探寻“有失必有得”的智慧之光

Seek the wisdom light of "loss leads to gain".

1. 能看悲欢离合，不执着于外长，有得有失，就很好了。

1. Being able to see the joys and sorrows, partings and reunions, not being overly attached to external appearances, with gains and losses, that is already sufficient.

2. 世界充满了奇迹；以史为鉴，才能知得失。在中国两千多年漫长的封建社会中，皇帝是国家的最高统治者，是封建专制统治的象征和代表。时代变了，现在，我家有了小皇帝，我的儿子！

2. The world is full of wonders; only by looking at history can we understand gains and losses. In China's long and enduring feudal society of over two thousand years, the emperor was the highest ruler of the state, the symbol and representative of feudal autocratic rule. Times have changed, and now, I have a little emperor at home, my son!

3. 得与失，你有没有怀疑过，一味的追求，有没有结局？一瞬间，你知道:与光的和谐。

3. Have you ever doubted, in the relentless pursuit of gain and loss, whether there is an end? In a moment, you know: harmony with the light.

4. 虚无的繁华带来了短暂的满足，但在得失之间，快乐并没有减少。

4. The prosperity of nothingness brings temporary satisfaction, but between gains and losses, happiness has not diminished.

5. 人生要记住四个字:不要害怕，不要后悔。不要犹豫选择，想好了就去做，退了就容易错过；得失之前不要着急，是因为跑不掉，不是因为坚持少了；不要浮躁于成败，追来追去都会消散，除了内心的平静，其他都是浮云。如果害怕，只有让；如果你放任它，它就会被打败；输了只会后悔。前半生不要害怕，后半生不要后悔。不要背负太多，智者会死，懦夫会活。

5. Remember four words in life: Do not fear, do not regret. Do not hesitate to make a choice, do it after thinking it through, as hesitation may lead to missing out; do not rush before gains and losses, because it cannot be avoided, not because perseverance is lacking; do not be restless about success or failure, for in the end, everything except inner peace will dissipate. If you are afraid, only yield; if you allow it, it will be defeated; losing will only bring regret. Do not fear in the first half of life, and do not regret in the second half. Do not carry too much burden, as the wise may die, and the coward may live.

6. 有些东西值得失去，因为我们会永远记住它们。

6. There are some things worth losing because we will always remember them.

7. 不计较得失，人生就有所舍弃。不要紧，白与黑，人生酸甜苦辣。

7. Not to count the gains and losses, life involves giving up something. It doesn't matter; there are ups and downs, sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy flavors in life.

8. 尽量把得失成败放在一边，只要尽力对得起自己的心就好。

8. Try to put gains and losses, successes and failures aside, as long as you do your best and can be at peace with your own heart.

9. 要做到内心强大，一个前提就是要低估身外之物的得失。

9. To cultivate inner strength, a prerequisite is to undervalue the gains and losses of things outside oneself.

10. 考场上的每一寸得失都是用生命换来的。

10. Every inch of gain or loss in the exam hall is earned at the cost of life.

11. 当上帝关上一扇门时，他会为你打开一扇窗。

11. When God closes a door, He opens a window for you.

12. 我们不能两者兼得。在我们的生活中，我们总是失去我们所得到的。幸运和不幸的唯一区别是哪个更重要。

12. We cannot have both. In our lives, we always lose what we gain. The only difference between luck and misfortune is which is more important.

13. 只要不计较得失，人生还有什么克服不了的？

13. As long as one does not worry about gains and losses, what can there be in life that cannot be overcome?

14. 人新鲜有坦途，得失总是乱的。没有必要因为一时的收获而暗自庆幸。失去一件东西所带来的巨大痛苦是你的，永远都会到来。

14. People are fresh and on a smooth path, but gains and losses are always chaotic. There is no need to secretly feel relieved because of an immediate gain. The immense pain brought by losing something is yours, and it will always come.

15. 是非在自己，名声在人，不计得失。

15. Whether it is right or wrong is in oneself, and reputation is in others; do not calculate gains and losses.

16. 能看悲欢离合，有一颗开明的心，有得有失，就很好。无法观察和执着于外交部长，得与失，是很不幸的。

16. To be able to see the joys and sorrows, separations and reunions, and to have an open heart, with gains and losses, is good enough. It is very unfortunate to be unable to observe and be obsessed with the foreign minister, gains and losses.

17. 我从未拥有过你一刻，但我感觉我已经失去了你千万次。

17. I have never owned you for a moment, but I feel as though I have lost you a thousand times.

18. 每个人都有自己的生活，有些事不能强求。越看越不开心。我为什么要在乎那些得失？

18. Everyone has their own life, and there are some things that cannot be forced. The more I see, the more unhappy I become. Why should I care about those gains and losses?

19. 知人论世原意是了解一个人，研究他的背景。现在也指鉴定人品好坏，讨论世事得失。

19. The original meaning of "know people and discuss the world" is to understand a person and study their background. Now it also refers to appraising a person's character, good or bad, and discussing the gains and losses of worldly matters.

20. 平凡事物的得失；对错的自由；感激和怨恨是值得的；冷暖，我知道；坎坷的人生之路；曲折的职业阶梯；凡事不要太在意；祝你一生好运！不要停下来，继续追逐梦想；不要放弃，日出会在天黑后到来；记住，成功是下一步；路是苦的，汗水是最美的书；在巅峰欢呼起舞！人生苦短，不要太计较得失！成功会被时间掩盖；失败会在岁月中褪色！生活中最珍贵的东西不是得不到还有已经输了而是现在能把握的幸福！平平淡淡才是真！

20. Gains and losses of the ordinary; the freedom to be right or wrong; gratitude and resentment are worthwhile; the cold and warmth, I know; the rugged path of life; the winding career ladder; don't take everything too seriously; may you have good fortune all your life! Don't stop, keep chasing your dreams; don't give up, the sunrise will come after the darkness; remember, success is the next step; the road is bitter, but sweat is the most beautiful book; cheer and dance on the peak! Life is short, don't be too concerned about gains and losses! Success will be hidden by time; failure will fade with the passage of years! The most precious things in life are not what you can't get or have already lost, but the happiness you can grasp now! Simplicity is the truth!

