在喧嚣的都市中，中国年轻人的生活如同五彩斑斓的画卷，他们寻找着情绪的出口，守护着心灵的温暖，共享着生活的欢乐。

In the bustling metropolis, the lives of young Chinese people resemble a colorful tapestry, as they seek an outlet for their emotions, guard the warmth of their souls, and share the joy of life.

1. 记住无论有多少的委屈，多么的难受，最终能治愈自己的还是自己。

1. Remember that no matter how much resentment or discomfort you have, it is ultimately yourself who can heal yourself.

2. 现在的我们的感情比水还要淡我们的世界比地球到海王星还远

2. Our current feelings are as faint as water, and our world is as far from Earth to Neptune as Earth is from Neptune.

3. [彩虹]人一辈子，走走瞧瞧，吃吃喝喝，不生病，就是福气，如果能遇到自己爱的也爱自己的人，再发点小财，就是天大的福气。

3. [Rainbow] In a person's lifetime, to walk and see, to eat and drink, and to remain healthy is all bliss. If one can meet someone who loves them back, and also achieve a bit of wealth, it would be the greatest fortune in the world.

4. 我在此用真正二字，因为我认为坠入情网那种相爱的感觉，只是一种幻觉。我相信，情侣要等脱离情网后才能真正相爱，因为真爱的基础不是一种恋爱的感觉。真爱发生的时候，很可能完全没有恋爱的感觉，爱的行为也不需要恋爱的感觉做后盾。

4. I use the words "truly" here because I believe that the feeling of being in love is just an illusion. I believe that couples can truly love each other only after they have broken free from the love spell, because the foundation of true love is not a feeling of romance. When true love happens, it may not feel like romance at all, and the acts of love do not require the support of a feeling of romance.

5. 其实没有别的什么能真正伤害你 唯一能伤害你的 是你的在意

5. In fact, there is nothing else that can truly hurt you. The only thing that can hurt you is your attachment.

6. 用正确的方式审视自己，一切都会改变的。如果总是顾影自怜，孤芳自赏，其结果就是你走不进别人的心里，别人也走不进你的心里。只要用一种正确的方式审视自己，生活将变得轻松愉快，事业将变得一帆风顺，而且一切都会改变的。

6. Examine yourself in the right way, and everything will change. If you always wallow in self-pity and admire yourself, the result will be that you cannot enter others' hearts, and others cannot enter yours. As long as you examine yourself in the right way, life will become relaxed and pleasant, your career will go smoothly, and everything will change.

7. [彩虹]人这一辈子，怎么都是过，与其皱眉头，不如偷着乐。冬天别嫌冷，夏天别嫌热，有钱别装穷，没钱别摆阔。闲暇养养身，每日找找乐，苦辣酸甜都尝过，才算没白活。

7. [Rainbow] In a person's lifetime, it's all about living. It's better to find joy in secret than to frown. Don't complain about the cold in winter, don't complain about the heat in summer, don't pretend to be poor when you have money, and don't show off when you're broke. Take the time to nurture your body in your leisure, find joy every day, taste the bitterness, spiciness, sweetness, and sourness, and that's when you can say you haven't lived in vain.

8. 你不会遇见第二个我。要懂得，有些人一旦失去了就不会回来，就像没有人会永远站在原地等谁。

8. You will not meet another me. Understand that some people, once lost, will never return, just as no one will always stand still waiting for someone.

9. 你来过 我爱过 就够了。

9. You came, I loved, that's enough.

10. 有时候，你只是需要一个可以说话的人。失败之后如果还能呼吸，那就不要心灰意冷;沧桑之后如果还痴心未死，那就努力寻找当初的失落;地球是运动的，很多改变就在于下一秒的忍耐;当你还能承受，就别轻易说放弃;坚持虽然很累，但放弃可能将是终生的遗憾。

10. Sometimes, all you need is someone to talk to. If you can still breathe after a failure, don't lose heart; if your passion is still burning after experiencing hardships, then strive to find the initial loss; the Earth is in motion, and many changes lie in the tolerance of the next second; when you can still bear it, don't easily give up; perseverance may be tiring, but giving up might be a lifelong regret.

11. 在人之上，要把人当人：在人之下 ，要把自己当人。

11. Treat others as humans above you, and treat yourself as a human beneath others.

12. 13愿一切都是最好的安排，我开始相信该来的总会来，只要最后是你，等多久都没关系。

12. 13 May all be for the best arrangement, I begin to believe that what is to come will come, as long as in the end it's you, it doesn't matter how long I have to wait.

