在熙熙攘攘的尘世中，每个人都是一粒尘埃，却也拥有改变命运的勇气。金钱、爱情，是生活的调味品，而句句入心的自我提升，才是通往辉煌人生的必经之路。

In the bustling world, each person is a grain of dust, yet also possesses the courage to change their destiny. Money and love are the seasonings of life, but it is the self-improvement that touches the heart deeply that is the necessary path to a brilliant life.

1. 4如果有一天我忍不住问你，你一定要骗我。就算你心里多不情愿，也不要告诉我你最爱的人不是我。 --《东邪西毒》

1. If one day I can't help but ask you, you must deceive me. No matter how unwilling you are in your heart, don't tell me that the person you love the most is not me. -- "The East Is Red, the West Is Poisoned"

2. 27沉默和微笑是两把利器：沉默会避免许多问题，微笑帮你解决很多问题。

2. 27 Silence and smiles are two sharp weapons: silence can avoid many problems, and a smile can help solve many issues.

3. 这是一场真正的屠杀，也是智慧对愚蠢和大意的惩罚。

3. This was a real massacre, and also a punishment of wisdom over foolishness and carelessness.

4. 46做人要抬头有勇气，面对现实。低头有底气，面对自己。做事要有骨气，据理力争。做人要有志气，铮铮铁骨。凡事要争气。

4. In life, one should have the courage to lift one's head and face reality. With a lowered head, one should confront oneself. In doing things, one should have backbone and argue for one's beliefs. In being a person, one should have ambition and be of iron will. In all things, one should strive to be dignified.

5. 25容易生气的人的特征，就是不会体请你这么做之类的要求。

5. The characteristic of someone who is easily angry is that they will not comply with requests like "Please do this."

6. 做不好事没关系，做不好人麻烦就大了，做人是万事的第一步。

6. It's okay if you can't do things well, but if you can't be a good person, it's a big problem. Being a person is the first step of everything.

7. 岁月就像一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是隐隐的伤感。世间有许多美好的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。看庭前花开花落，荣辱不惊，望天上云卷云舒，去留无意。在这个纷绕的世界里，能够学会用一颗平常的心去对待周围的一切，也是一种境界！

7. Time flows like a river, with the left bank filled with unforgettable memories, the right bank with the precious youth worth grasping, and in the middle, flowing swiftly, is a hidden sadness. There are many beautiful things in the world, but not many truly belong to oneself. Watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, not being moved by fame and disgrace, looking up at the clouds forming and dissipating in the sky, not caring about their coming and going. In this entangled world, being able to learn to treat everything around with a calm heart is also a kind of realm!

8. 第一种男人很酷很深沉。第二种男人过分追求事业成功的男人。第三种男人所谓的浪子型男人。第四种男人大男人主义者。第五种男人油腔滑调。第六种有不少异性朋友的男人。第七种过分注意自己形象的男人。

8. The first type of man is cool and deep. The second type of man is overly ambitious in his career. The third type of man is所谓的浪子型男人, which is a so-called playboy type of man. The fourth type of man is a macho. The fifth type of man is smooth-tongued. The sixth type of man has a lot of female friends. The seventh type of man is overly concerned about his own image.

9. 根本一坏，纵然使你有一些学问和本领，也无甚用处。

9. If the foundation is fundamentally flawed, even if you possess some knowledge and skills, they are of little use.

10. 28别依赖，没有免费的肩膀；别退缩，落井下石的人很多；别低头，地上没有黄金。世界很大，无需钻牛角尖，挤不进的世界，不要硬挤，换个角度，你会更有作为。

10. 28 Don't rely on others, for there are no free shoulders; don't retreat, as there are many who will stab you in the back; don't bow your head, as there is no gold on the ground. The world is vast, and there's no need to nitpick. If you can't fit in, don't force your way in; change your perspective, and you'll achieve more.

