晨安，爱人，心灵深处，诗意盎然。一曲相思，随风轻扬，诉说着千年情缘。

Good morning, my love, deep within your heart, there is poetry in abundance. A melody of longing, gently carried by the wind, narrating a thousand-year-old love story.

1. 变质了的感情就和烟一样，没营养，却又丢不掉，留着一点一点侵蚀自己。

1. Altered feelings are like smoke – they lack nutrition yet are impossible to discard, slowly eroding oneself bit by bit.

2. 不是无情，亦非薄幸，只是我们一生中会遇上很多人，真正能停留驻足的又有几个？生命是终将荒芜的渡口，连我们自己都是过客。

2. Not ruthless, nor unkind, but throughout our lives, we will meet many people. How many of them can truly stay and linger? Life is an eventual desert crossing, and even we ourselves are just travelers passing through.

3. 愿你所爱之人正好也爱你，所想之人正好来到你身旁。

3. May the one you love also love you, and may the one you wish for come to your side.

4. 上帝也很为难，他不可能把所有的好事都让给你，也不可能把所有的不幸都塞给你。看淡得失，你才能找到生命的最佳平衡状态。

4. God is also in a difficult position; He cannot grant you all the good things, nor can He burden you with all the misfortunes. By taking a light-hearted attitude towards gains and losses, you can find the best balance in life.

5. 愿你不被这个世界所累，愿有人理解你的孤独。

5. May you not be burdened by this world, and may someone understand your loneliness.

6. 你必须只有内心丰富，才能摆脱这些生活表面的相似。王朔《致女儿书》

6. You must only have an abundant inner world to摆脱 these superficial similarities in life. -- Wang Shuo, "Letter to My Daughter"

7. 与人相处是一门学问：与人为邻，和字当头，笑字收尾，方能长久;与人相伴，善谈者久，寡言者短，沉默者分;与人深交，勿道己长，勿悦揭短，相谈甚欢;所谓与人为善，从善如登;与人为恶，从善如流;与人相处，于善心相交者，如山之高，可望己不足;于恶心相交者，如水之深，害己及人也!

8. 人有优也有缺，事有利也有弊。得失看淡，尽心随缘，过去放下，现在珍惜，未来希望。逆境时忍耐，顺境时收敛，得意时看淡，失意时随缘。每天都有希望，每天都很充实，每天就会很快乐，每天就会很幸福。

7. The art of getting along with others: Living as neighbors, let harmony be the beginning and laughter be the end, and you can maintain a long-lasting relationship; when accompanying others, those who are good at talking last longer, those who speak little have a shorter duration, and those who are silent divide; when deeply connected with others, do not boast about your own strengths, do not take pleasure in exposing others' shortcomings, and talk with great pleasure; what is meant by being good to others is that improving is as easy as climbing a mountain; being bad to others is as easy as flowing with the current; when interacting with others, those who associate with goodness are as high as a mountain, which one can look upon but never feel sufficient; those who associate with evil are as deep as water, which can harm oneself and others! 8. People have both strengths and weaknesses, and things have both advantages and disadvantages. Treat gains and losses lightly, do your best with circumstances, let go of the past, cherish the present, and hope for the future. Endure adversity, be modest in prosperity, be indifferent in success, and let go of failure. Every day holds hope, every day is fulfilling, every day will be happy, and every day will be happy.

9. 人生，可以痛苦，更要懂得追求快乐和幸福。该放下就放下，你才能够腾出空间来，找到真正属于你的快乐和幸福。花草树木把枯黄的落叶放下，长出一个美丽的春天。苍穹把灰色的云翳放下，才有一个灿烂的晴空。

9. Life can be painful, but it is more important to understand the pursuit of happiness and joy. Let go of what should be let go, and you can make space to find the true happiness and joy that belong to you. Plants and trees let go of withered leaves, and then a beautiful spring grows. The sky lets go of the grey clouds, and then there is a radiant clear sky.

10. 有的时候，你很爱一个人，其实只是你自己的事，像一出独角戏。到最后，最感动的人，不过是你自己。可是，有什么关系，不是你自己所选的吗你选了，再苦再累再痛，有何资格说后悔。

10. Sometimes, when you love someone deeply, it's actually your own affair, like a one-man show. In the end, the person who is most moved is yourself. But what of it? After all, wasn't it your own choice? You made the choice; through all the hardships, fatigue, and pain, who are you to regret?

