踏进古老的丝绸之路，每一粒沙都承载着历史的回响。让我们跟随“搔首弄姿问一问”的脚步，一同探寻那些遗失在岁月长河中的语言魅力。

Stepping onto the ancient Silk Road, every grain of sand bears the echoes of history. Let's follow the footsteps of "wagging one's head and preening in curiosity," and together explore the linguistic charm that has been lost in the long river of time.

1. 男：我知道你现在在做什么女：做什么？男：这是一个魔术，你先夸我，我就告诉你答案女：你好帅男：你在和一个绝世大帅哥聊天女：切，自恋男：是你说我帅的，我又没猜错

1. Man: I know what you're doing right now. Woman: Doing what? Man: It's a magic trick. Praise me first, and I'll tell you the answer. Woman: You're so handsome. Man: You're chatting with a world-class handsome guy. Woman: Hmph, narcissistic. Man: It was you who said I was handsome; I didn't guess wrong.

2. 喜欢是藏不住的，你喜欢一个人的时候，你的心里、你的眼里、你的话里全是她，你会想要靠近她，会想要了解她，这样喜欢她的你又怎么会忍着不去跟她说话。

2. Love cannot be concealed. When you like someone, your heart, your eyes, and your words are all about her. You would want to get closer to her, to understand her, and so how could you bear not to talk to her, someone who loves her like that?

3. 你是谁？为什么我一看到你就想吃蜂蜜？

3. Who are you? Why do I feel like eating honey as soon as I see you?

4. 对你来说，无论晴雨，都不会改变。

4. For you, it will not change regardless of sunshine or rain.

5. 这样的开场方式虽然很简单，没有什么内容型，但是和初识的女生聊天，这样简单的方式更容易隐藏对女生的需求感，消除女生心里的戒备，并且表情开场的方式更简单易行。

5. Although this way of starting a conversation is simple and lacks content, it is easier to hide one's needs when chatting with a girl one has just met. This approach helps to alleviate the girl's sense of caution and is simpler and more practical to initiate a conversation with expressions.

6. 让我亲手给你泡一杯茶，加一块冰糖，注入一腔热情，把我的爱一点一点溶进茶里。

6. Let me personally brew you a cup of tea, add a piece of rock sugar, pour in a heart full of passion, and slowly dissolve my love into the tea.

7. 不管是不是一见钟情，我对你一见钟情，就是喜欢你。

7. Whether it's love at first sight or not, I have fallen in love with you at first sight, which means I like you.

8. 我真的很想抱抱你，闻闻你，把下巴放在你的肩膀上，然后睡着。

8. I really want to hug you, sniff you, rest my chin on your shoulder, and then fall asleep.

9. 事情总是要先整理，你先，全世界后。

9. Things always need to be organized first, you first, and the whole world next.

10. 不管是冷战还是委屈，每当你说些软语，微笑或者拥抱，我都能笑着原谅你。

10. Whether it's the Cold War or feeling wronged, whenever you say something soft, smile, or give a hug, I can forgive you with a smile.

11. 男：发现你一个问题女：什么问题男：我觉得你是一个吃货（女生朋友圈关于美食的照片）

11. Man: I've noticed a problem with you. Woman: What problem? Man: I think you're a foodie (photos of delicious food in the girl's WeChat Moments)

12. 被很害羞的人撩是怎样的一种体验？答：一种难以言喻的感觉。

12. What is the experience of being flirted with by someone very shy? Answer: A feeling that is hard to describe.

13. 如果你不来，天就要下雪了。

13. If you don't come, it's going to snow.

14. 你是世界上最可爱的小明星。我爱整个宇宙，只为遇见你。

14. You are the most adorable little star in the world. I love the entire universe, just for getting to meet you.

15. 把握聊天话题的尺寸虽然相亲都是奔着结婚去的，但是不要认为女生就是看上你了，所以不要和女生聊什么结婚相关的事宜或者跟女生抱怨自己的相亲经历，在不熟悉的情况下聊这些都是减分项。我们要明白在没有明确确定为男女关系之间，那么男女之间的关系还是处于相对考察的阶段，你的任何越轨举动都会成为女生评判你的标准，所以一定不要拿捏好尺寸。

15. Keep the scope of the conversation moderate: Although blind dates are all about the intention of getting married, don't assume that the girl is immediately interested in you. Therefore, avoid discussing matters related to marriage or complaining about your blind date experiences with the girl. These topics can be detrimental when you're not yet familiar with each other. We need to understand that before a clear relationship between the two genders is established, the relationship between them is still in a relatively考察 stage. Any overstepping举动 will become a criterion for the girl to judge you, so make sure to handle the conversation with appropriate boundaries.

