“当表白被拒，她却高情商地回应……”

"When the confession was rejected, she responded with high emotional intelligence..."

1. 3别拿青春倒插秧 爱情哪儿有干饭香

1. Don't waste your youth by planting rice seeds upside down; love can never be as satisfying as a hearty meal.

2. 12你知道么，我是处女座的，比较严谨，而你长的太松散了。

2. 12 Do you know? I'm a Virgo, quite meticulous, and you look too relaxed.

3. 国家规定不允许近亲结婚，我们有个共同的母亲，她叫中国。

3. The state stipulates that close kinship marriage is not allowed, and we have a common mother, who is called China.

4. “我觉得我性格有很大的问题，所以并不适合谈恋爱，对不起了。”

. 4. "I think I have a big personality problem, so I'm not suitable for dating. Sorry."

5. 9我不适合当个情人。(废话，没有人会适合当你情人的啦)

5.9 I'm not suited to be a mistress. (What a waste of words, no one is suited to be your mistress anyway.)

6. 高情商的拒绝别人的表白，被别人表白应该是件值得开心的事情，就算对方不是自己喜欢的人，决绝他也不能过于无情，很多人不好意思将拒绝的话说出口，觉得很尴尬。以下高情商的拒绝别人的表白。

6. High emotional intelligence in rejecting someone's confession: Being confessed to should be a happy event. Even if the person is not someone you like, you should not be overly ruthless in rejecting them. Many people feel embarrassed to express a refusal, as they find it awkward. Here are some high emotional intelligence ways to reject someone's confession.

7. 57我觉得我需要更多一点的空间。（我不太想看到你啦）

7. 57 I feel like I need a bit more space. (I'm not very keen on seeing you anymore.)

8. 59我觉得你很乖耶。（穿得俗不拉基的，一看就知道跟你出去不好玩）

8.59 I think you're really cute. (You're dressed so unattractively, it's obvious it wouldn't be fun to go out with you.)

9. 36你不是我喜欢得哪种类型得人，无论你追求我多久，我大概都不会心动，你好好得去找爱你得和你爱得人吧。

9. 36 You're not the type of person I like, no matter how long you pursue me, I probably won't fall for you. Go find someone who loves you and someone you love properly.

10. 52在我心里你就像是妹妹一样，我想我们还是做朋友比较好。

10.52 In my heart, you are like a younger sister to me, I think it's better for us to remain friends.

11. 45上帝为了弥补把你变丑的损失，所以给了你表白的勇气？

11. 45 God gave you the courage to confess your feelings to make up for the loss of your beauty?

12. 12愚人节就是向喜欢的人表白的日子，如果接受了就告诉对方那是认真的，如果被拒绝了就说“愚人节快乐”。

12. April Fool's Day is the day to confess to someone you like, if they accept, tell them it's serious, and if they reject you, say "Happy April Fool's Day."

13. 我还是不是那个你值得去的人。

13. Am I still the person you are worth going to?

14. 当一个男人向女人表白，而女人压根不爱这个男人的时候，真正高情商的女人往往会选择用发信息的方式拒绝对方。有些拒绝的话或是伤感情的话，或许不太方便当面直说。真正高情商的女人非常注意这方面的细节。当她拒绝一个男人的表白时，她不会选择在大庭广众之下拒绝他，因为她不想让他当众出糗或难堪。

14. When a man confesses his feelings to a woman and the woman has no feelings for the man at all, a truly emotionally intelligent woman often chooses to reject him through sending a message. Some words of rejection or hurtful words may not be convenient to say directly in person. A truly emotionally intelligent woman pays great attention to such details. When she rejects a man's confession, she would not choose to do it in public, as she doesn't want to make him embarrassed or uncomfortable in front of others.

15. 月亮不会奔向你 我也不会奔向你 但是满天星辰会陪着你。

15. The moon won't rush towards you, nor will I, but the stars in the sky will accompany you.

16. 1我暂时不想交男朋友。(闪边啦！你还不到我心中帅哥标准的一半)

16. 1 I don't want to have a boyfriend for the time being. (Just give it a break! You're not even half the handsome man I have in mind.)

17. 24男拒绝女的：我不喜欢女人，女拒绝男的：我不喜欢男人。

17. 24 men reject women: I don't like women; women reject men: I don't like men.