11. 没必要交很多朋友，因为不是所有人都会在你需要的时候站出来，相反很多蜻蜓点水的感情还会造成困扰。越长大发现在乎的圈子越小，这不是坏事儿，你只要守护好该守护的人就够了。就是这一小撮人，在你以为会孤立无援的时候，他们早就挺身而出站在那了。苑子文

11. There's no need to make many friends, because not everyone will stand up for you when you need it. On the contrary, many superficial relationships can cause trouble. As you grow older, you'll find that the circle you care about gets smaller, and that's not a bad thing. You just need to protect the people who need protecting. It's this small group of people who will stand up for you when you think you'll be isolated and unsupported. - Yuan Ziwén

12. 惟有身处卑微的人，最有机缘看到世态人情的真相。一个人不想攀高就不怕下跌，也不用倾轧排挤，可以保其天真，成其自然，潜心一志完成自己能做的事。杨绛

12. Only those who are humble in life have the opportunity to see the truth of human nature and social conditions. A person who does not seek to rise high does not fear falling, nor does he need to engage in intrigue or exclusion, and can preserve his innocence, achieve his natural state, and concentrate wholeheartedly to accomplish what he can do. - Yang Jiang

13. 人这一辈子，年轻时所受的苦，都不过是一块跳板。人在跳板上，最难的是跳下来之前，心里的挣扎、无助。但愿所有的负担都变成礼物，所受的苦都能照亮未来迷茫的路。

13. In a person's lifetime, the hardships faced in youth are nothing but a stepping stone. The most difficult part on the stepping stone is the inner struggle and helplessness before the jump. May all the burdens transform into gifts, and the hardships endured illuminate the future path of confusion.

14. 美好的一天用早安说说吧！早上好说说, 传递正能量的快乐！晚安心语，抚慰心灵！鼓励自己吧！《早安心语：愿恋人待你如初，疼你入骨，从此深情不被辜负》，愿您喜欢！

14. A beautiful day deserves a "Good morning" post! Good morning sayings, spreading positive energy and joy! Evening thoughts to comfort the soul! Encourage yourself! "Morning Thoughts: May the one you love treat you as they did at first, cherish you deeply, and from now on, your deep affection is never unrequited," hoping you will like it!

15. 这些年，许多事物像影子一样消失，比如青春、希望、快乐、自信、坚韧。但我相信，这一切短暂的消失，必将在明天重现。我用信念把它们铸进每个寻常的日子，劳作并且感恩。

15. Over the years, many things have disappeared like shadows, such as youth, hope, happiness, confidence, and perseverance. But I believe that all these fleeting disappearances will reappear tomorrow. I cast them into every ordinary day with faith, working and being grateful.

16. 终于知道有很多事情，不是丢掉、送走、分手、不再联络，就可以解决的。有了牵挂，一切就输了。

16. Finally, it is known that many things cannot be solved by just throwing away, sending away, breaking up, or no longer keeping in touch. With attachments, everything is lost.

17. 喜欢一个人，在一起时会很开心。爱一个人，在一起时会莫名失落。喜欢一个人，永远是欢乐，爱一个人，你会常常流泪。喜欢一个人，当你想起他会微微一笑。爱 一个人，当你想起他会对着天空发呆。喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点。爱一个人，是包容了他的缺点。喜欢，是一种心情，爱，是一种感情。

17. Liking someone, you feel joyful when you're together. Loving someone, you feel inexplicably lost when you're together. Liking someone, it's always about happiness; loving someone, you often find yourself shedding tears. Liking someone, when you think of them, you can't help but smile. Loving someone, when you think of them, you find yourself gazing into the sky in a daze. Liking someone is seeing their good qualities. Loving someone is forgiving their shortcomings. Liking is a mood, love is an emotion.

18. 7入我相思门，知我相思苦，长相思兮长相忆，短相思兮无穷极。-李白《三五七言》

18. Entering my door of longing, you know the bitterness of my longing, eternal longing and eternal memory, brief longing that has no end. - Li Bai, "Three and Five Words"

19. 女生只有在自己喜欢的男生面前可以变成女生，其他时候必须像个爷们儿一样去奋斗!