16. 你爱我，我陪你；你不爱我，我给你自由。这就是那个傻傻的我，那个在乎你的我。

16. If you love me, I'll be with you; if you don't love me, I'll give you your freedom. That's the silly me, the one who cares about you.

17. 开始进行自我介绍和女生的交流还是需要从自我介绍开始的，像什么名字/年龄/工作等等，这里面可以稍微自嘲下，让对方感觉你很风趣；比如：你好，我叫xxx，你可以叫我小x，是个月薪不高不低，颜值忽上忽下的IT猿虽然我看起来要比实际年龄大，不过还能称得上一块小腊肉吧这里可以适当夸赞一下对方名字，没有人会拒绝赞美的，这样女生会很愿意继续与你交流下去的。

17. Starting with self-introduction and communication with girls still needs to begin with self-introduction, like name/age/work, etc. Here you can slightly mock yourself to make the other person feel that you are amusing; for example: Hi, my name is xxx, you can call me Xiao X, I am an IT geek with an average salary and fluctuating looks. Although I seem older than my actual age, I can still be called a little piece of pork belly. Here you can appropriately praise the other person's name. No one will reject compliments, and this will make the girl more willing to continue communicating with you.

18. 怎么和相亲对象聊天？在加上相亲对方后，很多男生会着急去对方聊天，上来就说：“你好，我是xxx，是xxx介绍过来的”。在自报家门后很快就会发现聊天的气氛十分尴尬，一时也找不到合适的聊天话题，女生可能也觉得尴尬，找个理由就撤了，这样的聊天就变的毫无意义了。和相亲对象聊天时，一定要事先做好准备，不要打无准备之仗，可以从以下几个方面做起：

18. How to chat with a blind date? After adding the blind date, many men are eager to start a conversation, and they say, "Hi, I'm xxx, and I'm introduced here by xxx." After announcing their identity, they quickly find that the atmosphere of the conversation is very awkward, and they can't find a suitable topic to talk about. The girl might also feel awkward and leave for a reason, making the conversation meaningless. When chatting with a blind date, it is essential to prepare in advance and not go into battle unprepared. You can start from the following aspects:

19. 整理好自己的朋友圈在加上女生微信后，我们会观察她的微信朋友圈来做一个基本的了解，同理，女生也是如此，很多男生往往只顾着了解女生，很容易忽略掉自己的朋友圈那些该删的东西，比如：前女友照片、秀恩爱、囧照丑照等，如果被女生看到，对你的印象一定大打折扣。所以一定要提前整理好你的朋友圈，然后才去加女生的好友。

19. After tidying up your own WeChat circle and adding a girl's WeChat, we will observe her WeChat circle to gain a basic understanding. Similarly, girls also do this. Many boys often focus only on getting to know girls, easily overlooking the things that should be deleted from their own WeChat circle, such as: photos of ex-girlfriends, PDA, embarrassing or ugly pictures, etc. If girls see these, it will definitely tarnish your impression of them. So, be sure to clean up your WeChat circle in advance, and then add the girl as a friend.

20. 你是最好的。如果真的有人比你强，我会假装没看见。

20. You are the best. If there really is someone who is better than you, I'll pretend I didn't see them.

21. 当岁月老去，我依然记得我们在夕阳下美丽的誓言！

21. As the years pass by, I still remember the beautiful vow we made under the setting sun!

22. 我跟男朋友的认识很有戏剧性，就是两个无聊的人打开微信“附近的人”，被彼此的照片所吸引，他主动跟我打招呼，两个人很快就见面了，两个星期以后就确定关系在一起了。在这两个星期里，他每天都找我说话，早上一睁眼就是打开微信给我发“早安”，晚上跟我说完“晚安”才去睡觉，每天也没有什么正事可聊，无非就是问一问我有没有吃饭，问一问我今天做什么了，发生了什么有趣的事情，有时候没什么可聊的他就给我讲笑话，讲故事，实在没得说了就开始斗图，总之就是想尽办法要跟我聊天，就算他有事忙，也要跟我说清楚再去，回来第一时间就跟我说话。当时我是可以真真切切的可以感受到啊他对我的喜欢的。后来两个人在一起了，他还是这样，哪怕是闲扯、尬聊一整天，他也乐此不疲。

