在岁月的长河中，生命如同白驹过隙。当“坦然接受自己的白发”（坦然接受自己的老去）成为生活的注脚，我们便开始学会与时光对话，与岁月共舞。

In the long river of time, life slips away like a fleeting white horse. When "accepting one's own gray hair calmly" (accepting one's own aging calmly) becomes the footnote of life, we begin to learn to converse with time and dance with the years.

1. 3我从来不愿埋怨自己，因为不愿面对现实的我太可怜。我又会强迫自己接受现实，因为不想一直蹉跎，错过美好。

1. I have never been willing to blame myself, because the me who does not want to face reality is too pitiful. I would also force myself to accept reality, because I do not want to waste my time and miss the beautiful things.

2. 14做个稳妥的人，不要高估两年内的自己，也不要低估十年后的自己。

2. Be a reliable person; do not overestimate yourself in the next two years, nor undervalue yourself in the next ten years.

3. 世上最心痛的距离，不是你不懂我的悲哀，不明白我的孤寂，而是我即使痛彻心脾，却不能放声哭泣！

3. The most heart-wrenching distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sorrow or comprehend my loneliness, but rather that even though I am in excruciating pain, I cannot let out a cry!

4. 很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘掉的事情，就在我们念念不忘的日子里、被我们遗忘了。

4. Many things we think we will never forget are actually forgotten on the very days we keep them in mind.

5. 7走过的是人生，看过的是云烟，尝过的是苦辣，回味的是甘甜，经历的是沧桑，成就的是尊严。我们心情，有欢喜，还有忧郁；人生之路，有甜美，也有汗水；生活给予你的，有精彩，更多是平淡。人无完人，接受不完美的自己。

5. The path walked is life, the clouds seen are mist, the flavors tasted are bitter and spicy, the sweetness回味 is sweet, the experiences are vicissitudes, and the achievements are dignity. Our hearts have joy and also melancholy; the road of life has sweetness and also sweat; what life gives you has brilliance, but more is plainness. No one is perfect, accept the imperfect self.

6. 9接纳不完美的自己，在有限的条件里，尽力做好自己！

6. 9 Embrace your imperfect self, do your best to be your best under limited conditions!

7. 6最近突然之间的顿悟，真正接受不完美的自己，并且爱自己。

7.6 A sudden realization recently, truly accepting the imperfect self, and loving oneself.

8. 39成熟不是有多懂事，不是有多大能力而是开始接受不完美的自己包容自己不认可的东西。

8. 39 Maturity is not about how sensible or capable you are, but rather about starting to accept the imperfect self, to embrace the things you do not approve of.

9. 34做个稳妥的人，不要高估两年内的自己，也不要低估十年后的自己。

9. Be a reliable person, don't overestimate yourself in the next two years, and don't undervalue yourself in ten years.

10. 25人生是一个和自己较劲的历程，其中最重要的一课是你必须慢慢知道，什么时候咬着牙也不能放手的，什么时候放开手就等于放了自己的。

10. Life at 25 is a journey of struggling with oneself, and the most important lesson is that you must gradually learn when to bite the bullet and not let go, and when to let go means giving oneself up.

11. 24勇于接受自己的失败，告诉自己，这就是自己的现实，也许不是自己该去发挥的地方，还是让自己到最适合自己战斗的方面去吧！勇敢的接受自己的失败，会让你的心态更平和更坦然，也会让你心无旁骛，更会让你的心灵得到解脱和抚慰。

11. 24 Be brave in accepting your failures and tell yourself, this is your reality, maybe not the place where you should excel. Let yourself go to the field where you are most suited to fight! Being brave in accepting your failures will make your mindset more peaceful and relaxed, and it will also allow you to focus without distraction, and it will even bring relief and comfort to your soul.

12. 46有时候，你必须意识到，有些人能留在你的心里，但不能留在你生活里。我明明知道需要放手却放不下，因为我还在等待不可能的发生，这种感觉真的很难受。不能承受的时候，你就接受吧，接受现实的安排，沉淀困苦，放过自己。

12. Sometimes, you must realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. I know I need to let go, but I just can't, because I'm still waiting for the impossible to happen. This feeling is really hard to bear. When you can't bear it any longer, just accept it, accept the arrangement of reality, let the bitterness settle, and forgive yourself.

