耐烦理实你，越来越讨厌，觉得快要无法隐藏了

31. Always thinks they are smart and think highly of themselves, doesn't even want to bother with you, growing increasingly disliked, feels like they're about to be unable to hide it.

32. 现在越来越想一个人生活，越来越想逃离家，总是给我很大的压力，太烦了。

32. I am increasingly wanting to live alone and want to escape from home. It always puts a lot of pressure on me, it's too烦人。

33. 学会一个人生活，不论身边是否有人疼爱。做好自己该做的，有爱或无爱，都安然对待。有些事情，时间到了，自然就懂了，不必太纠结。最难过的事不是别人又得罪你了，而是你自己总爱跟自己过不去。

33. Learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone around to cherish you. Do what you should do, and face love or lack thereof calmly. Some things, when the time comes, you will naturally understand them, and there is no need to be overly纠结. The most painful thing is not that others have wronged you again, but that you always seem to have issues with yourself.

34. 根本就没有什么感同身受，针不扎你身上你永远不会痛。

34. There is absolutely no such thing as empathy; you will never feel pain unless the needle is pricked into your own flesh.

35. 当你越来越爱一个人时候，发现那个人越来越不爱你，人生最难过的感受之一！

35. When you fall more and more in love with someone, yet find that person is falling less and less in love with you, it is one of the most painful feelings in life!

36. 总有一个人活在心里，却消失在生活里。缘分到了！

36. There is always someone who lives in the heart but disappears in life. The time for destiny has arrived!

37. 一个人裹紧外套，一个人吹吹风机，一个人挣扎，一个人左手握右手，一个人坚强，一个人过着完整的人生。

37. One person wraps up in a coat, one person uses a hair dryer, one person struggles, one person holds their right hand with their left, one person is strong, and one person lives a full life.

38. 时间久了，对你越来越爱，你的爱也越来越少，所以我们越来越爱吵架，总是故意冷漠伤害。其实爱一个人七分满，刚刚好，彼此像朋友最宽容，既是最熟悉的人，也留给彼此空间

38. As time goes by, I fall more in love with you, but you seem to love me less. So, we tend to argue more and intentionally hurt each other with coldness. In fact, loving someone to the fullest is just right. We should be as forgiving as friends, being the most familiar to each other while also giving each other space.

39. 谈恋爱不一定意味着结婚，因为不合适。谁能告诉我谁生来就是要和另一个人过一辈子？

39. Falling in love doesn't necessarily mean getting married, because it might not be suitable. Who can tell me who is born to spend a lifetime with another person?

40. 没有人可以回到过去重新开始，但谁都可以从现在开始，书写一个全然不同的结局。

40. No one can return to the past to start anew, but everyone can begin from now and write a completely different ending.

41. 自己想什么时候去图书馆就什么时候去，想不学了出去逛街，立马人就能走。

41. You can go to the library whenever you want, and if you feel like going shopping instead of studying, you can leave immediately.

42. 要么你去驾驭生命，要么是生命驾驭你，你的心态决定谁是坐骑，谁是骑师。

42. Either you ride life, or life rides you; your attitude determines who is the mount and who is the rider.

43. 我现在越来越发现，如果遇到一个特别喜欢搞的人，我宁愿一个人！年纪大了，真心嫌烦！

43. I'm finding more and more now that if I encounter someone who particularly enjoys causing trouble, I'd rather be on my own! As I get older, I really find it烦扰！

44. 我只知道爱一个人的时候就轰轰烈烈全心全意投入毫不保留交出自己，不怕受伤从不后悔。每个人爱人的方式不一样那并不代表不爱，从来不会刻意改变或隐藏，我只知道你就是那个对的人，我愿意和你一起成为更好的彼此。爱一个人是随着时间积累会越来越爱，我想跟你一起看遍山水走完这一生。

44. I only know that when I love someone, I pour myself wholeheartedly, without holding back, and I'm not afraid of getting hurt or regretting it. Everyone has their own way of loving, and that doesn't mean they don't love. I've never deliberately changed or concealed myself. I just know that you are the right person for me, and I am willing to become a better version of myself with you. Loving someone is about accumulating more love over time. I want to experience all the landscapes and live out this life with you.

