1. 如果你赞同以上说法，就请留言。这样可以让更多的人知道这些道理。如果你还要补充，更有留言，可以让人知道更多的道理。如果你不赞同的话，同样要留言，因为你更有道理。与其说你爱一个人，不如说爱其中的痛苦。

1. If you agree with the above statements, please leave a comment. This way, more people can learn about these truths. If you have more to add, even more comments, it can help others understand more principles. If you disagree, you should leave a comment as well, because you may have a point. It's more about loving the pain within someone than just loving them.

2. 想你不会欠费，爱你不会停机，我是你的手机，紧贴你的身体，永远在你的服务区，为你爱的短信息。

2. I hope you won't run out of credit, and I love you so much that I won't go offline. I am your mobile phone, closely attached to your body, always within your service area, sending you the text messages of love.

3. 我拼了命的让你注意我，最后才发现，是自己太自作多情了。再怎么感同身受，也只有一瞬间。再苦再累再痛再难熬，只有也只能自己撑过。

3. I tried so hard to catch your attention, only to realize in the end that it was all too much of myself. No matter how deeply I empathize, it only lasts for a moment. No matter how bitter, tired, painful, or hard it is to endure, it's only I who can and must get through it.

4. 彼此都有意而不说出来是爱情的最高境界。因为这个时候两人都在尽情的享受媚眼，尽情的享受目光相对时的火热心理，尽情的享受手指相碰时的惊心动魄。一旦说出来，味道会淡许多，因为两人同意以后，所有的行为都是已被许可，已有心理准备的了，到最后渐渐会变得麻木。

4. The highest level of love is when both parties have the intention but do not express it. Because at this moment, both are fully enjoying the flirtatious glances, the fiery emotions when their eyes meet, and the thrilling sensation when their fingers touch. Once it is said out loud, the taste becomes much fainter, because after both parties agree, all actions are already permitted and mentally prepared, and eventually, it may lead to numbness.

5. 爱情有着奇妙的魔力，它使一个人为另一个人所倾倒。——瑟伯与怀特

5. Love has a wonderful magic that makes one person be captivated by another. —Sherwood and White

6. 真诚的爱情的结合是一切结合中最纯洁的。——卢梭

6. The union of sincere love is the purest of all unions. — Rousseau

7. 没有爱情的人生是什么？是没有黎明的长夜！——彭斯

7. What is life without love? It is an endless night without dawn! - Burns

8. 人只应当忘记自己而爱别人，这样才能安静、幸福和高尚。——列夫·托尔斯泰

8. A person should only forget themselves and love others, in this way they can achieve tranquility, happiness, and nobility. – Leo Tolstoy

9. 爱情真的是两个人的事情，主动久了会累，在乎久了会崩溃，沉默久了会受罪，想念久了会流泪。一直都想告诉你，其实我过得没那么好。还是会经常想你，经常梦见你，只是时间让我学会了闭嘴。因为，孤独是常态，很多路都要一个人走，熬过去就好了。

9. Love is truly a matter between two people. Being proactive for too long can be tiring, caring for too long can lead to collapse, staying silent for too long can be painful, and missing someone for too long can bring tears. I've always wanted to tell you that I'm not doing as well as I might seem. I still often think of you and often dream about you, but time has taught me to be silent. Because, loneliness is the norm, many paths have to be walked alone, and once you endure it, it gets better.

10. 从前，有一对非常恩爱的夫妻，男的叫我爱你，女的叫我不爱你。一天上山女的不小心掉下了山崖。请问剩下的男的叫什么？

10. Once upon a time, there was a very loving couple. The man kept calling out "I love you," while the woman kept calling out "I don't love you." One day, as they were climbing a mountain, the woman accidentally fell off the cliff. What should the remaining man be called?

11. 31人这辈子最可悲的是道理明白却执迷不悟。最可恨的是爱来爱去但真正在乎的其实是自己。最后悔的是为了世俗错过了本该美好的时光。最遗憾的是很简单的东西却给不了彼此。

11. The most tragic thing in life for 31 people is knowing the truth but stubbornly not realizing it. The most hateful thing is to love and love but to care about oneself in the end. The most regrettable thing is to miss the beautiful time that should have been beautiful for the sake of the world. The most regretful thing is that simple things cannot be given to each other.