19. A girl can only be a girl in front of the boy she likes; at other times, she must struggle like a man!

20. 33在天愿作比翼鸟，在地愿为连理枝。-白居易《长恨歌》

20. I wish to be a pair of birds flying with wings linked together in the sky, and to be a pair of trees entwined in the ground. - Bai Juyi, "The Song of Everlasting Sorrow"

21. 1死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与子偕老。-佚名《诗经·邶风·击鼓》

21. The distance between life and death is vast, yet with you, I have made a promise. Holding your hand, I will grow old with you. - An anonymous poem from the Book of Songs, the Song of the States: Yel River.

22. 真正的爱，终是不关风月，不逮风情，而是醉心于平淡流年，在时光里相守，在困苦间相牵，在老去中相望。别把爱情之路看得很远，徜徉其中尚觉得煎熬，偶然定睛回首，所有往事只是云淡风轻，情爱之旅亦不过弹指瞬间。爱之本质，原是烦忧与困苦，就算布满风尘险恶，皆需用心之虔诚默默守护。

22. True love, in the end, has nothing to do with romance or charm, but is醉心于the tranquility of flowing years, holding each other in time, holding each other through hardship, and looking at each other as we age. Don't overestimate the road of love, even wandering through it feels torturous; when you occasionally stop and look back, all past events are just as light as a breeze, and the journey of love is no more than a fleeting moment. The essence of love is originally worry and hardship; even if it is filled with dust and dangers, it all requires the silent protection of sincere devotion.

23. 为爱等待，尽管心酸，也是一件极其幸福的事。因为有爱，就值得等待。因为至少还有那么一个人，值得你去等待！也许只在等待的时候，才能细细揣摩爱与痛的心情。很多的东西，未必拥有才是幸福。能有一种感觉是思念，是心动，每每在你想起，就禁不住露出幸福的微笑，那也是一种幸福，无言的幸福。

23. Waiting for love, though it may be heart-wrenching, is also an extremely happy thing. Because of love, it is worth waiting. Because at least there is someone, someone who is worth waiting for! Perhaps it is only when waiting that one can ponder the feelings of love and pain in detail. Many things are not necessarily happy because of ownership. To have a feeling of longing, a feeling of affection, that makes you unconsciously smile with happiness every time you remember it, that is also a form of happiness, a silent happiness.

24. 我们不能总是生活在自己的想象之中，不能虚幻地设想如果自己去做某一件事一定会比别人做得好。更重要的是把思想转化为行动，一步一步地去接近目标。

24. We cannot always live in our own imagination, nor can we fantasize that if we do something, we will definitely do it better than others. What is more important is to convert thoughts into actions and approach the goal step by step.

25. 想你是一种痛，淡淡的痛，不常来，却又挥之不去；想你，是一种刻骨铭心的痛，不经常，却依然深刻；想你，永远不会累，但极其痛苦，令人心碎…痛苦的不是过去，而是记忆！

25. Missing you is a kind of pain, a light and faint pain that doesn't come often but lingers; missing you is an enduring, deep pain that's not frequent yet still profound; missing you is never tiring, but it is incredibly painful and heart-wrenching... What's painful is not the past, but the memories!

26. 你可知道，执子之手，与子偕老是需要多少的沧海桑田才可以抵达。若未相逢，就不会有如今的肝肠寸断；若不相爱，就不会一生的万念俱灰。爱，是一朵带刺的玫瑰，靠的越近，刺痛的越深。

26. Do you know how much of a sea change is required to reach the point where you hold hands with someone and promise to grow old together? If we had never met, there would be no present-day heartache; if we had never loved, there would be no lifelong despair. Love is a thorny rose; the closer you get to it, the more deeply it stings.

27. 28平生不会相思，才会相思，便害相思。-徐再思《折桂令》

27. All my life I did not know what it was to miss someone, but now that I do, it has caused me heartache. - Xu Zaisi, "Zhegui Ling"

28. 珍惜今天，珍惜现在，谁知道明天和意外，哪一个先来。生活中有很多不公平，别抱怨，因为没有用。你这辈子不用对任何人证明什么，除了对你自己。再烦，也别忘记微笑；再急，也要注意语气；再苦，也别忘记坚持；再累，也要爱惜自己。

28. Cherish today, cherish the present, who knows whether tomorrow or an accident will come first. There are many unfairnesses in life, don't complain, as it's useless. You don't need to prove anything to anyone in this lifetime, except to yourself. No matter how troubled you are, don't forget to smile; no matter how hurried, pay attention to your tone; no matter how bitter, don't forget to persevere; no matter how tired, take care of yourself.