45. 没有人永远十七岁，但永远有人十七岁。因为依赖一份只有我记得的回忆，我已经长大。长到可以勇敢的面对人间所有的风风雨雨。

45. No one remains seventeen forever, but there is always someone who is seventeen. Because I depend on a memory that only I remember, I have grown up. I have grown up to the point where I can bravely face all the storms and trials of life.

46. 如果我们能够勇敢地爱，勇敢地去原谅，能慷慨地因为别人的幸福而快乐，能够聪明地知道我们周围有足够的爱，那么我们就完成其他生灵从未知道的完整。

46. If we can love bravely, forgive bravely, be joyful generously because of others' happiness, and wisely know that there is enough love around us, then we have achieved a completeness that other creatures have never known.

47. 不要那么相信回忆，里面的那个人，不一定同样想你。

47. Don't trust memories so much; the person in them may not be thinking of you in the same way.

48. 茫茫人海中，丢失一个人，只需眨一下眼；找到一个人，却要望穿双眼。

48. In the vast sea of people, losing someone takes only a blink of an eye; finding someone, however, requires staring through the bottom of one's eyes.

49. 一个人的生活少了很多烦恼。

49. A person's life has fewer worries.

50. 性格越来越古怪不想和不熟的人相处你懂我我懂你就好了很烦向别人解释一样东西特别烦烦到爆炸

50. My personality is getting more and more peculiar. I don't want to be around unfamiliar people. You understand me, and I understand you, that's enough. It's very annoying to have to explain something to others, especially annoying to the point of explosion.

51. 生活中的美，并非生活所给予我们，而是我们的心和生活清澈的相映。不只我们的心在寻求生活的美，生活的美也澎湃地撞击我们的心。

51. The beauty in life is not given to us by life itself, but rather it is the reflection of our hearts upon the clarity of life. Not only does our heart seek the beauty of life, but the beauty of life also vigorously impacts our hearts.

52. 又get到了许多新技能，越来越爱撒娇，越来越不听话，越来越有主见，不合心意就哇哇大哭，我多虐我千百遍，我却待他如初恋，谁叫他是我小情人呢。

52. I've acquired many new skills and am getting more and more fond of being cute, rebellious, and assertive. If things don't go my way, I'll cry like a baby. No matter how many times I may "torture" him, I still treat him like my first love, after all, he is my little sweetheart.

53. 好好活下去吧，虽然也存在着遗憾，没有落日般的瑰丽，没有流云般的缥缈，却有水晶般的清纯与透明;没有高山般的巍峨，没有湖水般的轻柔，却可以有岩石般的坚毅与稳重;没有大海般的浩瀚，没有瀑布般的飞泻，却有泥土般的朴素与随和。

53. Live well, for though there are regrets, there is no grandeur like the sunset, no ethereality like flowing clouds; yet, there is the purity and clarity like crystal; no majesty like high mountains, no gentleness like lakes; yet, there can be the tenacity and stability like rocks; no vastness like the ocean, no cascading like waterfalls; yet, there is the simplicity and ease of earth.

54. 很早早熟的孩子很不快乐不是并不快乐，是很不快乐，很早就学会了一个人生活或者独处，然后努力让自己长大，努力地前进，大概是上高中开始就开始一个人，孤独啊，这么多年都没有消散过，身边所有观望过的人都是过客，没有一个人敢轻易接近，所谓距离啊，真的让人疼。

54. Early-maturing children are very unhappy. Not just unhappy, but extremely unhappy. They learn to live alone or be by themselves very early on, and then strive to grow up and move forward. It's probably since high school that they've been alone, feeling lonely. This feeling hasn't faded over the years; everyone who has watched them pass by is just a passerby. No one dares to get close easily. The so-called distance really hurts.