12. 论多么相爱，无论此刻如何情深似海，我们终有一天会别离，那些缠绵，深情，炽热，疯狂的一切切，都已成为过往，而我们，回不去了。

12. No matter how deeply in love we are, no matter how passionately affectionate we are at this moment, we will eventually have to part ways. All that passionate love, deep affection, intense passion, and wild fervor have all become things of the past, and for us, there's no going back.

13. 一只野兽受了伤，它可以自己跑到一个山洞躲起来，然后自己舔舔伤口，自己坚持，可是一旦被嘘寒问暖，它就受不了。

13. A wild beast gets injured, and it can run by itself to a cave to hide, then lick its wounds by itself and endure. However, once it is consoled and comforted, it can no longer bear it.

14. 什么叫快乐？就是掩饰自己的悲伤对每个人微笑。

14. What is happiness? It is to smile at everyone while concealing one's own sadness.

15. 我告诉你，爱神是万物的第二个太阳，他照到哪里，哪里就会春意盎然。——查普曼

15. I tell you, the God of Love is the second sun of all things; where He shines, there is springtime. — Chapman

16. 爱情之酒甜而苦。两人喝，甘露；三人喝，酸醋；随便喝，要中毒。——陶行知

16. The wine of love is sweet and bitter. When shared by two, it is nectar; when shared by three, it becomes vinegar; and when drunk carelessly, it can be poisonous. — Tao Xingzhi

17. 用一秒钟给你惊喜，用一分钟给你感动，用一小时给你浪漫，用一天给你温暖，用一月陪你温馨，用一年和你开心，用一生去爱你！用一个最热烈的吻送给你最真诚的爱！

17. Surprise you in a second, move you in a minute, romance you in an hour, warm you in a day, accompany you with warmth in a month, be happy with you in a year, and love you with all my life! Give you my most passionate kiss to express my most sincere love!

18. 我们都会遇到很多人，会告别很多人，会继续往前走，也许还会爱上那么几个人，弄丢那么几个人，关键在于，谁愿意为你停下脚步。

18. We will all meet many people, say goodbye to many, and continue moving forward, perhaps even fall in love with a few, lose a few. The key is, who is willing to stop for you.

19. 突如其来的爱情却需要最长久的时间才能治愈。——拉布吕耶尔

19. Love that comes unexpectedly requires the longest time to heal. - La Bruyère

20. 说是寂寞的秋的清愁，说是辽远的海的相思。假如有人问我的烦忧，我不敢说出你的名字。

20. It is said to be the clear melancholy of a lonely autumn, or the longing of a distant sea. If someone asks me about my troubles, I dare not utter your name.

21. 有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？

21. Some say that in love, one should choose someone they like, and for marriage, one should choose someone who likes them back, but both views are one-sided. What is there to love about a lover who does not like you? How can you live with a wife you yourself do not like for a lifetime?

22. 晚上，那点疼就出来了，先是失神片刻，然后五脏六腑的神经才一齐苏醒过来，万箭穿心。

22. At night, that pain emerged, first there was a moment of distraction, then the nerves of the five internal organs all woke up at once, feeling like a thousand arrows piercing the heart.

23. 13有些的时候，正是为了爱才悄悄躲开。躲开的是身影，躲不开的却是那份默默的情怀。

23. Sometimes, it is precisely for love that one quietly withdraws. What withdraws is the silhouette, but what cannot be avoided is that silent affection.

24. 自己想要的东西，要么奋力直追，要么干脆放弃。别总是逢人就喋喋不休的表决心或者哀怨不断，做别人茶余饭后的笑点。慢慢的，我也学着放下了。不是我变了，是我真的无能为力了，我认输了，我折腾不动了。

24. If there is something you want, either pursue it with all your might or just give up. Don't always talk endlessly about your resolutions or complain ceaselessly, becoming the subject of others' laughter during their leisure time. Slowly, I too have learned to let go. It's not that I have changed, but I truly have no power left, I have admitted defeat, I can't keep struggling anymore.

25. 16同一句话，有人说你哈哈一笑，有人说你却很介意。同样的离开，有些人你只会当路过，有些人你却痛不欲生。

25. The same sentence, some say you laugh heartily, while others say you take it to heart. The same departure, for some it's just a passing by, but for others, it's a pain that's almost unbearable.