13. 以前对我好的人，请你们继续对我好，我的感情方面脆弱，经不起什么大风大浪。在顽强的一个人也有哭过的时候

13. To those who have been good to me before, please continue to be so. I am emotionally fragile and cannot withstand any major storms. Even the most resolute person has moments when they cry.

14. 让一个人变强大的最好方式，就是拥有一个想要保护的人。

14. The best way to make a person strong is to have someone you want to protect.

15. ☆、承蒙你的出现 够我欢喜好多年，喜欢你,从一而终,认真且怂

15. ☆, Thanks to your presence, it has brought me joy for many years. I like you, from beginning to end, sincerely and brave.

16. 21管好你的懒惰浮躁，管好你的感情用事，管好你的怯懦自卑，管好你闲言碎语的八卦心。静下心来做你该做的事，比什么都重要。

16. Manage your laziness and restlessness, control your emotionalism, manage your timidity and self-doubt, and keep your gossiping and prying tendencies in check. Settling down to do what you should be doing is more important than anything else.

17. 好像有一股甜滋滋清凉凉的风，掠过我的心头！

17. It's as if a sweet, cool breeze swept over my heart!

18. 一道幸福之门关闭时，另一道就会打开。我们经常盯着关闭的门，对开启的门却视若无睹。

18. When one door of happiness closes, another opens. We often gaze at the closed door, ignoring the one that has opened.

19. 走路时，每跨一步，就如同把脚带到地面，我们要把快乐、祥和、宁静带到地面。

19. When walking, with every step taken, it is as if we bring our feet to the ground. We should also bring joy, harmony, and tranquility to the ground.

20. [彩虹]好好吃饭，好好睡觉，好好挣钱，好好花钱。不为不值得的人生气，不为不值得的事失眠。

20. [Rainbow] Eat well, sleep well, earn well, and spend well. Don't get angry over life that's not worth it, and don't lose sleep over things that don't matter.

21. 25那些年，未来遥远的没有形状，我们单纯的没有烦恼。

21. 25 Back then, the future was distant and shapeless, and we were innocent without any worries.

22. [彩虹]人人自有定盘针，万化根源总在心。任何时候，只要我们向内求，安顿好自己，此生便可以不慌不忙，轻松应对各种坎坷。

22. [Rainbow] Each person has their own guiding compass, and the source of all changes lies in the heart. At any time, as long as we seek within, settle ourselves, this life can be lived without haste or worry, calmly and easily dealing with all kinds of hardships.

23. ☆、分手后不再联系前任，是放过别人，也是放过自己，让时间去帮助疗伤，而不是和前任藕断丝连，往往越是这样就越是不死心。

23. After a breakup, not contacting the ex is a release for both parties, allowing time to heal the wounds rather than staying entangled with the ex. Often, the more one does this, the less they seem to give up.

24. ☆、至少她也为了你疯狂过，只不过到了后来，感情变质了吧，往后余生，各自安好。

24. ☆, at least she went crazy for you too, but it seems the feelings have changed later on. From now on, may both of you live happily ever after.

25. [彩虹]在这个世界上，每个人都劝你坚强，希望你是懂事成熟的大人。而爱你的人只会选择把你宠成小孩，不管如何，你快乐就好。

25. [Rainbow] In this world, everyone advises you to be strong and hopes you become an understanding and mature adult. But the people who love you will only choose to spoil you like a child, no matter what, as long as you are happy.

26. 终于明白这么长时间以来,我一直都是自作多情,浪费感情,没人同情。

26. Finally, I realize that for so long, I have been overestimating my own emotions, wasting my feelings, and no one has shown any sympathy.

27. 9茫茫人海能遇到你真的不容易，但我们错过了；庆幸的是再次遇到了你，我不会再错过，再次的相遇我才发现:你就是我今生最大的幸福，哪怕只是默默地一向陪伴着你，我也知足了。

27. In the vast sea of people, it's really not easy to meet you, but we missed each other;幸亏再次遇到了你，我再也不会错过。It was only after this second encounter that I realized: you are the greatest happiness in my life, even if it's just to silently accompany you all along, I am satisfied.

28. 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以至始至终陪着走完，当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍，也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。《千与千寻》

28. Life is a train heading towards the grave, with many stops along the way, and it's rare for anyone to accompany you from start to finish. When the person who has been with you decides to get off, even though it's hard to let go, you should be grateful in your heart and then wave goodbye. —— From "Spirited Away"

29. 花美，美在绚丽，人美，美在健康，健康是灵魂的客厅，病体是肉体的监狱，有健康，就有一切!