55. 太TM恶心了，求拉黑，真他妈虚荣，想吐。我真是越来越烦你了，一个人能让人恶心到如此地步你也真是特别成功了。

55.他妈的太恶心了，求你把我拉黑，真是他妈的虚荣，让人想吐。我真的越来越烦你，一个人能让人恶心到这种程度你也真是特别成功了。

56. 为什么会喜欢一个人啊越来越爱一个人是什么感觉啊跟他过一辈子怎么就能感到满足啊

56. Why do we like someone? What is it like to fall more in love with someone? How can living with someone for a lifetime make us feel satisfied?

57. 你不爱一个人却想嫁给他，这是现实。爱一个人却不能嫁给他，这是无奈。生活和爱情往往不在一个轨道上。

57. It is a reality to love someone but not want to marry them. It is a helplessness to love someone but cannot marry them. In life, love often does not run on the same track.

58. 无论你在生活中多么坚强，总会有一个人让你无助。

58. No matter how strong you are in life, there will always be someone who will make you feel helpless.

59. 没想到以前做业务的时候，脾气要那么好每天应对各种神经病，现在老了，搞不了了，脾气越来越艹，分分钟不想搭理对方无理走苛刻的要求，真的，好烦哦

59. Who would have thought that when I was doing business before, I had such a good temper, dealing with all kinds of crazy people every day. Now that I'm older, I can't handle it anymore, and my temper is getting worse and worse. I don't want to deal with unreasonable and demanding people for even a minute. Really, it's so烦人.

60. 每个人心里都有一团火，路过的人只看到烟。但总有一个人，总有那么一个人能看到这团火，然后走过来，陪我一起。我带着我的热情，我的冷漠，我的狂暴，我的温和，以及对爱情毫无理由的相信，走的上气不接下气。我结结巴巴对她说：你叫什么名字。从你叫什么名字开始，后来，有了一切。梵高

60. Everyone has a fire in their hearts, but those who pass by only see the smoke. But there is always one person, just one person who can see this fire, and then come over to accompany me. I walk, breathless, with my passion, my indifference, my fury, my gentleness, and my unconditional belief in love. I stammer and say to her: What is your name? From the moment you told me your name, everything followed. Van Gogh.

61. 就算全世界都否定你，你也要相信你自己。不去想别人的看法，旁人的话不过是阳光里的尘埃，下一秒就被风吹走。这是你的生活，没有人能插足，除了你自己，谁都不重要。悲伤，尽情哭得狼狈，泪干后，仰头笑得仍然灿烂。一往直前，激发生命所有的热情。年轻不怕跌倒，永远地，让自己活的很漂亮，很漂亮。

61. Even if the whole world denies you, you must believe in yourself. Don't worry about others' opinions; their words are just dust in the sunlight, blown away in the next second. This is your life, and no one can interfere except yourself; no one is important except you. When sad, cry as helplessly as you want, and when the tears dry, smile brightly with your head raised. Move forward without hesitation, unleashing all the passion in life. Young and not afraid of falling, live beautifully and beautifully forever.

62. 最近无可救药地迷上了林忆莲，越来越爱看家长里短的生活剧，喝黑咖啡和威士忌上瘾，愈发觉得男生衬衫马甲、女生连身长裙才最得体美观审美全方位向儿时记忆中的父母靠拢，当年觉得土气老气的东西，如今发现怎么这么有味道。原来从没有过时的东西，它们只是在等我们长大。

62. Lately, I've become hopelessly obsessed with Lin Yilian, and I'm increasingly fond of watching melodramas about everyday life. I'm addicted to drinking black coffee and whiskey. I find myself increasingly drawn to the classic look of men in shirts and waistcoats and women in one-piece dresses; aesthetically, I'm leaning more towards the style of my parents from my childhood memories. Things that I used to think were old-fashioned and outdated now seem so charming. It turns out there is no such thing as out-of-style; they were just waiting for us to grow up.

63. 得不到的并不是最好的。他一直守候在你身边，你却依然渴望他，那才是最好的。

63. What you cannot have is not necessarily the best. He has been with you all along, yet you still long for him; that is the best.