13. 无论发生什么事我们都要紧紧依靠牵手一起度过这是你答应我的。打开黑夜的窗小鬼头跑了出来笑着对我散播忧伤的病毒在你转身离去的那个夜晚。

13. No matter what happens, we must紧紧依靠牵手一起度过，这是你答应我的。Open the window of the dark night, the little imp came out, laughing and spreading the virus of sadness to me on the night you turned and left.

14. 如果你想任性，那就先学会承受，能承受后果才可以任性。如果你想独立，那就先学会坚强，才可以独立。如果你想放肆的爱，那就先学会遗忘，只有能忘掉失恋痛楚，才可以大胆爱。你可以去做一切事情，但前提是不会为结果伤悲。一个人真正的强大，并非看他能做什么，而是看他能承担什么。

14. If you want to be任性, first learn to endure, and only when you can bear the consequences can you be任性. If you want to be independent, first learn to be strong, then you can be independent. If you want to love freely, first learn to forget, and only when you can forget the pain of a broken love can you love boldly. You can do everything, but the premise is not to be sad about the outcome. A person's true strength is not about what they can do, but about what they can bear.

15. 43即使生活有一千个理由让你哭，你也要找到一个理由让自己笑，这就是人生。

15. Even if life has a thousand reasons to make you cry, you should find a reason to make yourself laugh; that is what life is about.

16. 虽然‘永远’只有简短的两个字，却无人能用文字说得完全，‘永远’到底有多远它不会随着生命的终结而消散，真正的永远是藏在心里。

16. Although "forever" is only a short two-character word, no one can fully express it in writing. 'Forever' is truly infinite, it will not fade away with the end of life; the real 'forever' is hidden in the heart.

17. 上了天，蝴蝶，蜻蜓，蜈蚣相互斗艳，五彩的风筝带着儿时的梦想，美好的心愿，在蓝天翱翔。

17. Up in the sky, butterflies, dragonflies, and centipedes vie for their splendor. The colorful kites, carrying the dreams of childhood and good wishes, soar gracefully in the azure sky.

18. 18要学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。只有这样，阳光才会流进心里来，心中充满快乐的阳光。

18. Learn to calmly accept reality, learn to tell yourself to go with the flow, learn to face misfortune with composure, learn to view life positively, and learn to always think of the brighter side of things. Only in this way will the sunshine flow into your heart, filling it with the joy of the sun.

19. 32我可以接受失败，但绝对不能接受未奋斗过的自己。

19. 32 I can accept failure, but I absolutely cannot accept myself without having fought.

20. 没有到手的东西，总是比到手的稀奇，但不一定比到手的更好。

20. Things that have not been obtained always seem more fascinating than those that have, but they are not necessarily better than those that have been obtained.

21. 有些人放手了，有些人在风中不再激情。

21. Some have let go, and some no longer feel passionate in the wind.

22. 16就算知道方法，也绝对不能去改变过去，绝不能将存在的可能性转变为既定的现实，未来是没有人能预测的，是无法重来的，正因如此人们才能接受各种痛苦，不幸与飞来横祸，迈步前进。作者：冈部伦太郎 出处：命运石之门

22. Even if you know the method, you absolutely cannot change the past. You cannot turn the possibilities that exist into a predetermined reality. The future is something that no one can predict, and it cannot be relived. It is because of this that people can accept all kinds of suffering, misfortune, and unexpected disasters, and move forward. Author: Rintarou Okabe Source: Steins;Gate

23. 2在生日的前两天，我发现我能够坦然接纳不完美的自己，或许这就是送给自己最好的生日礼物。我爱我的痘痘，我爱我的肉肉，我爱不完美的自己。

23. 2 Two days before my birthday, I found that I could calmly accept the imperfect me, perhaps this is the best birthday gift I could give myself. I love my acne, I love my curves, I love the imperfect me.

24. 11人变成熟的其中一个特征应该是坦然接受并不完美的自己，然后努力变成自己心中完美的模样吧。

24. One of the features of turning 11 into an adult should be to accept oneself as imperfect with ease, and then strive to become the perfect image of oneself in one's heart.

