她，曾是那个被他轻描淡写地抛弃的女孩，泪水模糊了双眼，却依旧没能换来他的回头。

She, once the girl he casually discarded, her tears blurred her eyes, yet they still failed to win him back.

1. 坚强，在第一次的撕心裂肺以后就应该明白了。

1. Strength should be understood after the first heart-wrenching experience.

2. 钱生不带来，死不带去，只要在活着的时候，做一些有意义的事情，不为今生留遗憾，这辈子就没算白活。

2. Money does not come with birth and does not accompany death. As long as one is alive, one should do something meaningful, leaving no regrets for this life, and then one's life is not lived in vain.

3. 上帝让我们在情路上首先遇到几个错误的人，然后才找到适合的人，也许是要我们感激他们。

3. God allows us to meet a few wrong people on our journey of love before finding the right one, perhaps to make us appreciate them.

4. 不是谁都可以对我乱发脾气先搞清楚你跟我的关系你是我的谁

4. Not everyone is allowed to lose their temper with me first, figure out your relationship with me, who are you to me?

5. 三观不同就算了 累了别人更累了自己

5. Different worldviews are fine, but it's even more tiring for others and for oneself.

6. 慢慢就会明白，有些事，只能自己扛；渐渐地就懂得，有些苦，只能自己尝。世上的路，有时，只能一个人走；身体的伤，有时，只能一个人养。人世间，所有的事，苦也好，甜也好，都是一种缘分，一种不期而遇，上天给予我们的，我们就该欣然地接受，而不该累及他人，看淡了苦，淡然了累，生活依然很美好。

6. Slowly you will realize that some things can only be borne by oneself; gradually you will understand that some bitterness can only be tasted by oneself. Sometimes in this world, one can only walk on the road alone; sometimes, the wounds of the body can only be nurtured by oneself. In the human world, all things, whether bitter or sweet, are a kind of fate, an unexpected encounter, something that heaven gives us. We should accept it happily instead of burdening others. When we become indifferent to the bitterness and indifferent to the fatigue, life can still be beautiful.

7. 如果要去爱，就要有尊严的爱，要平等的爱。相爱毕竟不是一种羞辱和凌掠，而是温暖和甜蜜。如果有一天，你的一切自尊和自信，都被人踩在了脚下，就真的要想想，对方是爱你，还是在统治你。低入尘埃的爱情，其实是一种心痛。

7. If you are to love, it must be a dignified love, an equal love. Love, after all, is not an act of shame or plunder, but warmth and sweetness. If one day, all your dignity and self-confidence are trampled underfoot by someone, you really need to think about whether the other person is loving you or ruling over you. Love that is so lowly is actually a heartache.

8. 19无论你活成什么样子，背地里都会有人对你说三道四。不申辩、不计较、一笑了之，其实就是最好的蔑视。

8. No matter how you live your life, there will always be people who whisper criticisms behind your back. Not defending yourself, not taking offense, and just laughing it off is actually the best form of disdain.

9. 4虽然有些爱，可能不会走到最后。但是曾经一起经历的过程是真的，喜欢你是真的，开心是真的，最后的难过是真的，当初想和你过一辈子也是真的。

9. 4 Even though some love may not reach its conclusion, the process we shared together is real, my affection for you is real, the happiness is real, the sadness at the end is real, and the desire to spend a lifetime with you is also real.

10. 明知道回忆是座牢，更明白时光像漏沙，可是我就是这么念旧，可是我就是不能撒手。

10. I know that memories are a prison, and I understand that time is like running sand through an hourglass, yet I can't help but be nostalgic. And yet, I just can't let go.

11. 不强求三观完全一致，能够找一个懂得包容与互相理解、互相欣赏的人一起同行也是幸福！

11. It's not necessary to seek complete agreement on one's worldviews. Finding someone who understands tolerance, mutual understanding, and appreciation to walk alongside you is also a form of happiness!

12. 背不动的，要放下；伤不起的，要看淡；想不通的，可以不想；恨不过的，要抚平。人生，就是一个修炼的过程，何必用这一颗不平的心看待人和事，作践了自己，辜负了岁月。

12. If you can't carry it, let it go; if you can't bear it, learn to take it lightly; if you can't understand it, just don't think about it; if you can't forgive it, try to smooth it over. Life is a process of cultivation, why should you view people and things with an unbalanced heart, degrade yourself, and let the years pass in vain.