11. 没有礼貌，不守时，不尊重他人，做事散漫没精神。

11. Impolite, not punctual, disrespectful to others, and lacking in enthusiasm and focus in work.

12. 如果你能把工作当成一种有趣的游戏，让自己的才情呈现，你就会干得更起劲更精彩。如果你能把每一天都当成缤纷的舞台，让自己的心灵起舞，你就会活得更轻松更自在。

12. If you can treat work as an interesting game, allowing your talents to shine, you will be more energetic and do it more精彩ly. If you can treat every day as a vibrant stage, letting your soul dance, you will live more relaxed and comfortably.

13. 人需要自我倾听，自己说给自己的话，会最真，最浩荡。

13. People need to listen to themselves, and the words they speak to themselves are the most sincere and boundless.

14. 你是否经常狠不下心来做事，对自我不够狠，对别人也不够狠。

14. Do you often struggle to be decisive in your actions, not being strict enough with yourself or with others.

15. 20生活，就是一首歌谣，用舒缓的旋律，低吟忧伤与温馨，生活，就是一首诗词，用精彩的文字，谱写快乐与悲伤，生活，就是零星琐碎生活，就是点滴温暖，生活，就是有一些小悲伤，人生，也会有许多小幸福。

15. Life is a ballad, sung with a soothing melody, murmuring sadness and warmth. Life is also a poem, written with exquisite words, composing joy and sorrow. Life is the scattered trivialities, the smallest warmth, life is some little sorrows, and life is also filled with many little joys.

16. 不要求我像谁一样学习，我有我的特点，不需要模仿别人；

16. Do not ask me to learn like anyone else; I have my own characteristics and do not need to imitate others.

17. 10在每一个清晨，记得早起，努力追逐第一缕阳光，选一种姿态，让自己活得无可替代。看天空的云，堆在了一起。看躺在地上的你，微笑的脸庞。

17. 10 In every morning, remember to wake up early, strive to chase the first ray of sunshine, choose a posture, and live in an irreplaceable way. Look at the clouds in the sky, piled together. Look at you lying on the ground, your smiling face.

18. 累不是一种无能，而是一种担当。人生三大抉择： 信仰，因为它指引自己一辈子；配偶，因为他陪伴自己一辈子；事业，因为它照顾自己一辈子。人生三大遗憾：不会选择，不坚持选择，不断地选择。人生三处：发现长处，理解难处，不忘好处。

18. Accumulating is not a sign of inability, but a form of responsibility. The three major choices in life: faith, because it guides you through your entire life; a spouse, because they accompany you through your entire life; a career, because it takes care of you through your entire life. The three major regrets in life: not making a choice, not sticking to the choice, and constantly making choices. The three aspects of life: discovering your strengths, understanding your difficulties, and never forgetting the benefits.

19. 常怀感激之情，常存进取之心，清清白白做人，干干净净做事。

19. Always cherish gratitude, always maintain an aspiration for progress, lead an upright life, and conduct yourself cleanly in your affairs.

20. 有时觉得“如约而至”是个多美好的词，等得很苦，却从不辜负。

20. Sometimes I feel that "arriving as scheduled" is such a wonderful word; the waiting is bitter, but it never disappoints.

21. 有时候,曾经的好朋友转变成陌生人了。有时候，有些人不需要说再见，就已经离开了;有时候，有些事不用开口也明白;有时候，有些路不会走也要变长。突然有种想哭的感觉，不经意间我们都长大了。

21. Sometimes, good friends turn into strangers. Sometimes, some people leave without saying goodbye; sometimes, some things are understood without being spoken; sometimes, some paths don't need to be walked but seem to grow longer. Suddenly, there's a feeling of wanting to cry, and without realizing it, we've all grown up.

22. 34在转世的路上，彼岸的鲜花盛开。根本没有性别的迹象。月亮很亮，风轻轻地吹着，给了他一顿告别晚餐。

22. On the path of reincarnation, the flowers on the other shore are in full bloom. There is no sign of gender. The moon is bright, the wind blows gently, providing him with a farewell dinner.

