生活不易，学会自爱，活出自信与快乐！

Life is not easy, learn to love yourself, live with confidence and happiness!

1. 要用行动控制情绪,不要让情绪控制行动;要让心灵启迪智慧,不能让耳朵支配心灵。人与人之间的差别,主要差在两耳之间的那块地方。

1. Emotions should be controlled through action, not the other way around; the mind should inspire wisdom, not be dominated by the ears. The main difference between people lies in the space between their two ears.

2. 不要拿我跟任何人比,我不是谁的影子,更不是谁的替代品,我不知道年少轻狂,我只懂得胜者为。

2. Do not compare me to anyone else. I am not anyone's shadow, nor am I anyone's substitute. I do not know about youthful recklessness; I only understand that the winner is the one who prevails.

3. 当你不能成就伟业,请你把握住平凡的幸福;当你不能让自己辉煌灿烂,请保持恒久的微笑。

3. When you cannot achieve greatness, hold on to the happiness of the ordinary; when you cannot make yourself shine brightly, maintain a lasting smile.

4. 善待自己,不被别人左右,也不去左右别人,自信优雅。

4. Treat yourself well, don't let others influence you, and don't influence others, be confident and elegant.

5. 一个人真正的幸福并不是呆在光明之中,而是从远处凝望光明,朝它奔去,就在那拼命忘我的时间里,才有人生真正的充实。

5. A person's true happiness is not to stay in the light, but to gaze at it from a distance, to run towards it, and it is only in that time when one is striving to forget oneself that there is true fulfillment in life.

6. 人生百年,没有太多的时间可以挥霍,都说幸福如饮水,冷暖自知,有些人,每天都在追逐幸福的路上,却从来也没有感觉到幸福的存在;有些人,懂得收集点滴的温暖和感动,便会与快乐同行。

6. A life of a hundred years is not ample time to waste. It's often said that happiness is like drinking water, its warmth or chill known only to oneself. Some people are on the journey to chase happiness every day, yet they never feel the presence of happiness; others, who understand to gather the warmth and touches of emotion, will walk hand in hand with joy.

7. 眼泪不是答案,拼搏才是选择。只有回不了的过去,没有到不了的明天。

7. Tears are not the answer, struggle is the choice. There is only the past that cannot be returned, but no future that cannot be reached.

8. 学会欣赏快乐,其实比拥有快乐更难得。快乐并不仅仅是获得或者拥有,还有付出,还有欣赏。快乐是可以流动的,快乐是和别人分享,快乐是一种享受付出的过程。

8. Learning to appreciate happiness is actually harder than experiencing or possessing it. Happiness is not just about obtaining or owning; it also involves giving, appreciating, and sharing. Happiness is fluid, it is about sharing with others, and it is a form of enjoyment in the process of giving.

9. 无论这个世界对你怎样,都请你一如既往的努力、勇敢、充满希望。

9. No matter how this world treats you, please continue to work hard, be brave, and be full of hope as always.

10. 你若不想做,会找一个或无数个借口;你若想做,会想一个或无数个办法。

10. If you don't want to do it, you'll find one or countless excuses; if you want to do it, you'll think of one or countless ways.

11. 心情就像一条河,其的状态取决于深度;深水沉静,浅水喧哗。

11. The mood is like a river, its state depends on its depth; deep waters are tranquil, while shallow waters are tumultuous.

12. 如果你向神求助,说明你相信神的能力;如果神没有帮助你,说明神相信你的能力。

12. If you seek help from God, it means you believe in God's power; if God does not help you, it means God believes in your power.

13. 前行的路上,我必须孤身一人,因为没有人能跟的上我的脚步。

13. On the path of progress, I must travel alone, because no one can keep up with my pace.

14. 当世界给草籽重压时,它总会用自己的方法破土而出。

14. When the world applies great pressure on the seeds of grass, it always breaks through the soil in its own way.

15. 她就像一部永不生锈的播种机,不断地在孩子们的心田里播下理想和知识的种子。

15. She is like a never-rusting seed planter, constantly sowing seeds of ideals and knowledge into the hearts of the children.

