心碎的瞬间，爱情如同一道闪电，撕裂了宁静的夜空。那一句句“我被爱情伤害了”，如同破碎的玻璃碎片，扎进了心底，疼痛不已。在这个故事的开始，让我们一同走进那个被爱情撕裂的世界，感受那些刻骨铭心的伤痕。

In a moment of heartbreak, love is like a bolt of lightning, tearing through the tranquil night sky. The phrases "I have been hurt by love" are like shattered glass fragments, piercing the heart with piercing pain. At the beginning of this story, let us together enter the world torn apart by love and feel those indelible scars.

1. 亲爱的自己，不要抓住回忆不放，断了线的风筝，只能让它飞，放过它，更是放过自己；亲爱的自己，你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西；亲爱的自己，你要自信甚至是自恋一点，时刻提醒自己我值得拥有最好的一切。

1. Dear self, do not hold onto memories, for the kite with a broken string can only fly. Let it go, and you are also letting go of yourself. Dear self, you must find something besides love that can make you stand firmly on the ground with your own two feet. Dear self, you should be confident, even a bit narcissistic, and constantly remind yourself that you deserve the best of everything.

2. 我爱哭的时候便哭，我爱笑的时候便笑，我不求深刻，只求简单。

2. When I want to cry, I cry; when I want to laugh, I laugh. I don't seek depth, just simplicity.

3. 不管我们能走到多久， 我们都好好珍惜行吗？

3. No matter how long we can go, can we cherish it well?

4. 有相逢就有别离，可是每个人都害怕别离。大家都知道，最后一次的别离就是死亡。我们口里说“天下无不散之筵席”，心里却舍不得喝掉手中的酒，还想再唱一支歌，再唱一支歌。你可不可以不走。

4. There is a meeting and there is a parting, yet everyone fears parting. As everyone knows, the final parting is death. We say with our mouths, "There is no feast that does not end," but in our hearts, we are reluctant to finish the wine in our hands, and we want to sing one more song, and one more song. Can you not leave?

5. 棒棒糖的宣言、 给你一生的甜蜜。

5. The Declaration of the Lollipop, giving you sweetness for a lifetime.

6. 你看，事情已经结束了呀，说的直接点，你已经被甩了呀。

6. Look, the matter is over already. To put it bluntly, you've been dumped.

7. 乐观是失意后的坦然，乐观是平淡中的自信，乐观是挫折后的不屈，乐观是困苦艰难中的从容。谁拥有乐观，谁就拥有了透视人生的眼睛。谁拥有乐观，谁就拥有了力量。谁拥有乐观，谁就拥有了希望的渡船，谁拥有乐观，谁就拥有艰难中敢于拼搏的精神，只要活着就有力量建造自己辉煌的明天！

7. Optimism is the calmness after disappointment, optimism is confidence amidst the mundane, optimism is the resilience after setbacks, and optimism is composure in the face of hardship and difficulties. Whosoever possesses optimism, possesses the eyes to perceive life. Whosoever possesses optimism, possesses strength. Whosoever possesses optimism, possesses the vessel of hope. Whosoever possesses optimism, possesses the spirit to struggle courageously in adversity. As long as one lives, one has the power to build one's own magnificent tomorrow!

8. 爱一个人，那是一种非常勇敢无畏，又非常容易凋零的东西，喜欢的时候极喜欢，一旦爱意消逝，又会变得极冷漠。

8. Loving someone is a very brave and fearless thing, yet something that is also very fragile and prone to fade. When in love, one can be intensely passionate, but once the love fades, one can also become intensely indifferent.

9. 世界上最遥远的距离，不是生与死的距离，不是天各一方，而是我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你！

9. The greatest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, nor is it being far apart. It's that I am standing right in front of you, and yet you don't know that I love you!

10. 若是有可能，有些事情一定要用所能有的，竭尽全力的能力来记得它。因很多事情我们慢慢地，慢慢地就会变得不记得。

10. If possible, some things must be remembered with all the power you can muster. Because many things, little by little, we tend to forget.

11. 如果有一天你发现我不在乎你了，请想想我在乎你的时候，你有没有在乎过我。

11. If one day you find that I don't care about you anymore, please think about whether you cared about me when I did care about you.

12. 不愿对你诉说我的不幸，也不敢向你要求爱情，只愿迎着温柔的目光，和你默默地相对不语。

12. Not willing to诉诉 my misfortunes to you, nor dare to ask for love from you, I only wish to meet your gentle gaze and silently face you without a word.

13. 我真爱你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下眼泪，却没有骗到自己。

13. I really love you, closed my eyes, thinking I could forget, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself.