29. 真想一觉醒来，我在小学教室对小学同桌说：我做了好长的一个梦。

29. I really wish I would wake up to find myself saying to my elementary school classmate in the classroom: "I had such a long dream."

30. 陪伴于无形，是人际交往的最高境界。虽然距离让你们分开了，但心与心的对话，却永没有停歇。----勃拉姆斯舅舅

30. Accompanying in the invisible is the highest level of interpersonal interaction. Although distance separates you, the conversation between hearts never ceases. ----Uncle Brahms

31. 多希望我只是个孩子，给颗糖就笑，摔倒了就哭。不用伪装到面目全非，不用压抑自己的心情。

31. How I wish I were just a child again, who would laugh at a piece of candy and cry when I fall. No need to pretend to the point of distortion, no need to suppress my own emotions.

32. 没有什么是永远，也没有什么会很久。找个借口，谁都可以先走。

32. Nothing is forever, and nothing lasts long. Find an excuse, and anyone can leave first.

33. 一个有灵魂的女人，才是一个有魅力的女人。一个有信仰的女人，才是一个有能量的女人。可以暂时茫然，但不自怨自艾，可以一时感慨，但不一直沉迷。若是美好，叫做精彩。若是糟糕，叫做经历。

33. It is only a woman with a soul who is truly charming. Only a woman with faith is truly energetic. She may be momentarily confused, but she does not wallow in self-pity. She may feel melancholic at times, but she does not get lost in it. If it is beautiful, it is called brilliance. If it is terrible, it is called experience.

34. 笑容可以给任何人，但你的心，只须给一个人就好。

34. A smile can be given to anyone, but your heart, only to one person is enough.

35. 44可怜无定河边骨，犹是春闺梦里人。-陈陶《陇西行》

35. "The bones scattered along the river's edge are可怜, yet they remain in the dreams of the springtime maiden." - Chen Tao, "Traveling in Longxi"

36. 如果有一天，我变得更冷漠了。请记得，我曾经要人陪的时候你都只说忙。如果有一天，我不再对你笑了。请记得，你曾经也没有问我过的快不快乐。

36. If one day I become colder, please remember that when I needed someone to accompany me, you would only say you were busy. If one day I stop smiling at you, please remember that you also never asked me whether I was happy or not.

37. 有时候，我们等的不是什么人什么事，我们等的是时间。等时间，让自己改变。

37. Sometimes, what we are waiting for is not a person or an event, but time. Waiting for time, allowing ourselves to change.

38. 48寻好梦，梦难成。况谁知我此时情。枕前泪共帘前雨，隔个窗儿滴到明。-聂胜琼《鹧鸪天》

38. 48: Seek good dreams, but they are hard to achieve. Who knows my feelings at this moment? The tears on my pillow and the rain in front of the curtain drop together, through the window, dripping through the night. - Nie Shengqiong, "Zige Tian" (Magpie on a Day)

39. 你跌跌撞撞，落得一身的伤，就当是为青春，画下的残妆。

39. You stumbled and fell, ending up with a body full of injuries, which can be seen as the残妆 painted for youth.

40. 5有美人兮，见之不忘，一日不见兮，思之如狂。-佚名《凤求凰·琴歌》

40. There is a beautiful person, whom I cannot forget after seeing. A day without seeing her, I miss her like a madman. - Anonymity, "Seeking the Phoenix: A Song of the Qin"

41. 现在的年轻人大多数都拥有最便宜的肉体 最值钱的尊严 最不靠谱的誓言 最假惺惺的朋友 最自以为是的梦想 最臭不要脸的自信

41. The majority of young people today have the cheapest flesh, the most valuable dignity, the most unreliable promises, the most insincere friends, the most self-righteous dreams, and the most shameless confidence.

42. 所有的合适都是两个人的相互迁就和改变，没有天生合适的两个人。两个人朝着相同的方向努力，就是最好的爱情。

42. All compatibility is about mutual accommodation and change between two people; there are no two individuals who are perfectly suited from birth. When two people strive towards the same direction, that is the best love.