16. 人们常常慨叹生活中缺少美,那是因为他们缺少一双发现美的眼睛。

16. People often sigh over the lack of beauty in life, which is because they lack a pair of eyes to discover beauty.

17. 梦想是一个人奋斗的动力,梦想是一个人动力的源泉。

17. Dreams are the driving force of a person's struggle, and dreams are the source of a person's motivation.

18. 你进,我陪你出生入死;你退,我陪你颐养天年;你输,我陪你东山再起;你赢,我陪你君临天下……陪伴,不是你有钱我才追随;珍惜,不是你漂亮我才关注。

18. If you come, I'll accompany you through thick and thin; if you retreat, I'll accompany you in enjoying your years of ease and comfort; if you lose, I'll accompany you to rise again from the ashes; if you win, I'll accompany you to reign over the world... Accompanying is not about following you only because you're wealthy; cherishing is not about paying attention to you only because you're beautiful.

19. 功能技成,庖丁解牛久练而技进乎道;路在脚下,荀子劝学博学则青出于蓝。

19. Mastery of skill in function, the butcher Pao Ding cutting the cow with ease after long practice has his skill reach the level of Tao; the path is beneath one's feet, Xunzi encourages learning, and with extensive knowledge, one can excel beyond their teacher.

20. 做生意的过程就是一个不断怂恿别人放松警惕,而自己保持高度警惕的过程。

20. The process of doing business is a continuous process of encouraging others to lower their guard while remaining highly vigilant oneself.

21. 死亡教会人一切,如同考试之后公布的结果――虽然恍然大悟,但为时晚矣

21. Death teaches us everything, just like the results of an exam being announced after it is over——although we gain insight, it is too late.

22. 千里马常有,而伯乐不常有;其实我们的生活中不是缺少美,而是我们缺少了一双发现美的眼睛。

22. There are often horses with a thousand miles of spirit, but there are not always people like Bole, who can discover them. In fact, it's not that our lives lack beauty, but rather that we lack a pair of eyes to discover beauty.

23. 把打碎 ,让过去作废, 我才十几岁,不可以这么累

23. Break it and nullify the past; I'm only in my teens, I can't be this tired.

24. 必须如蜜蜂一样,采过许多花,才能酿出蜜来。

24. One must, like a bee, gather nectar from many flowers before one can make honey.

25. 你进,我陪你出生入死;你退,我陪你颐养天年;你输,我陪你东山再起;你赢,我陪你君临天下陪伴,不是你有钱我才追随;珍惜,不是你漂亮我才关注。

25. If you go in, I'll accompany you through life and death; if you step back, I'll accompany you in enjoying your later years; if you lose, I'll accompany you to rise again; if you win, I'll accompany you to rule the world. My company is not because you're rich that I follow you; my appreciation is not because you're beautiful that I pay attention to you.

26. 当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了个不喜欢你的人罢了。

26. When you think you are being discarded, the one who actually loses out is the other person: because they have lost someone who truly likes them, while you are merely missing someone who didn't like you in the first place.

27. 不要依赖别人，是你还有人可以依赖的时候才说的出来的。誓言变成了谎言，我的心被你撕成了碎片。

27. It's only possible to say don't depend on others when you still have someone to rely on. Vows have turned into lies, and my heart has been torn into pieces by you.

28. 心累了；就用沉默代替切。我，不会问，不会提。是我的心累不想再有那么多的伤痕了。

28. The heart is weary; replace it with silence. I won't ask, I won't bring it up. It's because my heart is weary and doesn't want to have so many scars anymore.

29. 如果有来生，要做棵树，站成永恒，没有悲欢的姿势。半在土里安详，半在风里飞扬，半洒落阴凉，半沐浴阳光，非常沉默非常骄傲，从不依靠从不寻找。

29. If there is a next life, I want to be a tree, standing eternally with no expression of joy or sorrow. Half rooted in the earth in tranquility, half flying in the wind, half shedding shade, half basking in sunlight, very silent and very proud, never depending on anyone, never seeking anything.