14. 每个人骨子里都有这样的情结：想拥有一个蓝颜知己或是红颜知己，既不是夫，也不是妻，更不是情人，而是居住在你精神领域里，一个可以说心里话，但又只是心灵取暖而不身体取暖的人。在你受伤时，第一时间会想起他/她，是你一本心灵日记，也是你生命中一个最长久的秘密。

14. Deep down, everyone has such an obsession: to have a bosom friend, either a male or a female, who is neither a husband nor a wife, nor a lover. They reside in the spiritual realm of your heart, someone you can confide in, but only to warm your soul, not your body. When you are hurt, you would think of them first, they are your diary of the soul, and also a longest-kept secret in your life.

15. 不要那么相信自己的回忆，里面那个人，不一定同样想念你。

15. Don't trust your memories so much; the person in them may not necessarily miss you the same way.

16. 什么是孤独？有一天你拍了一张很美很有艺术感的照片存到手机里，却不知道要发给谁，才突然想起除了自己没有人陪你看沿途的风景。

16. What is loneliness? One day, you took a very beautiful and artistic photo and saved it to your phone, but you didn't know who to send it to, until you suddenly realized that no one but yourself would accompany you to see the scenery along the way.

17. 不要去恨一个你爱过的人，不要追问分手的理由，不要恳求复合的可能。转个身，让自己快乐那才是最真的

17. Don't hate the person you once loved, don't ask for the reasons of the breakup, and don't beg for a possible reconciliation. Turn around and make yourself happy – that's the truest thing.

18. 一生就这么一次，谈一场以结婚为目的的恋爱吧。不再因为任性而不肯低头，不再因为固执而轻言分手。最后地坚信一次，一直走，就可以到白头。就那样相守，在来往的流年里，岁月安好。惟愿这一生，执子之手，与子偕老！

18. In a lifetime, have one love that aims for marriage. No longer let your任性 prevent you from bowing your head, and no longer let your stubbornness lead to easy separation. Finally, believe in it once, keep walking, and you can reach old age together. Stay together like that, through the flowing years, the years pass in peace. I wish for this life, to hold your hand, and grow old together!

19. 美丽的东西大多经不起摧残，譬如水晶，譬如水晶般的爱情。

19. Beautiful things often cannot withstand destruction, such as crystal, or love as clear as crystal.

20. 幸福不是你房子有多大，而是房里的笑声有多甜；幸福不是你开多豪华的车，而是你开着车平安到家；幸福不是你的爱人多漂亮，而是爱人的笑容多灿烂；幸福不是在你成功时的喝彩多热烈，而是失意时有个声音对你说：朋友别倒下！幸福不是你听过多少甜言蜜语，而是你伤心落泪时有人对你说：没事，有我在。

20. Happiness is not about how big your house is, but how sweet the laughter inside it is; happiness is not about how luxurious the car you drive is, but that you arrive home safely in it; happiness is not about how beautiful your lover is, but how radiant their smile is; happiness is not about how loud the cheers are when you succeed, but that there's a voice saying to you when you're disappointed: Friend, don't give up! Happiness is not about how many sweet words you've heard, but that someone tells you: It's okay, I'm here for you when you're heartbroken and crying.

21. 不要埋怨总是疑心的人体会他们曾经总是太容易相信别人、

21. Do not blame the person who always suspects; understand that they once used to believe others too easily.

22. 最使人疲惫的往往不是道路的遥远，而是你心中的郁闷；最使人颓废的往往不是前途的坎坷，而是你自信的丧失；最使人痛苦的往往不是生活的不幸，而是你希望的破灭；最使人绝望的往往不是挫折的打击，而是你心灵的死亡；凡事看淡一些，心放开一点，一切都会慢慢变好！

22. What is often the most exhausting is not the distance of the road, but the闷闷不乐 in your heart; what is often the most disillusioning is not the hardships ahead, but the loss of your self-confidence; what is often the most painful is not the misfortunes of life, but the shattering of your hopes; what is often the most despairing is not the blows of setbacks, but the death of your spirit. Take everything lightly, open your heart a bit, and everything will gradually get better!

23. 冷漠,有时候并不是无情 只是一种避免被伤害的工具

23. Indifference, sometimes, is not cold-heartedness but rather a tool to avoid getting hurt.

24. 爱情就像站在沙漠里遥望下一个绿洲，不知道的结局。

24. Love is like standing in the desert and gazing towards the next oasis, not knowing the outcome.

25. 因为你，我懂得了成长，可你，依旧是我的伤。

25. Because of you, I have learned about growth, but you, still, are the wound in my heart.

26. 不爱你实在太过份，不爱你实在太对不起自己，不爱你我朋友会打我，我的目标只有一个：爱你。

26. Not loving you is too much, it's too sorry to myself for not loving you, my friends would beat me if I don't love you, my only goal is to love you.

