在生活的点滴中，感悟如繁星闪烁，汇聚成一部独特的生命诗篇。让我们一起揭开的序幕，探寻那些藏在平凡日常中的智慧与美好。

In the minutiae of life, insights twinkle like stars, converging into a unique life epic. Let us unveil the curtain together and explore the wisdom and beauty hidden in the ordinary daily life.

1. 二十一、在很长一段时间里，你不会只走过一个人的一生，也不会只走进你的一生。缘分来了，猝不及防；当命运走了，没有什么能阻止它。你唯一能做的就是:见面时，紧紧握住你的手，好好珍惜；当你离开的时候，把它记在心里。

1. Twenty-one, for a long time, you will not only walk through a person's life, nor will you only enter your own life. When fate comes, it comes unexpectedly; when fate leaves, nothing can stop it. The only thing you can do is: when you meet, hold your hand tightly and cherish it well; when you leave, keep it in your heart.

2. 第二，世界上的人不快乐是常事。能对你百依百顺的人，能让你如愿以偿。如果你不在乎，没有人或事能让你满意。活一辈子，就需要心安，何必自寻烦恼。心有一寸宽，路有十尺宽。

2. Secondly, it is common for people in the world to be unhappy. A person who always accommodates you to your wishes can make you feel satisfied. If you don't care, no one or thing can make you content. Living a lifetime, you need peace of mind, why seek trouble for yourself? If your heart is as wide as an inch, the path will be as wide as ten feet.

3. 十七、选择任何一种生活方式，都会有得有失。所以，不要羡慕什么，也不要抱怨什么。你能做的就是保持身体和心灵的平衡。

3. 17. Choosing any lifestyle will have its pros and cons. So, don't envy or complain about anything. What you can do is to maintain a balance between your body and mind.

4. 八、人的感情，有时候就像一件毛衣，一针一线编织的时候，小心翼翼，拆解的时候轻轻一拉就好了，也许只是一个玩笑，也许是一个无心的误会，所有的感情都再也见不到了！朋友不多，但你在风雨中；不管恋爱多久，重要的是要有求必应。

4. The eighth point is that sometimes human emotions are like a sweater, carefully knitted stitch by stitch, and it's easy to unravel with just a gentle pull. Maybe it's just a joke, or perhaps an unintentional misunderstanding, but all the emotions are gone! You may not have many friends, but you have them in the storms; regardless of how long you've been in a relationship, the important thing is to be there for each other.

5. 没有人会陪你一辈子，所以你要适应孤独。没有人会帮你一辈子，所以你要继续奋斗。

5. No one will accompany you for your entire life, so you must get used to being alone. No one will help you forever, so you must continue to strive.

6. 一、所谓人生:就是无尽的谎言，不解的心，挥之不去的牵挂，无尽的起起落落！

6. 1. So-called life: it is endless lies, uncomprehending hearts, unrelenting worries, and endless ups and downs!

7. 十八、成熟的人需要口罩。穿上它，坚定地面对这个世界；脱下来对家人温柔点。

7. 18. Mature people need masks. Wear it firmly to face this world; take it off and be gentle with your family.

8. 十三、但错过的或失去的永远无法弥补，越补越失望。不如接受现实，让它们在你心里彻底过去，但你可以得到新的。

8. Thirteen, what is missed or lost can never be made up for, and the more you try to compensate, the more disappointed you will be. It's better to accept the reality, let them completely pass away in your heart, but you can gain something new.

9. 二十六、会后悔，但不会后悔。会争取，但不会强求。可以低头，但是有底线。会妥协，但是有原则。我希望这能是你。

9. Twenty-six, I will regret, but I will not regret. I will strive, but I will not force. I can bow my head, but I have a bottom line. I will compromise, but I have principles. I hope this can be you.

10. 做人不要想太多。只要你足够努力，不要拼命求人。有时候，想得越多，越焦虑，得到的回报就越少。当你不想要的时候，它会出乎意料的属于你。

10. Don't overthink things. As long as you work hard enough and don't desperately beg others, sometimes the more you think about it, the more anxious you get, and the less reward you receive. When you don't want it, it will surprisingly belong to you.

11. 二十七、有人走了，等了就不回来了。有些人不爱，就是不爱，强求也只是徒劳。有的人很幸福，一眨眼就在一起度过了整整一个永恒。有的人很幸运，牵手一起走了一百年。有些人明明很努力，却什么都改变不了…

11. Twenty-seven, someone has left and they will not return after waiting. Some people don't love, and that's just not love; forcing it is only futile. Some people are very happy, and in a blink of an eye, they have spent a whole eternity together. Some people are very lucky, holding hands and walking together for a hundred years. Some people may try very hard, but they can't change anything...

12. 第四，一辈子不要忘记对你好的人，一辈子不要付出！记住:早上的粥比半夜的酒好，骗你的人会比爱你的人说的更多！

12. Fourth, never forget the people who have been good to you your whole life, and never give without expecting anything in return! Remember: Breakfast porridge is better than a midnight drink, and the person who lies to you will say more than the person who loves you!

13. 二十三、有一个永远不变的道理，那就是你一定要赚到足够多的钱让你安心，让你和你身边的人过上自由自在的生活，让你在失恋的时候更加淡然，只有努力才能让你的世界安心。

13. Twenty-three, there is an eternal truth that you must earn enough money to make you feel at ease, to allow you and the people around you to live a carefree life, to be more indifferent when you are heartbroken, and only through hard work can you make your world feel secure.