13. 感觉心里空落落的，好像失去了什么，再也没有周三周四的狂欢，再也没有万鬼同呼的盛况，时间会冲淡一切，渐渐远去。

13. I feel empty in my heart, as if I have lost something. There are no more wild parties on Wednesdays and Thursdays, no more grand scenes of all ghosts crying out together. Time will dilute everything and fade away gradually.

14. 愿你贪吃不胖，愿你懒惰不丑，愿你没钱可以旅行，愿你深情不被辜负。

14. May you eat to your heart's content without gaining weight, may you be lazy without looking ugly, may you have enough money to travel, and may your deep affection not be disappointed.

15. 分手快3年了，可我们为什么还接二连三的暧昧在一起，是因为彼此还爱着，还是因为寂寞。

15. It's been almost 3 years since we broke up, but why do we keep getting involved in ambiguous relationships one after another? Is it because we still love each other, or because we are lonely?

16. 如果全天下都反对你，别怕，我会陪着你去反对全世界。

16. If the whole world is against you, don't be afraid, I will accompany you to oppose the whole world.

17. 只有枕头知道，那些在深夜时的思念有多折磨你，以至于泪流不停。

17. Only the pillow knows how torturing the longing is in the dead of night, to the point of tears flowing continuously.

18. 我已经等了四年，明年是约定好的第五年，愿我不会被辜负

18. I have already waited for four years, and next year will be the fifth year as agreed upon. May I not be disappointed.

19. 想要长久的爱情，就要有足够的真诚，做最真实的自己不累，别人跟你相处起来也不累。对自己的爱人千万不要撒谎，不要套路，不要猜忌。

19. To have a long-lasting love, one must have enough sincerity, and it is not tiring to be the most authentic version of oneself, nor is it tiring for others to be around you. Never lie to your beloved, never use tricks, and never harbor suspicions.

20. 很多人跟小饼一样，只是聊聊天，聊久了，就走心了。

20. Many people are like the small pancake, just chatting, but after chatting for a while, their hearts get involved.

21. 我可无权无势，也可没高官厚禄，还可无人爱戴，但我的自尊心绝不许被践踏。从昨天晚上的事情我很鄙视一些没有素质涵养的高官，推卸责任是其次，居然夸大其词向更高一层告状，我只想说：人在做、天在看，不论我们处在什么位置，人与人之间是相互尊重的，这是做人的基本条件。

21. I may not have power or influence, and I may not have high-ranking positions or generous salaries, and I may not be loved by others, but my self-respect will never be trampled upon. From last night's incident, I have a great disdain for some high-ranking officials who lack culture and修养. Shifting the blame is the secondary issue, but they even went so far as to exaggerate the situation and report it to higher authorities. I just want to say: what people do, heaven sees, and no matter what position we are in, there should be mutual respect between people, which is the basic requirement of being a human being.

22. 如果现在不能再找到一个坚持下去的借口 那就给自己一个重新开始的理由吧

22. If there is no more excuse to keep going now, then give yourself a reason to start anew.

23. 现在大学生心理素质都太强了，我这副模样，大半夜地从西院走到东院，路过遇到的人，都超级淡然地看着我，脸上毫无波澜，甚至还有一丝想笑。我这颗杀马特贵族吸血鬼的自尊心，在这个夜晚，仿佛被践踏得体无完肤。

23. Nowadays, college students all have such strong psychological qualities. In this state of mine, walking from the West Campus to the East Campus in the dead of night, passing by the people I encounter, they all look at me with a super calm demeanor, with no fluctuations on their faces, and even a hint of a smile. My vampire-like自尊, on this night, seems to be trampled upon to the point of being completely destroyed.

24. 最怕拼命对我好的人一瞬间抽离然后再对我冷淡，

24. I fear the most is when someone tries their best to be good to me for a moment and then suddenly withdraws and becomes indifferent to me.

25. 那颗心，曾经为他多少次激烈且默默地跳动，是真的真的很爱，才将一颗真心奉上，任由践踏。

25. That heart, which had fiercely and silently beaten for him countless times, truly and deeply loved, offered its sincere heart, willing to be trampled upon.