30. 沉溺于以前与回忆的人，是个很懦弱的人，由于他不敢勇敢地重视现实。现实是什么？现实就是变化。没有不变的感情，没有不变的人。

30. A person who is immersed in the past and memories is quite cowardly, as he dares not face reality bravely. What is reality? Reality is change. There is no unchanging emotion, no unchanging person.

31. 以前觉得自己性格定能和很多人合的来，什么样的朋友都能结交，后来明白结交朋友或许不难，难的是变成知己。人与人之间真的有磁场这回事，接触就能感觉出来，有些人能和你见如故，有些人和你永远不会深交，不是不好，只是磁场不合，所以能遇到对味的人，真的挺幸运的，感谢相遇吧。 卢思浩

31. Previously, I thought my personality could definitely get along with many people, and I could make friends with anyone. Later, I realized that making friends might not be difficult, but it's hard to become close friends. There really is a thing called "magnetic field" between people, and you can feel it through contact. Some people can become close friends with you at first sight, while some people will never have deep connections with you. It's not that they're not good, it's just that the magnetic fields don't match. So, it's really lucky to meet someone who resonates with you. Thank you for the encounter. Lu Sihao

32. 假如我不再对任何事，任何人付出真心，或许我真的就不会再感到痛苦。语言很多时候都很虚假，起经历的事情才最真实。

32. If I no longer give my whole heart to anything or anyone, perhaps I really wouldn't feel any pain anymore. Language is often deceptive, but what we have actually experienced is the most real.

33. 心累了；就用沉默代替切。我，不会问，不会提。或许你不是花心，而是种本性，男人的本性。

33. The heart is tired; let silence replace all that needs to be said. I won't ask, I won't bring it up. Perhaps you're not a flirt, but rather a natural inclination, a man's nature.

34. 人生不止，寂寞不已。寂寞人生爱无休，寂寞是爱永远的主题我和我的影子独处它说它有悄悄话想跟我说它说它很想念你原来我和我的影子都在想你。

34. Life goes on, yet loneliness persists. In a life of loneliness, love is endless, and loneliness is the eternal theme of love. I am alone with my shadow, and it whispers to me that it has secrets to share. It says it misses you greatly. It turns out that both I and my shadow are thinking of you.

35. 有些事不是努力就可以改变的，元的人民币设计的再好看，也没有百元的招人喜欢。

35. Some things cannot be changed by hard work, and no matter how good the design of the 100 yuan Renminbi note is, it is not as attractive as the 100 yuan itself.

36. 一辈子，和一同个人，睡同一张床，吃同一锅饭。善待自己，不被别人左右，也不去左右别人，自信优雅。

36. For a lifetime, with the same person, sleeping on the same bed, eating from the same pot. Treat yourself well, don't let others influence you, and don't influence others either, be confident and elegant.

37. 永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。

37. Never blame others for not helping you, nor ever blame them for not caring about you. In this world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear our own pain and discomfort. No one can truly understand you; if a stone hasn't fallen on their feet, they will never know how much it hurts.

38. 不甘心就不要放弃啊，看不过去就起来改变啊。要嘛就证明自己的能力，要嘛就闭嘴接受现实。所有好走的路都是下坡，失败是可以接受的，但是没有试图奋斗过的失败是没有借口的零分。

38. Don't give up if you're not satisfied, and rise up to change if you can't bear to see it. Either prove your abilities or shut up and accept the reality. All easy paths are downhill, and failure is acceptable, but a failure without any attempt to struggle is a zero score with no excuse.

39. 我对你的爱，就像拖拉机爬山坡哪样轰轰烈烈。成熟就是你给老子滚变成我给您滚个

39. My love for you is as thunderous as a tractor climbing a hill. Maturity is when you, you scamp, roll out and I roll in for you.