18. 8遇到你，总会让我重温童年的快乐。(感觉就像阿姨遇到小弟弟一样)

18. Meeting you always makes me relive the happiness of my childhood. (It feels like an aunt meeting a little brother.)

19. 5我只喜欢矮穷丑，您是高帅富，不好意思，您不达标。

19.5 I only like short, poor, and ugly people, and you are tall, handsome, and wealthy. Sorry, you don't meet the criteria.

20. 我与你之间无关风月，唯有朋友般相处。没有谁配不上谁，只有喜不喜欢，因此感谢抬爱，祝好。

20. There is no romance between us, only friendship. No one is unworthy of the other, it's just about whether we like each other or not. Therefore, I appreciate your kindness and wish you well.

21. 对不起是我太优秀了，让你配不上了，我的问题！

21. Sorry, it's my own fault for being too outstanding, making you feel inadequate, my issue!

22. 56我觉得你很乖耶。（穿得俗不拉基的，一看就知道跟你出去不好玩）

22. 56 I think you're really well-behaved. (You're dressed so ungracefully; it's obvious that it wouldn't be fun to go out with you.)

23. “抱歉，我已经有伴侣了。”或者对他说：“对不起，我心里已经有心仪的对象了。”当你不太好意思直接拒绝一个男人的时候，你可以告诉他你其实已经心有所属。有时候，你还可以对他说一些善意的谎言。当一个男人听到你跟他说，你心里有了别人，或者说你现在已经有伴侣，那么他自然会知难而退，他不会再强求。

23. "Sorry, I already have a partner." Or you can say to him, "I'm sorry, my heart is already taken by someone else." When you're not too comfortable to directly reject a man, you can tell him that you've already found someone you're attached to. Sometimes, you can even tell him some kind-hearted lies. When a man hears you say that your heart is with someone else, or that you already have a partner, he will naturally know to back off. He won't persist any further.

24. 29我是觉得吧，男女之间是真的有纯友谊的，比如我们，对吧？

24. 29 I do believe that there really is pure friendship between men and women, like us, right?

25. “我觉得我是一个特别自私，特别懒的人，觉得自己配不上你，对不起。”

25. "I feel like I'm particularly self-centered and lazy, and I believe I don't deserve you. I'm sorry."

26. 我觉得我们更适合做朋友！

26. I think we're more suited to be friends!

27. 53君心我已知，只恨我无意，望君能自重，来日必有缘。

27. I already know your heart, my only regret is that I am unintentional. I hope you can take care of yourself, for we will surely have the opportunity to meet again in the future.

28. 19知道我为什么喜欢用color而不是colour吗因为我不喜欢"u"。

28. Do you know why I prefer using "color" instead of "colour"? Because I don't like the "u".

29. 我们不合适，但很感谢你的喜欢。这样讲是基于对你我双方负责。

29. We're not a good match, but we are very grateful for your appreciation. This statement is made out of responsibility towards both of us.

30. 45昨天刚拒绝别个，说，我跟我男朋友和好了。

30. 45 Just refused someone yesterday, saying, "I've made up with my boyfriend."

31. 59我对你的感情仅仅是朋友之间的感情，希望你不要误会。

31. 59 My feelings for you are just those of friendship, I hope you don't misunderstand.

32. 感谢您对本公司的喜爱。基于多方考量，您的条件和素质都很优秀，只是与该岗位需求有一定偏差。希望将来有更好的发展。

32. Thank you for your fondness of our company. Based on various considerations, your conditions and qualities are both excellent, but there is a certain discrepancy with the requirements of the position. We hope for better development in the future.

33. 37我们应该给彼此一点缓冲时间。(给你时间快滚，再不走我要翻脸啦)

33. 37 We should give each other some leeway. (If you don't hurry up and leave, I'm going to lose my patience.)

34. 57我还不了解自己的感觉，不想马虎地开始一段恋情。

34. 57 I'm still not aware of my own feelings, and I don't want to start a relationship carelessly.

35. 38你是好人，所以，你不介意再多一张好人卡吧？

35. 38 You are a good person, so, would you mind having one more good person card?

36. 32遇到你，总会让我重温童年的快乐。(感觉就像阿姨遇到小弟弟一样)

36. Meeting you always reminds me of the joy of my childhood (It feels like an auntie meeting a little brother).

37. 25在我心里你就像是妹妹一样，我想我们还是做朋友比较好。

37. 25 In my heart, you are like a sister to me, and I think it's better for us to remain friends.