43. 如果有人伤害了你，不要去感谢那些伤害你的人，他们根本没做什么让你成长，让你成长的是你的反思和坚强。

翻译如下： 43. If someone has hurt you, do not thank those who have hurt you, for they have done nothing to make you grow. It is your reflection and strength that enable you to grow.

44. 49一场寂寞凭谁诉。算前言，总轻负。-柳永《昼夜乐》

44. Who can诉 this solitude? When I recall what was said before, it seems to have been lightly disregarded. - Liu Yong, "Night and Day Happiness"

45. 眼神有内容的人，内心早已尝遍百种毒药、走过千山万水。

45. A person whose eyes have substance has long tasted a hundred kinds of poisons and traversed tens of thousands of mountains and rivers within their heart.

46. 思念透过千山万水敲响你的门窗，你可以发现窗前的花瓣多了一颗晶莹的泪珠。

46. Longing knocks at your windows and doors through mountains and rivers, and you can find a glistening tear drop added to the petals in front of the window.

47. 当有一个人走进了你心里，其余的人都要被赶出去，这就是爱。

47. When someone enters your heart, all the others must be driven out; this is love.

48. 情感微语1、愿你不被这个世界所累，愿有人理解你的孤独。

48. Emotional Whisper 1: May you not be burdened by this world, and may someone understand your loneliness.

49. 6这次我离开你，是风，是雨，是夜晚;你笑了笑，我摆一摆手，一条寂寞的路便展向两头了。-郑愁予《赋别》

49. 6 This time, when I leave you, it is the wind, the rain, and the night; you smile, and I wave my hand, and a lonely road stretches out in both directions. - Zheng Chouyu, "Fushe" (A Poem of Farewell)

50. 人生往往这样，你以为的希望，其实是让你陷得更深的绝望;而你认为无尽的绝望，在一拐角却满眼希望。

50. Life often turns out this way: what you thought was hope is actually a deeper despair that ensnares you; and what you believed to be endless despair suddenly turns into a sea of hope at a bend in the road.

51. 有些人看起来整天面带笑容，并不是因为他们事事顺利，只是他们比你敢于面对问题、善于遗忘不幸、勇于拥抱欣喜。

51. Some people seem to smile all day long, not because everything goes smoothly for them, but because they are braver in facing problems, better at forgetting the misfortunes, and more willing to embrace joys.

52. 54执手相看泪眼，竟无语凝噎。-柳永《雨霖铃》

52. 54 Holding hands and looking into each other's eyes, tears well up and words are stifled with emotion. - Liu Yong, "Yulin Ling" (The Rain Bell)

53. 我喜欢的人不年轻了，我也是。但他不管干什么我都支持他，他出唱片我买来听，他拍**我就跑去看，他有一天不想在大众面前了，过自己的生活了，我就祝他幸福。原本他不是属于我这个世界的人，但他给了我这么多，可能他永远都不记得我，但是那又怎样，我记得就好。

53. The person I like is no longer young, and neither am I. But I support him no matter what he does; when he releases an album, I buy it to listen to, when he acts, I go to watch him; if one day he doesn't want to be in the public eye and wants to live his own life, I wish him happiness. Originally, he wasn't a person from my world, but he has given me so much. Perhaps he will never remember me, but what of it? As long as I remember, that's enough.

54. 行走在路上，我们邂逅的不仅仅是尘世风景，在这喧闹的凡尘，我们都需要有适合自己的地方，不管当下的我们有没有人爱，我们也要努力做一个可爱的人。不埋怨谁，不嘲笑谁，也不羡慕谁，阳光下灿烂，风雨中奔跑，做自己的梦，走自己的路。

54. As we walk on the road, what we encounter is not just the scenery of the world. In this bustling world, we all need a place that suits us. Whether we are loved or not at the moment, we should strive to be a delightful person. We don't complain about anyone, mock anyone, or envy anyone. We shine in the sunshine and run in the rain. We chase our own dreams and walk our own path.

55. 人生第一快乐是做到自己认为自己做不到的事，人生第二快乐是做到别人认为自己做不到的事。

55. The first joy in life is to accomplish what you yourself think you cannot do, and the second joy is to accomplish what others think you cannot do.

