一句“我不能陪在你身边”，让男人心碎到泪流满面……

A sentence, "I can't be by your side," shattered a man's heart, causing him to weep profusely...

1. 人生有两个词最心酸，爱而不得，和得非所爱。

1. There are two words in life that are the most heart-wrenching: loving but not being loved in return, and being loved by someone you don't love.

2. 我深深地想念你。我的思念早已汇成我思念的小溪。虽然我像小草一样默默枯萎，但也化作肥沃的土壤，滋润你像玫瑰一样纯洁美丽。

2. I deeply miss you. My longing has long turned into a small stream of my thoughts. Though I wither silently like a blade of grass, I also transform into fertile soil, nourishing you to be as pure and beautiful as a rose.

3. 永远不要高估自己在别人心目中的地位。其实你什么都不是，比你多的不多，比你少的也不多。

3. Never overestimate your position in others' hearts. In reality, you are nothing special; there isn't much more or less than you.

4. 后来我才明白，努力维系的关系可能稍稍喘口气就会断了，没有人是靠留就能留得住的。一个人能长长久久地陪在你身边的原因，无非是他不想走。

4. Later on, I realized that relationships that are tirelessly maintained may break off at a moment of respite, for no one can be kept through sheer persistence. The reason someone can stay by your side for a long time is simply that they do not want to leave.

5. 恕我直言，没有什么言语能真正打动他们，正如一位网友所说：“他生病时请照顾他，（），你生病时请照顾他”

5. Frankly, there is no word that can truly touch them, as one netizen said: "When he is sick, please take care of him, ( ), when you are sick, please take care of him."

6. 如果我是你的女朋友，我将去购物，突然喊饿，然后我让你带我去吃火锅，大桌子的食物，只吃一点是完整的，看见你的眼睛难以置信的极度贫穷，因为我想让你吃，嘿嘿，火锅的最长时间，我喜欢看你吃吃饭快撑死。

6. If I were your girlfriend, I would go shopping, suddenly feel hungry, and then I would ask you to take me to eat hotpot, a big table of food, just eating a little bit makes it complete. Seeing your eyes filled with disbelief at the extreme poverty, because I want you to eat, hehe, the longest time for hotpot, I like watching you eat until you're almost full.

7. 如果我是你女朋友，我会让你带我去看悲剧的**，出了侯还在哭，我要你哄我说这只是**，我们不会那样的。

7. If I were your girlfriend, I would have you take me to watch the tragedy, and even after leaving, I was still crying. I want you to comfort me and tell me that this is just a *tragedy*, and we won't have such experiences.

8. 你必须努力才有资格说自己倒霉。不能指望别人风光，自己一塌糊涂还得继续。

8. You must work hard to be qualified to say you are unfortunate. You cannot expect others to shine while you are still a mess and need to continue.

9. 不要期待，不要强求，顺其自然。接受所有需要接受的接受，心安，便是活着最好的状态。

9. Do not anticipate, do not strive, let things take their natural course. Accept all that needs to be accepted, be at peace with your mind, and that is the best state of being alive.

10. 如果我是你的女朋友，如果我知道我生病了或者生病了，不能陪你很久，我会骗你说我爱上了别人，让我们分手。

10. If I were your girlfriend and if I knew that I was sick or would be sick, and couldn't stay with you for long, I would lie to you and say I fell in love with someone else, and ask us to break up.

11. 很多话憋着，后来就懒得说了，很多事就失望多了，后来就没在意了。

11. Many things were kept unsaid, and later on, I lost the interest to say them. Many things disappointed me, and later on, I didn't care about them anymore.

12. 我知道此时你从我身边跑开了，难道你真的不能原谅我那晚的残忍吗？我的防线被你的哭声打破，我无可救药地爱着你。

12. I know you ran away from me at this moment, can't you really forgive my cruelty that night? My defenses were broken by your cries, and I am hopelessly in love with you.

13. 你就是这样，酷到要死，倔强到要死，敏感到要死，遇到事只会死撑，眼泪里容不下一粒沙子，所以没有人爱你，也没有人在乎你的感受。

13. That's you, cool to the bone, stubborn to the core, sensitive to a fault, only able to bear things without showing, not allowing even a single grain of sand in your tears, which is why no one loves you, and no one cares about your feelings.