38. 他：你有男朋友吗？ 我：没有啊！他：真巧我也没有女朋友。我：真不巧，我有女朋友。

38. He: Do you have a boyfriend? Me: No! He: How coincidental, I don't have a girlfriend either. Me: Too bad, I do have a girlfriend.

39. 拒绝一个人，其实是要看你面对的这个人是怎样的性格，毕竟不一样的人性格不同接受度就不容，有的适合委婉的有的适合直接明了的，有的则适合开玩笑的那种。

39. Refusing someone actually reveals the character of the person you are facing, as different people have different personalities and tolerance levels. Some may be suitable for a subtle approach, while others may require directness, and still others might be appropriate for making jokes.

40. 其实女生的第六感是非常准确的，很多女生在一些很小的细节就能够判断出那个男生是不是喜欢自己或者是对自己有好感。如果女生也喜欢他，自然就会给出同样的回应。

40. In fact, girls' intuition is very accurate. Many girls can judge from very small details whether a boy likes them or has a good feeling towards them. If the girl also likes him, she will naturally give the same response.

41. 愿你的思念永远留在我心中。

41. May your thoughts forever remain in my heart.

42. 54我觉得我需要更多一点的空间。(我不太想看到你啦)

42. 54 I feel like I need a bit more space. (I'm not too keen on seeing you anymore)

43. 我有幸迷倒了我老公，可惜我不为所动。

43. I had the honor of charming my husband, but unfortunately, I was not moved by it.

44. 我看到了星星，有了理想化，但我回头看世界，看到了你，所以世界上的一切都被意外遗忘，中间只有你一个人。

44. I saw the stars and had ideals, but when I looked back at the world, I saw you, so everything in the world was unexpectedly forgotten, leaving only you alone in the middle.

45. 20认识你之前我以为自己不是颜控，认识你之后什么都改变了。

45. Before I knew you, I thought I wasn't a face-value person. But after meeting you, everything changed.

46. 36我不是什么都不懂，你做的一切我都看在眼里记在心里。我感觉到你的真诚，谢谢你的真诚。也谢谢你对我的尊重，谢谢你对我的青睐。你很好，只是我不能接受，感情不能勉强。

46. 36 I'm not clueless about everything; I've seen and remembered everything you've done. I feel your sincerity, and thank you for your sincerity. Also, thank you for respecting me and for your favor towards me. You're a good person, but I can't accept it, as emotions cannot be forced.

47. 54我不适合当个情人。(废话，没有人会适合当你情人的啦)

47. 54 I'm not suitable to be a mistress. (Ridiculous, no one is ever suitable to be your mistress, anyway.)

48. 46夜空有那么多的星星，但是我一直找不到我心中最亮的那颗。

48. There are so many stars in the night sky, but I have always been unable to find the brightest one in my heart.

49. 34你好帅好可爱成绩好好好多人追你你是万人迷，你十全十美，我配不上你！

49. 34 You are so handsome and cute, and you have great grades. So many people are chasing after you; you are a magnet for everyone. You are perfect in every way, and I don't feel I am worthy of you!

50. 我想我需要更多的空间。我真的不想见你。

50. I think I need more space. I really don't want to see you.

51. 一个真正高情商的女人，当她拒绝一个男人的时候，她会显得尽量委婉一点，她会给彼此留有一定的余地。这种余地并不是说给男人幻想的空间，或是跟男人暧昧不清，而是给男人一个台阶下，让他不要显得太过尴尬或难堪。真正高情商的女人，当她拒绝一个男人的表白时，她也会设身处地替男人着想，她不会特别粗暴简单地拒绝男人的表白，而是会非常委婉地提醒他：

51. A truly emotionally intelligent woman, when she rejects a man, will try to be as gentle as possible, leaving some room for both parties. This room is not to give men a space for daydreaming or to become ambiguous with them, but to give men a way out so that they do not appear too embarrassed or uncomfortable. A truly emotionally intelligent woman, when she rejects a man's declaration of love, will also consider the man's feelings from his perspective. She will not reject the man's declaration abruptly and simply, but will remind him in a very subtle manner:

52. 16夜空有那么多的星星，但是我一直找不到我心中最亮的那颗。

52. There are so many stars in the night sky, but I have always been unable to find the brightest one in my heart.

53. 2512就要爱，爱她就要大声说出来拒绝爱，继续寻真爱。接受爱，谈恋爱，甜甜蜜蜜幸福爱。祝你勇敢一点，迈开大步狠狠爱。

53. Love 2512, and if you love her, say it loud. Refuse love and continue to seek true love. Accept love, have a romance, and enjoy a sweet and happy love. May you be a bit braver, take big steps, and love fiercely.