23. 人生长途漫漫，我们不可能每一步都走得那么完美，摔上几跤，走几段弯路，这并非坏事，至少让我们品尝了挫败，增添的阅历，让我们的人生多姿多彩。或许走过终点时我们才明白，一路平坦却少了风景，没有转折也多了平淡。只要经历了，尝试了，走过了，我们赢得的，就是一个全新的自己！

23. The journey of life is long and winding, and it's impossible for us to walk every step perfectly. Falling a few times, taking a few detours, is not necessarily a bad thing; at least it allows us to taste defeat, gain experience, and make our lives colorful and diverse. Perhaps only when we reach the end of the road do we realize that a journey with a smooth path lacks scenery, and without twists and turns, it becomes more monotonous. As long as we have experienced, tried, and walked through, what we win is a brand new version of ourselves!

24. 认认真真做人，踏踏实实做事，不求个人得失，只求问心无愧。

24. Be serious about being a person and steady in your work, not seeking personal gains or losses, but only desiring to be without any guilt in your heart.

25. 5第一个青春是上天给的；第二个的青春是靠自己努力的。

25. The first youth is given by heaven; the second youth is achieved through one's own efforts.

26. 在开端起始时善用时机，再没有比这种智慧更大的了。

26. There is no greater wisdom than making good use of opportunities at the beginning.

27. 重新站起来，告诉自己，继续走吧，路途尚未结束--即使重新捡起的东西已被别人踩得粉碎。包括你蹲下去的时候，散落一地的尊严。

27. Stand up again, tell yourself to keep going, the journey is not over yet--even if the things you've picked up have been trampled into pieces by others. This includes the dignity scattered on the ground when you crouched down.

28. 我们总是把别人安抚得太好，轮到自己就失了分寸。

28. We always soothe others too well, and lose our sense of measure when it comes to ourselves.

29. 2生气，就是拿别人的过错来惩罚自己。原谅别人，就是善待自己。

29. 2. Being angry is like punishing yourself for others' mistakes. Forgiving others is to treat yourself kindly.

30. 美貌、智慧、金钱，很多事，都是天生注定的，别想用你那嫉妒心，改变什么。

30. Beauty, intelligence, wealth, many things are predetermined by nature. Don't even think of trying to change anything with your jealousy.

31. 我不是坐怀不乱的柳下惠，没有那么样的定力与智慧。

31. I am not Liu Xiaohui who remains calm in the arms of a woman, I don't possess such self-control and wisdom.

32. 只有爱与智慧永远不会归零，人类的文明史就是爱与智慧的历史。

32. Only love and wisdom will never be depleted; the history of human civilization is the history of love and wisdom.

33. 23你是我穷极一生也没做完的一场梦而我是你一念之间就刮过的一场风。

33. You are a dream that I have never been able to complete in all my life, and I am a breeze that passes through you in a moment's thought.

34. 8不是某人使我烦恼，而是我拿某人的言行来烦恼自己。

34. It's not that someone is causing me trouble, but rather that I am troubled by someone's words and actions myself.

35. 人生的许多关头，不在于抗风雨，而在于补漏洞；人生的许多成败，不在于环境的优劣，而在于正确的定位；人生的许多空虚，不在于人身的孤独，而在于心灵的寂寞；人生的许多辉煌，不在于狂热的宣泄，而在于冷静的凝结。

35. Many turning points in life are not about braving the storms, but about mending the gaps; many successes or failures in life are not about the superiority or inferiority of the environment, but about the correct positioning; many feelings of emptiness in life are not about the loneliness of the body, but about the loneliness of the soul; many brilliance in life is not about the passionate outpouring, but about the calm condensation.

36. 19君子之交淡如水。我们有必要跟人保持一定的距离。

36. The friendship between the 19 gentlemen is as pure as water. It is necessary for us to maintain a certain distance from others.