40. 有些人闯进你的生活，只是为了给你上课，然后转身离开。不是每个人都适合白头到老。有的人，是拿来帮助你成长的；有的人，是拿来起生活的；有的人，是拿来辈子怀念的。无论生活多么艰难，最后你总会找到个让你心甘情愿傻傻相伴的人。/suanming/quming/

40. Some people come into your life just to teach you a lesson and then leave. Not everyone is meant to be with you until the end. Some people are meant to help you grow; some are meant to enrich your life; and some are meant to be cherished forever. No matter how tough life gets, in the end, you will always find someone who is willing to be foolishly by your side. /suanming/quming/

41. 听妈妈的话别让她受伤，想快快长大才能保护她，美丽的白发幸福总发芽，天使的魔法温暖中慈祥。

41. Listen to your mother's words and don't let her get hurt; want to grow up quickly to protect her, beautiful white hair and happiness always sprout, the angel's magic is warm and kind-hearted.

42. 回忆喂饱了孤单，而我却永远是最寂寞的哪个。能够善待不太喜欢的人，并不代表你虚伪，而意味着你内心成熟到可以容纳这些不喜欢。

42. Memories fed the loneliness, and yet I remain the most solitary of all. The ability to treat those you don't particularly like kindly does not mean you are insincere; it signifies that your inner maturity has reached a point where it can accommodate these dislikes.

43. 如果你明明知道这个故事的结局，你或者选择说出来，或者装作不知道，万不要欲言又止。有时候留给别人的伤害，选择沉默比选择坦白要痛多了。

43. If you clearly know the ending of this story, you should either choose to speak it out or pretend to be unaware, never to hesitate in saying it. Sometimes, the hurt you leave behind is much more painful than choosing silence over truthfulness.

44. 幸福这座山，原本就没有顶没有头。你要学会走走停停，看看山岚赏赏虹霓吹吹清风，心灵在放松中得到生活的满足。个人总在仰望和羡慕着别人的幸福，回头，却发现自己正被别人仰望和羡慕着。其实，每个人都是幸福的。只是，你的幸福，常常在别人眼里。

44. Happiness is like a mountain without a peak or a head. You need to learn to walk and stop, to appreciate the misty mountains and rainbow hues, to enjoy the cool breeze, and to find the satisfaction of life in the relaxation of your soul. Individuals are always looking up and envying others' happiness, but when they turn back, they find that they are being looked up to and envied by others. In fact, everyone is happy. It's just that your happiness is often seen through others' eyes.

45. 有时，觉得心早已死去，可经常还会疼。有时，觉得爱早已荒芜，可时常还会流泪。有时，觉得已经没有方向，却还会在梦里找寻出口。有时，觉得已经放下所有，却还会找不到回家的路。有时，觉得已经心如止水，可还会在章章故事里掀起波澜。有时，觉得已经守着幸福，可还会在幕幕往事里痛到绝望。

45. Sometimes, it feels like the heart has long since died, yet it still aches. Sometimes, it seems that love has long been abandoned, yet I often still shed tears. Sometimes, it feels as though there's no direction left, yet I still search for an exit in my dreams. Sometimes, it seems like I've let go of everything, yet I still can't find my way home. Sometimes, it feels as though my heart has become still water, yet it can still be stirred by chapters of stories. Sometimes, it seems that I've been guarding happiness, yet I still hurt to the point of despair in the scenes of past memories.

46. 人生有各种各样的活法，有人辞官归故里，有人星夜赶科场。有的人辈子逆来顺受，也有的人放浪不羁，还有的人自甘平庸，但也有人孜孜以求。无须评判什么样的人生才是成功的人生。其实，任何种活法都是人的自由选择，只要从心出发，活得适意而满足，求仁得仁，是谓幸福。

46. There are various ways to live in life. Some resign from their official positions to return to their hometowns, while others rush to the examination halls at night. Some people endure hardships all their lives, while others lead a rebellious and carefree life. Some are content with mediocrity, but some strive tirelessly. There is no need to judge which kind of life is a successful one. In fact, any way of living is a free choice of the individual. As long as one starts from the heart, lives comfortably and contentedly, and achieves what one seeks, that is called happiness.