25. 13人生到头来，你活了多少岁不算什么，重要的是，如何度过这些岁月的。接受不完美的自己。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰：在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。

25. In the end, how many years you have lived is not what matters; what is important is how you have spent these years. Accept your imperfect self. Comfort yourself in solitude, and give yourself warmth in loneliness.

26. 14人生如同故事，重要的并不在有多长，而是在有多好；生命的珍贵，在于没有过不去的事情，只有过不去的心情；有些事情我们必须放弃，才有精力迎接更美好的生活；给时光一份浅浅的回眸，给心灵一份淡淡的安暖。

26. Life is like a story; what matters is not its length but its quality. The value of life lies in the fact that there are no insurmountable things, only insurmountable feelings. Some things we must let go of in order to have the energy to embrace a better life; give time a gentle glance back, and give the soul a faint warmth.

27. 43儒家强调，吾人接受与生俱来的种种现实上的限制，但又不委之于命，不把眼光局限在现实利害上，努力发挥自己的创造性，不计成败，知其不可而为之，支撑的力量来自自我对于道的终极托付。

27. Confucianism emphasizes that we accept the various inherent limitations in reality, but we do not submit to fate, nor do we limit our vision to the immediate benefits and drawbacks. We strive to bring forth our own creativity, not concerning ourselves with success or failure, knowing that it is not possible yet we persist in doing it, and the driving force comes from our ultimate reliance on the Tao.

28. 49因缘生灭，春秋轮回，皆属自然，很多事不管你愿意不愿意，都必须经历。无需回避，勇敢面对，坦然接受现实，甩掉心灵的包袱，相信祸福只是一念之差。原谅生活，只是为了更好的生活。

28. The arising and ceasing of causes and conditions, the cycle of spring and autumn, all belong to nature. Many things must be experienced, whether you like it or not. There is no need to avoid them; be brave in facing them, calmly accept reality, shed the burdens of the mind, and believe that misfortune and fortune are just a matter of a thought. Forgive life, just for a better life.

29. 人的感情就像牙齿，掉了就没了，再装也是假的。

29. Human emotions are like teeth; once they fall out, they are gone, and no replacement can be real.

30. 我告诉自己，在谈到过去的春天时，永远不要失去萌芽的心情。

30. I tell myself that when talking about the past spring, never lose the heart of germination.

31. 19接受不完美的自己，在孤独的时候，给自己安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。坎坷路途，给身边一份温暖；风雨人生，给自己一个微笑。世界很大，无需钻牛角尖，挤不进的世界，不要硬挤，换个角度，你会更有作为。

31. Accept yourself as you are, imperfect, and comfort yourself in solitude; provide warmth for yourself in loneliness. On a bumpy journey, offer warmth to those around you; in the storms of life, give yourself a smile. The world is vast, so there's no need to get stuck in a corner. If you can't fit in, don't force it. Change your perspective, and you will achieve more.

32. 17负能量也需要有一个发泄的地方和方式的我们每个人都不完美那么就需要坦然的去接受自己和他人的不完美一味的追求完美会让自己焦虑并且抑郁。

32. 17 Negative energy also needs an outlet and a way to be expressed. Since none of us are perfect, we need to accept ourselves and others' imperfections calmly. The relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to anxiety and depression.

33. 我们都不是很完美的人，但我们要接受不完美的自己。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。学会独立，告别依赖，对软弱的自己说再见。

33. We are all not very perfect people, but we should accept our imperfect selves. Comfort yourself when you are alone; give yourself warmth when you are lonely. Learn to be independent, say goodbye to dependence, and bid farewell to your weak self.

34. 5我们能够改变自我的信念与大多数其他的信念不同，它能够带来自我实现。

34. 5 We can change our beliefs, and unlike most other beliefs, it can lead to self-actualization.

35. 8最怕的就是自己最在乎的人说话突然变了口气，那种感觉就像是全世界都不要自己一样，与其天天自己一头热，倒不如洒脱的放手，我的微信信息不回也许此刻的你在给别人点赞评论，我也抱怨过。但最后还是坦然面对一切，如果有一天放弃了什么，不是因为输了，而是因为懂了，风风雨雨，坎坎坷坷，走了这么久，唯一依靠住的还是自己。

35. The most feared thing is when the person you care about suddenly changes their tone of speech. It feels like the whole world has abandoned you. It's better to let go freely than to be passionate every day. Maybe at this moment, you're liking and commenting on someone else's posts on WeChat, and I've complained about it too. But in the end, I faced everything calmly. If one day I give up on something, it's not because I lost, but because I understood. Through all the ups and downs, twists and turns, having walked this far, the only thing I can rely on is myself.