56. 41此去经年，应是良辰好景虚设。便纵有，千种风情，更与何人说。-柳永《雨霖铃》

56. 41 Years have passed since then, and the beautiful times and scenes should have been in vain. Even if there are, a thousand kinds of charm, to whom can one tell them? - Liu Yong, "Yulin Ling"

57. “愿你早日学会逢场作戏，愿你早点习惯物是人非，毕竟不是每一个人都和天真的你一样容易动真情。”

57. "May you soon learn to act the part, may you quickly get used to the fact that people change while things remain the same, for not everyone is as easily moved by true feelings as the innocent you."

58. 对于已经发生了的事实，既然已经无法改变了，那我们就承认现实，接受现实，除了认命以外还是认命，没有其它更好的办法了，这也是最明智之举。

58. Since the fact has already occurred and cannot be changed, we should acknowledge and accept the reality. There is no other better way than to accept our fate, for it is also the most sensible course of action.

59. 43落花人独立，微雨燕双飞。-晏几道《临江仙二首其二》

59. Amidst the falling flowers, I stand alone, while in the light drizzle, swallows fly in pairs. - Yan Jidao, "Lingjiangxian: Two Poems, the Second"

60. 40人生自是有情痴，此恨不关风与月。-欧阳修《玉楼春》

60. Life is naturally full of sentimentality at the age of 40, but this regret has nothing to do with wind and moon. - Ouyang Xiu, "Yu Lou Chun"

61. 曾几何时，你已经回到家里了，朋友的电话打来，喊你出去玩，你二话不说，马上就穿回衣服出去玩。如今，你却会懒洋洋地说：已经回家了，不去了，累呢。这一刻，你终于明白自己老了。张小娴

61. How time flies, once you were back home, a friend's phone call came, inviting you to go out for fun, and you said nothing, put on your clothes and went out immediately. Now, you would lazily say: "I'm already home, I won't go, I'm tired." At this moment, you finally realize that you have grown old. Zhang Xiaoxian

62. 31今夕何夕，见此良人。-佚名《诗经·唐风·绸缪》

62. "How can I know this evening, to meet this good man?" - Unknown, from the Book of Songs, Tang Style, Choumou.

63. 一个人越成长就越觉得很多东西不必看得太重，比如外界对你的期望，比如无关紧要的人对你喜欢与否。过分看重就会让你迷失自我，仅仅是活出了他人帮你定义的成功。为了讨好别人，踮着脚尖改来改去，而被别人绑架了人生。一路走下来，才明白真正的魅力不是你应该变成谁，而是你本身是谁。

63. As a person grows up, they increasingly realize that many things don't need to be taken too seriously, such as others' expectations of you, or the likes and dislikes of those who are not important. Overvaluing these can lead you to lose your sense of self, merely living out the success that others have defined for you. In order to please others, you tiptoe and change yourself to suit them, and end up being manipulated by others in your life. Only after walking all the way through it do you understand that the true charm is not about who you should become, but who you are in yourself.

64. 27兽炉沈水烟，翠沼残花片，一行行写入相思传。-张可久《塞鸿秋》

64. 27 The smoke from the incense burner, with its 27 animals, and the remnants of flowers in the green pond, are all written into the scroll of longing. - Zhang Kejiu, "Autumn of the Seagull"

65. 当你感觉人生没那么如意，当你觉得自己再也坚持不下去的时候，请记得对自己说：没关系，我们都是这样长大的。

65. When you feel that life isn't going as smoothly as you'd like, when you feel like you can't keep going any longer, remember to tell yourself: It's okay, we all grow up this way.

66. 一个人，如果没有经受过投入和用力的痛楚，又怎么会明白决绝之后的海阔天空。

66. How can one understand the boundless horizons after decisiveness, if they have never experienced the pain of dedication and exertion?

67. 当我筑起心墙，不是因为我不想让你进来，只是我想看看你的爱有没有强大到能摧毁这堵墙。早安~

67. When I build up my heart wall, it's not because I don't want you to come in, but I want to see if your love is strong enough to tear down this wall. Good morning~

68. 以往，如果我没有记错，我的生命曾是一场盛宴。在那里，所有的心灵全都敞开，所有的美酒纷纷溢出来。

68. In the past, if I am not mistaken, my life was a feast. There, all hearts were open, and all the fine wines flowed freely.