22. My acquaintance with my boyfriend was quite dramatic. It was two bored people who opened the "People Nearby" feature on WeChat and were attracted to each other's photos. He主动 greeted me first, and we met up soon after. Two weeks later, we confirmed our relationship and started dating. During those two weeks, he talked to me every day. The moment I opened my eyes in the morning, he would send me a "Good morning" on WeChat, and only after saying "Good night" to me would he go to sleep. We didn't have much serious talk; it was mostly about whether I had eaten, what I did today, or any interesting things that happened. Sometimes, when there was nothing to talk about, he would tell me jokes or stories, and if there was nothing left to say, we would start sending funny pictures to each other. In short, he thought of every way to chat with me, even if he was busy with something. If he had to go out, he would make sure to tell me clearly and come back to talk to me first. Back then, I could truly feel his affection for me. After we started dating, he was still the same, even if we chatted aimlessly or awkwardly all day, he never got tired of it.

23. 男：看你照片挺萌的，挺可爱的女：还可以吧男：但是内心却有一颗女汉子的心

23. Man: Your photos look pretty cute and adorable. Woman: Not bad, I guess. Man: But there's a tomboyish spirit inside you.

24. 很多喜欢用夸赞女生的方式开场，但是却因为太过直白被女生嫌弃，漂亮女生是不缺乏赞美的，所以想要用夸赞女生的方式开场就一定不要直接夸女生好看漂亮，可以对女生进行细节上的夸赞，比如：

24. Many people like to start conversations by complimenting girls, but they are disliked by girls because of their directness. Beautiful girls are not lacking in praise, so if you want to start a conversation by complimenting girls, you should not directly compliment their looks. Instead, you can compliment girls on specific details, for example:

25. 喜欢你是我做过最接近爱情的事。

25. Liking you is the closest thing I've ever done to being in love.

26. 你记住一点，找到你的时候想你，找不到你的时候想你。

26. Remember this: when I find you, I think of you; when I can't find you, I still think of you.

27. 和相亲对象的聊天技巧上面的聊天过程中，只是让你和女生能够正常的聊天，保证女生不讨厌你，接下来想要和女生建立更深层次的联系，就需要在聊天中建立吸引，这里就需要学会一些和相亲对象的聊天技巧。

27. Chatting Skills with a Blind Date: In the process of chatting above, it is just to ensure that you can chat normally with the girl and make sure she doesn't dislike you. To establish a deeper connection with the girl, you need to build attraction in the chat. Here, you need to learn some chatting skills with blind dates.

28. 我觉得如果一个男生喜欢你，是不可能可以忍住不给你发微信的；如果他能忍住不给你发微信，那么他就是不喜欢你。如果一个男生喜欢你，他恨不得知道你每天每时每刻都在干嘛，微信虽然只是一种通讯工具，但是在见不到对方的情况下微信聊天就是一个很好的了解对方的方式，如果你喜欢对方，又怎么会想要忍着不给对方发消息呢？

28. I think it's impossible for a boy to hold back from sending you WeChat messages if he likes you; if he can hold back from sending you messages, then he doesn't like you. If a boy likes you, he can't help but want to know what you're doing every day and every moment. Although WeChat is just a communication tool, chatting on WeChat is a good way to understand each other when you can't see each other. If you like the person, why would you want to hold back from sending them messages?

29. 把星星熬成糖浆，蘸上你说的晚安，然后大口大口地吃。

29. Boil the stars into syrup, dip them in the goodnight words you say, and then eat them greedily.

30. 对女生有个大概了解在加上女生的微信后，你首先要做的就是先去浏览对方的朋友圈，借此去大致了解对方的一些喜好，还有基本信息，比如工作/生活圈/常常活动的区域/最近去玩的地方。然后你就有了一个大概的方向：我可以同她聊些什么。

30. After getting a general understanding of a girl and adding her WeChat, the first thing you should do is to browse her朋友圈. This will help you get a rough idea of her preferences and some basic information, such as her work/life circle, frequently visited areas, and recent places she has visited. Then you will have a general direction: what can I talk to her about.