47. 路上弄丢了很多东西，比如肆意哭笑的能力，比如那些简单又能让你充实的东西，再比如曾经并肩同行的人。路飞奔以为跑在了时间前面，才发现谁也没能跑过时间。但即便如此还是有些东西留了下来，好友和那些陪伴很久的歌。我不那么念旧，却毫无缘由地相信这些可以打败时间，根深蒂固。

47. Along the way, I lost a lot of things, like the ability to laugh and cry freely, like those simple yet fulfilling things, and also like the people who once walked side by side with me. Road Runner thought he was running ahead of time, only to find out that no one can outpace time. But even so, some things have remained, such as good friends and those songs that have been with me for a long time. I'm not particularly nostalgic, yet for no apparent reason, I believe that these can defeat time and are deeply rooted.

48. 我攒了多年的温柔和浪漫，已经迫不及待地想给你。不甘做朋友，不敢做恋人，这才是世界上最遥远的距离。

48. I have been saving the gentleness and romance I've accumulated over the years, and I can't wait to give it to you. Not willing to be just friends, and not daring to be a lover, that is the greatest distance in the world.

49. 两个人能否走在起，时机很重要。爱得深，爱得早，都不如爱的时候刚刚好。如果可以，就让我们，晚点在起，余生都是你～

49. Whether two people can walk together, the timing is very important. Deep love and early love are not as good as just the right time when love is in bloom. If possible, let us start a bit later, and the rest of our lives will be with you.

50. 爱就是，无论你怎么抵挡，它还是要来的东西。爱就是，无论你怎么诋毁，它还是高尚的东西。

50. Love is something that comes regardless of how much you resist it. Love is something that remains noble regardless of how much you defame it.

51. 那些过往无论好坏，重提都是无声地折磨。每个人都有不可理喻的地方，不要苛求别人，也不必埋怨自己。

51. No matter good or bad, bringing up the past is a silent torture. Everyone has their unreasonable sides, so don't be too demanding of others, nor should you blame yourself.

52. 你永远不知道你能有多爱个人，直到你眼睁睁的看着他去爱了别人，你才知道嫉妒是件有多恶心的事。

52. You never know how much you can love someone until you watch them fall in love with someone else, then you realize how ugly jealousy can be.

53. 愿有人陪你从校服到婚纱，愿有人陪你走过年少轻狂，也陪你走到两鬓斑白。许你场相见如故，眉目成书。

53. May someone accompany you from school uniforms to wedding gowns, someone to walk with you through the youthful recklessness, and someone to walk with you into the years of silver hair. May you be granted a meeting that feels like old friends, where every glance is written in the eyes.

54. 所谓爱情，就是有那么个人，可以轻易控制你的情绪，前刻让你哭，下刻又让你笑。

54. So-called love is about having someone who can easily control your emotions, making you cry one moment and then laugh the next.

55. 不要太在意些人太在乎些事，顺其自然以最佳心态面对，因为这世界就是这么不公平往往在最在乎的事物面前我们最没有价值。

55. Don't take too much to heart that some people are overly concerned about certain things. Face them with the best attitude as things are, because this world is inherently unfair; often, it is in the things we care about the most where we feel the least valuable.

56. 有天，我总会遇到那个愿为我弯腰的人，我们彼此不谈尊严，不谈金钱，只谈在起和辈子。

56. Someday, I will meet that person who is willing to bend over for me, and we won't talk about dignity or money, but only about being together for a lifetime.

57. 我们总以为还有时间，所以什么都留到明天。想看的**没有看，想去的地方没有去，没想到就再也没有去过。我们没法预测未来，现在就尽量做现在想做的事。开心就开心，难过就难过，不憋屈不纠结，不犹豫。

57. We always think there's time, so we put everything off until tomorrow. The things we wanted to see haven't been seen, the places we wanted to go haven't been visited, and we didn't realize we would never go back. We can't predict the future, so let's do what we want to do now. Be happy when happy, be sad when sad, don't suppress emotions, don't be纠结, don't hesitate.