69. 人生在世，不可能春风满面，事事称心，好与不好都走了，幸与不幸都过了。人生的际遇，一如窗外的雨，淋过，湿过，走了，远了。曾经的美好留于心底，曾经的悲伤置于脑后，不去恋也不要去恨。

69. In life, it is impossible to be always beaming with joy and have everything go according to one's wishes. Good and bad things come and go, as do happiness and misfortune. Life's experiences are like the rain outside the window – it falls, it gets wet, it moves away, and it's far. Keep the beautiful moments in your heart and the sad ones behind your mind; neither dwell on them nor harbor resentment.

70. 如若相爱，便携手到老；如若错过，便护他安好。

70. If you love each other, hold hands until old age; if you miss the chance, then protect his well-being.

71. 因为没有，从不担心失去;因为想要，才患得患失。若岁月静好，那就颐养身心;若时光阴暗，那就多些历练。生命中最困惑的，不是没人懂你，而是你不懂自己。没有放弃，怎能拥有;不守寂寞，岂见繁华。

71. Because there is none, there is no worry about losing; because one desires, there is a concern for gain and loss. If the years are peaceful, then cultivate one's body and mind; if the time is dark, then accumulate more experiences. The greatest confusion in life is not that no one understands you, but that you do not understand yourself. Without giving up, how can one possess? Without enduring solitude, how can one see prosperity?

72. 很多人都说，只要女人愿意将就，很多人都可以与之携手走过幸福的一生，生活本来就是一场又一场的妥协，许多人都是这样过来的。辛夷坞

72. Many people say that as long as a woman is willing to compromise, there are many people with whom she can walk through a happy life together. Life itself is a series of compromises, and many people have gone through it this way. Xin Yuwu

73. 15自君之出矣，明镜暗不治。思君如流水，何有穷已时。-徐干《室思》

73. Since you left, the bright mirror has not been polished. I miss you like a flowing river, how can there be an end to the longing? - Xu Gan, "House Thoughts"

74. 你沐浴着晨露，送我一束红玫瑰。你披上一身阳光，送我去远方。时至今日，蔷薇犹在，人在两地，月明秋风满相思。

74. You bathe in the morning dew, offering me a bouquet of red roses. You clothe yourself in a cloak of sunshine, sending me off to distant lands. Till this day, the rosebush still stands, but you and I are apart, under the moonlit autumn breeze, filled with longing.

75. 你不在，我也过得很好，可是这不代表你不重要。——《十年一品温如言》

75. I've been doing well without you, but that doesn't mean you aren't important. —— "A Decade of Ten Warm Words"

76. 爱情如果不落到穿衣、吃饭、睡觉、数钱这些实实在在的生活中去，是不会长久的。真正的爱情，就是不紧张，就是可以在他面前无所顾忌地打嗝、放屁、挖耳朵、流鼻涕;真正爱你的人，就是那个你可以不洗脸、不梳头、不化妆见到的那个人。---三毛

76. If love does not descend to the tangible aspects of life such as dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long. True love is not tense; it is being able to burp, fart, scratch your ears, or run a nose in front of him without any reservation; the person who truly loves you is the one you can meet without washing your face, combing your hair, or wearing makeup. --- Sanmao

77. 有多大的手，端多大的碗。未曾拥有过的，谈不上错过;拥有过的已经错过了，也谈不上拥有，珍惜现在拥有的，是一种唯美的想法，当我们在为错过的东西惆怅时，真正永恒的美丽却正在从指间滑落到地上。

77. The size of one's hand determines the size of the bowl they hold. Things not yet possessed cannot be considered as missed; things once possessed are already missed, and cannot be considered as possessed either. Cherishing what one currently has is a beautiful thought. While we are melancholic about things we have missed, the true eternal beauty is slipping through our fingers and falling to the ground.

78. 2衣带渐宽终不悔，为伊消得人憔悴。-柳永《凤栖梧》

78.2 The belt around my waist grows wider, yet I do not regret it; for her, I have wasted away, looking pale and thin. - Liu Yong, "Phoenix Perching on the Wutong Tree"

79. 很多时候，你不说，我也不说。就这样，说着说着就变了，想着想着就算了。

79. Often, if you don't say it, I won't either. Like that, as we keep talking, things change; and as we keep thinking, we just let it be.