36. 31每个人都有追求更美好生活的权利，但是，追求完美的同时，要接受现实，现实就是这个世界本不完美。

36. 31 Every individual has the right to pursue a better life, but while striving for perfection, one must also accept reality, which is that this world is inherently imperfect.

37. 10冰冻三尺，非一日之寒。幸运借此明白生命的真正意义与价值并作出改变与规划。过去的终会过去，已无意义。停止自虐与透支，疗伤是需要时间的，坦然正确面对。往后，善良、有爱、勇敢、健康前行。做好自己，守好心，望一切好的作为都能换来好的因果，哪怕晚一点，幸福就好。不需要同情，一个人挺好！

37. "It takes more than a day for the ice to reach three feet deep." Lucky understands the true meaning and value of life and makes changes and plans accordingly. The past will pass, and it is no longer meaningful. Stop self-torture and overindulgence. Healing requires time; face it calmly and correctly. From now on, go forward with kindness, love, courage, and health. Do your best, keep your heart in order, and hope that all good actions will bring good karma, even if it's a bit later, happiness is enough. No need for sympathy; it's quite good to be on your own!

38. 爱情，不一定要像梁山伯与祝英台那样凄美；也不一定要如罗蜜欧与朱莉叶那般凄凉；不一定要有什么海枯石烂、海誓山盟；平凡的爱情不一定平淡，惊天动地的爱情也不一定伟大！只要心中有爱，就要努力去爱，渴望爱情，唯美爱情；纪念爱情，祝天下有情人终成眷属。

38. Love does not have to be as tragic as the story of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai; nor does it have to be as melancholic as that of Romeo and Juliet; it doesn't necessarily have to involve promises of eternity or vows that mountains and seas would dry up. Ordinary love is not necessarily bland, and love that shakes the world is not necessarily great! As long as there is love in the heart, one should strive to love, yearn for love, and cherish beautiful love; commemorate love, and wish that all lovers will be united in the end.

39. 10人生到头来，你活了多少岁不算什么，重要的是，你是如何度过这些岁月的。接受不完美的自己。

39. In the end, how many years you have lived is not what matters; what is important is how you have spent these years. Accept the imperfect you.

40. 10不甘心就不要放弃啊，看不过去就起来改变啊。要嘛就证明自己的能力，要嘛就闭嘴接受 现实 。所有好走的路都是下坡，失败是可以接受的，但是没有试图 奋斗 过的失败是没有借口的零分。

40. Don't give up if you're not satisfied, stand up and change if you can't bear to see it. Either prove your abilities or shut up and accept reality. All easy paths are downhill, failure is acceptable, but failure without any attempt to strive is a zero score with no excuses.

41. 30因缘生灭，春秋轮回，皆属自然，很多事不管你愿意不愿意，都必须经历。无需回避，勇敢面对，坦然接受现实，甩掉心灵的包袱，相信祸福只是一念之差。原谅生活，只是为了更好的生活。

41. All things arise and cease due to causes and conditions, the cycle of spring and autumn, all belong to nature. Many things must be experienced, regardless of whether you are willing or not. There is no need to avoid them; face them bravely, accept reality calmly, shed the burden of the mind, and believe that misfortune and fortune are just a difference in thought. Forgiving life is just for a better life.

42. 一个承诺在最需要的时候没有兑现，那就是出卖，以后再兑现，已经没什麽意思了。

42. A promise not fulfilled at the most needed time is a betrayal, and it no longer holds much meaning if it is fulfilled later.

43. 这世上只有三样东西是别人抢不走的：一是吃进胃里的食物，二是藏在心中的梦想。三是读进大脑的书。

43. In this world, there are only three things that cannot be taken away by others: one is the food eaten in the stomach, the second is the dreams hidden in the heart, and the third is the books read into the brain.

44. 24人的一生要经历很多事情，要学着接受现实生活中的种种困难，学会成长，学会微笑面对人生中的一切，学会善忘，学会清空，清空会带给我们一些惊喜的发现。

44. In the course of 24 people's lives, they will experience many things. They need to learn to accept all kinds of difficulties in real life, learn to grow, learn to smile at everything in life, learn to forget well, learn to empty out, for emptying out will bring us some surprising discoveries.