26. 告别了工作三年的地方，一如往常，默默的走出大门。就如平常一般，提前偷偷溜回家，好像下周还是像以前一样早起去上班心里有点空落落的

26. Saying goodbye to the place where I worked for three years, as usual, I quietly walked out of the main gate. Just as usual, I sneaked home early, as if I were still going to work early next week, feeling a bit empty in my heart.

27. 你的话加上你的头像我心头一震，也许你说的跟我现在的处境很相似，谢谢。

27. Your words, combined with your avatar, struck me deeply. Perhaps what you said is very similar to my current situation. Thank you.

28. 你对一个人有欲望，那叫喜欢，你为一个人忍住欲望，那叫爱。

28. Lusting after someone is called liking, and holding back your desires for someone is called love.

29. 主动久了会很累，在乎久了会崩溃，沉默久了会受罪，想念久了会流泪

29. Being proactive for a long time can be tiring, caring for too long can be overwhelming, being silent for too long can be suffering, and missing for too long can bring tears.

30. 时光匆匆，转眼已经奔三了，希望这十年我能不再辜负！心情很平静，晚安！

30. Time flies, and I've already rushed into my thirties. I hope I won't let these ten years go to waste! I'm feeling very calm, good night!

31. 我不是天桥上算命的，唠不出那么多你爱听的磕。

31. I'm not a fortune teller on the overhead bridge, I can't talk your ears off with so many things you like to hear.

32. 当你决定要忘记一个人的时候，也就注定这一生都会记得那个人。

32. When you decide to forget about someone, it is predetermined that you will remember that person for the rest of your life.

33. 女人的心慈手软，与男人的口是心非，成正比。

33. A woman's leniency and kindness is directly proportional to a man's words being different from his heart.

34. 我知道我不是一个很好的记录者，但我比任何人都喜欢回首自己来时的路，我不但的回首，伫足，然手时光仍下我轰轰烈烈的向前奔去。

34. I know I'm not a very good record-keeper, but I enjoy looking back at my path more than anyone else. I keep looking back, pausing, yet time still pushes me forward with great momentum.

35. 生完宝宝又胖又丑又脏，自尊心严重被践踏，每天看着走形的身材还要被迫喝大油汤，还要面对产奶的压力和每天的睡眠不足，当妈真的不容易啊

35. After giving birth, I'm chubby, ugly, and dirty, and my self-esteem is severely trampled on. Every day, I have to watch my figure distort and am forced to drink thick oil soup, and also face the pressure of producing milk and insufficient sleep every day. Being a mother really isn't easy.

36. “你什么时候开始喜欢我的”“不知道。只是有一天起来，看你身边不管男女都觉得是情敌。我就知道，我没救了!”

36. "When did you start liking me?" "I don't know. Just one day, when I woke up, I felt like a rival to anyone beside you, no matter if they were male or female. I knew then, I was lost!"

37. 相爱因为五官，结婚因为三观。夫妻之间还应该多点互相理解、信任和支持。愿你幸福

37. Love is because of the five senses, and marriage is because of the three views. Couples should also have more mutual understanding, trust, and support. May you be happy.

38. 中考的孩子们别辜负了我们为你们布置的考场，我们不容易啊

38. The children taking the college entrance examination, don't disappoint the exam rooms we've set up for you; it's not easy for us.

39. 有些姑娘为什么爱的辛苦，因为你们是用自己的善良去谈恋爱。并不是说爱情不需要善良，只是一味的付出而不动索取，那是慈善。一味的忍让，而不知道要求，那是懦弱。人们总是觉得善良好，但在爱情里若是善良过头，只会被人欺负。爱情不是单方面的同情，而是相互的扶持。

39. Why do some girls find love so difficult? It's because you approach love with your own goodness. That doesn't mean love doesn't require kindness; it's just that a one-way giving without expecting anything in return is charity. Constantly accommodating without knowing how to demand is weakness. People always think kindness is good, but in love, if one is too kind, they are only susceptible to being taken advantage of. Love is not one-sided sympathy; it's about mutual support.

40. 9没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。

40. 9 No one is worth your tears, and the one who deserves you won't make you cry.

