杨绛，一位历经沧桑却依然坚韧的女性，她的一生，犹如她笔下的文字，充满了智慧与温情。她的一生，是对传统女性角色的突破，更是对人生真谛的深刻领悟。今天，让我们一同走进杨绛的世界，探寻她那独特的人生哲学。

Yang Jiang, a woman who has withstood the vicissitudes of life yet remains resilient, her life is like the words she pens, brimming with wisdom and warmth. Her life represents a breakthrough from traditional female roles and a profound insight into the essence of life. Today, let us journey together into the world of Yang Jiang, to explore her unique philosophy of life.

1. 乐观一点，开心一点，生命如此短暂，别浪费时间在不值一提的事情上。

1. Be more optimistic, happier, life is so short, don't waste time on trivial matters.

2. 我曾经年少轻狂，让我成为很多人茶余饭后的笑柄。

2. I used to be youthful and impetuous, which has become a laughingstock for many people during their tea breaks and meals.

3. 世界其实是在它该来的时候来的，只是我们没有合适的心情去迎接它。

3. The world actually comes when it should, but we don't have the right mood to welcome it.

4. 走好选择的路，别选择好走的路，你才能拥有真正的自己。

4. Walk the path of your own choosing, not the easy path, and you will truly be yourself.

5. 要相信老天爷是公平的，你做了，就会有回报，总有一天对方会知道。

5. Believe that the heavens are fair, and that if you do something, there will be a reward. Someday, the other party will know.

6. 让时光像水一般在身上湍急而过，而自己只知身在水中，不觉水流。

6. Let time rush past like water, and know only that one is in the water, without being aware of the flow of the water.

7. 我们年轻不世故，但那些最世故最能做人的人也是被批判的。钟书和我用这个来解释我们自己。

7. We are young and naive, but those who are the most worldly-wise and skilled in social matters are also criticized. Zhongshu and I use this to explain ourselves.

8. 愿你听到我的名字时微笑，见到我时给我一个拥抱。

8. May you smile when you hear my name, and give me a hug when you see me.

9. 惟有身处卑微的人，最有机缘看到世态人情的真相。

9. It is only those who are in a humble position who are most likely to see the true nature of human society and interpersonal relationships.

10. 我以上帝的姿态闪耀在这美好的时刻。凡人勿扰。

10. I shine in this beautiful moment in the form of God. Disturb not the mortal.

11. 人间不会有单纯的快乐，快乐总夹杂着烦恼和忧虑，人间也没有永远。

11. There is no pure joy in the world; happiness is always mixed with烦恼 (troubles) and worries. There is also no eternity in the human world.

12. 愿变成一块石头，守望着我已经看不见的小船。

12. May I become a stone, watching over the small boat that I can no longer see.

13. 杨绛先生曾说“人间没有单纯的快乐，快乐总夹带着烦恼和忧虑”。

Mr. Yang Jiang once said, "There is no pure happiness in the world; joy always comes with烦恼 (bother) and忧虑 (concern)."

14. 人生是一本书，内容是由自己写的，厚度由本人决定，精彩程度可以自己创造。

14. Life is a book, the content of which is written by oneself, the thickness is determined by the individual, and the level of excitement can be created by oneself.

15. 我以为我颓废了，今天才知道我的晨报报废了。

15. I thought I was decadent, but today I found out that my morning newspaper is scrap.

16. 我觉得我的心上给捅了一下，绽出一个血泡，像一只饱含着热泪的眼睛。

16. I felt a piercing stab in my heart, which bloomed into a blood blister, like an eye brimming with tears.

17. 何时何地，一定要明白，为自己而活，不要把别人的评价当回事。

17. At all times and in all places, always remember to live for yourself, and do not take others' opinions too seriously.

18. 她说：“你不要刻意去遇见谁，也不要急于拥有谁，更不要勉强地去留住谁，你要相信最好的自己，一定会留给那个对你最好的人，世间凉薄，自有深情，善待，善爱，善暖！”

18. She said, "Don't deliberately try to meet anyone, don't be eager to possess anyone, and definitely don't force yourself to keep anyone. Believe in the best version of yourself; it will surely leave the best for the person who treats you the best. In this world that is cold and indifferent, there is always deep affection. Be kind, be loving, and be warm!"

19. 和阳光的人在一起，时时温暖，处处芬芳。做向阳而生的花朵，遇温暖的人，赏温暖的景色，做温暖的事。

19. Being with people full of sunshine, one is always warm and everywhere fragrant. Be a flower that grows towards the sun, meet warm-hearted people, appreciate warm landscapes, and do warm-hearted deeds.

20. 如果我们想要更多的玫瑰，我们必须种植更多的玫瑰树。

20. If we want more roses, we must plant more rose bushes.

21. 生活中有一些我们熟悉的人，却还是要说再见。

21. There are some familiar people in life who we still have to say goodbye to.

22. 这样的魅力女子，对于爱情是遇则珍惜，失则释怀。一个人彻悟的程度，恰恰等于她所受痛苦的深度。

22. Such a charming woman values love when encountered and lets go when lost. The extent of a person's enlightenment is exactly equal to the depth of their suffering.

23. 你也是用言不由衷的话把最爱的人逼走然后独自悲伤吗？

23. Are you also pushing the one you love away with insincere words and then sorrowing alone?

24. 我可怜自己，可怜自己的卑微，可怜自己的假装坚强。

24. I pity myself, pity my humility, and pity my pretense of strength.

25. 几年过去了，我渐渐明白：那是一个幸运的人对一个不幸者的愧怍。

25. Years have passed, and I gradually understand: it was the guilt of a fortunate person towards an unfortunate one.

26. 一个成熟的人往往会发现怪的人越来越少，因为每个人都有麻烦。

26. A mature person often finds that there are fewer strange people, because everyone has their own troubles.

27. 不知道从什么时候开始讨厌自己假装坚强。

27. Don't know when I started to hate myself for pretending to be strong.

28. 愿认真而努力生活的你，生命都会回馈你该有的幸福和快乐！

� 28. May the diligent and earnest you lead a life that will reward you with the happiness and joy you deserve!

29. 记忆是一件很累的事情，就像失眠不对劲的时候怎么躺下。

29. Remembering is quite tiring, just like when insomnia is acting up, no matter how you lie down.

30. 要怪就怪自己，有本事喜欢上别人，没本事让人家喜欢你。

30. Blame it on yourself, you have the ability to like others, but not the ability to make others like you.

31. 这个世界从来不会辜负默默努力的人，低谷的时候，是给自己做准备的时候，在这个时候不断地学习和积攒能量，最后当你突然爆发那一刻，连你自己都吃惊，怎么自己突然变得这么厉害。

31. This world never lets down those who work silently and tirelessly. During the low points, it's the time to prepare for yourself. At this time, keep learning and accumulating energy. Finally, when you suddenly burst forth, even you yourself will be surprised at how you have suddenly become so capable.

32. 是啊，爱使你发光，便有人飞蛾扑火而来，这就是花开自有蝴蝶来。想要有好的爱情，就让自己先有光。

32. Yes, love makes you shine, and then there are those who come like moths to a flame, which is like the flowers attracting butterflies naturally. If you want to have a good love, let yourself shine first.