45. 16成长有时是一种看不见道不明的残酷，接受理想与现实的落差，接受现实改变不了的无奈。只有接受了现实，才有可能改变现实。

45. Growing up sometimes is a cruel reality that cannot be seen or understood. Accepting the gap between ideals and reality, and accepting the helplessness that reality cannot change. Only by accepting reality can there be a possibility of changing it.

46. 41我从来不愿埋怨自己，因为不愿面对现实的我太可怜。我又会强迫自己接受现实，因为不想一直蹉跎，错过美好。

46. 41 I have never wanted to blame myself, because the me who does not want to face reality is too pitiful. I would again force myself to accept reality, because I don't want to waste time indefinitely, missing the beautiful moments.

47. 39人自有真性情，练出那铁石心肠铜皮铁骨，不过是为了让自己有一颗勇于接受爱与现实的心。

47. The 39 people have their own true nature, cultivating that iron-hearted, stone-hearted, and bronze-skin-iron-bone character, is all to enable themselves to have a heart that dares to embrace love and reality.

48. 33生活的遗憾，很多源于内心的狭隘，接受不完美的人生，拓宽心的视野，愿意去理解，这是对自己和他人最朴素的关爱；反思和调整自我的那些不适应，活出豁达的状态，有放下有容纳才是人生，有认同有宽宥才迎得来真诚。幸福，就是愿意为幸福付出的新常态。

48. Many regrets in life stem from narrow-mindedness within. Accepting an imperfect life, broadening the horizon of the heart, being willing to understand – this is the most simple and genuine care for oneself and others; reflecting and adjusting one's own inadaptability, living a magnanimous state, with letting go and embracing – this is what life is about. With recognition and forgiveness, one can truly welcome sincerity. Happiness is the new normal of being willing to pay the price for happiness.

49. 19谁都不完美所以无法强求每个人要按照教科书式的模式去相处和沟通。

49. 19 No one is perfect, so it is not possible to demand that everyone interact and communicate in a textbook-style manner.

50. 12庸人自扰是为难自己，让自己每天神经紧绷、忧心忡忡只会使自己身心俱疲。生活里总会有变数、总会有风雨，任谁都无法提前预知一切。所以，让自己焦虑烦扰不如让自己释怀轻松地过每一天，顺其自然，淡定坦然地面对一切，不要让担忧禁锢你的身体、束缚你的内心。

50. It is self-inflicted trouble for the average person to worry and tense up every day, which only leads to physical and mental exhaustion. Life is always full of changes and storms, and no one can predict everything in advance. Therefore, it is better to let go of anxiety and live each day with ease, going with the flow and calmly facing everything. Do not let worries restrict your body and bind your inner self.

51. 人生如行路，一路艰辛，一路风景。你的目光所及，就是你的人生境界。

51. Life is like walking a path, filled with hardships and landscapes along the way. The extent of your gaze is the realm of your life's attainment.

52. 24关于这些事情，决定和执行我都没有参与，一直被动接受，被命运牵着走。换个角度，没有选择反而是种幸福，我努力了，既然没有结果，那么命运的安排就是最好的结局了坦然面对，听天由命，不然又能怎样小忐忑会有，但我坚信，一切都会好起来的。

52. 24 Regarding these matters, I have not participated in the decision-making or execution, I have always passively accepted them, being led by fate. From another perspective, not having a choice is actually a form of happiness. I have made an effort, and since there was no result, then fate's arrangement is the best possible outcome. I face it with an ease, leaving it to the fates, what else can one do? There will be moments of unease, but I firmly believe that everything will turn out well.

53. 在遭遇谩骂、嘲讽、冷眼时笑笑。淡然处之，开心做自己就好。

53. When faced with curses, ridicules, and cold eyes, just smile. Take it lightly and enjoy being yourself.

54. 24你的努力，别人不一定放在眼里，你不努力，别人一定放在心里。

54. Your efforts may not be noticed by others, but if you don't strive, they will definitely be remembered in their hearts.