31. 微信打招呼开场白开场白就是你的社交名片。在和相亲对象的第一次聊天中开场白非常重要，开场白的好坏直接会影响你们接下来的聊天，所以掌握一些微信聊天开场白的技巧非常有必要。在爱情的世界，套路终归不是长久之计，只有真正的释放价值吸引到妹子，这样子确定的关系才是真正海枯石烂的。我也是之前看到了一本撩妹的书---北宫雨泽逆袭记，基本就是有空就看，然后就陌陌上找妹子实践，前前后后约的妹子不下百十个，现在也就是结婚了，不能再那么浪的。如果有还没脱单的兄弟，建议看看，去上网查下就有免费的，北宫雨泽逆袭记，学以致用，脱单真心是分分钟的事情。

31. WeChat greeting opening lines: The opening line is your social business card. In the first chat with a blind date, the opening line is very important, as its quality directly affects the subsequent conversation, so it is very necessary to master some WeChat chat opening line skills. In the world of love, schemes are not a long-term solution. Only by truly revealing your value and attracting a girl, the relationship thus established can be truly indestructible. I also read a book about charming girls - The Record of Beigong Yuze's Uprising, which I basically read whenever I had time. Then I practiced finding girls on Momo, and in the end, I had dates with more than a hundred girls. Now I'm married, and I can't be that carefree anymore. If there are any brothers who haven't found a partner, I recommend reading it. You can find it for free online. The Record of Beigong Yuze's Uprising. Put what you learn into practice, and finding a partner really can be a matter of minutes.

32. 我不敢看你的眼睛。我怕我的每一个眼神都像是表白。

32. I dare not look into your eyes. I'm afraid every glance of mine seems like an avowal.

33. 少爱你一点，就能多说话。

33. Love you a little less, and I can talk more.

34. 好久不见，很想你，哈哈。

34. Long time no see, I miss you so much, hahaha.

35. 如果你觉得辛苦，就来躲在我的怀里。

35. If you feel tired, come hide in my arms.

36. 轻轻的，一条春风拂过脸颊，激起一片涟漪。长长的，带着你的气息，在记忆里，甜甜的。

36. Gently, a spring breeze brushes across the cheeks, stirring up a ripple. Long and carrying your scent, sweet in memory.

37. 聊天话题服务于女生这里很多兄弟就会说了和女生聊天不就是服务于她吗，其实这里很多男生只是把陪女生聊天当成一件事情来做，停留在聊天的本身，这样导致是你求着女生聊天，女生有兴趣才和你聊，没有兴趣就不和你聊了，都是按照女生的心情来，这样的聊天是错误的。正确的做法就是刺激女生的情绪，所谓服务就是给女生带来情绪上愉快的享受，在话题选择上可以根据女生的朋友圈动态或者女生喜欢的事物展开话题，比如：美食、摄影、爱好兴趣等，女生有了兴趣后会愿意陪你聊天，但是如果让女生喜欢上你聊天，那还需要在聊天中和女生进行互动，去调动女生的兴趣，比如：女：对啊，你喜欢我男：你是什么时候喜欢上的？（引导女生分享）女：xxxx（开始诉说）男：我一直很排斥，听你这么说，怎么感觉这么好吃呢，你的话是不是有魔力（调动女生情绪）女：哈哈，是吗男：我看附近有一家烤榴莲，要不要一起去尝尝女：好啊4、及时结束话题和女生聊天时，特别是女生的聊天兴致很高的时候，很多男生恨不得彻夜和女生聊，这样的做法只会让你把话题和想说的话一次性讲完，以后就没得聊了。我们要明白和女生聊天时为了建立吸引，当女生聊天兴致很高时，说明吸引力已经形成了，那么就不需要你再继续找话题聊下去了，正确的做法就是尽早结束聊天或者引导女生开启话题，和女生聊天不是让她心满意足而是意犹未尽，那样才会更期待和你的下次聊天，甚至想要见到你。相亲对象微信聊天攻略3