54. 20如果就这样撩到我，我的男人就不止一个。

54. 20 If that's how you're going to charm me, then my man isn't just one.

55. 23和你一起挺开心的，但是我一直都是把你当朋友。

55. It's been quite enjoyable spending time with you, but I've always regarded you as a friend.

56. 50我不想伤害我们之间的友谊。（我们之间也永远只会有友谊）

56. 50 I don't want to harm our friendship (There will only ever be friendship between us).

57. 26异想天开法：其实火星撞地球都有可能，银河淹掉地球也不是不可能，连伸手摘月亮都能够做到了，何况你说你追求我，怎么不可能呢不过你要等等，毕竟隔了几条银河，不知道我们距离几亿光年，才能遇到你呢你再等等，宇宙是永恒的，和你的等待以及我的态度一样。

57. 26 The Imagination Method: In fact, it's possible for Mars to collide with Earth, and it's not impossible for the Milky Way to submerge Earth either. Even reaching out to pluck the moon is achievable, let alone you saying you are pursuing me. How could it be impossible? But you have to wait, after all, there are several Milky Ways apart, and we don't know how many billion light-years away you are. Keep waiting; the universe is eternal, just like your waiting and my attitude.

58. 2拒绝理由：你喜欢我哪一点，我改还不行吗？这个不可以因为 男：我喜欢你不喜欢我你改啊女。

58. 2 Refusal Reason: If you like something about me, can't I change it? This is not acceptable because: Man: If you like me, why do you make me change? Woman.

59. 44但你的温柔我会铭记在心的。(情圣！光温柔是没用的，还需要钱钱)

59. But I will remember your gentleness in my heart. (Love Saint! Gentleness alone is not enough; money is also needed.)

60. 8我想要的是一份平平淡淡的普通感情，张扬高调的情节不适合我。

60. 8 What I want is a plain and ordinary kind of affection, and flamboyant and noisy plots are not suitable for me.

61. 即然另一方鼓足勇气向你告白，也不必让另一方太尴尬了，但是确立拒绝的意思或是需到的，例如可以说你这个人非常好，先赞美一下另一方，随后得话说我好喜欢你那样的盆友，或是能够彻底以玩笑话的语调说，是不是你在玩历险，随后以玩笑话的语调表明回绝另一方，那样另一方也是有阶梯可下。

61. Since the other party has mustered the courage to confess to you, it is also not necessary to make the other party too embarrassed, but it is necessary to establish the intention of a rejection, for example, you can say that the other person is very good, first praise the other party, and then say that you really like friends like them, or you can completely use a tone of humor and say, "Are you playing a game of adventure?" Then express the refusal to the other party in a humorous tone, so that the other party also has a way down.

62. 35我有喜欢的人了，也可能没有但是我没那种想法所以不行

62. I have someone I like, but maybe I don't. However, I don't have that kind of thought, so it's not possible.

63. 我有幸迷倒了我老公，可惜我没动。

63. I had the chance to charm my husband, but unfortunately, I didn't make a move.

64. 24你连我都看得上，还有什么事情做不出来？

64. If you can appreciate me, what else can't you accomplish?

65. 50我一个月生活费10w我不敢谈恋爱，我怕他影响我做梦。

65. 50: I spend 100,000 RMB on my monthly living expenses, and I'm too scared to date. I'm afraid it will interfere with my dreams.

66. “我觉得你挺好的，你特别优秀。我觉得我自己配不上你。”

66. "I think you're pretty good, you're especially outstanding. I feel like I'm not worthy of you."