26. 爱除自身外无施与，除自身外无接受。——纪伯伦

26. Love gives itself away, and itself alone it takes back. — Khalil Gibran

27. 我不知道该说什么，我只是突然在那一刻很想念她。《开往春天的地铁》

27. I don't know what to say; I just suddenly missed her at that moment.

28. 你没挽留，我没回头，如此余生各自安好，也没有谁不好，真的只是时间不凑巧。

28. You didn't try to keep me, and I didn't turn back. So for the rest of our lives, let's live in peace. No one is bad; it's truly just that the timing wasn't right.

29. 15你之所以过得太累，主要源于你太过于敏感，又太过于心软。

29. The main reason why you are too tired is that you are too sensitive and too soft-hearted.

30. 爱神奏出无声旋律，远比乐器奏出的悦耳动听。——托·布朗

30. Love plays the music softly, far more sweetly than the instruments do.—T. Brown

31. 爱情使是非概念混淆不清；强烈的爱情和骄傲的野心都是没有疆界的。——约·德莱顿

31. Love confuses the concepts of right and wrong; intense love and proud ambition both have no bounds. — John Dryden

32. 有你陪伴的日子里：夏天是凉爽的;冬天是温暖的;白开水是甜的;大米饭是香的;每天是晴朗的;大地是平坦的;世界是美好的;我是最幸福的。

32. On days with you by my side: Summer is cool; winter is warm; plain water tastes sweet; rice is fragrant; every day is bright and clear; the earth is flat; the world is beautiful; and I am the happiest.

33. 爱情是自由自在的，而自由自在的爱情是最真切的。——丁尼生

33. Love is free and easy, and love that is free and easy is the most sincere. — Tennyson

34. 回家的路上我哭了，眼泪再一次崩溃了。无能为力这样走着，再也不敢骄傲奢求了。我还能够说些什么，我还能够做些什么？我好希望你会听见，因为爱你我让你走了

34. On my way home, I cried, and my tears once again broke free. Unable to bear walking like this, I no longer dared to be proud and make excessive demands. What more can I say, what more can I do? I so wish you would hear, because I let you go because I love you.

35. 想见你的人，跋山涉水也总会来到你身边，不想见你的人，你走到他楼下他也懒得推开窗，真爱你的人，不怕麻烦也不忙。

35. If someone wants to see you, they will always find a way to come to you, no matter the distance; if someone doesn't want to see you, you could walk right past their building and they wouldn't even bother to open the window. If someone truly loves you, they won't mind the trouble and they won't be too busy.

36. 6幸福，就是当激情退去、容颜衰老，牵你的还是那双不怨悔的手；就是当财富散尽、一无所有，陪你的还是那颗不回头的心。

36.6 Happiness is that pair of hands that still hold you, uncomplaining, when passion fades and youth fades; and that heart that remains unwavering beside you, when wealth is dispersed and you have nothing left.

37. 人一辈子也无法心心相印，他们孤独的只剩下肉体和金钱的交换了。所以，请等待那个对你生命有特殊意义的人。

37. People cannot find a heartfelt connection throughout their lives; they are left with nothing but the exchange of bodies and money. So, wait for that person who has a special meaning in your life.

38. 有爱慰籍的人，无惧于任何事物，任何人。——法·彭沙尔

38. Those who are comforted by love are fearless of any thing, any person. - French: Poncelet

39. 爱是生命的火版焰，没有它，权一切变成黑夜。——罗兰

39. Love is the flame of life; without it, everything turns into darkness. — Roland

40. 为着品德而去眷恋一个情人，总是一件很美的事。希腊。柏拉图

40. It is always a beautiful thing to cherish a lover for their virtue. Greece. Plato.

41. 30爱到分才显珍贵，很多人都不懂珍惜拥有、只到失去才看到，其实那最熟悉的才是最珍贵的、

41. It's only when love is divided that its value becomes apparent. Many people don't understand the importance of cherishing what they have, only realizing its worth when it's lost. In fact, the most familiar is often the most precious.

42. 爱情有如佛家的禅——不可说，不可说，一说就是错。——三毛

42. Love is like Zen in Buddhism – it cannot be said, cannot be said; if said, it is wrong. — Sanmao

43. 一个毫无情趣的女人，就算她穿着无领无袖的低胸装，也是不会和性感搭界的吧。过度的折腾对女人来说，从容颜到心灵，只会加速衰老。

43. A woman without any taste, even if she is wearing a low-cut top without sleeves, would not be associated with sexiness, would she? Over-the-top折腾for women, from the outside to the inside, can only accelerate aging.