37. Chatting topics serving girls: Many brothers would say that chatting with girls is serving them, but in fact, many boys just treat accompanying girls in conversation as a task, staying at the level of the chat itself. This leads to a situation where you are chasing the girls to chat, and they only chat with you if they are interested; if not, they won't chat with you. It's all according to the girls' mood, and this kind of chatting is wrong. The correct approach is to stimulate the girls' emotions. The so-called service is to bring girls emotional enjoyment. In terms of topic selection, you can start with the girls' social media updates or the things they like, such as food, photography, hobbies, and interests. Once girls are interested, they will be willing to chat with you. However, if you want girls to like chatting with you, you need to interact with them during the chat and stimulate their interest, for example: Girl: Yeah, do you like me? Boy: When did you start liking me? (Guide the girl to share) Girl: xxxx (Start narrating) Boy: I have always been opposed to it. Hearing you say this, how does it feel so delicious? Is your word magical? (Give rise to the girl's emotions) Girl: Haha, is it? Boy: I see a durian barbecue nearby. Shall we go and try it? Girl: Alright 4. End the topic in time: When chatting with girls, especially when their chat enthusiasm is high, many boys would like to chat with girls all night. Such an approach will only make you finish all the topics and things you want to say at once, leaving no more topics to discuss in the future. We should understand that chatting with girls is to build attraction. When the girls' chat enthusiasm is high, it means that attraction has already been formed. Therefore, you don't need to continue finding topics to chat about. The correct approach is to end the chat as soon as possible or guide the girl to start a new topic. The purpose of chatting with girls is not to satisfy them but to leave them wanting more, which will make them look forward to your next chat even more, and even want to see you. WeChat Chatting Strategy for Blind Dates

38. 我想变得超级酷，但是如果你和我聊天，我一会儿也不会酷。

38. I want to be super cool, but if you talk to me, I won't be cool for even a moment.

39. 对世界而言，你是一个人；但对我来说，你就是我的全世界。

39. To the world, you are just one person; but to me, you are my entire world.

40. 本来是要走江湖的，但是遇到你我觉得可以停一会儿。

40. Originally, I was planning to wander the world, but encountering you makes me feel that I can take a break for a while.

41. 然后根绝和这个话题和女生聊关于美食的话题，在聊天的过程中去询问女生的饮食喜好，找到你们的共同点，比如都喜欢吃的一类水果和食物，可以借机邀约女生。

41. Then, steer the conversation with the girl towards the topic of food, and during the chat, inquire about her dietary preferences. Look for common ground, such as a type of fruit or food that both of you like, and take the opportunity to invite the girl out.

42. 今晚看到一个背影像你的人，不是你，但我还是忍不住看了一路。

42. Tonight, I saw a back that looked like yours, but it wasn't you, and yet I couldn't help but keep watching all the way.

43. 我不想百分百喜欢你。我是一个很懂事的女孩。我想300%喜欢你。

43. I don't want to like you 100%. I am a very responsible girl. I want to like you 300%.

44. 说起我的择偶标准，只有一个字:你。

44. When it comes to my standards for a partner, there's just one word: you.

45. 看到你，我的占有欲就超标了。

45. Seeing you, my possessiveness has gone overboard.

46. 晚安之后，你在睡觉，我在想你。

46. After saying goodnight, you are sleeping, and I am thinking of you.

47. 聊天内容聊天内容也就是聊天如何找话题。开场白只是和女生展开聊天对话，聊天的核心还是在于聊天内容上，关键要看你如何找话题，如何通过一个话题聊出有趣的感觉，如何将话题联系到两个人身上，在两个人彼此熟悉之后，就要学会把话题聊出暧昧的感觉。两个人确定恋爱关系的步骤为：陌生——朋友阶段——暧昧阶段——约会阶段——恋爱阶段。和相亲对象聊天也同样是这样的步骤，在刚加上相亲对象微信之后，先和对方有个基本的了解，然后将话题一步步引导到暧昧的阶段。找话题可以从兴趣爱好、衣服穿搭、旅行、美食、工作、童年、宠物、电视**、时下流行等等找话题，最好可以将话题聊的幽默有趣，前期以吸引对方为主，中期以增进暧昧为主，后期就要以邀约见面为主。我们看下面这段聊天记录：男：“刚刚出去办事，经过上次我们约会的咖啡厅，就想起了我们初次约会。”（开启话题）女：“你记得这么清楚呐”男：“哈哈，还记得你当时害羞的脸蛋都红了”（回忆细节）女：“哈哈，那不是第一次相亲紧张嘛”男：“要是搁到现在，看到你红彤彤的脸蛋，真想捏一下”（升级关系）女：“捏坏了你赔哦”男：“好呀，那我就以身相许作为赔偿吧”（女生没反抗，继续尝试升高关系）女：“切，才不要呢”男：“我知道一家做川菜的饭馆，做的菜特别地道，你不是爱吃辣吗，等哪天带你去尝尝”（模糊邀约）女：“是吗？真还有点嘴馋了呢”男：“那就这么说定了哦，你个小馋猫”（确定约会）