41. 自古深情总被辜负，心疼老裴，剧情大起大落，人性刻画的很深刻，心中掀起波澜，女人的思维很简单，喜欢不喜欢很明白，也许是我们弄错了表情也弄错了言语自己造的孽都要自己承受，如果达不到一曼那种精神高度，那就做个俗人吧，所以女人们好好爱惜自己，男人们认真找个你要呵护一生的女人，少自作多情，相濡以沫好好生活

41. Since ancient times, deep affection has always been disappointed, I feel sorry for old Pei, the plot fluctuates greatly, with a profound depiction of human nature, stirring up waves in my heart. Women's thinking is simple, whether they like or dislike something is very clear. Maybe we misunderstood the expressions and words, and we are the ones who have to bear the consequences of our own deeds. If we can't reach the spiritual height of Yiman, then be an ordinary person. So, women, take good care of yourselves, and men, seriously find a woman you want to nurture for a lifetime. Less self-righteousness, and live life with affection and support.

42. 夜撸欢乐颂里面其实反应了很多很多小点赵医生那里我想问男人的自尊心被践踏除了因为钱还能因为什么？

42. In the TV series "Night Flirtation, Melody of Joy," there are actually many, many subtle points reflected. Regarding Dr. Zhao, I want to ask, besides money, what else could cause a man's self-esteem to be trampled upon?

43. 这也是我们很容易对聊得来的人走心的原因。因为这份默契，这份理解拉近了彼此的距离。

43. This is also why we easily get emotionally involved with people we hit it off with. It is this默契 and understanding that brings us closer together.

44. 我问小饼你们这算哪门子情侣？根本就是我以前提到的撩友啊。对方是个骗子没错，可是你心甘情愿被调戏，被撩，那也只能认输咯。至于删不删，就看你的定力了。

44. I asked Xiaopian, what kind of couple do you two count as? It's fundamentally just the flirt friends I mentioned before. The other person is indeed a骗子 (cheater), but if you're willing to be teased and flirted with, then there's only so much you can complain about. As for whether to delete them, it depends on your willpower.

45. 12曾经有个人说要保护我，可后来的大风大浪都是他给的。

45. Once there was someone who said they would protect me, but it was they who brought the big storms and waves later on.

46. 感觉有些男生分手前奏就是：各种冷暴力，电话不接，信息不回，像死了一样，一直冷漠冷漠，找他也不回，直到后来忍不住了提出分手。他不会主动提分手，但他擅长怎么逼你提分手。

46. It seems that the prelude to a breakup for some boys is all kinds of cold violence, not answering phone calls, not replying to messages, as if they are dead, always cold and indifferent. They don't reply even when you try to reach out to them, until eventually they can't take it anymore and propose a breakup. He won't initiate a breakup himself, but he's good at forcing you to propose one.

47. 信任是婚姻里一根牵心的线，张弛有度地牵，方能牵出滚滚红尘中的美满婚姻。教堂婚礼的经典之处在于，你在上帝的面前，将信任交付对方。你愿意娶你信任的女人为妻，不管贫贱富贵、生老病死，都不弃不离。此时，信任微笑着把孤单的手，放到另一双温暖的手里。

47. Trust is a thread that tugs at the heart in marriage, and it must be pulled with a balance of tension to weave a happy marriage amidst the bustling world. The classic aspect of a church wedding lies in the moment when, in the presence of God, you entrust your trust to your partner. You are willing to marry the woman you trust, regardless of her wealth or poverty, her youth or age, her health or illness, and you will never abandon her. At this moment, trust smilingly places the lonely hand into another pair of warm hands.

48. 3都说女生会喜欢上愿意陪她聊天的男生。其实可能并没有喜欢的成分，只是两颗寂寞的心恰好碰到一起，有了逃避寂寞的慰藉。想起了很久之前对朋友说的，似乎我不曾真正爱任何人而只是寂寞。才会需要以喜欢之名抓着别人过活。

48.3 It's often said that girls tend to like boys who are willing to chat with them. Actually, there might not be any real affection involved; it might just be two lonely hearts coincidentally coming together, finding comfort in escaping loneliness. It reminds me of something I said to a friend a long time ago, that I seemed to have never truly loved anyone but was just lonely. That's why I needed to cling to others under the guise of liking them to make a living.