37. 愿上帝保佑我们的孩子生下来后拥有你的容貌与我的智慧,而千万不要反过来。

37. May God bless our child with your appearance and my wisdom, but never the other way around.

38. 既然已选择了与众不同的生活方式，又何必在乎别人以与众不同的眼光看你呢

38. Since you have already chosen a different way of life, why should you care what others think of you with their unique perspectives?

39. 对于别人的信仰，你没有资格去评价，因为人家至少还有信仰。

39. You have no right to judge others' beliefs, because at least they still have faith.

40. 有人告诉我们，女人不必太美，只要有人深爱；女人不必太富，只要过得幸福；女人不必太强，只要活得尊贵。这是对幸福女人的写照，也是对女人幸福的诠释。当然，境由心造，一个女人是否幸福完全由自己的心去感知。

40. Some have told us that a woman doesn't have to be too beautiful, as long as there is someone who deeply loves her; a woman doesn't have to be too wealthy, as long as she lives a happy life; a woman doesn't have to be too strong, as long as she lives with dignity. This is a portrait of a happy woman, as well as an interpretation of women's happiness. Of course, the environment is shaped by one's heart, and whether a woman is happy is entirely perceived by her own heart.

41. 3越没本事的女人越有脾气，越有本事的男人越没脾气。

41. The less capable a woman is, the more temper she has; the more capable a man is, the less temper he has.

42. 17当一个女人结了婚，有了自己的孩子就意味着，生活的起点，也意味着终点。--《廊桥遗梦》

42. When a woman marries and has her own children, it means the beginning and also the end of life. -- "The Bridges of Madison County"

43. 有时候不是不懂，只是不想懂；有时候不是不知道，只是不想说出来；有时候不是不明白，而是明白了也无能为力，于是就保持了沉默。有些话，适合藏在心里；有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记；有些回忆，只适合偶尔拿出来回味。很多事情，当经历过，自己知道就好；很多改变，不需要说出来的，自己明白就好。

43. Sometimes it's not that one doesn't understand, but that one doesn't want to; sometimes it's not that one doesn't know, but that one doesn't want to say it; sometimes it's not that one doesn't comprehend, but that one understands but feels powerless, so one remains silent. Some things are better kept in the heart; some pain is better forgotten quietly; some memories are only suitable for savoring occasionally. Many things, once experienced, one knows in their own heart; many changes, there's no need to speak about, one understands in their own mind.

44. 允许你单纯、犯傻，但见机则会教你很多做人的道理跟处事原则，总怕你吃亏。

44. Allow you to be naive and foolish, but when the opportunity arises, it will teach you many principles of being a person and dealing with situations, always afraid that you will be taken advantage of.

45. 智慧重于知识，经验重于智慧，关健看如何掌握运用。

45. Wisdom is more important than knowledge, and experience is more important than wisdom; the key is how to master and apply it.

46. 11傻丫头，回去泡个热水澡，睡个好觉，明天早上起来满街都是男人，个个都比豹哥好。--《甜蜜蜜》

46. 11, silly girl, go back and take a hot bath, have a good sleep. When you wake up tomorrow morning, there will be men all over the street, each one better than Brother Leopard. -- "Sweetness and Spice"

47. 25勤奋的含义是今天的热血，而不是明天的决心，后天的保证。人生没有如果，只有后果和结果。少问别人为什么，多问自己凭什么。

47. The meaning of diligence is today's passion, not tomorrow's resolution or the day after tomorrow's guarantee. In life, there are no "ifs," only consequences and results. Ask others fewer "why" questions and more "what for" questions for yourself.

48. 2我没有资格评价任何人的人生目标，但我敬仰对自我的欲望和本事深刻了解，并使命必达的人。

48. 2 I am not qualified to evaluate anyone's life goals, but I admire those who have a profound understanding of their own desires and abilities and are determined to achieve their goals.