47. Chat Content The chat content refers to how to find topics for conversation. The opening line is just to start a conversation with a girl, but the core of the chat still lies in the content. The key is to see how you find topics, how to make a topic interesting, how to connect the topic to both of you, and after getting to know each other, learn to make the topic feel ambiguous. The steps to confirm a romantic relationship between two people are: stranger stage - friend stage - ambiguous stage - date stage - love stage. Chatting with a blind date is also the same steps. After adding the blind date's WeChat, first get a basic understanding of each other, and then gradually guide the topic to the ambiguous stage. You can find topics from hobbies, clothing, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV shows, and current trends, etc. It's best to make the conversation humorous and interesting. In the early stage, focus on attracting the other person, in the middle stage, focus on increasing the ambiguity, and in the later stage, focus on inviting them to meet. Let's look at the following chat record: Male: "Just came back from an errand, passed by the coffee shop we had our first date at, and thought of our first date." (Starting the topic) Female: "You remember that clearly?" Male: "Haha, I still remember your face blushing." (Recalling details) Female: "Haha, that was my first blind date, I was nervous." Male: "If it were now, seeing your rosy cheeks, I would really want to pinch you." (Building the relationship) Female: "You'd break my face, you'd have to compensate me." Male: "Alright, I'll offer you my body as compensation." (The girl doesn't resist, and continues to try to build the relationship) Female: "Eh, I don't want that." Male: "I know a Sichuan cuisine restaurant, they make very authentic dishes. You like spicy food, right? Someday I'll take you to try it." (Blurring the invitation) Female: "Is that so? I'm a bit hungry for it." Male: "Alright, let's make that deal, you little greedy cat." (Confirming the date)

48. 笑的时候，雷声温柔，暴雨无声。

48. When laughing, the thunder is gentle, and the heavy rain is silent.

49. 聊天话题要幽默打完招呼，做完自我介绍之后，很多男生就会进入一个误区，那就是问对方“吃饭了没”之类的问题，这样问题只会让你们的聊天陷入到一问一答的模式中，所以千万不要这样聊天。可以用一些幽默的小套路来逗女生开心，比如“如果你的前男友和现男友同时掉进了水里，那么你愿不愿意做我的女朋友”。这样是不是比一问一答的聊天模式要好很多呢？

49. After greeting each other and introducing yourself, many boys fall into a误区, which is to ask the other person questions like "Have you eaten yet?" Such questions can only make your conversation fall into a pattern of question and answer. So, please don't chat like that. You can use some humorous tricks to make the girl happy, like "If your ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend fell into the water at the same time, would you be willing to be my girlfriend?" Isn't this a lot better than the usual question-and-answer chat mode?

50. 细节赞美女人是比较虚荣的一类生物，都希望得到别人的赞美和认同，我们知道了女人这一心理特点，就可以用赞美女生作为开场白，当然赞美并是不敷衍和夸张，一定要抓住细节进行赞美，把夸赞女生的话说到女生心坎里去。可以从女生的发型、妆容、穿搭、配饰、爱好等等找细节，细节的赞美才会显得真诚。比如你可以这样和女生打招呼：“你的耳坠配你的发型，显得你特别小家碧玉”。这样的细节夸赞会给女生一种别样的感觉。

50. Praise for women in detail is a rather vain type of creature, all hoping to receive praise and recognition from others. Knowing this psychological characteristic of women, we can use compliments as an opening line. Of course, compliments should not be perfunctory or exaggerated; they must capture the details and truly praise, getting the compliments to resonate with the woman's heart. You can find details in a woman's hairstyle, makeup, dressing, accessories, hobbies, etc. Detailed compliments will seem sincere. For example, you can greet a woman like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle, making you look particularly delicate and graceful." Such detailed compliments will give the woman a different kind of feeling.