49. 木棉花开，谁与谁执手相看木棉花开，谁为谁依然守候木棉花开，你看到了吗听说，木棉花的花语是：珍惜眼前人，珍惜身边的幸福。于是，在风起花落时，为爱画下了一个圈圈，许下一个诺言，等待花开不败。

49. When the kapok flowers bloom, who holds hands with whom to gaze at the blooming kapok flowers, who is still waiting for whom among the blooming kapok flowers? Have you seen? It is said that the meaning of the kapok flowers is: cherish those who are in front of you, cherish the happiness around you. So, as the wind rises and the flowers fall, a circle is drawn for love, a promise is made, waiting for the flowers to never fade.

50. 以前从来不觉得学历低会影响到我什么，现在发现，学历低会让你抬不起头，会让你没脸，有一种被无形的打了一个巴掌，让我疼的说不出话来，疼在心理！印在心理！赤裸裸的瞧不起，看不起，讽刺，真的有种能让你窒息的感觉！有一种自尊心被践踏的感觉！太自卑了！我要励志！证明给你们看！也是给自己看！

50. I never felt that a low educational background would affect me before, but now I realize that it can make you feel ashamed, make you lose face, and it's as if someone has slapped you silently, the pain is so severe that I can't speak. The pain is in my heart! It's etched in my heart! It's a barefaced look of disdain, a look of scorn, a satire, really a feeling that can make you suffocate! It's a feeling of having one's self-respect trampled upon! Too much self-doubt! I want to be inspired! I want to prove it to you! And to myself too!

51. 还有一个重要的原因是，在爱你的过程中，我遇到了自己。

51. Another important reason is that in the process of loving you, I met myself.

52. 有些失去是注定的，有些缘分是永远不会有结果的。

52. Some losses are predetermined, and some relationships will never have a lasting outcome.

53. 有没有一种感觉是你想和一个人有交集，但又怕自己先付出了真心，最后被践踏了真心。

53. Is there a feeling where you want to have an intersection with someone, but you are afraid of giving your heart first and being betrayed in the end?

54. 总有一些时光，要在过去后，才会发现它已深深在记忆中。

54. There are always some moments that, only after they have passed, do we realize they are deeply imprinted in our memory.

55. 彼此相知，相互了解，三观绝对一样，如若不合，就算相处又不为对方改变，那真的长久不了。

55. To know and understand each other, to have absolute agreement on the three views (worldview, values, and lifestyle), if there is a mismatch, and if neither party is willing to change for the other, then it really won't last long.

56. 世界的罪恶是英雄不够多吗？不是。是缺乏充满人性的渠道让普通人觉醒。这个门槛不能太高。让平凡的人意识到自己的不平凡，需要比批判更强大的智慧。简单易懂，能解决实际问题，不被指责和孤立，感到被包容和接纳。这是多数求助的人，期待至少不会因自尊心被践踏反倒失去的更多

56. Is the world's evil due to a lack of heroes? Not at all. The problem is the absence of channels that allow ordinary people to awaken to their humanity. This threshold cannot be too high. For ordinary people to realize their own extraordinariness, a wisdom stronger than criticism is needed. It must be simple and understandable, capable of addressing practical issues, not subject to blame or isolation, and make them feel included and accepted. This is what the majority of those seeking help expect: at least not to lose more than their self-esteem is trampled upon.

57. 痛则大哭，喜则大笑，只要是从心底流露出的对世界的真情感，都是生命之壁的摩崖石刻，经得起岁月风雨的推敲，值得我们久久珍爱。

57. When in pain, one cries out loudly; when joyful, one laughs heartily. Any genuine emotion towards the world that bubbles up from the heart is a cliff inscription of life's wall, able to withstand the erosion of time and wind, and deserves to be cherished for a long time.

58. 人生苦短，不将就。愿茫茫人海中大家都能能寻到那个知，懂，理解你的人

58. Life is short, don't settle. May everyone in the vast sea of people find that person who knows, understands, and comprehends you.

59. 我现在后悔我每一次付出的真心，我的经历告诉我，我的真心都是用来被践踏的。

59. I now regret every time I have given my wholehearted sincerity. My experiences have taught me that my sincerity is always used to be trampled upon.