58. 当时的他是最好的他，可是很久很久以后的我才是最好的我，最好的我们之间隔了整个青春，怎么奔跑也跨不过的青春。

58. He was the best he could be at that time, but it was a long, long time later that I became the best me. There is a whole youth separating the best us, a youth that no amount of running could ever bridge.

59. 所谓花心，就是有了爱情和面包，还想吃蛋糕的心情；所谓外遇，就是潜出围城，跌入陷阱；所谓浪漫，就是帮老婆买包心菜时，还会顺手带回支玫瑰花；所谓厨房，就是结婚时红地毯通向的正前方

59. What is called a "playboy" is the feeling of wanting to eat cake even after having both love and bread; what is called an affair is sneaking out of the walled city and falling into a trap; what is called romance is bringing back a rose along with some cabbage for your wife while shopping; and what is called the kitchen is the very front where the red carpet leads to at your wedding.

60. 所谓得体，就是有许多话不必说尽，有许多事不必做尽，失望是无可避免的，但大部分的失望都是因为高估了自己。

60. What is meant by being proper is that there are many things that need not be said and many things that need not be done. Disappointment is inevitable, but most of the disappointment is due to overestimating oneself.

61. 人与人，场缘；心与心，段情。越是兵荒马乱的年纪，越容易遇到让你落荒而逃的人。

61. People with people, circumstances; hearts with hearts, emotions. The more chaotic the times, the more likely you are to encounter someone who makes you flee in panic.

62. 多岁，男人通常还处于起步阶段，是生中的最低点；而此时，女人却处于生中最好的时候。个人，若甘心把最好的时间，给了最差的你。为什么不知道珍惜？

62. In their sixties, men are usually still at the beginning stage, which is the lowest point in life; yet at this time, women are at their best. If an individual is willing to give their best years to someone who is the worst in their life, why don't they know how to cherish it?

63. 那些扬言陪你走完生的人，总是迷路。不用每日缠绵，时刻联系，你知道他不会走，他知道你不会变，大概这就是最美好的爱情吧！

63. Those who claim to accompany you through life always get lost. Without the need for daily affection and constant contact, you know he won't leave, and he knows you won't change. Perhaps this is the most beautiful kind of love!

64. 对自己知道的东西要忍住不说，多听别人的。社会从古至今都不大会喜欢个知道太多又表现出来的人。

64. Hold back from speaking about what you know, and listen more to others. Society has never been particularly fond of individuals who know too much and show it off.

65. 辈子和你在起，才叫将来，换了别人，那叫将就。有所珍惜，才有有所真心；有所懂得，才有有所值得。

65. It's only when generations are with you that it becomes the future; if it's someone else, it's just making do. There can be true care only when there is something to cherish; there can be something worthy only when there is something to understand.

66. 他跟你不合适，就像码的鞋遇上号的脚样不合适，不怪鞋也不怪脚。我想用我的全部，换取条通往你心里的路。

66. He's not a good fit for you, like a shoe that doesn't fit the foot it's meant for, and it's not the fault of the shoe or the foot. I want to use all of myself to pave a way to your heart.

67. 身边全是我先睡了你也早睡的人，却没有你困了就先睡吧，没困我陪你的人。

67. Around me are all those who would go to sleep first after I do, and those who would sleep early if they are tired, but there's no one who would go to sleep first if they are not tired and stay up with me.

68. 年幼的孩子，是单纯无知的天使，善良得让人怜爱他会学着把头仰得很高，只为了不让眼里的泪水落下来尽管很受伤，他也会故作坚强地转身微笑，然后告诉你：我很好，真的很好。

68. Young children are innocent, ignorant angels, kind to the point of being adorable. They will learn to hold their heads high just to prevent tears from falling from their eyes, even though they are deeply hurt. They will also feign strength and turn around to smile, then tell you, "I'm fine, really fine."