51. 我的被子又香又软又舒服。你想和我一起盖吗？

51. My quilt is so fragrant, soft, and comfortable. Would you like to cover yourself with it together?

52. 昨天我很爱你，今天我也不想爱你，但我知道，明天醒来，我还是最爱你。

52. Yesterday, I loved you very much, and today I don't want to love you either, but I know that when I wake up tomorrow, I will still love you the most.

53. 有些男生比较羞涩，可能在现实生活中，无法当面亲口对心仪的女生说出“我喜欢你”。也许是因为自己不够勇敢，也许是因为害怕被拒绝。总之，所有的借口都在要张口的那一刻被无限放大。所以，他要是表白女生的时候，肯定是没有足够的底气，但是网络是虚拟的，所以他也许会放下腼腆和羞涩，大胆的说出来。如果我是被表白的女生，首先我要根据自己对他的印象做出一种初判断，毕竟那么突然，自己也并没有什么心理准备。其次，如果我他满足我的第一项指标，那么我会接着考虑，否则，果断委婉拒绝，毫不拖泥带水。再然后，符合我的各项硬指标的话，我觉得我会尝试一下。被撩的时候当然是内心小鹿乱撞的心情，不禁一阵暗喜。

53. Some boys are quite shy, and may not be able to directly say to the girl they like in real life, "I like you." It might be because they are not brave enough, or because they fear being rejected. In any case, all excuses are magnified infinitely at the moment they are about to speak. So, when he declares his feelings to a girl, he is definitely lacking in confidence. However, since the internet is virtual, he might be able to put aside his shyness and boldly express himself. If I were the girl being confessed to, first of all, I would make an initial judgment based on my impression of him, as it's quite sudden and I am not mentally prepared. Secondly, if he meets my first criterion, I would consider it further; otherwise, I would reject him gracefully without any hesitation. Then, if he meets all my hard criteria, I think I would give it a try. When being flirted with, it's of course a heart-pounding experience, and I can't help but feel a secret joy.

54. 报告我今天也喜欢你。

54. I also like you today, as reported.

55. 很多人和女生聊天往往是想到哪做到哪，没有计划性，比如找女生聊天开场白选好了但是后面的聊天就不知道该怎么聊了，接下来的聊天只能靠自我发挥，但是却不会气氛的把握，很容易变成尬聊，这里可以这样和女生聊天：

55. Many people chat with girls without a plan, just going with the flow, for example, they have a good opening line to start a conversation with a girl, but then they don't know how to continue the chat, and the subsequent conversation relies solely on their improvisation. However, they are not good at controlling the atmosphere, which often leads to awkward conversations. Here's a way to chat with girls:

56. 路边的广告牌上有一个字是你的名字。

56. There is a character on the billboard on the roadside that is your name.

57. 选择合适的聊天时机初次和相亲对象聊天一般就是基本消息的互换，对彼此有个大概的了解，接下来的聊天才是决定和女生能不能有长期的发展，因为我们不能保证女生有没有时间陪我们聊天，那么可以根据女生朋友圈的动态，如果对方刚发了一条，那么可以借机找她聊天。当然可能女生不发朋友圈，那么可以找一个相对比较清闲的时间，最好是晚上七八点，时间充足却比较清闲，彼此都有时间也有聊天的欲望。

57. Choosing the right time for a chat: Generally, the first chat with a blind date is just the exchange of basic messages, to get a general understanding of each other. The subsequent conversation is what determines whether there can be a long-term development with the girl, as we cannot guarantee that the girl has time to chat with us. Therefore, you can take the opportunity to chat with her if she just posted something on her social media. Of course, if the girl doesn't post on social media, you can choose a relatively free time, best around 7 or 8 PM. The time is sufficient yet relatively free, and both of you have time and the desire to chat.

58. 陪你走多久，我就走多久。我永远不会皱眉而不抱怨。

58. As long as you walk with me, I will walk with you. I will never frown without complaining.

59. 你苦没关系，我甜。

59. You may be bitter, but I am sweet.

60. 女生天生有一个八卦的心，对于未知的事物总会充满好奇心，所以和女生聊天打招呼时，可以聊一些能够引起她们好奇的话题。

60. Girls are naturally curious about the unknown, so when chatting and greeting girls, you can talk about topics that can spark their curiosity.