14. 相遇是错，认识是错，在一起更是错，对你动心是错，和你恋爱还是错，爱上你更是一个错，全部都是错。

14. Meeting is a mistake, knowing you is a mistake, being together is even more of a mistake, having feelings for you is a mistake, falling in love with you is still a mistake, and loving you even more is another mistake. All of it is wrong.

15. 再疼也会笑着说不疼，因为没人心疼疼，你也习惯了躲着，所以总是笑的没心没肺。时间久了，笑成了习惯，痛成了习惯。

15. No matter how much it hurts, I'll laugh and say it doesn't hurt because no one cares. You've also gotten used to hiding, so you always seem to laugh carefree. Over time, laughter has become a habit, and pain has become a habit.

16. 希望睡前能吻你，睡觉时能抱你，醒来时能看你！一直希望这样，直到永远。

16. I hope to kiss you before bedtime, to hold you while sleeping, and to see you when I wake up! I have always hoped for this, and I will continue to do so until forever.

17. 如果思想是一种病，我会病得不治之症；如果思念是一种感觉，那么我有很深的感情；如果爱是因为恨，我恨到骨子里；如果你只有毒药，我愿为你倾尽一生。

17. If thought is a disease, I would be suffering from an incurable one; if longing is a feeling, then I have profound emotions; if love is because of hate, I hate to the core of my bones; if you only have poison, I would pour out my entire life for you.

18. 你的话就像最后的冷箭。我看着它们，心都碎了。

18. Your words are like the last cold arrow. I watched them, my heart shattered.

19. 有了地球，月圆月缺；星星和月亮在一起发光；有了你，我的世界变得如此丰富浪漫！

19. With Earth, there are full and waning moons; stars and the moon glow together; with you, my world becomes so rich and romantic!

20. 青春岁月，我们也没办法。如果一切可以重来，也许我会笑着离开。

20. In our youthful years, there was nothing we could do. If everything could be restarted, perhaps I would leave with a smile.

21. 我以为爱情像热水一样，可以源源不断，却像雾一样，挥霍之后就消失了。

21. I thought love was like hot water, constantly flowing, but it's like mist, disappearing after being wasted.

22. 我为爱情疯狂，我依然相信，留着它对我会有用。无论醒着还是睡着，哭着笑着都会心痛。

22. I am obsessed with love, and I still believe it will be useful to keep it. Whether I am awake or asleep, whether I am crying or laughing, my heart aches.

23. 我不介意每天和你一起喝白开水，吃面包，只要你自己倒白开水，亲手切好就行。

23. I don't mind drinking plain water and eating bread with you every day, as long as you pour the plain water yourself and cut it by hand.

24. 你说要敬往事一杯酒，再爱也不回头。实际就算你醉到黄昏独自愁，如果那人伸出手，你还是会跟他走。

24. You said you want to raise a toast to the past, and even if you fall in love again, you won't look back. In reality, even if you get drunk until dusk and sorrow alone, if that person reaches out a hand, you would still follow them.

25. 在我的梦里，有山，有森林，有一群飞鸟，有小溪，有一艘船，有一个亭子，有一个领域的小麦，有一个路径，有一片蓝色的天空，有一个温暖的家，有一个你。

25. In my dreams, there are mountains, forests, a flock of flying birds, a small stream, a boat, a pavilion, a field of wheat in a domain, a path, a blue sky, a warm home, and you.

26. 我们带着说不出的痛苦走过。

26. We walked through with an indescribable pain.

27. 我希望世界上所有的女人都变成你，所以你不需要到处找你：我担心世界上所有的女人都变成你，所以我不能对你放心！

27. I wish all the women in the world were like you, so you wouldn't have to look for her everywhere: I worry that all the women in the world would be like you, so I can't feel at ease with you!

28. 不满意就换，不喜欢就分，不舒服就走，不开心就撤。人生怎么会有那么多痛苦？只是你不放过自己。

28. If you're not satisfied, change it; if you don't like it, split up; if you're uncomfortable, leave; if you're not happy, withdraw. How can there be so much pain in life? It's just that you don't let go of yourself.