27. 我享受过，痛苦过，开心过，失望过，绝望过。

27. I have enjoyed, suffered, been happy, been disappointed, and felt despair.

28. 传说女子的眼泪，会在挚爱消逝之后干涩但一切也只是个传说而已。

28. It is said that a woman's tears become dry after the loss of her beloved, but all that is just a legend.

29. 如果彼此出现早一点，也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣。又或者相遇的再晚一点，晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了包容与体谅、善待和妥协，也许走到一起的时候，就不会那么轻易地放弃，任性地转身，放走了爱情。没有早一步也没有晚一步，那是太难得的缘份。

29. If we had met a little earlier, perhaps we wouldn't have been so tightly intertwined with another person's fingers. Or if we had met a little later, late enough that both of us had slowly learned to tolerate and understand, to treat each other kindly and compromise in our respective love experiences, maybe when we came together, we wouldn't have given up so easily, turned away capriciously, and let love slip away. Not coming a step too early or too late, that is a rare kind of destiny.

30. 男人天生多情，只是他会对某一个人长情。女人天生专情，但她会对某一个人绝情。男人和一个喜欢的人在一起的时候，心里还有一个或多个她。因为他多情。女人和一个喜欢的人在一起她所想的就是他。即使有更好的男人出现她也不会放弃。因为她的专情。而当她决定放弃一切都没有余地了。因为她绝情！

30. Men are naturally romantic, but they tend to be faithful to one person. Women are naturally devoted, but they can be ruthless to someone. When a man is with someone he likes, he still has one or more other women in his heart. This is because he is romantic. When a woman is with someone she likes, all she thinks about is him. Even if a better man appears, she won't give up. This is because of her devotion. But when she decides to give up, there is no room for compromise. This is because she is ruthless!

31. 爱情，不是找一个能在一起生活的人，而是找一个，没有他就没法生活的人。

31. Love is not about finding someone to live with, but about finding someone without whom you cannot live.

32. 那个秋天。你离去了。落叶对我来说不再美丽。天空对我来说一片灰暗。你曾说过我是一条鱼。那么坚强。不允许自己流泪。但是看着你离去的背影。我哭了。泪水滑过你曾经触碰过的脸颊。现在是金秋。我却迎来了寒冬。对不起。原谅我。求求你。不要走。

32. That autumn. You left. The falling leaves no longer beautiful to me. The sky seems grey to me. You once said I was a fish. So strong. Not allowing myself to shed tears. But looking at your back as you left, I cried. Tears slid down the cheeks you once touched. Now it's autumn, but I'm facing a harsh winter. Sorry. Forgive me. Please. Don't go.

33. 离开之后，我想你不要忘记一件事：不要忘记想念我。想念我的时候，不要忘记我也在想念你。

33. After leaving, I want you to remember one thing: don't forget to miss me. When you miss me, don't forget that I am also missing you.

34. 有个懂你的人，是最大的幸福。这个人，不一定十全十美，但他能读懂你，能走进你的心灵深处，能看懂你心里的一切。最懂你的人，总是会一直的在你身边，默默守护你，不让你受一点点的委屈。真正爱你的人不会说许多爱你的话，却会做许多爱你的事。

34. Having someone who understands you is the greatest happiness. This person may not be perfect, but they can read you, delve into the depths of your soul, and understand everything in your heart. The person who understands you the most will always be by your side, silently protecting you, and ensuring you don't suffer any injustice. A person who truly loves you may not say many loving words, but they will do many loving deeds.

35. 相信爱情可以令一个人改变，是轻的好处，也是轻的悲哀。浪子永远是浪子。令男人改变的，也许是上帝的爱或者佛祖的慈悲，但绝对不会是女人。

35. To believe that love can change a person is a light benefit, but also a light sorrow. A prodigal son will always be a prodigal son. What may change a man is perhaps God's love or the Buddha's compassion, but definitely not a woman.

36. 我越来越是相信，创造美好的代价也就是：努力、失望以及毅力。首先是疼痛，然后才是欢乐。

36. I am increasingly convinced that the price of creating something beautiful is: effort, disappointment, and perseverance. First comes pain, then joy.

37. 请不要以为你有多难忘 趁早

37. Don't think you're unforgettable, get a move on.

38. 曾听人说，回忆是一座桥，却是通向寂寞的牢。一再的隐忍，一再的退让，却换来了盛宴上的谎言。

38. I've heard it said that memories are a bridge, but one that leads to a cell of solitude. Endless忍辱负重, endless concessions, yet they only bring lies to the feast.

39. 以前单纯，一有事就沉不住，有乐事马上拿出来分享，有伤心也拿出来倾诉。然而，回应的往往是呵呵，或是冷淡的不痛不痒，于是，慢慢学会了沉默。

39. Formerly innocent, once something happened, I couldn't hold back and shared the joys immediately, and when I was sad, I would also express my sorrows. However, the responses were often just "haha" or a cold indifference that did not hurt but was not comforting. So, I gradually learned to be silent.