55. 4人生就跟打扑克牌一样，拿到一手好牌的人，不一定能赢，拿到一手烂牌的人，也不一定会输。人生的牌局也需要胆识，需要技巧，需要烂牌也要打出好结果的精神和行动。

55. Life is like playing cards; a person who gets a good hand of cards doesn't necessarily win, and someone who gets a bad hand doesn't necessarily lose. The game of life also requires courage, skill, and the spirit and action to achieve a good result even with a bad hand.

56. 22能领悟成功者的经验和智慧，就是自己生活中最大的快乐，就是自己人生旅途中不可缺少的财富，所谓的财富不是金钱，而是你对人生的感悟经历知识技能人际才是你成功的财富。

56. Understanding the experiences and wisdom of successful people is the greatest joy in one's own life, and it is an indispensable wealth on one's journey through life. The so-called wealth is not money, but rather your insights into life, your experiences, knowledge, skills, and interpersonal relationships – these are the true wealth that contribute to your success.

57. 当你爱我的时候，我就拼命的爱你。但如果你不爱我了，我就立刻止损，绝不犯贱。爱情这种事情，是你情我愿的，两个人相爱才叫爱情，只有一个人贴上去，那还不如趁早相忘江湖。平凡人有平凡人的浪漫，不需要惊天动地，而是天长日久。因为让你记忆最深刻的不是爱情，陪伴你度过最久时间的，才是爱情。

57. When you love me, I will love you with all my might. But if you stop loving me, I will immediately cut my losses and never be a fool. Love is a matter of mutual consent; only when both parties are in love can it be called true love. If only one person is pursuing it, it's better to forget about it early on. Ordinary people have their own ordinary romance, which doesn't need to be earth-shattering but rather enduring. Because what leaves the deepest impression on you is not love, but the one who accompanies you the longest is the true love.

58. 27自我提升是个很庞大、很有利润的企业，它利用我们对成功的渴望来为自己赢利。

58. Self-improvement is a very large and profitable industry that exploits our desire for success to make a profit for itself.

59. 45现实始终是残酷的，梦想还是得努力实现的，你也学会了控制自己的情绪，即使眼泪在眼眶里打转还能够微笑着继续往前走。成熟就是你越来越能接受现实，而不是越来越现实。

59. Reality is always cruel, and dreams still need to be pursued. You have also learned to control your emotions, even when tears are swirling in your eyes, you can still smile and continue moving forward. Maturity is about becoming more accepting of reality, not more realistic.

60. 36无论你犯了多少错，或者进步得有多慢，你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的前面。

60. No matter how many mistakes you've made, or how slow your progress may be, you are still ahead of those who have never tried.

61. 做自己该做的，接受不尽如人意。

61. Do what you should do, and accept what is not as expected.

62. 我一路向北，离开有你的季节，你说你好累，已无法再爱上谁。风在山路吹，过往的画面全都是我不对，细数惭愧，我伤你几回。

62. I journeyed northward, leaving behind the season with you. You said you were too tired to fall in love with anyone anymore. The wind blows on the mountain path, and all the past scenes are all about my wrongdoings. Counting my惭愧, I've hurt you so many times.

63. 随着年龄的增长，我们并不变得更好也不变得更坏，而是变得更像我们自己。

63. As we grow older, we do not become better or worse; rather, we become more like ourselves.

64. 友善确实是种病，病就病在企图取悦所有人。过度友善的人，害怕拒绝，因为他们看来，拒绝别人同样是件伤面子的事。把面子看得比天还大，往往源于内心的弱小。事事害怕让别人失望，也是一种自卑。生活总有点欺软怕硬。一个完全不懂拒绝的人，也不可能赢得真正的尊重。——苏芩

64. Friendliness can indeed be a disease, and the disease lies in the attempt to please everyone. People who are overly friendly are afraid of rejection, because to them, rejecting others is also a matter of losing face. The extreme value placed on face is often a sign of inner weakness. The fear of letting others down in everything is also a form of inferiority. Life often shows a tendency to bully the weak and fear the strong. A person who doesn't know how to reject others cannot win true respect. - Su Qin

65. 生活中确有许多如意的光环在闪烁，真正的智者能淡然处之，心静如雪，将名利的浮云轻轻拂过。

65. In life, there are indeed many favorable halos that flicker, and the true wise can calmly handle them, keeping their hearts as still as snow, gently brushing away the fleeting clouds of fame and fortune.