14. 七、人生很短，没必要太在意生活，不明白的事情就不明白；有的人猜不到，就不猜；有些人不懂，所以不去想。

14. The seventh point is: Life is short, there is no need to be overly concerned about everyday life. There are things that one does not understand, and so they remain so; there are things that some people cannot guess, so they do not try to guess; there are things that some people do not understand, so they do not think about them.

15. 十一、做人，要有一种内心的宁静，一种紧迫感，一种尴尬。最美的你不是如夏花般诞生，而是在时间的长河中，从容淡定。

15. Eleventh, in life, one should have an inner tranquility, a sense of urgency, and a touch of awkwardness. The most beautiful thing about you is not that you were born like a summer flower, but that you are composed and calm in the long river of time.

16. 十二、不要总受别人委屈，这个世界上值得你弯腰的人不多。弯久了只会让人习惯你的低调，你的不重要。

16. Do not always endure others' injustice. There are not many people in this world who are worth you bending down for. Bending too much will only make others get used to your modesty and your unimportance.

17. 十六、尺有所短，寸有所长，时刻保持一颗谦卑的心，让自己更加完美。人生没有完美，只有完美；时间没有完美，只有完美。

17. Sixteen, as the saying goes, "An inch has its shortness, a foot has its length," always maintain a humble heart to make yourself more perfect. There is no perfection in life, only the pursuit of perfection; there is no perfection in time, only the pursuit of perfection.

18. 第三，不是所有人都愿意承受你的负能量，也不是所有人都愿意倾听你的焦虑。只有真正爱你的人才会对你的处境感同身受。更多的人只是把你的痛苦当成一个笑话。

18. Thirdly, not everyone is willing to bear your negative energy, nor is everyone willing to listen to your anxiety. Only those who truly love you will empathize with your situation. More people just take your pain as a joke.

19. 十九，你恋爱了几个月，就想一辈子。交个朋友，对你好一点点，就想来回一辈子。难怪你的委屈这么重，这么难过。这是清白的代价。

19. You've been in love for a few months and want it to last a lifetime. You befriend someone and they treat you a bit better, and you want to be together for life. No wonder you feel so wronged and so sad. This is the price of innocence.

20. 生活就像一扇门。有人对内心的黑暗悲观，有人对内心的宁静乐观。有人担心门外的风雨，有人为门外的自由而高兴。

20. Life is like a door. Some people are pessimistic about the darkness within, while others are optimistic about the tranquility within. Some worry about the storms and rains outside the door, while others are happy for the freedom outside.

21. 十、抽烟让男人放松，化妆让女人舒服。但最后，烟瘾过后，男人要操心了；如果卸了浓妆，那女的应该是丑或者丑。

21. Ten, smoking makes men relax, and makeup makes women feel comfortable. But in the end, after the craving for cigarettes subsides, men have to worry; if the heavy makeup is removed, the woman should be ugly or unattractive.

22. 二十二、一个人出生了，人们不知道他的未来，但说恭喜。人死了，人不知道死后的世界，却说是可惜。

22. Twenty-second, when a person is born, people do not know of his future, yet they say congratulations. When a person dies, people do not know of the world after death, yet they say it is a pity.

23. 一个人的性格来自内心，脾气来自身边的人。如果一个人脾气不好，那是因为不够努力。如果一个人性格不好，那是因为自知力差。

23. A person's character comes from within, and their temperament comes from those around them. If someone has a bad temperament, it's because they haven't tried hard enough. If someone has a poor character, it's because of a lack of self-awareness.

24. 17岁的你长得不漂亮，可以怪妈妈没有遗传好看；但是到了30岁，你还是不漂亮，那只能怪你自己，因为在这么长的时间里，你没有给自己的生活注入新的东西。居里夫人

24. At 17, you're not pretty, and you can blame it on your mother not passing on good looks; but by the time you're 30, if you're still not beautiful, then you can only blame yourself. Because in all that time, you haven't infused new things into your life. - Madame Curie

25. 十五、吃好，按时睡觉；不要抱怨，要善良；坚持做自己喜欢的事；用心去感受生活的每一个细节，沉淀再沉淀，因为你想成为一个温柔而强大的人。

25. Fifteen, eat well, go to bed on time; don't complain, be kind; persist in doing what you like; immerse yourself in feeling every detail of life, sink deeper and deeper, because you want to become a gentle and strong person.

26. 九、春花秋月不可兼得，果花不可兼得。你不可能得到所有的好处。你要学会权衡利弊，学会放弃一些东西，然后你才能得到一些东西。

26. Nine, you cannot have both spring flowers and autumn moons; you cannot have both fruit flowers. You cannot have all the benefits at once. You need to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to let go of some things, and then you can get some things.

27. 二十五、被度量是人生的最高境界；做事有尺度，是人生最重要的问题；只有把握好做人的尺度，掌握好日积月累做事的尺度，才能在尺度中达到人生的高度。适度是生活的关键。

27. Twenty-Five: Being measured is the highest境界 of life; having a sense of measure in one's actions is the most important issue in life; only by grasping the measure of being a person and the measure of accumulating actions day by day, can one achieve the height of life through measure. Moderation is the key to life.