29. Flowers are beautiful in their splendor, and people are beautiful in their health. Health is the parlor of the soul, while illness is the prison of the body. With health, there is everything!

30. 放弃是牺牲本来属于你的，放手是放下那些从来就不是你的。

30. Giving up is sacrificing what originally belongs to you, while letting go is releasing things that were never yours to begin with.

31. 我们都像小孩，胡闹是因为依赖；礼貌，是因为是陌生

31. We are all like children; we are mischievous because of dependence; polite, because we are strangers.

32. [如果你觉得我们的感情好得你能够欺骗我，那我想你错了]

32. [If you think our relationship is good enough for you to deceive me, then I think you're wrong.]

33. 人生不能后悔，但是可以拐弯。我们这一生，要走很多条路，有笔直坦途，有羊肠阡陌;有春天的风景，有冬季的荒凉。无论如何，路要自己走，苦要自己吃，别人无法帮忙。只要你愿意走，踩过的都是路;只要你不回避与退缩，生命的掌声终会为你响起。

33. Life cannot be regretted, but it can take a detour. Throughout our lives, we will walk many paths, some straight and smooth, others winding and narrow; we will see the scenery of spring and the desolation of winter. Regardless, the road is to be walked alone, and the hardships to be endured alone, with no help from others. As long as you are willing to walk, every step you take is a road; as long as you do not avoid or retreat, the applause of life will eventually ring out for you.

34. 人生应当这样过：用前半生的时间去得到一些东西，再用后半生的时间一件件失去。一定要留一些时间给失去。抛物线是最美的，自由落体的闭幕，那才是一个瓜熟蒂落。我只想劝你放慢脚步，劝你歇一歇，劝你温存片刻。你是抓得太多，面目才不觉狞狰起来。

34. Life should be lived in this way: spend the first half of your life acquiring things, and then use the second half of your life to lose them one by one. Always set aside some time for loss. The parabola is the most beautiful, the end of free fall, that is when a melon ripens and falls off the vine. I only want to advise you to slow down, to take a break, to cherish a moment. You are grasping too much, which is why your face seems fierce.

35. ☆、最心酸的话怕是 我喜欢你 却没有办法在你需要拥抱的时候张开双手

35. ☆ The most heart-wrenching words might be, "I like you, but I have no way to open my arms to embrace you when you need a hug."

36. 路是大地一道难愈的伤痕，因此人生每一步都是隐隐的痛。

36. The road is a deep scar on the earth that is hard to heal, therefore every step in life is a subtle pain.

37. 慢慢的就淡然了。 慢慢的也就习惯了。 慢慢的心也静如止水了。 过好每一天就好，不争不抢。 是你的失去，也许是回到你身边的开始，不是你的拥有，也许却是失去的倒计时。

37. It gradually becomes indifferent. It gradually becomes a habit. Gradually, the heart becomes as still as still water. Enjoy every day well, without striving or competing. What you lose may be the beginning of it coming back to you, not what you possess, but perhaps the countdown to its loss.

38. 现在没什么心思了，感情靠边吧，比你更重要的是工作，不然我也没那资本谈情说爱

38. Now, I have no heart left, emotions take a back seat. Work is more important than you, otherwise, I wouldn't have the capital to indulge in love and romance.

39. ☆、孤独的时候想一个人没什么，热闹的时候想一个人，那就不同了

39. It's not a big deal to think of someone alone when you're feeling lonely, but it's different when you think of someone alone during热闹 times.

40. ☆、当一个人失望透了，可能就再也拉不回来了，在以后的感情中要学会珍惜，学会感恩和回报。

40. ☆ When a person is completely disillusioned, they may never be able to pull back. In future relationships, learn to cherish, be grateful, and give back.

41. 迷人，则是因为他活得很好。总在做自己喜欢的、想做的事情，活得好的人像阳光，总会不自觉地散发着自信的温暖。

41. The charm lies in the fact that he is living well. He is always doing what he likes and what he wants to do, and people who live well are like sunlight, always unconsciously radiating the warmth of confidence.

42. 20我不想做你的插曲，我只想做你生命中最完美的结局。

42. I don't want to be an interlude in your life; I only want to be the perfect ending to your story.

43. 许多人会刻意沉浸在分手的痛苦之中以证明自己对感情的在乎而最俗不可耐的是用时间去衡量一段感情

43. Many people would deliberately immerse themselves in the pain of a breakup to prove their attachment to the relationship, while the most trite thing is to measure a relationship with time.