61. 你是青春的欢乐，倒着读。

61. You are the joy of youth, read backwards.

62. 能不能让我学会照顾你，然后你爱我。

62. Can you let me learn to take care of you first, and then you can love me.

63. 有些男生平时就是一副严肃的表情，偶尔收到女生的调侃也是极其羞涩的，看似是一个腼腆的“小哥哥”，但是如果遇到让自己心动的女生，肯定也会冲上去表明自己的心意。我高中的时候，室友就曾遭遇过这样的事情。男孩是我们的学霸，室友是女生中的“普通人”，但室友性格很开朗，两人经常在QQ上聊天（那时我们都不知道，她一回到宿舍就抱起手机还谁在聊天，后来就真相大白了！），后来知道，室友常常以请教问题的接口找学霸聊天，当然可能是真是请教问题呢！这些都是在我们不知情的情况下进行的，后来直到学霸在毕业典礼上的突然表白，我们才发现，他们竟然“隐藏”的那么深！事后，一经交代，我们被瞒的好辛苦（一张哭笑不得的脸）！室友大方承认，是学霸每天找她聊天，就她曾经问的问题进行延伸，亦或是，遇到重点题就及时和她分享！好生浪漫!学霸的撩妹手段就是不一般！

63. Some boys always have a serious expression, and when they occasionally receive teasing from girls, they are extremely shy, appearing to be a shy "little brother." However, if they encounter a girl who moves them, they will definitely go up and express their feelings. When I was in high school, my roommate had such an experience. The boy was our top student, and my roommate was an "ordinary" girl among the girls, but she had a very outgoing personality and they often chatted on QQ (we didn't know that as soon as she returned to the dorm, she would pick up her phone and chat with someone, later we found out the truth!). Later on, we learned that my roommate often used the excuse of asking questions to chat with the top student, which might have been a real request for help! All these things were done without our knowledge, and it was not until the top student made a sudden declaration of love at the graduation ceremony that we found out they had been "hiding" so deeply! After the fact, once it was explained to us, we were deceived so hard (a face that couldn't help but laugh and cry)! My roommate openly admitted that the top student would chat with her every day, extending from the questions she had asked before, or, if they encountered a key question, they would share it with her in a timely manner! So romantic! The top student's way of charming girls is definitely not ordinary!

64. 这座城市每天都让我感到羞耻，但你有能力让玫瑰在沙漠中盛开。

64. This city makes me feel ashamed every day, but you have the power to make roses bloom in the desert.

65. 和女生在初始阶段，要么是靠外貌吸引她，要么就是靠语言吸引她，在聊天中外貌是辅助作用的，想要吸引女生重要的一点就是让他觉得和你聊天有趣，所以在聊天开场时可以用幽默的方式。

65. In the initial stage of dating a girl, either rely on her appearance to attract her or use language to charm her. In conversation, appearance plays a supporting role. An important point in attracting a girl is to make her feel that chatting with you is interesting, so you can use humor to start the conversation.

66. 从细节入手注重细节的男生在女生眼里一定不会错，可以从女生的微信头像、微信昵称、个性签名、朋友圈等找细节，然后从细节开启话题。比如女生的微信昵称叫“会飞的鱼”，那你就可以这么说开场白：“你是不是特别爱吃鱼，所以叫会飞的鱼可爱”。再比如女生的朋友圈经常晒宠物，那你就可以直接说：“喜欢宠物的女孩子都非常有爱心”。当然大家要根据具体情况具体来说，总之一些细节都可以作为开场白。

66. Boys who pay attention to details and are meticulous will definitely not be wrong in girls' eyes. You can find details in girls' WeChat profile pictures, WeChat nicknames, personal signatures, and朋友圈 (WeChat Moments), and then start a conversation from the details. For example, if a girl's WeChat nickname is "Flying Fish," you can say something like this for an opening line: "You must really love fish a lot, hence the nickname 'Flying Fish' is adorable." Or if a girl often shares pictures of pets in her朋友圈, you can directly say: "Girls who like pets are all very loving." Of course, everyone should tailor their words to the specific situation. In summary, any detail can be used as an opening line.

67. 你能告诉我一点你想我吗？小声点，只有我们两个人能听见。

67. Can you tell me a little bit if you miss me? Whisper, only the two of us can hear.

68. 今天在家乡看到一棵树，想到了你。

68. Seeing a tree in my hometown today reminded me of you.