44. 感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。——安妮宝贝

44. Sometimes emotions are just a matter of one person. It has nothing to do with anyone else. To love or not to love, one must decide for oneself. — Annie Baby

45. 说到底，爱情就是一个人的自我价值在别人身上的反映。——爱默生

45. In the end, love is the reflection of one's self-worth in another person. — Emerson

46. 爱是包容而不是放纵，爱是关怀而不是宠爱，爱是相互交融而不是单相思，爱是百味而不全是甜蜜。

46. Love is about tolerance, not indulgence; love is about care, not pampering; love is about mutual blending, not one-sided longing; love is a mix of flavors, not all sweetness.

47. 友谊要像爱情一样才温暖人心，爱情要像友谊一样才牢不可破。——穆尔

47. Friendship should be as warm as love to warm the heart, and love should be as unbreakable as friendship to be indestructible. - Moore

48. 水会流失，火会熄灭，而爱情却能和命运抗衡。——纳撒尼尔·李

48. Water will run out, fire will be extinguished, but love can stand up against fate. — Nathaniel Lee

49. 想你,想你,好想你,找个画家画下你,把你贴在杯子里,每天喝水亲亲你!

49. Miss you, miss you, really miss you, find a painter to paint you, stick you on the cup, and kiss you every time I drink water!

50. 爱就像两条平行的轨道,并肩向前,永不分离!不论前方是风霜还是雨雪,相爱的人永远在一起

50. Love is like two parallel tracks, side by side, never to be separated! Whether ahead there is wind, frost, rain, or snow, lovers are always together.

51. 爱是纯洁的，爱的内容里，不能有一点渣滓；爱是至善至诚的，爱的范围里，不能有丝毫私欲。卢莎公爵夫人

51. Love is pure; there can be no bit of impurity in its content. Love is the highest form of goodness and sincerity; within its scope, there must be no trace of selfish desire. Duchess of Lusha.

52. 我还是喜欢我自己一个人，没辜负，没牵挂，没感动，也没失望。最深的孤独不是长久的一个人，而是心里没有了任何期望。我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾，殊不知制造更多遗憾的，却偏偏是爱情。

52. I still prefer to be on my own, without any regrets, attachments, emotions, or disappointment. The deepest loneliness is not being alone for a long time, but having no expectations in one's heart. I thought love could fill the gaps in life, but little did I know that love itself is the one that creates more regrets.

53. 谁口口声声说“我不爱”，谁就在爱。——奥维德

53. Who constantly says "I do not love," shows that they do love. - Ovid

54. 爱就是充实了的生命，正如盛满了酒的酒杯。——泰戈尔

54. Love is the fullness of life, just as a cup filled with wine is full. – Rabindranath Tagore

55. 爱情是一条规律，肉欲是一个陷阱，醉和嗜酒成瘾是不同的，醉是要某一个女人，嗜酒成瘾是要所有的女人。——雨果

55. Love is a rule, lust is a trap, intoxication and alcoholism are different. Intoxication is for one particular woman, alcoholism is for all women. — Victor Hugo

56. 爱情的欢乐虽然是甜美无比，但只有在光荣与美德存在的地方才能生存。——古尔内尔

56. The joy of love is sweet beyond measure, but it can only survive in the presence of glory and virtue. - Gurnell

57. 曾经我们都以为自己可以为爱情死，其实爱情死不了人，它只会在最疼的地方扎上一针，然后我们欲哭无泪，我们辗转反侧，我们久病成医，我们百炼成钢。一直以为，过不去的，终究，还是远了，一直以为忘不掉的，终究，记不起了。

57. Once we all thought we could die for love, but in fact, love cannot kill a person. It only stabs a needle into the most painful spot, then we are left with tears in our eyes and no words to express our sorrow, tossing and turning restlessly, turning our long illness into a form of medicine, and our countless trials into unbreakable steel. I always thought, what couldn't be overcome would eventually fade away into the distance. I always thought, what couldn't be forgotten would eventually be forgotten.