21. 喜与恶，得与失，生与死，世间万物都是平衡的。

21. Joy and hate, gain and loss, life and death, all things in the world are balanced.

22. 我们心中的得失只有一线之隔。我们所想的是，我们骄傲；如果你认为你迷失了，你就沮丧了。

22. The difference between gain and loss in our hearts is just a thin line. What we think is, we are proud; if you think you are lost, you become despondent.

23. 当你看淡了人生的痛苦，有了积极平衡的心态，即使失意，也不会计较得失、成败。

23. When you become indifferent to the sufferings of life and adopt a positive and balanced mindset, even in times of disappointment, you won't dwell on gains and losses, success or failure.

24. 排除人为之名，无事则静，无事则无声。保持安静和沉默，你将掌握道的位置；追求得失失去人性。待人接物的本性被破坏后，靠宣扬仁义是无法恢复人性的。

24. Remove the name of human intention, be still when there is nothing, and be silent when there is nothing. Maintain quietness and silence, and you will grasp the position of the Tao; pursuing gains and losses loses the human nature. After the nature of dealing with people and things is destroyed, it is impossible to restore human nature by propagating benevolence and righteousness.

25. 找一个湖水清澈的湖，钓几条闲鱼，思考人生的得失，远游尘埃之外；喝一壶老酒，交一群朋友，笑对人生的变化，游走于天地之间祝你永远幸福！

25. Find a lake with crystal-clear water, fish for a few leisurely fish, ponder the gains and losses of life, and travel far beyond the dust of the world; drink a pot of aged wine, make a group of friends, and laugh at the changes of life, wandering between heaven and earth. May you always be happy!

26. 我一直习惯于计算得失。但我终于明白，世界上很多事情都是不合理的。很多是徒劳的，很多是不由自主的。

26. I have always been accustomed to calculating gains and losses. But finally, I understand that many things in the world are unreasonable. Many are in vain, and many are not within our control.

27. 人生的每个阶段都有不同的挑战，有得有失在所难免，但我坚信，晴天一定比阴天多。

27. Each stage of life comes with its own set of challenges, and gains and losses are inevitable, but I firmly believe that there will always be more sunny days than cloudy ones.

28. 在生命的流水中，我感受了很多风霜雨雪，在你我的触碰中，我收获了很多，也失去了很多的愿望。

28. In the flow of life, I have experienced many hardships and adversities. In the touch between us, I have gained much, but also lost many wishes.

29. 成长是一列开往坟墓的火车，不要太在意生活中的得失，只要不让自己后悔就好。

29. Growth is a train heading towards the grave. Don't be too concerned about gains and losses in life, just make sure not to regret anything.

30. 如果太在意自己的得失，痛苦会更严重。试着放下“我好吧！

30. If you pay too much attention to your gains and losses, the pain will be more severe. Try to let go of the thought, "I'm okay!"

31. 得失来自缘分，心中没有增减。

31. Gain and loss come from fate, there is no increase or decrease in the heart.

32. 用一颗浏览的心，去看待人生，所有的得与失，隐与显，都是风景与风情。

32. View life with a wandering heart, and all gains and losses, hidden and visible, are scenery and charm.

33. 人生是一场游戏，买得起的人可以随意收起，得失随之而来。

33. Life is a game. Those who can afford it can play it at will, and gains and losses will follow naturally.

34. 人生得失并存，你有清风，你必还明月。

34. Life involves both gains and losses. If you have the breeze, you must also return the bright moon.

35. 学会韬光养晦，取舍之间，必有得失。谨慎，独立，学会妥协，但也要坚持自己最基本的原则。要明白付出不一定有结果。你可以忘记过去，但你必须放手。

35. Learn to bide one's time and cultivate modesty; there must be gains and losses in the process of choosing. Be cautious, independent, and learn to compromise, but also hold on to your most basic principles. Understand that effort does not always guarantee results. You can forget the past, but you must let go.

36. 人生的得与失，其实是相伴相生的。如果失去了什么，那么命运一定会给你安排另一个更好的。

36. The gains and losses in life are actually interdependent. If you lose something, fate will definitely arrange another better one for you.

37. 如果你现在感到失望和无力，那你以后该怎么办？

37. If you feel disappointed and powerless now, what should you do in the future?

38. 人生是空的，有没有被取代就是人生，得失心态决定了喜怒哀乐。

38. Life is empty; whether it is replaced or not is life itself, and the attitude towards gains and losses determines joy, anger, sadness, and joy.

39. 人生的境界，说到底就是心灵的境界。如果走神，无论走多远，都无法捕捉到生活的真实影像，欣赏到美丽的风景。只有心态的平和，才能造就人性的优雅。这种安静是在得失之后。

39. The realm of life, in the end, is the realm of the soul. If one is distracted, no matter how far one goes, one cannot capture the true image of life or appreciate the beautiful scenery. Only with a peaceful mindset can one cultivate the elegance of human nature. This tranquility comes after gaining and losing.

40. 生活中的得失看似随机，其实都是自己造成的。与其为了昨天的事业而惩罚自己，不如为了明天的果实而修行。

40. Gains and losses in life may seem random, but in fact, they are all caused by ourselves. It is better to practice for the fruits of tomorrow rather than punish ourselves for yesterday's endeavors.