64. 不知道我还能不能陪你到高考，不知道我还能不能和你一起高考我也会累不光你一个人会累我也是人一味地包容，一味地认怂，一味地对你好，我也感到累了就这样吧在一起多久就多久吧不太强求什么，你也会烦我越来越了解我之后你才会发现这并不是你想要的，又是一回当我全身心陷进去之后这样，算了，自作自受

64. I don't know if I can accompany you to the college entrance examination, and I don't know if I can take the exam with you. I'm tired too, not just you. I'm also a person. I have been包容 too much, yielding too often, and being too good to you, and I too feel exhausted. Let's just be together as long as we are together. Don't strive for too much; you'll get tired of me too. Only after getting to know me better will you realize that this is not what you want. It's another time when I have fully immersed myself in it like this. Forget it, let's suffer the consequences of our own actions.

65. 生活，真的很难解释清楚。它永远是个无法破译的谜。青年人喜欢随心所欲的生活，所以总是打破常规;老年人喜欢按部就班的生活，所以总有看不惯的事情;男人感受生活的轮廓，所以总是粗枝大叶;女人感受生活的细节，所以总是细致入微。

65. Life is really hard to explain clearly. It is always an unsolvable mystery. Young people like to live carefree, so they always break the rules; the elderly prefer a routine life, so they always have things they cannot stand; men feel the outline of life, so they are always rough; women feel the details of life, so they are always meticulous.

66. 时不时莫名想哭眼泪说来就可以来我妈对我越来越不耐烦了我也越来越看不清自己患得患失无止境的叹气再这样下去真是要得抑郁症了吧

66. Occasionally, for no apparent reason, I feel the urge to cry, and tears come whenever they please. My mom is getting increasingly impatient with me, and I'm also losing sight of myself, constantly worrying and sighing. If this goes on, I'm afraid I might be developing depression.

67. 只希望你和我好，互不猜忌，也互不称誉，安如平日，你和我说话像对自己说话一样，我和你说话也像对自己说话一样。

67. I only wish for us to be good to each other, without suspicion or praise, as calm as usual. When you speak to me, it's as if you're speaking to yourself, and when I speak to you, it's as if I'm speaking to myself.

68. 找不到对的人，其实很可能是，改不掉错的自己。

68. It's quite possible that if you can't find the right person, it's because you can't change the wrong person you are.

69. 世上有很多东西是可以挽回的，比如良知，比如体重。但不可挽回的东西更多，旧梦，岁月，对一个人的感觉。放弃一个很爱你的人并不痛苦，放弃一个你很爱的人才是痛苦。

69. There are many things in the world that can be recovered, such as conscience, and weight. However, there are more things that cannot be recovered, like old dreams, time, and the feeling for a person. It is not painful to let go of someone who deeply loves you, but it is painful to let go of someone you deeply love.

70. 一个人生活的说说

71. 在有生的瞬间能遇到你，竟花光所有力气。在这日才发现，曾呼吸过空气。

70. Thoughts on a person's life 71. In the fleeting moment of living, encountering you has exhausted all my strength. It is only on this day that I realize I have ever breathed air.

72. 在遇见下一个喜欢你的人之前 最好的办法是保持一段理智的单身

72. The best way to wait for the next person who likes you is to maintain a rational period of singleness.

73. 很想很想你。很想很想很想你，在一起的时间越来越少，不能睡一起，不能一起吃饭玩耍，偶尔的调情也不能做了，你不爱亲亲了，不爱抱抱了，你说我越来越烦了我好害怕

73. I miss you so much. I miss you so much, so much. The time we spend together is getting less and less, we can't sleep together, can't eat or play together, and we can't even flirt occasionally anymore. You don't want to kiss anymore, you don't want to hug anymore, and you say I'm getting more and more annoying. I'm really scared.

74. 越来越懒了，很多事情宁愿想想不愿去说，心里的事情越来越多，烦的慌，闷的慌

74. I'm getting lazier and lazier. I'd rather think about many things than talk about them. There are so many things on my mind, and it's driving me crazy, making me feel suffocated.

