人生感悟，字字珠玑。岁月流转，情感永恒。

Life insights, every word is a pearl. As time flows, emotions are eternal.

1. 对不起是一种真诚，无所谓是一种风度。如果付出了真心，却得不到风度，那只能说明对方的无知和庸俗。

1. Apologies are an expression of sincerity, and nonchalance is a matter of demeanor. If you have given your whole heart but do not receive the demeanor, it can only indicate the ignorance and vulgarity of the other person.

2. 当你不再需要通过别人的认可来证明自己的时候，你才是真正的强大。

2. You are truly strong when you no longer need to prove yourself through others' recognition.

3. 所谓幸福，就是傻子遇到傻子，引来无数人的羡慕嫉妒。起伏很简单。

3. So-called happiness is when fools meet fools, attracting the envy and jealousy of countless people. The ups and downs are very simple.

4. 不要让金钱成为障碍。美好的生活没那么贵。开始实现你最近可行的梦想。

4. Do not let money be a barrier. A good life doesn't have to be expensive. Start to make your nearest feasible dreams come true.

5. 没有人想故意改变主意。他爱你的时候真的爱你，不爱你的时候真的不爱你。

5. No one wants to change their mind deliberately. When he loves you, he really loves you, and when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you.

6. 世事洞明见多识广，人的修养是文章。大部分中年人都被世俗生活蒙上了青苔，棱角未必能完全磨平。只是不太容易透露给别人。

6. Understanding the world and being knowledgeable are the essence of a person's cultivation, which is akin to the composition of an article. Most middle-aged people have been covered with moss by the secular life, and their sharp edges may not be completely smoothed out. However, it is not easy to reveal them to others.

7. 不后悔，就是做好三件事:第一，懂得选择；二是明白如何坚持；第三是懂得珍惜。不管山有多陡，总会给不怕困难的人留下一条攀登的道路。

7. To have no regrets, one must do three things: First, learn to choose; second, understand how to persevere; and third, learn to cherish. No matter how steep the mountain, there will always be a path for those who do not fear difficulties.

8. 如果你把一条鱼放在干净的水里，它会自由地生活。如果你把它放在脏水里，它会很快死去。

8. If you place a fish in clean water, it will live freely. If you place it in dirty water, it will die quickly.

9. 如果你想感受阳光，你必须走出房间。想要感受生活的美好，就要放下痛苦。

9. If you want to feel the sunshine, you must step out of the room. To experience the beauty of life, you need to let go of your pain.

10. 有一段时间，我会突然和一些人关系很好，甚至理解的方式也突然莫名其妙。那时候我们一起唱歌，一起玩，一起谈感情。

10. For a while, I would suddenly become very close with some people, and my understanding of them would also be inexplicably sudden. Back then, we would sing together, play together, and talk about our feelings.

11. 梦见大漠，别在卫城消磨时光。长亭，寂寞人近在咫尺，悲听，阳光第四声。而行是人，劝诫，人不停。

11. Dream of the vast desert, don't waste time in the acropolis. At the long pavilion, the lonely person is just a stone's throw away, the sorrowful music, the fourth sound of the sun. And the one who walks is a person, the advice is, people never stop.

12. 热爱生活。记住，太阳每天都是新的，不要辜负美丽的晨光。

12. Love life. Remember, the sun is new every day, do not waste the beautiful morning light.

13. 生活总是这样。你想要的总是姗姗来迟，直到你不再期待的那一刻。所以不要着急，你要等。

13. Life is always like this. What you want always arrives late, until the moment you no longer expect it. So don't be in a hurry, you have to wait.

14. 生活要合拍，做人要低调，做事要合拍，走路要健康，哼着快乐的曲子，幸福要高调，祝幸福最有格调，不走调！

14. Live in harmony, be modest in demeanor, do things in tune, walk healthily, hum happy tunes, make happiness loud and proud, wishing for the most stylish happiness, never out of tune!

15. 我从来不去想自己喜欢什么样的人，因为很多标准会被你遇到的那个人颠覆。

15. I never think about what kind of person I like, because many standards can be overturned by the person you meet.

16. 不要吝啬你的爱，敞开心扉，多付出，你会发现你已经沐浴在爱里了。

16. Do not be stingy with your love, open your heart, give more, and you will find that you are already immersed in love.

17. 爱情有时候就像醉酒的感觉。头脑明明清醒，行为却失控。

17. Love sometimes feels like being drunk. The mind is clear, but the behavior is out of control.

18. 最怕三年后一辈子不见面。所以，请珍惜那些与你的青春擦肩而过的人。

18. I'm most afraid of not seeing anyone for the rest of my life after three years. So, please cherish those who brush past you during your youth.

19. 你不快乐是因为你没有好好爱自己，你经常因为别人而消耗自己。

19. You are not happy because you do not love yourself well, you often exhaust yourself for others.

20. 在懂得珍惜的人眼里，爱情会像钻石一样闪闪发光，但在不懂的人眼里，它永远是一块普通的石头。

20. In the eyes of those who know how to cherish it, love shines like a diamond, but to those who do not understand, it will always be an ordinary stone.

21. 做没做过的事叫成长，做不想做的事叫改变，做不敢做的事叫突破。心里只有两件事:一是要优秀，二是等你。你很好，我也不差。

21. Doing things that haven't been done before is called growth, doing things you don't want to do is called change, and doing things you dare not do is called breakthrough. In my heart, there are only two things: one is to be outstanding, and the other is waiting for you. You are good, and I'm not bad either.

22. 人在一生中会遇到很多令人心动的人，可能会误以为自己喜欢。其实只是一瞬间的善意。毕竟心不是答案，头脑才是！

22. In one's lifetime, people may encounter many heartwarming individuals, and might mistakenly believe they have a liking for them. In reality, it's just a momentary act of kindness. After all, the heart is not the answer; it's the mind!

23. 生气是没有用的。这个问题仍然需要解决。生闷气没用，要当面告诉对方。不说出来就明白了。是一种默契。说出来你才明白。是尊重。我还是不明白。是路人。

23. Getting angry is no use. This issue still needs to be resolved. Holding in your anger is useless; you should tell the other person directly. If you don't say it, they'll understand. It's a mutual understanding. You only understand it when you express it. It's a sign of respect. I still don't understand. I'm just a passerby.

24. 父母在生活中还是有去处的，父母只有走向生活才有回家的路。

24. Parents still have a place in life. It is only by embracing life that parents find their way home.

25. 因为我知道我不能没有你，所以我会更加珍惜。

25. Because I know that I cannot do without you, I will cherish you even more.

26. 普通人听你的，朋友会听你的，好朋友会听你没说的。

26. Ordinary people will listen to you, friends will listen to you, and good friends will listen to what you don't say.

27. 后悔是一种消耗精神的情绪。后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误，所以不要后悔。

27. Regret is an emotion that drains the spirit. Regret is a greater loss than the loss itself, a greater mistake than the mistake, so do not regret.

28. 既然不会说话，不如一笑而过；既然放不下，不如心平气和。

28. Since it's impossible to speak, might as well smile past it; since it can't be let go, might as well remain calm in the heart.

29. 我跟你开过一次口，你没帮我。我再也不会向你开口了。不管是谁，我感谢你在我最需要你的时候掉链子。

29. I have asked you for help once, and you didn't assist me. I will never ask you for help again. I am grateful to you for failing me when I needed you the most.

30. 我们爱一个人的时候，会想起一些和他有关的画面。失去他之后，只要我一想，他就会出现，他就会出现在那些画面里。

30. When we love someone, we remember certain images related to them. After losing them, as soon as I think of them, they appear, and they appear in those images.