49. 31爱情无需刻意去把握，越是想抓牢自己的爱情，反而容易失去自我。

49. 31 Love does not require deliberate grasp, the harder one tries to hold onto one's love, the more likely one is to lose oneself.

50. 49成功是陡峭的阶梯，两手插在裤袋里是爬不上去的。

50. Success is a steep ladder, and you can't climb it with both hands in your pants pocket.

51. 有时候，不小心知道了一些事，才发现自己所在乎的事是那么可笑。不要以为你放不下的人同样会放不下你，鱼没有水会死，水没有鱼却会更清澈，谁不虚伪，谁不善变，到最后谁都不是谁的谁，又何必高估了自己，把一些人，一些事看得那那么重要。

51. Sometimes, by accident, one learns of certain things and realizes that the things one cares about are actually quite laughable. Don't assume that the person you can't let go of will feel the same way about you. Fish cannot live without water, and water becomes clearer without fish. Who isn't a bit false, who isn't prone to change? In the end, no one is anyone's everything. So why overestimate yourself and make some people and things seem so important?

52. 树立服务意识，一切为了会员，踏踏实实做事，干干净净做人。

52. Establish a sense of service, everything for the members, work diligently and honestly, and conduct oneself cleanly.

53. 20低头拉车，抬头看路。在人生的路上，每个人就像一辆车，要把这车拉稳拉好，不仅要低下头、卯足劲、出大力、流大汗，还要抬头看路，因为人生的路尽管漫长，但关键处就只有几步，这几步只有看准了、选对了、走好了，才能不走或少走弯路，不摔跤，不翻车，顺利到达人生的彼岸，攀登到应有的高度。

53. Bow down to pull the cart and look up at the road. In the journey of life, each person is like a cart. To pull this cart steadily and well, one must not only bow down, put in full effort, exert great strength, and sweat profusely, but also look up at the road. Because though the road of life is long, the critical points are only a few steps. Only by accurately identifying, choosing the right path, and walking well, can one avoid or minimize taking detours, avoid falling, and prevent accidents, and successfully reach the destination at the other end of life, climbing to the appropriate height.

54. 最大的智慧就是疑惑暂且置之不论，不作主观的判断。

54. The greatest wisdom is to temporarily put aside doubt and not make subjective judgments.

55. 30你可以在金钱上贫穷，但绝不能在精神上贫乏。

55. 30 You can be poor in money, but you must never be poor in spirit.

56. 43有些人一辈子都在骗人，而有些人用一辈子去骗一个人。--《开往春天的地铁》

56. 43 Some people spend their whole lives deceiving others, while others spend their entire lives deceiving just one person. -- From the Movie "The Train to Spring"

57. 做人，最重要就是即要了解昨天的我，又要认识今天的我，更要追求明天的我。

57. In life, the most important thing is to understand the me of yesterday, recognize the me of today, and strive for the me of tomorrow.

58. 在成熟之后还能保持幼稚的一面，这是一种人生智慧。

58. Maintaining a childlike aspect after maturity is a form of life wisdom.

59. 做人要厚道年龄越大的人，他的可塑性越差，年龄越小的人，他的可塑性越强。

59. The more honest a person is, the less malleable they become as they get older, while the more malleable they are as they get younger.

60. 我们那些不为人知的秘密，都被黑暗的夜晚所倾听。

60. Our unknown secrets are all listened to by the dark night.

61. 18还年轻 说不定绕过几圈你还是和我在一起

61. 18 is still young, maybe after a few rounds, you'll still be with me.