75. 一个人久了，身边虽然有很多朋友，但也有孤独的时候，本以为已经有了一个人的生活节奏，可是当朋友不在身边，也会感到孤独。

75. After being alone for a while, although I have many friends around, there are also moments of loneliness. I thought I had already adapted to the rhythm of a solitary life, but even when my friends are not around, I still feel lonely.

76. 社会没素质的人，还真的蛮多的，天天对着这些没素质的人，是会有点暴躁，自己都快成没素质得了，因为你发现你的素质用不上，真发现自己嘴巴越来越多不好听的话，越来越毒舌的感觉了，以前都不是这样的，是不是最近工作遇到太多没素质的人，变得不耐烦，厌世？

76. There are indeed quite a lot of people with no social素质. Dealing with these people every day can be quite irritating, and you might even start to lose your own素质. You find that your own words are becoming increasingly unpleasant and sarcastic, which wasn't the case before. Is it because you've encountered too many people with no social素质 recently that you're feeling impatient and disillusioned with life?

77. 如果你想要造一艘船，先不要雇人去收集木头，也不要分配任务，而是去激发他们对海洋的渴望。

77. If you want to build a ship, don't hire people to gather wood or assign tasks, but rather inspire their longing for the sea.

78. 到现在还有人觉得我十七八，我长得有那么小吗？看来我是真小，不着急，不着急，真的不能着急。静静学会一个人生活吧。

78. Even now, some people still think I'm in my early 20s, do I really look that young? It seems like I really am young, no rush, no rush, really can't rush. Learn to live alone quietly.

79. 生了孩子以后你会发现家庭矛盾越来越多，越来越烦的人不得不忍着，即使每次都爆发也没屁用、已经对生活失望了、现在就是处于半昏迷的生活状态有时候多希望自己是聋子哑巴甚至还是瞎子没心没记忆没情绪一个空壳多好、现在才明白为什么有了孩子一些夫妻会离婚过不下去、往往并不是两个人的感情出问题，而是夹着父母做的很多事情让我无语，影响到两个人的感情～

79. After having a child, you will find that family conflicts are increasing and becoming more and more annoying, and you have to endure them. Even if they erupt every time, it's useless, you have already lost hope in life, and now you are living in a semi-comatose state. Sometimes, you wish you were deaf, mute, and even blind, without a heart, without memory, without emotions—a mere shell would be so much better. Now I understand why some couples, after having children, end up getting a divorce and can't go on together. Often, it's not the problem with their feelings for each other, but the many things done by their parents that make me speechless, affecting their relationship.

80. 为何那么多曾让人羡慕的爱情最后无疾而终，而那些从来就没人在意的爱情，却可以如此简单的相爱，开花结果。其实，一只愿意握紧你的手，一颗把你放进生命里的心，这便够了。

80. Why do so many love stories that were once envied end without a cause, while those that were never noticed can simply fall in love and bloom into fruit? In reality, having one hand that is willing to hold yours and one heart that places you in its life is all that is needed.

81. 佐藤富雄：你嘴上所说的人生，就是你的人生。所以，我们一定要说积极向上的话，并且逐渐把说过的话变成现实。

81. Tōdō Tomio: The life you speak of with your mouth is your life. Therefore, we must definitely say positive and uplifting words, and gradually turn the words we speak into reality.

82. 鉴于今天某位阿姨当了妈，某位阿姨要出去念书了，我觉得又要开始自我反省了，年纪一把没啥长进，还被某人搞得越来越爱任性，真是不太妙啊。

82. Considering that today one of the aunts has become a mother, and another aunt is going to go study abroad, I feel like it's time for another round of self-reflection. At this age, I haven't made much progress, and I'm getting more and more capricious due to someone else's influence. It really isn't good.

83. 有一个人，一生都活在你心里，却在生活中永远消失了。

83. There is a person who has lived in your heart all their life but has disappeared forever in real life.

84. 有钱买个录音机 不听别人吹牛比

84. Have enough money to buy a tape recorder, but don't listen to others吹牛 (boast).