58. 有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙，你在她身边痴心了若干年，她都不会爱你，但一旦你喜欢上了别人，她就忍受不了了，发现自己原来是喜欢你的。

58. Sometimes a girl's psychology is very delicate. You may be obsessed with her for several years, but she won't love you. However, once you start liking someone else, she can't bear it and realizes that she actually likes you.

59. 21生活不简单，尽量简单过。时间就是一颗药，你掌握好了它便是解药，你肆意挥霍它便是毒药。

59. Life is not simple, try to live simply. Time is a medicine; if you master it, it's a cure, but if you squander it, it's poison.

60. 爱是亘古长明的灯塔，它定晴望着风暴却兀不为动，爱就是充实了的生命，正如盛满了酒的酒杯。泰戈尔

60. Love is a lighthouse that shines eternally, gazing steadfastly at the storm yet unmoved. Love is a life filled to the brim, just like a cup brimming with wine. - Tagore

61. 14如果你想要驯服一个人，就要冒着掉眼泪的危险。

61. 14 If you want to tame someone, you have to risk shedding tears.

62. 一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

62. In a lifetime, one should at least once forget oneself for someone, without seeking a result, without seeking to be together, without seeking to have had it, and even without seeking that you love me. Just seeking to meet you in the most beautiful years of my life.

63. 唱歌给你听好不好？开车载你好不好？把你带在身边好不好？会随著时光流逝的礼物阿，没关系，我也陪著你一起流逝。

63. Shall I sing a song for you? Shall I drive you around? Shall I keep you close to me? It's a gift that will fade with time, but that's fine, I'll accompany you through the passage of time as well.

64. 爱一个人意味着什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从中得到快乐。车尔尼雪夫斯基

64. What does it mean to love someone? It means being happy for their happiness, doing everything necessary to make them happier, and deriving joy from it. — Chernyshevsky

65. 有人反对，爱情会变得象禁果一样更有价值。——李攀将

65. Some people argue that love will become even more valuable like forbidden fruit. - Li Pan said.

66. 爱的力量是和平，从不顾理性、成规和荣辱，它能使一切恐惧、震惊和痛苦在身受时化作甜蜜。——莎士比亚

66. The power of love is peace, which, disregarding reason, conventions, and honor, can turn all fears, shocks, and sorrows into sweetness when experienced. – Shakespeare

67. 别再用我的过去来评价我了，我早就不是以前那个我了。当你决定放下时，你不会失去什么，唯一会失去的，是你以前放不下的烦恼。

67. Stop using my past to judge me, I am no longer the person I used to be. When you decide to let go, you won't lose anything; the only thing you will lose is the烦恼 you couldn't let go of before.

68. 爱情，你的话是我的食粮，你的气息是我的醇酒。——歌德

68. Love, your words are my sustenance, your breath my fine wine. – Goethe

69. 爱情是两个亲密的灵魂在生活及忠实，善良，美丽事物方面的和谐与默契。——别林斯基

69. Love is the harmony and understanding between two intimate souls in the aspects of life, faithfulness, goodness, and beautiful things. — Belinsky

70. 19每个人都有自己的执着，或许在别人看来是浪费时间，但在他们看来，却有着无比重要的意义。

70. 19 Each person has their own obsession, which may seem like a waste of time to others, but to them, it holds immense importance.

71. 婚姻是爱情的坟墓，但是没有婚姻，爱情将死无葬身之地。——曹世真

71. Marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, love will have nowhere to be buried. — Cao Shizhen

72. 真正的爱，在放弃个人的幸福之后才能产生。——列夫·托尔斯泰

72. True love can only arise after giving up one's personal happiness. - Leo Tolstoy

73. 爱情不仅丰富多彩，而且还赏心悦目。——申斯通

73. Love is not only rich and colorful, but also pleasing to the eye. ——Shenston

74. 29人生就是这样：处同样的位置，有人哭，有人笑，有人沉默。

74. Life is like this: in the same position, some people cry, some people laugh, and some people are silent.

75. 知道为何喜欢你吗？娃娃脸蛋好玩相，熊猫身材憨态相，招风耳朵好福相，步履摇摆滑稽相，观赏展览你最合相。

75. Do you know why I like you? You have a cute, doll-like face, a panda-like, endearing figure, auspicious, wind-catching ears, a comical gait with a swaying walk, and you are the most fitting person to enjoy the exhibition.