29. 不管你是爱是恨是苦是乐，我都会把我心中最温暖最好的地方留给你。只要你敲门，我就会把你抱在怀里，因为我会永远爱你。

29. Whether you love me, hate me, suffer, or enjoy, I will always reserve the warmest and best part of my heart for you. As long as you knock on the door, I will embrace you in my arms, because I will love you forever.

30. 当你以为自己被抛弃的时候，其实吃亏的是对方；因为他失去了一个深爱他的人，而你只是失去了一个不爱你的人。

30. When you think you are being abandoned, the one who really loses out is the other person; because they have lost someone who deeply loved them, while you have only lost someone who did not love you.

31. 从相遇到离开，我欠自己很多，不欠你一分钱。总有一天，我会放下对你所有的执念，然后在街角与你相遇，彼此道别。好久不见。

31. From the moment we met to the time we parted, I owe myself a lot, not a single penny to you. Someday, I will let go of all my attachments to you, and then we will meet at the corner of the street, saying goodbye to each other. Long time no see.

32. 如果我是你的女朋友，我会笨手笨脚地织一条纯羊毛的浅灰色围巾。虽然你会在前几排发现小洞，你也一定会鼓励我说它比恒源祥的更精致。

32. If I were your girlfriend, I would fumble through knitting a pale gray woolen scarf. Although you might find a few little holes in the first few rows, you would definitely encourage me by saying it's more delicate than that from Hengyuan Xiang.

33. 你是好是坏与我无关，我也不在乎。我不会哭，也不用再等那份不属于我的爱了。

33. Whether you are good or bad has nothing to do with me, and I don't care either. I won't cry, and I no longer have to wait for that love that doesn't belong to me.

34. 剪坏你头发的理发店你不会再去，吃坏你肚子的快餐店你不会再去，那个一遍又一遍伤害你的人，你为什么还要爱。

34. You wouldn't go back to the hair salon that cut your hair, or the fast food joint that made you sick. So why do you still love someone who keeps hurting you over and over again?

35. 对不起，没长成你喜欢的样子，没养成你喜欢的性格，没有让你心动的感觉。

35. Sorry, I haven't grown into the shape you like, haven't developed the character you like, and haven't given you the feeling that makes your heart flutter.

36. 我失去了意识，看着爱的极限。我看着地平线，天空无边无际。

36. I lost consciousness, gazing upon the limits of love. I watched the horizon, the sky boundless and endless.

37. 只有令人不快的斧头，没有劈不开的柴火；只有想不到的人，没有不可能的事。总有办法做，总有理由不做！

37. There are only unpleasant axes, but no wood that cannot be split; there are only people who cannot be thought of, but no impossibilities. There is always a way to do it, and always a reason not to!

38. 人生最重要的不是你失去了什么，也不是你还没有得到什么，而是你此刻拥有了什么。别管过去，只想笑过余生。

38. The most important thing in life is not what you have lost, nor what you have not yet gained, but what you have at this moment. Don't worry about the past, just cherish the rest of your life with a smile.

39. 当我一点一点想起你的时候，我的心开始痛得无法呼吸，眼泪止不住往下流。

39. As I slowly recall you, my heart begins to ache so intensely that I can't breathe, and tears keep flowing uncontrollably.

40. 尽我所能的爱是一种挫折。我想留下的，我不能留下。幻灭后该如何选择？

40. To love as much as I can is a form of frustration. There are things I want to leave behind, but I cannot. After disillusionment, how do I choose?

41. 如果你的人生已经处于低谷，那就大胆去走，因为无论你走什么，都是在往上走。

41. If your life has already hit rock bottom, go ahead and take bold steps, because no matter which path you take, it is still moving upwards.

42. 我嘴里坚持着勇敢，眼里的泪水在投降。我可以愚弄别人，但我不能愚弄我自己。原来我没那么强。

42. I mouthed bravery, but my tears were surrendering. I can fool others, but I can't fool myself. It turns out I'm not as strong as I thought.

43. 我喜欢生活中只有纯洁的希望，只有一种稳定和缓慢的成长，喜欢岁月冲淡的色彩，喜欢心中唱出的歌，更喜欢和这个看短信的人做一辈子的伴侣。

43. I like life to be filled only with pure hope, with one steady and slow growth, and I like the colors that years have faded, I like the songs that are sung in my heart, and even more, I like to be a lifelong companion with this person who reads this text message.