44. 一切都是最好的安排，正如这几天网上非常热的帖子，我们的人生A4纸还剩下多少？戳到心窝了珍惜也好，不珍惜也罢，一切都是最好的安排余生很贵不要浪费

44. Everything is the best arrangement, just as the very popular post on the internet these days goes, how much of our life's A4 paper is left? Whether it touches your heart and you cherish it or not, everything is the best arrangement. Life is precious, don't waste it.

45. 6做事情就是这样，遇事儿解决事儿，别抱怨，因为一切都是最好的安排，哪怕是生命的终点，也要笑着去面对！

45. That's how it is to do things, to face problems and solve them. Don't complain, because everything is the best arrangement, even at the end of life, one should face it with a smile!

46. 12往后余生，不离不弃，只为了和你永远在一起。只要你能开心。

46. From now on, until the end of time, I will never leave you or forsake you, just for the sake of being together with you forever. As long as you are happy.

47. 人人存善念，并能日行一善，则个人、家庭、社会一定安乐祥和。

47. If everyone holds a kind heart and practices a good deed every day, then the individual, the family, and the society will undoubtedly be peaceful and harmonious.

48. ☆、爱情本身是没有那么多外在条件的，但是放在现实中，又不得不考虑很多的因素，为了爱情牺牲一切是一种无畏，在爱情中保留理智是一种聪明的做法。

48. ☆, Love itself does not have so many external conditions, but in reality, many factors must be considered. Sacrificing everything for love is a form of bravery, and maintaining reason in love is a wise approach.

49. 我始终相信努力奋斗的意义，因为我想给自己一个牛逼的机会，趁自己还年轻;因为我必须给自己一个交代。因为我就是那么一个老掉牙的人，我相信梦想，我相信温暖，我相信理想。我相信我的选择不会错，我相信我的梦想不会错，我相信遗憾比失败更可怕。

49. I always believe in the significance of hard work, because I want to give myself a great opportunity while I'm still young; because I must give myself an account. Because I am just that kind of outdated person, I believe in dreams, I believe in warmth, I believe in ideals. I believe my choices will not be wrong, I believe my dreams will not be wrong, and I believe regrets are more可怕 than failure.

50. 我们不小心跌倒时，不要急著爬起来，既然已经摔倒了，就在原地享受一下摔倒的滋味。

50. When we accidentally fall, don't rush to get up. Since we have fallen, let's enjoy the taste of falling right where we are.

51. ☆、所谓的爱情故事也就是自己一个人自导自演的，伤心难过开心都是关于他，但是 虽然这样 但不后悔 他有女朋友了 我也上大学了 就这样 我们都幸福就好了

51. ☆ The so-called love story is just a solo performance that I stage myself. Sadness, sorrow, happiness, all are about him. But despite this, I don't regret it. He has a girlfriend, and I'm in college now. As long as we are both happy, that's enough.

52. [彩虹]你努力充电、努力工作、保持身材，你对别人微笑，这些不是为了取悦别人，而是为了灿烂照亮你的心：你是一份逢勃向上的力量。

52. [Rainbow] You strive to充电 (recharge), work hard, and maintain your figure. You smile at others, not to please them, but to radiantly illuminate your heart: You are a vibrant, upward force.

53. 11一切都会是上天最好的安排，在目前无法改变的事实面前，务必坚强、自信、勇敢、果断，让自己变得更加优秀，无论是哪一方面:心态、能力、知识面等都可以，才能在未来有机会去改变，而就算真的没办法了，自己也更加棒了，岁月静好，不负昭华，我相信一切都会是上天最好的安排。

53. 11 Everything will be the best arrangement by heaven. In the face of the facts that cannot be changed at the moment, one must be strong, confident, brave, and decisive, and strive to become more excellent in all aspects: mindset, ability, scope of knowledge, etc., so as to have the opportunity to change in the future. And even if there is truly no way out, you will still be amazing. May the years pass peacefully, and not waste one's youth. I believe that everything will be the best arrangement by heaven.

54. 8最难过的事不是别人又得罪你了，而是你自我总爱跟自我过不去。

54. The most difficult thing is not that others have wronged you again, but that you always seem to have a hard time with yourself.

55. 26我们常常为错过一些东西而感到惋惜，但其实，人生的玄妙，常常超出你的预料，无论什么时候，你都要相信，一切都是最好的安排。

55. 26 We often feel regret for missing out on certain things, but in fact, the mysteries of life often surpass your expectations. At any time, you should believe that everything is the best arrangement.