67. 17请带着星星 月亮 再来我眼里。

67. Please come back to my eyes with stars and the moon.

68. 我不值得你爱。有更好的人在等着你。

68. I am not worthy of your love. There are better people waiting for you.

69. 心有所属，但不是你。

69. Heart belongs to someone, but not to you.

70. 不好意思，你来晚啦，我已经有喜欢的人了，祝你早日找到属于自己的幸福吧！

70. Sorry, you're late. I've already liked someone. May you find your own happiness soon!

71. 一个真正高情商的女人，当她遇到一个她压根不喜欢的男人向她表白时，她一般不会用一种特别嫌弃或厌恶的语气一口回绝对方，而是懂得给他发好人卡。先是诚恳地向他表达歉意，声明你俩不适合，主要原因在于你觉得他人特别好，只是你配不上他。同时，你也希望他可以遇到比你更好的人，他也值得拥有更好的爱情。

71. A truly emotionally intelligent woman, when she encounters a man she has no interest in who declares his affection to her, she generally wouldn't reject him outright with a tone of disdain or disgust. Instead, she knows how to give him a "good person card." She starts by sincerely expressing her apologies and stating that the two of you are not a good match, mainly because she thinks he is such a great person and that she doesn't feel worthy of him. At the same time, she also hopes that he can meet someone better than her, and that he deserves to have a better love.

72. 其实这算是对对方肯定的基础上，然后表明自己对表白的拒绝，不是因为你这个人不优秀，只是因为两个人做情侣不合适而已。

72. In fact, this is a way of affirming the other person's qualities before expressing your rejection of the confession, not because you are not outstanding, but simply because the two of you are not suitable as a couple.

73. 27你给我个时间考虑。（没给我时间，我怎麽跑得掉）

73. Give me some time to think about it. (If you didn't give me time, how could I escape?)

74. 19我对你没有感觉，我不能接受你，不想用这种假情来欺骗你，欺骗自己。所以还是让我们当朋友吧！

74. 19 I have no feelings for you, I can't accept you, and I don't want to deceive you or myself with this false affection. So let's be friends instead!

75. 25这样吧，等什么时候国足拿了世界杯冠军，我就答应你的表白。

75. Well, let's wait until the national football team wins the World Cup championship, then I'll agree to your confession of love.

76. 39我现在不想考虑恋爱的问题，我们现在的主要任务是学习。

76. 39 I don't want to think about love issues right now; our main task at this moment is to study.

77. 34头向脸求婚，脸坚决拒绝，头问这是为什么，脸看着别处：你喜欢改头换面，对感情不专一。

77. The head proposes marriage with a face, but the face firmly declines. The head asks why, and the face looks elsewhere: "You like a change of face and are not faithful to your feelings."

78. 你有你的生活，我有我的旅程，前方还有人等着你。

78. You have your life, and I have my journey. There are still people waiting for you ahead.

79. 14我一个月生活费10w我不敢谈恋爱，我怕他影响我做梦。

79. I spend 100,000 yuan on my monthly living expenses, and I'm afraid to get into a relationship. I'm scared it will interfere with my dreams.

80. 基本上在平时的相处，或者是通过小细节的观察中，就能够知道一个人的人品或者是性格，两个人合不合适也就很容易看得出来。在面对自己不喜欢的男生向自己表白时，就要说明白自己觉得不合适的原因。不要总是含含糊糊的随便说一通，而是要语气很真诚的跟对方表达自己的意愿。这种情况下也会和对方沟通的比较顺利，容易让对方知难而退。

80. Generally speaking, one can know a person's character or personality through daily interactions or by observing small details. Whether two people are a good match can also be easily determined. When faced with a boy who declares his feelings to you and you don't like him, you should clearly explain the reasons why you think it's not suitable. Don't always be vague and just say something随便, but rather express your willingness to the other person with a very sincere tone. In this situation, communication with the other person will also be smoother, making it easier for them to give up.

81. 最天真:在我心里，你就像姐姐一样。

81. Most innocent: In my heart, you are like a sister to me.

82. 49如果我们早一点认识就好了。（说不定你会早点觉悟）

82. 49 If only we had met earlier. (Maybe you would have realized sooner)

83. 31我不喜欢你，希望您能找到真正属于你的幸福希望你能遇到一个非常优秀的人他比我好，他也喜欢你

83. 31 I don't like you, I hope you can find the true happiness that belongs to you. I hope you can meet someone very outstanding, someone better than me, who also likes you.