66. 7一个人要想活得快乐，就必须要接受现实。坦然地面对厄运，积极地看待人生，将会迎接而来一缕阳光，照亮前方的路。

66. 7 In order to live a happy life, one must accept reality. Facing misfortune with composure and viewing life positively will bring a ray of sunshine, illuminating the path ahead.

67. 44成熟不是有多懂事，不是有多大能力而是开始接受不完美的自己包容自己不认可的东西。

67. 44 Maturity is not about being more knowledgeable or more capable; it's about starting to accept the imperfect self, to embrace the things that you do not approve of.

68. 我是一现的昙花，不能长久的亲吻天赐的露珠儿；我是匆匆路过的列车，短暂的停留不能去眷恋车站的温暖；我不过是茫茫人海中的一个过客，不能让你一直拥抱而不放手，请原谅我心底的善良。

68. I am a fleeting lotus flower, unable to linger long in the kiss of the divine dewdrop; I am a train passing by in a hurry, my brief stop cannot linger on the warmth of the station; I am just a passing stranger in the vast sea of people, unable to let you hold me tightly without letting go. Please forgive the kindness in my heart.

69. 42把自己摆在面前，慢慢缝补，一针一线。不骄傲也不卑微。

69. Place yourself before 42, slowly mending, stitch by stitch. Neither proud nor humble.

70. 人本是人，不必刻意去做人；世本是世，无须精心去处世；便也就是真正的做人与处世了。

70. People are people, there is no need to刻意 try to be a person; the world is the world, there is no need to carefully navigate life; that is also the true way to be a person and to deal with the world.

71. 28只有真正了解这个世界的丑陋与污浊，被现实打击，被痛苦折磨，遍体鳞伤无所遁形，却从未放弃对光明的追寻，依然微笑着，坚定前行的人，才是真正的勇者。不经历黑暗的人，是无法懂得光明的。

71. Only those who truly understand the ugliness and filth of this world, who are struck by reality, tormented by pain, and wounded all over, yet never give up the pursuit of light, still smiling, and steadfastly moving forward, are the true heroes. Those who have not experienced darkness cannot understand the light.

72. 6正如回忆一样，故乡也是用来怀念。我不会想要奔赴那里，因为不想接受想象与现实的落差。有的东西就是那么奇怪，放在那里，不碰，你会觉得圣洁，可一旦拿起，你会沉重。

72. 6 Just like memories, one's hometown is used for reminiscing. I wouldn't want to go there because I don't want to face the gap between imagination and reality. Some things are just so strange; left untouched, you feel they are sacred, but once you pick them up, they become heavy.

73. 29即使生活有一千个理由让你哭，你也要找到一个理由让自己笑，这就是人生。

73. Even if life has a thousand reasons to make you cry, you must find a reason to make yourself laugh; this is life.

74. 一个人最大的缺点不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。

74. The greatest weakness of a person is not selfishness, sentimentality, barbarism, or capriciousness, but being fanatically in love with someone who does not love them in return.

75. 42在竞争世界里，不主动就意味着沉沦。人生也是如此，别人可以忽视你，但你不能忽视你自己。

75. In the competitive world, not taking the initiative means falling behind. Life is the same; others may ignore you, but you cannot ignore yourself.

76. 把他还给人海，把自己还给爱情。

76. Return him to the sea of people, and return yourself to love.

77. 静静地看着天空，回忆过去的点点滴滴，发现，原来完美已渐渐老去。逝去的美好，只能留给回忆我们再也回不到过去。翻过那些苍凉的扉页，回过头来，感觉曾经的岁月是一场空。但，我并不想放手，可是时间却无情地松开了我的手过去的已经过去，再也回不来了。

77. Gazing silently at the sky, I reflect on the countless moments of the past, and realize that perfection has slowly aged. The beauty that has passed can only be left to our memories, as we can never return to the past. Turning the pages of those desolate days, looking back, I feel that the years that once were are but a hollow dream. Yet, I do not want to let go, but time mercilessly lets go of my hand. The past is past, and it can never return.

78. 1坦然一些，面对一切；不管世界多么拥挤，都要让心自由跳动。

78. 1 Be more relaxed and face everything; no matter how crowded the world is, let your heart beat freely.