62. 40有人就有恩怨，有恩怨就有江湖。人就是江湖，你怎么退出。--《笑傲江湖》

62. Where there are people, there are enmities and debts; where there are enmities and debts, there is the martial world. People are the martial world; how can you withdraw from it? -- "The Return of the Condor Heroes"

63. 30我要你知道，在这个世界上，总有一个人是会永远等着你的。无论什么时候，无论在什么地方，总会有这么一个人。--《半生缘》

63. I want you to know that in this world, there is always someone who will be waiting for you forever. No matter when, no matter where, there will always be such a person. -- "Half a Life"

64. 29其实爱一个人并不是要跟她一辈子的。我喜欢花，难道你摘下来让我闻;我喜欢风，难道你让风停下来;我喜欢云，难道你就让云罩着我;我喜欢海，难道我就去跳海--《纵横四海》

64. In fact, loving someone is not about spending a lifetime with them. I like flowers, but do you pick them for me to smell; I like the wind, but do you stop it for me; I like clouds, so do you let them cover me; I like the sea, so do you make me jump into it? -- "All the Way Across the Sea"

65. 在找到合适的人之前，唯一需要做的，就是让自己足够的优秀。每个人都会累，没人能为你承担所有伤悲，人总有一段时间要学会自己长大。

65. Before finding the right person, the only thing you need to do is to become sufficiently excellent. Everyone gets tired, no one can bear all your sorrows, and there will always be a time when you have to learn to grow up on your own.

66. 无须在意别人的评说，只要你去把自己的的事情做好；无须去在意别人的眼神，只要是走自己的路；无须有过多的抱怨，那样会使自己的心更累。无论走在何处，无论怎样走，都应该让自己觉得快乐，但是不要去迷失自己。

66. You need not care about others' opinions, as long as you do your own things well; you need not worry about others' gazes, as long as you are walking your own path; you need not have too many complaints, as they will only make your heart more burdened. No matter where you go or how you walk, you should make yourself feel happy, but do not lose yourself in the process.

67. 32所有的努力，不是为了让别人觉得你了不起，而是为了能让自己打心眼里看得起自己。

67. All the efforts are not made to make others think you are impressive, but rather to be able to look down on yourself from the bottom of your heart.

68. 知足者常乐，知足者多福。世界上并非不存在美丽，只是很多时候，我们所感觉到的美丽来自于眼睛。然而，真正的美丽，是来自心灵的深处，那些在夜深人静时才散发芬芳的美丽。

68. Those who are content are often happy, and those who are content have many blessings. Beauty does not not exist in the world, but often, the beauty we feel comes from our eyes. However, true beauty comes from the depths of the soul, the kind of beauty that only emits its fragrance in the quiet of the night.

69. 文学，这个智慧的代名词，也有其款款深情，使我决意和它生死不离。

69. Literature, the synonym for wisdom, also possesses a profound affectionate essence, which has made me resolute to be inseparable from it in life and death.

70. 50只有经历地狱般的磨练，才能炼出创造天堂的力量。

70. Only through the refining fire of hell can one forge the power to create heaven.

71. 勤勤恳恳做事，踏踏实实做人；老老实实教学，实事求是教研。

71. Work diligently and live modestly; teach sincerely and conduct research with facts.

72. 44往往都是事情改变人，人却改变不了事情。--《无间道》

72. Often it is the things that change people, but people cannot change the things. -- From "Infernal Affairs"

73. 在尝试中，我们的智慧得到增长，能力得到提升，人性得到升华。

73. In the attempt, our wisdom grows, our abilities are enhanced, and our humanity is elevated.

74. 21如果你没本事更好地保护自己不受伤害，那你起码应该牢记一点：不轻信。

74. 21 If you're not capable of better protecting yourself from harm, then at least remember one thing: do not be easily convinced.

75. 喜欢合适在一起，这是完全不同的三个概念。喜欢的不一定合适，喜欢了合适的并不一定会在一起。

75. Enjoying each other's company is a completely different concept from being suitable for each other. Just because you enjoy someone's company doesn't necessarily mean you're suitable for each other, and even if you're suitable, it doesn't mean you will end up being together.

76. 20丹平，你会永远爱我吗 一辈子。 --《夜半歌声》

76. Danping, will you love me forever, for a lifetime? -- "Screams at Midnight"